Podcasts by Kinky Frame of Mind

Episode 4 - Vetting, getting your private dick on from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.556698

In this episode we discuss vetting and things to do when vetting someone. Get you private investigator stuff out and get ready. We discus what to know when talking to potential partners and ques...

Episode 9 - Your Crazy might be showing ! from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.543439

In this episode we discuss some of our crazy encounters 

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Episode 13 -Dont get you panties in a knot!!! from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.495165

In this episode we look at how to tell someone your not interested and how to take it and not get  upset 

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Episode 17 - Munch Munch Munch from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.479522

In this episode we discuss what a munch is and some do's and don'ts to a munch. Then we discuss how to get your partner interested in things 

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Episode 18 - All about that Flirt, that flirt from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.476373

In this episode we take a look at the art of Flirting, something we all have to do at some points and can be hard for some of us. We look at a few do's and do not's in the flirt game. 

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Episode 22 - Are you PRICK? from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.460468

Episode 22 - Are you PRICK? in this episode we look at the 3 basic Safety Mindsets in the BDSM community. Are you SSC, RACK or PRICK. We take a look at each of these are discus what they mean an...

Episode 26 - I'd squirt in your FACE!! from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.451634

Episode 26 - In this episode we discuss a couple funny stories this week about squirting and then we take a look at how we talk about our other halves on social media. 

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Episode 30 - This break brought to you by from 2023-12-13T15:13:28.399226

Episode 30 - This break brought to you by, we take a look at causes of lifestyle burnout and why taking a break is ok and important. we discuss some of the top reason we have seen burn out. The ...

episode 35: breaking in from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.989730

Episode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body ...

Episode 38: What Party do I go to from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.979380

Episode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few...

Episode 42: how to get some interest from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.963783

Episode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey 

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Episode 46- end of year from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.947183

Episode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in o...

Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.942106

Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to r...

Episode 51 - How do we get out of this? from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.889539

In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is is about how do i not come so fast. So we look at techniques and things that can help you slow down on cumming, we discuss edgin...

Episode 55 - The Miami Trip from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.877801

Episode 55 - The Miami trip, in this episode we talk about out little get a way to Miami, we hung out this weekend with a lot of the AltPlayground Podcast family. we discuss our travel days and ...

Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.865132

Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask - In this episode we look at an article that popped up on a couple Facebook groups about questions to ask future partners or dates. It goes from hierarchy to are ...

Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.859556

Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debb...

Episode 63 - Terms Term and more Terms from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.848737

Episode 63 - Terms Term and more Terms - In this Episode we look at some common lifestyle terms that get used wrong the most. We discuss how people use terms to fit what they want or need a lot ...

Episode 67 - Breaking up is the hardest thing from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.839482

Episode 67 - Breaking up is the hardest thing - In this episode we discuss a couple questions asked, the first is about what back up story you use for people you meet in the lifestyle to your fa...

Episode 71 - Why is the community important from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.786649

Episode 71 - Why is the community important - In this episode we look at an email question about why we say its important to get involved in your local community and how to get involved the best...

Episode 72 - How to avoid BURNOUT! from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.783568

Episode 72 - How to avoid BURNOUT! - In this episode we discuss Burnout and what happens when it happens then we take a look at a few tips to help avoid it happening. We all want the have an gre...

Episode 76- Party bus time!!! from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.686129

Episode 76- Party bus time!!! - In this episode we discuss a party bus / pool party we went to last weekend! We talk about the bus driver getting thrown to the deep end of watching us, we did do...

Episode 80 - Picture this! from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.563396

Episode 80 - Picture this! -In this episode Don talks about going to Club Eden with his new girlfriend and her first experience. He chats about how sexy it was to watch her open up and experimen...

Episode 84 - Cheating and other stuff from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.539487

Episode 84 - Cheating and other stuff - This week Don and Syn recap their week. Stories lead to others stories and they keep telling more and more. They discus cheating in the lifestyle and what...

