Podcasts by Conversations With The Fit Priest

ASK SELEMA: GETTING APPROACHED from 2023-10-30T00:17:20

In this episode, I talk about getting approached as a woman who is ready to date but isn’t getting the attention you want or desire.

ASK SELEMA: Dating, vetting and Questions from 2023-10-29T23:43:13

In this episode, I answer questions asked on Instagram and drop some dating game you didn’t know happens during vetting.

WHY I CHOSE HIM (PART 4) from 2023-07-15T22:08:40

Join me as I have a conversation with Lydia (my first ever client) about her marriage with her wonderful husband and why she chose him. Lydia is Christian and she’s married to a Muslim. I wanted to...

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 3) from 2023-07-09T12:34:45

Come with me on the Journey of why Dr.Vivian chose her husband. As usual this series is to expose why different people make the choice to forever and their thought process behind it. Romantic partn...

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 2) from 2023-02-25T02:19:25

Come with me on the journey of Mrs Ruth Joseph who is a Christian married to an atheist as she tells her story of how they met, why she chose him and what it feels like to have a spouse who doesn’t...

DATING ADVICE: MODERN DATING 1 from 2022-09-13T01:49:32

In this episode I talk about modern dating and my new speed dating spaces on twitter.

ABANDONMENT ISSUES & LIFE UPDATE from 2022-06-29T23:41:32

In this episode, I talk about abandonment issues and what it births. Then I give a brief update about where I’m at in life. Enjoy!

PROVISION from 2022-06-01T01:23:37

In this episode we talk about the full meaning of provision in partnerships and what women need to look out for more. We discuss vetting men based on other things other than financial provision and...

I LOVE YOU from 2022-04-30T16:20:24

I love you is one of the most used three letter sentences in the world. In this episode, I talk a little about how I’ve come to understand it.

THE PRODIGAL YEAR from 2022-03-15T14:57:51

In this episode I talk about struggling with life, faith, existence and everything in between my struggle. I expose questioning my why for abstinence, God and the path that led me down to wandering...

BEING HOMELESS from 2022-02-14T22:18:23

On this episode, Ada and I talk about living together. We hope you have a few laughs. Happy Valentine’s Day!

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 1) from 2022-01-14T20:11:06

This is going to be a series with a few episodes in it. In this episode we talk to Enkay Umeh who is a lawyer about marriage, deal breakers, experience and why she chose who she chose.

HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSARY from 2021-11-30T23:16:50

We begin the new Season with contributions from a few of you about what you like about the podcast, why you listen and how it’s helped you.

SINGLENESS: JOURNEYING from 2021-08-01T14:46:32

In this episode Eketti, Amarachi and I discuss the highs, lessons, lows and everything in between about being a single Christian that is abstaining.

LOVETH AND POETRY from 2021-07-21T15:18:51

In this episode I sit down with an amazing poet Loveth and talk about her art, she performs a bit of her work and tells us about her journey so far.

27, CELIBATE AND LEARNING (Part 2) from 2021-07-14T17:42:08

In this episode Eketti and I talk about celibacy, learning as you grow and everything in between.

I USED TO BE MUSLIM from 2021-06-24T14:03:09

In this episode Musty and I talk about conversion. His journey to Christ, being and growing up Muslim, telling his family about his new faith and how difficult but rewarding it’s been to be Christian.

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 3 from 2021-03-27T12:02:24

In this episode I write another letter to My Future Husband about what turning 27 and healing.

27, Celibate and Growing. (Part 1) from 2021-03-04T23:13:53

In this episode Adanna and I talk about getting older, being celibate and things we’ve learnt. There’s a Q&A in this podcast about me being celibate. Enjoy!

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 2 from 2020-12-09T18:31:34

These letters follow my journey of confronting myself, healing, loss and the final admittance of how I really feel. Enjoy!

RAGE from 2020-11-15T07:32:26

In this episode Ada and I talk about Rage, loss and the rage that comes with loss. We are completely broken open in this episode about different points in our lives. We have another special guest a...

THE CONVERSATION from 2020-08-04T10:00:22

In this episode I get a couple of people to contribute on a conversation that I think is long overdue.

DATING 101 from 2020-07-12T17:11:16

In this episode I get different submissions from a couple of awesome people on what dating is, share real time conversation with a friend and drop some gist of my past dating career lol.

FAITH, STYLE AND ‘WHAT’S TYPICAL’. from 2020-06-25T23:31:18

This episode is sponsored by BLESSED AFRIQUE. We talk about having style and being a Christian. What a ‘typical’ Christian needs to look like and if there is even something like a ‘typical’ Christi...

DO YOU LIKE YOUR PARTNER? from 2020-06-15T14:07:32

In this episode I talk about liking a person for their individuality and not for how they make you feel. My aim is to help you go on a path of introspection and step out of the bubble of selfishnes...

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND from 2020-05-17T17:31:42

In this episode I bring season 2 to an end and I share some of the letters in my Dear future husband collection.

