One SHARP Woman - a podcast by Lewis Marsh

Wise Up!

Part 3: One S.H.A.R.P. Woman

by Louie Marsh, 11-5-2023

 

Intro. Biblical Wisdom is a moral rather than an intellectual quality. To be "foolish" is to be godless; wisdom is man's approach to life, arising out his life in the covenant bestowed by God... wisdom is the teaching of a personal God who is holy and just and who expects those who know him to exhibit his character in the many practical affairs of life.

 

Pictures – last one text about wise woman.

 

Biblical wisdom shown in a little know story about a wise woman in a difficult situation.

 

S - SEIZE the Initiative

 

“¹⁶Then a wise woman called from the city, “Listen! Listen! Tell Joab, ‘Come here, that I may speak to you.’ ”” (2 Samuel 20:16, ESV)

 

“⁷a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;” (Ecclesiastes 3:7, ESV)

 

1)    2 extremes to avoid - speaking too soon - brashly shooting your mouth off

2)    being to passive never saying anything!

 

H - HAVE  a Respectful Attitude

 

“¹⁷And he came near her, and the woman said, “Are you Joab?” He answered, “I am.” Then she said to him, “Listen to the words of your servant.” And he answered, “I am listening.”” (2 Samuel 20:17, ESV)

 

“¹⁷Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor.” (1 Peter 2:17, ESV)

 

1)    There is a time to be blunt, but it’s usually NOT when I want too!

2)    The more I want to let someone have it - the less likely it is that that’s the wise choice!         

 

A - APPRECIATE  the Consequences

 

“¹⁸Then she said, “They used to say in former times, ‘Let them but ask counsel at Abel,’ and so they settled a matter. ¹⁹I am one of those who are peaceable and faithful in Israel. You seek to destroy a city that is a mother in Israel. Why will you swallow up the heritage of the Lord?”” (2 Samuel 20:18–19, ESV)

 

“⁷Remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God. Consider the outcome of their way of life, and imitate their faith.” (Hebrews 13:7, ESV)

 

“¹⁷For it is time for judgment to begin at the household of God; and if it begins with us, what will be the outcome for those who do not obey the gospel of God?” (1 Peter 4:17, ESV)

 

1) Remember the Law of Unintended Consequences!

 

R - RECOGNIZE  the Real Issue

 

“²¹That is not true. But a man of the hill country of Ephraim, called Sheba the son of Bichri, has lifted up his hand against King David. Give up him alone, and I will withdraw from the city.” And the woman said to Joab, “Behold, his head shall be thrown to you over the wall.”” (2 Samuel 20:21, ESV)

 

“²¹And Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” ²²Disheartened by the saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.” (Mark 10:21–22, ESV)

 

P - PRODUCE  what’s Needed

 

“²²Then the woman went to all the people in her wisdom. And they cut off the head of Sheba the son of Bichri and threw it out to Joab. So he blew the trumpet, and they dispersed from the city, every man to his home. And Joab returned to Jerusalem to the king.” (2 Samuel 20:22, ESV)

 

“⁵Whoever keeps a command will know no evil thing, and the wise heart will know the proper time and the just way. ⁶For there is a time and a way for everything, although man’s trouble lies heavy on him.” (Ecclesiastes 8:5–6, ESV)

 

S.H.A.R.P. towards PROBLEMS

 

S.H.A.R.P. towards RELATIONSHIPS

 

S.H.A.R.P. towards YOUR CHILDREN

 

I usually don’t say much about raising kids - since God in His infinite wisdom has seen fit to make sure I don’t pollute the gene pool! But in this case I will. Last 2 weeks we seen the best way to keep kids off drugs is to give them hope and church!

 

But many Baby Boomer parents report in surveys they feel hopeless about stopping their kids from using drugs! Not True! You can make a difference - if you’ll be S.H.A.R.P.!!

 

S.H.A.R.P. towards GOD

 

S - God has already taken the initiative - you must now seize the moment and respond!

H - Have a respectful attitude - that’s repentance for our sins!

A - Look at the consequences - both good and bad!

R - Recognize the real issue - It’s not politics, evolution, or a hundred other things - it’s our standing before God and our eternal destiny!

P - Produce what’s needed - by giving you life to Jesus Christ!!

 

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