Podcasts by Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean

In the age of porn on our phones and vibrators around our necks, is the future of love doomed? Sex Educator & Olympian Squirter Lola Jean and Reluctant Sexpert Stephen Penta (former producer of Guys We F**ked Podcast) tow both sides of the line. They are the vigilante sex educators no one asked for, creating the next gen Kama Sutra you deserve.

Further podcasts by Lola Jean & Stephen Penta

Podcast on the topic Sexualität

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Is Our Love The Objectification of Black Men with King Noire from 2020-10-07T08:00

Black men in particular are one of the most objectified groups in porn. Black men are a porn genre, which begs the question of why race is a genre….BBC is more th...

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Is Our Love Sex Education? (with Cameron Glover) from 2020-09-30T08:00

An Educator for Sex Educators? A more and more common question these days as more sexuality professionals emerge is: “How can I do that too?” The road to becoming a sexuality professional is mur...

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Is Our Love A World Of F**K (with Erotica Writer and Sex Toy Inventor Tabitha Rayne) from 2020-09-23T08:00

This week we continue our venture into the world of literotica with someone who can not only call themselves an erotica writer but a sex toy inventor as well. Tabitha Rayne is a decorated writer...

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Is Our Love A Dirty Word (with Erotic Author Peekaboo Collins) from 2020-09-16T08:00

For all of the visual stimuli we are bombarded with and lack of sexual commu...

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Is Our Love Normative (with Porn Performer&Activist Lync Johnson) from 2020-09-09T08:00

What is a norm and how do you know if you’re willingly or unwillingly abiding by it? By now we know our formative years at least have some influence in our worldview. Does that mean norms are go...

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Is Our Love Consensual? (with Intimacy Coordinator Mia Schachter) from 2020-09-02T08:30

By now we all know what consent means…..or do we? How much do you really know and what can an intimacy coordinator teach you about your current understanding? Alot, it turns out. If you thought ...

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Is Our Love Represented in Film? (with Nia Ashley) from 2020-08-26T08:00

What role does film and media play in our love and in our lives? Does culture reflect film or vice versa? This week we are joined by the charismatic Nia Ashley wh...

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Is Our Love Sex Down South (with Marla Stewart) from 2020-08-19T09:00

This week we're joined by southern sexuality superhuman Marla Stewart, whose impressive body of work speaks for itself. Co-founder of the Sex Down South conference, Marla is already making histo...

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Is Our Love Conventional (with Hannah Witton) from 2020-08-12T08:00

Based on the number of pro dommes we've had on this podcast the past few weeks, we need a little reminder that good, old fashioned, fuck yes, traditional sex is still fucking fantastic and fun f...

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Is Our Love Dead? (with Audrey Fatale) from 2020-08-05T08:00

Oh I’m sorry... did you think we were an good-vibes-all-the-time podcast? Stephens inner goth gets to let loose as we welcome this week's fascinating guest Audrey Fatale. We learn all about the ...

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Is Our Love Patient? (with Mistress Eva Oh) from 2020-07-29T08:00

Is Our Love Particular? Does our love even know what it wants? Whether you’re ideal pairing is in pay-for-play, a long term partner, or your career we could all take a few notes from Mistress Ev...

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Is Our Love A Male Dom? (with Master Peter) from 2020-07-22T09:00

Why are femme Dominatrizes more prevalent and heralded than masc Doms? Is there a stigma against masc Doms, particularly cis-male Doms? We discuss why that is and what you can do about it on our...

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Is Our Love A Dungeon? (with Mistress Adreena) from 2020-07-15T08:00

What is a dungeon and are they all created similarly? We speak with all around sex worker Adreena Angela on how she doesn’t follow all the rules...

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Is Our Love The Fetishization of Latinx Womxn? (with Rebecca Carvalho) from 2020-05-28T02:23:29

Have you ever had a stereotype projected onto you? Have you ever felt guilty about embodying or identifying with a stereotype of your ethnicity or otherwise? These conversations may not be easy ...

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Is Our Love the New 'Talk'? (with Jet Setting Jasmine) from 2020-05-20T08:00

Do you remember getting the talk? Who gave it to you? How would you give “the talk?” Easier said than done. This week’s guest Jet Setting Jasmine is not only walking the walk but talking THE 'ta...

