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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”
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Season 1 Episode 1: She loves me, She loves me not. from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.436718
Kurt talks about a roller coaster relationship with many mixed messages. We talk about effective communication between men and women. We also discuss the extent of fighting for your relationship an...
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Season 1 Episode 2: DTF? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.405615
Shirley spills about a sexual text message she received from a guy she met online. This leads to a discussion around being upfront with intentions. And of course, does it matter when you sleep toge...
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Season 1 Episode 3: The Mushroom Trick from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.401903
One of our hosts, Michael, tells his own story about using a mushroom to pick up a woman (yes, this surprised us too!). We talk about being present and taking chances in dating. We also discuss in...
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Season 1 Episode 4: The $600 Dinner from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.398688
Sasha talks about getting stood up for a date and how she benefited from this later. This brings us to the discussion around flakiness and being honest in dating. We also talk about standing up for...
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Season 1 Episode 6: First Move from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.395590
KiYonna brings a conversation with her cousin about women making the first move. We talk about gender roles and how modern dating has gotten more judgmental.
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Season 1 Episode 5: Frozen Eggs from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.392093
John tells us about his setup with an older woman from a matchmaker. We discuss the importance of life-stage in relationships and preconceptions around age.
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Season 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and Date from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.388512
One of our hosts, Yue, spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans.
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Season 2 Episode 10: Confessions of a Matchmaker from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.384266
Courteney Kay, founder of Sparx and formerly at Dating Ring and Grouper, shares what it's like to be a modern day matchmaker. We get her inside scoop along top traits people look for in a pa...
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Season 1 Episode 8: Market Research from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.380359
Tan tells us about his date turned psychology study. We talk about being clear on intentions and ditching the small talk on first dates. We also talk about the benefits of meeting people outside of...
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Season 1 Episode 9: Are We Or Aren't We? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.375429
Jessica tells us about her quote unquote “relationship” that spanned over 10 months with a guy that would never commit. We talk about setting the precedent of how you want to be treated and how yo...
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Season 1 Episode 10: Are you opposed to hooking up? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.372286
In our season finale, Robert tells us about his social experiment about sending hookup messages to 20 women on Tinder. We discuss how one night stands can leave you empty and the impact of male/fem...
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Season 2 Episode 1: The Blind Date from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.369130
Yue goes on a blind date riding a Scoot Quad around the city. Her date, Matt, comes on air and we hear both of their impressions of the date. When have you ever gotten real feedback from a date? Sp...
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Season 2 Episode 2: Lost in Translation from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.366128
Ketan gets deep about a heartbreak that ends with his girlfriend packing her bags on their trip to Italy. We talk about complexities in relationships such as fixating on the future, missing red fla...
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Season 2 Episode 3: 2 Year Ghost from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.362483
Katie tells us about a guy she dated for 2 months that ghosted after a crazy adventure trip. And then he returned 2 years later only to ghost again! We discuss the reasons someone may flake, how to...
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Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.359079
Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills...
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Season 2 Episode 5: Plus One from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.353226
Marissa discusses dating a man with kids and her change of perception as she gets older. We discuss the intricacies it brings to relationships, the different struggles of single dads vs single moms...
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Season 2 Episode 6: Double Booked from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.348223
Alan takes us on a wild ride through his dating life including a story that happens during the recording. We talk about dating strategies, sex, finding the right person with great abs, more sex, an...
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Season 2 Episode 7: Can't Hurry Love from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.343147
Jake tells us about a Tinder date that got aggressive fast. We discuss it all here: interpretations of dates, texting aftermath, ways to vet online dates, men turning down sex, and how to know if y...
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Season 2 Episode 8: Hey Heartbreak from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.338086
Elle, the founder of Mend, talks to us about the most painful part of relationships: heartbreak. She knows all about this topic as the foun...
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Season 2 Episode 9: How far would you go for love? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.302027
Xavier tells us about the lengths he took to be with the girl he loved including moving from San Francisco to China to New York, and entering into an open relationship per her request. We discuss m...
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Season 2 Episode 11: Mr. Marina from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.297050
Mark (aka Mr. Marina 2016) talks his best and worst dates ever. We talk about respecting others time, the importance of a raw connection, and dating as the bro of all bros. Lesson learned: Marina ...
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Season 2 Episode 12: A league of her own – Part 1 from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.292333
Amanda Bradford talks about dating as the founder of The League. We discuss the reasons she created the app and dive into changing gender roles in society. We also hear about her own dating life as...
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Season 2 Episode 13: A league of her own – Part 2 from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.287447
Amanda Bradford, founder of the League, continues our conversation about the inner workings of the app. We hear about your league score, how to get off the long waiting list, and what happened when...
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Season 2 Episode 14: 24 apps and counting from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.282221
MIkka tells us about using her 24 dating apps to date anywhere and everywhere including traveling to Portland, her latest hotspot, for dates. We talk about integrating dating into your life, refres...
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Season 2 Episode 15: Love, Sex, and Burning Man with Matteson Perry from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.277292
Matteson Perry,, author of Available: A Memoir of Heartbreak, Hookups, Love and Brunch, tells us about his plan to be single for year and casually date tons women. We discuss how this leads to true...
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Season 2 Episode 16: A beautiful breakup from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.272723
Julieann tells us about a serendipitous love story that becomes her most life changing relationship despite ending in a breakup. We discuss relationships as our biggest teachers and how forever ...
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Season 3 Episode 1: You are someone I just have to meet from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.268127
In our Season 3 premiere, Spencer and Carolyn tell us the story about how they met IRL and became a pretty instant couple. We talk about what attracted them to one another, the progression to an ac...
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Season 3 Episode 2: So I met him at Bar None... from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.263701
Rachel shares a ridiculous story from her past that starts by meeting at Bar None and results in getting kicked off the MUNI. We talk about getting drunk on dates, alternative date spots to bars, a...
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Season 3 Episode 3: Dating on a Whim from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.258901
Yue tells us about her own first date using the app Whim. Eve Peters, the founder and CEO, interviews Yue and Andrew separately to hear their impressions of one another and how they cut through the...
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Season 3 Episode 4: The Orgy Dome from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.253741
Chris tells us about his experience at the Orgy Dome at Burning Man and how it impacts his outlook on sex and dating. We talk about how “play” translates to all relationships ranging from the most ...
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Season 3 Episode 5: Love Lyft from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.248562
Nay tells us about how she met her boyfriend of 2 years as the passenger in his Lyft! We talk about taking risks, making the first move as a woman, and seizing the opportunity. So take off the head...
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Season 3 Episode 6: Dating the CEO of a Startup from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.243302
Josh talks about dating as a CEO of a successful startup and how it's not all unicorns and rainbows. We talk about what happens when you are married to your job, the sacrifices you make to run ...
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Season 3 Episode 7: The Dating Experiment from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.238166
Linda tells us about a little ‘dating app’ experiment she did that didn’t get her as many dates as expected. We discuss why her first message may have backfired, problems with the ‘swipe culture’, ...
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Season 3 Episode 8: Married with Options from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.201113
Ben and Kate talk about being polyamorous while married to one another. They talk about the differences compared to open relationships, how they got started in polyamory, and their guidelines for d...
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Season 3 Episode 9: Yellow Fever from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.198912
Dan talks about his love for Asian women as a white male. We also have Eric, an Asian male, who prefers to date white women. We talk about why they gravitate to opposite races, cultural differences...
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Season 3 Episode 10:"Double"Date from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.195858
Ariel tells us how she learned something very unexpected about her new guy...and all from her best friend matching with him on Tinder. We discuss recognizing there is a ton you don't know about...
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Season 3 Episode 11: Open Relationships from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.191625
Chris discusses consensual non-monogamy and how open relationships differ from polyamory. We talk about the necessity of communication and boundaries while navigating jealousy and other things that...