Episode 85 - How to Bring the lifestyle up! from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.503429

Episode 85 - How to Bring the lifestyle up! - Don and Syn look at one of the Most popular questions asked to both of them. How do I get my partner interested in the lifestyle or how do i bring i...

Episode 89 - Profile don'ts from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.482724

Episode 89 - Profile don'ts - In this episode the duo looks at things they dont like to see on profiles and why, Don discuses things like discrete, drama free, and his big one HWP. Syn chimes in...

Episode 92 - There she blows from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.467665

Episode 92 - There she blows  - In this Episode don and Syn talk about their week and how Don is excited to get back into doing photography. Then they talk about the conversion in their house to...

Episode 95 -2021 in a nutshell from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.454356

Episode 95 -2021 in a nutshell - In this episode we talk about some of the highlights and low lights of the year, We got to hangout with a lot of fellow podcasters in Miami, Don's b-day party wi...

Episode 100 - You need to be more transparent from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.439396

Episode 100 - You need to be more transparent - WOW! Episode 100!!!!!!! We can't believe we did it!! In this episode we discuss our fun weekend. Talk about dates and fun. Don gets asked if he te...

Episode 104 - Mind your DAMMMMNNN business or whatever that saying is from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.372775

Episode 104 - Mind your DAMMMMNNN business or whatever that saying is - In this episode Don and syn talk about their recent roller-skating event and then both talk about dates they had. They the...

Episode 108 - Rejection sucks from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.350882

Episode 108 - Rejection sucks- In this Episode Don and Syn talk about there last week, Don had a Kink night at Club Eden OKC. Then they got to spend some time with family. In this week's questio...

Episode 109 - Interview with Jeff from Promescent. from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.342976

Episode 109 - Interview with Jeff from Promescent. - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their week, it was Don's Birthday night out. They discuss dinner, then the bar. As Don says no Birthday B...

Episode 113 - Rule breaker and Anxiety update! from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.189975

Episode 113 - Rule breaker and Anxiety update! - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks, Don had a Meet and Greet in OKC and had a great time, Syn talks about the tornado that happened....

Episode 120 - the virgin report from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.169561

Episode 120 - the virgin report - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks since they have not done a show for a couple weeks. They discuss recent dates and the adjustments of having a ki...

Episode 123 - The OKC Pool party and a new champ from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.093692

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Episode 126 - A day in the life from 2023-12-13T15:13:27.075028

Episode 126 - A day in the life - In this episode Don and Syn talk more about Don's medical stuff. Then they talk about their trip to Denver. The went to a few farmers markets, meow wolf and som...

Episode 133 - This was my first event are they all like this? from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.997194

Episode 133 - This was my first event are they all like this? - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week. Don went to a local kink event. Then they talk about going to The Club OKC Hall...

Episode 135 - Give me a second I am buffering from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.990760

Episode 135 - Give me a second I am buffering - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their Thanksgiving. Don talks about the one year anniversary of his Mom's death. The...

E144 - My partner is going through FRENZY! from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.951419

E144 - My partner is going through FRENZY! - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about Don's Birthday weekend. Don talk about his date with his friend in OKC. Then they dig i...

Episode 146 - You are into what? Kink shaming ! from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.946458

Episode 146 - You are into what? Kink shaming ! - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about what is going on in their lives. Syn talks about her trip to Denver and Meow Wolf...

Episode 148 - Are we a couple tonight ? from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.933678

Episode 148 - Are we a couple tonight ? 

In this Episode of the sex swinger, kinky frame of mind podcast we get to take a peek into what's going on with Don and Syn. They talk about their ...

Episode 155 -Is there a Bro Code from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.569681

Episode 155 -Is there a Bro Code - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast we get to catch up with Don and Syn. They talk about getting ready for podcast-a-palooza. Then they discuss ...

Episode 157 - But I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.558751

Episode 157 - But I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about their happenings. Don talks about his rope class in Kansas City an...

Episode 159 - Miami PCAP Recap from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.534474

In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind - Don and Syn talk about going to The Club OKC for Halloween and then they talk about their Miami trip for Podcast-A- Palooza. They talk about the party an...

