Podcasts by How Married Are You?

He's leading me on isn't he? #HMAY Ep. 203 from 2023-12-14T05:55:30

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What does a husband offer when he's broke #HMAY Ep. 202 from 2023-12-13T06:46:46

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I'm Jealous Of Her New Friend :( #HMAY Ep. 201 from 2023-11-25T00:33

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My Wife Wants More Kids, I don't! #HMAY Ep. 200 from 2023-11-23T08:39:03

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Mr. Intentional Or Mr. Complicated #HMAY Ep. 199 from 2023-10-24T14:00

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Should you be homeless with your man? #HMAY Ep. 198 from 2023-10-19T14:00

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Short King No Ring #HMAY Ep. 197 from 2023-10-18T00:00

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A Lie Birthed Uriah #HMAY Ep. 196 from 2023-10-17T23:26

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Resenting Sex with My Husband for 9 years #HMAY Ep.195 from 2023-10-11T19:48:34

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H*ND JOBS ONLY #HMAY Ep.194 from 2023-10-06T21:26:04

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When is the right time to Quit? #HMAY Ep. 193 from 2023-10-03T23:09:24

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Is True Love Unrealistic? #HMAY Ep.192 from 2023-09-28T14:30

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My Absent Father Came Back after 11 Years #HMAY Ep. 191 from 2023-09-26T14:00

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He's Overweight I'm Not Attracted To Him #HMAY Ep.190 from 2023-09-21T14:00

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No Job Or No Purpose #HMAY Ep. 189 from 2023-09-14T21:00:12

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Husband Refuses to serve #HMAY Ep. 188 from 2023-09-13T04:48:50

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Are we having sex or not? #HMAY 187 from 2023-09-09T01:18:35

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Building Business together #HMAY Ep. 186 from 2023-09-05T13:30

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*BONUS* HMAY?! LIVE Episode! We did it, y'all!!! from 2023-08-25T22:40:21

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I Miss My Family When I'm With His #HMAY Ep.185 from 2023-07-28T07:00

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#HMAY Ep. 184 Unsolicited advice from 2023-07-27T23:28:37

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TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT #HMAY183 from 2023-07-27T22:48:42

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THE EXPECTATIONS AND REALITIES OF MARRIAGE #HMAY Ep.182 from 2023-07-19T04:09:01

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"My Family Doesn't Approve of Him" #HMAY Ep.181 from 2023-07-13T13:45

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"My Mother Banned My Husband From Visiting" #HMAY Ep.180 from 2023-07-12T00:00

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YOUR FAMILY OR YOUR SPOUSE? #HMAY Ep.179 from 2023-07-06T13:45

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WE DO TO MUCH TOGETHER #HMAY Ep.178 from 2023-07-05T17:22:45

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DON'T LOSE YOURSELF IN MARRIAGE #HMAY Ep. 178 from 2023-07-05T16:50:52

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"ONE THING LED TO ANOTHER" #HMAY Ep. 177 from 2023-06-30T14:00

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Should A Husband Always Lead? #HMAY Ep.176 from 2023-06-22T13:45:08

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"I'M MARRIED TO A MAN-CHILD" #HMAY Ep.175 from 2023-06-21T16:59:27

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Is Marriage Really 50/50? #HMAY Ep.173 from 2023-06-13T22:41:42

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"Is My Partner Ready To Have Kids?" #HMAY Ep.172 from 2023-06-08T13:45:04

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How We Ended Up Together #HMAY Ep.171 from 2023-06-06T13:45:23

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"I Let Him Get To Third Base?" #HMAY Ep. 170 from 2023-06-01T13:45:14

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Recapturing The Spark #HMAY Ep.168 from 2023-05-25T13:45:12

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This Podcast Got Us Heated At Each Other #HMAY Ep.167 from 2023-05-23T17:30:05

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A Love Letter to the Younger Wife| #HMAY Ep. 166 from 2023-05-19T01:03:48

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Should You Move In Together Before Marriage? #HMAY Ep.165 from 2023-05-16T13:45:28

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Our Children Take Us For Granted #HMAY Ep. 164 from 2023-05-11T13:45:44

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"You Are On The Slow Pathway To Divorce" #HMAY Ep.163 from 2023-05-09T13:45:10