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Season 3 Episode 12: Dating Profile Dish from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.188657
We teamed up with Lively, a new video dating app from Zoosk, to do a little dating profile. Our panel talks about all the do’s and don’ts of profile pics, their change of perspective with videos...
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Season 3 Episode 13: Masterbacon from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.185759
Megan from Meet Foxie tells us about a guy she dated long distance with a freaky food fetish. She shares one of her letters declaring his fantasy involving her, eggs, and bacon. We discuss turn-ons...
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Season 3 Episode 14: Dating Fatigue from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.182640
Andrew tells us about his many dates over the last 8 years in SF, where not even one has turned into a real relationship. We talk about how technology has made us pass quicker, judge faster (thanks...
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Season 3 Episode 15: Let's Make Apps and Babies from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.179456
Connie tells us about her dating history and how she just wants to make apps and babies - so much that she froze her eggs. We talk about the process, common questions from both men and women, and h...
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Season 3 Episode 16: Full Disclosure from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.175189
David shares a story where things wouldn’t progress sexually with a girl he was seeing - resulting in a shocking discovery. We discuss when to disclose secrets or anything unusual and how unexpecte...
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Season 3 Episode 17: Against the Rules from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.171939
Kate and Boris tell us how they ditched all the dating rules - including Kate being on JDate as a non-jew - and found true love. We discuss exchanging messages to being engaged and all the defin...
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Season 4 Episode 1: Dating in the Dark from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.167407
Julie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- g...
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Season 4 Episode 2: #Millennial from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.164051
Harrison talks about dating as a #millennial. We talk about his facebook live dating experiment, stepping up your emoji game, and differences between the 20 something and the 30 something dater....
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Season 4 Episode 3: Dating as a Muslim Woman from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.159232
Amal tells us about dating as a Muslim and Arab woman, especially during the Trump Presidency and Muslim Ban. We talk about dating outside her race and religion, the challenges it may bring, and ho...
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Season 4 Episode 4: Levels of DTR from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.156350
Aaron tells us about his bold move to meet a guy through the ‘People You May Know’ section of Facebook. This leads to discussions about what it really means to define the relationship, commit, and ...
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Season 4 Episode 5: The Bathroom Bail from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.153308
Melissa talks about her date’s ultimate disappearing act - while they were out on an actual date. We discuss the importance of communication, who should pay for the date, how your mood can impact t...
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Season 4 Episode 6: Perceptions and Misconceptions from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.150369
Sheel tells us about what he's looking for and ideal qualities of a partner - all while we talk about the perception he may be giving off on social media. We discuss judgements made from facebo...
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Season 4 Episode 7: Making Moves IRL from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.147186
Taylor tells us how she is an anomaly to modern dating - ditching apps for the real life approach. We talk about doing this in a non-aggressive way, getting over rejection, pick up lines that aren’...
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Season 4 Episode 8: Love in the Air(bnb) from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.144169
Li and Chris tell us how they met through Airbnb when Chris visited SF from Germany. We talk about their whirlwind romance that lead to marriage, the importance of timing, overcoming challenges of ...
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Season 4 Episode 9: Young, Broke&Beautiful with Broke-ass Stuart from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.140841
Stuart aka Broke-Ass Stuart tells us what it’s like to date as an ‘SF Cult hero” in a city where you’re bound to run into an ex or two. We talk about breaking up with dignity, the issues with ghost...
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Season 4 Episode 10: The System from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.137242
Jenny walks us through her system of dating multiple people at once now that she is back in the dating scene after being married. We discuss dating strategies, how your perspective changes once you...
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Season 4 Episode 11: Crazy Festival Wives from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.102521
Bryant tells about one of his former “festival wives” that may have gone a little crazy through text messaging. We talk about why women get the “crazy” label, how to read the signs of interest, and...
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Season 4 Episode 12: Rope Bondage from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.099611
Eva shares what it’s like to be part of the BDSM community - specifically being into rope bondage. We discuss getting introduced to kink, what happens in a scene, how BDSM doesn’t always involve se...
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Season 4 Episode 13: The Support Male from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.096705
Don discusses changing male gender roles and being a ‘support’ male in a city filled with independent, alpha females. We talk about men’s career ambition vs being a stay-at-home dad, the recognitio...
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Season 4 Episode 14: Going with the Flo from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.094249
Flo and Dylan tell us about their relationship that was anything but love at first sight when they met at a silent disco. We discuss meeting when the time is right, deviating from your “type”, givi...
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Season 4 Episode 15: Empire Swipe of Mind from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.091478
Jake and Nathan tell us about their experience with dating apps – in SF vs. NY. We discuss how women present themselves differently, ratios playing into the dating culture, gender dynamics in each...
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Season 4 Episode 16: Why You Cannot Find"The One" from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.088304
Heidi Isern tells us why you cannot find 'the one” – and why hunting for that person is just too much pressure. We talk about how to navigate in a mirage of endless options, what it means to ‘s...
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Season 4 Episode 17: My Journey to be a Better Man from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.084885
Dave tells us about his evolution from being a serial dater to an engaged, one woman man. We discuss becoming the best version of yourself, how that correlates to attracting the right type of partn...
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The Why Series: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.080077
Introducing 'The Why' Series, where we answer some of the top listener questions and dating conundrums. The first question: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything?...
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The Why Series: Why do people flake or ghost even after a great date? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.077237
The reality is that ghosting and flaking are all too common in today’s dating culture. We've all been there – that great date that turns into radio silence or a last minute cancellation never t...
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The Why Series: Why can't I meet people in real life? from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.074450
On this episode of the premium ‘Why Series’, we discuss why it’s so hard to meet people IRL and what we can do about it. We give you tips and tactics to start conversations, expand your network, an...
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Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part I) from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.071037
We’ll check in with some of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including some marriages, breakups, and reappearances. ...
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Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part II) from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.068173
We’ll check in with some more of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including some new relationships, opening lines, a...
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Bonus: Check in with Past Guests (Part III) from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.065238
We’ll check in with some more of your favorite past guests for an update since their episode aired. We’ll hear about what’s changed in their lives including new dating techniques, emoji's, and ...
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Season 5 Episode 1: The Secret to Dating in Modern Times from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.062897
Ned drops the secret of dating successfully in a city where our attention is scattered and options are plentiful. We discuss the impact of technology, urban elite cities, and how to navigate throug...
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Season 5 Episode 2: Every. Body. Beautiful. from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.060015
Natalie Carey, author of Every. Body. Beautiful, tells us about her decades-long battle with body image. We discuss overcoming the struggles for both women AND men, learning to appreciate your body...
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Season 5 Episode 3: An insider's look into the pickup community from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.056868
Confidence & Social Intelligence Coach DJ Fuji talks about the origins of the “pickup artist" subculture and the stark difference in its media portrayal. We get a look into this community,...
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Season 5 Episode 4: Yes, I have herpes from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.051816
Dr. Sheila Loanzon shares her own personal experience contracting herpes and how she got back to a place of self-love and acceptance. We dig into the facts about STDs, the stigma they present, and ...
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Season 5 Episode 5: Getting out of the Friend Zone from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.048859
Chris and Amy how they moved from a platonic friendship to being engaged. We talk about how to get out of the friend zone, what changed in their relationship, being open to the possibilities, and t...
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Season 5 Episode 6: Relationship (In)Experience from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.043919
Ben tells us about his lack of relationship experience and the impact it's had on his dating life. We discuss recognizing any form of experience as experience, building up your confidence, and ...
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Season 5 Episode 7: I am not throwing away my shot from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.040559
MK tells us how she quickly let out her quirky side when she first started dated her now-boyfriend by sending a photo dressed in full-out Hamilton gear. We talk about being your authentic self in d...
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Season 5 Episode 8: Empire (Swipe of Mind) Strikes Back from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.035054
Jena and Kat share their reactions to our most controversial episode yet, Empire Swipe of Mind from Season 4, with Jake back in the studio. They share their opinions about the male: female ratio, J...