Episode 161 - Creepy Nights out from 2023-12-13T15:13:26.386934

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Episode 161 - Creepy Nights out - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk all the fun stuff. Don is excited about their new sound board and all the possibil...

Episode 160 - Shooting the SH#t with JB and Scarlet from 2023-11-17T07:00

Episode 160 - Shooting the SH#t with JB and Scarlet 

In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn have guest in the studio tonight. Jb and Scarlet drop in discus about their lifesty...

Episode 158 -Who is going to start this ? from 2023-10-20T06:00

Episode 158 -Who is going to start this ? In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn are joined in the studio by the world famous BT! They all discuss their happenings. They talk about ...

Episode 156 - Do I know consent from 2023-09-22T06:00

Episode 156 - Do I know consent - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their happenings. Don talks about his trip with Ladu Kroft for their anniversary. Then they talk a...

Episode 154 - To post or not to post that is the question from 2023-08-25T06:00

Episode 154 - To post or not to post that is the question - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about all the things going on. They make the announcement about going to Podca...

Episode 153 - I invoke the VETO Power from 2023-08-11T06:00

Episode 153 - I invoke the VETO Power - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we get to take a peek into what has been going on with Don and Syn. Syn talks about seeing Beauty and the Beast liv...

Episode 152 - OKC Pool party recap and I think I have and new girlfriend! from 2023-07-28T06:00

Episode 152 - OKC Pool party recap and I think I have and new girlfriend!  In this new episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Syn talks about her weekend in Denver for BT's birthday. Then Don ju...

Episode 151 - Is she to old for me? from 2023-07-14T06:00

Episode 151 - Is she to old for me? In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Donand Syn talk about their happenings. Don talks about his date with Sour Patch. They talk about BT's birthday then p...

Episode 150 - First time play drop from 2023-06-30T06:00

Episode 150 - First time play drop - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about getting ready for the pool party in OKC, talk about Don's tattoo and going to a hotel takeover...

Episode 149 - Keeping Tally from 2023-06-16T06:00

Episode 149 - Keeping This episode of the sexy Kinky Frame of Mind swinger and kink podcast we get to see what is going on with Don and Syn in their lives. Syn talks about her trip to Dallas wit...

Episode 147 - Lifestyle Rule 101!!! from 2023-05-19T06:00

Episode 147 - Lifestyle Rule 101!!! - In this episode of the sexy Kinky Mind of Podcast. Don and Syn talk about graduation, their rope intensive in Kansas City and Rope Jam coming up. This weeks...

Episode 145 - We are feeling rejected. from 2023-04-21T06:00

Episode 145 - We are feeling rejected. - In this episode of the sexy swinger and kink podcast Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about what is going on in their lives. The they take a look at...

Episode 143 - We need education! from 2023-03-24T06:00

Episode 143 - We need education! - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast we discuss our lives and what is going on. Don talks about his Dad getting catfished. Don talks about gettin...

Episode 142 - Don't do that in here playroom edition! from 2023-03-10T07:00

Episode 142 - Don't do that in here playroom edition! In this episode of the sexy Swinger, Kink, BDSM podcast, Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about all their happenings. Don talks about g...

Episode 141 - What's this ethical thing? from 2023-02-24T07:00

Episode 141 - What's this ethical thing? - In this episode of the sexy Swinger, Kink, BDSM podcast, Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about their weekends. Syn went to Denver with BT and the...

Episode 140 - When the risk goes wrong from 2023-02-10T07:00

Episode 140 - When the risk goes wrong  - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind your sexy swinger, kink, Bdsm podcast Don and Syn talk about what has been happening in their lives. They did a r...

Episode 139 - KWN Shenanigans from 2023-01-27T07:00

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Episode 138 - New Year, Let's review us from 2023-01-13T07:00

Episode 138 - New Year, Let's review us - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, we talk about our NYE at The Club OKC, then we discuss reviewing your last year and planning you up coming year....

