How To Resolve Conflicts - with Lyn Smith - a podcast by Lyn Smith
from 2019-01-31T00:00
The impact feminine and masculine energy have on our relationships. Using her own experiences Lyn explains how subconsciously our energy states influence the health & quality of our intimate relationships.
If you want to understand how your relationship works and what to do in times of conflict listen in.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Why is Self Help Mainly Aimed at Women?
Men and women are different. Usually men like to solve their problems themselves whilst women are more likely to share & seek help for their relationship issues.
When you discover how to reclaim and step into your feminine energy you will experience more passion, intimacy and fulfilment in your relationship.
- How did I Become an Expert?
As a result of the traumatic assaults I suffered as a teenager I can now see how those events impacted my subsequent intimate relationships. I initially defaulted into an unhealthy feminine energy state and this resulted in a series of disastrous unhealthy relationships. Any relationships that might have been successful I self-sabotaged because of my lack of self-love & self-worth.
All this happened unconsciously as the majority of us don’t understand how feminine and masculine energy works.
During my survival journey I discovered & implemented some very powerful passion & intimacy techniques and strategies that really worked.
Now I’ve reclaimed my natural healthy feminine power and 'let go' of the need to wear my masculine suit of armour.
- How to Resolve Conflict
At the beginning of my relationship with my soul mate and life partner, we had regular arguments and it took me quite a time to discover how to resolve these conflicts, by using my feminine energy and understanding that certain steps should be followed in a particular order.
On reflection, I can see that I was using my masculine energy to try and resolve any conflicts and this resulted in it escalating as there were now 2 masculine energies in the room competing.
I have now learnt to resolve an argument by using my healthy feminine energy this calms things down, maintains the intimacy and resolves things peacefully.
BEST MOMENTS
‘It’s aimed at you because women are more receptive’
‘I wore a suit of masculine armour because I wanted to protect myself’
‘I started to feel very unfulfilled in the relationship with my ex’
‘Feeling unfulfilled was the result of my own controlling masculine behaviour’
‘I now feel really 'alive' for the first time in a relationship’
‘This is what I’ve been craving all my life’
‘For me that all happened’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
- Hearts Entwined Podcast
-Apple Podcasts (iTunes)
-Spotify
-Stitcher
ABOUT THE HOST
Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.
Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.
CONTACT METHOD
Further episodes of Hearts Entwined Podcast
Further podcasts by Lyn Smith
Website of Lyn Smith