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If It Isn't Love

Donisha Rhnae and J.L. Woodson talk relationship, living and loving as a Millennial couple.

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If It Isn't Love
Episode 412: What's Next for the Woodsons? from 2023-04-20T16:46:22

In this episode we discuss some of our plans for the remainder of the year!!! Check in and see all the fun stuff we have planned!!!


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Episode 411: My Body Autonomy Party from 2023-03-15T17:17:41

Weeee'reeeee back!  It's another week in the Woodson household and we're happy to bring you all another episode!  On this week's episode we discuss the hullabaloo surrounding the Oscar...

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Episode 410: Soulmates to Workmates from 2023-03-08T06:00:09

On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and JL discuss what it's like to become business partners during their first year of marriage.  How do they balance work and relationship? &nb...

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Episode 409: Marriage Be Hard - The Conclusion from 2023-03-01T06:30:40

Welcome to another week of our podcast!!!  We are finishing up our reading and review of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.  We definitely recommend this book.  Chec...

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Episode 408: MBH - Self-Worth Be Hard from 2023-02-22T13:00:15

On this week's episode - Donisha and JL continue on in the conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks.


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Episode 407: MBH - Divorce Be Hard from 2023-02-15T13:50:04

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue on with their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks.


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Episode 406: MBH - Quarantine Be Hard from 2023-02-08T12:37:05

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L discuss Chapter 9 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.  


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Episode 405: MBH - Parenting Be Hard from 2023-02-01T14:56:03

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on in their dissection of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks with a conversation around parenting.  The book's discussion took ...

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Episode 404: MBH - Fighting Be Hard from 2023-01-25T13:46:38

Donisha and J.L continue on their deep dive and review of New York Times Best selling book Marriage Be Hard  by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.  This episode gets real REAL as th...

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Episode 403: MBH - Fidelity Be Hard from 2023-01-18T14:09:09

Welcome back to another episode!  We are continuing our journey with Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.  In this week's episode we're discussing the issue of fidelity in ...

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Episode 402: MBH - Marital Roles Be Hard from 2023-01-11T13:41:29

On this week's episode, we resume our conversation around the New York Times Best Selling Book - Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fdricks.  

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Episode 401: And a Happy Woodson New Year! from 2023-01-04T15:09:21

Happy New Year Everyone!!!!

The Woodsons are baaaaaack!!!!  We're so excited for 2023 as we have some fun new endeavors as individuals and as a married couple!  Tune in to see w...

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Episode 314: MBH - Jealousy Be Hard from 2022-11-02T22:13:03

On this week's episode - we discuss Chapter 4 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks!  Check out our episode to listen to our thoughts!

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Episode 313: MBH - Sex Be Hard from 2022-10-26T14:04:50

In this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on their journey with the Marriage Be Hard book with Chapter 3 - Sex Be Hard (badumboom).  

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Episode 312: MBH - Communication Be Hard from 2022-10-19T20:30:30

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard written by New York Times best selling authors Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.  We discuss t...

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Episode 311: MBH - Expectations Be Hard from 2022-10-12T20:44:34

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L. discuss Chapter 1 (Expectations Be Hard) of the New York Times Bestseller, "Marriage Be Hard: 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning...

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Episode 310: What is the Going Rate for Coochie? from 2022-08-24T18:02:43

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the most recent uproar about a man cancelling his female companion's plane ticket after she didn't agree to sex with him.

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Episode 309: Wanna Play a Game? from 2022-08-03T14:50:25

On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and J.L. play a fun game of "Would You Rather?"

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Episode 308: "V" is for Vabbing from 2022-07-27T14:19:17

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL dive deep (pun intended) into some hot topics about vaginas!  And whew it's a doozy!


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Episode 307: The Blueprint from 2022-07-20T14:15:44

A change is gon come!  On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss some major career changes and how they are working both together and separately on this new journey.

