Podcasts by BDSM United Podcast
Like a Fetish Club for your ears, BDSM United Podcast teaches non-violent consensual, traditional BDSM for adults. Your host Master Saturn is an experienced educator with an extensive career in leadership and mentoring. Within BDSM he is a Dominant in a long-term power exchange relationship. His submissive partner, little libra has over a decade's experience as a BDSM Educator, running a network with over 120,000 followers. As BDSM Educators we focus on the teachings of traditional BDSM drawing from our rich history. You can find the podcast on all the major platforms.
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Energetic Sex from 2023-12-13T15:11:47.060971
Energetic sex is a Sex Magick exercise that can be a doorway to increased sexual chemistry and can expand pleasure and heighten awareness. It can also help integrate healthy masculine and femini...
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What Are the Advantages of Being an Epicurean? from 2023-11-19T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thou...
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Exploring the Beliefs of Skeptics from 2023-11-18T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thou...
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What Can We Learn from Cynics? from 2023-11-17T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at one of the ethical schools of thou...
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Controlling Carnal Desires from 2023-11-16T20:04:57
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Aristotle an...
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Is the Platonic Ideal Right for You? from 2023-11-14T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Plato and ho...
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The Socratic Method: A Path to Understand Why from 2023-11-13T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we look at the Greek philosopher Socrates and...
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A Closer Look at Moral Philosophy from 2023-11-12T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we show where Moral Philosophy, aka Ethics, f...
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Intro to Ethics from 2023-11-11T12:30
Welcome to our series Kink Ethics 101 where we look at Ethics from a kinky perspective and how they apply within our culture. In today's episode we introduce the topic and give a few opening...
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Sex With Ghosts from 2023-11-10T12:30
Today in this mini-series we look at stories people have shared about their spooky sexual encounters with spirits, ghosts, and demons. We give our spiritual advice on how to prevent your own BDS...
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Bad Sex Stories - Part 2 from 2023-11-09T12:30
Today in this mini-series we continue with more bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
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Bad Sex Stories - Part 1 from 2023-11-08T12:30
Today in this mini-series we are warming ourselves up with some bad sex stories. Our goal is to see what we would or could change giving advice on how to prevent your own BDSM Horror Story!
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BDSM Horror Story - Part 4 from 2023-11-07T12:30
In the final installment of this mini-series we are continuing to look at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to...
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BDSM Horror Story - Part 3 from 2023-11-06T12:30
In the third installment of this mini-series we are continuing to look at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to...
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BDSM Horror Story - Part 2 from 2023-11-05T12:30
In the second part of this mini-series we are looking at that stats for how often accidents and injuries take place within the kink community. We also look at who they happen to and what levels ...
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BDSM Horror Story - Part 1 from 2023-11-04T11:30
In the first part of this mini-series we are looking at a Buzzfeed "Would You Rather" quiz and pointing out some of the problematic questions that arise from the humorous kinky quiz. W...
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Overcoming Shame: Proven Strategies to Combat Shame from 2023-11-03T11:30
Shame is a powerful emotion that can have a profound impact on individuals. It often stems from the world's tendency to be harsh and unforgiving towards those who are perceived as different....
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You’re An Alpha Sub? What Do You Mean By That? from 2023-11-02T11:30
The ambiguity of the term 'Alpha sub' often generates a myriad of reactions, from intrigue to confusion, as it defies traditional identity categories. The complexity arises from the vari...
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Interview Part Two with little libra from 2023-11-01T11:30
Today is part two of our interview little libra who is co-host of the BDSM United Podcast, a BDSM Educator, a little and a submissive in a long-term power exchange relationship with Master Satur...
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Halloween Interview with little libra from 2023-10-31T11:30
Today we interview little libra who is co-host of the BDSM United Podcast, a BDSM Educator, a little and a submissive in a long-term power exchange relationship with Master Saturn. Together they...
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Who has the power in a Power Exchange dynamic? from 2023-10-30T11:30
It is sometimes a controversial topic, especially among those who insist one's submission is a gift. Ultimately, the power in a power exchange dynamic rests with the individuals who willingl...
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What To Do If Your Partner Gets Triggered from 2023-10-29T11:30
Kink can be both intense and a bit risky, one can become triggered from past hurt or trauma. Handling triggers in a relationship requires patience, understanding, and open communication. By foll...
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Welcome to Scorpio Season! from 2023-10-28T14:16
Welcome to the exhilarating week of Scorpio Season! Prepare yourself for an intense period filled with passion, depth, and transformation. Scorpio Season invites you to embrace your inner streng...
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Writing a Consistent Profile: A Guide to Achieving Your Goals from 2023-10-27T15:52
What I commonly find is that many people's online FetLife profiles don't match the identity listed by their name. Not to mention the vast majority of people that don't even fill the ...
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Tips for Choosing the Right Play Partner from 2023-10-26T15:30
Vetting a potential play partner an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. Before you get kinky with someone for the first time, do your home...
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The Cusp of Drama and Criticism from 2023-10-25T14:58:15
As we move from Libra season in the season of Scorpio, a heightened sense of the drama of life, both in a philosophical and personal sense, leads to an increased awareness of the dynamics of one...
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Who Should Consider Themselves Top and Bottom? from 2023-10-14T20:56:10
Several years ago there was an internal push within the kink community to erase "Top and bottom" by those who erroneously stated "You're not real unless you are into D/s!!&quo...
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Exploring the Meaning Behind the Ceremony of the Roses from 2023-10-14T20:40:58
The formal lifestyle is filled with traditions and ceremonies that are seldom witnessed by the outside world and perhaps one of the most moving and meaningful is the "bonding ritual" o...
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Developing Your Submission from 2023-09-22T13:20:28
Do you have a spirit of submission, that is an aura or an essence of it? Is submission just something you do or is it also part of your inner being? If being a submissive is your identity, you s...
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Tips for Negotiating the Best Training Contract from 2023-09-11T16:12:49
When beginning a power exchange dynamic in a new or existing relationship, it is usually helpful to have a series of discussions in order to form a Training Contract. Today we give you tips for ...
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Consequences of Consistency from 2023-08-28T12:00:11
Consistency is great for an identity within a power exchange relationship. As long as those involved have the good character and willingness to make the relationship work, consistent structure w...
