Podcasts by I SAW HIM FIRST

EP.59 How To NOT Die ALONE (5 Reasons You're Single & EXACTLY What To Do About It) from 2023-12-13T17:00

We're social beings who thrive on connection and belonging. Relationships, whether romantic, platonic, or familial, provide us with love, support, and a sense of purpose. BUT, not EVERYONE finds S...

EP.58 I Looked Through My BF's Phone.. Now My Life Will Change FOREVER | Aita Reddit Stories from 2023-12-07T17:00

Find out why this gamer dad won't let his fiance and baby sleep. Next, a clash of cultures causes drama between this couple, as a husband refuses to eat street food during a vacation in his wife's ...

EP.57 AITA FOR BRINGING UP MY AUNT'S EX AFTER THE CRAZY MARRIAGE PRESSURE | AITA REDDIT STORIES from 2023-11-29T12:00

In this episode, the reddit reading starts off with a very relatable story on marriage pressure, cuz who doesn't love a bit of family drama? Also, uncover the intriguing mystery surrounding a man ...

EP.57 AITA FOR BRINGING UP MY AUNT'S EX AFTER THE RELENTLESS MARRIAGE PRESSURE | REDDIT STORIES from 2023-11-29T12:00

On this episode, we dive into the chaos of the all too familiar marriage pressure, cuz who doesn't love a bit of family drama?

There is also the unsolved mystery of a guy who "a...

EP.56 FIANCÉ MEET AND GREET GONE TERRIBLY WRONG | AITA REDDIT STORIES from 2023-11-23T22:33:07

On this episode, we're diving into the unpredictable whirlwind of love with THREE engagement stories, but a not so happy ending. The nerve-wracking adventure of introducing a fiancé to the ...

EP.55 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR NOT TELLING MY BOYFRIEND I'M THE LANDLORD? | AITA REDDIT STORIES from 2023-11-14T12:00

Real talk.. is it ever okay to withhold the fact that you're the landlord of the house you and your partner live in? Is it lying by omission, or do the circumstances make it justifiable? On this ep...

EP.54 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR TELLING MY HUSBAND HE CAN'T TAKE A SHOWER? r/AITA REDDIT STORIES from 2023-11-05T17:00

Join me for some laughs with this couple fighting over showers. Is it okay to tell your husband when he can and can't take a shower? What is the big deal with this particular shower, and why is wif...

EP.53 RISK, ROMANCE & REFLECTIONS: TIPS TO INCREASE YOUR DATING SUCCESS from 2023-10-23T10:50

Join me in this episode of I Saw Him First Podcast to reveal the interesting parallels between Work and Dating. This is not about time management or critical thinking, it's 5 relatable and eye-open...

EP.53 FIVE SUPRISING DATING LESSONS FROM MY 9 TO 5 JOB from 2023-10-23T10:50

Join me in this episode of I Saw Him First Podcast to reveal the interesting parallels between Work and Dating. This is not about time management or critical thinking, it's 5 relatable and e...

EP.52 THIS IS WHAT MAKES A MAN COMMIT TO YOU: 5 MEN REVEAL "THE SECRET" from 2023-09-03T23:07:21

Do You Know the Plain Truth About What Makes a Man Commit? Is it Good Communication? Right Person, Wrong Timing? Finding your Soulmate? Good Looks? Watch this video to find out as I share 11 Key Ta...

EP.52 UNLOCKING THE MALE MIND: 5 MEN REVEAL WHAT MADE THEM COMMIT TO A RELATIONSHIP from 2023-09-03T23:07:21

Do You Know the Plain Truth About What Makes a Man Commit? Is it Good Communication? Right Person, Wrong Timing? Finding your Soulmate? Good Looks? Watch this video to find out as I share 11 Key...

EP.51 WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN? (A GHOSTING STORY) from 2023-08-21T16:00

Cracking a GHOSTING case on the very relatable Reddit Dilemma titled "WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN?" On this episode, I dissect the intricacies of these SITUATIONSHIPS that end in Ghosting. From ...

EP.50 IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW? 5 Tips To Help You Decide If They Are "THE ONE" from 2023-08-04T11:15

In this episode, I dive into the psychology behind these elusive moments of connection and discuss how to actually know that you know. Here's 5 tips to help you decide if they are "the ...

