Podcasts by Bobo and Flex
It's your two faves bringing you the world's first cross-continental podcast.Bobo and Flex are on a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys!Interested in advertising with the Bobo & Flex Show? Hit us up at boboandflex@gmail.com
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what is cheating? from 2021-02-10T02:42:33
in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that constitutes as cheating? how does monogamy cult...
Listenwhat happens when we die? from 2021-01-31T22:46:39
in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, and we dissect the extent to which those acc...
Listenmeditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith from 2021-01-20T05:54:01
Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the var...
ListenADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis from 2021-01-13T18:42:17
Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently ableist. We talk about some of the ways tha...
Listenis it ethical to lie to kids? from 2021-01-04T15:36:32
This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and nurture their imagination and sense of fantas...
Listenwedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness from 2020-12-29T05:54:10
We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *really* owe each other," and "what should we expect from each other?" We also discuss the toxicity ...
Listenshrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind from 2020-12-14T05:30:15
What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it affects your perception of life and self. We also discuss the politics of drug culture and the...
Listenconflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love from 2020-12-07T17:31:26
In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and whether or not romantic love is sustainable. We discuss the nuances of conflict compatibility, ...
Listenwhat is the perfect religion? from 2020-11-29T23:00
this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ... if that were even possible. We discuss how ambition intersects with compatibility. We get ...
ListenQ&A: did eve really eat the apple? from 2020-11-24T02:02:06
this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we talk about our dream dinner guests, we unpack whether or not adam gaslit Eve, and we try to und...
Listeneverything is a scam from 2020-11-15T23:15:07
WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusions of reality. We discuss whether or not there is such a thing as a *good* politician. We get i...
Listenbella thorne & white feminism from 2020-09-13T22:00
this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional feminism? was feminism as a whole, ever intended to liberate us? AND; we discuss Bella Thorne's wh...
Listensacrifice vs compromise from 2020-09-06T22:00
this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health and capitalism. we interrogate; who's responsibility is it to protect our mental health? what do...
Listenmake your statement and go from 2020-08-30T01:18
this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We also get into Plato's allegory and how it can help us understand each other's realities and help us...
Listenthe aliens are coming from 2020-08-18T01:36:31
this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow children, the origins of humankind, the limitations of being in a 3-dimensional world ... and we figu...
Listenpeople don't care from 2020-08-10T05:01:10
this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode your health for the benefit of capitalism, as well as our argument for anarchy!! Enjoy!!JOIN US ...
ListenAITA for cleaning poop off my friend from 2020-07-26T22:00:19
This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean to be a good friend? when, if ever, is it appro...
ListenJada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour from 2020-07-19T22:00
This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We unpack what it really means to commit and be loy...
Listenwhat is the point of representation? from 2020-07-12T22:00:14
This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss the futility of getting a 'seat at the table,'...
Listenare you morally obligated to love your family? from 2020-07-05T22:00:11
This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma, whether or not the nuclear family is an outda...
Listengrowing up in a black household from 2020-06-28T22:00:12
This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised African. We talk about black parenting vs white pa...
ListenPLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets? from 2020-06-21T22:00:12
This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everything from the ethics of animal agriculture, the m...
Listenwhy is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide? from 2020-06-14T22:00:20
This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black lives, and we discuss whether liberation can o...
Listendo you think black lives actually matter? from 2020-06-10T22:00:28
This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is activism still valid even if it's performative? ...
Listenhow your friends impact your success from 2020-05-31T22:00:17
This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is suc...
Listenlana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness from 2020-05-25T01:21:14
This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist wor...
Listenlearning to give and receive love from 2020-05-18T03:14:16
This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :)JOIN US...
Listenthe pressure to be positive on social media from 2020-05-11T00:49:38
This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let...
Listenwhat does it mean to be rich in 2020? from 2020-05-03T22:00:18
This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and h...
Listenwhat do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas from 2020-04-26T23:31:46
This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how ...
Listennavigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner from 2020-04-20T01:31:35
This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enj...
Listenis depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend? from 2020-04-13T00:06:28
This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships with your depressed friends. And what relationship...
Listenis anger a useful tool for change? from 2020-04-05T22:00:23
This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's negative perceptions of us and we talk about why ...
Listen2020 is the year of realizing things from 2020-03-29T22:00:12
This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our mental health during quarantine season? what is co...
