208 – Why Are You Listening? - a podcast by Alf Herigstad

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Why…Are You Listening?
Today’s episode is kind of geared for the single guys out there.  You guys who are attached may find it interesting as well though.  My question for today is; why do you listen to this show?  I really want to know, because it was recently suggested to me that men tune into this program because they think becoming a better man will eventually lead to them having more success in the dating / mating world.  I’m not convinced that is your only motivation, so I would like to know what your reason is for tuning in. I’m going to discuss this dating / mating thing in today’s episode, but first I am going to acknowledge the sponsor of today’s program;  Stumptown Kilts.
Why should you wear a kilt?  It’s a fair question.  First of all I don’t tell anyone what they should or should not do—that’s for you to decide.  Some people wear kilts because their ancestors did, and they think that’s cool.  Others might wear a kilt for the simple comfort and utility that it offers.  Still other guys might like wearing a kilt because it makes them be noticed, it makes them stand out in the crowd.There are hundreds of reasons like this I could come up with for wearing a kilt, but they don’t all apply to everyone.  The choice to wear a kilt is a very individual thing, it takes a certain kind of man.  Here’s what I do know—if you are among the men that have ever thought owning a kilt would be a good idea, for whatever reason, then there is only one kilt you should consider.  That my friends, is a Stump Town Kilt.
I say this for many reasons; they are beautiful works of craftsmanship, they are made from the finest most durable materials, their innovative design and features set them far ahead of the competition, and the people at Stumptown Kilts actually care about your happiness and comfort.  I could go on and on, but the real proof about what I’m saying is that I own three of these myself and I plan on getting more because I don’t believe I can get a better kilt for the money, anywhere.
As a listener of this show you can get your own Stump Town Kilt at a special price, by going to http://stumptownkilts.com (stumptownkilts.com) and entering the purchase code:  betterman, at checkout.  Do that and you will receive 10% off your online purchase.  Everyone who has taken this advice has been thrilled, without exception.  So head over to http://stumptownkilts.com (stumptownkilts.com) today and check them out, and remember to enter the purchase code:  betterman.OK…back to the question at hand;  why do you want to be a better man?  Does it all boil down to dating / mating?  There are lots of pickup artist out there right now.  You know, dating guru’s taking a lot of money from guys and promising them that if you do what they say you will have more confidence and you will be able to woo the woman of your dreams.
I think it’s fair to say that everybody would like to have someone special in their lives.  I spent a lot of time and energy myself looking for the perfect woman.  There isn’t anything wrong with that, it’s perfectly natural.  It’s a biological imperative created by our hormones for crying out loud.  It will not be denied.However, if you want me to give you some magic formula that will suddenly make you attractive and desirable to women—I can’t help you with that.  That isn’t my job, this isn’t that kind of show. 
Those shows are out there though.  There are people who prey on the frustration that single men feel in today’s world.  They tell you how to become more successful at dating.  They share secrets and techniques that will put notches on your bedpost, and guys flock to that because they are frustrated, desperate, lonely, and searching for that person who will fill that empty spot.I have a problem with these people that lead men down this path.  I have a problem with it because it is all built on deception and manipulation.  It...

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