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Season 5 Episode 9: Love+Money from 2023-12-14T06:29:39.002057
Joe from Gavazza Wealth Management talks to us about money management from the start of dating to building a life with another person. We discuss assessing your financial compatibility, having the ...
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Season 5 Episode 10: Breadcrumbing from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.999188
Farrah tells us about how she is constantly being breadcrumbed by men with little bits of attention and hope, but not the real deal. We discuss why this may be happening, how to prevent it, and way...
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Season 5 Episode 11: Do Millennials want love? with David Cruz from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.995938
David Cruz from Millionaire Matchmaker, Finding Cupid, and Three Day Rule talks to us about love and romance with Millennials. We discuss using technology as a bridge, the InstaGen effect, modern ...
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Season 5 Episode 12: Dating with Tourette from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.993771
Chelsea White talks to us about dating with Tourette syndrome and the details of this disorder beyond its media portrayal. We talk about how her ticks play into her dating/sex life, the impact on r...
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Season 5 Episode 13: 1000 divorces from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.991160
Erik from Together Guide tells us about what keeps couples together and what brings them apart – from the perspective of a former divorce lawyer. We discuss marriage, reasons for divorce, the phase...
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Season 5 Episode 14: Three's Company from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.988365
Jupiter, Dylan, and Sean share with us their experience being in a triad relationship. We discuss what this actually means, the dynamics between the three of them, the logistics of dates and events...
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Season 5 Episode 15: In Sickness and in Health from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.985667
Judy and Pablo tell us about their experience with Pablo battling cancer and the impact it had on their relationship. We discuss what commitment really means, how to truly be there for your partner...
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Season 5 Episode 16: Just Say Yes from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.982922
Sheryl talks to us about a shift of attitude that instrumentally changed her dating life – and ultimately led her to her husband. We discuss the importance of energy and being approachable, the ben...
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BONUS: Tech&Dating with Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.980211
Coffee Meets Bagel, The League, Luvidya, and Three Day Rule join us at General Assembly where these industry experts tell us the best ways to navigate the paradox of choice, messaging black hole, s...
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Season 6 Episode 1: The Great Love Debate In Every State from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.977654
Brian Howie from the Great Love Debate shares with us what he’s learned from talking to single men and women across the US and beyond. We discuss the differences between cities, the overarching iss...
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Season 6 Episode 2: When Dating IS Your Job from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.975045
Meredith from The League tells us what it’s like being a dating professional by day and actual dater by night – and how through that process she met someone awesome. We discuss optimizing dates for...
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Season 6 Episode 3: The Player Meets His Match from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.972527
Josh shares how he mastered all the pickup techniques from The Game only to end up with Megan, a dating coach, who told him to loose all the lines. We discuss trying new ways to meet people, gainin...
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Season 6 Episode 4: Weeding them out from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.969744
Heidi, founder of Cannabis Tours and Puff, Pass, Paint, tells us about her slew of weird dates as we figure out why this may be happening to her. We discuss how your dating profile may be represent...
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Season 6 Episode 5: An Unexpected Ride from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.967009
Chris tells us about his chance encounter that led to meeting his girlfriend in an Uber, while sharing his personal journey to becoming boyfriend material. We discuss looking inward opposed to blam...
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Season 6 Episode 6: The List from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.964360
Kirra tells us about her project, The List, where she interviews and photographs all the women her friend “K” has slept with to paint a picture of him through the eyes of his former lovers. We disc...
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Season 6 Episode 7: A Foreign Way of Dating from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.962159
Quino shares his struggles with modern dating culture of dating multiple people at once. We talk about the differences in US dating culture vs other countries, the universal problems many face, and...
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Season 6 Episode 8: Open to being Open from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.959432
Jasmine tells us about being in an open relationship from the perspective of someone that never thought about non-monogamy before. We discuss making your own rules in dating, why different relation...
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Season 6 Episode 9: Gender Blender from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.955807
Ariel, founder of Gender Illumination, shares what it’s like to date as someone trans, gender queer, and gender non-conforming. We discuss her own personal journey, all the terms and pronouns, cha...
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Season 6 Episode 10: F*CK Tinder from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.951556
David tells us about his experience with Tinder that resulted in many dates, many stories, and ultimately the creation of F*ck Tinder: a love story. We talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of...
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Season 6 Episode 11: Diaper Fetish from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.948698
Samantha shares her reaction about being propositioned for a diaper fetish and what was actually involved. We talk about different fetishes, how to respond when someone shares a desire that may see...
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Season 6 Episode 12: Romance ISN'T Dead from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.943884
Brian and Jakara aka Team BJ tell us about their elaborate engagement proposal and how they got together – including the hurdles that came their way. We discuss the importance of courage, how to ha...
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Season 6 Episode 13: The White Horse from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.940880
Lori shares how she prefers to date Asian men as a white woman and how she has been the “white horse” even in the US. We talk about cultural perceptions, the differences between healthy interracial...
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Season 6 Episode 14: So I went to a sex party... from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.935522
Natalie takes us through her first experience at a sex party where we recorded an Organ House event and talked with other partygoers as well. We discuss what brings people to this community, why a ...
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Season 6 Episode 15: Meeting your half-orange from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.902048
Amy Spencer, the author of Meeting your Half Orange, shares how she rewired her way of thinking with dating optimism to attract her perfect other half. We talk about what you put out into the unive...
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Season 7 Episode 1: 2 Blind Dates from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.899054
Shelby shares her experience going on two blind dates with Matt and Beau and we also hear their perspectives. We talk about the impressions you give off on a date, ways to form a deeper connection,...
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Season 7 Episode 2: What it means to be a man from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.896081
Mark Greene from the Good Men Project, Remaking Manhood, and Think Play Partners talks to us about the evolving definition of masculinity. We discuss expanding the traditional “rules” of being a ma...
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Season 7 Episode 3: Therapy for a Therapist from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.892866
Dr Rachel shares what it’s like dating as a therapist and gets real about her own mishaps in dating which has allowed for her to practice what she preaches. We discuss breaking patterns, the import...
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Season 7 Episode 4: Diaper Fetish Part 2 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.890295
David responds to our episode last season about adult baby diaper lovers as someone with the fetish. We discuss what exactly goes down, why it's such a turn on, how to broach the subject to a s...
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Season 7 Episode 5: Marathon Dater from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.887400
Eliza tells us about her intense 24 hour date that fizzled just as quickly. We discuss the false sense of intimacy after a long date, how to keep your expectations in check, the difference between ...
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Season 7 Episode 6: $25K Reward for Love from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.884929
Ricky shares why he offering a [now] $25k reward to find his beloved. We discuss a radically different approach, the importance of character in a match, and having the confidence that it’ll happ...
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Season 7 Episode 7: Dating as a Black Woman from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.882074
Yelitsa and Sofaya tell us the struggles of dating as black women in modern times. We discuss racial discrimination in online dating, the judgment formed from extreme stereotypes, and the impact of...
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Season 7 Episode 8: Friends with (other) benefits from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.877885
Bobby shares how he stays friends with girls he meets on dating apps – and also their current boyfriends. We discuss why being the “nice guy” can lead to dating fatigue, how to date with conviction...
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Season 7 Episode 9: Rewriting the Rules Part 1 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.874624
Margot tells us about her new approach to finding love and how she’s breaking the “rules” of dating. We discuss social constructs that disadvantage women, how to cut through the BS of dates that do...
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Season 7 Episode 10: Rewriting the Rules Part 2 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.872089
Margot is back to share the most surprising and awesome twist in her love life: how she has fallen in love with a woman – with her girlfriend Elisa. We discuss being open to finding love in differe...
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Season 7 Episode 11: Do nice guys finish last? with Tripp Kramer of Tripp Advice from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.869363
Tripp from Tripp Advice and the "How To Talk to Girls" podcast talks to us about the “nice guy” syndrome and how to confidently meet and attract women. We discuss why being nice isn’t enoug...
