Podcasts by A Gay and A NonGay

No one cares that you have a girlfriend from 2023-11-29T06:00

Why do people feel the need to announce that they're in a relationship? Is it arrogant? James has had it with people telling him they have a boyfriend. Dan thinks it's pretty normal. Let us know y...

Pride and Politics - Are Tories welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces? from 2023-11-22T06:00

Is the Conservative Party welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces? Dan and James discuss a recent twitter/X spat where some members of the Tory Party were allegedly physically thrown out of gay bar in Manchester....

Unashamedly Gay, Unashamedly Christian with Jayne Ozanne from 2023-11-02T07:25

Today we welcome Jayne Ozanne. Jayne is a former member of the UK government's LGBT advisory panel but sensationally quit 2 years ago because of ministers creating a 'hostile environment for LGBTQ+...

Are the Conservative Party betraying LGBTQ+ rights? a conversation with Andrew Boff from 2023-10-25T05:10

James and Dan are joined by Conservative politician Andrew Boff - who was ejected from the party conference after heckling the Home Secretary Suella Braverman. Why did he do it? Should Suella resig...

Thy Art Is Eternal... Transphobia in music from 2023-10-18T07:44:40

James and Dan discuss transphobia in their respective worlds, as deathcore band Thy Art is Murder sack their transphobic singer - and 90s band Eternal split into two over the trans debate. Listen a...

Princess Diana from 2023-10-11T06:56:18

How often does Dan think about the Roman Empire, and how often does James think about Princess Diana? Dan has some very exciting career news, and James definitely does not have the hump! Plus, bird...

What is life like for LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in the UK? from 2023-10-04T05:00

James and Dan are joined by Leila Zadeh from Rainbow Migration. Together, we dig deep into the harsh realities faced by LGBTQ+ asylum seekers trying to find safety in the UK. Leila reveals the hear...

Is being 'thick' a 'gay' thing? from 2023-09-27T08:18:57

Dan thinks that James might pretend to be "thick" to fit a gay stereotype? This goes down well 😂and James wonders if Dan thinks "all straight people are boring", prompting a lively exchange. Lear...

Bird News from 2023-09-20T08:00:23

We're back with Bird News! James is ‘back in the game’ - dating-wise, but doesn’t want to use any apps. Plus is driving a car 'straight'? and it’s James’ birthday but why was Dan not invited? Lear...

Is it safe to be gay in the UK? from 2023-09-13T05:00

James reflects on the horrific events at The Two Brewers in Clapham in August, and asks if the UK is a safe place for gay people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is there a 'power dynamic' in gay relationships? from 2023-09-06T12:56

What is the ‘power dynamic’ in a gay relationship? Would James role-play as someone’s brother? Plus Dan has some bird news. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are rape and sexual assault considered 'normal' for queer people? from 2023-08-24T13:27

It goes without saying, trigger warning. For help and support check out Galop ,the UK's LGBTQ+ abuse and violence charity,https://galop.org.uk/get-help/helplines/ Learn more about your ad choices. ...

Fire Island Chicken Tender-gate from 2023-08-17T05:05

James fills Dan in on more 'gay Twitter' drama regarding Chicken Tenders. Plus, is Jack Grealish leading a 'new trend' of feminiity? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adcho...

What is a 'circuit queen'? from 2023-08-10T18:12:58

James reflects on the *drama* at Adonis nightclub. Meanwhile, Dan's latest business venture 'Only Dans' is still not off the ground. :(. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com...

Go 'woke', go Broke? and Barbie from 2023-08-02T06:35

This Barbie is a podcaster - As a christian preacher condemns Barbie, James is embarrassed to discover he's the only gay that fancied his Ken doll as a child. Plus we question the motivations behin...

Are Just Stop Oil right to protest Pride in London? from 2023-07-26T07:58

Were Just Stop Oil right to protest Pride in London? Plus James has witnessed his first orgasm at LA Pride. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ten Years of Equal Marriage with Layla Moran MP from 2023-07-19T14:37

James and Dan are joined by Liberal Democrat MP Layla Moran, the UK's first pansexual MP. On the agenda - why is David Cameron taking credit for introducing same-sex marriage? Are there lots of sec...

Glastonbury Darkrooms from 2023-07-12T05:00

Dan learns about a darkroom at Glastonbury, and James finds out what an upside-down pineapple means. Is this a thing? Meanwhile in Solihull, 'the most NonGay town in Britain', everyone's apparently...

America's Chemsex Killer with Patrick Strudwick from 2023-07-05T05:00

Are experiences like abuse, chemsex, sexual exploitation, racism and even murder considered 'normal' for LGBTQ+ people? James and Dan dive into the depths of LGBTQ+ shame with journalist Patrick St...

