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Everything w/ Softee - Ep. 224 from 2022-02-22T05:09
What happens when three capricorns get together to dyke out? You talk about a little bit of everything! Actor and musician Nina Grollman AKA Softee joins us to talk about everything from astrology,...
ListenThe Homo Schedule w/ Liv Hewson&Jasmin Savoy - Ep. 223 from 2022-02-15T09:03
We've got a delightful mix of queer joy and cannibalism on the agenda with actors Liv Hewson and Jasmin Savoy (Yellowjackets on Showtime). First, we get all of our fangirling out of the way by aski...
ListenMusic Videos w/ Pamela Ross - Ep. 222 from 2022-02-08T12:55
Do you miss the days of feverishly calling into Total Request Live? Longing for the time when everyone knew the same choreography and it had nothing to do with TikTok? Comedian Pamela Ross joins us...
ListenNon-Monogamy w/ Casey Tanner - Ep. 221 from 2022-02-01T16:33
We're opening up about non-monogamy this week with renowned queer sex therapist Casey Tanner! What is non-monogamy and how does it relate to polyamory? Have you ever wondered if non-monogamy is rig...
ListenAccompliceship w/ Amber Hikes - Ep. 220 from 2022-01-25T05:54
Show up for this episode, and you might just learn how to better show up for those who could use your accompliceship. Activist Amber Hikes joins us for a thoughtful and fun conversation about how w...
ListenQueer Imposter Syndrome w/ Janet Hyde - Ep. 218 from 2022-01-11T01:20
FEMALE comedian Janet Hyde joins us to talk about her past struggles with self-diagnosed Queer Imposter Syndrome. Have you ever felt like you weren't queer enough? Do lesbian cultural references ha...
ListenNew Year's w/ Kemah Bob - Ep. 217 from 2022-01-04T05:17
New year, new, well...why does anything have to be new? Delightfully funny comedian Kemah Bob joins us to process the end of one calendar year and the start of a new one. Why are we tempted to revi...
ListenBirding w/ Grace Bonney - Ep. 216 from 2021-12-28T04:23
The bird's the word on this episode with author and blogger Grace Bonney. Grace's love of watching birds is queer and contagious. So what's the big deal about birding anyway? How can it positively ...
ListenRainbow Rap w/ Dai Burger - Ep. 215 from 2021-12-21T04:36
Not even the omicron variant could stop us from pushing out this episode about rainbow rap with the brightest artist in the game, Dai Burger! Hot off her latest release, Back in ya Mouf, Dai speaks...
ListenJenna Lyons Live! - Ep. 214 from 2021-12-14T06:12
It's our first live recording in YEARS, and we couldn't be more thrilled to dyke out with the iconic and stylish Jenna Lyons! We sat down with Jenna on December 7 at The Wing Soho in front of an au...
ListenCuffing Season w/ Amanda Grace Jenkins - Ep. 213 from 2021-12-07T07:33
Looking to settle down with someone in time for the long, dark winter months? Amanda Grace Jenkins from HBO Max's 12 Dates of Christmas joins us fresh(ish) off an accelerated cuffing season experim...
ListenCottagecore w/ Lady Lamb - Ep. 212 from 2021-11-30T20:42
Break out your crafted doily coasters and put those wildflowers in a curated arrangement of bud vases because we're dyking out with Lady Lamb about cottagecore! What exactly is cottagecore? And do ...
ListenAnxiety w/ Cuppie Bragg - Ep. 211 from 2021-11-23T04:30
Tampa Baes fave Cuppie Bragg is on the pod to dyke out about anxiety, and we love that for us. First, we ask her to spill the tea on all the drama from her Amazon Prime docuseries. Then, we talk ab...
ListenBi Culture w/ Jen Winston - Ep. 210 from 2021-11-16T06:28
If your BiFi is pinging, that's because we've got writer and author Jen Winston on the pod to byke out about Bi Culture! Is bi culture actually a thing, or our we latching onto a collection of norm...
ListenTampa Baes w/ Shiva Pishdad - Ep. 209 from 2021-11-09T05:56
BAEDAY! BAEDAY! We've got fan-favorite Shiva Pishdad dyking out about Prime Video's Tampa Baes (out now!). Shiva takes us behind-the-scenes to tell us how the new docuseries came together. Plus, we...
ListenCouples Therapy w/ Madelein Smith - Ep. 208 from 2021-11-02T03:43:15
Get ready to process some feelings because we've got comedian Madelein Smith (Cheers For Queers podcast) here to talk about Couples Therapy! How does this topic make you feel? Whether you've done c...
ListenGlitter Grind w/ Ivy Les Vixens - Ep. 207 from 2021-10-26T03:18
Get out those crisp dollar bills (or Starbucks gift cards) so you can show this episode some proper love because we're dyking out with Ivy from Les Vixens burlesque! She's the lesbian queen who has...
ListenFriendships With Exes w/ Christina Cauterucci - Ep. 206 from 2021-10-19T04:56
Being friends with an ex can be messy, rewarding, or both. Writer and Slate podcaster Christina Cauterucci joins us to explore why keeping your exes close is queer culture. Why is it harder for the...
ListenBetween Relationships w/ Gia Woods - Ep. 205 from 2021-10-12T04:10
What's your 'between relationships' mode? LA-based pop performer Gia Woods has found herself in that very situation and is looking to break old habits. Is it possible to resist entering a new relat...
ListenQueer Families w/ Sabrina Jalees - Ep. 204 from 2021-10-05T09:32
The super hilarious Sabrina Jalees (Carol's Second Act) is letting us get all up in her jizzness as we dyke out about her queer family. Sabrina gives us all the deets into how Wolfie came to be, an...
ListenSorority Life w/ Sophie Santos - Ep. 203 from 2021-09-28T04:33
Roll tide! We've got Sophie Santos back on the pod for another round of sapphic conversation. This time, we're dyking out about Sorority Life, a topic that comes up in Sophie's new memoir, The One ...
ListenCulture Shock w/ Kristen Becker - Ep. 202 from 2021-09-21T02:48
We're dyking out with possibly the d*kiest d*ke we know! Comedian Kristen Becker has found herself in many situations where she's landed in unfamiliar territory, or helps bring others outside their...
ListenQueer Lit Community w/ Zoe Whittall - Ep. 201 from 2021-09-14T04:10
The writing community seems to be getting more queer by the minute. Author Zoe Whittall joins us to talk about her experiences as a queer writer as she releases her latest fiction novel, The Specta...
ListenRosie O'Donnell - Ep. 200 from 2021-09-07T04:11
It's our 200th episode, and we've got the one and only Rosie O'Donnell here to fulfill the Dyking Out prophecy. It may have taken four years of wishing this moment into existence (okay, maybe we di...
ListenReal Housewives w/ Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya - Ep. 199 from 2021-08-31T03:38
We're makin' it NICE this episode with our fave L-Word reviewer and writer, Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya! But we're not dyking out about Gen Q. We're dissecting the Real Housewives franchise for all the ...
ListenCreative Pursuits w/ Bailey Pope - Ep. 198 from 2021-08-24T02:53
Comedian Bailey Pope is dyking out with us about how her day job and dream job have more in common than one might assume. Telling jokes on a stage to strangers isn't all that different than years o...
ListenHand Sex w/ Ro White - Ep. 197 from 2021-08-17T14:14
Let's talk about hand sex, baby! Ro White is the new sex and dating editor at Autostraddle, and they're here to get fist-deep into our topic. Though as we learn, fisting is about fullness, not dept...
ListenMommy Issues w/ Brittany Ashley - Ep. 196 from 2021-08-10T19:54
Writer, actor, and podcaster Brittany Ashley (Don't Tell The Babysitter Mom's Dead, Buzzfeed) joins us to dyke out about the impact of losing her mom at a young age. Don't worry, we have our fair s...