Episode 137 - The waiting game (how long to wait) from 2022-12-30T07:00

Episode 137 - The waiting game (how long to wait) - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we recap our last couple weeks, Don went to see Kole and Amand from Krazy Truth and Syb went to Denver ...

Episode 136 - I have been profiled from 2022-12-16T07:00

Episode 136 - I have been profiled In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about going to OKC for the weekend. They attended and shared their art at the Love Erotic event and th...

Episode 134 - Should I care about my dress? from 2022-11-18T07:00

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Episode 132 - Newbies or Experienced, what do you like? from 2022-10-28T06:00

Episode 132 - Newbies or Experienced, what do you like? In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their week, they had a great Meet and Greet. Then they had an outing for Lady Kroft's Birthday. Thi...

Episode 131 - Why we so worried about the orgasm? from 2022-10-21T06:00

In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weeks, Syn talks about going to KC and the Ren fair, then Don talks about the art expo and the gang bang from his weekend. This week's topics, the fi...

Episode 130 - This is what i want what do you want from 2022-10-14T06:00

Episode 130 - This is what i want what do you want. In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their lives, Don shares about how funny he was after his medical procedure. How he was making the nurse...

Episode 129: What does your name really mean from 2022-09-30T06:00

Episode 129: What does your name really mean - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, Don talks about attending a kink bonfire and getting to see some people he has not seen in a lon...

episode 128 - Evolution of the Lifestyle from 2022-09-23T06:00

Episode 128 - Evolution of the Lifestyle - In this episode Don and Syn talk about all their lives and their weekend at The Club OKC. Then they talk about a topic Don has seen a lot in groups lat...

Episode 127 - Late night Recording and changing rules from 2022-09-16T06:00

Episode 127 - Late night Recording and changing rules. In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weeks. Don and Lady Kroft had their anniversary. Syn went out with BT. Then this week's questi...

Episode 125 - Do you look for Red Flags? from 2022-08-26T06:00

Episode 125 - Do you look for Red Flags? - In this Episode Donand Syn talk about their past weeks since they missed a week, Don talks about getting flashed at a gas station. Don also talks about...

Episode 124 - As the scouts say always be prepared from 2022-08-12T06:00

Episode 124 - As the scouts say always be prepared - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks, Syn talks about her weekend with BT. They had a nice weekend in Wichita doing things. Don an...

Episode 122 - The scheduling game!! from 2022-07-22T06:00

Episode 122 - The scheduling game!! - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekends. Don talks about his night out with Lady Kroft and his crazy one liner's all night. Don and Syn talk a...

Episode 121 - Pressured Solo Play from 2022-07-15T06:00

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Episode 119 - Why you like so much stuff from 2022-06-24T06:00

Episode 119 - Why you like so much stuff - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekend, they got to see their friend Rob Little at a couple of his shows, after the Friday night show Don...

Episode 118 - What is your type from 2022-06-17T06:00

Episode 118 - What is your type - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their recent date night. This weeks questions the first is about guy keeping it up, we know we have discussed this many t...

Episode #117 - People be talking! from 2022-06-10T06:00

Episode #117 - People be talking! In this Episode Don and Syn give us a couple weeks of recaps and talk about not having an episode last week. They did a vanilla weekend in OKC. They dig into th...

Episode 116 - Separation among us? Why? from 2022-05-27T06:00

Episode 116 - Separation among us? Why? - In this episode Don talks about getting to go to the PGA Championship with his boys and Dad, then they discuss their weekend. In this week's questions t...

Episode # 115 Its not a gender thing from 2022-05-20T06:00

Episode # 115 Its not a gender thing - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weekend. They had Wonder Woman/s graduation party and had Dinner with their youngest and his girlfriend. Then thi...

Episode 114: Are you willing to open Pandoras Box? from 2022-05-13T06:00

Episode 114: Are you willing to open Pandoras Box? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their week, Don had a Zoo date and then they had a double date at the Melodrama. This week's questions...