Has Philip Schofield given gays ‘bad PR?’ from 2023-06-28T05:06

Has the Philip Schofield scandal given the gays ‘bad PR?’. Dan wonders if age-gap relationships are more common in the LGBTQ+ community? Is there anything wrong with them?  Learn more about your ad...

Breakups and Beefs from 2023-06-22T06:47

Should you be 'friends' with your exes? Dan discovers that none of James' breakups have been amicable. Meanwhile James' friend is panicked after sleeping with someone that looks exactly like Dan. L...

Is everyone a bit queer? from 2023-06-14T06:58

James has an accident in a hotel room and Dan is annoyed by TERFS claiming to be punk. Plus can straight people also be 'queer'? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are straight people ‘endlessly boring?’ from 2023-06-07T14:29:47

James is very bored this week - bored of straight people dominating narratives in TV shows and ‘endlessly running marathons’, Is he just jealous that he’s not the centre of attention? Do other gay ...

Sam Smith and the fake moral panic from 2023-05-31T16:13

James has been arguing with Piers Morgan again 🙄(he's got a tour to sell), and why if someone tells you to be less of something, you should be MORE of it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit p...

Is sex funny? from 2023-05-24T05:40

Is it healthy to laugh at intimacy? Is sex funny? Dan thinks it is, James thinks it isn't. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to break through barriers of race and sexual orientation with Malcolm Kenyatta from 2023-05-03T13:32:18

Do Not Wait Your Turn. James and Dan are joined from Pennsylvania by State Representative Malcom Kenyatta for an empowering episode about overcoming barriers of race and sexuality. He ran for the U...

The audacity of straight men from 2023-04-26T10:11

James reflects on the tragic death of Paul O’Grady. Meanwhile Dan can't stop laughing about the ‘funniest thing that’s ever happened’ - the time his teacher Mr. Flood had a flood in his room. Plus ...

The logistics of Golden Showers from 2023-04-05T05:00

James has been to Berghain in Berlin and Dan wants to know about a slide made of spaff. Plus we discuss the logistics of organising golden showers. Meanwhile, James doesn’t believe that Dan has nev...

Live from the O2 with Jake Shears from 2023-03-29T05:00

James and Dan are live from the O2 Arena with very special guest and power vers Jake Shears at Just For Laughs Festival London. We hear about his naked rendezvous with George Michael, his sexual e...

Live from the O2 with Jake Shears from 2023-03-29T05:00

James and Dan are live from the O2 Arena with very special guest and power vers Jake Shears at Just For Laughs Festival London. We hear about his naked rendezvous with George Michael, his sexual e...

Suing the NHS with Eva Echo from 2023-03-01T06:00:22

This is an empowering episode about a woman, fearless in her fight for equality. Today we're joined by Eva Echo, activist and Director of Innovation at Birmingham Pride. Eva's been taking NHS Engla...

That’s a load off my mind from 2023-02-23T16:01:22

James has started, in his own words, and the words of Good Morning Britain - a ‘national debate’ about bedsheets. Inevitably this leads to chat about how many ‘loads’ he's taken? Plus Dan might be ...

Dick O’Clock from 2023-02-15T06:21:50

Is it rude to ditch your friends when the time hits ‘Dick O’Clock’? Or should gays ‘have an hour off’? Queer Icon Jake Shears joins us at our next live show. Join us at Just For Laughs Festival Lon...

Where is the non-gayest town in the UK? from 2023-02-08T06:00:46

We reveal the most officially non-gay part of the UK. It's the non-gayest of them all (N.O.T.A). Plus is saying the word 'triggering' triggering?  Come and join us live at Just For Laughs Festival ...

Why Don't Gays and Lesbians Get Along Better? with Helen Scott from 2023-02-01T06:05:27

Why is our community so divided? Why is there such disparity between gay men and lesbians? What can gay men do to be better allies to lesbians? Do we have anything in common at all? Today James and...

Ex-ual Health from 2023-01-25T06:05

Happy New Year! It's been a while but we're here again... James is newly single and in need of hole pics. Once he's got over bumping into his ex at the sexual health clinic. Join us LIVE in London...

Best Of 2022 from 2023-01-01T23:17:37

In 2022 we had the privilege of speaking to some amazing people on the podcast. Hear from the second person to be cured of HIV Adam The London Patient, Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson, legendary hum...

Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson from 2022-12-14T15:47:05

On November 19th, an armed gunman opened fire on Club Q, an LGBTQ+ venue in Colorado Springs during a drag show, killing 5 people and leaving over 25 people with gunshot wounds. Today we catch up w...