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Is Marriage An Idol? #HMAY Ep. 162 from 2023-05-04T13:45:43

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Submitting To Your Spouse #HMAY Ep.161 from 2023-04-27T16:43:29

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Setting Expectations In Your Marriage #HMAY Ep.160 from 2023-04-26T19:58:26

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Help Mates #HMAY Ep.159 from 2023-04-22T01:38:25

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Moving Forward After Being Betrayed #HMAY Ep.158 from 2023-04-18T13:45:33

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How To Co-Parent Well #HMAY Ep.157 from 2023-04-13T13:45:50

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Let's Talk About Sex #HMAY Ep. 156 from 2023-04-11T17:09:17

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Can You Still Be Friends With Your EX's Family? #HMAY Ep. 155 from 2023-04-10T21:38:27

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How To Drop the Hint #HMAY Ep. 154 from 2023-04-04T13:45:32

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"I Don't Want To Submit" #HMAY Ep. 153 from 2023-03-30T13:45:13

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Showing Up For Your Friends #HMAY Ep. 152 from 2023-03-28T16:44:04

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Making Friends As An Adult #HMAY Ep.151 from 2023-03-23T23:06:09

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Love Languages #HMAY Ep. 150 from 2023-03-21T19:37:34

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The Importance of Communicating to Your Partner #HMAY Ep. 149 from 2023-03-16T13:45:35

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A Fairytale Date Night #HMAY Ep.148 from 2023-03-14T13:45:39

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Loving Your Spouse When You Don't Like Them #HMAY 147 from 2023-03-09T14:45

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Don't Gate Keep Marital Success #HMAY Ep. 146 from 2023-03-07T15:59:05

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What Is Our Why? #HMAY Ep. 145 from 2023-03-02T15:56:13

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Single People Won't Listen To Us! Feat. Anthony O'neil #HMAY 144 from 2023-02-28T14:45:55

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Leaving A Legacy #HMAY 143 from 2023-02-23T18:09:46

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Losing Myself in Motherhood #HMAY Ep. 141 from 2023-02-16T14:45:40

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The Quiet Years of Marriage from 2023-02-09T14:45:19

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Enjoy the Journey + WE LAUNCHED AN E-COURSE! #HMAY Ep.139 from 2023-02-02T15:00:15

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Our Biggest Lessons of 2022 from 2022-12-15T23:06:39

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We Had to Stop This Podcast #HMAY 137 from 2022-12-08T15:00:15

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Things got heated and we had to back away and regroup in the middle of the podcast. Marriage be hard y'all.

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When Do You Know You're Ready To Get Married from 2022-12-01T15:00:18

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, When is it the right time to get married.

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Being Thankful in Marriage #HMAY Ep.135 from 2022-11-24T15:00:56

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, We discuss about what we are thankful for in our marriage, and how things that use to annoy us have become blessings.

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Men Want Intimacy More Than You Think #HMAY Ep.134 from 2022-11-17T15:00:33

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, We discuss the need men have for intimacy, it goes deeper than just sex.

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Is Therapy Worth it? #HMAY Ep. 133 from 2022-11-10T15:00:56

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about if therapy is actually worth it and if it's a good idea to use it in preparation for marriage.

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Pursuing Mental Health to Save Your Marriage #HMAY Ep. 132 from 2022-11-03T20:29:19

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about the deep work that Yvette at a retreat and how it changed our marriage, and we dive into how important it is to pursue therapy.

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Knowing Your Partner's Struggles #HMAY Ep. 131 from 2022-10-27T14:00:26

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss knowing your weight and the weight that your partner carries and understanding wha...

How To Achieve Balance #HMAY Ep. 130 from 2022-10-20T14:00:39

We dive into the idea of balance in our busy lives! Is it even possible? 

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We Got a NEW LOOK! #HMAY Ep. 129 from 2022-10-14T14:05:32

You may have noticed our new logo since we've been back. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share about the rebrand we went t...

Giving Up On Your Dreams #HMAY 128 from 2022-10-13T14:00:51

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss when it is appropriate to give up on your own dreams for the betterment of your ma...

Fulfilling Your Spouses Needs #HMAY Ep. 127 from 2022-10-06T14:00:48

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss what it's like to fall short and fulfill your spouses needs and expectations.