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Uncovering the Hidden Key to a Healthy Relationship from 2023-08-27T19:23:51
We find ourselves in a middle path between Tradition and Innovation trying to do a power exchange relationship that is both modern yet respectful of traditions. How do we tell that we are being ...
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Harnessing the Power of Tradition and Innovation from 2023-08-24T15:58:01
Today we look for a middle path somewhere between traditional BDSM and TNG. Because we can't go back in time and yet we want to honor what has already been built and passed along to us. &quo...
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Uncovering the Hidden Gems of the Leatherman Subculture from 2023-07-25T02:27:16
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at how the Leatherman subculture of the 1950s shaped modern M/s relationship...
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The Impact of Abolitionism on M/s Relationships from 2023-07-17T23:58:12
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at the path from abolitionist propaganda to sadomasochistic pornography. Muc...
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Uncovering the Truth Behind Greco-Roman Slavery from 2023-07-09T17:01:20
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at the origins of ancient Greco-Roman slavery and contrast them with modern ...
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Top 3 Differences Between Involuntary and Consensual Slavery from 2023-07-01T12:00
BDSM Summer School is in session this year focusing on consensual Master/slave relationships. In this episode we look at Orlando Patterson’s "Slavery and Social Death" (Cambridge: Harv...
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How to Recognize and Avoid BDSM Abuse from 2023-05-30T14:46:09
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. The core of BDSM is communication and consent. If you feel that what is going on is ‘not right’ then you certainly should investigate if it is abuse o...
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BDSM Symbolism from 2023-05-15T15:40:34
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Perhaps you have seen the symbol used in our logo and wondered what does it stand for? That and many other symbols are part of our culture. We look at...
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BDSM Politics from 2023-05-11T15:25:49
Today's podcast is an unscripted look at where BDSM has come from, how political ideology has influenced where we are presently, and how to shape the future of BDSM. There is a tension betwe...
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Traditions of Collaring from 2023-05-09T18:40:20
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. There was a time when a collar was more important than a wedding ring. The meaning of the collar has as many definitions now as there are people. Each...
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First Moments of a Kink Scene from 2023-05-06T16:17:21
The Dominant partner has a plan and the submissive has the play space ready. Kneeling in anticipation, the submissive waits for the Dom to enter the room. Today we wanted to help you set the sta...
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Scene Names and Titles from 2023-04-24T15:48:58
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. You're ready to explore BDSM... now what should people call you? Today we talk all about scene names and titles.
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Self Inventory from 2023-04-12T14:30:56
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. As you begin dipping your toes into BDSM Culture it's good to take a self-inventory by asking yourself, "Who am I? Why am I here? What am I l...
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BDSM Culture from 2023-04-11T16:01:54
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Imagine you are standing outside our culture looking in. Today we discuss what you might hope to find within and the possibilities that exist within B...
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Vanilla and a Few Toppings from 2023-04-08T16:27:31
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the difference between Vanilla and Kink.
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The Dark Side from 2023-03-17T12:00:31
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the darker side of BDSM and what people might discover within our culture.
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Intimate Connections from 2023-03-16T12:00:17
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about motives for becoming involved in BDSM.
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The Foundation from 2023-03-15T15:57:52
Welcome to our ABCs of BDSM podcast series. Today we talk about the importance of having a solid foundational knowledge of our culture.
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The Lost Art of Vetting: Part 2 from 2023-03-01T13:00:32
Vetting a new partner is something we have lost as a society, not just in the BDSM community. We see all the time a person ends one relationship and within a week, or less, be chest deep i...
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The Lost Art of Vetting from 2023-02-28T14:09:49
Vetting a new partner is something we have lost as a society, not just in the BDSM community. We see all the time a person ends one relationship and within a week, or less, be chest deep i...
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Building Blocks of BDSM Relationships from 2023-02-17T13:00:02
While it may be a fun roleplay scene to temporarily act like it, in real relationships dominance and submission are not taken by force. Submission isn't given to the one with the most primal urg...
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Self Collaring from 2023-02-16T13:00:47
Self-collaring is where the s-type will collar themselves. This is usually done to express self-love, taking ownership of their own submission (after a bad relationship) to help heal and ground ...
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Using FetLife from 2023-02-15T13:00:32
Since late 2008 FetLife has proven itself to be a valuable resource for those persons looking for kink advice and learning all about fetishes they may not have ever considered. It's also a good ...
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Uses for Pain from 2023-02-14T13:00:41
Pain, as a magical or ritual technique, can be generally sorted into one of seven different categories. It should not cause too much in the way of physical damage, because that might make you pa...
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BDSM Philosophy from 2023-02-13T13:00:02
Think for a moment about the traditions that are commonly called Old Guard. The term itself describes a philosophy, not a group per se. A group of people existed that formed and worked toward de...
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Step-By-Step Aftercare Instructions from 2023-02-12T13:00:06
We begin a play scene with negotiations and do the scene with techniques and safety, but how do we end a scene? Today we give you a picture of how aftercare might look, some possibilities for th...
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Am I Submissive? from 2023-02-11T13:00:41
Today we help you answer the question "am I submissive" by looking at statements on a checklist. These determine if you might be interested in exploring the identity of submissive. Covering topi...
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Submissives vs. Slaves from 2023-02-08T13:00:49
Today we talk about the differences between submissives and slaves. D/s relationship is based on power exchange while M/s is based on authority transfer. We look at both ways for a person to be ...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 305 from 2023-02-07T13:00:36
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we wrap up this part of our series talking about invocation and evocation. We also ...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 304 from 2023-02-06T13:00:49
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about ritual magic and how magic differs from sorcery.
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 303 from 2023-02-05T13:00:38
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk more about astral projection and journeying through the astral realm.
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 302 from 2023-02-04T13:00:19
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about astral projection and dreaming.
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A Quick Update from 2023-02-03T17:56:27
We discovered a problem in our podcast recording software and we wanted to tell you about it and that we got it fixed. Thanks for listening!
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 301 from 2023-02-03T13:00:16
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about more about practicing the kundalini awaking meditation and how kundal...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 300 from 2023-02-02T13:00:36
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about meditation and introduce the kundalini awaking meditation.
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 208 from 2023-02-01T13:00:32
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about the serious negative effects of fatigue on a magician and ways to bat...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 207 from 2023-01-31T13:00:22
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we talk about the magic of silence and developing your Inner Temple.