ListenThe Road w/ Naomi McPherson - Ep. 195 from 2021-08-03T18:55
MUNA's very own Naomi McPherson joins us to dyke out about the life of a queer, touring musician. From #vanlife to prank-filled tour buses, what's it really like to hit the road as MUNA? They tell ...
ListenHopeful Romantic w/ Elina Street - Ep. 194 from 2021-07-27T02:47
Filmmaker Elina Street takes a break from saving the lesbian bars to share her experiences that keep her hopeful about romance. Hot off her recent GoMag article, Elina proves that we can come back ...
ListenLiving Authentically w/ Precious Brady-Davis - Ep. 193 from 2021-07-20T13:07
Activist, speaker, and author Precious Brady-Davis joins us to share the life lessons she's learned about living authentically, as told in her memoir, I Have Always Been Me. Precious tells us how a...
ListenOdd One Out w/ Carly Montag - Ep. 192 from 2021-07-13T04:51
No matter where you fall on the spectrum (even you, straights), or not matter how popular you are, we've all had moments (or lifetimes) of being the odd one out. Comedian Carly Montag (Alone At Lun...
ListenQueer Climate Change w/ Allison Reese - Ep. 191 from 2021-07-07T18:52
Is it us, or is the queer community changing more rapidly than in the past? Comedian and writer Allison Reese joins us to talk about the affects of the internet and the passing of time on our perce...
ListenMature Women w/ Whit Washington - Ep. 190 from 2021-06-29T13:41
Do you often find yourself stanning women of a certain age? You are not alone! Activist Whit Washington joins us to dyke out about their love of the older women on TV and in their life. Why are we ...
ListenRed Flags w/ Morgan Miller - Ep. 189 from 2021-06-23T18:39
Take off those rose-colored glasses because we've got comedian Morgan Miller (UCB) back on the pod, and we're dyking out about red flags. What's the different between a red flag and a dating prefer...
ListenGay 2000s w/ Grace Perry - Ep. 188 from 2021-06-15T13:53:39
If the 2000s made you gay, you're in good company on this episode. Writer and journalist Grace Perry (Reductress, The Onion) joins us to dyke out about the pop culture that inspired her new book Th...
ListenQueer Porn w/ Nikki Hearts - Ep 187 from 2021-06-08T20:57
Make sure your parents are out of the house, and don't forget to clear the cache, because we're dyking out with adult performer and director Nikki Hearts about Queer Porn! Nikki tells us about thei...
ListenRelationship Escalator w/ Nicole Pacent - Ep. 186 from 2021-06-01T12:21
Are you riding the relationship escalator? Maybe you are and don't even know it! Actor, Writer, Podcaster, and Educator Nicole Pacent (Coming Out with Lauren and Nicole) joins us to talk about how ...
ListenLesbian Tastemakers w/ Diana Souhami - Ep. 184 from 2021-05-25T15:47:46
It's our most charming episode yet! That's because author and celebrated biographer Diana Souhami (No Modernism Without Lesbians) joins us from the English countryside to dyke out about the lesbian...
ListenLove Addiction w/ Rivkah Reyes - Ep. 185 from 2021-05-25T04:56
Might as well face it you're addicted to (things that actually aren't but can sometimes trick you into thinking it's) love! Actor/Musician/Comedian/Writer/Reader Rivkah Reyes joins us to dyke out a...
ListenThe Signs w/ Mackenzie Lansing - Ep. 183 from 2021-05-11T03:37
The English teacher you wanted to be bffs with, that cartoon you were strangely attracted to, the time you dabbled in witchcraft, the binder of hot women you carried around. When you look back, it ...
ListenSuperhuman Strength w/ Alison Bechdel - Ep. 182 from 2021-05-04T03:45:37
Dykon Alison Bechdel (Fun Home, Dykes To Watch Out For) joins us to dyke out about her latest (and thoroughly entertaining) graphic novel, The Secret to Superhuman Strength. We talk about Alison's ...
ListenReality Queers w/ Jess Rothschild - Ep. 181 from 2021-04-27T02:27
This episode is full of fighting, drama, and gossip. But don't worry, we're not the ones involved. We're dyking out about the queers (and wannabes) of reality TV with writer and podcaster Jess Roth...
ListenPride w/ Bri Giger - Ep. 180 from 2021-04-20T03:39
It's never too early to talk about our favorite week of the year (or is it?). That's why we have comedian and musician Bri Giger on to dyke out about all things PRIDE! What are the pros and cons of...
ListenShiva Baby w/ Emma Seligman - Ep. 179 from 2021-04-13T01:39
Bisexual representation is buzzing in this episode about the movie everyone's talking about (or should be talking about): Shiva Baby! Writer/Director Emma Seligman joins us to byke out about the th...
ListenGay Nashville w/ Brooke Eden - Ep. 178 from 2021-04-06T03:50
Y'all ready for an episode that's a little bit country and a little bit queer? How about a lot of both? Country singer-songwriter Brooke Eden joins us to dyke out about Nashville's gay mafia and th...
ListenFeminism w/ Gabrielle Korn - Ep. 177 from 2021-03-30T12:05
Feminism often feels like a dirty loaded word, but regardless of your gender, it's impossible to ignore. Editor and journalist Gabrielle Korn (NYLON, NETFLIX) joins us to dyke out about her experie...
ListenQueerplatonic w/ Rachel Scanlon&McKenzie Goodwin - Ep. 176 from 2021-03-23T12:24
Dyke worlds collide in this episode featuring Rachel Scanlon&McKenzie Goodwin from the Two Dykes and a Mic podcast. And with two sets of platonic co-hosts on hand, what better topic than exploring ...
ListenLesbian Aesthetic w/ Joanna Bradley - Ep. 175 from 2021-03-16T04:48
Madras shorts, Kangol hats, 'Menswear,' vests, bold blazers, purposefully bad dye jobs...the spectrum of style in our community is wide and varied. So what is the lesbian aesthetic? Writer and come...
ListenGay 90s w/ Dana Piccoli - Ep. 174 from 2021-03-09T06:31
Put down that Delia's catalogue and tie your best flannel around your waist because we're dyking out about the Gay 90s with media maven Dana Piccoli (Queer Media Matters)! What is the women's soft ...
ListenGrilling w/ Julia Turshen - Ep. 173 from 2021-03-02T06:14
Weber? I hardly know her! Yes, it's the first week in March, but it's never too soon to talk about grilling! Especially when home chef and author Julia Turshen is on hand to discuss tips, tricks, a...
ListenGay Paris w/ Mélissa Laveaux - Ep. 172 from 2021-02-23T19:27
What's 'The City Of Lights' like for les lesbians? Canadian singer-songwriter Mélissa Laveaux has spent the last 13 years living in gay ol' Paris and has some THOUGHTS. Mélissa takes us on a journe...
ListenBi-Pan Myths w/ Natasha Negovanlis - Ep. 171 from 2021-02-16T02:33
Hello Dykes and Bykes! We have a PANtastic episode with the one and only Natasha Negovanlis (Carmilla, Vanlis Presents) about the myths and misconceptions surrounding Bi and Pan identities. What ar...
ListenCelesbian Gossip w/ Liza Dye - Ep. 170 from 2021-02-09T12:57
We're serving up sapphic scoops with comedian Liza Dye, all in the name of good, clean, and hopefully not mean, celesbian fun. When she's not writing for TV shows or being asked about her well-know...
ListenMother-Daughter Dykes w/ Barbara Gruska - Ep. 169 from 2021-02-02T14:06
What's it like to come out to your mom as gay when your mom is also gay? Drummer/singer/songwriter Barbara Gruska (The Belle Brigade) dykes out with us about having a Banana Republic lesbian for a ...
ListenWomen Who Kill w/ Kai Choyce - Ep. 168 from 2021-01-26T12:09
Three comedians hop on a mic to talk about killing, but not the kind we strive to do in front of audiences. Comedian, writer, and podcaster Kai Choyce (Women Who Kill podcast) joins us to talk abou...
