Podcasts by How to Have Threesomes
Cirque du Soleil acrobat Rikki Carman, author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Julia answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights?
The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.
Rikki and Julia open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.
Follow us on social @HowtoHaveThreesomes or our personal accounts @RikkiCarman to keep up with the latest.
Further podcasts by Rikki Carman & Julia Wild
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#47 Open Marriage With Igor And Gretta from 2021-12-06T03:25:51
Igor and Gretta are the most solid couple we have met in a long time. We walked away feeling renewed faith in open / non conventional relationships. They talk about how to star off a relationship a...
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#46 You Are Not The Prize from 2021-08-19T02:10:37
A short rant from Julia about reframing your mindset and how to market yourself better to potential unicorns. This and more inside episode #46
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#45 Nightclubs Are Shit from 2021-08-19T02:08:24
Nightclubs are shit for threesomes or more accurately for meeting unicorns. why you ask? Tune in to find out. Also a blast from the past as an ex threesome girl visits us. This and more inside epis...
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#44 Wild Majick from 2021-07-09T08:30:22
She's not afraid to speak her mind. Majick is one of the wildest guests on show but in the best way possible. Prepare to be entertained. MMF, FFM threesomes on camera this girl has all the stories...
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#43 Her Sex Bucket List - Jorda from 2021-06-25T00:30:39
She has a sex bucket list and is about to be featured on Netflix in a show about sexuality and her role in creating sex parties. This amazing half blonde, half brunette, Irish girl has incredible s...
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#42 I Asked Her to Marry Me! from 2021-06-11T12:39:34
We got engaged!!! How will this affect our threesomes? Our relationship hasn't been conventional so obviously our marriage wont be either!
We talk about this and tell you the story of how it ha...
#41 Collector of Secrets - Helen from 2021-05-20T00:10
Our first guest who has not had a threesome but makes up for it with some of the best stories yet. She is the collector of secrets, a beautiful french girl in Bali who has lived a lot of life!
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#40 The Pickup Game from 2021-05-05T03:09:23
The masters of pickup exposed. A deep dive into the good and bad of the pickup world. What can we learn from it? Julia and Rikki share opinions from the movie The Pickup Game.
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#39 RBDSMA an Acronym That Will Make Pleasure Better - Gecolea from 2021-03-22T03:18:39
One of the sweetest, most caring people we know. A threesome with three girls and no men, is a first for our show
Her interesting relationship setup is something not to miss. An most importantl...
#38 What's Everyone Else Doing? Do the Opposite - Jamie from 2021-03-10T07:47:56
This was easily one of our favorite podcasts. Jamie is one of the best speakers we have ever met. He gives no easy answers only complicated truths. Listen to Jamie's advice on dealing with jealous...
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#37 A Slippery Story - with Bekah from 2021-02-23T12:36:01
To celebrate the podcast's new sponsor, Uberlube, Rikki, Julia and Bekah tell a slippery story. They give ideas on the ultimate way for a couple to test boundaries without letting jealousy and emot...
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#36 Overcoming Challenges - with Lua from 2021-02-04T11:33:14
A more conservative talk about relationships, Overcoming challenges and how and why we entered into a monogamish relationship.
With Rikki, Julia and Lua.
If you want to see more from L...
#35 Triad Relationships & Seeking Arrangement - with Anrey from 2021-01-01T14:06:24
Triad Relationships Seeking Arrangement - with Anrey
Anrey from the Philippines talks on how to have threesomes about Triad relationships and meeting sexual partners on seeking arrangement...
#34 Humans Are Not Monogamous - Sex At Dawn from 2020-12-16T01:29:35
An overview of the book: Sex at Dawn
It seems like in todays culture that women trade sex for protection / shelter and status and from the males
Sex at Dawn challenges this standa...
#33 19 Questions for the Unicorn Queen - Bekah ? ? from 2020-11-30T02:00:02
19 Questions for the Unicorn Queen - Bekah ? ?
Most people you’ve had sex with in one night? Did you like it?
When was your last threesome?
When was the last time you we...
#32 Unicorn Queen ? Bekah from 2020-11-14T13:33:37
Rikki, Julia and guest Bekah talk about topics like:
How Bekah had her first threesome, what she liked about it and why she decided to have sex with more than 10 couples.