EP.49 HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU from 2023-06-09T10:00:50

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! I'm joining the IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD gang with this one. Mixed signals, ambiguous texts, canceled plans, hot and cold behaviour, being left on...

EP.48 WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR? from 2023-05-14T18:23:16

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Today's podcast is all about being confident in what you're looking for and not being afraid to communicate it. I discussed the fear of admitting that you...

EP.47 WHY DATING IS SO DIFFICULT AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT from 2023-03-27T10:00:07

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!

This episode is all about why dating is so hard these days and what you can do to make it easier to navigate. I talked about how technology, va...

EP.46 I CAN BUY MYSELF FLOWERS | VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL from 2023-02-14T09:00:34

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!  

In this episode, I shared my revised approach to dating in 2023 and what it feels like spending Valentine's Day as a single pringle. I re...

EP.45 IS CHATGPT THE NEW DATING EXPERT? from 2023-01-29T14:44:39

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!  

This episode was brought to you by the one and only ChatGPT :)  

OMG, I honestly had so much fun recording this! I explored h...

EP.44 SHOULD YOU GET BACK WITH YOUR EX? 5 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU DO from 2023-01-13T23:02:26

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!

An ex is an ex for a reason? OR Are they the one that got away? This is a very fun one if I do say so myself. Here are 5 things you want to thin...

EP.43 DATING STRATEGY FOR 2023 | SPILLING THE TEA from 2023-01-02T22:30:14

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! & HAPPY NEW YEAR :)   New Year New Me, New Year New Dating Strategy! Enjoy this bitesized episode where I discuss how I'm approaching dating in 2023 and l...

EP.42 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 2 from 2022-12-09T12:00:04

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! 

Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them aw...

EP.41 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 1 from 2022-11-07T18:05:31

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them away, or are you ...

EP.40 EXCLUSIVE vs OFFICIAL RELATIONSHIPS from 2022-10-30T22:23:10

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Dating exclusively versus being in an official relationship, what's the difference? Should you agree to this? Are you being played? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAS...

EP.39 HOW TO DEAL WITH A BREAKUP - 15 TIPS from 2022-10-19T21:28:58

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!

Let's get straight to the point in this week's episode! 5 DONT's and 10 DOs to help you cope with your breakup. Everyone goes through heartbreak...

EP.38 WHY CAN'T MEN PAY FOR EVERYTHING? from 2022-10-04T08:16:46

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!  

Age Old Question of who should pay on the first date but with a twist!   

On this epsiode, we have a man who's offended ...

EP.37 IS BEING LONELY ANTIFEMINIST? from 2022-09-06T15:27:55

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!  

What do you say when your date confesses they've been lonely before they met you? Is it a red flag if they said this on your first date? ...

EP.36 FIVE REASONS TO DUMP SOMEONE TODAY | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE from 2022-08-26T23:47:53

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!   I talked about the main reasons couples tend to stay together even though they are unhappy and why it's so hard to get out of these unfulfiling relation...

EP.35 IS IT CHEMISTRY OR LOVE BOMBING? from 2022-07-23T19:39:25

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!

This episode is about Love Bombing, an extreme or overwhelming display of attention and affection. It tends to happen during th...

EP.34 BOYFRIEND WANTS SPACE & DINNER?! from 2022-07-14T22:26:29

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!   For this week's podcast, I went on REDDIT to fish out two really juicy relationship dilemmas. One boyfriend asked for space from his girlfriend, but sti...

EP.33 FIRST DATE TIPS (DOs & DON'Ts) from 2022-07-08T17:28:58

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!  

Enjoy a bit of storytelling and some advice on how to ace your first date and be confident about getting a second one! On this episode, I...

EP.32 WHEN IS FLIRTING TOO MUCH? | Relationship Dilemmas PT2 from 2022-06-27T20:50:24

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!

Following up from last week's episode, today I answered 10 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. Someone's partner is too flirty,...

EP.31 ONCE A CHEATER... | Relationship Dilemmas PT1 from 2022-06-20T21:53:57

Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!!    Today I answered 5 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. From a partner forgeting your birthday, to requesting a threesome and finding o...