ListenSex Work w/ Irene Merrow - Ep. 167 from 2021-01-19T04:37
According to Irene Merrow (Betches, Vice), sex work is a lot like comedy. And as someone who performs both, she would know! Learn all about the struggle of being a sex worker during a pandemic and ...
ListenDyke Bars w/ Jo McDaniel - Ep. 166 from 2021-01-12T19:11:13
Believe it or not, we can't talk enough about saving our dyke space. And not even an attempted coup by domestic terrorists can stop us. Jo McDaniel, who runs A League of Her Own in Washington D.C.,...
ListenLesbian Fun w/ Casey Jane Ellison - Ep. 165 from 2021-01-05T07:10
Dykes just wanna have fun, and here to tell us all about it is herlarious comedian, performer, and artist Casey Jane Ellison! It's hard to put into words what makes being a lesbian so dang fun, but...
ListenBreasts w/ Michelle Badillo - Ep. 164 from 2020-12-30T07:35
Breasts, boobs, boobies, knockers, tits, titters, titties, honkers, hooters, melons, jugs, tatas - whatever you call them, we're dyking out about them with the crazy talented and boobacious Michell...
ListenHappiest Season w/ Erica Rose - Ep. 163 from 2020-12-22T05:02
Happy holiGAYS! Due to popular demand, we're releasing our Patreon off-topic episode featuring past guest, filmmaker Erica Rose - sandwiched between new content of course. We love Erica's opinions ...
ListenBoxing w/ Klea Blackhurst - Ep. 162 from 2020-12-15T03:58:37
Ding ding ding! We're dyking out with singer and actor Klea Blackhurst about Boxing! Klea performs at the most legendary venues in New York City, but when she's not channeling her inner Ethel Merma...
ListenMusicals w/ Mara Wilson - Ep. 161 from 2020-12-08T03:34:39
Come on babe, why don't we dyke out about musicals with the OG book witch, Mara Wilson (Matilda, Welcome To Night Vale)! Though good queer representation is sparse in Broadway's history, we've mast...
ListenBut I'm A Cheerleader w/ Jamie Babbit - Ep. 160 from 2020-12-01T05:43
This episode is a Dyke dream come true because we get to spend an hour talking to DYKON Jamie Babbit about one of the most iconic gay films of all time just before it's big re-release! But I'm A Ch...
ListenCommunity w/ Kristen Kaza - Ep. 159 from 2020-11-24T06:04
We all want it, we all need it, but sometimes, we're not quite sure how to find it. That's why people like Kristen Kaza dedicate their lives to building community through events and creating "brave...
ListenIntersex w/ Maria Tridas - Ep. 158 from 2020-11-17T02:05
We're shining a much needed spotlight on the "I" in LGBTQIA with video producer/host and intersex activist Maria Tridas! Being intersex is about as common as being a natural redhead, so why is bein...
ListenRec Leagues w/ Lindsay Boling - Ep. 157 from 2020-11-10T05:53:46
It's not about whether you win or lose, it's about finding a girlfriend while you're playing the game! At least that's the dream on this episode about Rec Leagues with comedian and former Division ...
ListenHalloween w/ A Ghost - Ep. 156 from 2020-11-03T05:40
It might sound like it's just Carolyn and Melody on this haunting episode, but there's totally a ghost there. You just have to have "a gift" to hear it. Don't believe us? Then how else would you ex...
ListenGetting Knocked Up w/ Mo Welch - Ep. 155 from 2020-10-27T02:24
We hope you're expecting a lot of laughs this episode, because we plan to deliver. Comedian Mo Welch (Blair, Conan) joins us to dyke out about her journey to making a baby! Come for the conversatio...
ListenSapphic Horror w/ Emily M. Danforth - Ep. 154 from 2020-10-20T06:13
No trick and all treat, author emily m. danforth (Plain Bad Heroines, The Miseducation of Cameron Post) joins us this week to dyke out about all things sapphic and spooky. Why do "final girls" code...
ListenLove w/ Amy Ordman&Jack Dodge - Ep. 153 from 2020-10-13T03:40:46
We say love is love, but how much do we really know about love? Youtuber Amy Ordman and her Dating Straight podcast co-host Jack Dodge join us to dyke about that thing that makes existing in this w...
ListenDating Your Ex w/ Samantha Ruddy - Ep. 152 from 2020-10-06T04:04
Have you ever gotten back together with an ex after breaking up? If so, then you'll relate to Comedian Samantha Ruddy (Full Frontal with Samantha Bee) who joins us to dyke out about her experience ...
ListenApologies w/ Tien Tran - Ep. 151 from 2020-09-29T02:32
We beg your pardon, express our deepest regrets, and hope you can forgive us for this week's episode. Comedian and writer Tien Tran (Work In Progress) thought long an hard about it, and ultimately ...
ListenShame w/ Lisa Haas - Ep. 150 from 2020-09-22T03:24:59
What does Dame Judy Dench have to do with queer shame? Actor and writer Lisa Haas (Wild Nights with Emily) joins us to get to the bottom of the shame we feel around our queer identities. While we'r...
ListenPC Culture w/ Judy Gold - Ep. 149 from 2020-09-15T04:16:07
Political correctness can be a great thing when it comes to treating people with respect and dignity, but can it go to far? Comedy legend Judy Gold joins us to talk about how PC Culture has been we...
ListenNon-Binary w/ Gara Lonning - Ep. 148 from 2020-09-08T01:47
We're going outside the binary this week to discuss an identity that an increasing number of folks in the LGBTQ+ community are embracing. Comedian and performance artist Gara Lonning (We're Having ...
ListenGay Immersion w/ Cara Connors - Ep. 147 from 2020-09-01T02:28:55
Get your workbooks out and agendas ready because this week, we're dyking out with comedian Cara Connors (Just For Laughs, E!) about her gay immersion! How does one go from being married to a man to...
ListenSolo Polyamory w/ Ashley Ray - Ep. 146 from 2020-08-25T05:28
If monogamy isn't for you, you never want to merge bank accounts with someone, but you're got a lot of love to give (and hope to receive it back), then perhaps solo polyamory is right for you! Come...
ListenTea w/ Jen Richards - Ep. 145 from 2020-08-18T02:37
Put on the kettle, because the incredible and talented Jen Richards (Netflix's Disclosure, HBO's Mrs. Fletcher, Emmy-nominated Her Story) joins us this week to talk about the beverage that dates ba...
ListenHealing w/ Chemda - Ep. 144 from 2020-08-11T07:16:31
When life tests us through heartbreak or tragedy, we have to find ways to heal our wounds and move forward. And if anyone knows this, it's Chemda (Keith and The Girl) who dykes out with us about he...
ListenLabels w/ Becca Blackwell - Ep. 143 from 2020-08-04T10:32
This episode is everything and nothing, because that's where we always end up when discussing labels. But to us, it's actually everything because we're dyking out with the hilarious and entertainin...
ListenSex Parties w/ Fatimah Asghar - Ep. 142 from 2020-07-28T03:03
It's a sex party (chat), and you're invited (to listen)! Poet and filmmaker Fatimah Asghar (Brown Girls, NPR, PBS) joins us to dyke out about sex parties, which inspired her latest short film Got G...
ListenDating w/ Alysia Brown - Ep. 141 from 2020-07-21T02:38
A dating episode in the midst of a global pandemic? If anyone can still have game when the world feels upside down, it's comedian Alysia Brown. From back-to-back dates to picking up audience member...
ListenLilith Fair w/ Thao Nguyen - Ep. 140 from 2020-07-14T00:43:48
Want an episode that truly lives up to the podcast's name? Because we're dyking out with singer-songwriter Thao Nguyen (Thao&The Get Down Stay Down) about Lilith Fair, and that might be as gay as i...
