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An ex-Mormon gay girl trying to figure out life. Hosts Mary & Shelly tackle religious trauma and later-in-life LGBTQ issues while laughing their asses off on a monthly podcast.
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175: Shelly's Mom's funeral Pt. 1 from 2023-11-24T20:53:20
Hello Friends! In today’s episode, Shelly talks with Kimberly Anderson about the death of her mom and her trip to Utah for the very Mormon funeral. If you’ve ever been to a Mormon funeral as an ExM...
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174: Memoir of an Ex-Mormon Lesbian from 2023-11-10T04:34:42
Please welcome Chris Davis, author of "Worthy: The Memoir of an Ex-Mormon Lesbian." Chris spoke to us candidly about her experience growing up Mormon, her struggles with marriage and children, and ...
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173: LDL's Next Chapter from 2023-09-30T18:31:18
Hi friends, today's episode was extremely difficult and emotional to record. We hope you'll listen with an open heart and mind as Shelly and I embark upon the next adventure of our podcast and our ...
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172: Prisoner of the Prophet Pt 2 from 2023-08-05T14:00:02
Please join us for the conclusion of our 2-part interview with Briell Decker, the inspiring cult survivor of the FLDS church. Her 3-part documentary series, Prisoner of the Prophet, is available on...
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171: Prisoner of the Prophet Pt 1 from 2023-06-12T23:44:58
Please join us for part 1 of our fascinating, two-part interview with the amazingly brave, cult survivor of the FLDS church, Briell Decker. Her 3-part documentary series, Prisoner of the Prophet, i...
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170: Name That Religion from 2023-04-02T15:30:01
In this episode, Shelly decides it will be really fun to quiz Mary on some of mainstream religions' more wacky beliefs. Can you guess which answers she got right? Also, we read a listener letter, a...
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169: The Covenant Path from 2023-02-05T16:00:02
The title of this episode could probably have been a FUMPOTD. Perhaps we thought it was too obvious? Feel free to cue music in your head when we get to that part. And there's nothing like a "Shelly...
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168: Inappropriate Xmas Songs from 2022-12-24T15:15:01
In this year-end episode, we talk about those holiday tunes that should possibly be banned once and for all...or maybe a few of the examples are a stretch? Give a listen and decide for yourself. Al...
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167: Calling&Election (and other stupidity) from 2022-11-08T21:00:02
In today's episode, Shelly reads once again from her oh-so-riveting, circa 1990s journal, which sparks an impromptu FUMPOTD. Such a fun surprise that Mary can't begin to sort out, per usual. We als...
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166: LGBTQ Book Banning from 2022-10-09T22:35:01
Today we're talking about banned LGBTQ books. The most common are listed below, along with a link to save the Patmos Library in Jamestown Township, outside of Grand Rapids, Michigan. We also want t...
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165: Mormons Don't Want You To Be Queer from 2022-08-31T00:00:02
In today's episode we're reading from two LDS-authored books: "Mormons & Homosexuality" and "Encouraging Heterosexuality." We're super stoked to debunk both of them. We also want to give a shout-ou...
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164: LDL&QLC Simulcast from 2022-06-23T02:30:02
Hey friends, Mary and Kirsten take the reins on this Latter-Day Lesbian and Queer Life Crisis Simulcast. We share some initial reactions to Under the Banner of Heaven, and manage to keep the spoile...
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163: Queering the American Dream from 2022-06-05T17:30:02
Please join us today for a fantastic conversation with Rev. Dr. Angela Yarber. Her new book, Queering the American Dream is available now on Amazon or at your local bookstore. You can also purchase...
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162: The Game of Life from 2022-05-22T17:00:02
Did you ever play that Hasbro board game with the cute little cars and the little pegs? Or wait...did you play the Mormon version?? That fun game where young adults are put to the test as they try ...
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161: Coffee Talk from 2022-05-07T22:00:04
Today's episode features a super fun interview with Melissa and Tanya from Apostate Coffee. We get to hear their story; how they met and got started in the coffee biz. There's also an impromptu FUM...
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160: Oh My Goddess! from 2022-04-24T12:00:04
On this episode, we have a fun chat about Heavenly Mother, A.K.A. "She Who Must Not Be Named." We also read a listener letter (TW: intense sexual themes), and Shelly regales us with a Utah tale. It...
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159: Candle Therapy from 2022-04-09T23:15:02
TW: The subject of suicidal ideation is discussed along with self harm and strong sexual themes. Please listen responsibly.
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158: Burnout with Dr. Amelia Nagoski from 2022-03-27T15:45:02
Please join us for an amazing conversation with Dr. Amelia Nagoski, coauthor of Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. To anyone feeling stuck or overwhelmed by obligation and stress, t...
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157: Bashing Brad, Plus a Look Back from 2022-03-13T05:00:02
Diana joins us today for a retrospective on some aspects of her journey out of Mormonism. We also share some special sentiments from Brad Wilcox, the second counselor to the Young Men's general pre...
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156: Welcome ExMormon Mindy from 2022-02-27T15:30:03
We are super excited to welcome ExMormon Mindy to the show today (or as she's known to her TikTok and Instagram fans: @exmormonmindy). In fact, please copy and paste this link into a browser to che...
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155: A Proclamation to the World from 2022-02-13T02:15:02
Today, our friend Kirsten joins us for a deep dive into that horrifying LDS document from 1995 that instructed all of us on how to do families properly. And yes, of course there's only one correct ...
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154: Was I In A Cult? from 2022-01-30T00:00:02
Today we interview Tyler Measom, cohost of the iHeart Radio podcast, "Was I In A Cult" - a documentary-style show that highlights individuals who have been in, and subsequently left various high-de...
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153: Queer Life Crisis from 2022-01-15T23:00:02
In today's episode we preview our brand-new pod: Queer Life Crisis: the stories, struggles and successes of the LGBTQ+ community (available on most podcast players). We also start out the new year ...
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152: Fabulous Fact-Checking Factacular! from 2021-12-25T23:00:02
This week we have a special holiday treat for everyone: Sister Fanny Fact-Check's Fabulous Fact-Checking Factacular! It's a best-of nearly three years in the making, which just proves that Mary is ...
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LDL 151: Welcome Jeopardy Champ, Amy Schneider from 2021-12-19T16:00:02
This week, Kimberly joins Mary for a delightful conversation with 13-time Jeopardy champion, and counting, Amy Schneider. We want to thank Amy for her candor and willingness to be vulnerable, as sh...
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150: Gifts for Every Mormon on Your List from 2021-12-12T03:00:02
It's a grab bag o' holiday goodies in today's episode. We revisit a classic FUMPOTD, talk about gifts for all the Mormons on your list, and hear from Pirate God about the foretelling of a Messiah.....
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149: Miracle Foundation with Caroline Boudreaux from 2021-12-04T23:00:02
In today's episode we interview Caroline Boudreaux, the founder of Miracle Foundation, a non-profit dedicating to empowering orphans and vulnerable children worldwide to reach their full potential....