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Season 7 Episode 12: Rock Bottom from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.865247
Melissa shares a disastrous hookup story that made her re-examine her dating life and realize it was time for a change. We discuss the importance of self-respect, not letting others control your em...
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Season 7 Episode 13: Do Unicorns exist? from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.862292
Ellis and Charlotte share their experiences dating a couple where they were the ones entering the relationship as the third. We discuss the terminology of unicorns and unicorn hunters, how percepti...
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Season 7 Episode 14: Nothing to Lose from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.859040
Amanda shares how she took her dating life into her own hands by making the first move with men. We talk about low-risk yet bold ways to approach in real life, taking initiative on dating apps, and...
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Season 7 Episode 15: The Average Joe from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.856257
Vince talks to us about his experience from the deep end of the dating pool as a middle-aged short guy with no game. We talk about how men also face societal pressures with their looks, how to make...
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Season 7 Episode 16: At My Service from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.853562
Ms. Emilie tells us what it’s like to be a pro dominatrix and how she transitioned from software engineer into this role. We discuss the range of services of a dom, the reasons and motivations of p...
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Season 7 Episode 17: Mental Health&Dating from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.849951
Jonathan from Reflect talks to us about the impact of mental health when it comes to dating and relationships. We talk about the change in stigma over the years, how anxiety and depression show up ...
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Season 7 Episode 18: Just Keep Going from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.846360
Valerie tells us how she met her now-husband Rob first online, only never to meet, and then reconnected with him through a chance encounter. We talk about persistence when you are dating, the paths...
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Season 7 Episode 19: Venmo John Tells All from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.843388
John Graham from the Bachelor in Paradise and the Bachelorette tells us what it’s like to date on reality TV.. We talk about what really happens behind the scenes, life dating before the show, and ...
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Season 7 Episode 20: The Manfunnel from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.838388
Megan Weks tells us how she started dating like a well-oiled machine which led to meeting and marrying her husband in less than a year. We discuss the “manfunnel” method, why linear dating can be...
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Season 7 Episode 21: Single and Lovin'it from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.804108
Robert, Jade, and Larry tell us why they love being single and how they embrace it instead of feeling societal pressure to settle down. We discuss the benefits of staying single, why it’s important...
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Season 7 Episode 22: Marriage 101 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.799332
Dr Alexandra Solomon shares how to build loving and lasting relationships from her popular course at Northwestern University: Marriage 101. We discuss navigating conflict in relationships, the chan...
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BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 1 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.794226
Tune in as we catch up with some of our past guests to hear about what's happening in their love lives. We chat with Shelby who we set up on a blind date in Season 7, Chris who met his girlfrie...
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BONUS: Check in with Past Guests Part 2 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.789270
Listen as we chat with more past guests about their dating lives. We talk to Kat who set out for new adventures abroad in Season 5, Sheel who's online persona didn't reflect his readiness i...
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BONUS: Top 5 Dating Resolutions for 2019 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.784624
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BONUS: Top 10 Date Ideas that aren't basic for 2019 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.779879
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Season 8 Episode 1: The Exit Interview from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.775313
Jason shares how he’s had hundreds of first dates that didn’t go anywhere – and will now hear live feedback from 5 of his past dates about why things didn’t progress. We discuss some simple ways to...
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Season 8 Episode 2: Gold Standard from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.770628
Caroline tells us about her first love that made such an impression on her that no one else can ever live up to it. We discuss why some people make such an impact, different types of love at differ...
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Season 8 Episode 3: PSA to Women from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.765268
Leon shares a PSA to women about how men will run all over them if they aren’t smart about dating. We discuss the tactics used to take advantage of a situation, discerning disingenuous from authent...
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Season 8 Episode 4: 8-year Friends with Benefits from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.759798
Julie and Andrew tell us about their 8-year journey from friends with benefits to a fully committed relationship. We discuss the evolutions that happen over time, navigating the ups and downs, and ...
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Season 8 Episode 5: Saved by the Bell (Pepper) from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.754220
Kiran shares one of his quirkier dates that stood out over the years – and the awkwardness that occurred along the way. We discuss making the most of the situation, when to introduce friends to you...
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Season 8 Episode 6: Losing my Virginity (at 35) from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.748726
Sarah tells us about her newfound active sex life at 35 after breaking away from her Mormon upbringing. We discuss experiencing all the pleasure the body is made to experience, not being hindered b...
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Season 8 Episode 7: Hot for Ginger from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.743233
Jack shares the biases that come from dating as a redheaded male – from being ruled out of the dating pool to being fetishized for his hair color. We talk about owning your identity, approaching pe...
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Season 8 Episode 8: Breaking out of an Abusive Relationship from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.737689
Ify tells us about her experience being in an abusive relationship and how she finally ended and recovered from it. We talk about abuse spanning beyond just physical mistreatment, recognizing early...
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Season 8 Episode 9: A Sex Journal from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.700992
Caleb and Levina share how they created a sex journal for couples to reflect on and explore their sex life together. We discuss investing in your intimacy, really discovering each other's prefe...
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Season 8 Episode 10: Don't wanna be played no more from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.698690
Ali responds to Leon’s PSA to women and shares her story of how she learned to deal with players. We discuss unlearning beliefs that this is just how guys are, recognizing what you have control of ...
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Season 8 Episode 11: (Dating) Rhythm&Blues from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.695554
Donovan shares what it’s like to date as a musician and how it’s not all the glitz and glamour you may think. We discuss the stereotypes associated with musicians, the challenges from this occupati...
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Season 8 Episode 12: Vagina Tingles from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.692909
Erin from the Wise Woman Podcast talks to us about what it really means to date mindfully through both eastern and western practices. We discuss honing in on your body and chakras, listening to you...
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Season 8 Episode 13: Sexual Racism from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.690583
Chris tells us about sexual racism and how this shows up in his life as a black gay male. We discuss the extreme bluntness on Grindr, what it’s like to not live up to the black male stereotypes, an...
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Season 8 Episode 14: Love, Dating, and Ghosting Across Ages from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.687885
Amanda and Inês share how their dating lives are similar and different at age 31 and 70. We discuss the basic dating dilemmas that seem to prevail, the importance of friendship through it all, and ...
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Season 8 Episode 15: Going The Distance from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.685231
David & Sammi talk about navigating a long-distance relationship over the last ~2 years. We discuss dealing with international time zones and logistics, making the most of the time together and...
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Season 8 Episode 16: Let's Talk About Sex from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.682830
Celeste shares what it’s like to work(and date) as a sex coach and how her practice differs from a sex therapist. We talk about learning how to enjoy sex more, what to do when you and your partner ...
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Season 8 Episode 17: Can a Man Still Date in the #MeToo Era? from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.680220
Matthew Solomon of ManSchool and The Good Men Project talks about how men can approach, date, and relate with women in the current climate. We discuss the reverse effect of giving up on dating, bal...
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Season 8 Episode 18: The Love Gap with Jenna Birch from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.677969
Jenna Birch, the author of 'The Love Gap', shares her research about why men don’t always pursue the women they claim they want. We discuss if it’s timing or the person, the differences bet...
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Season 8 Episode 19: Quest For Love with Ryan Van Duzer from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.675218
Ryan Van Duzer tells us about how he fell head over heels in love, only for it to end almost as quickly as it started. We discuss getting through the deepest of heartbreak, how to really show up fo...
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BONUS: Everything you need to know about dating on'The Wise Woman Podcast'with Erin Rachel Doppelt from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.672531
Listen as Yue & Julie are interviewed on 'The Wise Woman Podcast' by Erin Rachel Doppelt and we talk about why we started the podcast, the biggest things we've learned along the way...