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 206 from 2023-01-30T13:00:45
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic. Today we look a little more at the power of the human will and what you can achieve with ...
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Slow Burn Vetting from 2023-01-28T13:00:25
If you want a long term partner you need to be testing for things like self-awareness, integrity, strength of character, consistency, and someone’s willingness to face discomfort and adversity. ...
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Self-Esteem in Submissives: Self-Talk, Affirmations and Self-Love from 2023-01-27T13:00:21
Self-esteem relates to how you feel about yourself, whether you like yourself. Being submissive is not about being a "doormat" or a "lesser person". But the sad thing is, many go through life fe...
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Safe Calls from 2023-01-26T13:00:07
In today's show we explain why it's so important, and the different options you have when planning your safe call. A safe call is when you call someone to let them know you are ok, and more impo...
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Old Guard is a Myth from 2023-01-25T13:00:06
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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The HIV Epidemic from 2023-01-24T13:00:57
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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The Computer Age from 2023-01-23T13:00:41
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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Hippie Leather & Leather Titles from 2023-01-22T13:00:57
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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The Hanky Code from 2023-01-21T13:00:37
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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First Mentions of "Old Guard" from 2023-01-20T13:00:26
Many of his peers claim that the book is askew and some even claim some of things Master John states as facts are actually a fabrication. We have the book in our library, along with most of the ...
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Red Flags about Submissives from 2023-01-19T13:00:52
The BDSM lifestyle harbors many dangers, oddly enough most people think only about the dangers to the submissive or slave and not to those dangers present for the Dominant. Among the thousands o...
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Red Flags about Dominants from 2023-01-18T13:00:50
Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use individuals under an umbrella of acceptance. Within each ...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 205 from 2023-01-17T13:00:35
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at even more practices you can do to keep ...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 204 from 2023-01-15T13:00:02
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at more practices you can do to keep you o...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 203 from 2023-01-14T19:08:15
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we look at 3 practices you can do to keep you on t...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 202 from 2023-01-12T13:00:55
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we answer the question, "Why use sex magick when t...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick 201 from 2023-01-11T13:00:21
Welcome to our intermediate sex magick podcast series. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from Don Webb. Today we talk about the Nature of Magic and the 4 Steps ...
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Setnakt's Sex Magick Introduction from 2023-01-10T13:00:17
Welcome to the first podcast in our intermediate Sex Magick series. This builds upon our previous series on this topic. Setnakt's Sex Magick focuses on Initiatory Magic and uses resources from D...
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Explaining BDSM from 2023-01-09T13:00:52
BDSM is about relationships and interactions between people. It’s about power, control, dominance, surrender, humiliation, pain, and discomfort. Sometimes, but not always, it’s about sex. Today ...
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Processing Change in M/s from 2023-01-08T13:00:37
One might think, from the outside looking in, that processing change in an M/s dynamic is always difficult for those who have given up personal autonomy and transferred authority to a Master or ...
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Origin of RACK: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink from 2023-01-07T13:00:01
Today we present Gary Swift's essay on why he coined the motto RACK in order to update SSC's Safe, Sane and Consensual. Swift says, "Nothing's perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn't perfectly...
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One Twue Way from 2023-01-06T13:00:11
When we educate about some topics we always get someone who accuses us of being a "one twue way" person or podcast. This is something called the invincible ignorance fallacy where the person in ...
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Making Rules and Giving Orders from 2023-01-05T15:19:45
Before you get to a contract for a scene or in a relationship dynamic it is important to understand how to make Rules and how to give Orders. The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relations...
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Our Goal for 2023 from 2023-01-03T16:59:01
Just a brief word about our day off and our goal for the new year. Thanks for listening!
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Sex Toys For Trans Folk from 2023-01-02T13:00:17
While all toys are for trans folks (because anyone can use any toy with themselves and others), there are some toys that are specifically great for trans folks: specifically, toys that are gende...
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Kink Checklist from 2023-01-01T13:00:24
A kink checklist is usually suitable for scene play and for very new or short-term relationships. For a longer-term relationship that involves a dynamic it's a good idea that all persons involve...
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New Year's Resolutions - Revisited from 2023-01-01T04:59:17
Happy New Year 2023 from BDSM United Podcast!! Here is an episode I recorded a few weeks ago on this relevant topic of BDSM and Kink resolutions and setting goals.
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Negotiating Scenes from 2022-12-31T13:00:13
Negotiating a relationship is similar to negotiating a scene. Both come after a potential partner is vetted. Negotiations for a play scene are usually short conversations that happen before you ...
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1950's Head of Household from 2022-12-30T13:00:35
While it is more common these days for Dominant/submissive couples to have Top/bottom kinky play, the 1950's head-of-household style D/s relationship is an example of D/s without the T/b. In add...
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To Give You Must First Receive from 2022-12-28T13:00:48
There are people pushing the “must receive before you can give” ideology in the BDSM lifestyle. Meaning a Top (person doing/giving the kink) must experience a kink before they can give and fully un...
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The Master's Creed from 2022-12-27T13:00:37
Today we want to jump back in time and share a snapshot from our past. Perhaps this is a bit of a romanticized look at the identity of a Master, you be the judge. But before we had Mottos like R...
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Effectively Processing Change from 2022-12-26T13:00:54
What level of intensity is your Power Exchange? How does your dynamic deal with change? Power Exchange can be messy and complicated because it involves people in a relationship. Because th...
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Yuletide Breeding Kink from 2022-12-25T12:00:18
BDSM United joins the Heathens Podcast for a special Yule celebration. We talk about celebrating this season and winter solstice from both right hand path and left hand path mystic traditions. A...
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LGBTQ Definitions Part 2 from 2022-12-24T13:00:39
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before op...
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LGBTQ Definitions Part 1 from 2022-12-23T13:00:14
BDSM's Old Guard roots were once almost entirely homosexual men. It took almost thirty years before the scene became largely inclusive of homosexual women too. And then almost ten more before op...
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The Healing Benefits Of BDSM from 2022-12-22T13:00:14
The world of BDSM is broad and incredibly diverse, encompassing everything from the use of a blindfold during sex to forms of consensual torture. People with an interest in BDSM used to be consi...
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BDSM Book Recommendations from 2022-12-21T13:00:29
Here are my personal BDSM book recommendations. Books have been a big part of my life for a long time, there is much to learn from them. These are some of the books that I teach from, as well. I...
