Why We Choose The Wrong Relationships - Lyn Smith&Harris Eddie Hill - a podcast by Lyn Smith

Lyn explores the topic of why we choose the wrong relationships. Joined by guest Harris Eddie Hill, a childhood trauma coach, they delve into the subject of childhood trauma and how it influences our relationship choices.

Harris shares a personal journey of healing from trauma and explains the importance of emotional experiences in processing any trauma, and together, Lyn and Harris discuss the impact of childhood patterns on adult relationships and the need for self-awareness and education so we can break free from any unhealthy dynamics. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Childhood trauma plays a significant role in why we choose the wrong relationships. Many people may not recognise subtle forms of trauma and how it impacts their relationship choices.


• The pattern of familiarity is a major factor in choosing the wrong relationship. Our bodies naturally respond to what is familiar, even if it is unhealthy or dysfunctional.


• It is important to become educated about what is a healthy relationship and to seek help in processing trauma and address any underlying issues. This can help individuals develop a clear understanding of what healthy relationships look like and have the courage to aspire to achieve them.


• Healing from childhood trauma can lead to heightened intuitive, spiritual and empathic abilities. Clearing trauma allows individuals to integrate and use these abilities in a positive way.

BEST MOMENTS

"The number one cause of almost everybody's issues or issues that made it difficult for them to manage their health, always came back to childhood trauma." 

"Trauma in the brain is basically a memory or an experience or a group of experiences that the memory never processed and filed away and that's why when it's triggered it feels like it's in the present and it's happening to us now." 

"I realised that actually I was putting up with the same things that my mum put up with. I overvalued my ability to be calm, to not judge, to not react, which made me way too submissive, or subservient"

"Don't give up, don't blame yourself. There's absolutely something you can do about this with guidance from somebody else, like myself. It can absolutely get easier and you can begin to enjoy it and have nice relationships."

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ABOUT THE GUEST - Harris Eddie Hill - Childhood Trauma Coach

Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) is an out-and-proud nonbinary podcaster, best-selling author, coach and founder of the Centre for Childhood Trauma Healing; a platform dedicated to supporting neurodivergent, queer or highly empathic adults to overcome their childhood trauma and begin to thrive.

Shortlisted for the Positive Impact and Sustainability Speaker of the Year at the Speaker Awards, Harris is passionate about demystifying healing and helping people to connect to their own ability to heal. Clients take back their power from a medical system that doesn’t always offer tangible solutions and doesn’t always educate clients on their ability to heal.

Harris has survived and overcome trauma, unaccepting family members, cancer, abusive relationships, physical paralysis and mental health challenges, yet has found their way to emotional freedom and is now passing that power forward.

Website - https://www.mxharrishill.com
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/harriseddiehill
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TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mxharrishill
YouTube - https://youtube.com/@mxharrishill
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mxharrishill

ABOUT THE HOST

Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.

She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.

Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.

HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.

Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.

CONTACT METHOD
lyn@hearts-entwined.com

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