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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women

Two opposite guys, married and single, compare notes on women, relationships, sex, dating, fashion, married life, breakups, career girls, and more.

If you've ever wanted to know what guys really think about women (mostly nice stuff) then this weekly show is for you. Every relationship needs A Fly On The Wall.

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 022 (Rebroadcast): Relationships for eternity? Work-a-holics. Cat Ladies. Wedding rings from 2018-01-10T02:17

In this episode... What do guys really think about while driving? What's so scary about marriage for most guys? Mike? Why is an engagement ring a guy's worst nightmare? If old single women turn int...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 021 (Rebroadcast): Plastic surgery. Guys love women in clothes. Does porn help relationships? from 2018-01-10T02:10:02

In this episode... What do guys think of plastic surgery? Is porn actually good for relationships? QuestionsView Results Do guys prefer women experience women or does experience make the guy think ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 019 (Rebroadcast): Guest Zach answers- What makes men run from women and relationships? from 2017-07-29T00:39:49

On this episode, Zach, a random guy with serious dating issues, drops by to tell Kirk and Mike what's on his mind. Mike and Kirk are slammed by the hard hammer of Zach's vitriol and bitterness abou...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 018 (Rebroadcast): What do men want women to know about relationships? What do men like about women? from 2017-07-29T00:34:32

Episode 018 (Rebroadcast):  What do men want women to know about relationships? What do men like about women?

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Episode 017 (ReBroadcast): Are relationships doomed when conversation doesn’t flow? from 2017-06-06T22:56:01

Episode 017 (ReBroadcast): Are relationships doomed when the conversation doesn’t flow?

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Episode 016 (ReBroadcast): Is Marriage Really the Holy Grail of Relationships? With special guest Jack McGee from 2017-06-06T22:51:26

Episode 016 (Re-Broadcast): Is Marriage Really the Holy Grail of Relationships? With special guest Jack McGee

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Episode 015 (Re-Broadcast): Love at the barbershop. Or not. What do men talk about to women who cut their hair? from 2017-05-31T04:08:11

Relationships with hair. Love on a razor’s edge. Mike and Kirk thought it would be fun and informative to head out to Kirk’s local barbershop, beauty parlor, salon (or whatever it’s called) to get ...

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Episode 014 - (Re-Broadcast): Mike Does Dallas, city of beauty queens. When does flirting cross the line and ruin a relationship? from 2017-05-02T23:45

Ahhhh, Texas!! Mike recounts his "semester abroad" (or... with broads) in the magical city of Dallas where there are more beautiful women than thorns in a cactus grove. [poll=12] Hey! Aren't you tw...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 013 (Re-Broadcast): Is there such a thing as a perfect mate, or is it a fantasy? Special guest, Evan Marc Katz, a dating and relationship coach, joins the guys to reveal the secret to finding true love. from 2017-04-29T23:41:56

Episode 013: Is there such a thing as a perfect mate, or is it a fantasy? Special guest, Evan Marc Katz, a dating and relationship coach, joins the guys to reveal the secret to finding true love.

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 012 (Re-Broadcast) Lucia, a dating and relationship expert, joins the guys to reveal the life of a Cougar… a woman over forty who dates very young men. from 2017-04-29T23:39:14

Episode 012  Lucia, a dating and relationship expert, joins the guys to reveal the life of a Cougar… a woman over forty who dates very young men.

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Episode 011 (Re-Broadcast): Women mothering guys. Dating a 1-armed Pamela Anderson. Relationships with little people. from 2017-03-30T23:36:23

Episode 11 (Re-Broadcast) - This episode was kind of all over the place, but here are the important questions the guys tried to answer in their ridiculous guy ways: Why are guys intimidated by wome...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 010 (Re-Broadcast): The Fashion Show – Fetish or Faux Pas? The Guys as Fashion Critics. Wardrobe and Relationships. from 2017-03-30T23:27:29

Episode 10 (Re-Broadcast) Girls, take a seat, this is the MUST episode about fashion! What is the sexiest outfit a woman can wear (and no, we don’t just mean lingerie)? But seriously, do guys reall...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 009 (Re-Broadcast): Can women’s flaws be a turn-on? Mud Wrestling explained. Quirky women at the L.A. Court house. from 2017-03-30T23:23:13

Show 9 is packed with craziness. Mike gets hot and bothered trying to explain to Kirk why mud wrestling is about as close to Nirvana as humans can get. Right. Could every relationship benefit from ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 008 (Rebroadcast): A real girl in the studio! Men and Women at the office. Do guys like tattoos? from 2017-02-04T12:52:52