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Calling Myself Master from 2022-12-20T13:00:32
Today we answer the question, "Is it okay for me to Call myself Master?" We briefly look at the various origins of the word and give some sage advice for those who think the honorific may fit th...
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BDSM Larping from 2022-12-19T13:00:23
Today we talk about the identity misappropriation that happens when roleplayers use Dom/sub or Master/slave for their kinky scenes. Often times it is confusing because they feel a connection to ...
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Ethical Non-Monogamy Roles from 2022-12-18T13:00:05
Welcome to part 7 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Ethical Non-monogamy (ENM) is having a romantic and/or physical relationship with more than one person. ENM is an umbrella term...
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Pet & Primal Roles from 2022-12-17T13:00:11
Welcome to part 6b of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. Today we look at more miscellaneous ro...
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Top & Bottom Roles from 2022-12-16T13:00:23
Welcome to part 6a of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Tops and bottoms are the participants in a scene where one or more kinks are performed. You do not have to be in a dynamic wit...
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Bondage Roles from 2022-12-14T13:00:18
Welcome to part 4 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Bondage is a part of kink scenes for Tops and bottoms. Bondage can be something as simple as cuffs on during a scene, or at a m...
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Leather Identities and Families from 2022-12-13T13:00:37
Welcome to part 3 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! The Leather community started around the 1940s having strong roots in the gay biker community and who today we commonly call Th...
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Power Exchange Identities from 2022-12-12T13:00:51
Welcome to part 2 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! Power exchange is where one person gives the other a certain amount of control over them and the relationship. Some level of po...
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Understanding BDSM Identities & Roles from 2022-12-11T13:00:08
Welcome to part 1 of Identities & Roles in the BDSM Lifestyle! When first starting your journey in the BDSM lifestyle, you will read and hear a lot about “roles”. There are 2 definitions for...
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How to Answer a Question from 2022-12-10T13:00:41
Since we are an educational podcast, we tend to ask a lot of questions. Sometimes we take for granted that we all understand how to answer questions. So what better way to resolve this than to t...
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Humiliation and Degradation from 2022-12-09T13:00:21
One of the kinky things a lot of people are both drawn to and repelled by is that type of play we call Humiliation. We've discovered that no two Tops or bottoms mean quite the same thing when th...
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How to induce Subspace from 2022-12-08T13:00:20
Although many into BDSM and kink scenes has heard of endorphins, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This s...
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Dildos for Men from 2022-12-07T13:00:44
Today's podcast is a how-to for how men should use a dildo because believe it or not, they aren’t just for females to get off on. In fact, we explore some other myths and misconceptions around d...
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Littles vs. Ageplay from 2022-12-06T13:00:33
In today's podcast, we want to break down the difference between the “little” identity and the kink of ageplay. There is a huge misconception that those in a Daddy/little power exchange dynamic ...
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Am I a little? from 2022-12-05T13:00:29
What is a little within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a submissive little.
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Am I a Daddy Dom? from 2022-12-04T13:00:30
What is a Daddy or a Mommy Dom within BDSM and how do I know if I am one? Today we look at characteristics of the identity in order to help you discern whether you are a Daddy.
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Bad News for Male Subs from 2022-12-03T13:00:33
Doing a deep dive into the resources available specifically aimed at the Male Sub left me with a sour taste in my mouth. Everything was kink-related and felt aimed at turning men into pieces of ...
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Gaslighting and Validation from 2022-12-02T13:00:08
Gaslighting within BDSM can be “You liked it”, “You never said the safe word” or, “You didn’t mean it when you said it!” Although gaslighting is most commonly associated with abusive relationshi...
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Seducing Women on Fetlife from 2022-12-01T13:00:10
"Alright, you signed up, you’ve done some searching, and you found your coworker's nude pics. Now you’ve got your junk in your hand and you’re looking to park it down someone's throat. You furio...
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Gender Identity within BDSM from 2022-11-30T13:00:41
How do gender identity and BDSM collide, and does one influence the other? Could our BDSM identity influence our gender identity, and could our gender identity influence our identity of Dominanc...
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Sub Frenzy from 2022-11-29T13:00:24
So a question we've often been asked is what is Frenzy and why is it considered so bad. This comes up often when someone speaks about “sub frenzy” but there is also “Dom frenzy” as well as other...
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Guide to Anal Play from 2022-11-28T13:00:03
While we primarily focus on BDSM, it's also important to cover some types of sex education as well. As with many things, small gaps in what we know about basic things can lead to larger problems...
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Finding Mentors and Protectors from 2022-11-27T13:00:17
You might see someone listed on a BDSM profile that they have a Mentor or they are under the Protection of someone in the lifestyle. Where can you find a Mentor or Protector? How do you pick one...
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Pushing Your Limits from 2022-11-26T13:00:48
What does it mean to “push your limits” and who can push them? If you spend any time around other people in this lifestyle you will hear the phrase pushing your limits so today we are talking ab...
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Edge Play, the Extreme Kinks from 2022-11-25T13:00:23
Everything in life has risk, in our vanilla life we learn how to work around those to survive. Every kink has some level of risk, we lower the risk with education and training. Some kinks can be...
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Thanksgiving Special from 2022-11-24T13:00:15
Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our identities in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can fall into a ...
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Kink Shaming from 2022-11-23T13:00:38
Kink shaming is criticizing and degrading someone for their desire/need for a kink. It can also come across as shaming if you criticize the kink without directing it at a specific person. Today ...
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Kinks, Fetishes, and Limits from 2022-11-22T13:00:24
Establishing your kinks and limits is a very important part of this lifestyle. It should be done before vetting a potential play partner, or entering a dynamic. Today we talk about and define ki...
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Existential Kink from 2022-11-21T13:00:05
It's always a good time for looking inwardly and working what is inside us. In pagan circles they call this "Shadow work" because the inward parts of us are veiled in mystery. Today I'm giving a...
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Non-Physical Punishments from 2022-11-20T13:00:31
For those in limited power exchange relationships such as D/s or those who aren't into S&M kinks, there are often benefits to correcting behavior and punishing broken rules through non-physi...
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Dom Me, Dammit! from 2022-11-19T13:00:03
One of the most common complaints we get from submissives who are in marriages or relationships that are moving from vanilla to a power exchange relationship is this one: "I want to be Dommed an...