Episode 112 - Anxiety is a BI!!ch from 2022-04-29T06:00

Episode 112 - Anxiety is a BI!!ch - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks. Syn talks about watching show with Lady Kroft and Don talks about a date night with Wonder Woman. They discus...

Episode 111 - 420 recording and getting back on the horse from 2022-04-22T06:00

Episode 111 - 420 recording and getting back on the horse - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weekend, Don realizes how hard it is to record high and concentrate. They talk about their r...

Episode 110 - Loving the newbie and helping their walk from 2022-04-15T06:00

Episode 110 - Loving the newbie and helping their walk 

 In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekends, Syn had a date weekend, they went to adult skate and a hotel with a jacuzzi ...

Episode 107 - You say she is just a friend, OH BABY YOU...! from 2022-03-25T06:00

Episode 107 - You say she is just a friend, OH BABY YOU...! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, they had ne meet and greet Friday and date night on Saturday! They discuss a topic ...

Episode 106- It is a squirter convention!! from 2022-03-18T06:00

Episode 106 - It is a squirter convention!! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their recent busy travel weekend, Starting with Don doing Eden Kink night, things are growing every week with t...

Episode 105 - Batman , Kumquat, oh what was the safe word! from 2022-03-11T07:00

Episode 105 - Batman , Kumquat, oh what was the safe word! -  In this episode Don and Syn discus their weekend, seeing Batman, lady Kroft's grandpas funeral, Syn and BT's date in OKC, Don and La...

Episode 103 - Where is Charles? Got to find out who is in charge of this scene! from 2022-02-25T07:00

Episode 103 - Where is Charles? Got to find out who is in charge of this scene! 

In this episode Don and Syn are all over it again. They discuss their last meet and greet....

Episode 102 - Would you go back and hit it again? from 2022-02-18T07:00

Episode 102 - Would you go back and hit it again? - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, the Seductions Party in OKC, Don going to Adult Prom with Wonder Woman. Then they get into ...

Episode 101 - A hot mess from 2022-02-11T07:00

Episode 101 - A hot mess - In this episode Don and syn are all over the place, they talk about their weekend, they discuss how people take advantage of and treat lifestyle groups poorly cause of...

Episode 99 - Going to the Party from 2022-01-28T07:00

Episode 99 - Going to the Party - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss a email about approaching people at events and how to move to sex. Makin contact before the event and closing the deal. Don tal...

Episode 99 - Going to the Party from 2022-01-28T07:00

Episode 99 - Going to the Party - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss a email about approaching people at events and how to move to sex. Makin contact before the event and closing the deal. Don ...

Episode 98 - Krazy Winter Nights Recap from 2022-01-21T07:00

Episode 98 - Krazy Winter Nights Recap - In this Episode we talk about our fun weekend going to Krazy Winter Nights! It was an amazing evet put on by Kole and Amanda of Kasbh. We understand why ...

Episode 97: Change is always coming and it's a good thing from 2022-01-14T07:00

Episode 97: Change is always coming and it's a good thing - In this episode we talk about change how we need to be ok with change in our Lifestyle journey. We talk about when change is need and ...

Episode 95 - Quit the guilt trips from 2021-12-24T07:00

Episode 95 - Quit the guilt trips - In this Holiday Episode lol, We discuss our weekend going to OKC. Then we also talk about a email about feeling guilty to play on date and the pressure people...

Episode 94 - Safety is for all not just the few from 2021-12-17T07:00

Episode 94 - Safety is for all not just the few - In this Episode we recap our week with Don's mom's funeral and all the crazy family. Then we look at a listener email about safety at a Dungeon ...

Episode 93 - Dad we need to talk about your lifestyle from 2021-12-10T07:00

Episode 93 - Dad we need to talk about your lifestyle - Don and Syn talk about their long week, the sudden death of a family member to their kids asking about their lifestyle 

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episode 91 - What if things don't go as expected and do we have to do that every time from 2021-11-19T07:00

episode 91 - What if things don't go as expected and do we have to do that every time - In this episode we look at a listener question that is two part, the first is about been chatting with som...