Married to a PEOPLE PLEASER #HMAY Ep. 126 from 2022-09-29T14:35:18

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss what it's like to be in a relationship with a people pleaser.

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Intentional Questions to Ask Your Spouse #HMAY Ep. 125 from 2022-09-23T02:23:42

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Who REALLY Benefits from Marriage?#HMAY Ep. 124 from 2022-09-15T14:41:33

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a DM from someone asking us to help them convince their significant other that marriage is a good idea. Listen in as we discuss who benefits t...

Don't Date Until You've Made The List #HMAY Ep. 123 from 2022-09-08T19:10:24

We FOUND THE LIST!!! Glen has referred to the list he wrote when dating with intention. He dug it out of the archives, and in this episode we share 7 steps to creating your own list. Let us know...

The Problem of Dating for Potential #HMAY122 from 2022-09-01T19:48:38

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, our conversation surrounds an article (linked below) that seems to have everyone talking. It'...

Is He Pulling His Weight?! #HMAY Ep. 121 from 2022-08-25T07:00:49

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk loads. Who's carrying more weight? Does it even matter? This was a really great discussion on comparing the weight each partner is carrying in your ...

Therapy is Our Greatest Asset! #HMAY Ep. 120 from 2022-08-18T16:27:18

In this episode, we share how therapy has impacted our marriage and our personal lives.

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19 Months Later (PART TWO)... #HMAY Ep. 119 from 2022-08-11T15:30:03

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we continue to share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome...

19 Months Later... #HMAY Ep. 118 from 2022-08-04T16:41:17

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome black y'all...

Our Marriage Comes FIRST! #HMAY Ep. 117 from 2020-12-25T09:43:33

We apologize in advance for the audio. We were not using our usual set up for this episode. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we sit down and reflect on some thangs. Tune in for a special an...

Consumer vs. Covenantal Relationships #HMAY Ep. 116 from 2020-11-12T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss consumer versus covenantal relationships.

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My Brother is Trash! #HMAY Ep. 115 from 2020-11-10T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss whether or not to celebrate a milestone birthday, snitching on our brothers and whether or not it's a sister's place to address her brother's pur...

Skin Deep Challenge Reveals Our Biggest Problem #HMAY Ep. 114 from 2020-11-05T16:15:48

In today's episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take to the deck of "The { } And" cards to help drive our conversation. Things that come up are who loves whom the most and hypothetical scenarios of ...

Entrepreneurial Relationships #HMAY Ep. 113 from 2020-11-03T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we chime in on being in a relationship with an entrepreneur as well as the value of transparency in dating relationships. Listen in and let us know what you...

We Thought Our Marriage was Over! #HMAY Ep. 112 from 2020-10-29T14:40:40

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share why we had to take an unexpected break.

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College Grad is NOT a Prerequisite for Marriage #HMAY Ep. 111 from 2020-10-27T14:05:45

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss being in love with work versus finding love, waiting (or not) until after college to get married and processing trauma of childhood. It feels goo...

Raising Girls #HMAY Ep. 110 from 2020-10-01T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we basically give you one large "Chocolate Baby Story Time." Enjoy! 😊

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Divorce in the Church #HMAY Ep. 109 from 2020-09-29T07:00

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She's Attracted to Someone Else #HMAY Ep. 108 from 2020-09-24T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss it all... our favorite features of each other, Yvette's hopes and dreams, alternative careers, toxic people and attraction.

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Women Have NO Game #HMAY Ep. 107 from 2020-09-22T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we coach a member of our wedding party on how to spit game. LOL!

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How Therapy is Saving Our Marriage #HMAY Ep. 106 from 2020-09-17T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share a little bit about our experience with couple's therapy!

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When Independent Women Get Married #HMAY Ep. 105 from 2020-09-15T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss joint bank accounts, how families of origin can sabotage frames of mind regarding adult relationships, and being a supportive lover to someone wh...

Should I Have Married a Broke Man? #HMAY Ep. 104 from 2020-09-10T05:08:18

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss tweets from when the season 4 premiere of Black Love aired this past Saturday. If you are not tuning into this season, you are missing out. We ha...