ListenEquity w/ Rachael Rapinoe - Ep. 139 from 2020-07-07T02:35:42
Let's level the playing field by striving for equity both on and off the field (or court, or rink, or office flooring, etc). Rachael Rapinoe joins us this week to talk about how she's working to cr...
ListenKeeping It Real w/ Erika Owens - Ep. 138 from 2020-06-30T05:22
We're dyking out across the world with photographer Erika Owens, who many of you know from the latest season of TLC's 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days. Erika stands out on the show for quite a few...
ListenSelf Love w/ Jerrell Tate - Ep. 137 from 2020-06-23T04:05
We could all use a little more self love, especially this pride month. That's why we're dyking out with the very funny and wonderful Jerrell Tate from the MinoriTEA Report podcast. Jerrell, like ma...
ListenLoud&Proud w/ Molly Kearney - Ep. 136 from 2020-06-16T10:13
We're in the thick of Pride month and cooked up this TREAT of an episode with the super funny and wonderful Molly Kearney (Comedy Central). Molly lives her life loud and proud, and she makes it see...
ListenBad Lesbian w/ Lauren Flans - Ep. 135 from 2020-06-09T03:29:44
Actor/Writer/Podcaster and self-proclaimed bad lesbian Lauren Flans (Coming Out Pod, Wild 'n Out) joins us to talk about all the ways in which we feel like we're failing our identity. Astrology? Ba...
ListenFluidity w/ Mae Martin - Ep. 134 from 2020-06-02T02:28
Pride month is here! We wouldn't be where we are today if it wasn't for the brave Black and Brown trans women who rioted against police brutality. That brutality maybe have eased for the queer comm...
ListenPersianality w/ Desiree Akhavan - Ep. 133 from 2020-05-26T02:40
We're not Dyking Out with any ol' bisexual this week. We've got THE Bisexual, Desiree Akhavan! After hyping her work for years (Appropriate Behavior, The Miseducation of Cameron Post), we finally s...
ListenShe-Ra w/ Noelle Stevenson - Ep. 132 from 2020-05-19T03:38:24
Whether or not you've seen Netflix's She-Ra and the Princesses of Power, you'll want to hear from the person who made one of the queerest shows on TV. The extraordinarily talented Noelle Stevenson ...
ListenLesbian Memes w/ Hotmessbian - Ep. 131 from 2020-05-12T02:54
Can I has Lezbian memes? We're dyking out with queen of the queer memes, Cheyenne aka Hotmessbian! What is it about a picture with some relatable words that brings us together? Who even thinks up t...
ListenHobbies w/ Shantira Jackson - Ep. 130 from 2020-05-05T04:35
They're a great way to make friends, meet future girlfriends, and lately, help pass the time. Comedian and writer Shantira Jackson (Saved By The Bell, Busy Tonight) joins us to Dyke Out about hobbi...
ListenTrailblazing w/ Alice Wu - Ep. 129 from 2020-04-28T04:11
Filmmaker Alice Wu (Saving Face, The Half Of It) made two groundbreaking queer films 15 years apart, so we're dyking out with her this week to learn more about her journey from a practical child of...
ListenGetting Outed w/ Ever Mainard - Ep. 128 from 2020-04-21T04:06
Coming out happens in all different ways, and hopefully it's on your own terms. But what happens when it's not? Comedian and actor Ever Mainard (The Feels, Conan's Meet The Staff) joins us to dyke ...
ListenElecting Women w/ Jess McIntosh - Ep. 127 from 2020-04-14T03:31
We have more women in the current congress than ever before, but they still only make up 23.7%. Political commentator and strategist Jess McIntosh (SiriusXM Progress) joins us in these extraordinar...
ListenGrowing Up Gay w/ Cameron Esposito - Ep. 126 from 2020-04-07T03:21
We're Dyking Out with Cameron Esposito (Brooklyn 99, Queery, Take My Wife) about her new memoir Save Yourself and what it was like to be a little gay kid. We discuss the days when we were gay but d...
ListenFeel Good w/ Ally Pankiw - Ep. 125 from 2020-03-31T01:54
If you're wondering what queer content to stream during your queerantine, look no further than the new dramedy Feel Good (out on Netflix in the US and Channel 4 in the UK). We dyked out with direct...
ListenWork-life Balance w/ LaQuet Sharnell Pringle - Ep. 124 from 2020-03-24T01:01
What a time to be re-thinking our work-life balance when many of us are out of work or over-worked due to the global pandemic! Broadway performer LaQuet Sharnell Pringle had made some huge adjustme...
ListenLesbian Stereotypes w/ Sarah Hallonquist - Ep. 123 from 2020-03-17T02:07
Gather your adopted cats, gas up the U-Haul, head over to your best friend's house (who is also your ex), and stay in for the night while listening to this episode about Lesbian Stereotypes! We're ...
ListenFemale Gaze w/ Valerie Complex - Ep. 122 from 2020-03-10T03:40
We are THRILLED to be joined by the astute and prolific Valerie Complex to talk about all things Portrait of a Lady On -- Er...Female Gaze. We definitely do not spend half of this episode talking a...
ListenCompulsory Heterosexuality w/ Rachel McCartney - Ep. 121 from 2020-03-03T05:32
Comedian Rachel McCartney joins us talk about the theory that the only normal sexual relationships in society are between men and women, also known as compulsory heterosexuality. We definitely had ...
ListenCompulsory Heterosexuality w/ Rachel McCartney - Ep. 121 from 2020-03-03T05:32
Comedian Rachel McCartney joins us talk about the theory that the only normal sexual relationships in society are between men and women, also known as compulsory heterosexuality. We definitely had ...
ListenCompulsory Heterosexuality w/ Rachel McCartney - Ep. 121 from 2020-03-03T05:32
Comedian Rachel McCartney joins us talk about the theory that the only normal sexual relationships in society are between men and women, also known as compulsory heterosexuality. We definitely had ...
ListenDoulas w/ Solange Azor - Ep. 120 from 2020-02-25T12:11
On this episode, we do our doula due diligence by dyking out with the lovely Solange Azor! On top of being a funny comedian and writer, Solange is a full-service doula who helps women through pregn...
ListenTrauma w/ Samantha Sidley – Ep. 119 from 2020-02-18T04:25
Big episode alert! We’re dyking out with the VERY talented Samantha Sidley about trauma (trigger warning for sexual assault, car accidents, and eating disorders). Samantha is an incredible jazz sin...
ListenInternalized Homophobia w/ Rita Brent – Ep. 118 from 2020-02-11T00:46
Comedian Rita Brent joins us to talk about the trifecta of factors that fed her internalized homophobia. Even the most out and proud of us have face some form of this harmful feeling that can make ...
ListenButch w/ Kelli Dunham – Ep. 117 from 2020-02-04T04:50
Finally, a whole episode dedicated to that butch life. Well, sort of. We couldn’t help but grill special guest, comedian/author/performer Kelli Dunham, about her past as a nun. And it’s every bit a...
ListenFemme 4 Femme w/ Ali Clayton – Ep. 116 from 2020-01-28T13:49
Three femmes sit down for a podcast recording and hilarity ensues! Comedian Ali Clayton (Vice) came to talk about her experiences dating people across the gender spectrum, including her current rel...
ListenBisexual&Biracial w/ Julia Shiplett – Ep. 115 from 2020-01-21T04:06
Let’s get intersectional with the very funny Julia Shiplett (Comedy Central, The New York Times) and guest co-host/founding father Lorena Russi! We’re dyking out about what’s it like to be both bis...
ListenDungeons&Dragons w/ Kody Keplinger – Ep. 114 from 2020-01-14T05:37
Are you a human in the streets but a non-binary pansexual cleric in the character sheets? Whether you know what this means or want to find out, tune into this very special episode with New York Tim...
ListenCabarets w/ Eliot Glazer – Ep. 113 from 2020-01-07T04:21
We’re kicking off the new year with an episode about some of the queerest entertainment of all! No, not Saoirse Ronan’s lesbian-energy-fueled portrayal of Jo March in Little Women. We’re dyking out...