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BDSM New Year's Resolutions from 2022-11-18T13:00:44
It might seem awkward to be talking about New Year's Resolutions months before the end of the year, but goals you actually want to meet take time to plan. Today's podcast gives you some ideas fo...
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Cuckold and Hotwife from 2022-11-17T13:00:43
Couples in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle often say that their levels of connection, intimacy, and communication became better after they started experimenting with this fetish. While this fetish...
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Cultivating Dominance from 2022-11-16T12:48:55
While it’s your job as a Dominant and a partner to protect and encourage your sub, when it comes to the scene, the rules of reality no longer apply. When a sub asks, or begs, you to hurt them, or c...
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4 Steps to Help Your Partner Hear Your Concerns from 2022-11-15T13:00:58
Having a partner with whom we can communicate freely and easily is a fundamental piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving genuine closeness. Yet, even the most communicative of couples can...
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7 Characteristics of an Ideal Partner from 2022-11-14T13:00:56
There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond the surface. While we each seek out a ...
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Brat Tamers from 2022-11-13T12:55:25
Today's episode looks at something that was written on FetLife about Bratting and Brat Taming as an opinion article. We draw from what the article describes and translate it for you using tradition...
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Begging in BDSM from 2022-11-12T13:00:10
Begging is something that many people include in their BDSM relationship. To each person, it is used for different reasons and causes different reactions. Begging affects those involved on both ...
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We Need Your Help from 2022-11-12T03:50:19
Primal Piggy shares a quick, informal word about how you can become a Supporter of BDSM United Podcast. Many people have asked us to do Interviews on the podcast and we think that's a great idea...
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I'm a Complete Newbie! from 2022-11-11T13:00:46
BDSM? What is this? Today's podcast assumes you know nothing about our culture and lifestyle and is a first step toward understanding BDSM. We give both a definition and define the common words ...
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A Collector from 2022-11-10T13:00:14
There are a ton of different types of predators within the BDSM lifestyle. This is why we push for everyone to educate themselves (before getting involved with a partner), communicate about ever...
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A Sadist’s Philosophy of Pain from 2022-11-09T13:00:33
Pain is an intense physical sensation. It has evolved as a warning – the body’s way of telling you that you are in danger or something is wrong. That burns, this is broken, that is cut: you’d be...
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Asexual Kinksters from 2022-11-08T13:00:03
We often say that BDSM isn't always about sex. Asexual kinksters are sometimes an example of this. There are folks on the asexuality spectrum who enjoy diverse expressions of sex and kink with f...
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Oath of Service from 2022-11-07T14:32:18
This Sex Magick working is an oath that is used by those wishing to enter into a spiritual service-oriented D/s relationship. It could also be used as a Dominant's collaring ceremony for their subm...
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Dark Tantra from 2022-11-06T13:00:55
Today's Sex Magick working is A Surrender Ceremony that empowers partners to practice the Master/slave relationship for their agreed-upon time, to be erotically creative, and to push their limit...
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Invisible Needles and Psychic Leash from 2022-11-05T12:00:17
Today's Sex Magick podcast includes two workings you can do with energy manipulation. First we discuss a needle play working, followed by an energy leash you can form to tie a partner's astral b...
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Flogger Energy Ritual from 2022-11-04T12:00:05
Today's Sex Magick podcast is a ritual for energy manipulation using a whip or flogger. We discuss how to charge the tool with your intention and the effects it will have on one's astral body.
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Bondage and Knot Spells from 2022-11-03T12:00:22
Today's Sex Magick podcast teaches you how to charge ropes or restraints with specific energies. We also include a common folk spell called the Nine-Knot Spell.
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Cane, Flogger, and Knife Invocation from 2022-11-02T12:00:49
Like any magical or spiritual tools, BDSM tools can be and should be, if you are using them in ritual, charged with energy and intent. Today's Sex Magick podcast includes a Cane Invocation, Knif...
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Suspension Ritual from 2022-11-01T12:00:57
Today's Sex Magick ritual is a BDSM ceremony before going up on flesh hooks. One individual has to be the Challenger and take on the priestly role. Ideally, it should not be whoever is doing the...
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Halloween Special: Terrifying Sexual Fantasies from 2022-10-31T12:00:22
Welcome to our Halloween Special. There are many terrifying fetishes in the world — some are fantasies that fall far outside the limits of BDSM. Acting on them will land you in prison, hurt you,...
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Marks of Ownership from 2022-10-30T12:00:08
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. No...
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Slave Positions from 2022-10-29T12:00:43
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Sl...
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Slave Voice Training from 2022-10-28T12:00:17
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Th...
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Formal Slave Punishment from 2022-10-27T12:00:19
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Fo...
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Slave Punishments from 2022-10-26T12:00:33
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Sl...
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Slave Contracts from 2022-10-25T12:00:55
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Th...
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Thought Training from 2022-10-24T12:00:45
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In...
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Self-Image Training from 2022-10-23T12:00:34
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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Controlling Emotions from 2022-10-22T12:00:22
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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The Push/Pull Theory from 2022-10-21T11:58:52
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Today...
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Details of Operant Conditioning from 2022-10-20T12:00:19
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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Relationships Control from 2022-10-19T11:30:33
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The c...
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Privacy Control from 2022-10-18T12:00:19
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In to...
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Controlling Slave's Body from 2022-10-17T12:00:22
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Co...
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Controlling Slave's Space from 2022-10-16T12:00:54
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Th...
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The Training Begins from 2022-10-15T12:00:45
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On...
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Erotic Self-Hypnosis from 2022-10-14T12:00:57
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. You c...
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Erotic Hypnosis from 2022-10-13T12:00:40
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. Er...
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Classical and Operant Conditioning from 2022-10-12T12:00:46
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. On...
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Who is a Master? from 2022-10-11T12:00:45
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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Advice Before Beginning Training from 2022-10-10T12:00:22
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. In...
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Who is a slave? from 2022-10-09T12:00:48
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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Slave Ownership from 2022-10-08T12:00:02
Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. To...
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Introduction to Slave Training from 2022-10-07T12:00:30
Essentially Slave Training means to adjust the slave’s core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master’s attitude and way of living. The process of Slave Training needs to be con...
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Cord-Cutting Ceremony from 2022-10-06T12:00
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Cord-Cutting Ceremony. This practice can help you regain lost power by setting you free from unhealthy relationship patterns. By clearing old attachments, you ...