A Bad Week To Be Gay from 2022-12-07T07:23:17

James and Dan reflect on the horrific attack on our community in Colorado Springs and discuss the England team's decision not to wear the 'One Love' armband in Qatar, when it was the ONE thing they...

Santa Claus, The Serial Killer? with Mobeen Azhar from 2022-11-25T06:24

How did a shopping mall Santa murder eight people before he was stopped? And what can the LGBTQ+ community learn from this case about how we treat each other? Dan and James are joined by journalist...

Live in Birmingham with Eva Echo and Dan Tiernan from 2022-11-18T07:07:22

The boys finally rock up in the home of metal and canals for a live show in front of a home crowd (for Dan) They are joined on stage by Eva Echo, Director of Innovation at Birmingham Pride and tran...

Open from 2022-11-02T20:27:12

Is monogamy worth it or should we all just be open? If you're in an open relationship, does sleeping with other people make it more likely you’ll leave them? Dan thinks it’s way too much admin. We'...

Can anyone become an incel? from 2022-10-28T04:00:05

In a ride of an episode, James is shocked to hear that Dan thinks he could have easily been radicalised as an incel. Plus, is there a ‘gay code’ that would stop gay men from cheating? Oh and Dan re...

London Podcast Festival with Ki And Dee and Adam, The London Patient from 2022-10-21T10:39:47

Are nipples the clitoris of the boob? We're joined by TikTok icons Ki And Dee (Chiara Hunter and Diana Vickers) to find out. Plus James and Dan finally meet Adam, 'The London Patient' in real life....

Live in Edinburgh with Myra Dubois and Jen Ives from 2022-10-14T05:00

Our final and funniest show of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022 😂. We've reached Peak Trans as we're joined by the hilarious Jen Ives... and nobody is safe from Famous Celebrity and Very Huge St...

Live in Edinburgh with Jeena Bloom and Chloe Petts from 2022-10-07T08:07

We're live in Edinburgh with LA Comedian Jeena Bloom and 'radical feminist, queer, football lad' Chloe Petts. Plus, 'Things Dan Cannot Say' returns with a question about gay bin men? Get bonus cont...

The Monkeypox Outbreak with Martin Joseph from 2022-09-27T11:18

"They locked me in a room and called me from the other side, they didn't know what to do. Every time I asked someone 'What is gonna happen now?' They said, 'I don't know'. I think that's the scarie...

Live in Edinburgh with Sikisa and Joseph Parsons from 2022-09-16T06:04

🎉James and Dan are back at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2022. Dan has trouble finding the clitoris 👀and we're joined by comedians Joseph Parsons and life of the party (and Dan's stand-up teacher...

Dan For Hire from 2022-08-08T10:26

It’s official! Soon you’ll be able to book Dan as a Jamie Dornan lookalike. Plus find out why James won't be winning an award for Best Poster at the Edinburgh Fringe 2022. A Gay And A NonGay is tak...

Coming Out Out - A Gay and A NonGay's 300th Episode from 2022-07-25T09:17:20

A Gay And A NonGay is 300 episodes old... or thereabouts 😘. To celebrate, James, Dan and Drag Race royalty Scarlett Harlett help our listener Matt come out to his Mum. It's an emotional one, 😭. C...

LGBTQ+ Football with Ryan Atkin from 2022-07-14T05:44

We've extended Pride Month for a special chat with The FA's first ever openly gay referee Ryan Atkin ⚽️🏳️‍🌈. We discuss Jake Daniels coming out as the UK's first openly gay footballer, homophobia...

Happy Pride! Acast's Audio Pride Parade from 2022-07-04T05:17

Pride is a protest! LGBTQIA+ people face challenges and obstacles that heterosexual people don’t and today we proudly join podcasts all over the world by marching in Acast's Audio Pride Parade. Jam...

This Arab Is Queer with Elias Jashan from 2022-07-01T06:19

For Pride Month, the boys are joined by Elias Jashan, ‘Priti Patel’s worst nightmare’ and editor of the new Anthology This Arab Is Queer, the first of its kind featuring the memoirs of eighteen Que...

Why is Love Island So Straight? With Sharon Gaffka from 2022-06-24T06:05

As Pride Month continues, James and Dan battle logistical difficulties to welcome Love Island’s Sharon Gaffka, who came out as bisexual on the show in 2021.  For the first time ever, she talks at ...

Ella Vaday from 2022-06-16T05:24

James and Dan are joined by West End icon and RuPaul’s Drag Race UK finalist Ella Vaday! Nick shares his coming out story, we talk life after Drag Race and Ella’s new film Sumotherhood. Plus get re...