ListenRelationship Regrets w/ Glo Butler – Ep. 112 from 2019-12-17T06:50
It’s the last episode of the year so why not look back on all of our regrets, or lack there of? Relationships can be so confusing, it’s hard to know what’s worth fighting for or when to let go. Gue...
ListenHoliday Movies w/ Christin Baker – Ep. 111 from 2019-12-10T05:43
The holidays are just around the corner, and what better to get us in the mood than the very first queer lady Christmas rom-com? Director and CEO/Founder of Tello films joins Carolyn and guest co-h...
ListenCommitment w/ Kate Sisk – Ep. 110 from 2019-12-03T05:00
Commitment can look like so many different things. A ring, an adopted cat, a pledge of exclusivity…or maybe it’s a sign you need to run for the exit. Carolyn and guest co-host Alex Song (From our “...
ListenBurlesque w/ Nyx Nocturne – Ep. 109 from 2019-11-26T05:45
We’re sending you off into the Thanksgiving holiday with an extra-long revealing episode about the art of Burlesque with “The Babe That Goes Bump In The Night,” AKA Nyx Nocturne! Nyx tells us about...
ListenTrans-cis Relationships w/ Jeena Bloom – Ep. 108 from 2019-11-19T05:59
Big episode alert. Comedian Jeena Bloom (Shweet! The Ladies Guide to Bro Culture podcast) joins us to dyke out about her experiences as a transgender woman and how she navigates relationships with ...
ListenRelationship Roles w/ Whitney Chanel Clark – Ep. 107 from 2019-11-12T04:28
Comedian Whitney Chanel Clark (Broadway Comedy Club) has a bone to pick about assumed roles in relationships. Like why are more masc-presenting women expected to pay on dates or service selfish pil...
ListenAndrogyny w/ Irene Tu – Ep. 106 from 2019-11-05T05:55
We’re blurring the lines of gender expressing and talking all about androgyny with comedian Irene Tu! Named one of the best up-and-coming comedians by Vulture, Irene tells us about her path to her ...
ListenCheating w/ Caitlin Reese – Ep. 105 from 2019-10-29T05:05
TRIGGER WARNING (see topic for reference). Comedian Caitlin Reese came by to talk about one of the unfortunate realities of being in relationships: cheating! Unfortunately, most of us have experien...
ListenBad Lesbian Movies w/ Kendall Payne – Ep. 104 from 2019-10-22T02:20
Pop some popcorn and get ready to binge on things that make us cringe! Comedian and director Kendall Payne (Netflix Is A Joke) dykes out with us about the bad lesbian movies we love to watch, or no...
ListenWeed w/ John-Allison “A.W.” Weiss – Ep. 103 from 2019-10-15T02:06
We had a chill time this week with singer-songwriter John-Allison Weiss (who performs as A.W.) talking about a popular herb that we obtained legally and are old enough to smoke/ingest. Eventually t...
ListenNavigating Gender w/ Annick Adelle – Ep. 102 from 2019-10-08T02:19
German-born and L.A.-based comedian Annick Adelle joined us to dyke out about Navigating Gender. Annick is exploring the gender spectrum and starting to make decisions about to which extent to tran...
ListenTop Surgery w/ Jake Noll – Ep. 101 from 2019-10-01T05:09
Chicago comedian Jake Noll came by to dyke out about their recent top operation, giving us all the nipple-hardening details (actually, no nipples required!). We talk about what made them want to ge...
ListenMoms w/ Margaret Cho – Ep. 100 from 2019-09-24T02:04
Praise be to the Goddess, we’ve made it to episode ONE FREAKING HUNDRED. And to celebrate, we have none other than bisexual dykon (#bivisibilityday) and comedian Margaret Cho in a discussion about ...
ListenParenting w/ Amanda Deibert – Ep. 99 from 2019-09-17T01:50
We’ve got 99 episodes and this is one! Carolyn and Sarah made the most of their L.A. adventure by dyking out with TV and comic book writer Amanda Deibert about parenting! You may know Amanda from h...
ListenYoung Adult w/ Britta Lundin – Ep. 98 from 2019-09-10T06:39
Put away the jingle jangle and listen to this all-new episode with special guest Britta Lundin (Riverdale, Ship It). Carolyn and Sarah came all the way to sunny Los Angeles to get the scoop on all ...
ListenToxic Relationships w/ Aida Osman – Ep. 97 from 2019-09-03T00:10
Sometimes on our quest to find “the one” (whatever that means), we find ourselves caught up in relationships that teach us a lot about what we don’t want – or at least what we don’t need. Aida Osma...
ListenChosen Family w/ Alicia Goldsmith – Ep. 96 from 2019-08-27T05:28
What happens when you’re queer and afro-latinx and growing up in a conservative, religious white family? Unfortunately, it’s what most of us would assume. Comedian and performer Alicia Goldsmith ca...
ListenEx-Husbands w/ Tessa Skara – Ep. 95 from 2019-08-19T20:21
¡Ay, caramba! Comedian and rock goddess Tessa Skara (High Maintenance) came to dyke out with us about ex-husbands, though admittedly, she has more to say on the topic than we do. Tessa tells us how...
ListenMasturbation w/ Melody Kamali – Ep. 94 from 2019-08-13T01:42
Fire up that incognito browser and settle in for this squirtastic episode on masturbation with comedian Melody Kamali! From anecdotes, to survey data, to things we don’t want our moms to hear, we b...
ListenFat and Queer w/ Colette McIntyre – Ep. 93 from 2019-08-06T03:46:14
Colette McIntyre is so much more than fat and queer, and that couldn’t be more evident than on this very funny episode. We had a BLAST bitching about the oppressive summer weather, Lea DeLaria’s Pr...
ListenOCD w/ Olivia Levine – Ep. 92 from 2019-07-30T05:16
Holy heat wave! Is summer almost over? We miss our flannels. Lucky for us, we got to have a cool conversation with the funny and grind-happy Olivia Levine about OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder)....
ListenStand-up Comedy w/ Ali Kolbert – Ep. 91 from 2019-07-23T03:58:51
We invited the HILARIOUS Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon) to come and dyke out about stand-up comedy, but it quickly turned into a roast. Carolyn gives a quick recap of her trip...
ListenDyke Spaces w/ Alex Koones – Ep. 90 from 2019-07-16T02:11
Whether you identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, or ace, (cue Cheers theme song) sometimes you wanna go where everybody is a dyke. But when lesbian bars are closing down at the pace of Shane’s lov...
ListenRebounds w/ pronoun (Alyse Vellturo) – Ep. 89 from 2019-07-08T20:31:10
Trying to bounce back from a broken heart can be fun, messy, and everything in between. Alyse Alyse Vellturo, who makes music under the name pronoun, joined us to dyke out about the different ways ...
ListenSobriety w/ Be Steadwell – Ep. 88 from 2019-07-02T02:47
Pride month is over, but let’s keep the gay going with a new episode! The talented Be Steadwell was in town to play the opening ceremony of world pride but made some time to dyke out about being so...
ListenComing Out After 30 w/ Liza Treyger – Ep. 87 from 2019-06-24T21:28:34
We did it! We had a great live recording in NYC and got to meet some of our gaymazing listeners (even the straight ones are gaymazing for being there). This episode has it all, including Sarah’s mo...
ListenPop Music w/ Sir Babygirl – Ep. 86 from 2019-06-11T00:49
Cool episode alert! We’re talking all things queer and pop with your next big crush, the very funny and extremely talented Sir Babygirl! We talk about our experiences with pop music, from being rai...
ListenLong Distance Relationships w/ Katie-Ellen Humphries – Ep. 85 from 2019-06-04T00:00:14
We’re cool with being in a long-distance relationship with many of our listeners, but for a romantic partner? That’s up for debate. And debate we do on this episode with comedian Katie-Ellen Humphr...