Boundaries, a thre...
#31 My First Threesome from 2020-10-31T03:31:42
Rikki and Julia talk about their first threesome and how they made it happen. Some other show notes.
-Having a threesome is as common as owning a cat. 1 in 5 Americans have one.
-Making the...
#30 Social Media, Sex Workers and Your Relationship with Gay Host Kerry Spark from 2020-10-15T06:00:04
Kerry, Julia and Rikki discuss, instagram vs reality, social media blocking, deleting & unfriending, cancel culture, pretending like you don’t care online to arouse interest, sending your partner t...
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#30 Social Media, Sex Workers and Your Relationship with Gay Host Kerry from 2020-10-15T04:00:04
Instagram vs reality, social media blocking, deleting & unfriending, cancel culture, pretending like you don’t care online to arouse interest, sending your partner to a professional sex worker, cat...
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#29 Personality Types with Gay British Host Kerry Spark from 2020-10-08T06:00:17
Kerry, Julia and Rikki Talk about personality types and how they effect relationships. Starting with who is the gas or the breaks in a relationship?
Being messy or clean, Kerry gives commentary...
#29 Personality Types with Gay British Host Kerry from 2020-10-08T04:00:17
Personality types and how they effect relationships. Starting with who is the gas or the breaks in a relationship?
Being messy or clean, Kerry gives commentary on Rikki and Julia’s relationship...
#28 How To Photograph Naked Girls from 2020-09-24T01:00:24
We teach you the do's and don'ts of taking photos of naked girls. This is a mid week episode that may not be applicable to our wider audience. Many people question how we end up with so many beauti...
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#27 We Set Unrealistic Standards from 2020-09-15T03:36
How we set unrealistic standards for ourselves and for others. How passive income helped us to create a free spirited lifestyle. We explore the concept that the less partners you've had, the more s...
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#26 Donald Trump Had A Threesome from 2020-08-30T13:47:14
Where high net worth individuals go for discreet sexual encounters?
The President of the United States, Donald Trump and allegations of a threesome in a NYC brothel? High end brothels in Hong ...
#25 Rapid Questions for our Gay Guest - Jacob from 2020-08-10T03:00:42
We rapid fire a list of questions to our first gay guest, Jacob.
If you listened to our last episode with Jacob you'll notice that we didn't get around to asking our normal questions.
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#24 Our First Gay Guest - Jacob from 2020-08-02T03:05:16
Our first gay guest!
This was our longest episode ever but we couldn’t stop. We got into some intimate details and learned so much in this episode.
Jacob enlightens us about what...
#23 How to Tinder - As a Couple from 2020-07-19T01:01:57
Tinder - Everything you need to know about looking for threesomes on tinder:
Getting banned, other dating apps, areas of the world and how they affect your chances, show your face or no? Link p...
#22 How to Manage Jealousy from 2020-06-28T04:27:51
How to manage jealousy in a relationship. Before bringing in another girl, it's important to know how to talk and how to argue with your partner.
----- Inner work
Jealousy comes ...
#21 How to Set a Unicorn Free from 2020-06-11T07:32:44
How to end a relationship with a threesome girl, we talk about both a long-term relationship and in the moment itself.
At the end of the episode we give ideas to test if an open relations...
#20 When to Take a Relationship Seriously - Mini Episode from 2020-06-03T12:27:36
When to take a relationship seriously.
How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a m...
#19 The Best Pick Up Line in the World from 2020-05-26T09:15:53
We reveal the best pick up line in the world.
Stick around until the end and we give you a recent, real life example of this line in use. Lastly Russian girls. We didn't have ay experience... ...
#18 How Dating Is Like Marketing With Danny Carlson - Guest Episode from 2020-05-11T06:30:44
Rikki Carman and Julia Wild have an amazing episode with the incredibly well-spoken Danny Carlson.
We talk about the male culture and how hooking up with girls can be a way of seeking validatio...
#17 How to Ask a Girl to Have a Threesome - How To Tell if She's into You from 2020-04-27T01:48:47
Rikki and Julia dive into the most asked listener question: How to ask a girl to have a threesome and how to tell if she's into you.
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W...