Apologizing to My Husband for the First Time! #HMAY Ep. 103 from 2020-09-08T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss Yvette's nipples (lol), things we wish the church would be more transparent about and communication.

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We Almost Gave Up! #HMAY Ep. 102 from 2020-09-03T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share with you all some of the things we've been up to over the break as well as update you on the new groove we've come into.

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Marriage Changed Him #HMAY Ep. 101 from 2020-09-01T07:00

WE'RE BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we jump right in answering those questions that have been sitting in our inbox. Everything from reasons to get married to whether o...

We're Taking a Break #HMAY Ep. 100 from 2020-07-09T23:04:09

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Momma's Secret is Out! #HMAY Ep. 99 from 2020-07-07T13:28

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We're Feeling Even More Defeated! #HMAY Ep. 98 from 2020-07-02T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we pick up where we left off with episode 96. However, we brought some extra baggage with us to this conversation. Just a heads up, a majority of the edits ...

Would You Let Your Husband Use Your Toothbrush?! #HMAY Ep. 97 from 2020-06-30T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take a peek into the friend zone from the female perspective and offer our two cents to a woman who's husband says it's time to leave their church based ...

He Doesn’t Understand the Pressure I’m Under #HMAY Ep. 96 from 2020-06-25T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the peer pressure in marriage. 

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Hopeless Romantic or Toxic Love Affair (and Bats!) #HMAY Ep. 95 from 2020-06-23T15:47:40

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into a length #ImSoSingle to discuss fight or flight then we offer our two cents on a situation that sounds like an episode of Empire.

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What I Wish My Virgin Bride Would've Known #HMAY Ep. 94 from 2020-06-18T16:34:50

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss how we think virgins can better be prepared for sex before marriage and we attempt to encourage a woman who can count the amount of times she's h...

I Guess We Have to Talk About This! #HMAY Ep. 93 from 2020-06-16T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we sit down to chat about the aftermath of George Floyd's death, black lives matter and our plans moving forward.

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Steps to a Sincere Apology #HMAY Ep. 92 from 2020-05-28T07:00

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This is What Happens When You Settle! #HMAY Ep. 91 from 2020-05-26T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, what we're really diving into is a discussion on settling. We chime in on the scenario's of two women hopeful for love in a relationship, and even talk abou...

How The Last Dance Saved Our Marriage #HMAY Ep. 90 from 2020-05-21T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss our reactions to The Last Dance documentary.

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? #HMAY Ep. 89 from 2020-05-19T14:37:51

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss quarantine proposal ideas and infidelities in dating and marriage relationships.

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BEFORE You Get Married, Listen to This! #HMAY Ep. 88 from 2020-05-14T17:18:24

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the things we wish we would've known about each other before we got married.

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Should I Choose My Man Over My Family? #HMAY Ep. 87 from 2020-05-12T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss frustrating first dates, when to give up on dating and the choice between family and your significant other. 

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How to Deal with Your Spouse's Depression #HMAY Ep. 86 from 2020-05-07T15:17:43

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we pick up where we left off discussing comparison. However, we wanna know more about how you'd like us to elaborate on that topic from episode 85. So leave...

He Called Me Fat, BUT I Get it! #HMAY Ep. 85 from 2020-05-05T16:19:02

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss cuddle buddies and comparison. There are some real gems in this episode and we're not just saying that, make sure to tune in!

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Controlling a Control Freak #HMAY Ep. 84 from 2020-04-30T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette comes shares how she's experiencing an information overload and how she's not sure what to do with all the information she's consuming. Glen tries to...

My Husband Won't Go to Therapy! #HMAY Ep. 83 from 2020-04-28T16:02:29

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we stumble through in our own way (lol) offering feedback to a wife hoping to encourage her husband and a young lady who wants to know when to have the puri...

Quarantining with Four Kids #HMAY Ep. 82 from 2020-04-23T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we debrief on what life is looking like at home under this stay at home order.

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I Wouldn't Have Married You! #HMAY Ep. 81 from 2020-04-22T12:51:03

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk the in between stage of engagement and marriage, child bullies and ca...

Her Mom Intimidates Her! #HMAY Ep. 80 from 2020-04-07T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss mom control issues and moving out of the country for the one you love all while bickering along the way! We have missed recording these past coup...

