Podcasts by Life on the Swingset - The Swinging

SS 085: Foreplay, Fiveplay, Sixplay, Orgy! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 084: Cultivating Swinging & Polyamorous Relationships from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We explore cultivating relationships from both the s...

SS 083: The Pick-Up In Non Monogamy with Cunning Minx from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Pick-up, we discuss vanilla pick-up culture briefly wh...

SS 082: Geeksexuality - Making Porn, Bisexual Males, Bush, & Quantum Physics from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We are joined by Ned & Maggie Mayhem, geeksexual por...

SS 081: Open SF Debrief III - Learning to Speak Up, Browsing SF, and a Farewell Lunch from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We finish our debrief from our experience at Open SF...

SS 080: Open SF Debrief II - Magic Brownies, Presentations, Hot Tubs, Flirting, & Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We continue our debrief from our experience at Open SF Non-Monogamy Conference. We discuss seminars we attended, including Charlie Glickman, Tristan Taormino, and the presentation we gave. Coope...

SS 079: Open SF Debrief I - Dom/sub, Sex Parties, & San Francisco from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The gang begins their full debrief from the Open SF ...

SS 078: In Bed With The Swingset - Flirting, Drinking, Safe Words, A Sex Toy Box, & Chaos from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset crew is drinking in bed together at the...

SS 077: Sex With Benefits – Progressive Swinging – Live From The Open SF Conference from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingsetters are live in San Francisco at the Open SF Conference on non-monogamy to discuss Progressive Swinging, where swingers are gradually sliding down the spectrum toward long term rela...

SS 076: Gang-Bang The Mailbag III – Jealousy in Open Relationships from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We return to the mailbag, still full after last week to discuss a nu...

SS 075: Gang-Bang The Mailbag II - Oral Sex & Cum, Bad Swinging Experiences, Drinking, Chemistry, & Primary Partners from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

To celebrate our 75th episode we go back to gangbanging the mailbag ...

SS 074: Tristan Taormino Talks Kink, Anal Sex, Fisting, Pegging & Her New Project from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Tristan Taormino returns to the Swingset to give Cooper some advice on NRE, discuss her new book Listen

SS 073: Sex Positive Education Surrounding Swinging, Polyamory, & Other Non-Monogamy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Pepper Mint discusses Sex Positive Classes, Conferences, and hosting OpenSF on this episode of Life on the Swingset, The Podcast!

SS 072: Hard Kink - Needles, Breath Play, Spanking, & More from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Pepper Mint (@freaksexual, http://freaksexual.com/) rejois the Swingset for discussion on hard kink.

We open with a discussion about mommy porn and Fifty Shades of Grey and move into disc...

SS 071: Words Matter - Vanilla VS Swinging, Polyamory, and Open from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We are joined by The Professor and Boris & Doris of the  Listen

SS 070: Ginger & The Professor In Paradise at Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Shira talks about sapiosexual foreplay. Cooper discusses building an...

SS 069: Oral Sex, Cunnilingus, Rim Jobs, Oh Yes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Oral Sex. Cunnilingus. Rim Jobs. Today we discuss anything and every...

SS 068: Ch-Ch-Changes - Swinging, Polyamory, & Non-Monogamy Explorations from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this show, we talk about one of our favorite subjects... ourselves!

We've been steadily evolving and felt like keeping all of you up-to-date on where are we going, why we're moving in ...

SS 067: Newly Non-Monogamous - Do We Like New Swingers & Polyamorists? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After a detour involving Prof Stephen Hawking's time spent at a sex ...

SS 066: Chemistry - Connections, Pheromones, & Animal Attraction in Non-Monogamy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Dylan launches a custom sexy talk service. We discuss the ethics and...

SS 065: Friends & Lovers - Do We Want To Be Friends With These People We Fuck? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 064: Kink-O-Rama - Pegging, Voyeurism, Sapiosexuals, & Comfort from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We cold open with Cooper having a butt plug (hand crafted by Boris a...

SS 063: Swinging For Dummies IV - Relationships, Websites, & Sexy Vacations from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We wrap up our "Swinging For Dummies" primer for the swinging lifest...

SS 062: Swinging For Dummies III – Rules & Group Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We squick Dylan out with talk of dragon sex. Dylan vindicates himsel...