Happily Ever Trans with Jake and Hannah Graf from 2022-06-11T08:42

It's Pride Month and James and Dan are back with a whole host of fabulous guests. First up, Jake and Hannah Graf the UK’s first transgender parents.Jake is an international multi award winning dir...

Straight Jokes from 2022-06-02T15:06

Burn the bridge Becky. People keep telling James he's "too gay". In this episode we hear about James' new stand up hour 'Straight Jokes' and his experience working as an openly gay man in the media...

A Stand-Up Guy from 2022-05-20T05:26

Do all straight white men live in Kent? James thinks so 😝. Dan's learning stand up comedy and we reflect on his enormous success at the Shakespeare Marathon - he's raised over £6000 for Marie Curi...

Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men from 2022-05-12T21:46

Dan and James are joined by Suki Sandhu OBE. He's a CEO and author of the book, A Judgement-Free Guide to Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men On the agenda - How can you tell when a bus...

Dark Rooms in Deutschland from 2022-05-05T07:43

James and Dan are joined by multi-award winning film director Sebastian Meise to talk about his new film The Great Freedom. We learn all about the history of Paragraph 175 that criminalised homosex...

Sex Tape from 2022-04-20T12:10

Dan gives James his Christmas present... in April! James discovers the true meaning of Banoffee Pie, and the boys discuss Pam And Tommy. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan f...

A Mother’s Love from 2022-04-13T10:37

In memory of A Gay And A NonGay’s biggest fan. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feedLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gay Happy from 2022-04-06T05:04

James wants to know if you can be gay and happy? Plus is it okay for LGBTQ+ people to work with organisations with a problematic past? Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan fe...

Chloe Moriondo has 'Straight Panic' from 2022-03-23T06:04

James and Dan welcome internet sensation Chloe Moriondo to our podcast 🐈. Chloe tells us about growing up queer on the internet, outing their friends, coming out backwards and the 'straight panic'...

'Heteronormative Hell' from 2022-03-10T13:52

We've been nominated for a British LGBT Award! Vote now at www.gaynongay.com 🥇💗! Thank you so much, we love you! How do you balance your queerness in a vaguely 'heteronormative relationship'? Pl...

Kitty Scott-Claus from 2022-03-03T11:22

To celebrate 'Birmingham Day' (which may or may not be happening this year...) we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race UK superstar icon and ultimate hun Kitty Scott-Claus! We chat Snatch Game, Kitty spills ...

Fake Jamie Dornan from 2022-02-16T06:00

Dan takes his delusion to a new low as he starts a career as a Jamie Dornan look-alike. Need a (supposed) Jamie Dornan lookalike for anything? Enquire within. FABULOUS NEWS! We're nominated as Onl...

LGBT History Month with Peter Tatchell from 2022-02-10T06:00

In a very special extended episode for LGBT History Month, James and Dan are delighted and honoured to welcome the legendary British human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell. Originally from Austra...

Four Lives from 2022-02-03T06:50

It's been a rough week for James as he discovers he’s been playing the wrong Wordle. We chat Grindr hook ups, the importance of our queer history and the new BBC drama Four Lives. Listen to ad-fre...

The Importance Of Pronouns from 2022-01-26T06:03

James responds to an article in The Mail On Sunday, which suggested a piece he wrote about pronouns was 'misleading'. For ad free episodes of our podcasts visit www.gaynongay.com/donate.Support Me...

Pardon My Gay from 2022-01-19T06:00

We discuss the UK government's pardon for historic same-sex convictions and talk about Priti Patel’s Anti-Refugee Bill. Plus James didn't think he needed to explain cruise bars to Dan, but he does....

NonGay Resolutions from 2022-01-13T06:21

It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're setting each other some New Years Resolutions. Is i...

Be Our Guest 2021 from 2022-01-05T06:42

We're starting the New Year with major inspiration for 2022. Join us as we celebrate some of the most iconic voices from our podcast in the last 12 months, featuring Billy Porter, Juno Dawson, Vane...

Christmas with Krystal Versace from 2021-12-22T18:22

We're serving Krystal for Christmas! James&Dan welcome the winner of RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 3, Krystal Versace! We find out how she first stepped into drag, why it's important to talk about h...

A Gay Muslim's Journey to Acceptance with Mohsin Zaidi from 2021-12-16T06:00

James and Dan are joined by iconic barrister, speaker and author Mohsin Zaidi about his must read memoir A Dutiful Boy, A Memoir of A Gay Muslim’s Journey to Acceptance. We chat about Mohsin’s sup...