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148: Gadianton Robbers (&other fake stuff) from 2021-11-28T00:00:02
Just when we were starting to think it was all fake...we get to learn about even more fake people and places from that charming book of absolute made up bunk: the Book of Momo. We also read a lette...
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147: Welcome Ladyhawke! from 2021-11-20T23:00:02
In this episode, we had the distinct privilege of interviewing the super talented, charming and hilarious New Zealand singer/songwriter, Pip Brown, a.k.a. Ladyhawke! Her new album, "Time Flies," ju...
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146: Come As You Are from 2021-11-13T23:00:03
This week we had the privilege of interviewing Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., sex educator and author of the New York Times bestselling book, "Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform...
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145: Getting Sucked Back Into the Suck, part 2 from 2021-11-06T23:00:19
Once again we're talking about all those occasions that require us to go back to church as nonbelievers, such as for baby blessings, funerals, baptisms, weddings, etc. We also dust off the Mormon ...
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144: Rusty's Starting to Think It's All Fake from 2021-10-30T22:00:19
Cat's out of the bag, y'all...the Book of Mormon is F.A.K.E. Knew it all along. Thanks for the confirmation, Rusty M. We also hear from the delightful Sister Craven, who's name will forever be ceme...
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143: Jesus Teaches Shelly About Polygamy from 2021-10-23T22:00:17
This week we're taking a break from the sex talks to discuss Shelly's former feelings of unworthiness. Yup, once again it's Shelly's Journal Journey - always a good time. We also answer a few liste...
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142: How Religion Effed Up Effing, part 3 from 2021-10-16T22:00:06
We’re back for episode three in our multi-part series on religion's toxic effect on our sex lives, either while we were still believers or afterwards. Pirate God pays us a visit this week. Once aga...
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141: How Religion Effed Up Effing, part 2 from 2021-10-10T03:05:03
We’re back for episode two in our multi-part series on religion's toxic effect on our sex lives, either while we were still believers or afterwards. Trigger warning: topics surrounding intense sham...
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140: How Religion Effed Up Effing, part 1 from 2021-10-02T22:30:10
Welcome to episode one of a multi-part series on religion's toxic effect on our sex lives, either while we were still believers or afterwards. Trigger warning: topics surrounding intense shame and ...
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139: Getting Sucked Back Into the Suck from 2021-09-26T00:00:08
In today's episode we talk about all those occasions that require us to go back to church as nonbelievers, such as for baby blessings, funerals, weddings, etc. Thanks once again to all of our soci...
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138: The Sin-Cast, part 2 from 2021-09-19T14:00:17
So it looks like we’re still sinning. Mary and Shelly continue talking about the religiously taboo on this week's episode. We would like to thank our Supercast, Patreon and Marco Polo Channels subs...
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137: Coparenting After Divorce, part 2 from 2021-09-11T23:00:13
This week we wrap up our conversation around coparenting after divorce. Once again, we want to recognize how difficult this is and honor those who are wrestling with it on the reg. Thanks to everyo...
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136: Elder Holland's Opus from 2021-09-05T19:00:18
In this week's episode we tear apart Jeffrey R. Holland's recent hateful address aimed at the LGBTQ+ community at Brigham Young University. Please enjoy this episode responsibly...preferably with n...
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135: RIP, Mary's Mom [TW: Intense Themes] from 2021-08-28T22:00:11
Hey friends, Mary's Mom passed away and we're unpacking it on this week's episode. TRIGGER WARNING: themes of death, sexual abuse, pedophilia, suicide and abortion are discussed. If these topics ar...
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134: The Sin-Cast, part 1 from 2021-08-22T15:00:16
What the heck is up with sin? Mary and Diana start to unpack this topic on this week's episode. We would like to thank our Patreon and Marco Polo Channels subscribers, along with members of the Lat...
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133: Coparenting After Divorce, part 1 from 2021-08-15T14:45:14
This week we begin our in-depth discussion about coparenting after divorce. Spoiler alert: it's hard AF! Thanks to everyone on our social media channels who contributed to this conversation. We cou...
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132: Bob the Tomato from 2021-08-08T13:00:07
This week we recount a tale about a recent harrowing brush with disaster! We also read a listener letter, discover more about who our sky daddy is, and are visited by Pirate God. Also, thanks to li...
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131: Mary&Shelly's Love Languages from 2021-07-31T22:00:20
This week we talk about the various love languages, based on the book by Gary Chapman, and delve into which ones apply to each of us (yes Shelly, sex could be considered an act of service). But don...
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130: Those Annoying Mormons from 2021-07-25T13:30:19
Today Diana joins us for a discussion about what obvious or implicit rules current members of the LDS church seem to be comfortable with bending. So grab your tankinis and get ready to show off tho...
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129: Instructions for Lady Missionaries from 2021-07-18T01:00:09
In this episode we read from a 1972 article in the LDS Ensign entitled, "A Letter to Girls About Lady Missionaries." We'd like to thank an LDL-er, Beck, for bringing this pile o' crap to our attent...
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128: Narcissism Follow Up, Part 2 from 2021-07-10T20:00:05
In this episode, Kimberly joins us for part 2 of our follow up to our conversation about narcissism and codependency. We also read a letter from a listener who has benefitted from our Patreon suppo...
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127: Narcissism Follow Up, Part 1 from 2021-06-14T14:00:06
This week Kimberly joins us for part 1 of a 2-part follow up to our narcissism and codependency discussion. Shelly shares a personal story about her struggle with a narcissist. Also, we come up wit...
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126: Segments R Us from 2021-06-07T21:00:21
This week is all about the segments, such as "Mormon Mad-libs" and "Shiver Me Scriptures." We also read a letter and Shelly enlightens us once again from that riveting text: "Fascinating Womanhood....
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125: The STI Episode from 2021-05-30T16:00:06
In this week's episode we have a couple admissions to make. But sharing promotes healing, right? At least that's what we're telling ourselves. We also read a letter and dive deep into Shelly's Jour...
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124: The LDL "Rivahcast" from 2021-05-19T23:00:20
Greetings from our Potomac cottage - future Airbnb site. For this episode we set up the portable mics in the closet. It's not our studio space, unfortunately, but it will have to do. Join us for an...
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123: Mother's Day Meanderings from 2021-05-09T13:00:18
Happy Mom's Day. This week we take a look at motherhood through the lens of past LDS presidents. What a treat that is. We also read a listener letter, and Pirate God reads from the Book of Mormon a...
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122: Filling Our Holes from 2021-05-01T22:00:13
Welcome to the masturbation episode! Today we discuss the disciplinary hearing of sex therapist, Natasha Helfer. We also read an excerpt from former quorum of the twelve member, Mark E. Petersen, a...
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121: Aw Nuts! from 2021-04-24T22:00:07
This week's theme seems to be man parts for some reason. Weird. We also recap general conference, make fun of sky daddy once again, and Sister Fanny Fact Check pays us a visit. Welcome back, sister...
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120: Narcissism (You Probably Think This Pod is About You) from 2021-04-17T22:00:12
Today, Kimberly joins Mary for a fascinating discussion about Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD. We get sidetracked a bit (who, us?) with a tangent about animated Christmas specials, but Kim...