This episode covers a lot of ground, touching on relationships, sex, body art, sexual harassment, and lots of laughs. Mike and Kirk traded the "Ask A Guy" segment for a whole show featuring a real ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 007 (Rebroadcast): The gayest thing Kirk has ever done. The shame of threesomes. Dating single moms? from 2017-01-20T14:29:37

Episode 07 (Rebroadcast) - Mike is shocked to learn the gayest thing Kirk has ever done. What about two guys on one girl in a threesome? . Female blogger Chantel Williams writes in with a few choic...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 006 (Rebroadcast): Real men don’t need strip clubs, bachelor parties. Meet the parents. from 2017-01-20T14:23:46

Episode 006 (Rebroadcast): Real men don’t need strip clubs, bachelor parties. Meet the parents.

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Episode 005(Rebroadcast): Personal Hygiene Nightmare. Trouble with 1-night stands. Bad kissing from 2017-01-12T16:21:08

Mike’s former girlfriend has a serious problem: Halitosis! But damn she is so cute otherwise. Or is she? It turns out that the horror is actually emanating from her very soul. Can you say relations...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 004 (Rebroadcast): Kirk gets a surprise. All Mike’s breakups. Email spying. from 2016-12-07T17:02:29

Episode 004 (Rebroadcast): Kirk finds a huge surprise when he comes home from work. And no, it's not his wife dressed in a leather catsuit. Should you be concerned about email spying from your part...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 002 (Rebroadcast): What’s up with artificial breasts? Dating two sisters at once. Sarcasm in relationships. Nympho high school girls from 2016-12-07T16:47:38

Episode 002 (Rebroadcast): The guys wonder about the point of fake boobs. Mike wants to date two sisters. Hey Mike, how about the Sagal Twins? In our "Ask A Guy" segment, Tara wants to know if sarc...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 001 (Rebroadcast): Meet Mike and Kirk, a single and married guy comparing notes on women. Did Mike turn his girlfriend gay? What haircut do guys like on women? from 2016-12-07T16:39:09

Episode 001 (Rebroadcast): Meet Mike and Kirk, a single and married guy comparing notes on women. Did Mike turn his girlfriend gay? What haircut do guys like on women?

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 041_ Sexy Santas, Boys in kilts, cat calling, creepy Craigslist, Book fetish, and insane serial monogamy theory from 2015-07-07T06:41:58

Episode 041_ Sexy Santas, Boys in kilts, cat calling, creepy Craigslist, Book fetish. Plus,  The guys almost come to blows about Kirk's insane serial monogamy theory.

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Episode 040_ Girls in Trench coats. Is sex better with single or married women. What if one person radically changes during a monogamous relationship from 2014-06-03T18:32:25

Episode 040_ Girls in Trench coats. Is sex better for single or married people? What if one person radically changes during a monogamous relationship? Relationships with women who like drama.

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Episode 039: Rejected by a woman. A guy's perspective of a hooker experience. Women who control the relationship progress from 2013-11-21T22:57

Episode 039: Rejected by a woman. A guy's perspective of a hooker experience. Women who control the relationship progress

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Episode 038: The big breakup! Mike bares his naked soul after his girlfriend cheated. Also, special Guest Daniel Johnson on greeting women from 2013-10-17T00:57

Episode 038: The big breakup! Mike bares his naked soul after his girlfriend cheated. Also, special Guest Daniel Johnson on greeting women

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Episode 037: Women and astrology. Relationship astrologist Austin sits in as guest host. The Tarot cards reveal all from 2013-10-16T23:18

Episode 037: Women and astrology. Relationship astrologist Austin sits in as guest host. The Tarot cards reveal all

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Episode 035: Relationships with women who rate a 4. Can dead celebrities still be sexy. A woman’s teeth. from 2012-01-11T10:25:38

Episode 035: Relationships with women who rate a 4. Can dead celebrities still be sexy?A woman and her teeth.

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Episode 034: Actor Jack McGee (from The Fighter with Christian Bale) reveals the secrets of creating a perfect marriage from 2011-02-27T00:28

Episode 034: Actor Jack McGee (from The Fighter with Christian Bale) reveals the secrets of creating a perfect marriage

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Episode 033: Does the man or woman have the sexual power in a relationship? Do real guys visit Hooters? from 2011-01-13T15:17:59

The most entertaining internet online radio station ever. Listen free! Episode 033: Does the man or woman have the sexual power in a relationship? QuestionsView Results Mike reminisces over the pla...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 032: Special female guest tells what is it like to be a secret mistress to married men. Paying for the girlfriend experience. from 2010-12-12T23:53:45

Episode 032: Special female guest tells what is it like to be a secret mistress to married men. Paying for the girlfriend experience.

