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Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.

Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

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101 Bringing Kink Back To Paradise from 2022-05-31T23:27:48

Our first episode since before the world turned upside down, thanks for still being here!

We're coming back on the scene by hosting a kink contingent July 23-28 at Swingtopia 2022, at ...

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100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial Episode from 2019-08-18T21:33:31

To celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories.

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099 Dungeon Night Debrief 2018 from 2019-07-20T22:29:32

This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun)

This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught...

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098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2) from 2019-06-23T16:10:04

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018....

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097 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 1) from 2019-06-15T16:32:47

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recappi...

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096 So JV Almost Died Last Year... from 2019-06-03T22:18:15

After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends!

 

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095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 Takeover from 2018-02-11T17:37:02

Part 2

This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were ab...

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094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 Takeover from 2017-12-30T01:31:01

This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an ab...

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093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2) from 2017-10-02T21:56:52

Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyo...

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092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1) from 2017-10-01T18:14:35

After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend.

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091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own Episode from 2017-09-30T01:54:22

While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertainin...

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090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan Taormino from 2017-09-04T21:28:14

Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex...

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089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet Life from 2017-07-09T23:39:33

We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life<...

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088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play Happen from 2017-06-09T02:12:41

While in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it.

Topics include turning "no" into something positiv...

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087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity" from 2017-04-20T00:57:21

 

Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity."

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086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2 from 2017-04-04T00:18:12

We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at:

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085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap&LIfe On The Swingset 7th Anniversary from 2017-03-18T02:58:17

In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. ...

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084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair Flea from 2017-03-09T02:59:47

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of...

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083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSM from 2017-03-03T00:15:18

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that inte...

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082 PTSD&BDSM from 2017-03-01T00:57:14

Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question.

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081 New Year, New Studio from 2017-01-05T01:25:56

After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think!

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080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup from 2016-11-21T03:18:07

On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of seve...

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079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online from 2016-10-23T17:10:53

A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online.

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078 Orgasms On Command from 2016-10-06T23:27:56

A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit...

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077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel from 2016-10-06T01:29:06

Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Listen

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076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation from 2016-08-08T01:17:57

For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind eno...

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075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015 from 2015-11-24T00:37:31

This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, ...

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074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance Anxiety from 2015-09-01T22:51:36

Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kin...

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073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger&The Prof from 2015-06-06T23:14:27

Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip t...

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072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Who've Become Educators&Advocates from 2015-05-16T16:00

A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery.

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071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for Men from 2015-04-02T02:04:04

This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Listen

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070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink from 2015-02-12T03:18:13

A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can...

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069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystCon from 2015-01-15T02:43:51

Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow Listen

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068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, "My Life On The Swingset" from 2015-01-06T05:01

Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies...

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067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms&Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge from 2014-12-21T16:59:10

This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.

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066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky Cowboy from 2014-12-09T02:23:45

Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an...

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065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The Swingset from 2014-11-26T22:24:16

This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life o...

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064 Dealing With An Asexual Relationship from 2014-11-23T21:27:52

A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually.

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063 Back From Desire from 2014-11-21T02:56

Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this ...

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062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In Cancun from 2014-06-29T21:04:38

A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too m...

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061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More! from 2014-06-11T19:00

We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our mi...

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060 The Hiatus Endeth from 2014-05-29T00:57

We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on t...

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059 Talking Dirty, Overbearing Parents, Bringing the Kink Back from 2014-01-13T00:41:15

A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to br...

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058 Cannibalism Fetish, Kegel Exercises For The Blind, Muscle Relaxers Suppressing Orgasms from 2013-12-23T01:11:49

Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxer...

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057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For Teacher from 2013-11-24T22:43:49

Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications t...

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056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish Modeling from 2013-11-10T16:54:57

Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications t...

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055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN Expo from 2013-11-02T16:54

Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the...

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054 Adultery Isn't Cool from 2012-12-04T01:33:18

We discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so man...

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053 Getting Girls, Breaking The Swing Ice, The Gift of Panties, Kegel Exercise Orgasms from 2012-09-24T22:04:14

Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to brea...

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052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator Advice from 2012-09-14T01:54:16

Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, an...

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051 Vaginoplasty, Loss of Focus During Sex from 2012-09-05T02:36:51

We begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 ...

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050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried Up from 2012-08-26T21:37

We talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting ...

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049 Weight Loss&Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours&Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For Shara from 2012-08-18T02:54

We review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about h...

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048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels Like from 2012-08-08T01:42

Topics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time...

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047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence Issues from 2012-08-02T01:10:19

Shara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning...

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046 Cheating Swingers, Painful Boners, Working in the Adult Industry, Becoming A Phone Sex Operator from 2012-07-24T01:21

Listener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to bec...

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045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies from 2012-03-31T22:00

Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive ...

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044 Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play from 2012-03-21T03:00

Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a wo...

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043 The Clitoris: Things You Probably Don't Know from 2012-02-23T04:20

We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered ...