EP.30 OWNING YOUR STANDARDS w/Certified Matchmaker - Busola from 2022-03-28T21:13:04

Are your goals and values in alignment?   

Here are a few things that professional matchmaker - Busola considers when predicting compatibility between two people. 

K...

EP.30 OWNING YOUR STANDARDS AND BEING OPEN-MINDED w/Certified Matchmaker - Busola from 2022-03-28T21:13:04

Are your goals and values in alignment?   

Here are a few things that professional matchmaker - Busola considers when predicting compatibility between two people. 

K...

EP.29 MATCHMAKING AND FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER ft Certified Matchmaker - Chi from 2022-03-21T19:49:10

From the mouth of a certified matchmaker and dating coach Chi, to your ears.. Here's a few things you should know about matchmaking and what it takes to find a long-term partner.  

O...

EP.28 WHO COMES FIRST.. FRIENDS OR LOVER? from 2022-03-14T23:46:33

If you've seen the timeless series FRIENDS, then you know this story too well. The one where Ross says Rachel at the altar, instead of Emily. That chaotic incident inspired this podcast. Who com...

EP.27 THE CAST OF LOVE IS BLIND IS NOT BLIND from 2022-03-07T23:19:45

They say that Love is Blind but I'm not buying that! I don't think it's smart or reasonable to rely sorely on an emotional connection for the success or longevity of a romantic relationship. &nb...

EP.26 WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE? (No, you're not the table) from 2022-02-28T23:30:38

"What do you bring to the table? I am the table". Uhmmm... no you're not.   

I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and ...

EP.25 A MATCH IS JUST AS USELESS AS YOUR APPENDIX (What Dating Apps Are Doing Wrong) from 2022-01-17T07:44:33

I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and ...

EP.24 DATING HABITS TO LEAVE IN 2021 from 2022-01-10T22:27:46

I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and ...

EP.23 LET'S GROW AS WE GO from 2021-06-20T20:00

"You don't ever have to leave, if to change is what you need.. you can change right next to me. Let's grow as we go" - Ben Platt

I'M BACK Y'ALLLLLL :) Feels good! 

This week's...

EP.22 I LOVE YOU BUT KEISHA TOO from 2021-03-27T20:00

Would you still believe someone loves you if they cheated on you? Physical vs emotional cheating, which would make you less likely to take back your partner? A one-time slip up, or a year long sexl...

EP.21 DATING IN A PANDEMIC - DATING APPS EDITION from 2021-03-12T13:59:12

SPOILER ALERT!!!! I was a little mean on this episode :))))) This week's podcast is sort of me reviewing all the dating apps I've used and what dating has been like in this pandemic. So pretty m...

EP.20 HE LOVES ME, HE LOVES ME NOT from 2021-02-26T14:00

Have you ever heard the phrase "If a man likes you, you'll know".... well how true is that? On this episode I reacted to Influencer & Youtuber Breeny Lee's podcast about how to tell if a guy...

EP.19 I GOT A RING - EXCLUSIVITY & LABELS (Valentine's Day Special) from 2021-02-12T14:00

Valentine's Day Special!!!!! On this episode, we shared our favourite valentine's day memories and tried to understand what the hype is all about. We also discussed the different phases of a rel...

EP.18 DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT GIRLS LIKE? ft THREE EXPOSE PROS PODCAST from 2021-01-29T14:00

We know what girls like, we know what they want!!!! My first ever podcast collaboration.. and it was hilarious from beginning to the end. 4 girls discuss the things guys do that get us head over he...

EP.17 IS A SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP A DEALBREAKER? from 2021-01-15T14:00

Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me... This week's podcast is about the value of sex in a romantic relationship. Can a relationship feel intimate without sex? How much comprom...

EP.16 SEX EDUCATION IN AN AFRICAN HOUSEHOLD from 2021-01-01T14:00

Who knew the Bible was so savage, lol. Sex vs Religion... Is there an even ground? Sex in an African household has been a tabooooo topic for the longest time and we deffo broke the silence on this....