From Grindr to Grindcore from 2021-12-09T06:28

Dan and James reflect on the release of their new BBC documentary ‘Sashay To Hell’ set at Bloodstock, the UK’s premier extreme metal festival. Spoiler alert, James still doesn’t like the screaming....

Brandan Robertson the Tik-Tok Preacher from 2021-11-25T06:05

Today we're joined by the Reverend Brandon Robertson, writer, activist and preacher, who rose to fame during the pandemic as the TikTok Preacher. We’ll hear about the gays in the Bible, how the wor...

Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Vanity Milan from 2021-11-23T14:10

It's another bonus episode featuring RuPaul's Drag Race UK's Vanity Milan. We find out why Vanity near quit the show, what the producers of RPDR UK can do to encourage more POC queens and discuss ...

Josh Cavallo from 2021-11-17T06:18

Dan doesn't do flowers or dead cats. James is celebrating Australian Footballer Josh Cavallo coming out and we find out what makes a gay wedding, gay... according to NonGay's. Subscribe to our pod...

It's Raining Them with Mila Jam from 2021-11-10T06:05

November is Transgender Awareness Month. Dan and James catch up with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and LGBTQ+ activist Mila Jam. Today we find out why it's ok to call straight men ‘girl', we...

Sashay NonGay with Scarlett Harlett from 2021-11-06T06:00

Every town has one, Scarlett Harlett! It's another bonus episode of Sashay NonGay, our mini series featuring the fallen queens of Drag Race UK Season 3! Spoilers ahead. Today Scarlett describes wat...

Sashay NonGay with Choriza May&River Medway from 2021-11-02T07:01

SPOILERS! Sashay NonGay is back sweeties. River Medway officially launches Christmas for us, Choriza May discusses RuPaul's 'disrespectful' decision to send two of our favourite queens home and we...

Sashay NonGay with Charity Kase from 2021-10-28T22:24

It's another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, featuring alternative drag royalty, Charity Kase! Charity talks about her shock sashay from the show, reveals the impact of the show on her mental...

The Male Gaze from 2021-10-27T05:00

We discuss the straight male gaze and James thinks Dan might be a pot calling the kettle black after his comments at our Big Gay Show. Support our podcast for all new ad-free episodes, visit www.g...

Billy Porter from 2021-10-20T05:16

Theydies and Gentletheys, the icon, the moment, Billy Porter! Billy Porter joins us to chat about his new song Children, Unprotected: A Memoir and his forthcoming Ryan Murphy film documenting his ...

Sashay NonGay with Veronica Green&Victoria Scone from 2021-10-12T05:17

Spoiler Alert. Today we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race Royalty, Veronica Green and the show's first ever AFAB Queen Victoria Scone. Veronica reveals that she's not replied to apology texts from A'Whor...

Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Elektra Fence from 2021-10-05T05:35

Welcome to another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, The Sashay NonGay Podcast! This is your official SPOILER ALERT. Today we welcome Elektra Fence! We play 'Snatch Game', discuss Jane McDonald...

Big Gay Show with Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson&Vanessa Feltz from 2021-09-30T05:38

This live recording of our podcast features extremely adult content. Finally! Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and as James puts it, 'the original Cock Destroyer' Vanessa Feltz join us live at our B...

Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Anubis Finch from 2021-09-28T10:45

Welcome to a bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay and the first EVER Sashay NonGay Podcast! Alongside your favourite straight man’s hilarious Ru-Cap videos on Instagram, we’re also putting out spec...

Sober from 2021-09-23T05:00

James is navigating life without alcohol right now and the boys discuss Lil Nas X's masterpiece, Montero. If you'd like to chat non-drinking with us, please visit our facebook group at www.faceboo...

First Comes Love with Tom Rasmussen from 2021-09-15T05:55

Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom...

Straight Tax from 2021-09-01T08:11

Dan is parading around as a Madonna expert and James is worried about getting trench foot. Plus, should straight people pay a tax to attend LGBTQ+ events? Let us know in our listener group, www.fac...

Vanessa Feltz from 2021-08-25T05:00

Salutations... Today we welcome the icon, the myth, Lady Vanessa Feltz. See us live babes. We're playing Underbelly Festival London on Friday 10th September! Visit www.gaynongay.com/live for ticke...

Bonus Episode: Bloodstock from 2021-08-19T06:29

Dan's taken James to Bloodstock Open Air, the UK's biggest Heavy Metal Festival. We’ve been working on a top-secret project and we can’t wait for you to see it!!! More soon 😘. Our Big Gay Show is...

Michael Gunning from 2021-08-11T05:19

Today we're joined by British-Jamaican swimmer Michael Gunning. We chat about his journey as an openly gay member of Team Jamaica, Team LGBTQ+'s success at The Olympics 2020. plus Tom Daley's speec...