Episode 90 - Tired of getting no showed from 2021-11-12T07:00

Episode 90 - Tired of getting no showed - In this episode we discuss a topic that we have heard lots of people talking about lately. Getting no showed for dates. So we look at a few reason we th...

Episode 88 - Podbash Review from 2021-10-29T06:00

Episode 88 - Podbash Review - In this episode we talk about our trip to Secrets for PODBASH! We discuss all the sexy fun, costumes, pool games, and the amazing parties! 

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Episode 87 - Preparing for events from 2021-10-22T06:00

Episode 87 - Preparing for events - In this episode Don and Syn talk about preparing for big events as they get ready to leave for podbash! They discuss packing, going over rules, expectations, ...

Episode 86 - Why are you not more Romantic? from 2021-10-15T06:00

Episode 86 - Why are you not more Romantic? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about why people are romantic and not romantic. We discuss why we think men and women are different a lot of times ...

Episode 83: Gossip and education check your source from 2021-09-24T06:00

Episode 83: Gossip and education check your source - In this episode Don and Syn talk about gossip, are we just spreading stuff we hear or do we ever take time to check the facts? do we check th...

Episode 82: Couple Polyamorous Questions from 2021-09-17T06:00

Episode 82: Couple Polyamorous Questions 

In this episode Don and Syn look at a couple listeners question about polyamory. The fist is how to encourage your partners to keep active...

Episode 81 - stories from 2021-09-10T06:00

Episode 81 - stories - In this episode Syn and Don talk about their weekend. Then they talk about a rant about what happened with a friend and consent. This leads into just a night of some great...

Episode 79 - Pushy, Pushy real good ! from 2021-08-27T06:00

Episode 79 - Pushy, Pushy real good ! -In this episode we discuss Pushy behavior, what make you pushy or can be pushy. Then we take a turn and discuss coaching people when they are pushy and let...

Episode 78 - The Label Game from 2021-08-20T06:00

Episode 78 - The Label Game - In this episode we have a special guest host with Don as Syn is recovering from surgery still. The special guest is Lady Kroft from Synful ladies. Her and Don chat ...

Episode - 77 Don't shame from 2021-08-13T06:00

Episode - 77 Don't shame - In this episode we look at a couple listeners questions the first is on FOMO and budgeting for events. We chat about how Don had a little FOMO type thing last weekend ...

Episode 75 - Pool Party Recap from 2021-07-30T06:00

Episode 75 - Pool Party Recap - In this Episode we discuss all things pool party! We talk about some fun things, we talk about cornhole, to much drinking, a friends first waffle house trip, some...

Episode 74 - How do I handle unwanted DM's from 2021-07-23T06:00

Episode 74 - How do I handle unwanted DM's - In this episode we discuss how to handle unwanted dm's. Don discusses an issue on a Facebook group about unwanted dm's. We look at how we makes comme...

Episode 73 - Get to know Don and Syn from 2021-07-16T06:00

Episode 73 - Get to know Don and Syn - In this episode we do some fun questions so you can get to know us a little better. 

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Episode 70 - How we look at Leaders! from 2021-06-25T06:00

Episode 70 - How we look at Leaders! In this episode we discuss our New Orleans Trips. Then we get on a discussion on how we look at and hold out leaders to mix matched standard. Leaders are hum...

Episode 69 - why do you believe that from 2021-06-18T06:00

Episode 69 - why do you believe that  - In this episode we talk about why we believe what we believe. we talk about getting our own point of view and being able to understand that and express it...

Episode 68 - Toxic am I in a that kind of dynamic? from 2021-06-11T06:00

Episode 68 - Toxic am I in a that kind of dynamic? In this episode we have a email from a couple about am I in a toxic poly dynamic. We look at traits of a toxic person and we discuss from out p...

Episode 66 - Compliments give and receive from 2021-05-28T06:00

Episode 66 - Compliments give and receive  - In this episode we talk about giving genuine compliments, we also discuss why we don't want to back handed compliments. Then we talk about how hard i...

