Podcasts by Dear Former InLaws

Get a life ! Don’t let your job define you! from 2023-12-12T16:14:43

Hi Explores! Welcome to today’s episode. In this episode we’re going to talk about how often we let unsatisfactory jobs define us. Is your job unfulfilling? Do you feel unseen? How does it affect y...

When You’re Blindsided by a breakup from 2023-09-24T13:42:20

In this episode Eno talks about the immediate affects of hearing about a pending divorce or break up. What do you do? How did you react? Let’s talk about it!

Your coworkers are NOT your friends ⚠️ from 2023-08-25T15:11:15

Let’s talk about it! Let’s do a deep dive into this conversation. Too many times there is suffering from people talking about hard times they have at the office. Do you find yourself being alienate...

Ewww I married a con man from 2023-07-28T03:26:52

My vulnerability is no secret. I had an emotionally, financially, and mentally devastating divorce. In this podcast I talk about some of the things I experienced on my journey, some of the things t...

Girl! Leave that old “friendship”door closed. You left for a reason 🛑 from 2023-05-18T07:29:08

Hey Explorer’s! Have there been friendships that you left in the past and thought about revisiting? Is there any reason to leave an old friendship in the past? Is there a reason to open up that doo...

Losing friends during a divorce from 2023-04-17T05:12:31

You never think he will lose “friends“ during his separation or break up. Why does this happen? Let’s talk about it! Don’t forget to share this podcast with anyone you know going through a break up...

What not to tell someone going through a divorce or separation. from 2023-04-17T05:12:14

I think I’ve heard it all personally! Anything from “it’s your fault” to “ you didn’t pray enough” let’s talk about it!

Ways to treat yourself for free from 2023-04-17T05:11:35

When you’re going through a rough patch it’s important you treat yourself to something nice. Sometimes you don’t have the money. I can relate! What are some of the ways that you can treat yourself ...

What are early signs of abuse? from 2023-04-17T05:11:25

There are different types of abuse that we sometimes miss on the front end. Is it possible to detect any signs of emotional abuse at the beginning of a relationship? Let’s talk about !

Be patient with yourself after trauma from 2023-04-17T05:11:07

How kind are you to yourself? This quick podcast is my reminder to you to be kind to yourself during any trauma. Let’s talk about it!

If you think divorce can’t happen to you... from 2023-04-17T05:10:56

Are you sure that you can’t be blindsided by divorce? Let’s talk about it!

Strangers can affect our lives positively from 2023-04-17T05:10:19

In the short podcast, I share with you several instances where total strangers have positively affected my life. Do you think it’s possible to benefit from the words of a stranger? Let’s talk about...

Give yourself permission to let people go from 2023-04-17T05:10:11

This is an area of suffering for many people. We have all been there. Are you holding on to people who know longer serve you. Had a relationship once with people who today or not on the same page w...

How do you accept your pending divorce? from 2023-04-17T05:09:44

When it comes to break up, separation or divorce, many people asked me my opinion on how to accept it. It’s not a simple answer to get. Let’s talk about it!

743 (just kidding) signs your future in laws will be toxic from 2023-04-17T05:08:52

In this episode will talk about future in-laws and some of the things people have shared with me on their journey. I’ll even share some personal stories. Let’s talk about it!

When they don’t believe in your dreams from 2023-04-17T05:04:02

This topic will never get old for me. What do you do when someone has contempt for your goals? When people are quick to tell you that what you’re working on is not worth anything., how do you wrap ...

They had contempt during my divorce😲 from 2022-04-20T12:28:33

In this episode I briefly share about some of the people who had contempt for me during my divorce. There are some people who did not know how to behave through no fault of their own, they were oth...

What some men could learn from my father’s brand of parenting. from 2022-04-17T04:38:22

Hi Explorers ! In this podcast I am talking about my father and some of the things I feel made him an excellent dad. I am unimpressed with men who torment their daughters with mediocre and unkind p...

What I wish I knew re my divorce journey ( My most transparent confession ) from 2022-04-07T03:24:34

For years I’ve been afraid to speak my truth. It started with a not-so subtle message from an “in-law”not wanting me to speak MY truth. I let that shackle go in this podcast. Let’s talk about it!