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119: Who's Your Sky Daddy? from 2021-04-10T22:00:06
This week we check out some random Bible versus and discover how truly kind and loving Sky Dad is. And by kind and loving we mean vengeful and petty. So that's a neat li'l treat. Speaking of dads.....
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118: Meet Craig Call, the Grandson of Richard G. Scott from 2021-04-03T22:30:13
A heads up - we discuss sexual themes in today's episode that features an interview with Craig Call, the bisexual grandson of Richard G. Scott. Find out what it's like to grow up with a member of t...
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117: The LDL "Roadcast" from 2021-03-27T22:00:17
Welcome to our first-ever "roadcast." We decided to record this one heading back from Mary's Mom's place in Norfolk, VA. Listen to find out if Mary misses her exit or if Shelly passes out from hold...
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116: Kimberly's Therapist on Therapist Podcast from 2021-03-20T22:00:22
Please join this week's guest host, our very own Kimberly Anderson, as she brings us an episode of HER new podcast: Therapist on Therapist. Check it out wherever you listen to podcasts, or here:
115: Up Close and Personal with HB 92 and 302 from 2021-03-14T00:30:09
Please join us for an in-depth conversation with Lance Sweeten and his transgender daughter, Gwen. We talk about their struggle with LDS church leadership during Gwen's transition, and discuss thes...
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114: Getting to Know OurShelves from 2021-03-06T23:00:09
This week we talk to Alli Harper, cofounder of OurShelves: a website that curates high-quality children's books that feature racially and ethnically diverse, LGBTQ+, and feminist characters and fam...
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113: The NeverMos Speak from 2021-02-20T23:00:12
This week we hear from 3 NeverMos who describe their own struggle with leaving religion and coming to terms with their sexuality. Turns out Mormons don't have exclusive ownership of that process. W...
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112: Kimberly's Bucket Theory from 2021-02-13T23:00:12
When you listen to this week's episode you'll find out just what her theory is (it may or may not have something to do with shit). Today we talk codependency, and if you were raised in a high-deman...
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111: A Visit from Lord Zakuza from 2021-02-06T23:00:18
Welcome to this week's mixed bag o' goodies. From trauma processing to FUMPOTD's, licked pork chops, wand games and botched barbershop "duets" (not a thing)...this episode is what we like to call p...
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110: Closer (and Closer) to Fine from 2021-01-30T23:00:10
This episode is all about our most recent guest's spiritual journey known as Evolutionary Astrology. Mary and Linda have known each other for nearly 30 years, and they talk about how they met, what...
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109: Fitted for Preparation from 2021-01-23T23:12:11
This week we discuss the latest revisions to the Mormon handbook, Shelly quizzes Mary on a FUMPOTD (raise your hand if you think Mary got this one), and Pirate God pays us a visit. Enjoy!
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108: Leave it in, Dan from 2021-01-16T23:00:13
Please welcome Extension Audio Dan to this week's episode! Dan is the audio genius behind the LDL sound we love so much. You can get to know Dan and all of his interests and endeavors by checking o...
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107: New Year, New Boundaries from 2021-01-09T23:00:14
We're back in the hosting seat for good! This week we take a brief look back and check in on Shelly's boundary setting (way to go, Shelly). We also hear from Sister Fanny Fact Check about Hula Hoop...
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106: Personal Inventory from 2021-01-02T23:00:09
This week our final guest hosts, Kimberly and Diana, discuss what it's like to look back at accomplishments we might not even be aware of. They also declare themselves champions of the bare minimum...
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105: Mo-Tab Ruined Sleigh Ride AGAIN from 2020-12-25T21:00:02
Hey everybody, we're back hosting again this week! Did ya miss us? We thought it would be appropriate to dust off a holiday-themed FUMPOTD, and Sister Fanny Fact Check pays us a visit. Happy holida...
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104: It Started With a Hand on Her Leg from 2020-12-19T23:00:09
Please welcome this week's LDL guest hosts, Elena Joy Thurston and her girlfriend, Kristen. Often the guest on numerous podcasts, Elena turns the tables and interviews Kirsten this time. They discu...
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103: Navigating the Holidays During COVID from 2020-12-12T23:00:14
Please give a warm LDL welcome to this week's special guest hosts: Pelayo and Melissa from The Forbidden Apple Podcast. They discuss traditions surrounding the holidays, what to keep and what to di...
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102: LDL's Sexual Debut from 2020-12-05T23:00:12
Please join this week's guest hosts, Jules Hannaford and Sara Tang. Jules produces two podcasts, "Hong Kong Confidential," which she hosts, and "Fool Me Twice," the award-winning, true-crime podcas...
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101: Brother Joe, Just Say No from 2020-11-28T23:00:17
Was Joseph Smith into drugs?? And did he drug his congregation??? We're gonna "high" to Kolob in today's episode that features guest hosts, Bryce Blankenagel, of the Naked Mormonism podcast, and ou...
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100: LDL Listeners Speak! from 2020-11-21T23:00:02
Whattya know,, we made it to 100!! And we put the call out for audio submissions and you answered! A huge thanks and sloppy wet kisses to everyone who contributed and also to every single one of ou...
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99: Conversion Therapy Survivor Nathan Winterton from 2020-11-14T23:00:07
Trigger Warning: in this episode we discuss delicate themes such as conversion therapy, anorexia and suicidal ideation. If these topics are triggering for you, feel free to pause the recording, lis...
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98: If Jesus Had Been to Therapy from 2020-11-07T23:00:12
Fair warning: this week we get a bit sacrilegious and come to the conclusion that 2,000 years may not actually be enough time to process trauma, so you take your time Jesus. Annnnnd...we're back in...
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97: Low Hanging Fruit from 2020-10-31T22:00:19
In this episode we discuss our amazing trip to Utah and Mary's 10-year-old boy joke (she really can't help herself). Also, we hear from our long lost Sister Fanny Fact Check. Welcome back Sister! Y...
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96: Kimberly Validates All of Us from 2020-10-24T22:00:18
This week, Shelly gets some much needed rest as Mary and Kimberly Anderson, MFA, MA, AMFT, discuss resiliency, guilt, shame and lots more. If this episode causes you to trigger, please feel free t...
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95: Mary&Diana on Family: When Less is More from 2020-10-17T22:00:09
This week Diana keeps "Shelly's seat warm" and picks up the guest hosting slot. I stump her on a FUMPOTD courtesy of Bryce Blankenagel of the Naked Mormonism podcast. She and I also discuss family ...
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94: So Long Lucifer from 2020-10-10T23:00:03
Sooo....Shelly lied. We are actually back in the temple today for Lucifer's farewell speech. It's a classic. Shelly also dons a hideous temple outfit sent in by a listener (robe, apron, sash, veil)...
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93: Lucifer's New Name from 2020-10-03T22:00:18
We are STILL in the stupid temple. Seriously so dumb. Pirate God pays us a visit there...in fact, you may actually find yourself thinking, "will someone please make Pirate God shut up???" We also d...