ListenThe Lesbian Label w/ Courtney Rada – Ep. 84 from 2019-05-28T05:21
Courtney Rada (Food Network) joins us for a wild episode about artful nudes and so much more! This episode has everything, from Alanis Morissette covers, to AMAZING band name pitches, to Anne Liste...
ListenGay In High School w/ Sabrina Wu – Ep. 83 from 2019-05-20T22:12:02
Comedian Sabrina Wu (Harvard Lampoon) joins us and braves all of our dated television and movie references to talk about what it was like being gay in high school. We may or may not have gotten a l...
ListenBiphobia w/ Rosa Escandón – Ep. 82 from 2019-05-14T02:55
This episode is not camp, but that won’t stop us from kicking things off by talking about New York’s gayest night that is consistently ruined by the straights: The MET Gala. We also talk about some...
ListenNavigating Your Twenties w/ Lily Richards – Ep. 81 from 2019-05-07T05:00:02
Most teens can’t wait until they are in their twenties. Most people in their thirties are thankful their twenties are behind them, regardless of how amazing or tumultuous those years were. Lily Ric...
ListenCelesbians w/ Kelsey Bailey – Ep. 80 from 2019-04-30T04:09
When it comes to famous lesbians, there are the ones we see in theaters and on red carpets, but the women who were on that realty TV show we watched 9 years ago can be just as popular. Kelsey Baile...
ListenIntersecting Identities w/ Jess Guilbeaux – Ep. 79 from 2019-04-23T00:36:03
Season 3 Episode 5 of Netflix’s Queer Eye brought us the story of Jess Guilbeaux, a strong black lesbian who was out on her own after being outed to her adoptive family. Jess was gracious enough to...
ListenEmily Dickinson w/ Madeleine Olnek – ep. 78 from 2019-04-12T02:36
The queer erasure of historical figures is an ongoing problem, but some people are working to make the true stories known. Whether you’ve read her work or not, you may have heard that Emily Dickins...
ListenGay Aunts w/ Mila Myles – Ep. 77 from 2019-04-09T02:34:26
Okay FINE. We’ll talk about being gay aunts. If you’re realllly going to make us do it and pull out pictures of our nieces and nephews, we guess we’ll oblige. Mila Myles came by to dyke out about h...
ListenGrowing Up Baptist w/ Chelsea Moore – Ep. 76 from 2019-04-02T02:44
Many of us in the LGBTQ+ community grow up feeling like we don’t really belong or fit in. Now multiply that time ten and you might get a sense of what it’s like to be a queer kid growing up in a re...
ListenNew York City w/ Faiven Feshazion – Ep. 75 from 2019-03-25T17:54:48
New York City, the place where your dykiest dreams can come true! Carolyn and Sarah are joined by performer and model Faiven Feshazion to talk all about how our 7-ish years in the big gay apple has...
ListenBaby Gay w/ Allison Ponthier – Ep. 74 from 2019-03-18T22:35
You just stepped out of the closet. NOW WHAT? Musician and model Allison Ponthier took a break from making TikToks to dyke out with us about what it’s like being a BABY GAY! Allison left her home i...
ListenOpposites Attract w/ Amelia Bane – Ep. 73 from 2019-03-12T01:19:31
In every functioning relationship, there’s a “logistics,” and a “pizzazz.” What the hell does that mean? Well comedian Amelia Bane came by to give us the details of this interpretation of the sayin...
ListenAsexuality w/ Janeane Garofalo – Ep. 72 from 2019-02-26T16:45
Reality does not bite here at Dyking Out because we are joined by ICON Janeane Garofalo! Yes, we’re talking about Carolyn’s #3 crush, in studio to dyke out about asexuality and so much more. Janean...
ListenScience w/ Arielle Duhaime-Ross – Ep.71 from 2019-02-18T22:40:06
We might as well call this episode “weird science” with all the crazy coincidences we stumble upon up top. The super knowledgable science, climate and environmental correspondent, Arielle Duhaime-R...
ListenLesbian Sex Scenes w/ Erica Rose – Ep. 70 from 2019-02-11T23:44
In this new episode, we’re getting down to business. Lady on lady business. Talented Director/Writer/Producer Erica Rose (Sour Peach Films, Girl Talk) helps break down the do’s and dont’s of a lesb...
ListenCreative Journeys w/ Alice Kremelberg – Ep. 69 from 2019-02-04T23:47:14
Any of you who watched the last season of Orange Is The New Back should be familiar with this week’s guest, actress Alice Kremelberg! Alice stopped by to talk about the journey of pursuing a creati...
ListenGay For Pay w/ Taylor Ortega – Ep. 68 from 2019-01-31T01:25
Taylor Ortega (Kim Possible) joined us to dyke out about Shay Mitchell, Cate Blanchett, Rachel Weisz, and all the other actors who play multiple queer roles on screen but identify as straight on th...
ListenPlants w/ Jessica Henderson – Ep. 67 from 2019-01-22T04:40:20
Jessica Henderson (Upright Citizen’s Brigade) came by with her green thumb to talk about something that gets her all hot and bothered: queer ladies kissing. BUT ALSO PLANTS. From sexy orchids to em...
ListenWoodworking w/ Amelia Christensen – Ep. 66 from 2019-01-15T00:13
If you thought this podcast was gay before, hold onto your snapback! Woodworker and queer hangout organizer Amelia Christensen came by to dyke out about their carpentry craft. We learn all about ho...
ListenNostalgia w/ Jill Sobule – Ep. 65 from 2019-01-08T00:07:29
Get out your guitar and strum along to our first episode of the New Year, featuring singer-songwriter Jill Sobule! You may know Jill from her 90s mainstream hits like “I Kissed a Girl” and “Supermo...
ListenHoligays w/ Alex Berg – Ep. 64 from 2018-12-18T05:05
It’s our last episode of twenty gayteen! And who better to round out the year than the person who’s finger is on the pulse of the LGBTQ+ community? Alex Berg (Buzzfeed, Sirius XM, Huffington Post) ...
ListenStyle w/ Stray – Ep. 63 from 2018-12-11T16:07:38
We’ve talked about hair, hats and flannel at length, but this episode takes a wider look at style. And who better to dyke out with us about it than fashion blogger and influencer, Stray! We cover e...
ListenMaking Your Move w/ Robby Hoffman – Ep. 62 from 2018-12-04T01:22
What are you even doing with your life if you’re not taking advantage of Uniqlo’s cashmere sale and dyking out with comedian Robby Hoffman (The Chris Gethard Show, Just For Laughs)? We invited Robb...
ListenBrazil w/ Gabriella França – Ep. 61 from 2018-11-27T03:04:42
Get your passport ready because this episode will make you want to follow Sarah York to Brazil for Carnival! We have our first international guest on the pod, the lovely Gabriela França! She’s well...
ListenTinder w/ Lane Moore – Ep. 60 from 2018-11-21T00:22
We’re SWIPING RIGHT on this episode with the girl you wish you were best friends with in high school, the supremely talented Lane Moore (HBO’s Girls, Tinder Live, GLAAD Award recipient). Lane tease...
ListenThe Apocalypse w/ Lois Thompson – Ep. 59 from 2018-11-13T02:39:07
The lovely and funny Lois Thompson joins us to dyke out about all things apocalypse. No, not the latest season of American Horror Story, rather the impending doom that feels like it’s just around t...
ListenLoneliness w/ Aimée Lutkin – Ep. 58 from 2018-11-06T16:57
Feeling lonely? Let us keep you company! The one and only Aimée Lutkin (Jezebel, UCB, 2 Dates a Week) joins us to talk about dating, being single and loneliness in an episode recorded right before ...
ListenLife-Changing Decisions w/ Liz Glazer – Ep. 57 from 2018-10-29T22:28:21
Comedian and friend of the podcast Liz Glazer graced our studio with her presence to dyke out philosophically about Life-Changing Decisions! What does changing your career from Lawyer to Comedian/A...
