42: Mark Yuzik Comedy Hypnotist and Transformational Speaker On How To Break Free Of Old Patterns And Live Your Best Life - a podcast by Genecia Alluora, Miss Singapore Universe (Runner Up), Miss Singapore International, Miss Singapore Chinese Cosmos 2011, Instant Podcast Leader, Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint Author, Online Reputation Strategist, Award-Winning Entrepreneur
from 2020-04-20T07:00
FWEP00042 Mark Yuzuik
In this episode, we will talk about what a difference one person can make! Each one can make a difference and together we can make a change. Mr. Mark Yuzuik shared how he started and fulfilled he is on helping others.
(01:23-01:48) Well, I’ve been doing shows for almost 30 years and all over 10,000 shows and I thought you know if we can do a show and help people have fun. Can we really help someone to get to the next level with these blocks? And if people have blocks in life, how we get rid of these blocks? So understanding the patterns of people that they run every day, you can influence your own mind to get rid of the blocks.
(02:48-03:05) What made me interested is realizing that I could take it to the next level. If somebody is stuck and you know that the reason you’re stuck in one little thing and you could help them. Imagine what you can do with the masses out there and to me, I get more fulfillment out of helping somebody that has been stuck for years because they don’t know why.
(04:01-04:19) One person makes a difference. Think about how rewarding that is versus making excuses why I can’t do that. If you tell yourself you can’t do that then why you’re doing that. Is it to connect and be humble to the person or are you telling something you can’t because you love the person and you want them to grow?
(04:31-04-55) They don’t believe that they can do it. Secondly, they listen to other people. They get other people’s limitations and beliefs. That’s must be like this! And they are influenced by the media and TV and everything else out there. They listen to negative programming it’s called TV programming. They listen to that and guess what? They adopt that same belief and so they wake up questioning What if I can do it?
We grow when we face challenges.
Challenges make life interesting and overcoming it makes life more meaningful. Mr. Mark shared some life advice on how we face these challenges on a daily basis.
(05:28-05:45) Everybody goes to challenges where we have questions on ourselves. Am I really able to do this or not? What would make me a good leader? You just have to get up to and face your fear and just know that it’s not about you. If we all focus on how we going to feel, if we failed or succeed then we’re not suing anybody.
(06:18-06:30) It wasn’t a challenge for me, it was a desire for me to succeed. I focused on what I want, why I want to succeed. Now don’t let anybody tell me I can’t do it. In fact, is the more they told me I can’t do it, the more motivated I was.
(07:01-07:26) She is a model and also a speaker. She speaks to women’s groups all over just got back from Mexico and we met 11 years ago at a bookshelf, a large bookshelf. We were promoting a children’s’ book on respect, responsibility, everybody has value. She was in the book next to me.
Mutual understanding is the main backbone of every happy relationship.
Mr. Mark and his wife is a normal couple that faces challenges that together they conquer. They understand that both of them are different and they understand these differences.
(08:09-08:34) We don’t blame each other for anything. We understand that people are different. And if you can respect somebody, understand why they are feeling what they are feeling, then it doesn’t have to be the end of you if you could understand them. And you’re all about “How can I serve this person”. At that point, you’re not focused on what you are getting, you’re appreciating what you have.
(09:52-10:07) She also wants me to be happy and we do things for each other not because we are expecting but because we choose to, we want to and if it is expected then what are you doing? This is a business transaction relationship. Well, if I give you this then you give me that is a transaction.
(10:35-10:55) Women are the most powerful human beings and I believe men are strong. Because when a woman can stand behind a man and support him to be the man who is going to provide for her, a man feels alive and a woman feels like the queen that she should really is. I think we should worship every woman out there and be grateful that they are in our lives.
(12:12-12:22) Have variety. Do things that are unexpected. What would you do for so many when you first met, anything. Why would that slow down? Why would you not continue to surprise and do things for her?
If you really want something, you will always find a way.
If it’s important to you, you make it into your actions to achieve what you really want. And if it fails, you get up and move forward. Mr. Mark shared:
(13:21-13:46) Number one, if you thought what you really wanted and not what your getting but your giving then you start moving. If you do something that doesn’t work, if it fails then people will judge you then what we do? We talk ourselves out of it and we think Oh, my God! So what you do is to go on and be busy. Instead of being productive, you’re busy.
(14:03-14:19) We learn from each other and I think when we learn from each other, you get to grow and for one thing, how do you break that mind, that mind is condition. You know what people would ask me, it’s a condition. They have to condition themselves to procrastinate just like you can tell yourself in action.
It takes change to make a change.
Progress is impossible without a change. Always remember that you are doing what you are doing right now because it would make your life better. Mr. Mark mentioned on how not to get stuck on the current life that you have.
(15:05-15:24) Everybody is different. It’s who you hanging out with. Sometimes you think your family is your best coach. You want to find a good coach? Find somebody who experienced it because experience from there, you could teach. From knowledge without experience, is an opinion.
(15:52-16:07) When you have enough reasons why you want something other than yourself that point you will move forward. Have you ever wanted something so bad in your life and you think about how you going to get it and you’re determined to get it? Who has it? Everybody. They don’t think about what they have to do, they think about the results.
(17:07-17:25) I think that it always changes based on the needs that we have. Because if we are financially independent and we are not free, how good is it? But if we are free from financial independence, where we at? If we feel fabulous, that’s great. We going to keep feeling that way, what are we going to do with that feeling? So I think all three words work together.
(18:37-18:54) You don’t think about it. When you have the thought, you react right away and when you could react, you break it and you start creating a new pattern that one thing you like that’s been holding. Nobody wants to procrastinate, nobody wants that fear, that we do, based on people that will judge us.
(20:45-21:08) You have the ability to make a change in a moment. You have a lifetime to stay stuck and that’s not who you are. If you don’t like where you are, you don’t feel like your body, when you don’t feel and tell your body we going to make some changes. If you can make the right moves and get out of being stuck that one person that you know, I’m not there to help one person, I’m here to help as many as I can.
Vision is the ability to see potential in what others overlook.
Mr. Mark envisions that he can make a difference by helping everyone to change their perspective in life by getting your mind set with everything.
(21:16-21:38) My vision is to really get after and get many people and create programs and products so that people so that they can move forward in life so they stop making excuses so we come together as a world, not just a country, as a world. Because what if we thought that we have one day left, will we judge somebody or we love somebody?
(22:33-22:53) We just started a podcast channel. It’s called Hit your mindset. Get your mind set. Set, for what? Everything! Everything you know even at the book Creating the life that you want. I give it to people. The reason that I give to people because I don’t want to them to say that Should I buy? No! Read the one chapter.
(23:44-23-52) Don’t you ever let anybody influence you and take your mind from you. You have the ability and you’re capable to decide on how you want to live. Stay away from negative people.
Key Takeaways:
- One person can make a difference.
- All people are different and unique in their own way.
- If you want respect, respect others first.
- Those who love deeply never grow old.
- Start each day with a grateful heart.
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