How An Unhealed Betrayal Affects Your Relationships - Lyn Smith&Dr Debi Silber - a podcast by Lyn Smith
from 2022-03-03T00:00
The pain of Dr. Debi Silber’s personal experiences of betrayal led her to studing the psychology of transformation & human potential and to conducting her own PHD research on how we experience betrayal and the potential it can hold for healing, change and growth. In this episode, Dr Silber talks frankly about how unhealed betrayals can negatively impact our future relationships, and what we can do about it to heal and move forward.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The pain of betrayal is unlike any other pain, because it feels so intentional. It is magnified because this pain was caused by the decision of someone we trusted.
- Post Betrayal Transformation is the complete and total rebuild of your life and of yourself after an experience of betrayal.
- After betrayal, emotionally, 88% feel extreme sadness. 83% feel overwhelming anger. 82% feel hurt. 80% experience anxiety. 79% feel stress. And yet despite these feelings, life must somehow continue.
BEST MOMENTS
'Boundaries were always getting crossed'
'Because it is so intentional, we take it so personally'
'It takes a complete and total rebuild of the self'
VALUABLE RESOURCES
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ABOUT THE GUEST
Dr. Debi Silber - Holistic Psychologist, Health, Mindset and Personal Development Expert
Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again, and is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed: The Effortless Path to Release Resistance, Get Unstuck and Create a Life You Love.
Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most.
Debi understands the demands of the busy woman because she’s one too. Managing The PBT Institute®, teaching, speaking, coaching, mentoring and writing, she’s also married to her husband Adam for 28 years, is the proud mom of Dani, Dylan, Camryn and Cole (24, 23, 20 and 18) and is the proud mom of 6 dogs, Scooby, Nike, Roxy, Gigi, Brody and Kasey.
Website - https://thepbtinstitute.com/
FB - https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransform
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/debisilber
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.
CONTACT METHOD
Further episodes of Hearts Entwined Podcast
Further podcasts by Lyn Smith
Website of Lyn Smith