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BONUS: Top 5 Tips to Spice up your Online Dating Profile with Matchmaker Courteney Kay from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.670377
Tune in as we talk to Courtney Kay about her top 5 tips to spice up your online dating profile. We discuss what you can do to stand out in a sea of other profiles, authentic ways to highlight your ...
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BONUS: Our Top Episodes That Have Changed How We Date And Find Love from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.667850
Listen as we share our top Dateable episodes that have changed the way we date and approach finding love. We discuss our own personal journeys and how we’ve learned from our guest's experiences...
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Season 9 Episode 1: Is There Still Sex In The City? with Candace Bushnell from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.665098
Join us as we talk to Candace Bushnell to see 'Is There Still Sex in the City?' when dating as a 50-something woman after divorce. We discuss restarting life being single, cubbing with youn...
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Season 9 Episode 2: Dating the CEO of a Startup Part 2 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.662885
Listen as we check in with Josh about his journey from not having time to date as CEO of Monday Motorbikes to getting engaged to his fiancé. We discuss the right partner becoming your #1 teammate, ...
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Season 9 Episode 3: In Reality with Ann Lupo from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.660092
Join us as we chat with Ann Lupo about her painful experience with unrequited love that inspired her movie In Reality. We discuss being consumed with the fantasy of love, obsessing over relationshi...
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Season 9 Episode 4: The Inventor of Online Dating with Match.com founder Gary Kremen&David Kushner from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.657869
Listen as we talk to Gary Kremen, the inventor of online dating, and author David Kushner about the rise of Match.com and Sex.com. We discuss the early days of internet love and sex, how online dat...
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Season 9 Episode 5: Broken Engagement with a Twist from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.655237
Tune in as we chat with Jane about how she broke off her engagement to her college boyfriend due to falling in love with a woman. We discuss the fallout of calling off a wedding, the possibility of...
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Season 9 Episode 6: Deeper Dating with Ken Page from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.652175
Join us as we chat with Ken Page about the revelations he learned along the way after being chronically single for years. We discuss moving out of your own way, how to recognize and overcome avoida...
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Season 9 Episode 7: Dating as a Single Mother from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.649283
Listen as we chat with Rebecca about dating and meeting her now-husband while raising her daughter on her own. We discuss making decisions that are right for you, turning hard experiences into oppo...
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Season 9 Episode 8: Why People Cheat: An Exclusive Interview with Ashley Madison from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.647
Tune in as we talk to members and the staff at Ashley Madison about why people cheat and have affairs. We discuss the motivations of the people coming to Ashley Madison, how the site is designed fo...
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Season 9 Episode 9: Singles in America 2019 with Helen Fisher from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.644140
Listen as we talk to Helen Fisher, a world-renowned researcher, and unpack the results of her Singles in America study. We discuss this concept of fast sex; slow love, men wanting women to make the...
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Season 9 Episode 10: Falling Into Relationships from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.641305
Join us as we talk to Dave about how he seems to fall in and out of relationships without thinking much about it. We discuss bringing awareness into your dating life, prioritizing love along with ...
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Season 9 Episode 11: First Date In 12 Years from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.638909
Tune in as Jeff tells us about his first date in 12 years with our co-host and producer Julie. We discuss being on dating apps at different stages of life, how the past plays into how you approach ...
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Season 9 Episode 12: Zipper Dick from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.635902
Listen as Elizabeth tells us about one of her funny dating stories that luckily avoided a trip to the ER. We discuss how to deal with unfortunate situations when dating, paying it forward even if y...
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Season 9 Episode 13: Eternal Bachelor from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.602514
Join us as we talk to Michel about his bachelor lifestyle and his existential debate between clubbing every weekend vs. settling down. We discuss the context of where you meet someone, the percepti...
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Season 9 Episode 14: The Science Of Dating from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.599143
Tune in as we talk to Logan Ury about how behavioral science –the how and why we make decisions – plays into everything in dating from profile photos to breakups. We discuss changing our defaults, ...
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Season 9 Episode 15: Rated X from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.595570
Listen as we hear from Lou Cass about being a porn star in the ’80s and how porn has changed over the years. We discuss the highs and lows of being in the industry, filming sex whether you are a pr...
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Season 9 Episode 16: Attachment Theory from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.591946
Join us as we chat with Lauren Korshak MFT about attachment styles and how they play into our adult dating patterns. We talk about the different styles, how they factor into the ups and downs of da...
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Season 9 Episode 17: Getting (that Libido) Up from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.588263
Tune in as we talk to Amit about how he increased his testosterone levels and libido to better his sex life. We discuss how ‘not getting it up’ causes insecurities, why it’s better to remedy the si...
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Season 9 Episode 18: Is Monogamy A Thing Of The Past? from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.584799
Listen as we talk to Cathy about her journey from saving herself for marriage to having multiple partners – at once. We discuss why it’s so difficult to break out of heteronormative traditions, how...
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Season 9 Episode 19: The Next Chapter Of Dating from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.581347
Tune in as we talk to Andy about the many phases of his dating life – from being new in town/ having fun to wanting more to deciding to move abroad. We discuss the ebbs and flows of dating, taking ...
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Season 9 Episode 20: Dating With Dignity w/ Marni Battista from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.577714
Join us as we chat with Marni Battista about how she regained her own dignity when dating – and why this is essential for anyone dating right now. We discuss addressing your limiting beliefs, how t...
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BONUS: The State Of Dating In 2020 from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.574915
Listen as we talk about the trends we’re seeing in the dating world – and future predictions going into the new year. We discuss the next wave of dating apps, changes from the initial stages of dat...
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BONUS: Live from The Wing NYC: Love (&Sex) At Any Age w/ Cirkel from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.571464
Join us as we share a live podcast where we talk with a panel of daters across ages in their 20's, 30's and 40+. We discuss what changes (and stays the same) with age, lessons from the pas...
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BONUS: Confessions Of A Bartender LIVE from Mad River in NYC from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.568137
Tune in as we chat with Ryan live at his bar, Mad River, in the Upper East Side of New York City. We discuss what bartenders observe on your dates, ideas for cheap dates outside of a bar, and why a...
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BONUS: Dateable Unplugged LIVE From SF from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.564834
Tune in for a sneak peek into our inaugural live show in SF. We flipped the script and had Logan Ury interview us for a change! We discuss why we started Dateable, how this podcast changed the way ...
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Season 10 Episode 1: Taking Sexy Back from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.561308
Join us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire difference...
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Season 10 Episode 3: PHD in Mansplaining from 2023-12-14T06:29:38.553783
Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between...
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Season 10 Episode 3: PHD in Mansplaining from 2022-03-07T10:07:20.442827
Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between...
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BONUS: Date the Way You Want To Be Dated from 2022-02-16T05:00
What if we all took a pledge to stop ghosting and to commit to dating the way we wanted to be dated? Before we head into Season 14, let's band together to stop dating from going down a dark path by...
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BONUS: How to Thrive or Survive V-Day from 2022-02-09T05:00
Love is in the air...or is it just a hallmark holiday? Whether you love or hate Valentines' day, we're chatting about how you can own this day that reminds us about love. We're discussing the origi...
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BONUS: Are you in a Relationship or a Situationship? from 2022-02-02T05:00
If you've been agonizing for weeks (or months) if you're together or not, then it's likely you're in a situationship. We're discussing why situationships are so prevalent in modern dating, why peop...
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BONUS: Yue Interviews Julie from 2022-01-26T05:00
From getting over an ex to starting a new relationship, we're turning the tables as Yue interview Julie this time around. We're unpacking it all: why dating is so much harder than making friends, k...
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BONUS: Julie Interviews Yue from 2022-01-19T05:00
We're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all...
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BONUS: Your 2022 Dating Predictions from 2022-01-12T05:00
From hesidating to comvaxability, we're talking about what to look out for in 2022 as we date in the time of Omicron. We're digging into our top predictions as we discuss everything from filters on...