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Is Our Love Non Monogamous? (w Ruby Rare) from 2020-05-13T08:00

Does it seem like everyone is talking about open relationships and polyamory lately? Is non-monogamy actually better? Who is it for? Does non-monogamy mean you have more sex? And why does it hav...

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Is Our Love A Pelvic Floor (w/ Dr. Rachel Gelman) from 2020-05-06T08:00

Did you know you have a pelvic floor? Yes, all of you. Do you know what is does? Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING. Rachel Gelman a San Francisco based Pelvic Floor Therapist joins us this week to tell ...

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Is Our Love A Coming of Age (with Liv Revamped) from 2020-04-29T08:00

Rebelling against your Pagan family by joining a church... this isn’t your average darling come porn performer coming of age tale. From the industry trying to pigeon hole a multi-racial gal as “...

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Is Our Love A New Era Of Porn? (w Inka Winter of ForPlay Films) from 2020-04-22T08:00

Everyone and their step-sibling seems to be making their own bootleg smut these days. Is there room for a new era of porn graduated form the yesteryears of gonzo? Is there a difference between p...

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Is Our Love Stoya (Pt.2) from 2020-04-15T08:00

"I have caffeine, nicotine… and the conversation’s all over the place just like I like it.” - Stoya

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Is Our Love Stoya (Pt. 1) from 2020-04-08T08:00

Stoya. A person who needs no introduction but we’re going to attempt it anyway.
An internationally celebrated author, activist, actress & advocate for sex worker’s rights.
An introve...

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Is Our Love A Private Public Figure (with Fetish Fellow) from 2020-04-01T08:00

In a world that isn’t wildly accepting of sexuality, kink, or anything that falls out of heteronormativity can be a scary thing to reveal to folx. Will they accept you? Shame you? Fire you? And ...

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Is Our Love A Threesome? from 2020-03-25T08:00

This week we ironically tackle threesomes as a twosome. Threesomes are often one of the first boxes on people’s sexual bucket lists, but are they all they’re cracked up to be? Stephen and Lola w...

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Is Our Love Financially Stable? (with Lindsay Goldwert) from 2020-03-18T08:00

This week we take a break from our social distancing to talk about something other than coronavirus. To bring up spirits we decided it would be a great time to discuss personal finances...

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Is Our Love A Genital Rainbow? (w/ Jessy Caron and Rebekah Frank) from 2020-03-11T08:00

This week, Is Our Love welcomes the gals of the “Welcome To My Vagina” podcast into *our* podcast vagina wh...

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Is Our Love Bleeding (w/ Valarie Merced ...aka the blood queen) from 2020-03-04T09:00

This week we live in the taboo, the messy, and the sometimes woo woo. That’s right: We’re on the rag, riding the crimson wave….we’re BLEEDING love. Valarie Merced (aka The Blood Queen) schools u...

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Is Our Love Positive? (with HIV Advocate Philipp Spiegel) from 2020-02-26T09:00

This week on Is Our Love we explore the positive side of being positive. Advocate Philipp Speigel shares his personal stories from reliving his HIV diagnosis, depression, and processing to ultim...

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Is Our Love Forever Vol.2 (w Lorrae Bradbury: founder of Slutty Girl Probs) from 2020-02-19T09:00

Between breakups, makeups and all that unfolds in between we’ve all had our uglier moments. Lorrae of Slutty Girl Probs fame walks us through the best of times and the worst of times and how lea...

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Is Our Love High? with Sophie St. Thomas from 2020-02-12T09:00

Move over stoner comedies and Bob Marley posters, cannabis has a new sheriff...

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Is Our Love Defined? (with Kinky Queer Architect: Vanilla Honey) from 2020-02-05T09:00

We’re back from a *brief* hiatus to bring you the first episode of 2020. We’re getting all kinds of heady dissecting the phrasing, attire and spaces we frequent and what makes then “queer” “kink...

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Is Our Love A Resolution? from 2019-12-18T09:00

On our last episode of 2019, we take a look back on our favorite episodes of the year and also discuss our take on “Resolutions.” What’s the deal with benchmarks and why do we put so much weight...

