10 Ways We Self-Sabotage Our Relationships - Lyn Smith&Lorraine LaPointe - a podcast by Lyn Smith
from 2022-09-28T23:00
Lorraine LaPointe is a Mindset Wellness Specialist who helps people believe that love is possible and can happen faster than they may think.
In this episode, Lorraine joins Lyn to talk about 10 self-sabotaging behaviours and how they can hold us back from experiencing true love and happiness in our relationships.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- We each have a judging voice inside of us which steps forward and judges first self, then others, and then circumstances.
- We all have a full range of self-sabotaging attributes within us. Work can only be done on dismantling them or making them less effective, by assessing the level at which each one is operating.
- Our self-sabotaging instinct is one that has been carried forward from our primal days, when it was used as a natural defence mechanism. In todays world, it largely manifests itself as a threat in our relationships.
BEST MOMENTS
'We have an inner critical voice'
'When the 'controller' becomes prevalent in a relationship, the other person will shut down'
'Saboteurs are not your authentic self'
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ABOUT THE GUEST - Lorraine LaPointe - Mindset Wellness Specialist.
Lorraine is an intuitive, dynamic Mindset Wellness Specialist. As a former Educational Leader, she knows the importance of releasing emotional baggage to set yourself FREE from the Blame-Shame-Game.
These days, she helps you focus on the resolution of past "trauma drama", because when your inner Saboteurs are dialed down, you can stop eroding your Self-Trust, and begin to live a healthier, happier and more purposeful life.
We need to feel GOOD on purpose and express ourselves fully, so we enjoy better physical and mental health as we confidently engage in the deep, loving relationships that satisfy our soul.
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ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.
CONTACT METHOD
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