Listenlessons we learnt too late in life from 2020-03-22T22:00:20
This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it really means to live a good life. Enjoy!BUY REFLEX...
Listencorona virus: is this the beginning of the end? from 2020-03-15T22:57:46
This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism survive the wrath of corona? SUPPORT US ON PATREON...
Listenis the law of attraction a delusion? from 2020-03-08T22:00:10
This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit for our success? How much does the law of attra...
Listenis being pretty the ultimate privilege? from 2020-03-01T23:11:38
This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or elitist? We talk about this and so much more. Enjoy ...
Listen"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself from 2020-02-16T23:00:10
This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how do we learn to love ourselves when we've interna...
Listendo abusers deserve forgiveness and grace? from 2020-02-09T23:00:10
TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're in close proximity to you.SUPPORT US ON PATREO...
Listenintroducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner from 2020-02-03T00:08:19
Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantly - how to give excellent head lol. And so much...
Listenso, how are we going to end racism? from 2020-01-26T23:00:10
In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtuous? And is ending racism a worthwhile pursuit? C...
Listenhow do you get over someone you never dated from 2020-01-19T23:06:34
This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness and attachment styles. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www....
Listenincompatible love languages from 2020-01-12T23:00:16
This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBO...
Listentanning vs blackfishing from 2019-12-29T23:00:13
This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FA...
Listenwhat is the point of feminism? from 2019-12-22T22:52:58
in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.fa...
Listenreasons why you should cheat from 2019-12-08T23:00:03
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK...
Listenhow to break up with a friend from 2019-12-01T23:00:13
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how to navigate forgiveness without compromising you...
Listenthe incel epidemic from 2019-11-24T23:00:23
Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FAC...
ListenDrake and the men who date teens from 2019-11-17T23:00:13
trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways has pedophilia been normalized? do the fashion and beauty industry sexualize children? in what wa...
Listenhas he checked for your hymen yet? from 2019-11-10T23:00:24
This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the healthcare industry, who built the pyramids, T.I and the normalization of pedophilia. Enjoy!!SUPPORT ...
ListenQ&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me? from 2019-11-03T19:59:02
This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do all white men have racial fetishes and how do you get over trust issues?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www...
Listenwhat is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa from 2019-10-27T22:00:02
OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and self-development. what does it mean to be a good person? and is the pursuit more important than the...
Listenwho is responsible for ending climate change? from 2019-10-20T22:00:12
In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/b...
Listenare you ready to die? from 2019-10-13T23:05:03
Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why humans fear death. enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.fa...
ListenPart 5: Toxic Relationships from 2019-10-06T22:41:01
this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining fulfilling relationships, apology languages AND how to fight well!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patr...
ListenPart 4: How To Have The Best Sex from 2019-09-29T22:00:14
this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importance of facilitating your own nut, the pros and cons of sex and finding sexual confidence!SUPPORT ...
ListenPart 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship from 2019-09-22T22:00:15
this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic friendships and what to do when you fall in love with your best friend :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www...
ListenPart 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety from 2019-09-15T22:00:16
this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety and flourishing as an introvert :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACE...
ListenPart 2: First Dates For Dummies from 2019-09-08T22:00:16
this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiating conversations AND how to avoid situationships! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandf...
ListenPart 1: Dating for Dummies from 2019-09-01T22:00:15
this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic white boys :)TW: Sexual AssaultSUPPORT US ON PATREO...
Listenthe problem with wokeness from 2019-08-25T22:03:39
what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to dogma? We discuss all that and more !SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FA...
Listenso you want to be non-monogamous? from 2019-08-18T22:00:35
what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical while navigating unconventional forms of love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN U...
Listenunrequited love and abusive relationships from 2019-08-13T22:30:06
a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or not love and abuse can coexist.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEB...
Listendumb bitch decisions: i bailed him out of jail and he left me for another girl from 2019-08-04T22:00:15
Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting money to raw sex, we cover it all!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACE...
Listenmanifesting your best life in a world with no free will from 2019-07-28T22:00:15
This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest your best life when you have no free will? If there's no free will, can you change your karma? Our ...
Listenis moral superiority making you lonely? from 2019-07-21T22:03:22
This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdiagnosing our loneliness? is the quest to be understood a catalyst for feelings of isolation? How d...