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Chastity Tease and Denial from 2022-10-04T12:00:29
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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Being a Keyholder from 2022-10-03T12:00:33
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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Chastity Contracts from 2022-10-02T12:00:39
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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Female Chastity Belts from 2022-10-01T12:00:23
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and...
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Male Chastity Device User Guide from 2022-09-30T12:00:04
The season is starting to change and mentions of pumpkin spice, Hocus Pocus and Halloween are floating through the air. It is one of our favorite seasons on the year. For a lot of Mistresses and...
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5 Rules for Locktober from 2022-09-29T13:05:37
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober! Lo...
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Merging into Oneness from 2022-09-28T18:00
Today's Sex Magick exercise is Merging into Oneness. The intention of this practice is to experience union, dissolve the ego, and realize our divinity, while making love.
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Locktober Training from 2022-09-28T12:00
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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Locktober Mindset from 2022-09-27T12:00:44
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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What is Locktober? from 2022-09-26T12:00:30
It is one of our favorite seasons on the year! Perhaps it's the faint chill in the air, the Spooky Season or Samhain. For a lot of Mistresses and their subs it's the glorious month of Locktober!...
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Yoni Mudra from 2022-09-25T12:00:21
Today's Sex Magick exercise is the Yoni Mudra. Yoni means “womb space” and mudra means “seal”; thus this is the yogic practice of returning to the state of mind experienced in the womb. Yoni mud...
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Types of Play: Wax Play from 2022-09-24T12:00:35
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others,...
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Types of Play: Plugs, Dildos and Vibes from 2022-09-23T12:00:38
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others,...
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Death Meditation from 2022-09-22T12:00:05
When we come to terms with our death before we die, we can become more fully alive. This age-old shamanic practice produces a deep meditative state to cultivate witness consciousness and detach ...
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Types of Play: Clamps from 2022-09-21T12:00:20
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others,...
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Sex Chakra Sound Bath from 2022-09-20T12:00:10
This Sex Magick exercise is known to rejuvenate the body at the cellular level. Even the scientific community recommends sound healing for the treatment of various conditions and diseases. It ha...
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Domme: Because Women Dom, too! from 2022-09-19T12:00:07
You know, it’s an amusing thing, the stereotype: the thigh-high boots, the fishnet stockings, the corset, the riding crop, the smirking smile. But that’s how some people still think of the Domin...
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Becoming a Male Submissive from 2022-09-18T12:00:46
We often hear people (usually men) claiming Dominant Women are rare. In our experience, this is not true. We encounter many women who would enjoy dominating men if they could find one who meets ...
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Types of Play: Oils and Ointments from 2022-09-17T12:00:15
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy that? For others,...
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Shakti Shake from 2022-09-16T12:00
This exercise in our Sex Magick podcast series is a bit like a Kundalini working. This simple but powerful practice offers deep somatic benefits such as discharging stagnant energy, stimulating ...
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Types of Play: Spanking from 2022-09-15T12:00:02
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with th...
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Ecstatic Dance from 2022-09-14T12:00:50
Although this is specifically not a sexual practice or a place to pick up potential partners, it is very effective for opening erotic channels throughout your body that lead to greater embodied ...
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Sensate Focusing from 2022-09-13T12:00:07
This next exercise in our Sex Magick series are simple but powerful techniques that can help you increase sexual mindfulness and decrease sexual anxiety. You’ll learn to shift from having a goal...
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Types of Play: Paddles from 2022-09-12T12:00:18
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with th...
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Sexual Divination from 2022-09-11T12:00
Divination is the art of seeking hidden knowledge by the aid of supernatural powers. Sacred objects are used to gain answers to questions or to foretell the future. In this exercise, your eros i...
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Types of Play: Floggers from 2022-09-10T12:00:37
One of the most confusing parts of this lifestyle for many people is the toys we use. A person may look at some of the toys and think to themselves, does someone actually enjoy being hit with th...
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Self-Pleasuring Meditation from 2022-09-09T12:00:23
This practice promotes self-love and induces an extraordinary state of being so that you can enjoy longer-lasting lovemaking. This is not a genital-focused exercise but instead a whole-being exp...
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Contacting Your Spirit Guides from 2022-09-08T12:00:32
To gain a broader perspective, guidance, protection, and/or inspiration. This practice can radically accelerate your spiritual growth. The more you practice this, the more aware you become of th...
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Latihan: Moving into the Unknown from 2022-09-07T12:00:50
Beyond preconceived notions about sex and lovemaking, Latihan allows you to open to all of existence and feel the life-force energy flowing through your body. The more you practice this, the mor...
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Sacred Pain from 2022-09-06T13:30:30
Cultures all over the world have explored ways to use the power of Pain as a spiritual tool. Pain is an extremely intense pattern of energy, and it can be used either by the recipient or by the inf...
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Spiritual Aftercare and Triggers from 2022-09-05T13:30:34
In BDSM, Aftercare is the period of time after a scene in which partners attend to one another's physical, emotional, and psychological needs. When a magickal working, like other BDSM scenes, is...
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Communication During Sex Magick from 2022-09-04T12:45:48
It can be difficult even for those experienced in BDSM to verbalize articulately in the midst of an intense scene. Even the most articulate and poetic people go confused and non-verbal as part o...
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Sex Magick Safety Checklist from 2022-09-03T12:45:12
All BDSM should be done using a safety motto such as RACK, an acronym meaning Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. In this episode of our Sex Magick series we look at aspects of safety to consider when j...
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The Chakra System and Magickal Mastery from 2022-09-02T13:30:42
In this episode we give a detailed overview of the Chakra System. While every tradition may not utilize this system, there is still much to absorb that will be useful when dealing with the type ...
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Intro to Magick from 2022-09-01T13:30:02
Before jumping into the practice of Sex Magick we wanted to lay the foundational groundwork of general magickal practice. Utilizing Penczak's "The Mystic Foundation" we define and introduce magi...
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Sex Magick History from 2022-08-31T14:13:59
In today's episode we look at the History of Sexual Magick. It has been used by mankind since the dawn of history. With the rise of Christianity, magick in general and sex magick in particular w...
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Sex Magick FAQ from 2022-08-31T00:14:19
BDSM United's podcast series "Exercises in Sex Magick" teaches you how to do practical workings in sex magick. Borrowing from a diversity of mystic traditions, every episode helps you on whateve...