THE LONE WOLF from 2020-04-20T20:14:02

In this episode I talk about the importance of community and how the faith walk was never meant to be done alone.

EFFORT IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE from 2020-04-16T17:30:24

In this episode I talk about simple ways you can make an effort the partners you’re with or intending to be with. A lot of times it’s not about the amount of money you spend, it’s about the gesture...

JO DEEP’s SALVATION STORY from 2020-03-21T17:00:08

In this episode I got Jo deep to tell josh and I his salvation story from beginning. When I first heard parts of it I thought it was really interesting and I wanted you guys to hear it too.

SUBMISSION from 2020-03-19T13:30

In this episode I talk to Jo deep and Joshua about Submission as described in the Bible. We go further to explain the text in detail and throw more light on why it is important to understand the te...

LET’S TALK SEX from 2020-03-07T23:43:07

In this episode I talk about having the important conversations while you’re dating and knowing what the next steps are in a situation where your partner or you have had a colorful past and your id...

WHY DO YOU WANT MARRIAGE? Part 1 from 2020-02-23T17:06:41

In this episode Joshua and I try and explain, break down what the intention for marriage was, what it should be, the primary reason to do it and fully understanding love. I wanted to show the persp...

Marriage, Sex and Love. from 2020-02-21T17:05:13

In this episode Josh is back!!! We talk about marriage and sex the right way. From the perspective of how it was created by Abba. The idea of this episode was to help young Christians understand so...

INTIMACY AND ITS FORMS from 2020-02-13T19:14:01

In this episode I discuss the different forms of intimacy and how there are so many bridges to cross before you get to physical intimacy.

“RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONE SIDED” from 2020-02-08T15:14:37

In this episode I talk about how selfish a lot of women are in relationships and how there needs to be alot of unlearning and growth if we’re going to exist in mutually beneficial relationships.

“I AM NOT A CREATIVE” from 2020-01-31T20:00:23

In this episode I have a conversation with Fisayo about creativity, struggling to find your voice and what being a creative really means. Enjoy!

A PRAYER from 2020-01-19T23:27:15

Happy New Year Guys! In this episode I say a prayer, talk about the 100 questions book, and drop my latest announcement.

AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE. PART 2 from 2019-12-31T08:00:09

I found my lost files!!! This episode with Mayo was supposed to come out a long time ago but this just might be perfect timing. We are going into a new year and so many people are still crippled by...

Conversations With The Fit Priest (Trailer) from 2019-12-09T22:28:23

CELIBACY from 2019-11-19T23:00:42

In this episode Pauline and I have an honest conversation about celibacy, navigating this Christian journey as a celibate Christian and understanding your why.

RELATIONSHIPS AND STANDARDS from 2019-11-14T23:00:52

In this episode i have a conversation with Ruth Dania and Michael osai about standards in relationships. Platonic and romantic. We share a few personal stories and break down what bare minimum need...

EVERYDAY JOSHUA AND I from 2019-11-14T08:26:40

Josh and i were having a normal conversation and we literally hit record because so many gems were being dropped. It’s my most random podcast yet.

HOW I GOT SAVED- JOSHUA’S STORY from 2019-11-12T23:00

In this episode i have a sit down with Joshua and he breaks open about his journey to finding Jesus. We have an open conversation about salvation, faith, finding Jesus and love. We had so much fun ...

CHRISTIANS AND FITNESS: STORY TIME from 2019-11-11T09:25:08

In this episode i talk about Christians being self righteous when it comes to fitness and trying to play ojota holy spirit by condemning me to hell for being a personal trainer.

AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE PART 1. from 2019-10-26T17:08:35

In this episode I have a conversation with the CEO Of BodyRox Fitness Studios Abuja, Mayo Okunnu. In a generation that feels they have to rush wealth and have everything figured out immediately it ...

DATE NIGHT 1 from 2019-10-22T10:50:08

I feel like people are forgetting just how much effort needs to be put into dating. More so, they seem to be running out of ideas on what a date needs to be. A lot of times we focus on having fancy...

CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 2 from 2019-10-18T22:56:44

In this episode Pauline takes us deeper into what mental health is and her personal struggle. She breaks open on this episode and snatched some edges.

CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 1 from 2019-10-17T20:00:36

In this episode I have a special guest. My friend and therapist Pauline. She talks about mental health, support systems and she breaks open with her own personal struggle. This episode will be in t...

THE WOMAN IN THE MIRROR from 2019-10-11T20:00:45

In this episode I share some of my poetry and explain what this piece meant to me and why I wrote it. I believe that at some point a lot of us have been the woman in the mirror.

THE “GOOD” CHRISTIAN from 2019-10-10T22:59

There’s a lot of belief among Christians that if they were “Good” enough and performed all their obligations correctly they’ll be on Jesus’ good side and hopefully can go to heaven. Let’s have this...

PILOT EPISODE from 2019-10-09T21:34:50

Hey guys! Welcome to my podcast. Join me as we talk about relationships, love, faith, navigating adulthood, purpose and everything inbetween.