ListenSports w/ Erin McKeown – Ep. 56 from 2018-10-23T01:54
We really scored in getting the talented Erin McKeown to dyke out with us about Sports! As a musician, Erin loves how sports can provide entertainment for her outside of her industry. From the athl...
ListenMatchmaking w/ Kara Laricks – Ep. 55 from 2018-10-15T22:50:36
Fashion designer turned reality-TV-winner turned matchmaker Kara Laricks joins us to dyke out about matchmaking! We live in a world of swipes and DMs, but does that have to be the only way to date?...
ListenInterracial Relationships w/ Lauren Ashley Smith – Ep. 54 from 2018-10-08T21:50
We welcomed back Lauren Ashley Smith (The Rundown With Robin Thede, VH1.com, Netflix) to dyke out with us, because once was not enough! This time, we’re tackling the topic of interracial relationsh...
ListenGay Conversion Therapy w/ Garrard Conley – Ep. 53 from 2018-10-02T22:06:40
Garrard Conley, author of Boy Erased and activist, joined us to talk about his experience with gay conversion therapy and what it’s like to have a painful part of his past turned into a feature fil...
ListenLesbian Weddings w/ Lauren Ashley Smith – Ep. 52 from 2018-09-25T02:31
We’re back with Lauren Ashley Smith (The Rundown With Robin Thede, VH1.com, Netflix) to dyke out about lesbian weddings! Do dykes tie the knot differently than the heteros? Is it best to buck tradi...
ListenDisney w/ Jeanna Kadlec – Ep. 51 from 2018-09-11T01:13:39
Once upon a time, writer Jeanna Kadlec (Nylon Mag, Autostraddle) went to find her father in the woods, only to end up the prisoner of two dykey beasts. The beasts demanded she tell them about the q...
ListenDivorce w/ Tara Clancy- Ep. 50 from 2018-09-04T00:36
For our 50th episode, the incredible Tara Clancy (NYT, NPR’s Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me, The Moth) joined us to talk about Carolyn’s favorite topic: Divorce! Okay, maybe it’s not her favorite topic, b...
ListenU-Hauling w/ Sophie Santos – Ep. 49 from 2018-08-28T02:28:18
Comedian, writer, and actress Sophie Santos (UCB, The Lesbian Agenda, Handmaid’s Tale: The Musical) joins us to talk about the answer to the classic setup, “What does a lesbian bring to a second da...
ListenSummer w/ Nicole Pasquale – Ep. 48 from 2018-08-21T01:06
Summer, the official season of the gays, is winding down, so Nicole Pasquale (UCB, Woke AF) stopped by to dyke out about the good, the bad, and the disgustingly humid parts of these few months. Plu...
ListenActivism w/ Amy Siskind – Ep. 47 from 2018-08-14T01:31:38
THE Amy Siskind (The New Agenda, The Weekly List) joins us to Dyke Out about activism in the face of an administration that’s worse than season 7 of The L Word (or Below Her Mouth which we discuss ...
ListenMoney w/ Muna Mire – Ep. 46 from 2018-08-06T23:13
It makes the world go round but often leaves us feeling flat. Writer and producer Muna Mire (CondeNast, Teen Vogue, The Rundown With Robin Thede) joins us to talk about the struggles of being a que...
ListenRaised By Gay Moms w/ Lucas Connolly – ep. 45 from 2018-07-30T22:14:11
Comedian Lucas Connolly (Seeso’s New York’s Funniest Comedians) has FOUR gay moms, so we overlooked his affiliation with the patriarchy to have him come on the show and dyke out about his upbringin...
ListenHomoground w/ Lynn Casper – Ep. 44 from 2018-07-24T04:06
Lynn Casper, curator of queer indie music and founder/producer of Homoground, joins us to dyke out about how her popular and longstanding internet-radio-show-turned-podcast came to be. What’s diffe...
ListenComics Pt. 2 w/ Vita Ayala – Ep. 43 from 2018-07-12T21:47:45
And were back! Jet lag and time zones are the villains in this late-arriving second half of our Comics episode. Where did we leave off? Comic book writer Vita Ayala (DC comics, Black Mask Studios, ...
ListenComics w/ Vita Ayala – Ep. 42, Part 1 from 2018-07-03T03:06
Holy podcast batman! Comic book writer Vita Ayala joins us for our first two part episode where we dyke out about – you guessed it – comics! Vita has written for DC comics, Black Mask Studios, Vaul...
ListenGaysians w/ Diane Chen – Ep. 41 from 2018-06-26T00:21:33
Actor, Director, Performer, and notable Gaysian Diane Chen dykes out with us about…well…Gaysians! After hearing Diane speak on several panels at Clexacon, we knew she’d be a gaymazing guest, and sh...
ListenModeling w/ Sarah Hartshorne – Ep. 40 from 2018-06-19T04:00
Is the modeling community extra queer, or is it just that everything surrounding Cara Delevingne seems supes gay? We ask comedian and former America’s Next Top Model contestant Sarah Hartshorne abo...
ListenSoulmates w/ Morgan Miller – Ep. 39 from 2018-06-12T02:28:25
The UNIVERSE brought UCB’s Morgan Miller our way to dyke out about soulmates and why you can’t buy bedding at T.J. Maxx. Morgan is a hilarious comedian who has performed all over the country and ha...
ListenSex With Dudes w/ Vivianne A. Njoku – Ep. 38 from 2018-06-05T02:23
Queer multimedia artist, activist and educator, Vivianne A. Njoku, joins us for one of the funnest episodes to date! Don’t be fooled by the topic (but do have your vomit bags ready if even the mere...
ListenHair w/ Wazina Zondon – Ep. 37 from 2018-05-29T00:42
Wazina Zondon (HBO’s The Out List, Coming Out Muslim) swings by to talk about hair, and not just the kind on your head! We’re talking face, armpits, pubes, legs, arms – all of it. Do queer women fe...
ListenFemme Invisibility w/ Jacq The Stripper – Ep. 36 from 2018-05-22T00:31
Queer Bimbo(TM) Jacqueline Frances aka Jacq the Stripper graces the Dyking Out studio with her presence to talk about Femme Invisibility. Is it still even a thing? What kind of pressures do baby dy...
ListenPolitics of Misogyny w/ Talia Lavin – Ep. 35 from 2018-05-15T15:10
The hilarious, smart, and talented Talia Lavin (The New Yorker, Village Voice, Jewish Daily Forward) joins us to dyke out about the everyday rage fire that is misogyny, specifically, how it plays i...
ListenRepresentation in Movies w/ Erin Greenwell – Ep. 34 from 2018-05-01T04:36
Filmmaker Erin Greenwell – yeah, that’s right. We totally know people who aren’t comedians. Anyway, Erin Greenwell (Director, Writer, Editor of My Best Day which premiered at Sundance in 2012) join...
ListenKids&Gender w/ Caitlin Ruppert – Ep. 33 from 2018-04-23T20:43
Three cis-gendered queer women without kids walk into a podcasting studio to talk about challenging gender norms and raising children. What could go wrong? Comedian and child-caregiver Caitlin Rupp...
ListenThreesomes w/ Brooke Arnold – Ep. 32 from 2018-04-17T01:22
Three’s company in this episode all about threesomes. Comedian and recovering fundamentalist Brooke Arnold (Caroline’s on Broadway, Marie Claire, NYC Fringe Fest) dykes out with us about doing the ...
ListenYoung, Queer,&Famous w/ Sarah Pappalardo – Ep. 31 from 2018-04-10T21:52
Sarah Pappalardo, co-founder of Reductress, joins us to dyke out about all of the queer women of Hollywood, youtube, and wherever else you see cool entertainers who also happen to be women. Why is ...
ListenPansexuality w/ Mindy Raf – Ep. 30 from 2018-04-03T01:49
Pansexual is no longer just the term once used to describe pixyland.org. It’s actually a sexual identity that an increasing number of people in the LGBTQ community identify with despite its anemic ...