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Lubes for Kinky Play from 2022-08-25T15:31:36
There are many kinds of lube but we want to focus on those that best meet the needs of most fetish play: Silicone, Water-Based, and Hybrid. We talk about each and some of the specific kinks asso...
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The Ultimate Guide to Brats and Bratting from 2022-08-24T21:14:39
Outside of BDSM, brattiness is typically viewed as a derogatory description of someone who is usually immature and certainly ill-mannered or insubordinate. So how did a derogatory term become a ...
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Enema Play from 2022-08-23T23:52:26
Klismaphilia is the fetish characterized by a powerful sexual gratification involving enemas. To some, the inclination towards enemas may be considered a normal part of cleaning out before anal ...
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Lactation Fetish from 2022-08-22T22:54:32
Lactation fetish is where an individual is sexually aroused by drinking breast milk, watching a woman lactate, or having sex with a lactating woman. The sexual fetish can be enhanced by pregnanc...
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What is a Sadist and Masochist? from 2022-08-21T18:32:11
Sadism and Masochism were originally medical terms that designated aberrant sexual behaviors exhibited by individuals. Sadomasochism and fetishism became visible in the late nineteenth century b...
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The "SM" of BDSM from 2022-08-20T19:25:51
Bondage and Discipline were primarily about the structure and practice of power exchange relationships. Today we begin looking at the SM of Sadism and Masochism within the BDSM acronym. We look ...
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Sweat Fetish from 2022-08-19T18:35:33
As far as fetishism goes, getting turned on by sweat is objectively not weird. In fact, it’s one of the most common kinks out there! Endless streams of curated sweaty content featuring men and w...
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10 Facts About Spit Play from 2022-08-19T01:46:15
"I draw my tongue back into my mouth, swallow the hint of street dust I’ve just licked off her boot, wet my lips so they will glide across the leather more smoothly, then lick her boot again, ag...
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Blood Play from 2022-08-17T15:29:21
Many kinky people have an interest in using blood in sexual play. For some, the intimate connection between blood and intercourse is sexually stirring. The smell, sight, and texture of blood may...
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Fluid Bonding from 2022-08-16T20:24:45
All sexual and kink activity comes with risks. That’s true regardless of whether you’re in a relationship, using barrier protection, or on birth control. Fluid bonding refers to the decision to ...
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10 Facts About Cum Play from 2022-08-15T17:52:02
Cum is a fluid that can be a lot of fun! And even though it is a part of a lot of the sex people have, often there's a lot we don't know about it. On today's podcast PrimalPiggy looks at ten fac...
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Beginner's Guide To Watersports from 2022-08-14T20:29:32
To pee or not to pee? That is today's question! If you're ready to make a real splash in your extracurricular activities, then urine the right place. There are several fun thing...
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Correction and Punishments from 2022-08-13T17:30:04
As we wrap up our look at the "D" for Discipline in our BDSM acronym, we need to consider correction and punishment. These are not just essential to dominance and obedience but also to growth. P...
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How To Set Rules Within BDSM from 2022-08-12T12:58:33
Depending on the type of power exchange relationship and the different persons involved in the relationship, rules, boundaries, and limits will look different. Primal Piggy helps define and dist...
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The Most Powerful Tool for Discipline from 2022-08-11T12:15:46
One of the most important parts of all power exchange relationships is consistency. Even if we were to enjoy the adventure of exploring a new kink every night, for our relationship to function we s...
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The Identity of Switch and the Role of Versatile from 2022-08-10T12:36:53
Lots of popular BDSM resources use the word Switch to mean two totally different things. This was actually popularized by TNG because in very Traditional BDSM the identity of Switch did not exis...
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Service-oriented Submissives from 2022-08-09T14:18:56
An often forgotten part of Discipline is Service. Service plays at least a small part in most every relationship dynamic because most protocols involve some aspect of service. In the book "Real ...
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Power Exchange Protocols from 2022-08-07T18:39:37
Protocol can look like a lot of different things but it present in every power exchange dynamic. Protocol is the repeatable, consistent actions that define Dominant and define submissive. Those ...
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The Structure of BDSM Relationships from 2022-08-04T14:56:20
When most BDSM resources speak about Discipline they focus on punishments. Putting such a large emphasis on punishments instead of power exchange has caused a distortion. Discipline isn't a kink...
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What is Discipline? from 2022-08-03T14:45:36
The "D" in our BDSM acronym is easily the most overlooked and misunderstood part of our acronym. Together with the mental and physical Bondage of controlling and being controlled, Discipline is ...
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Rope Bondage from 2022-08-02T16:26:21
We've covered a lot about the "B" in our BDSM acronym, saving Rope Bondage for last. There are a lot of general things to learn about safety, negotiations, and being risk-aware long before you e...
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Spiritual Bondage from 2022-08-01T15:58:35
While Bondage is a part of Power Exchange and a Kink, growing in Bondage is also a spiritual or sacred exercise that depends on one's will, consent, endurance, and purpose for using bondage. In ...
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Getting Started with Bondage from 2022-07-30T18:15:37
While Bondage made it into the acronym because of its association with power exchange, bondage is also a very popular kink. But how do you get started exploring the kink of Bondage? PrimalPiggy ...
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Resting Slave Positions from 2022-07-29T15:29:28
As we continue looking at Mental Bondage as part of the "B" in our BDSM acronym, you'll see that bondage exists in both service and in rest. Within a relationship dynamic, the submissive is alwa...
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Mental Bondage from 2022-07-28T15:26:36
As we continue to look at the letters of our BDSM acronym, today we examine how mental bondage works within protocol. While we will continue to talk about the philosophy of bondage, you now get ...
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Is BDSM Biblical? from 2022-07-27T20:28:52
PrimalPiggy looks into Biblical Theology to see if we find BDSM within the pages of Christian Scripture. He looks at verses like Isaiah 53 and the Song of Solomon. He also briefly talks about Do...
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BDSM is Satanic from 2022-07-26T17:52:28
BDSM has a covenant theology of it's own typically found in either a collar or a contract. There are blessings to be found for obedience to the Dominant and curses for subordination. BDSM's cove...
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Two Viewpoints on Bondage from 2022-07-26T02:28:29
Continuing to look at the "B" in BDSM we examine two viewpoints on Bondage and show how Protocol links Bondage to Power Exchange. Join us for another podcast in our BDSM Summer School series.