Listenbonus episode – unpacking love island UK 2019 from 2019-07-16T22:00:04
This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At this point in time Bobo hadn't started watching the series so I had to sub in a very capable gues...
Listenhow to live fully before the world ends from 2019-07-14T22:00:14
This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook....
Listengirl code: can i sleep with your crush or nah? from 2019-07-07T22:00:09
This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective morality!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/gr...
ListenMental Health, Therapy & Modern Day Happiness from 2019-06-30T22:00:19
SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/...
ListenBreakups, Heartbreak & Platonic Exes from 2019-06-23T21:59:59
What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandfl...
ListenSpirituality: Past Lives & The After Life, What is Reality & Are Humans Inherently Trash? from 2019-06-16T21:41:18
This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, have fun tho!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/g...
ListenAre You Racist?? Being Black in a White World, Who Gets To Be Black & White Guilt from 2019-06-09T22:00:05
In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM...
ListenBody Image: Self-Loathing, Anti-Blackness, Body Positivity & Is Beauty for Everyone? from 2019-06-02T23:00:07
We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex...
ListenAnswering Your Questions: Casual Sex, Virginity & Unrequited Love from 2019-05-26T22:00:17
We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing with unrequited love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.faceb...
ListenHookup Culture: Dating Etiquette, Soul Ties & Who Benefits? from 2019-05-19T21:31:15
Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we deluded ourselves into thinking we are? Let’s dive into it!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobo...
ListenSafe Spaces: Entitlement, Privilege & Is Equality a Worthwhile Pursuit? from 2019-05-12T22:00:19
Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how can we level up our activism so it's inclusive but nuanced!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/...
ListenBDSM, Sexual Fantasies, Race Play & The Orgasm Gap from 2019-05-05T22:00:19
OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’ and where do our sexual fantasies come from? Let us know your thoughts, chime in - we’d love to hear fro...
ListenSelf-Love, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Labour & Twitter Feminism from 2019-04-28T22:00:09
How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we navigate our relationships, and what does it even mean to practice 'self-love' in this day?SUPPORT US O...
ListenManifestation, Pursuing Your Dreams & Is Passion a Scam? from 2019-04-21T22:00:14
in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the idea of passion and purpose a scam?!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FAC...
ListenCheating, Side Chicks, Secrets & Morality from 2019-04-14T21:30:04
We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the role of side chicks? How do we let go of baggage from hurtful relationships and is infidelity and...
ListenThe Truth Behind Being an Influencer, Instagram Toxicity & The Apocalypse from 2019-04-07T22:00:02
We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media performativity and we unpack how social media is basically launching us into the apocalypse :)SUP...
ListenDating: Red Flags & Pink Flags, Settling vs Compromising from 2019-03-31T22:34:46
Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're unpacking the subtle differences between red flags and pink flags. AND, we're dissecting where t...
ListenMental Health, Toxic Activism, Friendship Boundaries & Depression from 2019-03-24T21:00:09
This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how can we create better boundaries in our friendships?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboand...
ListenWhat Would Bobo & Flex Do? l Virginity, Trauma & Awkwardness from 2019-03-21T21:00:19
Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything in between!DM us at @BoboAndFlex on IG or email us your dilemmas at boboandflex@gmail.com :)SUPP...
Listenhow is (toxic) feminism affecting your sex life? from 2019-03-17T22:00:08
This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives and we dissect the age-old 'spit or swallow' question. Also, trigger warning: Sexual TraumaLet us k...
Listendating broke men is not sustainable from 2019-03-10T20:02:48
Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable and what is the least problematic, dating etiquette :)Let us know your thoughts and let's continue...
ListenAnswering your questions about toxic friends, manifestation & dating white boys from 2019-03-03T21:22:03
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!Instagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobomatjila_Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYo...
ListenSex, Orgasms & Eating Ass from 2019-02-25T02:10:11
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook...
ListenFriendship + Social Media // Are You A Trash Friend? from 2019-02-18T02:06:01
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook...
ListenCancel Culture + Rape Culture // Is R Kelly Really Cancelled from 2019-02-10T17:41:41
Thank you for tuning in!(please excuse the sound issues)Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflex...
ListenDating Culture & Romance // Who Benefits From Romantic Love? from 2019-01-29T19:34:33
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook...
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