Glory holes and Sourdough from 2021-08-04T05:34

Ringlight my Fire. James keeps sending ring lights to Dan. Meanwhile Dan's been busy telling everyone he’s not an LGBTQ+ ally?! Plus we discover that sourdough is 'too long, wide and thick' for a c...

Don't Tell Nikki's Mother from 2021-07-29T05:33

James and Dan are joined from Los Angeles by film executive, TV host&creator of the hilarious podcast Don't Tell My Mother, Nikki Levy. We hear the story Nikki doesn't want her mother to hear, plus...

Bottoming from 2021-07-21T05:46

Dan thinks he knows a thing or two about 'bottoming' 😂, and we welcome the return of an old friend, The Velvet Rage. Our Big Gay Live Show is coming to London, see us live on Friday 10th Septembe...

Gay Spellings from 2021-07-14T17:00

James thinks this was the 'straightest' Pride Month yet? Meanwhile Dan has a revelation about his favourite Ace of Base song - and do gays deliberately mis-spell? Plus we chat mental health and bot...

Pride Month with Tom Allen from 2021-06-30T05:02

Dan and James are so excited to be joined by the hilarious Tom Allen. On the agenda - Why Tom is no longer waiting for the weather with Tomas Schafernaker, Dan sellotaping headphones to his ears, r...

Pride Month with Dustin Lance Black from 2021-06-23T05:12

It's episode 250 of A Gay and A NonGay!!! Dan finally agrees with James on a long standing issue... Plus we're joined by screenwriter, fierce activist, academy award winning Dustin Lance Black. Th...

Pride Month with Adele Roberts&Kate Holderness from 2021-06-16T05:00

We hardly ever hear queer love stories so to celebrate Pride Month we welcome our first ever couple, BBC Radio 1 presenter Adele Roberts and her fiancé, actress Kate Holderness.  James and Dan debu...

Pride Month with Willam&Latrice Royale from 2021-06-09T05:21

Today we're joined by RuPaul's Drag Race royalty and stars of the West End's hilarious new show Death Drop, Willam and Latrice Royale! James is excited, Dan less so. The girls discuss crazy Drag Ra...

Pride Month with Franco Stevens from 2021-06-02T09:11

We're starting Pride Month with power lesbian realness. Franco Stevens is one of the most important and influential figures in lesbian visibility. Today we chat about Franco's amazing story forming...

Daneskin from 2021-05-27T05:33

James is excited that a rock song won Eurovision.... Dan less so. Plus, James gives his informed opinion on Glastonbury and the annoyance of NonGay events clashing with #Pride. Get bonus content on...

Cheugy from 2021-05-19T07:30

Dan and James are both fed up with Lewis Capaldi being straight/boring. Plus is James cheugy? Get tickets to our Big Gay Show, visit www.gaynongay.com!Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super ...

James' Bum from 2021-05-12T05:00

James has posted his bum all over the internet, there's a Things Dan Cannot Say and a big gay announcement about our Big Gay Show!!! For more details check out gaynongay.comGet bonus content on Pa...

Be Your Own Ally from 2021-05-05T05:22

James had had an awakening, and we discuss Fat Mike's lack of showering. Support our podcast at www.gaynongay.com/donate.Buy our merch www.gaynongay.com/shop Get bonus content on Patreon, with our...

Sex, Drugs and Richard Coles from 2021-04-28T05:00

Britain's favourite priest Richard Coles joins us to chat about partying in Ibiza in his 20's, being openly gay in the church and his late husband's battle with alcoholism. We LOVE this episode! "...

Gender Reveal from 2021-04-21T06:41

James is causing drama in his family WhatsApp group. Dan doesn't want to talk about Fat Mike. Thanks for listening to our podcast today, join our chosen family at www.gaynongay.com/donate. Kisses....

Say Yes To The Cross-Dress - with Fat Mike of NOFX from 2021-04-14T05:00

Dan and James are joined from California by legendary punk rocker Fat Mike of NOFX. This is an explicit episode. It's quite the ride through BDSM, cross-dressing, sex dungeons, live-in sex slaves ...

Is Metal homophobic? from 2021-04-07T05:00

It's two weeks since the final of RuPaul's Drag Race and James refuses to credit Dan with correctly predicting the winner (spoiler free)! Plus, is metal homophobic? Dan and James discuss the reacti...

A Gay and a NonGay - with Louise! from 2021-03-31T04:54

Singer, icon and LGBTQ+ ally Louise Redknapp joins us on A Gay and a NonGay today. We talk about the importance of her LGBTQ+ fans, playing alongside Britney, and how her mum thinks her gay friends...

