Why Creating An “Imagined Future” Is Sabotaging Your Shot At Long-Term Love - a podcast by Crista Beck

EP 48: In this episode, Crista talks about the differences between what we want to happen versus what actually happens. It's important that we understand these differences in order to find love.

It's not uncommon to see single women struggle with their dating life. We can't seem to find a guy who is anything like our ideal, and we're constantly questioning why this is the case. There are many reasons for this- but one of them might be that you're sabotaging your chance at long-term love by creating an "imagined future."  The way in which most people do this is by imagining what they think their lives will be like when they've found Mr. Right: where they'll live, what he'll do for a living, how many children there will be, etc. This “imagined future” can prevent you from truly seeing the man that you are dating. In order to make the best long-term decision of your life, you need to 100% see him, and not some fantasy you have created about him.

To learn more about Crista Beck’s work and the resources mentioned in this episode click here: https://cristabeck.com/why-creating-an-imagined-future-is-sabotaging-your-shot-at-long-term-love/

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