#16 Listener Questions - The Stuff You've Been Asking Us About from 2020-04-12T02:30:53
Rikki and Julia answer questions like: Do we ever meet up with other couples just to chill? Do we have a higher than normal sex drive? What happens if a boundary is overstepped? Going public with o...
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#15 Circus Couple With Zach and Gayla - Guest Episode from 2020-03-28T17:14:14
On a beach in Bali, we met this awesome couple. We talk with Zach and Gayla about dating a woman without her husband's knowledge, making porn, sex shows in strip clubs, midget strippers, orgies on ...
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#14 A Unicorn's Perspective With Eva - Guest Episode from 2020-03-14T06:25:35
Stories from a Unicorn’s perspective ?(the second girl)with Eva Sumpter.
Our long time friend Eva, is one of the most compassionate people we know, she has some crazy stories and a beautif...
#13 Conscious Sexuality With Philip - Guest Episode from 2020-02-27T05:55:01
On this podcast, Julia, Rikki, and guest, Philip, explore conscious sexuality, the connection between yoga and sexuality, what is tantra, finding sexuality separately from your partner, facing fear...
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#12 The Hard Questions from 2020-02-13T09:26:16
This was by far the most difficult podcast we have ever had to make. ?These are all the worst questions, the ones we hoped never to be asked, all compiled into one episode.
Questions we an...
#11 More Than Friends, Less Than Lovers with Minx - Guest Episode from 2020-01-28T21:00
We have an amazing podcast this week with our super sexy guest, Minx! Julia, Rikki, and guest, Minx, talk about non-monogamy, moresomes, an experience at a sex auction, stripping, drugs and sex, ti...
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#10 We Got Banned From Tinder, Threats of Getting Sued & More from 2020-01-13T16:24:15
Mini-Episode with Julia and Rikki we talk about why the book is not released yet(it involved threats of getting sued).
We have been getting requests to see our tinder... which we will rel...
#9 MMF Threesomes with Sia - Guest Episode from 2019-12-29T12:23:14
On this podcast, Julia, Rikki, and guest, Sia, discuss sex clubs and sex parties, MMF threesomes good and bad, having a male stripper as a first boyfriend, only fans, telling friends and family you...
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#8 How Does Having a Threesome Effect Your Relationship? Does Sex Get Better? from 2019-12-13T12:30:50
On this podcast, Julia and I talk about how a threesome will affect your sexual and dynamic as a couple. Does it get better?
How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
With sexc...
#7 Thirty Orgasms a Night with El - Guest Episode from 2019-11-30T16:20:18
On this podcast, Julia, Rikki, and guest, El, discuss non-monogamy in marriage, swinging, scissoring - it's not a thing, talking to your parents about a non-conventional sex life, what it's like in...
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#6 Should The Girl Spend The Night? Hand Signals, Best Sleep Positions, Saying I Love You and More from 2019-11-17T07:25:33
Julia and I talk about whether or not your threesome girl should spend the night, creating hand signals to communicate subtly, best positions to sleep, telling a threesome girl you love her and mor...
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#5 Tips For Setting The Mood from 2019-10-31T22:38:18
In this episode, Julia and Rikki discuss setting the mood for a threesome. We get into tips and tricks for making a girl feel welcome, necessary items to bring to bed, do's and dont's, drugs, movi...
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#4 Polyamory with Ember - Guest Episode from 2019-10-24T02:34:12
Warning* Lots of laughter in this episode. On this podcast, Julia, Rikki and guest Ember discuss Polyamorous relationships. Everything from finding your sexuality, talking to your kids about your n...
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#3 Are Threesomes Right For Me? from 2019-10-17T00:57:12
Julia and I discuss what it takes to have threesomes. A non-monogamous relationship isn't for everyone. Is it right for you? What can you do to ease into threesomes slowly and with less risk? We ta...
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#2 The Burning Man Orgy Dome from 2019-10-11T01:29:13
On this podcast Julia and I talk about our experience at the Burning Man orgy dome. The good, bad and the ugly. Unfortunately, this episode is not as sexy as you might hope. We offer an honest opin...
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#1 How to Find a Girl for a Threesome from 2019-10-11T01:25:54
On this podcast, Julia and I talk about how and where we find girls to share our bed. We tell stories, discuss Tinder, power dynamics with the other girl, the characteristics we look for, finding p...
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