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BONUS: Bringin' that New Year Energy from 2022-01-05T05:00
Forget about that BDE, we got that new year energy to bring us into 2022 strong. We got a spicy new bonus episode about what we collectively (we're looking at you all too) learned from dating in 20...
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S13E19: Moving Forward After A Breakup w/ Dr. Gladys Ato from 2021-12-22T05:00
As we move into the new year, it's time to say goodbye to past relationships that aren't serving us. Easier said than done, right? We're diving in with Dr. Gladys Ato about how we can change the wa...
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S13E18: 24-Hour Date from 2021-12-15T05:00
In modern dating, we never give each other enough time....so we're setting up Jeff & Nora for a 24-hour date to see how their opinions of one another change throughout the course of the date. We di...
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S13E17: The Decision to Have Kids (or Not) w/ Kate Kennedy from 2021-12-08T05:00
Whether you know you want children, desire to remain child-free, or are completely conflicted, we're going to dig into all the hesitations, fears, and realities of the decision to have kids with Ka...
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S13E16: How To Have A Healthy Relationship w/ Connor Beaton & Vienna Pharaon from 2021-12-01T05:00
The secret to a healthy relationship is...drum roll please....conflict. Wait, what? We're diving into what it even means to have a healthy relationship with Connor Beaton & Vienna Pharaon. We disc...
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S13E15: The Pressure To Settle Down w/ Bernice Ye from 2021-11-24T05:00
From Thanksgiving to the Chinese term Sheng nu (which translates to "leftover woman"), we're discussing the pressure we often get from family, society, and even internally to settle down by a certa...
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S13E14: What's Your Relationship with Porn? w/ Matt Sinkovitz from 2021-11-17T05:00
Whether you're into porn or you have a partner that is, we're chatting with Matt Sinkovitz about how his porn habits became compulsive and eventually led him to become a porn abstinence coach. We d...
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S13E13: Dating With A Disability w/ Tiffany Yu from 2021-11-10T05:10
From mental health to physical impairments, more of us are dating with disabilities than you may think. We're chatting with Tiffany Yu about her own experience and how she's overcome the shame and ...
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S13E12: Do Relationships Make You Happy? w/ Rob Mack from 2021-11-03T04:00
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S13E11: Astrology & Dating w/ Kristina Bakrevski from 2021-10-27T04:00
The stars are aligned and we're going wayyy beyond sun signs compatibility as we talk to Astrologer Kristina Bakrevski. We discuss the key characteristics of all the signs that play into how they s...
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S13E10: The 80/80 Marriage w/ Nate & Kaley Klemp from 2021-10-20T04:00
Whether you're single AF or you've been living together for years, we're about to introduce you to a new model for happier, stronger relationships as we chat with Nate & Kaley Kemp. We discuss why ...
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S13E9: The Future is Pansexual from 2021-10-13T04:34
Whether you're pansexual, asexual, or just sexual, we're discussing identity as we chat with Genesis who went from identifying as a lesbian to marrying a straight man. We discuss normalizing phases...
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S13E8: He's Just Not That Into You w/ Greg Behrendt from 2021-10-06T04:00
Y'all remember those infamous 6 words in Sex in the City: He's just not that into you. l remember those infamous 6 words in Sex in the City: He's just not that into you. But now we're chatting with...
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S13E7: Let's F*cking Date w/ Serena F*cking Kerrigan from 2021-09-29T04:00
All hail! The queen of confidence, Serena F*cking Kerrigan is here to talk about why it's so important to be unapologetically in love with yourself - especially while you're dating. We discuss tips...
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S13E6: The Science of Attraction w/ Paul Eastwick from 2021-09-22T04:00
What makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're talking with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab about how people form and maintain relationships. We discu...
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S13E5: The Game of Desire w/ Shan Boodram from 2021-09-15T04:00
What makes someone sexually desirable? We're digging into it all with certified sexologist Shan Boodram as we talk about keeping the desire alive at all stages of a relationship. We discuss what cr...
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S13E4: Are You Busy Avoiding Intimacy? from 2021-09-08T04:00
Whether you have an avoidant attachment style or are just too damn busy, you'll relate hard as we chat with Greg about how his 'always on the go' lifestyle was playing into his avoidant tendencies....
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S13E3: Confessions of a Reformed Ghoster from 2021-09-01T04:00
Ever wonder why someone ghosted you? We're chatting with Kendra, a self-proclaimed serial ghoster about why she would ghost and how she was able to overcome it by breaking things off a respectable ...
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S13E2: How to Fail at Being a F*ckboy w/ Kane Holloway from 2021-08-25T04:00
What happens when you get divorced during covid, start using apps for the first time, and do anything you can NOT to get into a relationship? Find out as we chat with comedian Kane Holloway about h...
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S13E1: Come As You Are w/ Emily Nagoski from 2021-08-18T04:00
Oh.my.god, we're kicking off Season 13 with a bang as we chat with Emily Nagoski Ph.D., author of Come As You Are, about how to navigate all the ups and downs of our sex lives (based on science, of...
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BONUS: Will We Ever Meet IRL Again? w/ the California Groundbreakers from 2021-08-11T04:00
We thought it would be the roaring 20s but we're chatting about why everyone is experiencing FODA as we reair Julie's episode w/ Vanessa Richardson from California Groundbreakers & Paul Eastwick, p...
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BONUS: Your Last First Date w/Sandy Weiner from 2021-08-04T04:00
Are you seeing someone or dating? Dating or in a relationship? Why does it have to be so damn confusing? We're chatting with Sandy Weiner giving you an insider's look into modern dating and how tha...
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BONUS: How do I turn a Match into an Actual Date? w/Dawoon Kang of CMB's Save The Date from 2021-07-28T04:00
It's harder to move matches to IRL dates more than ever but that doesn't mean we don't have tons of insider secrets to share as we reair our episode with the founder of Coffee Meets Bagel, Dawoon K...
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BONUS: Is it a Dick Pic if it's not your Dick? w/ Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' from 2021-07-21T04:00
Hang tight...this is a BIG one. We're talking about everything from dick pics to if size matters and re-playing Julie's interview with comedians Kane Holloway & Greg Behrendt from DTBFF. We discuss...
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BONUS: DTR to Diamond Rings w/Greg Behrendt & Kane Holloway of 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' from 2021-07-14T04:00
Don't take bullshit from fuckers...especially when it comes to commitment and defining the relationship. We're diving into when (and how) to have the big DTR talk and re-playing Yue's interview wit...
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BONUS: Are you ready for a Post-COVID Dating Tsunami? w/ Kimmy Seltzer from 2021-07-07T04:15
We're diving into the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating over the last year...and boy do we have a lot to say. We're chatting with dating coach Kimmy Seltzer about all the techniques we'll prese...
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BONUS: Identity & Intersectionality Across the Rainbow from 2021-06-30T04:00
Pride is SO much more than glitter and garments, so we're so excited to chat with Ryan & Matt and many special guests (Brian, Chris, Djorde, Victoria & Amy) about the true meaning of pride and the ...
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S12E120: Single on Purpose w/ John Kim from 2021-06-23T04:00
So you're single...but are you single on purpose? And why do we stop working on ourselves once we get into a relationship? You're about to find out as we dive in with the angry therapist himself, J...
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S12E19: Hacking Human Connection w/ Vanessa Van Edwards from 2021-06-16T04:00
We're about to crack the code as we chat with Vanessa Van Edwards about the science of people and how to optimize your behavior, interactions, and interpersonal intelligence as it pertains to datin...
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S12E18 To Peg or Not to Peg? w/ Rachman Blake from 2021-06-09T04:00
Who doesn't love a little up the butt talk? We're chatting with the hilarious storytelling extraordinaire Rachman Blake about his experience with the sexual act of pegging and how it was everything...
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S12E17: What's your Communication Style? w/ Sandy Weiner from 2021-06-02T04:00
The key to a healthy relationship is communication....but are you a healthy communicator? From the lion to the scorpion, we're diving into the 4 communication archetypes with Sandy Weiner and learn...