SS 061: Swinky - A Very BDSM Show Length Business from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 060: Swinging For Dummies II - Talking To Your Partner About Non-Monogamy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We continue our "Swinging For Dummies" discussion by moving into how...

SS 059: Swinging For Dummies I - Realizing You're Non-Monogamous from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We go back to basics in the first of our Swinging For Dummies episod...

SS 058: Bareback or Condoms: A Bad Swinger Sex Party from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After a spirited reading of the suggested uses for the Hitachi Magic...

SS 057: 12 Vibrating Yule Logs - Sex Toys, & The Smitten Kitten from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 056: A Voicemail Gang-Bang - Anal Sex Play, Penis Size, & Pregnant Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After Cooper talks about kissing a boy for ...

SS 055: The Non-Monogamy Umbrella II - Swingers, Open Relationships, & Polyamory, 2gether 4 Eva from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We continue our discussion with poly activi...

SS 054: The Non-Monogamy Umbrella I - Can't Swingers And Polyamorists Get Along? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 053: Naked In Paradise II - The Swingset Takes Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We continue our chat with Jim & Char of CharTravel about lifestyle vacations, focusing more on Desire as a whole as Shira asks a number of nitty gritty questions about passports, cost, and the n...

SS 052: Naked In Paradise I - Sexy Vacations and Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Have your vacations lately seemed a bit t...

SS 051: Our Evolution II - Anal Sex & Male Bisexuality, Getting Flogged & Opening Up from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We continue our 50th episode reflection of ...

SS 050: Our Evolution - Polyamorous Leanings, Coming Out Sexy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset crew celebrates their 50th episode with reflections of how we can still learn new things in the lifestyle. We wish Shira a happy Swingset Anniversary. Ginger sends Prof to a sexy pa...

SS 049: Unite The Clans! Coming Together on Swinging Sites & Sex Clubs from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After Shira horrifies us all by talking about a potential boy-toy's penile subincision, we manage to pull it together and discuss the changing landscape that is online swinger sites and sex club...

SS 048: We’re Porn Again – Our Fetishes & Home-Made Porn from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Dylan asks Shira how polyamorists feel about one night stands. We all talk about the kind of porn that gets us going, then each of us admits to what our guilty pleasure porn is; Cooper feels ver...

SS 047: Naked People Doing Dirty Things – Porn All Around Us from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We wonder if pubic hair is making a resurgence, find out that Shira has no tolerance for young people, discuss how we first encountered and discovered porn. We learn that Ginger didn't believe p...

SS 046: Burning Man ’11 Pt 2 – Fear & Loathing on the Playa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Uh oh! You heard the last podcast and were left wanting for juicy details? The second part of our Burning Man shows reveals exactly what happened between Dylan and the Majestic Woman he met at B...

SS 045: Burning Man ’11 Pt 1 – Shira & Dylan’s Excellent Adventure from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper & Marilyn take a vacation to visit sexy friends from the Great White North. Dylan & Shira B. Katz haven’t been about to shut up about Burning Man and now you finally get to hear why. List...

SS Special – Dylan Crosses The Rubicon from Swinging to Polyamory at Burning Man 2011 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Dylan here - I visited Burning Man this year, and while I fully expected to have a mind-blowing experience, I found myself wrapped up in the loving arms of another woman, and unable to completel...

SS 044: Fucking Technology – Sexting, Cybersex & Phone Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We are living in the golden age of sexual communication. There are so many ways to have sexy conversations and interactions online, it's really rather amazing. We talk about our likes and dislik...

SS 043: Flirting as Swingers, Polyamorists, & Non-Monogamists from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Flirting! It's like a gateway drug, and that gateway sometimes leads to all manner of sexual exploits. Tonight we discuss the importance and value of flirting and how it has helped shape the pan...

SS 042: Kody Brown & the Polygamy Lawsuit – Legislating the Bedroom from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Dylan hosts this episode where we discuss Kody Brown's lawsuit, the fight for polygamy, and "Sister Wives." Shira has learned the power of selfish sex. Cooper rants against religion and oppressi...

SS 041: Breaking Up Is Really Hard To Do For Swingers Too from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper tells the crew about the breakup he and Marilyn went through with a unicorn friend of theirs, their struggle with it, and how they've applied their feelings about polyamory and non-monoga...