Episode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events from 2021-05-21T12:04:25

Episode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events. In this episode we go over a list of do's and don't at events since we are all getting back in the swing of events 

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Episode 64 - They are trying to be to controlling from 2021-05-14T06:00

Episode 64 - They are trying to be to controlling - In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is a tough one about help some your dating with insecurities and with jealousy....

Episode 62 - Syn's Past and how it has made her who she is from 2021-04-30T06:00

Episode 62 - Syn's Past and how it has made her who she is - In this episode we talked about syn's past and her relationship with her mom. How she had a codependent relationship and how then tha...

Episode 61 - All about Protocol from 2021-04-23T06:00

Episode 61 - All about Protocol  - In this episode we have out first in studio guest, J7leatherwolf. In this episode we talk about protocol in a bdsm dynamic. We talk about what is protocol, how...

Episode 60 - A litte Q&A from 2021-04-16T06:00

Episode 60 - A little Q&A. In this episode we take a little break from the normal and spend some times going over a list of questions that got posted on a Facebook group. Sit back grab your pizz...

Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold from 2021-03-26T06:00

Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold In this episode we take a look at the difference in Hotwife play and Cuckold. We look at why people enjoy both of them and why they can be a benefit to your relat...

Episode 56 - Do you have a Hallpass from 2021-03-12T13:13:06

Episode 56- Do you have a Hall Pass  In this episode we discuss how to ask people if they have a Hall Pass or play separate. Finding the best way for you to find out, is it asking upfront, watch...

Episode - 54 Which one of US is going to handle that from 2021-02-26T07:00

Episode - 54: Which one of US is going to handle this - In this episode we discuss talk about some issues at a recent meet and greet, how a persons behaviors can set the tone and example. we als...

Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! from 2021-02-20T02:20:18

Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! Its our ONE YEAR!! In this Episode we have to email questions the first is about if stickers are ok on profile pics cause of work issues. We give our vi...

episode 52 - switchy switch from 2021-02-12T13:34:31

episode 52 - switchy switch, welcome back to our fun show. In this episode we have a couple questions asked to us the first is about a sub that wants to become a switch for her partner, we share...

Episode 50 - Vanilla Friend play? good or bad? from 2021-01-29T07:00

Episode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad?  

So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle ...

Episode 49 - First solo play chaos from 2021-01-22T07:00

Episode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on wh...

Episode 48 - First date play ? from 2021-01-15T07:05

Episode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what ...

Episode 45 - Fair rules from 2020-12-25T07:05

Episode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners.  

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episode 44- Let's educate new people from 2020-12-18T12:31:34

Episode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to...

Episode 43 : Just not feeling it from 2020-12-11T12:42:31

Episode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when...

Episode 41 - Don't Judge from 2020-11-26T22:36:20

Episode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality 

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Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker dude!! from 2020-11-19T02:28:47

Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers w...

Episode 39 - The hard Question from 2020-11-11T12:50:05

Episode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hard...

Episode 37: Littles from 2020-10-28T12:05:34

In this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink 

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Episode 36 - quench that thirst from 2020-10-20T15:04:28

Episode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look ...

Episode 34: what on your fuck it list from 2020-09-30T23:31:49

Episode 34: What's on your fuck it list  

In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of o...

Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension from 2020-09-23T11:49:27

Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension

In this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what...

Episode 32 - Come Prepared and Ready from 2020-09-15T20:22:16

In this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we dis...

Episode 31: What's your favorite Position from 2020-09-10T19:19:29

In this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of...

Episode 29 -The MAN Show from 2020-08-27T04:19:29

Episode 29 The MAN Show. In this episode we take a peek into Men issues. We look at men's health and performance. We also give lots of male tips in the lifestyle. Don share about many of his hea...

Episode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better from 2020-08-19T12:01:28

Episode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better  

In this episode we look at manners and how to talk to and treat potential playmates. So many times we get carried away when we are...

Episode 27 - Be a MF'ing Rockstar at being you from 2020-08-12T01:10:23

In this episode we talk about how the lifestyle becomes a family and how family helps its members. We also talk about finding your place and what you are in the community and doing it the best y...