You Ain't Getting My Sperm! #HMAY Ep. 79 from 2020-03-19T07:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss what how we would respond to some whacky scenarios that could happen in marriage. We discuss everything from raising a child from an adulterous a...

Dating My Coworker's Son! #HMAY Ep. 78 from 2020-03-18T05:25:15

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discussed premature balding, verbal abuse and followed up with our member of the wedding party whose never been on a date nor had a boyfriend.

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How We Feel About Prenuptial Agreements! #HMAY Ep. 77 from 2020-03-12T20:53:27

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk prenuptial agreements, relationship improvements, our first time meeting and hesitancies.  

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Why You Can't Find a Man! #HMAY Ep. 76 from 2020-03-10T22:31:21

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer words of encouragement to a woman who describes herself as a relationship hopper and another woman who's never been in a relationship or on a date....

I'm Afraid He Will Leave! #HMAY Ep. 75 from 2020-03-05T20:30:41

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we each randomly select questions for the other person to answer. Among the questions asked were:  

- What do you think I think is m...

She's Too Picky! #HMAY Ep. 74 from 2020-03-03T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer our input to a member of the wedding party who is considering changing her standards due to accusations she is too picky. 

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Are We Friends? #HMAY Ep. 73 from 2020-02-27T06:07:04

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss friendship and what it may or may not look like in this season of our lives.

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He's NOT Romantic Enough! #HMAY Ep. 72 from 2020-02-25T15:43:50

In this episode of #HowMarrieAreYou, we offer our input to a woman who is trying to get it across to her hubby that she wants more romance in their relationship, we discuss boundaries in a ...

CBST Takeover: We Cut His Dreads Off #HMAY Ep. 71 from 2020-02-13T19:25:41

In today's episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the decision to cut off Theo's dreads. Tune in as we reflect on this phase of parenting a 7-year-old.

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What to Do With A Momma's Boy #HMAY Ep. 70 from 2020-02-11T17:14:53

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer insight to a member of the wedding party whose spouse is having trouble with maintaining financial boundaries, we respond to a burning question fro...

Sex While Co-Sleeping #HMAY Ep. 69 from 2020-01-23T16:11:51

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette shares about a tough therapy session & we answer questions from the #weddingparty!

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I Married the Wrong Person! #HMAY Ep. 68 from 2020-01-21T16:24:52

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss some expectations of the wedding party as well as provide insight to a member of the bridal party who feels as though she may have married the wr...

Cancelling Vasectomy was Selfish! #HMAY Ep.67 from 2020-01-16T23:48:40

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share our thoughts on moving up a wedding date for family and we address a member of the wedding party who called Yvette "very selfish" for influencing G...

Redoing Our Wedding Vows #HMAY Ep. 66 from 2020-01-14T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share some exciting news, discuss our wedding vows and share our experience answering questions from a worksheet we recently worked on together.

He Say Dumb Things! #HMAY Ep. 65 from 2020-01-09T22:45:03

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss everything from lacking physical and mental attraction in a relationship to man weaves to how to choose a church. Our #askHMAY episodes are lit! ...

He's Leaving Me Behind! #HMAY Ep. 64 from 2020-01-02T18:43:53

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we reflect on 2019 by asking ourselves the following questions: (1)What was the best thing about 2019? (2) What lessons did you learn in 2019? (3) What was ...

Sexting IS Cheating!!! #HMAY Ep. 63 from 2019-12-31T08:00

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss emails sent in from the wedding party. First up we discuss a relationship that has more pros than cons, but the girlfriend doesn't know if she ca...

We Schedule Sex! #HMAY Ep. 62 from 2019-12-26T23:24:15

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we debrief on Yvette's therapy sessions thus far and share why we schedule sex.

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His Sexual Partners Intimidate Me! #HMAY?! Ep.61 from 2019-12-17T19:57:10

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we hear from the ghost of episode 57 and offer our perspective to a young man who snooped through his girlfriend's email. Listen in and let us know what you...

HMAY?! 060| All He Needs is Sex! from 2019-11-28T08:00

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we examine the flipside of "Happy Wife, Happy Life!" In last week's episode, Yvette shares with Glen that many women are told if you have sex with your husb...