SS 040: Slut Shaming and Anthony Weiner’s Penis on Twitter from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The crew discusses the fact that girls need to ask permission to touch too, Shira is rejected for the very first time, Dylan talks about massages at strip clubs, and we get deep into the Anthony...

SS Special – Ending The Sexual Dark Age Question About Bisexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this short podcast special, the Swingset crew answer a question sent by a listener of the Ending The Sexual Dark Age podcast about how to transition yourself to being a bisexual male in the l...

SS 039: Debauchery at a Swing Club – Couple’s Playhouse Swingers Club Near Chicago from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Dylan and Cooper return to Couple's Playhouse, a swing club in the suburbs of Chicago for part two of their discussion and description of their first trip to a swingers club. Shira and Ginger ad...

SS 038: Our Swingers Club Adventure – Living it up at Chicago Swing Club Couple’s Playhouse from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After Shira discusses the wonderful world of sex and feeling better that came from having her IUD removed, Ginger talks about the benefits of hers, and Dylan discusses exploring his wife's...for...

SS 037: Gang Bang The Mailbag – Listener Questions on Swinging, Poly & Open from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In our first "Listener Mailbag" episode we answer several questions from voicemail and email, tackling such diverse topics as the hotness of swingers, sexual experience and prowess, how to swing...

SS 036: Everybody Loves Orgasms – Swingers, Poly, and Open Cumming Together from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

While Dylan fills his ass with first a vibrator, then a butt plug, we giggle our way through a discussion of our favorite thing in the whole world, orgasms. We discuss the differences in the man...

SS 035: Safer Sex, The Infections Formerly Known as STDs & Swinging – How Swingers & Polyamorists Handle Safer Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

One of the most concerning topics for anyone looking to get into the swinging or other non-monogamous lifestyles is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, so we invite Gay Ric...

SS 034: Breaking it Down – BDSM In The Swinging Lifestyle from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Miss Ami, a full time Domme, returns to The Swingset to discuss how BDSM fits into the swinging and non-monogamous lifestyles, how these worlds collide, and being out as a kinky person. And Dyla...

SS 033: Spank My Ass! BDSM, Swinging and You from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset crew invites Miss Ami, a full time Domme to join the discussion about what BDSM stands for, what it means to be Domme/sub, how her lifestyle impacts her life, and why swingers seem ...

SS 032: Cooper & Marilyn’s Excellent Adventure – Swinging at Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper and Marilyn just got back from Desire, but in between the nonstop playtime and suntanning and hottubbing and drinking and dining, they found time to record a full trip diary detailing the...

SS 031: Sex on the Swingset is Fun – Live From Desire, The Sexiest Place on Earth with Kidder Kaper & Lorax from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 31, the greatest crossover since The Flintstones met The Jetsons happens as Cooper and Marilyn podcast with Kidder Kaper and Lorax from Sex Is Fun live from an outside bed at Desire in sun...

SS 030: Love Thyself – Masturbation and Non-Monogamy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 30, we discuss masturbation, which Woody Allen called "sex with someone I love," and talk about why, in swinging and non-monogamy, we have all the opportunity in the world for sex and we s...

SS 029: Porn, Bisexuals, Anal Sex, Opening Up, and Tristan Taormino from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 29, the Swingset tries very hard not to simply gush over their biggest crush, Tristan Taormino, as she joins us for a discussion of the time writing porn, her thoughts on bisexuality in th...

SS 028: Sexual Erotic Nutrition and Sex At Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 2) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 28, the Swingset's interview with Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings, continues. ...

SS 027: Bonobo Porn and Sex at Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 1) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

On Ep 27, the Swingset interviews Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings. We discuss bonobo...

SS 026: Auld Lang Syne – An Orgy, A Game, An Epiphany, & A Ritual from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 26 is a time of reflection for us as The Swingset celebrates the end of its first year of existence. We discuss what we've learned along the way, talk about the orgy Cooper and Marilyn t...

SS 025: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys? – Part 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset crew discuss their favorite sex toys of the year and the most unusual sex toys they've ever used in our Holiday Buying Guide podcastListen

SS 024: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys – Part 1 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset crew discuss their first sex toys and experiences and talk about their favorite sex toys of the year in our Holiday Buying Guide podcastListen

SS 023: Coming Out With Kendra Holliday from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast: Ep 23, we spend a long evening with our friend Kendra Holliday, who on National Coming Out day, revealed her identity to the world on her website The Beauti...