Episode 25: questions to ask potential playmates from 2020-07-29T11:55:04

Episode 25: In this episode we take a look at some questions to start conversations with potential playmates to get the best results 

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Episode 24 - FWB what's this all about from 2020-07-23T11:38:32

In this episode we take a look at what FWB really is and then have a little fun with some would you rather questions 

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episode 23 - Misconceptions of the lifestyle from 2020-07-15T11:42:45

In this episode we look at some major misconceptions of the lifestyle and also we discuss first meets one on one 

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Episode 21: The Frenzy from 2020-06-30T18:14:47

In this episode we take a look at newbie FRENZY. What is frenzy and different things that can cause and lead to Frenzy. How to handle it if we see we are doing it. Also reasons why its not good ...

Episode 20 - Whats does your profile say about you? from 2020-06-23T11:43:24

Episode 20 - What does your profile say about you? In this episode we take a look at what our online profile says about us and how we can improve it. We look at how to improve our written profil...

Episode 19 - Control your damn self from 2020-06-16T01:21:19

In this Episode we talk about discretion and sexpectations. Its a wild ride for sure as we share some outing and lack of discretion that has happened to us in the last week. 

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episode 16 - the countdown!! from 2020-05-27T22:44:07

In this episode we discuss being respectful of others rules and limits and then we dive into a 100 signs your in the lifestyle list. How many fit your kinky ass? 

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Episode 15 -The first rule of FUCK club! from 2020-05-19T00:55:58

In this episode we discuss well we might not discuss much cause first rule is we don't talk lol but really we talk out coming out to friends and family, we talk about not outing someone. Then we...

Episode 14 - The Rule Talk from 2020-05-12T20:54:39

In this episode we discuss Rule, why we need them and how to start making them 

Not always the most fun talk but one that needs to happen to help your lifestyle experience 

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Episode 12 - Circle of freinds are you in? from 2020-04-28T23:40:07

In this episode we take a look at where we fell the community is heading after this covid deal and we also look a cliques. We discuss how to go to events and feel welcome and not on the outside....

episode 11 - Top 10 reason to be in the lifesyle from 2020-04-20T11:26:03

In this Episode we look at a top 10 list of why the lifestyle is good. We discus if we agree or disagree with the countdown. We have a fun time discussing these. 

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E10 - Q&A Get to know you from 2020-04-13T07:00:02

In this episode we just sit around and answer questions about what we are attracted to and what turns us on. We spend some time asking each other questions about what we like and don't like 

Episode 8 - What LOVE got to do with it from 2020-03-30T08:00:04

In this episode we give our take on Poly, Also we discuss how things are going with the virus and a rant on profiles with no pics 

So we discuss our poly relationships and how poly...

Episode 7 - In the Public! from 2020-03-23T07:00:05

In this episode we discuss doing it in the Public! We share fun public sex stories and look at a list of fun places. Where have you done it?! Also we take a quick look at Collaring, what are the...

Episode 6 - You might be if.... !!! from 2020-03-17T02:24:02

In this episode we discuss all those crazy legends like the white rocks, pineapples and black rings. You might be a swinger if you fit these. Also we discuss how to bring up or tell others what ...

Episode 5 - Umm I think we know you! from 2020-03-10T00:52:41

in this Episode we talk about meeting people in the lifestyle we know from our Vanilla life, Don has a dick pic rant, and question from a listener about friends not invited to events 

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Episode 3 - Who you gonna call? from 2020-02-24T13:07:21

Episode 3 - who you gonna  call, in this episode we talk about having a safe call for meets and we also talk about leaving events when thing are not going right, also lots of our crazy view and ...

Episode 2 from 2020-02-17T07:00:11

Don and Syn share their views on a question from a listener. why should we attend events and what to expect. We look at this from both sides the kink and the swing point of view. 

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episode 1 from 2020-02-13T19:36:16

in this episode we will give you a little of our background and how we got started in the kink and swing lifestyles 

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