HMAY?! 059| I'm the Root of His Anger! from 2019-11-26T17:26:49

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we examine roots of anger and how to encourage a partner without sounding like their parent.

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HMAY058| Her Happiness is NOT My Concern! from 2019-11-21T19:00:09

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the old tale of "Happy Wife, Happy Life." It gets pretty heavy! Listen in and let us know what you think!

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HMAY057| God Did NOT Write Our Love Story! from 2019-11-19T17:01:03

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss two wedding party inquiries. In the first one we discuss God as the author of our love story, and in the second one we share our thoughts on a wo...

HMAY?!056| He's Not a Spiritual Leader from 2019-11-05T15:05:12

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a member of the wedding party about a relationship in which she started being intentional in her walk with Christ two years into a 4 year rela...

HMAY?!055| We Don't Argue Right from 2019-10-30T05:44:27

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we follow up with a member from the wedding party in regards to being a female creative, we offer advice to a young couple dating long distance and we talk ...

HMAY?!054| How I Don't Respect Him! from 2019-10-24T17:02:06

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into Shanti Feldhahn's book called "For Women Only." She markets the book as a glimpse into the inner lives of men. Yvette runs some things by Glen ...

HMAY?!053| Hashtag Black Love from 2019-10-18T01:07:48

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into a topic we've kind of avoided for a while but finally took the plunge to talk about on this platform. That is the topic of black love. We often...

HMAY?! 052| $10,000 in Debt for My Boyfriend from 2019-10-16T01:03:57

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer our perspectives on being in an abusive relationship as well as going into debt for a loved one.

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HMAY?! 051| Ugly Ain't Forever! from 2019-10-01T07:00

The collab so many of you have asked for has finally come into fruition! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we welcome our first ever guests to the podcast. We are joined by @KevOnStage &...

HMAY?! 050| What We Never Expected! from 2019-09-26T23:01:55

We're baaaaack!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss life as "influencers"... what that looks like and feels like for us.

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HMAY?! 049| The Flirtatious Christian from 2019-09-04T15:10:01

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we look into dating a creative, long distance relationships, jealousy, insecu...

HMAY?! 048| The Truth About Being Married to a Creative! from 2019-08-29T13:47:21

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss some of the things we feel it's important to know and understand in a relationship with a creative. We use our 10+ years of being together to sha...

HMAY?!047| He Had A One-Night Stand from 2019-08-27T22:49:23

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer our feedback regarding when to add more kids to the mix as well as w...

HMAY?! 046| Sex After Birth from 2019-08-23T00:42:04

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss what it's like resuming intimacy after having a baby. We offer both our perspectives as husband and wife. Per usual, we don't hold back.  Listen

HMAY?! 045| Let Him Go??? from 2019-08-20T07:09:46

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, two women reach out to us about the men in their lives. One is struggling with whether or not to continue living with her boyfriend, while the other is left...

HMAY?! 044| We're Not on the Same Page from 2019-08-15T08:54:34

We think it's safe to say that we all enter into marriage with some preconceived notions of what it'll be like. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take some of the notions we got from you ...

HMAY?! 043| Should She Tell Him She's Not a Virgin? from 2019-08-13T14:38:53

Each of us comes into a relationship with what some might call "baggage." Some carry a weight that is a little heavier than others. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to an email t...

HMAY?! 042| Nine Lessons in Nine Years from 2019-08-08T15:52:58

Yesterday we celebrated NINE years of marriage!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share nine lessons we've learned thus far on our journey. In no particular order, we've learned...

HMAY?! 041| He Said No More Unprotected Sex! from 2019-08-06T08:30:48

Albert Einstein said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about balance... is it actually attainable? Liste...

HMAY?! 040| He wasn't there! from 2019-08-01T16:52:07

We're baaaaaack!!! We are so excited to return after what feels like such a long hiatus. We're gonna go ahead and call this season 3!!! We're changing things up a little bit, so make sure you tu...

HMAY?! 039| He Should Know Better! from 2019-06-07T02:16:55

We have been MIA for quite some time. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take some time to update you all abo...

