How To Use Your Feminine Power - with Lyn Smith - a podcast by Lyn Smith

How To Use Your Feminine Power

‘The Queen of HEARTS’ explains how we can reclaim our feminine power and how it can be the source of great strength for us in attracting / creating lasting healthy, fulfilling relationships.

If you want to understand more about what femininity is and how you can authentically be more feminine in your relationship then listen to this episode now

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• What is femininity?

These are the traits of being sensual, soft and nurturing but there is also the strength of vulnerability.

Vulnerability can be our greatest strength when it comes from a place of love, high value and self-worth. The default state of low-value feminine vulnerability which comes from a place of fear will not attract / create a healthy fulfilling relationship.

When you are vulnerable from a place of high value feminine energy it is a source of great strength and power in any healthy fulfilling relationship.

• How do you find the power?

It’s about relinquishing inappropriate control. Women who are controlling or trying to gain control in a relationship are in their masculine energy state and this is not going to attract / create lasting passion, intimacy and fulfilment.

If you work on your own energy states and behaviours, as they positively change, his behaviours will positively change in response.

• How to communicate?

It’s important to acknowledge that the way we talk can be perceived as nagging by our men.

Lots of women feel they are not listened to by their men, but this is usually about choosing the right time to have the conversation rather than not being heard.

Men are more - one task at a time - focused, so if he’s engaged in an activity then know it’s not going to be a great time to seek his immediate attention.

A good way to approach a man when you want his attention is to say ‘when you’ve got a minute, would / will you…then outline what it is you desire and want.

Using the word 'would' is better than 'could' - For example - If a man said, ‘Could you marry me?’ it’s not as powerful as saying ‘Would you marry me?’

This highlights the importance of choosing the right words and way to ask for something,

‘Would or will you?’ are more powerful than ‘could or can you?’

• What actually makes you feel feminine?

It varies from woman to woman, pink is not for everyone, but you do need to be aware of what things work for you in making you feel your most feminine

Implement the things that make you feel more feminine, knowing and using these will make you exude femininity and this is a crucial part of attracting healthy high value masculine men.

Once you have worked on generating those feelings of self-love, deservedness and high value around yourself you will see that from this place there will be great power and strength in showing your feminine vulnerability.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Do this instead of 'demanding' you want his attention now’

‘You’re much more likely to feel like you are being heard’

‘Be more aware about having any expectations’

‘Men prefer to work out their own problems whilst women are more likely to reach out and share with others’

‘Most of us are scared of being who we really are’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

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ABOUT THE HOST

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

CONTACT METHOD

lyn@hearts-entwined.com

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