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Bondage Within Power Exchange from 2022-07-24T23:20:42
We are looking at the 4 letters of our BDSM acronym in this series. Currently we are looking at the "B" for Bondage and today we are looking at how Bondage is part of power exchange relationship...
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Why Bondage? from 2022-07-23T18:16
During this summer series we look at the 4 letters of the BDSM acronym. Today we ask ourselves "Why Bondage?"
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I Think I'm Dating A Serial Killer from 2022-03-10T17:44:27
What are red flags and why do they make everyone I date look like they might be a serial killer? Primal Piggy discusses vetting potential and existing partners, what to look for and how to react...
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BDSM is a CRIME! from 2022-03-08T15:59:09
In the world of risk-aware consensual kink, one risk many do not realize they are taking is that someone can not give consent to receive some BDSM play. Primal Piggy helps mitigate that risk by ...
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Is Consensual Slavery Ethical? from 2022-03-04T14:47:38
What are the differences between BDSM Slavery and Human Trafficking, Forced Labor, and Bonded Labor? Within BDSM what makes Master/slave relationships ethical? Primal Piggy defines submission an...
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That 18 Year Old BDSM Master from 2022-03-02T18:41:30
Within BDSM culture how do people get their Titles? What Title should I use? How do I know whose Title I can trust? Primal Piggy draws from BDSM Tradition to explain where Titles (Honorifics) ca...
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BDSM Frequently Asked Questions from 2022-02-28T18:43:03
People who are curious about and exploring BDSM often have a thousand different Questions: Why should I consider BDSM? Is it safe? How do I meet people? How do I find a partner? Where do I even ...
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The Very Basics of BDSM from 2022-02-27T04:56:06
Where do you begin if you know almost nothing about the erotic practices commonly called BDSM? In the episode Primal Piggy starts at the very beginning with the meaning of the name, its historic...
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The D in BDSM from 2022-02-24T16:05:31
Forming the acronym BDSM was actually two worlds colliding together. There was originally BD and SM that merged in the late 90's... so where did the DS come from? Primal Piggy shows you that eve...
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The BDSM Test and TNG from 2021-11-14T03:30:27
Many people claim not to take it seriously, yet you'll find it almost everywhere! Primal Piggy does a deep dive into the "Test" that helped shape BDSM's The Next Generation and explains what wen...
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BDSM: Slave Training 103 from 2021-09-28T22:18:57
Primal Piggy offers some guidelines to consider when determining what punishment methods you may want to use in your relationship dynamic, when you should administer it, and how you may want to ...
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BDSM: Slave Training 102 from 2021-09-28T22:15:34
Tone and Manner of Speech, Eye Restrictions, and Body Posture are all used to emphasize the place of a submissive in comparison to the dominant. Primal Piggy talks about how we can use these sub...
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BDSM: Slave Training 101 from 2021-09-28T22:11:54
Slave Training is teaching a submissive all the things they need to know in order to practice the most complicated, ritualistic, and service oriented relationship. Borrowed from the M/s dynamic,...
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PrimalPiggy talks Polyamory! from 2021-09-28T22:06:16
Polyamorous relationships take many forms and can include many different levels of intimacy. The possibilities are limited only by the needs and desires of the parties involved. PrimalPiggy talk...
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BDSM: Self-Discovery from 2021-09-28T22:01:31
When you've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a while and you feel like you've tried everything, perhaps it's time to begin transitioning to the next level. Relationship Dynamics can be about more ...
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High Protocol: Is it for you? from 2021-09-28T21:57:52
Many want a clearly defined social structure within their relationship dynamic with both rules and rituals to govern the way the relationship is practiced. Primal Piggy introduces you to High Pr...
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Collars, Protocols, and Rituals from 2021-09-28T21:53:55
As BDSM practices grow in popularity, the role of the collar has also changed. Once almost exclusive to M/s: collars, protocols, and rituals are now found in other dynamics as well. Primal Piggy...
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BDSM: Discussion and Agreement from 2021-09-28T21:50:16
To the newcomer, Negotiations and Contracts can seem like a daunting task and are often glossed over in the lust of the moment. Primal Piggy simplifies the process and makes it easier for you to...
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SM is all about the Pleasure! from 2021-09-28T21:45:08
The SM of BDSM is both nuanced and complex because none of us comes from a cookie-cutter mold. PrimalPiggy talks a little about the psychology involved in a way that makes the SM easy to underst...
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Power & Authority Exchange Relationships from 2021-09-28T21:39:18
When it comes to structure in BDSM relationships, there can be a lot of differences and similarities between the different types. Primal Piggy explores Power-Neutral, Power-Exchange, and Authori...
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Red Flags in BDSM from 2021-09-28T21:33:13
Red flags are behavioral warning signs that something is not quite right. While these warning flags apply equally to everyone, you probably have greater chance of finding some in BDSM because of...
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Character of a Good Submissive from 2021-09-28T21:06:38
A submissive, according to the Dictionary, is yielding, obedient, compliant. A good submissive is a good follower. I am sure these are all things that you have thought and seen in your own submi...
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Character of a Good Dominant from 2021-09-28T20:48:43
Simply put, a good Dominant is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness. A good Dominant, like a “good person” has a stro...
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Judgment: Having Pride in BDSM from 2020-07-03T18:32:32
Listen to this podcast and "judge" for yourself, LOL! In this podcast, Primal Piggy talks about reasons why people don't like to judge others, why judgment is important to ratio...
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FetLife* How To - Setting Up Your Profile from 2020-07-02T00:51:21
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In thi...
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FetLife* How To - Signing Up For an Account from 2020-07-01T10:39:06
*We are not affiliated with Fetlife in any way. These are my opinions on successfully setting up a FetLife profile for the purposes of finding partners, vetting and being vetted. In thi...
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Bratty Master Daddy - Fake Submissives Don't Exchange Power from 2020-05-07T03:21:04
Primal Piggy examines Brats vs Power Exchange Relationships. He defines what makes a Dominant and a Submissive. He shows that while Brats aren't subs, they also are...
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Who is this Bratty Master Daddy? from 2020-04-29T01:24:11
Host Primal Piggy talks about who he is, some of his kinks like DD/LG and Piggy Sex, and why this podcast exists. Get a behind-the-scenes look at his Listen