HMAY?! 038| Let's Just Be Friends from 2019-05-16T14:17:39

Glen's back!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette shares what she learned from her conversation with Julie who is one of the people she mentions in episode 35 as knowing Glen really we...

HMAY?! 037| He Left Me Alone from 2019-05-09T14:39:18

Glen is out of town, but I (Yvette) didn't wanna miss a week of the podcast. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, I take some time to answer some questions that were submitted to me via instagr...

HMAY?! 036| We Value Different Things from 2019-05-02T13:38:40

Last week we engaged in a pretty intense conversation regarding some issues we're having in our marriage. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share some revelations we've had since then as ...

HMAY?! 035| Our Last Episode from 2019-04-25T22:08:37

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, you get the raw and ugly of life in the Henry house right now. Yvette had a whole discussion planned for this week's episode of HMAY, but given a conversati...

HMAY?! 034| Is He Man Enough?! from 2019-04-18T22:57:56

Yvette listened to a recent podcast (linked below) in which the topic of masculinity vs. manhood came up. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the difference between the two. We expl...

HMAY?! 033| She's High Maintenance from 2019-04-11T19:04:27

What does it mean to be high maintenance anyway?! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Glen brings up all the receipts of how Yvette is high maintenance. She denies any such qualifications, but...

HMAY?! 032| Should Women Propose to Men? from 2019-04-04T07:21:45

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we answer a question from a viewer in crisis about whether or not it's necessary for a man to ask his girlfriend's dad for his blessing to marry his daughte...

HMAY?! 031| Powerful Women Don't Need Men from 2019-03-28T14:06:26

Glen heard it said, "Behind every great man you'll find a strong woman, but you can find a great woman standing alone." In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we try to debunk this theory. Tune i...

HMAY?! 030| Tell ‘Em Why Mad, Babe! from 2019-03-14T15:11:51

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, you guys get an inside look at how hormones from pregnancy can heighten emotions in marriage. Yvette is feeling some type of way, and Glen gives her the opp...

HMAY? 029| Mom Guilt vs. Dad Guilt from 2019-03-07T08:00

Hashtag "Mom Guilt" is something widely seen across social media platforms. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss parental guilt as a whole. We discuss how moms and dads experience pa...

HMAY?! 028| Has Our Public Lifestyle Taken a Toll on Our Marriage? (Q&A) from 2019-02-28T15:42:35

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, YOU asked, WE answered! We talk anger issues, finances, age gaps, parental hardships and even whether or not our public lifestyle has taken a toll on our ma...

HMAY?! 027| My Husband Didn't Get Me Anything for Valentine's Day! from 2019-02-21T14:46:51

Bear with us as Yvette gives an informal and brief history lesson on the origin of Valentine's Day! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss Valentine's Day 2019. Let's just say it refle...

HMAY?! 026| Black Love & Parenting from 2019-02-14T16:05:45

Happy Valentines Day Everyone!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss why black love is a thing as well as preconceived notions about parenting and the different types of parenting s...

HMAY?! 025| The Requirements to Be My Wife from 2019-02-08T07:29:44

Consider this a continuation of our chat about our engagement last week. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the infamous list Glen has mentioned several times in past episodes, the...

HMAY?! 024| Regrets of Our Engagement! from 2019-02-01T19:42:23

One of the things we love about the listeners of this podcast is that you’re not all married. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we are specifically talking to those of you who are engaged to...

HMAY?! 023| Our Thoughts on "Surviving R. Kelly" from 2019-01-24T05:29:28

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about how we feel after watching the #SurvingRKelly Lifetime documentary series.

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HMAY?! 022| We're Debt Free!!! from 2019-01-17T03:04:12

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share our exciting news of becoming Debt Free (outside of having a mortgage). We talk about the journey to becoming debt free and what our next steps wil...

HMAY?! 021| Why We Choose to "Celebrate" from 2019-01-10T07:28:29

It's that time of year again when there's a lot of hype surrounding setting goals, making resolutions and creating new habits. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share one of the things we...

HMAY?! 020| Why Have Kids in 2019 from 2018-12-28T07:19:42

This episode of How Married Are You was prompted after we watched #TheBeastCast episode on whether or not they desire to have kids. The first time we s...