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92: Little White Bible from 2020-09-27T00:04:04
Yup, this week we get up close and personal with the Mormon Missionary handbook. So ditch those toe rings and break out a ruler cuz those sideburns are looking a little shaggy. We also find out wha...
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91: Non-Repulsive Greasy Sneezes from 2020-09-19T23:00:05
Could today's title have something to do with a new Mormon Mad Lib??? Bow your head and say yes (cuz it has something to do with the temple too). We also read a few short letters and debut a brand-...
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90: Adam Plays the Blame Game from 2020-09-12T23:00:04
This week we get to listen to Adam pull some really dick moves. But before that we read a few short letters, hear a listener's Journal Journey and Shelly reads a slam poem that's pretty slammin' (c...
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89: Welcome to the Stage: Lucifer! from 2020-09-06T00:30:05
Yup, we're back in the temple with Eden's most dramatic thespian: Lucifer! Get ready to give Shelly your biggest golf clap for her amazing adversary impression. We also read a wild letter (buckle u...
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88: Pirate God, A.K.A. the F-Bomb Episode from 2020-08-29T22:00:10
We're back in the temple once again for the start of the riveting endowment movie, which turns out to pretty much be the regular ol' creation story with a bit of poetic license. We also roast a tro...
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87: Check Out My Endowment from 2020-08-23T13:30:08
This week we're still in the wacky LDS temple. If new names and endowment ceremonies are your thing (whatever those are) then you're in for a treat. There's also a FUMPOTD that Mary nails for a cha...
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86: Temple Pt 2: Get Your Hands Out of My Poncho from 2020-08-15T22:00:18
In this week's episode Mary learns about more mid 1990s Mormon Temple creepiness, er, rituals, this time involving inappropriate touching. Plus, we're also horrified to find out what Hitler is prom...
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85: Hitler Becomes a Mormon&Other LDS Temple Wackiness from 2020-08-08T20:00:03
We're finally FINALLY getting around to discussing LDS temple rituals. These are neither sacred nor secret since Shelly's spilling the beans on this goofy stuff. This will be part 1 of a multi-part...
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84: Patriarchal Blessing B.S. from 2020-08-02T00:00:15
In today's episode we get up close and personal with the cut and pasted splendor that is the Mormon Patriarchal Blessing. Is everyone throwing up in their mouths? Because that's the appropriate res...
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83: COVID Couples Counseling Part Deux from 2020-07-26T00:00:16
Looks like we needed to head back to the counseling couch this week for another session of "therapy without a therapist." Maybe don't try that at home. We also have a FUMPOTD courtesy of Alice, a "...
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82: The Newly-Les Game! from 2020-07-19T00:00:15
Welcome to the first (and probably only) installment of the Newly-Les Game hosted by our good friend Diana! We'd like to say we crushed this game...we really would...but it soon turned into a total...
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81: Mary Gets Vulnerable About Kids from 2020-07-12T00:00:20
In this episode Mary gives Shelly a break and takes over the planning. She quizzes her on a FUMPOTD (thanks Bryce Blankenagel) and comes up with an evangelical mad lib. Also Sister Fanny Fact-Check...
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80: Suicide Safety and Prevention with Kimberly Anderson, MFA, MA, AMFT from 2020-07-05T00:00:04
After receiving an email from a listener who let us know that her girlfriend (also a listener) had recently died by suicide, we felt that we wanted to bring on therapist and friend, Kimberly Anders...
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79: Tired of the Transgender Bathroom Debate from 2020-06-28T03:58:26
Seriously, can we all just get over this subject and move on to more important topics, like learning how to love one another? This week's "He Said What" is a real treat, not really. We also have a ...
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78: Reaction to the 6/15 Supreme Court Decision from 2020-06-21T00:00:13
This week we interview our friend, LDL Podcast Discussion Group moderator and transgender activist, Alice Ashton, about her thoughts surrounding the recent Title VII Supreme Court ruling. We also r...
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77: Musician, Writer, Activist: Courtney Ariel from 2020-06-14T00:00:13
In today's episode we are fortunate to have with us the inspiring and talented, a.k.a "loving blossom" (Shelly's term for her), Courtney Ariel. As you may remember, Courtney wrote the article we re...
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76: Hey White People, Let’s Learn to Be Better Allies from 2020-06-07T00:00:16
In this episode we read from various racist LDS documents, including the BOM and the words of various "prophets" of the Mormon church. But even though that's part of our history, in many cases, tha...
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75: Jesus Wants Me For a Lounge Chair from 2020-05-31T00:15:17
This week we officially debut our Mormon Mad Libs segment, so take a load off on our lounge chair and enjoy. We also break out not three, but FOUR whole Ds for Sister Fanny Fact Check's: Deep Dives...
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74: In Plain Sight [WARNING: Intense Themes] from 2020-05-24T00:00:10
This week's episode features our interview with multiple kidnapping and abuse survivor, Jan Broberg. Jan speaks candidly about her family's relationship with Robert "B" Berchtold, and the often neg...
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73: Shelly's Journal Journey from 2020-05-17T00:00:14
In this episode we dust off the LDL singers to introduce a brand-new segment entitled (cue music): "Shelly's Journal Journey" (yeehaw)! Hopefully, you won't curse us for getting yet another musical...
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72: Mother's Day Mad Libs from 2020-05-10T00:37:01
Yes, you read correctly - this week we play a fun Mad Libs game from a ridiculous brain washy LDS child's song that's somehow supposed to celebrate motherhood. We also read a letter from one kick-a...
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71: Girding Up Our Loins For Mother's Day from 2020-05-03T00:00:13
Happy early Mother's Day everybody! Once again we read from the book "Woman" (written by 15 men) to learn all about how to be a good mother, and Shelly relates it to her own experience. Should be a...
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70: Kimberly's Coping Tips from 2020-04-26T00:00:09
Once again we are thrilled to welcome our good friend and therapist (not that she's our therapist or anything), the lovely, kind and compassionate, Kimberly Anderson. This time Kimberly offers some...
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69: COVID Couples Counseling from 2020-04-19T02:18:47
In this episode Mary and Shelly take part in a couples counseling session without the help of a therapist (you're welcome, listeners). Also, Diana joins us for a fun Q & A, and Mary may or may not ...
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68: Next Stop - Gay Town from 2020-04-12T00:42:36
In this episode we learn how to be a WOMAN with the help of some old Mormon dudes who evidently wrote the book on the subject. Also Sister Fanny Fact Check enlightens us during this week's FUMPOTD....
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67: TED Talkin' With Elena Joy Thurston from 2020-04-05T03:20:13
Please join us for this week's interview with conversion therapy survivor, ex-Mormon and out lesbian: Elena Joy Thurston. Elena gave a TEDx Talk about her conversion therapy experience that you can...
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LDL Letters 35: Someone's in the Kitchen With Dinah from 2020-04-01T08:00:12
Today we read a letter from Dinah who's led quite the life! After battling an attraction for women and serving a mission, she finally gave a big middle finger to the church and started her life bac...