SS 022: Bisexuality and You – Part 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 22, we wrap up our big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual ...

SS 021: Bisexuality and You – Part 1 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, Ep 21, we begin the big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We dis...

SS 020: The Sexual Costumes and Masks We Wear from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 20, we talk about how, even in open relationships, even as sex positive people, we often hide our true interests, feelings, ideas from playmates and our partner. We discuss why this might ...

SS 019: Anal Sex & Double Penetration for the Non-Monogamous from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 19, we talk about anal sex and its place in non-monogamy, how it's often tokenized for significant other play only, the wonders and joys of double penetration, pegging, and male bisexualit...

SS 018: Blurring the Lines Between Polyamory and Swinging – Non Monogamy Cums Together from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 18, we invite two new friends onto the swingset for our discussion of the blurred line between polyamory and swinging. In this discussion we attempt to define the two terms and then break ...

SS 017: Guys Have Penises, Girls Have Vaginas IV: The Final Chapter from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 17, we bring it around with an all guys show for the final installment of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of q...

SS 016: Guys Have Penises, Girls Have Vaginas III from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 16, we switch things up with an all girls show for the back half of our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questio...

SS 015: Guys Have Penises, Girls Have Vaginas II from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 15, we continue our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls...

SS 014: Guys Have Penises, Girls Have Vaginas I from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 14, we begin our four part Lost Weekendesque bender, separating the girls and the guys and running them through a gauntlet of questions about swinging. In the first two parts, the girls an...

SS 013: Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes – Number Dynamics from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 13, we discuss number dynamics in swing environments, from threesomes, to foursomes, to orgies. Sasha extols the virtues of odd numbers and the big pile, and Dylan discusses the house he w...

SS 012: Under Pressure – Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Pressure For Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 12 we talk about pressure, and how pressuring encounters can be as swingers. The first half of our show focuses primarily on male pressure to perform and erectile dysfunction, in the back ...

SS 011: Bediquette – In Bed With Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Ep 11, we discuss the ins and outs of bediquette when it comes to bringing other sexy folk into your bedroom for playtime. We also introduce the newest member of the Swingset family, Ginger!<...

SS Special – Sex Is Fun Interviews The Swingset from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Sex Is Fun, the best sex podcast out there, interviews Dylan and Cooper to discuss swinging in a very enjoyable interview. Check it out!

SS 010: It’s Naked Time with a Live Nude Cast from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 10 of Life on the Swingset the cast is naked! Not that it matters, because you can't see them. But just think of their sexy naked bodies....This episode is about being naked and all t...

SS 009: Ins and Outs of Swinger Parties from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 9 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss attending a swinger party, Kylie admits her nervousness about them and asks questions, and Sasha proves herself to be a swing party guru and give...

SS 008: Looking For Fun & Friends on Swinger Websites from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 8 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss three major swinger dating websites, Adult Friend Finder, Swing Lifestyle, and our personal favorite, and Lifestyle Lounge. We discuss how to dec...

SS 007: Swinging Couples, Taking One For The Team, & Erectile Dysfunction from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 7, we discuss the difficulties inherent in finding a four way connection between two couples, how taking one for the team and playing with someone you're not interested in can do more...

SS 006: Those Are The Rules – Defining Your Rules as Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 6, the team discusses the importance of having rules in the swinging lifestyle, what's allowed and what isn't, what needs to be discussed beforehand and what doesn't.  We also talk ab...

SS 005: Soft Swap VS Full Swap from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 5, we talk about the two major terms in the swinging community, soft swap (play but no intercourse with the opposite partner) or full (everybody gets laid) and discuss the complexitie...

SS 004: Compersion VS Jealousy – Swingers Deal With Jealousy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 4, we discuss compersion, the term that finds you experiencing pleasure because your partner is experiencing pleasure, versus jealousy, a term we all know. The Swingset gang discusses...

SS 003: Sad State of Affairs – Swinging in America from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 3 we discuss the sad state of affairs American conciousness is at regarding sexuality, from the RNC's new lesbian-bondage-strippergate, to sex ed, to the pros and cons of staying in t...