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042 BDSM Guide: Feminism and Sexual Submission from 2012-01-18T04:07

As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.

We also announce the digital re-rel...

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041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of Sex from 2011-11-16T05:30

Listener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by...

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040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms from 2011-10-25T05:58:20

Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can...

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039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and Bicuriosity from 2011-09-30T23:30

Topics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and q...

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038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space from 2011-09-13T05:07:24

The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, disci...

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037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The Gay from 2011-08-22T05:25:40

Listener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant ...

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036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born" from 2011-08-03T04:30

NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This ...

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035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners from 2011-07-17T14:58:53

Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes...

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034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys from 2011-06-30T02:20

Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to di...

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033 Advice Quickie: Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A Swinger from 2011-06-23T22:23

This quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset....

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032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues from 2011-06-15T05:18

This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psycholo...

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031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships from 2011-05-31T23:48

We're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers a...

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030 Advice Line: Anal&Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex&New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky Play from 2011-05-18T02:32

Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a ...

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029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers Online from 2011-05-03T03:38

This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys e...

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028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant from 2011-04-21T04:52

Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a ...

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027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words from 2011-04-06T06:00

Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can...

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026 Gays In The U.S. Military from 2011-03-22T03:19

An in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the stra...

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025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration Hesitation from 2011-03-15T05:35

A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, a...

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024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient World from 2011-03-08T03:15

A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly. 

 

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023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side from 2011-02-21T06:07

A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom l...

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022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And More from 2011-02-14T05:58

Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home.

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021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous Complications from 2011-02-07T04:40

Celebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications...

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020 Audio Erotica "The Taking of Ariel" from 2011-01-31T02:36

A sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the Realm of Aeodar, a publication announcement for one of J.V.'s short stories, and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from the archives.

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019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties&Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On Kink from 2011-01-24T06:34

A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a coupl...

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018 Advice Line: Why Guys Like Facial Cumshots, Laser Pube Removal, Unsafe Sex Toys, False Accusations of Cheating from 2011-01-17T05:12

Topics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, bein...

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017 BDSM Basics Part 1: What 'BDSM' Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM Porn from 2011-01-10T02:25

A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM.  This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as...

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016 Advice Line: Health Issues With Ass-To-Pussy, Pussy Shaving Woes, Music And Sex, Hospital-Grade Ball Shaving from 2010-12-27T04:40

Topics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surger...

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015 Audio Erotica "Timing Is Everything" from 2010-12-20T00:29

Something a little different this time, with J.V. reading an original erotic short story.

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014 Laryngitis Sucks from 2010-12-13T01:20

It seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend.  I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in...

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013 Advice Line: Taking Virginity, Managing Two Subs In A Threesome, Sexual Piercings from 2010-12-06T10:24

Topics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation.

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012 Cunni Linguistics: How To Be Good At Licking Pussy And Why Shaving Improves Oral Sex from 2010-11-29T06:08

The art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs.  Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how t...

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011 Advice Line: Threesome Insecurity, An Awesome Oral Sex Game, Age-Inappropriate Relationships, Fixing A Lame Sex Life from 2010-11-22T04:25

Specific tips on making your own Dupli-Dong, a great website for learning more about the practices of BDSM, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, ...

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
010 The Art of Smoking Pole: Why Blowjobs Are Important, How To Suck A Dick and How Shaving Can Get You Blown More Often from 2010-11-15T05:15

A thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker.  Includes The myth that it's demeaning t...

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
009 Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, A Woman Who Can't Masturbate to Climax, Introducing Kink To Your Bedroom from 2010-11-07T05:52

Yet another benefit to spanking the monkey for guys, advice to a woman who can climax with a guy but not alone, a listener coping with a dead relationship, and some tips on introducing BDSM to a...

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
008 Sex Toys Rock: Why Every Woman Should Own Dildos and Vibrators, How Guys Can Take Advantage Of Them from 2010-11-01T02:53

The history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
007 Masturbation is Good For You from 2010-10-18T01:33

The ins, outs, ups and downs of literally taking things into your own hands.

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your Lover from 2010-10-08T02:50

A quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have ho...

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
005 Religion And Sexual Shame from 2010-10-04T05:22

An extremely critical look at the history of religion and shame.  As a note of warning, some listeners have described this episode as a rant. 

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
004 Male Sexual Stamina: How To Love Her Long Time from 2010-09-19T07:34

Episode 4 covers the various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and wom...

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003 Meet The Female Orgasm: Fake Orgasms, Women Who Can't Climax, Orgasm Denial from 2010-09-06T10:03

A variety of topics relating to the female orgasm are covered, from why fake orgasms are the worst thing that's ever happened to female sexuality, to how to use orgasm denial to push climaxes to...

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Ending The Sexual Dark Age
002 Size Matters...Kinda: The Truth About Cock Size and Tit Size from 2010-08-22T08:28

A lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies.  This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in s...

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