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66: Taste the Forbidden Apple from 2020-03-29T00:00:17
An ex Hasidic Jew, an ex Catholic, an ex Evangelical and an ex Mormon walk into a bar...except for the bar part (cuz it's COVID-19). Meet Melissa and Pelayo, hosts of the Forbidden Apple podcast! I...
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LDL Letters 34: Bible-Believing Baptists and Birthing Advice from 2020-03-25T08:00:09
Today we hear from Marie about her strict, King James Version Baptist upbringing. Who knew that was a thing? Also, Trishelle talks about her entire extended Mormon family being present for the birt...
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65: A True Prophet of the Lard! from 2020-03-22T00:00:09
In today's episode we talk about some Mormon reactions to COVID-19. Hey, guess what? Russell M. Nelson is NOT an actual prophet, people. He's just a dude with way too much authority (in our opinion...
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LDL Letters 33: Bussing in the Missionaries from 2020-03-18T12:24:10
In this episode we read a letter from Amber, a Southern Baptist, who as a kid learned to catalog her sins and ask forgiveness for each one. Sounds like a good time. Hope you join us.
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64: Time to Flourish from 2020-03-15T00:00:14
In this episode we learn all about a cause near and dear to us: Flourish Therapy. Part of every LDL Patreon dollar goes to to support this organization. We interview Lisa Hansen PHD, LMFT and Clini...
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LDL Letters 32: Crushing Christian Ethics Class from 2020-03-11T08:00:06
Today we read a letter from Natalie S, who attended a fundamentalist Christian high school. What a good time that must have been. She has a great story to tell, so enjoy!
Each week we re...
63: Zelph Hung Out On Our Shelf from 2020-03-08T01:07:24
As the episode title implies, we interviewed Samantha and Tanner from Zelph on the Shelf! Aw hell yeah! What a fun time as we got to know these two and heard their amazing insights into spiritualit...
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LDL Letters 31: Amy's Handbook Outrage from 2020-03-04T09:00:17
Turns out we're not finished discussing the updated LDS handbook. This week we read a letter from our good friend Amy who has some definite thoughts on the subject. Get riled up with us, won't you?...
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62: A Big Fetch You to the Handbook! from 2020-03-01T01:00:04
This episode is all about the Mormon handbook's new policies against transgender people. Let's all raise a middle finger in the general direction of the LDS temple (it's as if Moroni is flipping a ...
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LDL Letters 30: Pass the Gravy and the Guilt-n-Shame from 2020-02-26T09:00:15
This episode features letters from new name Laverne and Katheryn. Laverne was told by her church leaders to take on more and more responsibility (including raising her siblings) in order to please ...
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61: Something About Mary from 2020-02-23T02:00:18
This episode is pretty much all about Mary. In recognition of her recent interview on the Brave Files Podcast (episode #101 available on your favorite podcast app), we decided to dedicate this show...
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LDL Letters 29: My Pastor Wanted to Kill People from 2020-02-19T09:00:12
This episode features a letter from Elizabeth. She's a never Mo, ex evangelical...which is also fun (uh, that was sarcasm). Her minister compared her interest in women to his interest in murdering ...
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60: Pure: Interview with Author Linda Kay Klein from 2020-02-16T01:00:11
In this episode we interview Linda Kay Klein, author of Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free. This was a fascinating episode and one t...
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60: Pure: Interview with Author Linda Kay Klein from 2020-02-16T01:00:11
In this episode we interview Linda Kay Klein, author of Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free. This was a fascinating episode and one t...
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LDL Letters 28: Rocky Little Shop of Horrors from 2020-02-12T09:00:34
This week's letter is from Ari, a never-mo transgender woman who met her fiancé during a performance of a very iconic cult classic. Can you guess which one based on the title of this episode? Prett...
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59: We're Feeling A Bit Trunky from 2020-02-09T01:00:06
In this episode we read a series of reports from our plant inside the Mission Training Center (we're sneakier than the Mormon Strengthening Church Members Committee). Also, we have an amazing FUMPO...
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LDL Letters 27: What's In A Name? from 2020-02-05T09:00:06
This week's letter writer cracks Mary up, as in, a big belly laugh. Shelly is left a bit baffled, proving what a difference an 8-year age gap can make. Confused? Give a listen to the episode and se...
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58: Mary&Shelly Break the Any-Ol'-Gram Test from 2020-02-02T01:00:16
Diana joins us for another fast and testimony episode, and this time she tells us all about the Enneagram Test. We can't seem to get the name right though...Banana Gram? Wait - Candy Gram? Uh...Ted...
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LDL Letters 26: Cult or Club? Chris Helps Us Decide. from 2020-01-29T09:00:05
This week we hear from Chris on nude paintings, that caused the spirit to leave (and frightened neighborhood children), and rocking a Jesus beard. Way to break those Mormon norms, hairy Chris.
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57: Jerry Springer Inspired Me To Come Out from 2020-01-26T01:00:02
Please give a listen to our amazing interview with special guest, Amy Stephens, cohost of the Transformation Thursday Podcast (available wherever you listen to podcasts). Amy is a hilarious stand-u...
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LDL Letters 25: Molly Un-Mormon Makes Shelly Trigger from 2020-01-22T09:00:06
This week we find out what if feels like to be considered past your marrying prime at the ripe old age of 31 and are asked to leave the singles ward. Yet another reason to feel shamed by Mormonism ...
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56: Ordinary Equality, Talking ERA with Kate Kelly from 2020-01-19T01:00:09
Hey everybody, we're super excited about this week's interview with ex-Mormon activist and all around badass, Kate Kelly! We hear all about what she's been up to, and she wasn't afraid to tackle th...
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LDL Letters 24: Dorothy on Pregnant Mare Urine and Other Beauty Tips from 2020-01-15T09:00:19
The drug, Premarin, is not a good idea. In fact, it's really inhumane to manufacture. We advise against taking it. And in this week's Latter-Day Lesbian letter, Dorothy tells us all about that and ...
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55: How Mo Tab Ruined Sleigh Ride from 2020-01-12T01:00:14
Did you know the LDS church changed a bunch of Christmas songs to sound more Mormony? We discuss a couple of them this week with the help of Sister Fanny Fact Check and Hermana Concha. We also roas...
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LDL Letters 23: Annetta on Pirate Porn and The Priesthood from 2020-01-08T09:00:11
Because one leads naturally to the other, right? Kidding. But somehow both are topics for this week's Latter-Day Lesbian Letters episode. And when your husband gives you tips for dating women, that...
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54: Resolve to Not Resolve: A Better New Year's Tradition from 2020-01-05T01:00:02
Diana joins us once again for our first podcast in 2020! In this episode we resolve to screw resolutions, embrace that inner child, and more hippy-dippy crap like that. Kumbaya listeners. You're we...
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FUMPOTD FESTIVUS: a 2019 Holiday Special (for the rest of us) from 2019-12-23T21:00:15
Surprise! It's a gift from us to you in the form of an unexpected episode. We're revisiting our favorite FUMPOTDs of 2019. With the help of Sister Fanny Fact-Check, and of course, Brother Ben, we'l...