ListenSex w/ Emma Willmann – Ep. 29 from 2018-03-27T03:27
She plays the new girlfriend of the non-crazy ex-girlfriend on the CW’s Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, comedian Emma Willmann (Late Show, Sirius XM, NPR, HBO’s Crashing) drops by the Dyking Out studios to ta...
ListenThe Closet w/ Kelley Quinn – Ep. 28 from 2018-03-20T01:38
Because she’s no longer trapped in the closet, comedian Kelley Quinn (Upright Citizens Brigade) came to dyke out about what it’s like to have to keep your sexuality a secret. As many of us know, co...
ListenSex Ed w/ Alyssa Robbins – Ep. 27 from 2018-03-13T03:13:05
It’s our first guest who has a movie based on her life! Alyssa Robbins is a Brooklyn-based singer-songwriter and the inspiration behind the movie Becks. We are thrilled that she joined us to talk a...
ListenTeachers w/ Pat Brown – Ep. 26 from 2018-03-09T02:48
Fact: teachers make up 75% of the lesbian population – at least the lesbian population that Carolyn knows personally. We are thrilled to be joined by the incredible Pat Brown for this episode! She’...
ListenDating Straight Women w/ J. Fox-Jones – Ep. 25 from 2018-02-27T03:04
Comedian and dater of straight women, J. Fox-Jones joins us this week to tell us why some lesbians end up with women who used to exclusively date men. Do lesbians seek out straight women as a chall...
ListenPets w/ Becky Chicoine – Ep. 24 from 2018-02-20T02:31
Comedian Becky Chicoine (Comedy Central Comics to Watch, UCB) stops by the Dyking Out studio to talk about pets! Why do we get them? What happens to them when we’re going through a break-up? What m...
ListenCatholic School w/ Nikki Palumbo – Ep. 23 from 2018-02-13T04:17
Comedy writer and proud gaytheist Nikki Palumbo (UCB, Above Average, Reductress) went to catholic school and lived to tell us about it. It turns out it’s not the lesbian underground we thought it w...
ListenThe L Word w/ Gwynna Forgham-Thrift – Ep. 22 from 2018-02-06T01:05
We tried to hold out as long as we could, but alas, it’s time to talk about the show that – love it or hate it – revolutionized the way the LGBTQ women were portrayed on TV. Comedian and filmmaker ...
ListenStraight Women w/ Kaitlin Fontana – Ep. 21 from 2018-01-31T23:56
Fresh off of her directorial debut at Sundance, writer/director/comedian/badass Kaitlin Fontana (The Box, A&E’s Black&White, Franchesca) joins us to let us know once and for all, what is the deal w...
ListenPerformative Masculinity w/ Lorena Russi – Ep. 20 from 2018-01-23T03:18
Former pro soccer player, would-be Bobby Fischer and current hilarious comedian Lorena Russi (Late Night with Stephen Colbert, Spotify) joins us to talk about taxes, Lena Waithe, nazi haircuts and ...
ListenStrippers w/ Amber Rollo – Ep. 19 from 2018-01-16T05:13
How much do you know about women who strip? Before this episode, we knew at least one thing: many of them date other women. But what’s it really like to be the subject of the male gaze for pay? Sta...
ListenSexuality and the South w/ Jourdain Searles – Ep. 18 from 2018-01-02T23:03
Happy New Year! We’re back with an episode recorded in late 2017 but still very relevant. Many places in the South value tradition and religion, which means the region know for its hospitality is n...
ListenWNBA w/ Veronica Garza – Ep. 17 from 2017-12-18T21:57
Don’t pass over this slam dunk of an episode! Comedian and podcaster Veronica Garza joins us to dyke out about one of our favorite professional sports leagues, the WNBA. These players have talent, ...
ListenHats w/ Alex Song – Ep. 16 from 2017-12-12T02:49
Alex Song (NBC’s Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon, HBO’s Night of Too Many Stars, UCB) stops by to dyke out about the complicated relationship between lesbians and hats. Like a moth to a flame, our k...
ListenLesbians on the Internet w/ Claudia Cogan – Ep. 15 from 2017-12-05T00:04
Comedian Claudia Cogan (Last Comic Standing semi-finalist) joins us to reflect on how the internet has affected the lives of lesbians – real lesbians. Not the ones on porn sites (though there’s a l...
ListenLaw&Order w/ Megan Harney – Ep. 14 from 2017-11-28T04:48
From sodomy laws to gay marriage, to the right to use the bathroom that corresponds to your gender, legal cases have played a large role in the lives of LGBTQ people for centuries. While we’ve made...
ListenBisexuality w/ May Wilkerson – Ep. 13 from 2017-11-20T23:38
Do bisexuals have the best of both worlds, or the worst of all worlds? Reformed bisexual and comedian May Wilkerson (Someecards, Crazy; In Bed podcast, Caroline’s on Broadway) joins us to discuss h...
ListenProblematic Gay Men w/ Aisha Keller – Ep. 12 from 2017-11-14T01:39
Lesbians and gay men. Can we all just get along? Not if they insist on being unapologetically misogynistic! Friend of the podcast Aisha Keller joins us to dyke out about the problematic gay men we’...
ListenMental Illness w/ Marisol Brady – ep. 11 from 2017-11-07T01:46
For many LGBTQ people, it’s easier to be out today than 20 years ago, but we still face alarming levels of suicide, mental illness, and substance abuse that often stem from systematic oppression an...
ListenAllies w/ Elsa Waithe – Ep. 10 from 2017-10-31T00:03
After a weeklong hiatus filled with lobster and crying, we’re back to tell you we don’t need allies, at least not as they are currently defined. Comedian and rad activist (ractivist?) Elsa Waithe (...
ListenReligion w/ Eman El Husseini - Ep. 9 from 2017-10-16T23:50
Comedians Carolyn Bergier and Sarah York pray that you tune into our latest episode on Religion where the supremely funny and talented Eman El Husseini (Just For Laughs, Boston Comedy Festival) sto...
ListenMarriage w/ Jess Salomon – Ep. 8 from 2017-10-10T01:01
Ever want to dyke out with someone for all of eternity? It’s not for everyone, but there are still a lot of people in the LGBTQ community who want to enter the traditional institution of marriage. ...
ListenBreakups w/ Ashley Gavin – Ep. 7 from 2017-10-03T03:31
Listen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. You are in for a treat this week as actor and standup Ashley Gavin (Gotham Comedy Live on AXS TV, FOX’s Laughs, SeeSo, S...
ListenGender Identity w/ Jes Tom – Ep. 6 from 2017-09-26T01:54
We welcome stand-up comedian Jes Tom and dyke out about gender identity! Do gender roles exist in queer relationships? How do people react to different identities and what privileges come with them...
ListenFriendship w/ Wanjiko Eke – Ep. 5 from 2017-09-19T01:02
Comedian Wanjiko Eke joins us to dyke out about friendship! Can women who love women be just friends? What’s it like to be a straight girl’s lesbian bestie? Do lesbians all fall for their straight ...
ListenDealing with Straight Men w/ Sydnee Washington – Ep. 4 from 2017-09-11T23:19:03
We are joined by comedian Sydnee Washington to dyke out about the burden of the uninvited straight men in our lives. We also talk about Jay-Z’s mom, lesbians with roosters, and the new season of Am...
ListenPolyamory w/ comedian Chewy May – Ep. 3 from 2017-09-05T02:15
Note: This episode does not do a great job of discussing polyamory, and we will definitely revisit the topic again. Our Pansexuality episode does a better job for now. Stand up comedian Chewy May j...
ListenComing Out, w/ comedian Sarah Kennedy – Ep. 2 from 2017-09-03T02:25
Listen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. We dyke out with stand up comedian and host of the Dwellin’ on Ellen podcast, Sarah Kennedy on the topic of coming out....
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