1000 Days from 2021-03-26T06:18

It's 1000 days since the U.K government promised to ban conversion therapy but still hasn't. James and Dan reflect on their BBC Radio 1 documentary 'Tell It: From Gay to NonGay' and chat to the co-...

Iconic Women from 2021-03-17T08:41

Women are not safe. James and Dan chat about the toxic behaviour of some straight men towards women and James realises how our shame prevents us from speaking out. Plus Dan wants gays to stop calli...

Juno Dawson from 2021-03-10T12:40

We're celebrating #InternationalWomensDay with esteemed author Juno Dawson. We ask Juno about the state of trans in the U.K. Are things better or worse for trans people, and how things currently a...

Blackness is inherently Queer with George M. Johnson from 2021-03-03T05:59

James and Dan are joined by award-winning activist and writer George M. Johnson - their memoir 'All Boys Aren't Blue', a story of growing up black and queer in America, is People Magazine's Best Bo...

Becoming Eve with Abby Stein from 2021-02-24T05:54

'I prayed to God to make me a girl'. James and Dan are joined from New York by Abby Stein - the first woman and the first transgender woman to be ordained as a rabbi by an orthodox institution. She...

Do The Admin from 2021-02-17T06:20

Dan finds James' new found love of Valentine's Day hilarious, do the admin returns for a bisexual special and only Dan could end up leaving the food bank with food. #Sourdough. Support A Gay and A...

LGBTQ+ History Month with Lisa Power from 2021-02-10T06:00

It’s LGBTQ+ History Month in the U.K. and we’re joined by historian, sexual health and LGBT rights campaigner Lisa Power - talking medieval gays, the early days of the AIDS crisis and her work on I...

Give HIV the finger from 2021-02-03T06:12

James and Dan take an HIV test for National HIV Testing Week in England. Plus there's a RuPaul Things Dan Cannot Say special and is James stereotypically gay? The Terrence Higgins Trust hope to en...

It's A Sin from 2021-01-27T06:00

After binge-watching Russell T Davies’ iconic Channel 4 drama It’s A Sin, James and Dan reflect on the AIDS crisis and the similarities to Covid-19 for LGBTQ+ people. The Terrence Higgins Trust ho...

James has been deleted from 2021-01-20T05:49

Dan refuses to admit that he 'fancies' one of the queens on RuPaul's Drag Race UK. Meanwhile, James is triggered by the deletion of his Wikipedia page and the general existence of acclaimed author ...

Reading from 2021-01-13T06:03

Dan’s got a new radio show and James is a fan, apart from the music. Dan is updated on the latest gay slang and we find out why James is talking about Dan in therapy. Listen to 'Dan With the Sickn...

Twenty-Twinky-One from 2021-01-06T12:50

James is excited about 'twenty-twinky-one' but Dan is more excited about 01/21 - the month of Birmingham. Who are the 'gays over Covid' and what good news can we take from 2020? ...anyone? Please ...

Be Our Guest 2020 from 2020-12-30T06:00

Some of our favourite, most inspirational moments with our favourite people to end an otherwise triggering year. It's going to be okay. Featuring Amanda Jette Knox, Beau Dyess, Chaz Bono, Dr. Ranj...

Mrs. Claus with Divina de Campo from 2020-12-23T06:00

The magic of Queermas is upon us. James welcomes LGBTQ+ ally Santa back down our chimney for a third year but Dan's had enough... introducing Mrs. Claus AKA Divina de Campo from RuPaul's Drag Race ...

Live your best life with Jamie Windust from 2020-12-16T12:20

James is emotional about Little Mix but Dan's ready to get our guest on. Today we're joined by the brilliantly funny, feisty, and fierce Jamie Windust to talk about their new book In Their Shoes: ...

Boyfriend AGM from 2020-12-09T06:00

James checks in on Dan after a worrying Instagram photo and updates everyone on the minutes from his relationship AGM. Do you have meetings with your partner? Let us know, join our listener group ...

Leaving TERF Extremism with Amy Dyess from 2020-12-02T07:13:23

We're so over transphobia. Today James and Dan welcome Amy Dyess to understand where it comes from. Amy found herself at the heart of the 'Gender Critical' Movement between 2018 and 2020. Today she...

Leaving TERF Extremism with Beau Dyess from 2020-12-02T06:13

We're so over transphobia. Today James and Dan welcome Beau Dyess to understand where it comes from. Beau found himself at the heart of the 'Gender Critical' Movement between 2018 and 2020. Today h...

Ace and Base from 2020-11-26T06:00

James is unhappy to discover his dog's sexuality and Dan's collection of asexual teddies are moving out. Please support our podcast, your encouragement helps us to keep going and create meaningful...