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53: Trauma Bonding, a.k.a. Mary&Shelly's Intervention from 2019-11-24T01:00:05
Today we are joined by therapist and good friend, Kimberly Anderson, who helps us to breathe and process a few of our issues. Should be a triggering good time. Once again we encourage you to pour a...
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LDL Letters 22: Shelly Learns the Difference Between Scotland and Ireland from 2019-11-20T09:00:21
In this episode, Sarah describes her life going from the American West to way across the pond, and then to her ultimate destination: discovering she was a transgender woman. Shelly, meanwhile, is e...
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52: When Your A-Hole Ex Is Still Dragging Your Kids To Church from 2019-11-17T01:00:15
In this episode we are joined once again by Ammy and Jennifer, who speak candidly about Jennifer's TBM ex and her kids who are continuing to be brainwashed by the LDS church and their bigoted fathe...
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LDL Letters 21: Melody Joy on Knowing Too Much and Learning to Lie from 2019-11-13T09:00:11
In this episode, listener Melody Joy provides us with a list of past superlatives, because after all, Mormons have to be the best, right? Speaking of...we also talk about how Joseph Smith was the b...
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51: Lady Brains Are Like Pancakes and Spaghetti from 2019-11-10T01:00:05
Did you know that women's minds are like pancakes and men's are like waffles? That was the teaching from one seminar. Another said they're more like spaghetti. To which we say YUM - brains have nev...
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LDL Letters 20: Molly writes, "Don't judge my mom bod" from 2019-11-06T09:00:12
Welcome to Episode 20 of LDL Letters! In this episode Molly (Not So Mormon) talks about being a single "menace to society," to quote brother Brigham. What a douche!
Each week we read an...
50: Meet Your New Bestie: BOUNDARIES! from 2019-11-03T01:00:15
Nothing beats a good boundary...except maybe another boundary. Diana and Ben join us as we figure out what these things are and why we need `em. Should be a good time.
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LDL Letters 19: Glen, the "Pasthole" from 2019-10-30T08:00:19
Welcome to Episode 19 of LDL Letters! In this episode Glen describes his journey from a-hole (or "pasthole") to ally. What a total transformation! We perhaps "letter shamed" Glen when we met him at...
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49: "It Shouldn't Be Hard" (cuz we're lesbians, get it?) from 2019-10-27T00:00:05
This week, Fanny Fact Check recorded here in person! She and her "companion" were our visiting teachers. Mary felt a bit funny about the visit, to which she was reminded that "the spirit" was simpl...
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LDL Letters 18: Charly and Dayna from 2019-10-23T08:00:11
Welcome to Episode 18 of LDL Letters! In this episode we hear from Charly, a teenager who can't wait to move out of what she refers to as the "stupid" state of Utah. And Dayna only took two years t...
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48: Conversion therapy for kids? Suck it, Mormon church! from 2019-10-20T00:00:12
On this episode we discuss the LDS recent opinions over the debate about the ban on conversion therapy. Uh yeah. Just when you think this crap can't get any crazier. Ugh! Also, Fanny Fact Check hel...
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LDL Letters 17: Melissa and Lara from 2019-10-16T08:00:17
Welcome to Episode 17 of LDL Letters! In this episode Melissa compares her Presbyterian upbringing to Mormonism, and Lara talks about being raised as both Mormon and Fundamentalist Christian. Nutty...
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47: Practically Live from the Protect Every Child Rally from 2019-10-13T00:00:08
Join us for an amazing Testimony Meeting from our Utah meet-n-greet the day after the Protect Every Child March and Rally in Salt Lake City. Mary enjoys her first sip of "Pay Lay Ale," which is not...
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LDL Letters 16: Amy's Tribute from 2019-10-09T08:00:16
Welcome to Episode 16 of LDL Letters! In this episode Amy writes in with a tribute to her first love, Jean Anne. It's a heartbreaking story of the intense pressure churches often inflict in an effo...
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46: Leaving Religion? Here's What To Pack. from 2019-10-06T00:00:09
Diana's back! And she has some great tips on what to take with you when you leave religion. Some stuff is actually cool, and it's yours to keep! Find out what during this super interesting conversa...
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LDL Letters 15: Ben and Martie from 2019-10-02T08:00:17
Welcome to Episode 15 of LDL Letters! This week: Ben comes out to his wife as asexual, and Martie discloses sexual abuse by a family member and later by a Mormon bishop. Warning: this episode discu...
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45 - Living Bravely with Heather Vickery from 2019-09-29T00:00:08
Please join us for a fun, engaging and enlightening conversation with dear friend, fellow podcaster and success coach, Heather Vickery! We are super pumped to have Heather as a guest. We fell head ...
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LDL Letters 14: Heather and Madyson from 2019-09-25T08:00:13
Welcome to Episode 14 of LDL Letters! This week: Heather almost gets sucked into hell by an earthquake, and Madyson asks for advice on how to stay strong surrounded by TBM family members. Yikes!
44 - Unpacking Conversion Therapy from 2019-09-22T00:00:20
Join us for an intimate conversation with special guests Angela and Alli, as we discuss Angela's upbringing in the Catholic Church, her horrifying conversion therapy experience, and how the couple ...
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LDL Letters 13: Elise and Kim from 2019-09-18T08:00:05
Welcome to Episode 13 of LDL Letters! This week: Kim researches various faiths in Salt Lake City, and Elise asks for Shelly's advice on keeping her cool when dealing with Mormons. Hmm...Shelly's ad...
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43: Live from Sister Space from 2019-09-15T06:32:20
Join us live from Sister Space - a women's retreat held annually the first weekend after Labor Day in the Delaware Valley. This was our first "rustic retreat," which involved sleeping in cabins wit...
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LDL Letters 12: Clark and Laurie - it's Portlandia day! from 2019-09-11T10:00
Welcome to Episode 12 of LDL Letters! This week: Clark and Laurie - excommunication and winning at bishopric roulette. Warning: the second half of the episode deals with violent themes, so please b...
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42: No Crime in Sin: Interview with survivor, Kristy Johnson from 2019-09-08T00:00
Hey everybody, this episode features our much anticipated interview with abuse survivor, Kristy Johnson. Her documentary, No Crime in Sin addresses the sexual abuse Kristy and her siblings underwen...
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42: No Crime in Sin: Interview with survivor, Kristy Johnson from 2019-09-08T00:00
Hey everybody, this episode features our much anticipated interview with abuse survivor, Kristy Johnson. Her documentary, No Crime in Sin addresses the sexual abuse Kristy and her siblings underwen...
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LDL Letters 11: Taylor and Elizabeth - still Mormon, but not necessarily TBM from 2019-09-04T10:00
Welcome to Episode 11 of LDL Letters! This week: Taylor and Elizabeth - still Mormon, but not necessarily TBM. In fact, Taylor is gay and Elizabeth is pretty done. Still attending church, but feels...