Types of men to watch out for during a separation or divorce😱 from 2022-04-04T04:12:14

After speaking with several women on their journey, I decided to talk about this post divorce/post separation journey. What type of man do you watch out for after a separation? What do you do so th...

Going through a breakup during Covid 19 from 2022-04-04T04:12:05

I got a message from someone asking me to post more on breakups and divorce. This is for the one that wants me to talk about breakups during COVID-19.  What do you need to keep in mind? Is it diffe...

Dealing with mean people 🤦🏽‍♀️ from 2022-04-04T04:11:50

How do you deal with a mean person. Why are people mean? Does it matter? What do you do in those instances? Let’s talk about it!

When you’re criticized In a hurtful way from 2022-04-04T04:11:43

Let’s talk about criticism that we get from people. How is that criticism delivered? How do we experience it? What do we do when we don’t feel good about ourselves after said critique? Let’s talk a...

When you’re afraid to love again from 2022-04-04T04:11:30

In this podcast we talk about being afraid to love especially after divorce or separation. It happens a lot… You’ve been hurt and you don’t want to be hurt again. Let’s talk about it!

What does a sincere apology sound like? from 2022-04-04T04:11:20

A lot of us are walking around in titled when we give apologies. We think “I already said I’m sorry“ or “They need to get over it“. Unwilling to make ourselves vulnerable, we act entitled to forgiv...

When someone is giving you the silent treatment from 2022-04-02T04:24:48

I had a recent experience with someone who gave me the silent treatment. I had no idea that this was a “thing“. Has that happened to you before? Let’s talk about it!

Dealing with Selfish People from 2022-04-02T03:59:23

Hi Fellow Explorers! In this episode we are talking about selfish people. Why are people selfish? Why should we deal with them? What do we need to know for our own self-esteem and protection. Let’s...

Dating a broke or broken man from 2021-11-25T17:47:55

One of my friends said many women date or marry down! I made some observations about this. Let’s talk about it!. Don’t forget to find me on Instagram IG@ dearformerinlaws

Should you reach out to someone you’ve not spoken to? from 2021-06-07T16:13:02

Hi! Explorers! In this podcast we will talk about when or if it is a good idea to reach out to someone you haven’t spoken to a while. I’ll share my personal stories of three recent scenarios. Let’s...

Shout out to people who move from one state/country to a new place from 2021-06-02T13:28:34

Inspired by an amazing conversation at the market today, I decided to talk about this often times quiet subject. It is a big deal to move from one place to the other. I did it and it was not the ea...

Loneliness from the break up from 2021-04-17T11:12:45

Right after you’ve been blindsided by a break up, and for some time after, you might feel an unforgiving sense of loneliness. That was my story!. Let’s talk about it! #divorce

Starting over in your 40s with no money and no hope from 2021-04-12T15:55:45

The fact is there is hope. If you’re starting over in life, there is hope if you were alive. Whether you are moving to a new city or from a new state, emotional or otherwise, let’s talk about a few...

Dealing with difficult mofos from 2021-04-12T15:40:38

Based on conversations I’ve had with a few people in the last few days, I realize that there’s so many people dealing with difficult people. And this was prior to Covid LOL. In this podcast we’re g...

What does vulnerability mean to you? from 2021-04-05T12:36:57

In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts on vulnerability and why it is important to me. Don’t forget to join me on Instagram “dear former in-laws“

Fill your own cup as you’re serving others. from 2021-01-15T01:21:31

When you’re accustomed to serving others, you better be aware of that you’ll need replenishing. There are consequences to not filling your cup. Let’s talk about it! ...

? Should I go back to school in my 40s? from 2021-01-15T00:19:08

Nothing will challenge your sense of self like a divorce. You will often ask yourself if you have enough education to navigate the rest of your life. Should you go back to school? Let’s talk about it!

Simple no cost exercises that you take for granted from 2020-12-17T08:24:46

My divorce journey taught me that my body needs to move. It’s not just a mind that needs love but your body as well. Here are a few things that we take for granted when it comes to exercise. You ca...

Dear Former InLaws (Trailer) from 2020-12-16T08:24:46