Podcasts by I love you too much to argue!

45. Parenting | Introversion vs extraversion from 2021-07-05T22:00

Holly and Bec chat with Sandra from Family Personalities about introversion vs extraversion and how to identify it in our kids.  Sandra is the owner of Family Personalities and the co-host of the F...

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44. Love Languages | Parenting Decoded from 2021-06-28T22:00

Holly and Bec's debut interview on an international podcast 🥳🥳🥳

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43. Parenting | Lost my spoon! from 2021-06-21T22:00

Holly + Bec share a funny story from a listener and follow her up with some questions about her situation. 

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42. Enneagram | Growth paths from 2021-06-14T22:00

The Enneagram is used to help us grow, but growth is hard and uncomfortable. Listen to Holly + Bec chat about what makes growth feel vulnerable for each number. Have you grown recently in a way ...

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41. Love Languages | Words of Affirmation from 2021-06-07T22:00

This is the fifth and final episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat to Emma about 'Words of Affirmation'. If your love language is Words of Affirmation or ...

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Lockdown Tips | Looking for work from 2021-06-05T22:00

In the last of this week's Lockdown Tips series, Holly + Bec chat about tips for people looking for work. 

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Lockdown Tips | Working from home from 2021-06-04T22:00

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for people working from home. Jump on our Instagram or Listen

Lockdown Tips | Housemates from 2021-06-03T22:00

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for housemates, plus share a meet-cute from Holly's sister and some stories from when Holly and Bec were housemates! 

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Lockdown Tips | Couples from 2021-06-02T22:00

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for couples. Jump on our Instagram or Listen

Lockdown Tips | Parents with school kids from 2021-06-01T22:00

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for parents with school aged kids. Jump on our Instagram or Listen

Lockdown Tips | Single or living alone from 2021-05-31T22:00

Today's bonus episode Holly + Bec chat about tips for singles and those living alone. Jump on Instagram or Listen

Lockdown Tips | Parents with babies, toddlers and preschoolers from 2021-05-30T22:00

This week Victoria, Australia has gone into a 7 day lock down. Lockdown is HARD in so many ways. As a way to help their lovely listeners Holly + Bec decided to do Bonus Episodes a series of Lock...

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40. Parenting | Expert Mary Eschen! from 2021-05-24T22:00

Holly & Bec chat to Parenting expert Mary from Parenting with Logic. Hear how Mary discovered Love & Logic, how she uses it in her home with her teenage children and how it has impacted her relatio...

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39. Parenting | When they forget their shoes! from 2021-05-17T22:00

Holly & Bec answer a listener's question about natural consequences for kids with some stories, ideas and examples. We love receiving your questions and feedback. Leave us a voice message  Or send ...

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38. Enneagram | JOEL MCKERROW from 2021-05-10T22:00

Holly chats with very special guest Joel McKerrow 3w4 about his current art/poetry exhibition on the Enneagram called HUMAN. Check out all of Joel's amazing work at Listen

37. Love Languages | Physical Touch from 2021-05-03T22:00

This is the fourth episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Physical Touch'. If your love language is Physical Touch or you have a friend or loved on...

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36. Parenting | Empathy from 2021-04-26T22:00

Holly + Bec answer a listener's question about Empathy. This is a 'must listen' for anyone who has relationships  

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35. Enneagram | Triads from 2021-04-19T22:00

Triads or Centre of Intelligence is a grouping within the Enneagram that helps us to understand how we filter or receive information from the world around us. Join Holly + Bec as they discuss th...

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34. Love Languages | Quality Time from 2021-04-12T22:00

This is the third episode in our series that deep dive into Love Languages, Holly & Bec chat about 'Quality Time'. If your love language is Quality Time or you have a friend or loved one wit...

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33. Enneagram | How to push others buttons by type from 2021-04-05T22:00

Holly & Bec chat about the things that push the buttons of each Enneagram type. Listen to see how you could be pushing the buttons of your loved one and let us know what else pushes your but...

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32. Parenting | The Misbehaviour Cycle from 2021-03-29T21:00

What is the Misbehaviour Cycle? How do adults contribute to the cycle and how can we disrupt it?

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31. Love Languages | Acts of Service! from 2021-03-22T21:00

Following on from our deep dive into Receiving Gifts, Holly & Bec chat about 'Acts of Service' as a Love Language. If your love language is Act of Service or you have a friend or loved one w...

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30. Enneagram | Self Care tips for each type from 2021-03-15T21:00

Discovering your Enneagram Type is a journey, doing a test is not always helpful. Often it is the unhealthy aspects of our type that we relate to the most. Holly & Bec chat about common unhealthy t...

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29. Parenting | Danger vs Discomfort from 2021-03-08T21:00

Following on from the episode about Consequences, Holly & Bec discuss the difference between discomfort and danger when it comes to allowing our kids to experience consequences.

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28. Love Languages | Gifts! from 2021-03-01T21:00

In this episode, Holly & Bec do a deep dive into the 'Receiving Gifts' Love Language. If your love language is gifts or you have a friend or loved one with Gifts as their Love Language then ...

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27. Subtypes of the Enneagram | Social, Self - Preservation, One to One from 2021-02-22T21:00

Ever wondered why two people who have the same Enneagram type can be so very different? Holly & Bec chat about subtypes or instinctual types. Let us know your thoughts on subtypes, leave us ...

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26. Parenting | Punishment vs consequences? from 2021-02-15T21:00

What is the difference between punishment and consequences? Holly & Bec discuss the differences and which one is more effective.  Leave us a voice message with your questions, comments or advice at...