SS 002: Birds of a Feather – Finding Other Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In our second episode, we continue our logistics of getting into the lifestyle with a look at finding friends and admitting to them and yourself that you want to...well...have sex with them. We ...

SS 001: Dipping a Toe In – How To Start Swinging from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In our first podcast we discuss the very beginnings of what to do when you think you may want to have an open relationship. We talk in detail about dealing with that idea yourself and deciding i...

SS 000: Swinging For Dummies I – Realizing You’re Non-Monogamous from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Realizing that our first episode doesn't deal with the fir...

SS 223: The Genital Spectacle - Learning to Like Our Bits from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 222: Gang Bang the MailBag 24 – Shy Male Swingers, Just Starting, Couples’ Jealousy, Online Frustration, Christian Swingers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 221: Gang Bang the Mailbag 23 - Ejaculation, Trust in Swinging, Former Swingers & Sex Club Consent from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Welcome back to the Life on the Swingset mailbag w...

SS 220: Gang Bang the Mailbag 22 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 219: Sex Drive - Baby You Can Drive My Swinging & Poly Lifestyle from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Everybody's sex drive is different, and it's likely that everybody who has ever had a sex drive has had assumptions made about it. Swingers, polyamorists, and othe...

SS 218: White Rocks & Black Rings - Swinger History & Folklore with Dr. Jeana Jorgensen from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 217: What About Poly Marriage? - Does Marriage Equality Extend to Polyamory from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 216: Dating - Being Right With and Doing Right By Your People from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We all go on dates. Maybe it's a play date with another sexy couple. Maybe it's a romantic getaway with a partner we only see every couple months. Maybe it's a night of taking off your clothes a...

SS 215: Successful Disengagement - Stepping Back Gracefully from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We've all been in situations that we were really... REALLY eager to be in.... then realize in the moment maybe we don't want to be in this particular situation but you like everyone involved and...

SS 214: Secrecy, Privacy in Swinging & Polyamory from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 213: Gang Bang the Mailbag 21 – Now 100% Legal! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 212: Gang Bang the Mailbag 20 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 211: Ghosts of Swingset Past - Life on the Swingset from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Holy Shit Shira B. Katz is here! … and she’s causing trouble! … and she starts a wonderful conversation with Ginger about mindfu...

SS 210: Nina Hartley Talks About All of the Things from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Adult film star, author, sex educator, outspoken feminist and advocate for sexual acceptance Nina Hartley joins and honors us with a conversation on the Swingset.

Nina was a pioneer of se...

SS 209: Swinging For Dummies IX - Sexy Vacations from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Vacations. Aren't they great? But you know what's better? SEXY VACATIONS. The kind where you can be naked and flirt all day and have sex all night. Or maybe you decide on an afternoon delight. O...

SS 208: Evolution - The Porn Industry and from Performer to Educator with jessica drake from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 207: Ejaculating Dildos & Simulacrum Genitals with Stephanie Berman from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Way back in 2011 Life on the Swingset issued a pleasure quest. Find a quality ejaculating dildo. Over the years, we did NOT find quality dildos, we DID find Listen

SS 206: Swinging For Dummies VIII: Full Swap & Soft Swap from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We're back with more Swinging basics in our Swinging for Dummies series! Full Swap and Soft Swap are the two main classifications of swinging, with full swap including traditio...

SS 205: Gang Bang the VoiceMailbag from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 204: Figuring Out What You Want and How to Ask For It - Live at CatalystCon East 2015 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

So many people don’t know what they want or need sexually. Discovering those wants and needs can be a difficult process without some sexual sherpa to guide them. Then they need to be able to tur...

SS 203: A New Beginning - Loin on the Swineset, The Bedcast from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Hazy insanity, that is all.

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SS 202: Finding and Creating Sex-Positive Community with Dr. Dick from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Humans have been having sex since the beginning of t...

SS 201: Girl on Girl - Girl Sex 101 with Allison Moon from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Girl on girl...the mythology and visual ecstasy live large from Spring Break to Bourbon Street. Girl on girl sex is worthy of being epic. And certainly deserves more respect than main stream cul...

SS 200: Monogamish Life - Exploring New Frontiers With Dan Savage from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In two hundred episodes of Life on the Swingset, the podca...