Devil Horns ? from 2020-11-18T07:02:57

Dan is offended by James' attempts to ‘support’ heavy metal. Would you rate someone you’d slept with? And do nongays have body image issues too?  

from 2020-11-04T07:08:16

James is celebrating the all new non-homophobic version of Fairytale of New York but Dan has a questions.

Pope Week from 2020-10-28T13:16:31

Pope Francis has endorsed gays! Or has he? 

And we catch up with a listener who allegedly spills the tea on some allegedly gay priests, allegedly.

Slayer from 2020-10-14T05:50:53

My Metal God Wrote A Porno. Dan has booked a legend onto the show for International Metal Day, but it’s all just porn to James.

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World Mental Health Day from 2020-10-08T07:58:53

Dan needs to say sorry to Will Young, there's a 'Things Dan Cannot Say - World Mental Health Day special' and James is answering your questions about depression in a 'non-depressing' way.

Overcoming Gay Shame with Will Young from 2020-09-30T05:19:22

James and Dan are joined by singer, actor and author Will Young. We talk about how to overcome gay shame plus Will opens up on his struggles with love addiction, disassociation& dealing with...

Live from Manchester’s Alternative Pride Festival with Mark Fletcher&Bright Light Bright Light from 2020-09-23T05:43:05

Dan and James catch up with Bright Light Bright Light and Mark Fletcher, the CEO of Manchester Pride.

Mark opens up about the racism and fetishisation he’s experienced whilst running t...

#IKnewIWasLGBTQ from 2020-09-16T05:00

When did James know he was gay? When did Dan know he was nongay? And why did Dan say goodbye to his "dream beard / mohawk"?.

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Trolls from 2020-09-09T05:00

James’ birthday is ruined by trolls. Plus Dan now thinks he looks like Hollywood heartthrob Robert Pattinson (??)

Is Dan delusional? Let us know in our listener group, head to Listen

Chaz Bono on A Gay and A NonGay from 2020-09-01T19:37:36

On today's show we welcome actor and transgender man Chaz Bono to the show. In his own words he wanted to talk to us about his experience to help combat the many misconceptions about t...

Debbie Downer from 2020-08-26T05:00

James is back from his camping trip and he's got a PSA, trim your bush! Plus is Dan a ‘Debbie Downer?’ 

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Erasure from 2020-08-19T05:00:04

With so much erasure in the world, we felt it was time to catch up with British electronic pop legends Andy Bell and Vince Clarke, aka Erasure. 

They tell us about seeing George M...

YMCA from 2020-08-12T08:08:27

Trump follows Boris Johnson by stealing one of Dan’s catchphrases, and why on earth is YMCA his walk-off music? Also this week - do gay bars discriminate against bisexuals? 

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Tomfoolery... and Dan The Poet from 2020-08-05T05:11:01

There’s two exclusives this week. After his viral sensation The Great Realisation, the boys welcome incredible poet Tomfoolery onto the podcast to hear his ...

Dan's Buns from 2020-07-29T08:50:29

What do cooking pasta, crossing your legs and going to Paris have in common? Plus Dan’s been chased down the road again, this time it’s not a dog, but a Karen.

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Welcome To Chechnya with David France from 2020-07-22T10:14:49

This is a very difficult, upsetting and triggering episode. Today we’re joined by directorDavid Franceto...

Dan's Beard from 2020-07-15T05:42:27

Dan's beard pics are getting all of the likes on instagram, James is annoyed. Do straight men enjoy thirsty attention from The Gays™? Plus has the 'Karen' insult run its course and James has a theo...

Breaking Hate with Christian Picciolini from 2020-07-08T13:03:02

JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There's a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should we try to understand it? Where does it come from and how can we safely e...

Pride 2020 from 2020-07-01T05:10:46

Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan's getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020 after attending the Black Trans Lives march in London.

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Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew from 2020-06-24T06:01:17

A year after we travelled to Belfast for BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called 'gay conversion therapy', the boys have an update on the state of gay in the U.K. Plus we chat to the queer star ...

Love Supreme from 2020-06-18T07:39:29

We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court's landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and racism rife in the UK, does arguing with people on social media achi...

Smells Like Mean Spirit from 2020-06-10T14:27:05

James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and we welcome our listener Orren to discuss Black Lives Matter and the stru...

Black Lives Matter from 2020-06-03T05:00

A small audio note from us this week& some links

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Circus of Books with Rachel Mason from 2020-05-27T05:00

Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? ??. James and Dan chat to artist and film-maker Rachel Mason about her new Netflix film Circus of B...