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Episode 306: Black Like We Never Left from 2022-07-15T14:10:49

We're baaaaaaack....AGAIN!  Look y'all, life be life-ing!  But so much has happened, including OUR WEDDING!  The Woodson's are here officially!  Come catch up with us to see ...

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Episode 305: Urgent Like a Mutha from 2022-02-23T14:25:36

On this week's episode, we recap our Valentine's Day and JL's 36th birthday celebration!  Donisha finally saw the movie Love Jones and we talk about how it holds up in the 2022 of things! Listen

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Episode 304: Sorry to That Man from 2022-02-16T16:57:23

On this week's episode of the podcast, we discuss the newest documentary scandal - The Tinder Swindler.


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Episode 303: Cheating Respectfully? from 2022-02-09T06:00

It's Wednesday so you know what that means - new podcast episode!  On this week's episode we discuss cheating.  Can you do it respectfully?  Is it ever the other person's fault? &...

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Episode 302: What About Your Friends? from 2022-02-02T18:13:18

This week's episode is all about friendships and the boundaries within our friendships.


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Episode 301: Do You Want a Resolution? from 2022-01-26T16:41:04

Happy New Year listeners!   It's 2022 and we are taking our time getting into this year so we can do this right!  On our first episode of the year, we discuss our new year's resol...

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Episode 227: It's Not Goodbye from 2021-09-22T14:39:33

On this week's episode, we have a VERY important announcement for all our listeners!  


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Episode 226: Breaking the Ice from 2021-09-08T12:45:35

On this week's episode of the podcast we play a fun round of ice breaker questions.  Take a listen to see what we learn about one another.


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Episode 225: Minding My Black Business from 2021-09-01T05:00

Thanks for being patient with us while we took a few weeks off to handle some business.  Speaking of which, on this week's episode we discuss the entrepreneurial journey and the pros and co...

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Episode 224: Money Mindset from 2021-08-11T16:22:52

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss their journey to getting their finances in order as they prepare to enter into marriage.  Check out the episode and let us know what you think...

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Episode 223: Bringing Home the Bacon from 2021-08-04T17:00:12

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss traditional relationship roles and their place in modern society.

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Episode 222: Body-ody-ody-ody Image from 2021-07-28T16:50:59

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss body issues and how it's showing up in their lives.

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Episode 221: Karens Gone Wild! from 2021-07-21T05:00

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the rampant slew of Karen's that have been on the prowl this week!

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Episode 220: I Don't Belong Here - Imposter Syndrome from 2021-07-14T16:37:01

In this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss imposter syndrome and how it has shown up in their lives.


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Episode 219: Here's the Line - Don't Cross It from 2021-07-07T13:52:15

This week Donisha and JL discuss setting boundaries and what steps they are taking to have more fulfilled lives.

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Episode 218: Fiancé from 2021-06-09T14:21:27

Guess what y'all?  WE'RE GETTING MARRIED!!!!   In this week's episode we discuss our proposal story and how our engagement is going so far.


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Episode 217: Health is Wealth - Part 2 from 2021-05-12T18:41:48

Join Donisha and JL this week as we inadvertently discuss health again.  It was supposed to just be an opening topic, but here we are.  Check us out!  Also don't forget to follow ...

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Episode 216: Health is Wealth from 2021-05-05T16:29:21

This week, Donisha and JL discuss their new journey in taking better care of themselves.

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Episode 215: Holy Moly! from 2021-04-28T13:58:15

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss how religion has influenced their lives and how they plan to incorporate religion in their future.


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Episode 214: Well DAMN, That Sucks! from 2021-04-21T05:00

This week Donisha and JL discuss dealing with disappointment.  We've all been there, but what do we do when life gives us lemons and we can't seem to find the sugar to make lemonade?  ...

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Episode 213: Dating Disaters from 2021-04-14T20:46:32

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L talk about dating disasters - clearly before they started dating one another.