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S12E16: Healing your Dating Wounds from 2021-05-26T04:00
While it's tempting to blame the external stuff, oftentimes it's really the internal work that's holding us back. We're chatting this week with our 'Most Dateable' winner Brian all about how he's e...
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S12E15: Slaying the Dating Apps w/ Dawoon Kang of Coffee Meets Bagel from 2021-05-19T04:00
From algorithms to getting more matches, we're chatting with the founder of Coffee Meets Bagel, Dawoon Kang, about everything you need to know to set yourself up for success on dating apps. We disc...
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S12E14: What's your story? w/ Corey Rosen from 2021-05-12T04:00
From date talk to the dreaded 'why are you still single' question, we're chatting with storytelling expert Corey Rosen about how to craft your story in a way that bonds you with others. We discuss ...
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S12E14: Your Story, Well Told w/ Corey Rosen from 2021-05-12T04:00
From date talk to the dreaded 'why are you still single' question, we're chatting with storytelling expert Corey Rosen about how to craft your story in a way that bonds you with others. We discuss ...
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S12E13: Is it Love or Love Bombing? w/ Dr. Diane from 2021-05-05T04:00
When you're getting showered with gifts, attention or affection, we want to feel like it's the real deal. But how do you know that this isn't narcissistic behavior disguised as grand gestures? Have...
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S12E12: Dating Post-Pandemic Part 2 from 2021-04-28T04:00
From video dates to finding love in the time of Corona, we're chatting with the rest of our community hosts Janis, Tony, Suanie, and Ryan about their post-pandemic plans and how they've evolved dur...
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S12E11: Dating Post-Pandemic Part 1 from 2021-04-21T04:00
As you swipe through profiles with vax cards, we can feel the end starting to near. But how have we all changed from the last year? Join us as we chat with our community hosts Shieldy, Jason, Gisel...
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S12E10: Is Marriage the Be All End All? from 2021-04-14T04:45
We have been told that marriage is the end game...maybe...but also maybe not. We're hearing from our guest Alice about exiting her marriage and never being happier. We discuss when it's time to sto...
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S12E9: Make Dating Fun Again w/ Jeff Harry from 2021-04-07T04:00
We often hear 'dating is like a job' or 'dating sucks'....but it doesn't have to! We're chatting with positive psychology coach and play expert Jeff Harry about how to see dating as play and have m...
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S12E8: The Etiquette of Modern Dating w/ Myka Meier from 2021-03-31T04:00
Who should pay on the first date? Is there ever a time where ghosting is OK? Is there a polite way to break-up? We're finding out as we dive into modern dating etiquette with an expert in the space...
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S12E7: Toxic Masculinity from 2021-03-24T04:00
Turns out the patriarchy isn't just harmful to women but also to freakin' men as we learn from talking to Joseph about his experience not fitting into 'bro culture' yet still falling victim to masc...
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S12E6: Dating Younger Men from 2021-03-17T04:00
We're talking age gaps – dating younger, dating older, and the perceptions that come with both. Join us as we chat with Lindsey about her experience dating guys with almost a 20 year age gap younge...
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S12E5: Is it the Right Person or the Right Time? from 2021-03-10T05:00
You all know that guy that's fiercely independent, has a revolving door of casual flings, and whose family and friends have determined will never settle down. Well, we're talking to Yue's friend Je...
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S12E3: Why is Sex so Closeted? from 2021-02-24T05:00
We're talking sex, no sex, arbitrary rules around sex, and shame around sex as we unpack the differences between straight and gay sexual "norms" with Matthew Beier. We discuss why heteronormative t...
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S12E2: How to Not Die Alone w/ Logan Ury from 2021-02-17T05:00
We say we want the life partner...yet we focus on qualities that make a great prom date. Let's unpack with Logan Ury about the surprising science that will help you find love – and how she's learne...
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S12E1: Socially Distant Yet Emotionally Available w/ Connor Beaton from 2021-02-10T05:00
We're back and about to break down exactly what it means to be emotionally available with men's coach and founder of ManTalks, Connor Beaton. We discuss how emotional availability shows up differe...
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BONUS: What you know bout love from 2021-01-27T03:29:05
From Kamala & Doug's #relationshipgoals to Yue turning 40, there's so much to unpack as we also dive into the top 6 episodes that changed the way we view love and relationships. We'll discuss havin...
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BONUS: The Worst Dating Advice...from Dating Coaches from 2021-01-20T05:00
We're saying RIP to some of the worst dating advice we've heard from dating coaches. In this week's bonus episode, we'll discuss why certain dating advice should not be taken if you want to be in a...
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BONUS: Our 2021 Dating Predictions from 2021-01-13T05:00
So dating in 2020 was a bit different than we expected yet ironically some of our predictions did come true! What's in store for 2021? On this week's bonus episode, we are giving our dating predict...
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BONUS: Setting your 2021 Intentions (for love) from 2021-01-06T05:00
F*ck our 2020 visions, it's time to set some 2021 intentions! We are officially in the offseason and diving into what you all shared about how you'd be changing your love life in 2021 and the inten...
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S11E20: Can you have it all? w/ May Lee from 2020-12-30T05:00
What happens when you prioritize your career over relationships and starting a family? Will you regret it later....or not? We're chatting with news anchor May Lee about the choices she's made over ...
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S11E19: Why can't we just be honest? w/ Jared Freid from 2020-12-23T05:00
Let's get honest for a minute as we chat with comedian Jared Freid about the root of "bad dating behavior" and why it can be so damn hard to be honest. We discuss how it can almost be "ungentlemanl...
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S11E18: How you're wired (for relationships) from 2020-12-16T05:00
If you're into attachment theory & personality types, prepare to have your mind blown as we chat with Dr. Avigail Lev, PsyD about how our thought patterns and beliefs (aka our schemas) shape everyt...
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S11E17: Dating with Depression from 2020-12-09T05:00
Whether you've experienced depression yourself or loved someone in the thick of it, it can be difficult to navigate relationships – if you let it. We're chatting with Tony about how he's been manag...
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S11E16: Body Image & Dating from 2020-12-02T05:00
How much does body image play into our romantic relationships or lack thereof? Spoiler alert: quite a bit. Join us as we talk with Erin about some of her past experiences and how she held onto the ...
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S11E15: Is 'too fast' a bad thing? from 2020-11-25T05:00
In a COVID-19 word, relationships are moving at turbo-speed...but is this a good thing? Join us as we talk with Ketan about dating during the pandemic and his virtual romance that resulted in him ...
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S11E14: What's holding you back? w/ Nikki Novo from 2020-11-18T05:00
What if you knew you were on the right path when it came to finding true love? Join us as we chat with medium and author Nikki Novo about the biggest things that are holding us all back from having...
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S11E13: New Mindset, Who Dis? w/Case Kenny from 2020-11-11T05:00
Like it or not, there's always gonna be curveballs when it comes to dating and relationships. The good news: you can fully control how you handle all the hurdles that come your way. We're joined by...
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S11E12: Sex, Lies, and Videotape from 2020-11-04T05:00
No, this isn't a political scandal but a real-life story of lying, blackmail, and being caught red-handed on video. We're chatting with Layla about how this eroded her trust in her relationships an...
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S11E11: Politics Aside: A Blind Date Experiment from 2020-10-28T04:00
Can you date someone with opposing political views? We set up Tom and Kiki to check-in through various points of their virtual blind date about how they're feeling from when politics are off the ta...
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S11E10: It's all about the Journey from 2020-10-21T04:00
Your journey...your journey to L-O-V-E. Whether it's with a partner or your own self love, we're doing a mid-season solo (duet?) where we talk about our own journeys in finding love and how we've c...
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S11E9: Addicted to Love from 2020-10-14T04:00
You've probably heard of many forms of addiction: drugs, gambling, sex – but what about relationship addiction? We're unpacking what it means to be addicted to love with Celebrity Rehab go-to exper...
