Fellatio: Submission or Control - a podcast by Laa Hotspot

I have heard it said that fellatio (oral sex performed on male) is the ultimate form of submission. After all, a woman should derive no pleasure from orally pleasuring a man. It is he who receives the benefit from all the teasing and licking and sucking of his member, while she suffers only the agony of the strain on her jaw muscles from trying to perform while avoiding contact with her teeth which are a natural obstruction.

How could anyone disagree with the notion of submission when after all, he is looking down at her and she is in a sense bowing down to him (especially if she is kneeling before him)? How could anyone question his superior position in this situation, when he is obviously the only party receiving pleasure from the act and therefore she is practically sacrificing herself in a physical sense by giving in to his need for carnal pleasure?


A woman with a bit of a controlling streak might see the situation from a different point of view. Maybe she thinks that since she hold his manhood in her hands and mouth that she is in control of the situation. Maybe since he would have to trust her with the very thing that makes him a man, that he is in fact the party in submission. After all, it is she who now controls the direction that this sexual encounter will take.


For example, let's suppose that she is not in the mood for a night of sexual adventure. If she is skilled in the art of fellatio, and she knows her man, she could bring him to a strong climax, therefore draining him of his strength and sexual prowess for the night and bring the night to an uneventful close fairly quickly.


Or maybe she doesn't feel like indulging in foreplay and simply wants to "get right to it". In that case, she could simply pretend to gag …or maybe temporarily become unaware of the presence of her sharp ass teeth …lol… (sorry guys, I know that's not funny), or generally just not perform well enough to keep him interested and therefore silently persuade him into tending to her needs.


The question of the day is….who is really in control? And why?

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