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41: Talking Trans pt 2, with guests: Carolyn and Jamie from 2019-09-01T00:00
We are back for part 2 of our interview with Carolyn and Jamie, two amazing listeners and members of the trans community. In this episode you'll learn about some of the things you may actually be s...
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41: Talking Trans pt 2, with guests: Carolyn and Jamie from 2019-09-01T00:00
We are back for part 2 of our interview with Carolyn and Jamie, two amazing listeners and members of the trans community. In this episode you'll learn about some of the things you may actually be s...
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LDL Letters 10: Richard and Jen - we met you (and almost met you) at Utah pride from 2019-08-28T10:00
Welcome to Episode 10 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you!
As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through ou...
40: Coming Out? What a "Smart" Idea! from 2019-08-25T00:00
As in, Ed Smart, obviously. Join us for a discussion about the coming out story that everyone's talking about. We admire Ed's courage and interest in living an authentic life. Also, things heat up ...
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LDL Letters 9: Kole and Kirsten on bishop confessions and other horrors from 2019-08-21T10:00
Welcome to Episode 9 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! Warning: this week's episode contains violent themes; some parts m...
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39: Talking Trans pt 1, with guests: Carolyn and Jamie from 2019-08-18T02:48:04
Join us for part 1 of our interview with Carolyn and Jamie, two amazing listeners and members of the trans community. It's an episode full of love, laughter and learning. Or as we like to say, the ...
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39: Talking Trans pt 1, with guests: Carolyn and Jamie from 2019-08-18T02:48:04
Join us for part 1 of our interview with Carolyn and Jamie, two amazing listeners and members of the trans community. It's an episode full of love, laughter and learning. Or as we like to say, the ...
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LDL Letters 8: Meet Jill: sixteen-years-old and crushing it! from 2019-08-14T10:00
Welcome to Episode 8 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our website at...
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38: Fanny Fact-Check, Anti-Nephi-Lehies, Bryce Blankenagel from 2019-08-11T00:00
Say that three times fast! Please help us welcome the host of Naked Mormonism, Bryce Blankenagel. Also, we turn the time over to Sister Fanny Fact-Check, and Shelly teaches Mary a lesson about cove...
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LDL Letters 7: Carolyn and Erika from 2019-08-07T10:00
Carolyn and Erika: Correct Pronouns & Christmas Present Apostasy
Welcome to Episode 7 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just ...
37: Christianity Casserole with Special Guest: Grace from 2019-08-04T00:00
Four Square, Quaker, Reiki, Charismatic, Anglo-Catholicism, and a bunch of other isms... Meet Grace...who has pretty much tried 'em all - except for Mormonism (though, she did go into a temple once...
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LDL Letters 6: Maeri-Jo and Savannah on Starting Over from 2019-07-31T10:00
Welcome to Episode 6 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our website at...
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LDL Letters 6: Maeri-Jo and Savannah on Starting Over from 2019-07-31T10:00
Welcome to Episode 6 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our website at...
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36: Introduction to Calvinism with special guest: Jessah from 2019-07-28T00:00
Listeners, raise your hand if you think John Calvin was a nut job! If you're not familiar with Calvinism, then this episode should provide a bit of a primer. Our thanks to our friend and patron, Je...
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LDL Letters 5: Abagail and Justin: Sexual Shaming and Shelves Breaking from 2019-07-24T10:00
Welcome to Episode 5 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our website at...
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35: Happy Pioneer Day with Special Guest: Rachel from 2019-07-21T00:00
Hey everybody, meet Rachel, a friend from Shelly's former ward and Trek survivor -- barely. She has a fantastic pioneer story to tell, plus we read a listener letter about Trekking through a foot o...
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LDL Letters 4: Kris on Changing Yourself/Changing the World from 2019-07-17T10:00
Welcome to Episode 4 of LDL Letters! Each week we read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our website at...
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34: Spirituality Discussion #2, with Diana from 2019-07-14T00:00
Meet Diana, our Executive Director of Organization and the newest member of the team. And though she may not be a guest on our podcast every week, she definitely merits a full episode by way of int...
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34: Spirituality Discussion #2, with Diana from 2019-07-14T00:00
Meet Diana, our Executive Director of Organization and the newest member of the team. And though she may not be a guest on our podcast every week, she definitely merits a full episode by way of int...
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LDL Letters 3: Ammy's Story from 2019-07-10T10:00
Welcome to Episode 3 of LDL Letters! Each week we will read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our websi...
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33: You Two Slay Me (in the spirit) from 2019-07-07T00:00
From charismatic spiritual types to the satanic temple...this topic truly is all over the place. Where have our listeners landed after religion? Give a listen and find out as we begin part 1 of our...
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33: You Two Slay Me (in the spirit) from 2019-07-07T00:00
From charismatic spiritual types to the satanic temple...this topic truly is all over the place. Where have our listeners landed after religion? Give a listen and find out as we begin part 1 of our...
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LDL Letters 2: Katherine&Summer from 2019-07-03T10:00
Welcome to Episode 2 of LDL Letters! Each week we will read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder, you can get in touch with us through our websi...
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32: Don't Brainwash My Kids (oh, and Philip pees down a waterslide) from 2019-06-30T00:00
Shelly loses her sh*t (again), the toaster oven saga continues. and you may never want to visit the kiddie pool at Great Wolf Lodge. You've been warned.
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LDL Letters 1: Matt&Jessy from 2019-06-26T10:00
Welcome to Episode 1 of LDL Letters! At least that's what we're calling it for now. Each week we will read and discuss 1-2 letters (depending on length) from listeners just like you! As a reminder,...
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31: Beehives, Mia Maids and Laurels - oh my! from 2019-06-23T00:00
Ever wonder what the female equivalent of a priesthood holder is? Oh wait - there is no equivalent. Whoops, our bad. Oh well, it's fun to talk about it anyway. At least we think so. And maybe with ...
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30: Gettin' Our Drink on with Jesus at Adam's Crib from 2019-06-16T00:00
This could be our most effed up FUMPOTD yet. Brother Joseph, how do you propose Adam and Eve got to the midwest? We're still trying to figure this out. Meanwhile, the deacons are passing out bread ...
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29: Almost Live from Utah Pride from 2019-06-09T00:00
Hey friends, did you swing by our SLC pride booth to say hi AND did we get a recording of you? Then take a listen to episode 29 - you might just hear yourself! We had such a blast visiting with so ...
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28: Speaking In Tongue Twisters from 2019-06-02T02:00
Mary describes some more of her crazy evangelical past, Dallin H. Oaks gets a stern reprimand, and it's pride weekend in Salt Lake City, everybody. Time to celebrate!
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27: Not Your Typical Lipstick Lesbian from 2019-05-26T00:00
If we would just put on a little lipstick we'd be much more charming...or at least some people think so. Find out who in our brand new segment: He Said What??? Also...*spoiler alert* we briefly tal...
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26: The Little Factory ...um, that's gross from 2019-05-19T00:00
Do you know the answer to today's FUMPOTD? If not, you're about to. Ew. And...you're welcome. In this episode we also ask for listener submissions to be included in an upcoming ex-Mormon expose. Pl...