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S11E8: Puppy Play from 2020-10-07T04:00
This may be doggy style with a mask...but not the way you're imagining. Join us as we get a glimpse into the world of puppy play as our guest Chris tells us all about the fetish. We discuss the sex...
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S11E7: Hacks to Looking your Best from 2020-09-30T04:00
Let's be honest: looks matter when it comes to dating. Whether it's on a dating app or the first time you meet IRL, we're chatting with makeover expert Kimmy Seltzer about the small tweaks you can ...
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S11E6: Interracial Love in 2020 from 2020-09-23T04:00
Love may know no color but it doesn't mean there's not a lot to consider, especially in our current climate. We're chatting with Kofo & Theo about how race has played into their relationship and ho...
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S11E5: Sexless in the City from 2020-09-16T04:00
Let’s talk sex, no sex, our relationship with sex, and more as we're chatting with Kat Harris about her conscious decision to abstain from sex until marriage – especially while living in a city lik...
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S11E4: The Boyfriend Manual from 2020-09-09T04:00
Nope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures...
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S11E3: 51 First Dates from 2020-09-02T04:00
When nothing seems to be going right in your dating life, the only logical step is to go on 51 first dates and document it all through a podcast, right? We're chatting with Kimmy & Liza about how t...
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S11E2: Love in the Time of TikTok from 2020-08-26T04:00
And it goes like...download TikTok, make a video that goes viral, meet a cute girl, fly across the country, and define the relationship on your road trip back home. Is this a movie or love in 2020?...
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S11 E1: Trust in your timing from 2020-08-19T04:00
Are you where you thought you'd be at 30? 40? 50? Especially when it comes to finding love, we're diving in with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', to discuss why there's s...
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BONUS: How to Rethink Relationships Post-Quarantine w/ Liza & Kimmy from 51 First Dates from 2020-08-12T04:00
From traveling (virtually) via Hinge to being #teamchrishell, we're wrapping up the dating app experiment and chatting with Kimmy & Liza on 51 First Dates about the shift in dating mindset that mig...
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BONUS: The Museum of Modern Dating w/ Ken Page of Deeper Dating from 2020-08-05T04:00
Would glory holes be in the museum of modern dating? Maybe in COVID-19 times! First, we'll run down the results of Julie's around the world dating app experiment and then we'll chat with Ken Page o...
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BONUS: Redefining how we Date & Communicate w/Kimmy Seltzer from Charisma Quotient from 2020-07-29T04:00
So if we're all dating virtually, we can be anywhere, right? We'll kick off with a dating app experiment comparing different cities and then we'll chat with Kimmy Seltzer of the Charisma Quotient a...
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BONUS: Love & Dating in the Time of COVID w/ Minji Chang from FirstofAll from 2020-07-22T04:00
So if you just do doggy style in a mask, you're safe from COVID, right? Umm. Umm. nope. We're talking this week about sex during the pandemic and then with Minji Chang on the FirstofAll Pod about a...
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BONUS: The best & worst dating advice w/ Kinda Dating from 2020-07-15T04:00
Love conquers all. Wait until he texts you first. Don't have sex for 90 days. There’s so much love advice out there, yet so much is so so bad. We teamed with Natasha Chandel from Kinda Dating to gi...
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Season 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y Husbands from 2020-07-01T04:00
What if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husba...
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Season 10 Episode 20: I Date Me First from 2020-06-24T04:00
What happens when you break up with your long-term, live-in boyfriend right before COVID-19? You use this time...and you use it wisely. Listen as we chat with Minji about how she used quarantine to...
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Season 10 Episode 19: What's your [personality] type? from 2020-06-17T04:00
Whether you're an ISFJ, ENFP, INTP, or whatever it may be, we're here with Frank James to share how your personality type impacts how you date. We discuss the blind spots that each type has while d...
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Season 10 Episode 18: The Future of Sex Toys w/ Lora DiCarlo from 2020-06-10T04:00
Omg. Omg. Ohhhh my god. Join us as we chat with Lora DiCarlo about the mind-blowing orgasm that inspired her to revolutionize the sex toy industry. We discuss how to get to the elusive squirting or...
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Season 10 Episode 17: Racism in Dating from 2020-06-03T19:35
With the death of George Floyd and the nation-wide protests for black lives matter this week, it's time we really pay attention to how racism plays into everyday life – including dating. We compile...
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Season 10 Episode 16: Relationship. Are you sure you want one? from 2020-05-27T04:00
Of course you want a relationship...but do you..do you? We unpack if we really need relationships with Simone and Brenden, who created their own great relationship, only to un-create it 8-years lat...
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Season 10 Episode 15: He said YES! from 2020-05-20T04:00
Why are we still waiting for the man to propose even in 2020? Join us as we chat with Lauren about how she proposed to her now fiancé and took control of her love life. We discuss decoupling what t...
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Season 10 Episode 14: The Art of Virtual Sex from 2020-05-13T05:00
From steamy video chats to virtual sex parties, it's getting hot in here this quarantine! Listen as we chat with Mischa Byruck about the art of phone sex and what goes down at a virtual sex party. ...
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Season 10 Episode 13: Zumping from 2020-05-06T04:00
You guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way be...
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Season 10 Episode 12: Love is not enough w/ Mark Manson from 2020-04-29T04:00
Love is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less ...
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Season 10 Episode 11: U up? Let's DFH w/ Jordana Abraham from 2020-04-22T04:00
Despite all that’s been going on, dating app usage continues to soar...and we got to chat with Jordana Abraham, the founder of Betches and the dating app Ship, about the future of online dating. We...
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Season 10 Episode 10: Love is Blind Part 2 from 2020-04-15T04:00
So is love blind? Find out which one of the ladies Ryan asked on a date and how their date went down amidst COVID-19. We discuss their perspectives of each other once looks are revealed, if their v...
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Season 10 Episode 9: Love is Blind Part 1 from 2020-04-08T04:00
We were so obsessed with Love is Blind that we decided to recreate our own rendition on the podcast! Follow along as Ryan tells us about his impressions of 3 girls he talked to without knowing thei...
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Season 10 Episode 8: Quarantined from Fuckboys w/ Shallon Lester from 2020-04-01T04:00
It’s a pandemic...but luckily we got Shallon Lester to tell it like it is about how to not murder your partner during quarantine and how to use this time to self-isolate from fuckboys. We discuss t...
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Season 10 Episode 7: Six Feet Apart: Dating on Lockdown from 2020-03-25T04:30
From video dates to virtual sex parties, we're finding out how daters are staying connected without leaving their home during this Coronavirus pandemic. We discuss how to form deeper connections du...
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Season 10 Episode 6: Coming out as Bisexual in your Marriage from 2020-03-18T06:46
From Coronavirus to coming out in your marriage – there’s no predicting what can happen! We talk to Chris about discovering his sexuality later in life and what it meant for him and his wife. We di...
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Season 10 Episode 5: Millennial vs. Gen Z dating from 2020-03-11T04:00
We got a Gen Z in the house! Listen as we talk to Zoe about what it's like to date as someone who’s been using digital technology their entire life. We discuss the traditional tendencies of this ge...
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Season 10 Episode 4: Too Old to Date from 2020-03-04T05:00
Tune in as we talk with Brad about the time pressure of dating as you get older – even for men. We discuss the challenges of dating in your 30’s when everyone else is settling down, how expectation...
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Season 10 Episode 3: PHD in Mansplaining from 2020-02-26T05:30
Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between in...
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Season 10 Episode 2: Moving on After Divorce from 2020-02-19T05:00
Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to a...
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Season 10 Episode 2: Is Communication ruining your sex life? from 2020-02-19T05:00
Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to a...
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Season 10 Episode 1: Taking Sexy Back from 2020-02-12T05:00
Join us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire differences w...
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