EP.15 SUCK ME IN WITH YOUR EYEBALLS - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast) from 2020-12-18T14:00

This week's podcast will have you rolling on the floor LAUGHING for realllllll. I had so much fun playing "this or that" with Audrey, and telling her how much I love her cheesy jokes. We talked abo...

EP.14 MEN IN THEIR 30s ARE JUST AS SLOPPY - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast) from 2020-12-04T16:00

Yes!!!! It's AUDREY, formely known as Ghana's Finest herself on this podcast with me. I also have my twin sister, Kenny with me and I'm so gassed for this week's episode. We talked about what it...

EP.13 WHATCHU KNOW BOUT LOVE? from 2020-11-20T14:00

I had sooo much fun recording this! This podcast is a reaction to a couple of Dating & Relationship advice I found on YouTube. It includes advice on Communicating your standards, Giving 100%...

EP.12 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 2 from 2020-11-06T18:00

On this episode, my two guests and I debated whether or not it is racist to say I DON'T DATE *INSERT RACE*, or if only specific groups of people can get away with always sticking to their race *...

EP.11 MOVING ON FROM AN UNSUCCESFUL AND UNFULFILLING RELATIONSHIP from 2020-10-23T17:00

This podcast isn't just about how to get over a breakup, it's about how to prepare and get yourself ready for a more suitable match for you!  Who exactly qualifies as an ex? How soon should you mov...

EP.10 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 1 from 2020-10-09T16:57:38

3 beautiful black girls having a candid and honest discussion about what it's like to date as black women in the UK. We talked about dating outside our races and the misconceptions of interracial r...

EP.9 DATING UP DATING DOWN OR DATING EQUAL? from 2020-09-25T22:57:22

NO ONE WORKS EXTRA HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING THEY CAN EASILY REPLACE!!!! When you have something that doesn't seem of great value to you, you treat it differently to something that feels like a prize ...

EP.8 GIRLS MAKING THE FIRST MOVE from 2020-09-11T17:57:52

Good things come to those who wait.. but this definitely doesn't apply to men cuz if you wait too long, there just wouldn't be anyone left :)  It is seen as the norm for men to do the chasing and a...

EP.7 LOVE IS FAKE - Part 1 from 2020-08-28T15:00:26

Another girllll chat 😁 (Part 2 is coming soon for the boys don't worry)  On this episode, my guest and I had an in-depth discussion about what it's like DATING IN OUR 20s compared to dating in our...

EP.6 YOU PICKED ME from 2020-08-14T14:00

"How to bag the second date with the man or the girl of your dreams"... I know that just sounded like a TedTalk haha. But nahh, It's just banter y'all 🥰 On this episode, I talked about 8 things yo...

EP.5 BREAKS, BREAKUPS, OPEN RELATIONSHIPS & ENTANGLEMENTS from 2020-07-31T15:00

The Ultimate Girl Chat!!! This episode pretty much sums up the conversations us girls have when we get together. So think of this an an Exclusive content for the non-female listeners haha :) My ...

EP.4 WHY WON'T YOU DATE ME? from 2020-07-17T15:00:11

Him: What's wrong?

You: Nothing..

Sound familiar? 

On this episode of I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST, I brought myself to the "Red Table" where I discussed my incompetence as ...

EP.3 WHAT'S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? from 2020-07-03T22:30:20

From a seductive touch, to getting a Ferrari for Christmas.. we all have our picks when it comes to how we express or receive love. Knowing that you are loved, and to actually feel loved are two...

EP.2 WHY YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY MULTIDATE IN YOUR TWENTIES from 2020-06-19T22:43:19

My favourite episode yet! I had so much fun with my guest, dissecting the "act of multidating", and all the benefits of exploring your options while you're young. I explained that I'm Sapiosexual, ...

EP.1 MY MAN IS YOUR MAN TOO from 2020-06-05T18:41:44

You know that your man that's not really your man, but is your man cos everyone kinda knows him as your man? Well what happens when your girlfriend is lipsing your man, clearly you've called dibs o...

TRAILER - I SAW HIM FIRST from 2020-06-03T19:07:02

OFFICIAL TRAILER is finally here!!!

I Saw Him First ~ Have Severallll Seats

This is a new Dating & Relationship Show by a 20-something year old living in London. Grab some popc...