SS 199: Reinventing Relationships with Magnus Sullivan, Writer/Producer of Marriage 2.0 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

SS 198: Blowjobs, Cunnilingus, and Educational Porn with Sophie Delancey from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 197: Sexual Expression and Art with Guest Rachel Lark from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 196: Bacchanalia Basics at The Tool Shed in Milwaukee, WI from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper, Dylan, and Miko return to Milwaukee, Wisconsin's w...

SS 195: Swinging For Dummies VII: Threesomes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 194: Orgasms, Sexuality & Depression - #OrgasmQuest with guest Crista Anne from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The Swingset welcomes back Listen

SS 193: Gang Bang the Mailbag 19 - Broken Rules, Multiple Male Orgasms, "My Teenager Knows" and Dan Savage from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Our mailbag, full of p...

SS 192: Gang Bang The Mailbag 18 - Dirty Talk, A Cyber Sex Orgy, Male Multiple Orgasms, and Does Poly Work? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

It's a new year and there are new questions in the...

SS 191: My Life on the Swingset - Ginger Sits Down With Cooper to Talk About The Book Launch from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ginger sits down with Cooper for a one-on-one disc...

SS 190: Consent is Emotional Lube from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Consent shouldn't be something we have to teach, It's the simplest thing in the world, ask before you touch. But beyond that, consent is involved in so many aspects of our non-monogamous lives, ...

SS 189: Another Year on the Swingset - 2014, the Year That Was from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We look back at 2014, what was a year of aggressive ...

SS 188: Ghosts of Non-Monogamy Past - A Swingset Holiday Special from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In an episode that has been attempted every year sin...

SS 187: Good Men Everywhere from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 186: Women, Sex, and Shame, with Elle Chase from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

When the topic of sexual shame comes up, nowhere is it greater than the institutionalized shame heaped upon the women of the world, asked to be both hypersexual and aesexual simultaneously. Toni...

SS 185: Swingin' Around the Swingset - Recorded Live at Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Heidi and Danny from the Swingin' Around podcast take Cooper aside for a little chat in the heart of paradise and discuss their experiences during th...

SS 184: Ending the Sexual Dark Age with the Swingset at Desire Resort & Spa from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We took time out of our very hard and busy work schedules in Desire to record a discussion with JV and Shara of Ending the Sexual Dark Age as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, We d...

SS 183: A Swinging Vacation - Live from Desire Resort & Spa - Life on the Swingset from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ginger, Professor, Miko, Ronin, Ophilia, and Cooper are out of the office this week. They've jet off to paradise in Mexico at Desire Resort and Spa for the third annual Life on the Swingset Take...

SS 182: The Worst Sex Toys in the World!!! with Crista Anne and the Redhead Beadhead from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We've talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tr...

SS 181: Swinging & Polyamory on a Budget - How to Enjoy Your Fabulous Lifestyle For Very Little from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We at the Swingset are not wealthy. Despite what some may think, we don't make a fabulous living delivering a free podcast to you folks week after week. Despite that, though, we can afford to go...

SS 180: Gang Bang The Mailbag 17 - Surprise Swinging, Silicone v. Silicone, Jealousy x 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 179: Gang Bang the Mailbag 16 - Unprotected Sex, Lies, Coming Out As Poly and more! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 178: A Swinging Primer with Cooper Beckett - Live at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper super-sizes his Swinging Primer, as you do when you're teaching in LA. 

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"Cooper Beckett, from the podcast Life on the Swingset, takes you through...

SS 177: Erotica - Writing, Reading, Tweeting, Living It with Guest Rachel Kramer Bussel from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Tonight we discuss erotica, writing it, reading it...

SS 176: In Bed With The Semi-Nude Swingset from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

There is much to say about this recording. And also very little. You see it sits in a portion of our minds, like it sits behind a drop of water, but who are we kidding, it sits behind drink. The...

SS 175: Hump & Circumstance - Talking Group Sex - Live At CatalystCon West from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 174: Bacchanalia Basics: It’s Play Party Time! – Live At CatalystCon West from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Life on the Swingset returns to CatalystCon West for a panel discussion about throwing and attending a play party.

They’re whispered about, opinions are drawn, expectations are high for b...