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Is Our Love Fertile? (Egg Freezing with Morganna Nickoff) from 2019-12-11T09:00

This week’s Is Our Love ___? hits us right in the babymaker. Cartoonist and budding comedian Morganna Nickoff (@morganna.jokes) joins us ...

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Is Our Love A Violent Hug? (Wrestling Fetish with Ursa Fierce) from 2019-12-04T09:00

Sometimes love feels like a struggle, but sometimes… maybe we want it too? Wrestling fetish is the biggest craze you’ve never heard about and it’s a lot more common than you think. Before we thr...

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Is Our Love a Cumversation? (with Remy Kassimir) from 2019-11-20T09:06:03

This week’s guest knows a thing or two about talking sex stuff in public. Remy Kassimir is the comedian cum role model who still worries if people thi...

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Is Our Love Bound By Rules? (with NYC Power Dynamics Practitioner: Lady Euphoria) from 2019-11-13T09:00

This week we are joined by Pro Domme and sometimes sociologist Lady Euphoria to pick apart why it is that we are so drawn to rules and wh...

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Is Our Love A Toy? (Sex Toys w Nadia Deen Founder of AM.appointment) from 2019-11-06T09:00

Sometimes our love feels like a game, but just how much are we toying with it? What are the roles of toys in our sex life and how should we be using them? Are we using toys too much? Too little?...

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Pass The Porn Takeover: Sex Magick from 2019-10-30T14:23:26

What witch, wizard or sorcerer would you want to fuck? It’s Halloween and we’re still not sure if we want to channel our sexual energy for good or for evil. This week we’re not question what our...

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Is Our Love Vaginal Pain? (w Emily Sauer, Founder Of OhNut) from 2019-10-23T08:30

This week we're hitting where it hurts…...in the vagina? Sometimes our love involves vaginas, but what happens when that love is...painful? Whose responsibility is it? Do we push through it? Avo...

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Is Our Love A Cold Sore? (Herpes Etc. W Sexologist Emily Depasse) from 2019-10-16T08:00

What a week to have our first guest on to talk STI’s and we’re kicking thing...

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Is Our Love Masochistic (with Pro Sub Indygo Ann) from 2019-10-09T08:30

Our BDSM trilogy continues on Is Our Love?! After a few weeks of Dommes, we head to the other side of the spectrum and dive deep into sub space with this week’s guest: Listen

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Is Our Love Full Of Shit? (w Mistress Shayla) from 2019-10-02T08:30

If our love is full of shit, how much confidence does it take to throatfuck that shit in someone’s mouth? Wait….what? You never asked… we answered, and the answer is this weeks’ guest: Mistress ...

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Is Our Love Kinky? (w/ Mistress Nikita Reign) from 2019-09-25T08:00

If being kinky is a spectrum from a simple roleplay all the way to chastity and eternal servitude, where does a new Pro Domme (Dominatrix) fall into it? Kicking off a string of BDSM focused gues...

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Is Our Love Body Conscious? (Sex After An Eating Disorder w/ Devon Day Moretti) from 2019-09-18T09:00

With all of the positive strides modern media is making with showcasing different types of bodies and faces, it can feel like body positivity is a simple compliment away, right? It’s not always ...

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Is Our Love Intimate (with Sex Therapist Cyndi Darnell) from 2019-09-11T12:53:58

In our continued pursuit of all conversations sex & kink, this weeks' guest Cyndi Darnell, a leading sex therapist and educator, brings us back to our human core: INTIMACY. We have an in depth c...

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Is Our Love HYPNOTIZED? (Erotic Hypnosis with Wizard: Devin Person) from 2019-09-04T08:00

This week on Is Our Love we talk to a *fucking* Wizard. Find out how one becomes a fucking wizard and what a real life wizard even does. Devin Person dispels the mystique behind erotic hypnosis ...

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Is Our Love a One Night Stand? from 2019-08-28T08:00

No conversation about sex is complete without talking about the one night stand. So commonplace its earned its own abbreviation: ONS. One-night standspert MOMO (@Listen

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Is Our Love the Fetishization of Asian Women? from 2019-08-21T08:00

This week we boldly go where two white podcasters dare not tread... for good reason. Inspired by a listener question regarding the fetishization of her race within her dating pursuits, Stephen a...

