257: How to Manage Former Peers, with Tom Henschel - a podcast by Dave Stachowiak

Tom Henschel: The Look&Sound of Leadership
Tom Henschel of Essential Communications grooms senior leaders and executive teams. An internationally recognized expert in the field of workplace communications and self-presentation, he has helped thousands of leaders achieve excellence through his work as an executive coach and his top-rated podcast, The Look&Sound of Leadership.
Key PointsThere is a certain amount of fear involved in a promotion over peers.
The situation has feelings attached to it.People’s reactions will be based on a bell curve, with most people not caring, but with a few being either really happy or really unhappy.
What group will you focus on?Don’t take things personally.
Have intentional conversations with your former peers to acknowledge that feelings are there and to listen to how they feel.Resources Mentioned

The First 90 Days* by Michael WatkinsSelf-Esteem at Work* by Nathaniel Branden
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem* by Nathaniel BrandenThe Look&Sound of Leadership podcast

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