SS 173: Swinging With Scars - Body Image & Identity After Major Life Changes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Emotional scars, physical scars, both can wreak ha...

SS 172: Organizing & Travelling with Sex Toys - What To Do With Our Dildos, Vibrators, Lube, Rope, Floggers, & Other Fun Things from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The two most non-"how do I start swinging" questions we get on the Swingset is how do you organize your sex toys and how do you travel with sex toy, so we go in depth with advice and suggestions...

SS 171: Coming Out Kinky with Guest Jean Franzblau from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the...

SS 170: The Messiness of Speaking Out About Sex and CatalystCon with Guest Dee Dennis from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

After the explosive finale of last March's CatalystCon East, we bring Dee Dennis back on the show to discuss how hard it often is to get a dialog going about sex without having dissent everywher...

SS 169: Full Swap - Swingset's Partners Take Over The Show from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

It's bizarro world and Life on the Swingset is going FULL SWAP. The Professor hosts this round table discussion featuring the partners of the Swingset, Ophilia Tesla, Tonia Thomas, and Ronin Tec...

SS 168: We Are All In Charge in the Swinging Lifestyle from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We're all evangelists for our lifestyles. We're not trying to convince people to try it out, we're there to offer our own experiences, to story tell, to educate when people ask for more informat...

SS 167: Talking Dirty - Turning Your Filthy Thoughts Into Naughty Words from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

A couple months ago we tackled the topic of flirting, and how it's rather essential to sexy interaction, rather exponentially expanded for non-monogamy. Tonight on Life on the Swingset: The Podc...

SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 - Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Another day, another gang bang of the old (and now thoroughly satisfied) mailbag. 

We get a response from a listener about our DP episode, as well as an eye opening picture (which we refu...

SS 165: Gang Bang The Mailbag 14 - Swinging & Fairness, Fluid Bonding, & Oral Herpes Disclosure from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We're back, and we gang bang the ever willing mailbag fillled with your questions!

We talk about chasing the white whale, a potential fluid bonding statute of limitations, cold sores (hsv...

SS 164: Getting Naked on Camera: Taking Nude Pictures with Guest Elle Chase (Lady Cheeky) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In many ways, swinging is a lot like regular online dating, searching through profiles, reaching out via email. In one way, it's not so much. Naked pictures. Oh, sure, regular online dating invo...

SS 163: Swinging For Dummies VI: The First Date from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Tonight on Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, we’re going back to basics for another episode of Swinging For Dummies.

In the series thus far we’ve talked about realizing you’re interested...

SS 162: Don't Forget To Buckle Your Condom - Eroticizing Barriers from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We're all well aware of the risks inherent with sex, and we don't always like to use those barriers that keep us safe. From gloves and dental dams to the almighty condom, eroticizing barriers is...

SS 161: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Here at Life on the Swingset we've had our own little sexual evolutions and those evolutions haven't gone unnoticed. Today, JV and Shara from the Ending t...

SS 160: Fumbling Toward Non-Monogamy With Guest Marcia Baczynski from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

I has been a while since anyone here on the Swingset could consider themselves "new to this" but it behooves us to every once in a while put ourselves back into that new and nervous state, where...

SS 159: Flirting! with Reid Mihalko from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Flirting is perhaps the most important aspect of beginning any romantic and sexual relationship. As Swingers you really need to be on top of your flirting. Since we meet so many people in non-mo...

SS 158: A Primer On Swinging by Cooper Beckett at The Pleasure Chest Chicago from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cooper does a one man show Primer on Swinging recorded live at The Pleasure Chest in Chicago. All audience questions have been replace...

SS 157: Sex Education for College Students with Megan Andelloux from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 156: The Single Male Swinger - Messing With The Bull from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We still tend to treat the single male swinger as a problem, a pariah, when we host parties we wonder how to limit unpartnered male responses, we tense up at larger events where the male to fema...

SS 155: Handjobs & Fingering - This Week We're Strokin' Penises & Vulvas from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 154: Gang Bang The Mailbag 13 - Erection Issues, Swinging Cliques & Gossip, & Body Types at Swing Clubs from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 153: Gang Bang The Mailbag 12 - Black Rings, Herpes, Pre-Judgement, and Swinging as a Single Male from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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SS 152: DP, DVP, and DAP - The Double Penetration Spectacular from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

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