HMAY?! 019| We're Having a Baby!!! from 2018-12-20T15:38:34

In this episode, we announce we're having a baby!!! This will be #4 for us, so this comes with so many thoughts, feelings, hopes, etc. We figured we'd process out loud with you all how we're fee...

HMAY?! 018| Withholding Sex Because of Weight Gain from 2018-12-14T04:36:42

In this episode we share an Instagram post that has been circling around the internet about a husband who's withholding sex because his wife gained weight.

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HMAY? 017| 8 Facts About Love & Marriage in America from 2018-12-06T15:58:50

The landscape of relationships in America has shifted dramatically in recent decades. From cohabitation to same-sex marriage to interracial and interethnic marriage, according to the Pew Researc...

HMAY? 016| Relating to Mr. & Mrs. Smith from 2018-10-29T17:38:48

On this episode of HMAY?!, we watch part one of the Red Table Talk discussion, Becoming Mr. & Mrs. Smith! We discuss how we can relate to Will & Jada and also share some other things on ...

HMAY? 015| Why everyone should have a mentor couple! from 2018-10-19T00:04:10

In this episode we dive into discussion about how having a mentor couple has helped to safeguard our marriage, give us a safe place to work through issues and look forward to our future.

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HMAY? 014| Is he really "The One???" from 2018-10-12T05:08:35

In this episode we discuss whether or not each of us is "the one." Even further, we dive into the idea of "soulmates."

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HMAY? 013 To tell or not to tell when we've been hit on from 2018-10-04T16:46:12

You ever experience the dilemma of how much to share? Do you tell your significant other EVERY time someone hits on you? In this episode, we discuss the hot topic of whether or not to tell your ...

HMAY? 012 My son told me "I don't spend enough time w/ family" from 2018-09-14T19:45:28

Something we'd like to instill in our children from a young age is that they can talk to us. We want them to feel comfortable coming to us to communicate their feelings, thoughts and opinions. S...

HMAY? 011 Love The Culture Not Just the Color (Interracial) from 2018-09-07T04:15:33

In this episode we sum up our thoughts on the interracial dating conversation based off of your responses to our previous podcasts.

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HMAY? 010 Why we only dated black people. PART TWO from 2018-08-30T14:48:05

In today’s episode, the discussion of why we were never in interracial relationships continues. Yvette admits that she would like to move to give her children more opportunities to see themselve...

HMAY? 009 Why we only dated black people. from 2018-08-24T20:05:28

Everyone has their preferences when looking for a romantic relationship. We have things that we are willing to compromise on and things that we will not compromise on. In today’s episode, we dis...

HMAY? 008 We’re not doing well from 2018-08-16T14:36:11

How often do you check in with your significant other? In today’s discussion, we check in on each other. Listen in to find out how we’re doing.

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HMAY? 007 Why we waited to have sex from 2018-08-11T02:55:11

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share our experience dating and entering into marriage with only one of us having been a virgin. We discuss the challenges of abstaining while dating, an...

HMAY? 006 Who should I listen to... My Husband or My Family? from 2018-08-03T08:13:33

Scripture says, "Therefore shall a man LEAVE his father and his mother, and shall CLEAVE unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) In today's discussion, we talk about what exa...

HMAY? 005| I don't know if I trust him from 2018-07-12T19:30:03

In today's discussion the overarching question is, 'Does the husband earn submission from his wife or does it just come with the territory of marriage?' The discussion gets pretty intense at som...

HMAY? 004| Not physically attracted to him, but I married him from 2018-07-05T19:01:47

From the outside looking in, our relationship was not necessarily set up for success. In today’s episode we reflect back on our decision to choose each other. We’ve discovered that what matters ...

HMAY? 003| Are You Ever Ready To Get Married? from 2018-07-01T02:34:04

We take a look back to see just how ready we were when we got married. So many people talk about not being ready for marriage, but the question is what does "ready" even look like?

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HMAY? 002: Gender Roles & Marriage from 2018-06-22T05:07:27

There's a quote that says, "Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectation. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss unmet expectations we had for each other before marriage....

HMAY? 001: Kid's Reaction to Parents PDA from 2018-06-11T06:36:19

As a #parent, we quickly figure out that our kids are a reflection of us by looks, thoughts, words AND deeds. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share how we have been very intentional abo...