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Episode 031: Relationships with virgins. Guys who cry. Physical dealbreakers to a guy from 2010-11-21T23:52:25

Relationships with virgins. Also in this show, what do we think about guys who cry? QuestionsView Results And finally, what are some physical deal breakers to a guy?

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Episode 030: Relationships with lingerie. Holiday dating. What really happens in a lap dance? from 2010-10-25T21:54:18

Episode 030: Relationships with lingerie. Or do guys prefer nude? QuestionsView Results Lonely at the holidays? What really happens in a lap dance?

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Episode 029: Are desperate housewives real? Every guy’s secret weapon in bed. Worst fashion accessory ever! from 2010-10-22T00:36:59

Episode 029: Are desperate housewives real? Every guy's secret weapon in bed. Worst fashion accessory ever?  And trust us, it' s not a Russian fur hat.

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Episode 028: A call girl in the studio. What’s it like for a hooker out there these days. Craziest fetish ever. from 2010-09-20T00:25:09

Episode 028: A call girl in the studio. It's a tough job for the guys, but somebody had to do the interview. An L.A. girl who earns her living doing porn and escorting stops by to tell it all. What...

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Episode 027: When jealousy meets technology. And is the ex really an ex? All about chick flix. from 2010-09-12T13:11

Episode 027: When jealousy meets technology. And is the ex really an ex? QuestionsView Results All about chick flix.

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Episode 026: What Happens in Vegas… comes home as legend. 8 reasons your husband is a closet gay. from 2010-08-23T11:29:35

Episode 026: What Happens in Vegas... comes home as legend. 8 reasons your husband is a closet gay.

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Episode 025: Can a big age difference work in reality? Relationships from chatrooms. Got a landing strip? from 2010-08-18T10:35

Episode 025: Can a big age difference work in reality? Relationships from chatrooms. Got a landing strip?

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Episode 024: Relationships at the office? Do guys like role playing? Do girls like to take it in the face? from 2009-09-14T02:29:57

On this episode, Mike and Kirk are joined by fellow married guy Larry to answer Mike's burning quesetion: IS IT TIME TO MOVE IN TOGETHER? Is Mike cut out for family life? Are any of us? How much do...

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Episode 023: The truth about weddings. Are guys afraid of marriage? Do guys ever cry? from 2009-06-08T16:22:42

For some reason, this episode gravitated toward weddings and marriage. Guys just can't get enough of the big day. Tune in to this episode to learn what guys really think about weddings! What do guy...

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Episode 022: Relationships for eternity? Work-a-holics. Cat Ladies. Wedding rings from 2009-01-02T00:37:58

In this episode... What do guys really think about while driving? What's so scary about marriage for most guys? Mike? Why is an engagement ring a guy's worst nightmare? If old single women turn int...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 021: Plastic surgery. Guys love women in clothes. Does porn help relationships? from 2008-10-30T11:42:47

In this episode... What do guys think of plastic surgery? Is porn actually good for relationships? QuestionsView Results Do guys prefer women experience women or does experience make the guy think ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 020: Polyamory – Relationships with many women or men at the same time from 2008-10-01T16:47:32

Polyamory - relationships with multiple partners who have multiple partners In this podcast, Mike is away. Kirk has a polyamorist guest (photo below) and together they delve into questions about ho...

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Episode 019: Guest Zach answers- What makes men run from women and relationships? from 2008-07-07T01:17:19

On this episode, Zach, a random guy with serious dating issues, drops by to tell Kirk and Mike what's on his mind. Mike and Kirk are slammed by the hard hammer of Zach's vitriol and bitterness abou...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 018: What do men want women to know about relationships? What do men like about women? from 2008-05-21T00:31

Episode 018:  What do men want women to know about relationships? What do men like about women?

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 017: Are relationships doomed when conversation doesn’t flow? from 2008-04-22T10:30:32

Are relationships dead when conversation is hard? [poll=17] Do guys hate cursing women? And what are you supposed to call that thing "down there?" Please just don't use the "G" word! Should women c...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 016: Is Marriage Really the Holy Grail of Relationships? With special guest Jack McGee from 2008-02-26T17:53

Episode 016: Is Marriage Really the Holy Grail of Relationships? With special guest Jack McGee

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Episode 015: Love at the barbershop. Or not. What do men talk about to women who cut their hair? from 2008-01-17T02:41:45