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25. Enneagram | The wounding messages we hear from 2021-02-08T21:00

The Enneagram has so many facets. Holly & Bec discuss the wounding message that each type heard or thought they heard as a child. Have a listen and let us know if you relate to the wounding ...

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24. Love & Logic | Kids and Chores from 2021-02-01T21:00

Why it is so important to have our kids contribute to the family? Do you pay your kids to do chores? Holly and Bec chat about all things chores.

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23. Love languages | Teenagers from 2021-01-25T21:00

Love Languages is a universal tool to help us speak love the loudest to those we are in relationships with. Holly & Bec talk about how to identify the love languages of teenagers.

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22. Love & Logic | Listener question answered from 2021-01-18T21:00

Holly & Bec answer an emailed question from a listener and share a success story from another listener.

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21. Enneagram | Using stances to identify your type from 2021-01-11T21:00

Welcome to the first episode for 2021! Are you having trouble working out which Enneagram number you are? Understanding the Stances of the Enneagram may help to narrow it down. Holly and Bec dis...

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20. Happy New Year! 🥳🥳 from 2021-01-05T02:12:26

Welcome to 2021! Holly and Bec share some thoughts on 2020 and some details on what 2021 will look like! 

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19. Enneagram in relationships + Kookaburras from 2020-12-14T21:00

Relationships take work. Understanding each Enneagram type can help with loving, supporting and encouraging your loved ones. Let us know your type and what your loved ones do that help you feel ...

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18. I'll be there for you - F.R.I.E.N.D.S and the Enneagram from 2020-12-07T21:00

We have a confession....! We love F.r.i.e.n.d.s and we love the Enneagram. Also, Holly shares a controversial and embarrassing secret!

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17. Ironing is a daddy job! from 2020-11-30T21:00

A person's predominant love language is how they hear love the loudest. Holly and Bec discuss things to avoid for each love language to help you show love the loudest to your loved ones.

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16. Kids are weird + Special guest! from 2020-11-23T22:00

In this episode, Holly and Bec chat to Kathy, a mum of 2 kids who uses Love and Logic techniques in her home. Find out what happened when Kathy's daughter had a problem.

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15. 38 days until Christmas! from 2020-11-16T21:00

It's the most wonderful time of the year! Is November too early to put up your Christmas Tree? Holly and Bec chat about Holly's favourite time of the year and share some clever Christmas hacks y...

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14. Amanda and all the good Enneagram traits! from 2020-11-09T21:00

Each of us has a primary enneagram type. Each type has stereotypical behaviour BUT that doesn't mean we always have that behaviour. We can all still exhibit behaviour from each type. 

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13. #YESChallenge! from 2020-11-02T22:00

Check out this fun episode where Holly and Bec do an experiment! What happens when they commit to saying 'YES' for a week??

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12. Winneagram? from 2020-10-26T21:00

What Enneagram Type is Winnie the Pooh? You'll have to listen and find out! Which character do you relate to the most? Perhaps this will help you discover your enneagram type or find out more ab...

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11. Guiding kids to own and solve their own problems from 2020-10-19T22:00

Do you want your kids to become adults who can make good decisions? Now is the time to start empowering your kids to do just that. Today Holly and Bec discuss one of their favourite Love & L...

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10. Midweek BONUS from 2020-10-13T22:00

Because EVERYONE wants a midweek bonus episode right!? Holly shares her newly found excitment about a new way to grow plants, opening up a whole new world when it comes to indoor plants!

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9. Love Languages for dummies + Identifying your child's Love Language from 2020-10-12T22:00

Love Languages are like a treasure map or shortcut guide to loving your kids well.  Holly and Bec discuss tips on how to discover your child's love language no matter their age, as well as ...

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8. The Tardis and an Enneagram "expert" from 2020-10-05T22:00

For the first time on this Podcast, we host a special quasi expert guest and chat about the Enneagram, the Tardis and being an not being an expert!

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7. Explaining the birds and the bees to your kids! 😅 from 2020-09-28T23:00

Let's talk about sexy baby! 😂😅 A common tricky topic for some people. Is it a Willy? a Vjay jay? 😅 How and when do you have 'the chat' with your kids? In this episode, Holly and Bec share their ...

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6. No more boxed sets? from 2020-09-21T23:00

Does your Enneagram Type determine your love language? Holly and Bec chat through all the Enneagram types and what their love languages might be and how to love each type with each love language...

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5. Game changer for toddlers, tantrums, & toilet training! from 2020-09-14T23:00

Listen in as Holly and Bec chat about some of the Love and Logic techniques that are especially helpful if you have a toddler. Although we still use them everyday with our kids who aren't toddle...

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4. It Blew Up! More on the Enneagram from 2020-09-07T23:00

When Holly's Facebook post about the Enneagram blew up, we discovered that not only did we have some experts in our midst but also that there was quite a bit of misinformation about the Enneagra...

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3. I love you too much to argue and the plant secrets from 2020-08-31T23:00

Love & Logic was developed by psychologists and using gentle and effective parenting techniques that help you develop a strong bond and a strong relationship with your child. Today the girls...

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2. Love Languages and the dreaded white chocolate from 2020-08-24T23:00

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman has helped many people to know how they receive love from those around them and how they give love to others. Holly & Bec touch briefly on all 5 differen...

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1. Do you remember the text message you sent me? from 2020-08-17T23:00

Enneagram... 

Do you know your type? Host Holly chats with her fave Sidekick Bec as they discuss their own Enneagram types and how that has impacted their friendship...

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