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Is Our Love A Summer Fling from 2019-08-14T08:00

It's summer and we've been on vacation! Lola and Stephen reconvene after a little break and recount what happened with their summer flings and things. While Lola fucked (and educated) her way th...

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Is Our Love Codependent w/ Rachel Khints from 2019-08-07T08:00

If codependency is a spectrum, where is a healthy place to sit? How can you tell if your relationship is in equilibrium or codependent AF? Are you in-love or enme...

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Is Our Love A Multi-Orgasmic Man (Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms with Dominus Eros) from 2019-07-31T08:00

No greater sex goal has plagued man more than the non-ejaculatory orgasm. Ok... well maybe not, but unless you’ve been living under a 'fuck' rock, chances are you’ve heard of The Multi-Orgasmic ...

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Is Our Love A Safer Space? (Gamifying Your Orgy w Robin Scott) from 2019-07-24T08:00

Exploring sex and love is all fine and dandy but where are we doing all this uber progressive sexploration? Safe(r) spaces are crucial to creating sex positive co...

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Is Our Love Forever Vol. 1 from 2019-07-17T08:00

We're finally tackling our first LOVE spectacular! Is there a reason we're inherently attracted to the “wrong” people? How do you date for love vs. date for sport? This week, Stephen takes the w...

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Is our Love Bisexual? from 2019-07-10T08:00

Is bisexuality a 50/50 split or is it a bit more complicated than that. Join us for all the confusion from the bicurious to the biphobic, we discuss all sides of ...

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Is Our Love CockDependent? (Body Acceptance With Jojo Bear) from 2019-07-03T08:00

When it comes to body acceptance, bodies with penises tend to focus on just that: PENISES. And as our guest--and current person we’re fangirling over--Jojo Bear puts it: while a part of the body...

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Is Our Love A Gaping Hole from 2019-06-26T08:00

Lola Jean and Stephen make the best of getting stood up by their guest and take things in an unexpected direction: Anal. Well, maybe not so unexpected. From fucking butts, to having their butts ...

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Is Our Love (master)BATIN' (with the Bate' Coach!) from 2019-06-19T08:00

Where do we learn to masturbate? How do we know if what we’re doing is enough and how would we get better at it? Masturbation coaching is a thing and we sat down with none other than The Bate Co...

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Is Our Love DICKS! with Zachary Zane from 2019-06-12T08:00

Peen. Cock. Dick. A penis by another other name....well, you get the idea: we’re talking about dicks this week. Zachary Zane joins us to give his unique perspective on hooking up with gay men an...

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Does Our Love start with Cunnilinugs? (w/ Alison Moon) from 2019-06-05T08:00

What’s with the illustrious “v” word? Learn the difference between a Vagina and a Vulva and why knowing that will make you a better lover (and, likely... person.) This week Allison Moon (Author ...

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Is Our Love a First Kiss? from 2019-05-29T08:00

Your eyes connect... you lean in with that 'look'... but are you getting butterflies or just slammin' faces? What makes a good kiss and can you up your game? Is a kiss connection chemical, or a ...

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Is Our Love A Real Connection? : Flirtgame w/ Olive Persimmon from 2019-05-22T08:00

What makes one a good flirt--or for that matter--a bad one? Are we flirting right now? How does one flirt in the post #metoo era? Professional wo...

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Is Our Love Digital? : App Flirting In The Modern Age from 2019-05-15T08:00

It's official: We live in the future & date via robots. In the age of fuckbois and ghosts, Stephen and Lola explore how dating apps have changed both the dating l...

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Is Our Love Restrictive? : Boundaries from 2019-05-08T08:00

Boundaries get a bad rap, but what if we told you they’re actually a GREAT thing? Stephen and Lola Jean explore the role of boundaries as it relates to relationships, friendships, sex work and k...

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Is Our Love New? :First Times from 2019-05-01T08:00

No sexpert can exist without a first time. Stephen and Lola are no different...

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The very first episode: Is Our Love F**ked? from 2019-04-18T19:38:40

Everyone and their grandmother seems to be giving sex advice these days. So who can you actually trust? Sex Educator/Olympian Squirter Lola Jean (@Listen