Relationships with hair. Love on a razor’s edge. Mike and Kirk thought it would be fun and informative to head out to Kirk’s local barbershop, beauty parlor, salon (or whatever it’s called) to get ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 014: Mike Does Dallas, city of beauty queens. When does flirting cross the line and ruin a relationship? from 2007-12-14T19:51:10

Ahhhh, Texas!! Mike recounts his "semester abroad" (or... with broads) in the magical city of Dallas where there are more beautiful women than thorns in a cactus grove. [poll=12] Hey! Aren't you tw...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 013: Is there such a thing as a perfect mate, or is it a fantasy? Special guest, Evan Marc Katz, a dating and relationship coach, joins the guys to reveal the secret to finding true love. from 2007-11-25T02:20:22

Evan Marc Katz, a world-renowned relationship and dating coach, author and television personality is no stranger to finding love in a room full of strangers. He stops by the studio to help Kirk and...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 012 Lucia, a dating and relationship expert, joins the guys to reveal the life of a Cougar… a woman over forty who dates very young men. from 2007-10-23T02:48:46

Lucia, a relationship and dating expert, joins the guys as a special guest to discuss “Cougars” – older women who prefer to date much younger men. Demi Moore is the most public of Cougars, being in...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 011: Women mothering guys. Dating a 1-armed Pamela Anderson. Relationships with little people. from 2007-10-05T00:58:09

This episode was kind of all over the place, but here are the important questions the guys tried to answer in their ridiculous guy ways: Why are guys intimidated by women with serious money? Wait a...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 010: The Fashion Show – Fetish or Faux Pas? The Guys as Fashion Critics. Wardrobe and Relationships. from 2007-09-09T22:47:33

Girls, take a seat, this is the MUST episode about fashion! What is the sexiest outfit a woman can wear (and no, we don’t just mean lingerie)? But seriously, do guys really like the slutty look or ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 009: Can women’s flaws be a turn-on? Mud Wrestling explained. Quirky women at the L.A. Court house. from 2007-08-23T20:13:03

Show 9 is packed with craziness. Mike gets hot and bothered trying to explain to Kirk why mud wrestling is about as close to Nirvana as humans can get. Right. Could every relationship benefit from ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 008: A real girl in the studio! Men and Women at the office. Do guys like tattoos? from 2007-08-09T19:30:25

This episode covers a lot of ground, touching on relationships, sex, body art, sexual harassment, and lots of laughs. Mike and Kirk traded the "Ask A Guy" segment for a whole show featuring a real ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 007: The gayest thing Kirk has ever done. The shame of threesomes. Dating single moms? from 2007-07-25T14:32:12

Mike is shocked to learn the gayest thing Kirk has ever done. What about two guys on one girl in a threesome? . Female blogger Chantel Williams writes in with a few choice questions of her own: Wha...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 006: Real men don’t need strip clubs, bachelor parties. Meet the parents. from 2007-07-15T12:41:37

Kirk takes a back seat to Mike in this show in order to hear all about his trip to Chicago and his history with bachelor parties, strippers and good old monogamy. Mike just returned from a trip to ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 005: Personal Hygiene Nightmare. Trouble with 1-night stands. Bad kissing from 2007-07-01T17:23:54

Mike’s former girlfriend has a serious problem: Halitosis! But damn she is so cute otherwise. Or is she? It turns out that the horror is actually emanating from her very soul. Can you say relations...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 004: Kirk gets a surprise. All Mike’s breakups. Email spying. from 2007-06-17T15:47:45

Kirk finds a huge surprise when he comes home from work. And no, it's not his wife dressed in a leather catsuit. Should you be concerned about email spying from your partner? Mike is conflicted ove...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 003 – Mike is away. Kirk writes a steamy poem for his wife. from 2007-06-07T15:30:30

Mike is away on location. Kirk has his wife record a poem. It's so sexy and passionate that New South Wales is going to melt in the flames of her tango. Somebody spank her fast. [poll=5]

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Episode 002: What’s up with artifical breasts? Dating two sisters at once. Sarcasm in relationships. Nympho high school girls from 2007-05-27T18:42:28

In this episode, the guys wonder about the point of fake boobs. Mike wants to date two sisters. Hey Mike, how about the Sagal Twins? In our "Ask A Guy" segment, Tara wants to know if sarcasm has a ...

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A FLY ON THE WALL: What Men Really Say About Women
Episode 001: Meet Mike and Kirk, a single and married guy comparing notes on women. Did Mike turn his girlfriend gay? What haircut do guys like on women? from 2007-05-16T08:36

Episode 001: Meet Mike and Kirk, a single and married guy comparing notes on women. Did Mike turn his girlfriend gay? What haircut do guys like on women?

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