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Episode 212: Great Expectations - Part 2 from 2021-04-07T16:42:02

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation on relationship expectations.

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Episode 211: Great Expectations - Part 1 from 2021-03-31T12:00

This week Donisha and JL discuss what their expectations are in a healthy relationship. The conversation got so good we had to split it into two parts.


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Episode 210: If the Monogamy Doesn't Fit; You Must Aquit from 2021-03-24T12:00

This week Donisha and JL completely divert from the intended weekly topic and instead dive into celebrity couple gossip that has been flooding Twitter.  Questions discussed:

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Episode 209: Diabetes Made Me Do It from 2021-03-17T18:08:23

This week, Donisha and JL discuss hot topics including cussing out your children, diabetes induced racism and Grammys so Black!

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Episode 208: New Place, Who Dis? from 2021-03-16T14:39:12

Hey guys!  We're finally moved and ready!  Check out today's episode where we update you on all of our updates!

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Episode 207: Better Late Than Never from 2021-03-04T14:20:23

We missed a week because Texas decided to dress up as the North Pole.  Then we moved so we never got around to uploading this episode.  But like the title said - better late than never...

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Episode 206: All Holidays Matter from 2021-02-10T21:27:47

In this week's episode we discuss Valentine's Day and holidays overall.


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Episode 205: Double Tap That A$$ from 2021-02-03T06:00

On this week's episode of "If It Isn't Love" Donisha and JL discuss social media and it's impact on relationships.


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Episode 204: That's a Weird Question! from 2021-01-27T13:40:03

This week we tried to make the episode a little light-hearted and played a game of "weird relationship questions" - thanks Google!


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Episode 203: Now You're Speaking My (Love) Language from 2021-01-20T15:06:10

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L. explore Love Languages and how to strengthen their relationship by loving one another like they need to be loved.

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Episode 202: Baggage Claim from 2021-01-13T14:23:21

In this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss relationship baggage and how it effects the relationship.


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Episode 201: New Year - You Know the Rest from 2021-01-06T06:00

It's 2021 and Donisha and JL discuss their plans for the new year!


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Episode 109: What 2020 Taught Us from 2020-12-16T14:11:08

As we wrap up our first season of the If It Isn't Love Podcast we decided to discuss what lessons we've learned in the tumultuous year that has been 2020!  We are so grateful for all of our...

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Episode 108: Bacon and Eggs with a Side of Twerk from 2020-12-09T17:21:12

In this week's episode we discuss the viral video of a Dallas, TX restaurant owner who chastised his patrons for twerking during brunch.  

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Episode 107: His Space Is My Space Too from 2020-11-25T06:00

In this week's episode we discuss living together and how we fused our separate lives together.


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Episode 106: To Cheat or Not to Cheat? from 2020-11-18T06:00

In this week's episode we discuss cheating and infidelity.  

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Episode 105: In Sickness and in Health from 2020-11-11T06:00

After a brief hiatus, we are back!

In this week's episode we share with you our story of how we came face-to-face with The Rona.


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Episode 104: Baecation Checklist from 2020-10-21T05:00

This week we discuss our personal dos and donts of travel, our favorite places to travel and our first Baecation.

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Episode 103: The Social Dilemma from 2020-10-14T05:00

In Episode 3, J.L. and Donisha reflect on the documentary - The Social Dilemma - and how social media is both improving and destroying our way of life.  The pair also delve into social medi...

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Episode 102: Love In The Time Of Covid from 2020-10-07T13:22:24

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the twists and turns of managing a relationship through a pandemic.  How are they handling it?  Take a listen!

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Episode 101: This is Us from 2020-09-30T05:00

Welcome to the first full episode of If It Isn't Love Podcast with your hosts in love Donisha and J.L.!

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If It Isn't Love - Trailer from 2020-09-22T22:16:43

Check out the trailer for our new podcast - If It Isn't Love, a podcast that will not only chronicle our journey as a couple but where we will discuss various social topics from our vantage poin...

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