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25: Age of Accountability (are you out of pull-ups yet)? from 2019-05-12T00:00
This week's FUMPOTD especially sucks if you're Philip, or some other 8-year old who can barely navigate the school bus. We also discuss the follow up to Martinsburg, WV, and the families affected b...
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25: Age of Accountability (are you out of pull-ups yet)? from 2019-05-12T00:00
This week's FUMPOTD especially sucks if you're Philip, or some other 8-year old who can barely navigate the school bus. We also discuss the follow up to Martinsburg, WV, and the families affected b...
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24: Spiritual Shaming, a.k.a. Mary's Rant from 2019-05-05T00:00
Are you as sick of spiritual shaming as we are? Yeah?? We're fired up and wanna talk about it! We also share an excellent listener letter and a funny Philip story. So grab a sinful cup o' caffeine ...
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23: Protect Every Child with special guest Sam Young from 2019-04-28T00:00
This is a really meaningful episode for us that features our very first guest, Sam Young. You'll hear all about his issues with the Mormon church, and the questions and objections that ultimately l...
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22: Lehi's Brass Balls from 2019-04-21T02:11:41
Who was Lehi and what was his brass ball doing outside of his tent? Find out on this weeks FUMPOTD! That's a whole lot of fun, and so is roasting this week's troll: President Russell M. Nelson hims...
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21: Heart Sell from 2019-04-14T02:59:12
No, we're not peddling the Wilson sisters' latest rock ballad. It's this week's FUMPOTD. Check it out! Also, Shelly gets real about the "Exclusion Policy" and unexpected reversal. Get comfy, folks....
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20: Turn It Off (Like a Light Switch) from 2019-04-07T00:00
Hey, look at that - we made it through 20 episodes! Wowsers! In this one we discuss seeing Book of Mormon (the musical) for the first time - hopefully the first of many times. Funny stuff! We also ...
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19: Tangy Pork Chops from 2019-03-31T00:00
In this episode, Shelly reveals a secret family recipe. Maybe don't try this one at home, kids. Also, we read a listener letter to a parent, and Shelly talks about one of her own. And will Mary gue...
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18: Modest is Hottest from 2019-03-24T00:00
Endure to the End, Quietly Obey, Modest is Hottest. All of these were contenders for our Effed Up Mormon Phrase of the Day. Which one made the cut? Listen and find out! In this episode we roast a t...
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17: Kolob, A.K.A. the planet where God hangs out from 2019-03-17T00:00
Where the heck is Kolob? We're still not sure, but we definitely talk about it ad nauseam in this episode. Put on your spacesuits and get ready to blast off to wherever God is... Or maybe just have...
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17: Kolob, A.K.A. the planet where God hangs out from 2019-03-17T00:00
Where the heck is Kolob? We're still not sure, but we definitely talk about it ad nauseam in this episode. Put on your spacesuits and get ready to blast off to wherever God is... Or maybe just have...
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16: The Effed-Up Mormon Phrase of the Day from 2019-03-10T01:00
In 16, Shelly and Mary discuss family connections (or lack thereof), coincidence stories, another ridiculous tale about tithing, Temple Square panhandlers, and our fun new segment: The Effed-Up Mor...
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15: Guilting Kids, er, "Strengthening Youth"...right Mormons? from 2019-03-03T01:08:17
In this episode Shelly reads from the "For the Strength of Youth" manual...the same pamphlet her Bishop cited as "scripture," which he used to justify taking away her temple recommend. Wait a minut...
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14: Sister missionaries can finally wear pants! from 2019-02-24T02:32:43
Sister missionaries, it's time to step into some trousers (one leg at a time). And Shelly gets all up in her feels about her divorce. Also, we read an amazing listener email about "reparative" or c...
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14: Sister missionaries can finally wear pants! from 2019-02-24T02:32:43
Sister missionaries, it's time to step into some trousers (one leg at a time). And Shelly gets all up in her feels about her divorce. Also, we read an amazing listener email about "reparative" or c...
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13: Girl, You'll Be A Woman Soon / a.k.a. Shelly's Rant from 2019-02-17T01:07:23
Welcome to lucky number 13! In this episode Shelly talks about that very special time when she blossomed into womanhood. Warning: this description gets a bit graphic (as usual, Shelly's mouth filte...
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12: Cadaver Gums from 2019-02-10T01:00
Shelly's undergoing gum surgery soon, and in this episode we discuss where those things come from. Ew. We also talk about the first time we both encountered a gay person, and Shelly continues her s...
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11: Shower Beer from 2019-02-03T01:35:48
What, you don't drink beer in the shower? Some say it makes a great conditioner. In fact, Shelly claimed that once when her kids asked her if she'd been drinking. True story. In this episode, Shell...
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10: Pizza Porn from 2019-01-27T01:00
Don't worry, we're not giving up the podcast to be porn stars. But if we did, let's just say pizza would be involved. Yep, it seems strange to us too.
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9: I Hope They Call Me on a Mission from 2019-01-20T01:00
What's the big deal about Mormon Missions, anyway? Well, we tackle 'em head on in our 9th podcast, so check it out! Also, we discuss professional recycling, sinful, costly tattoos, and dehydrating ...
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8: Men In Suits from 2019-01-13T01:00
This episode stumbled upon a big trigger for Shelly. It gets emotional, but we managed to balance the discussion with a revelation about racist panty hose. Ridiculous. Also, we read a sweet yet sli...
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7: The Christmas Letter from 2019-01-06T01:27:22
Shelly talks about the annual Christmas letter from her "perfect Mormon family." Insert eye-rolling emoji. Mary is starting to think this Mormon stuff might actually be fake. Hmm...
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6: the Holiday Episode from 2018-12-30T05:33:13
Happy Holidays! Shelly gives her children an amazing gift by coming out to them. Also, nothing says Merry Christmas like ridiculously strong cocktails set on fire! Find out how we survived the rest...
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5: Coming Out, part 2 from 2018-12-30T01:00
In this episode we talk about coming out to Shelly's husband. What a treat that was. And will Mary and Shelly ever find the perfect canine companion for Eddie? Decisions, decisions...
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4: Coming Out, part 1 from 2018-12-23T01:00
Shelly responds to listener questions about her first Mormon memory, then we dive into part 1 of her coming out story...if she can get a word in. Mary, you came out a long time ago. Let the newbie ...
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3: First Date from 2018-12-09T01:06:37
People wonder how an ex-Mormon mother of 7 ended up on a date with a "career lesbian." We actually wonder the same thing. Give a listen and find out.
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2: The Prequel from 2018-12-02T15:31:30
Welcome back! Mary and Shelly back up a little and describe Mormonism a bit better. Mary's still confused though. Is this stuff actually crazy? All signs point to yes.
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1: Intro Revised (brought to you by beer) from 2018-11-24T19:08:50
Shelly is a divorced mother of 7 dealing with leaving the Mormon church and coming to terms with her sexuality. Mary is a recovering evangelical Christian, and also a "career lesbian" (as Shelly pu...
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