Podcasts by Love is like a plant
If love is like a plant, how can we help it grow? Love is like a plant is a podcast about relationships, dating, sex and heartbreak hosted by Ellen Huerta, founder of Mend (letsmend.com), an app that helps you through a break up, and Sarah May B,(YayWithMe.com) the podcaster behind Help Me Be Me and The Break-Up Album.
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LILAP Insecurities In Relationships from 2021-06-09T18:26:27
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer a listener request - how to deal with insecurities in relationships. We were both recording from home during lockdown, so apologies in advance for the sou...
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LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 3: We Answer Your Last Batch Of Questions! from 2020-10-22T12:09:02
We hope you all are doing well. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer the last batch of LILAP listener questions that were sent in this spring. We were both recording from home during lockdown...
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LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 2: We Answer More Of Your Questions! from 2020-06-24T09:02:25
We hope you all are doing well. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer more LILAP listener questions. Wishing you all well this summer and sending our love - stay safe and healthy!
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LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 1: We Answer Your Questions! from 2020-05-26T12:08:36
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer LILAP listener questions on breakups, boundaries, relationships, roommate troubles & dating.
In this episode we mentioned the Red Flags episode: ...
Coronavirus Episode: Dealing With Uncertainty During Lockdown from 2020-05-13T12:47:30
In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, Elle and Sarah May share some of their favorite resources for dealing with the difficulty and uncertainty of the current situation. If you like this podcast...
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Coronavirus Episode: Being Single During Lockdown from 2020-04-06T17:49:47
In this episode, Elle and Sarah May talk about how to stay sane if you're on lockdown by yourself and how to mend if you're going through a breakup during this pandemic. They'll also be recording a...
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How To Have A Healthy Long Distance Relationship from 2019-12-13T12:01:29
Welcome to our last episode of 2019!
In this episode, we offered a response to a LILAP listener's question about how to have a healthy long-distance relationship, one where you're not cli...
The Pros & Cons Of Dating Someone Older from 2019-10-18T14:12:10
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about dating someone who's older. Are there benefits to dating someone who's a few or more years older? Is the older dating pool better or worse fo...
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What To Do If You're Overprotective Or Jealous When It Comes To Exes from 2019-09-13T21:34:59
Exes can be a point of stress for a lot of couples, and social media doesn't make it any easier...In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah talk about how to deal with your partner's exes (or your e...
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Should You Stay Or Should You Go? How To Know If A Relationship Is Right from 2019-08-07T08:56:33
We're back from our seasonal break with a whole new set of episodes! Today's episode is all about relationship happiness and how to know whether you're with the right person. We talk about staying ...
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Is Social Media Affecting Your Love Life? from 2019-03-22T16:17:24
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about the way social media can affect relationships and why it may be a good idea to detox from social media. They also share some advice on how to...
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Sex With Your Ex: Why We Do It & How To Recover from 2019-03-05T01:09:28
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May tackle a very popular topic: sex with an ex. Why do we hook up with our exes? How can we recover if we're post-sex with an ex and not feeling great abou...
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The Valentine's Day Episode: How To Enjoy V-Day Even If You're Single from 2019-01-31T17:13:53
Happy Valentine's Day! In this episode, Elle and Sarah talk about Valentine's Day, why it's a charged holiday and how to enjoy it even if you're not one part of a couple.
Elle is offering ...
Setting Yourself Up For Happiness In The New Year from 2019-01-12T05:46:55
Happy New Year everyone! In this episode of LILAP, Sarah and Elle share their own personal resolutions and how they like to kick off the new year. They also talk about the power of manifestation an...
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What To Do When Your Breakup Is Dragging Out from 2018-12-01T01:48:57
In this listener requested episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about what to do when a breakup drags out and why we so often avoid a clean break even when we know it's the right thing.
A Positive Outlook: How Your Partner's Mindset Can Affect You & Your Relationship from 2018-10-31T18:26:42
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle talk about positive outlooks vs negative outlooks and why mindset is an important thing to think about when it comes to your own relationships. If you like this ...
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Making It Official: When & How To Define The Relationship (DTR) from 2018-10-11T20:30:44
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle share their own experiences of making things official, and how to navigate the conversation even if you're scared of the outcome.
Elle is offering a spe...
Don't Settle: Why You Shouldn't Settle In A Relationship from 2018-08-24T17:15:51
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about settling: why you shouldn't settle in a relationship & how to identify if you are settling (and then what to do about it!).
If you ...
MICROCHEATING! What is it & how to deal if it happens to you from 2018-08-17T23:14:18
Today we talk about what it means to "microcheat" and how to deal with it if it comes up in your own relationships.
Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILA...
Dating: Our Approach To Dating & What To Look For In A Partner from 2018-05-30T03:14:48
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about their own approaches to dating as a way of answering the common question, "What should I look for in a partner?"
If you like this ep...
What To Do When Your Partner Breaks Up With You To Focus On Work/School/_______ from 2018-04-07T00:17:39
Has someone ever told you..."I just need to really focus on myself/my
career/school/_____" as a reason for not moving forward in a relationship? We call this "getting their house in order" and...
Post-Breakup Shame: What To Do If You Feel Embarrassed After Your Breakup from 2018-03-22T22:34:10
Post-breakup shame is normal - know that you're not alone if you feel that sting. If you're feeling ashamed or embarrassed after your breakup, this episode will help you move through those feelings...
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Our Self Care Routines & How To Make Self Care A Daily Practice from 2018-02-26T20:51:25
Self care is IN, and for good reason. Elle and Sarah May share how they're practicing self care at the moment and how you can take care of yourself even if you feel like you don't have the time.
Breakups: Is It Harder To Leave Or To Be Left? from 2017-12-12T02:07:13
Love Is Like A Plant is back! We were on hiatus this fall while Sarah welcomed a new human into her life, but we are excited to be back with today's episode where we ask the question: Is it harder ...
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What To Do If You're Blaming Yourself For Your Break Up from 2017-07-26T01:23:12
Self blame is a painful reality for most people after heartbreak. In today's episode, Elle and Sarah May talk about how to let go of feeling responsible for your breakup. If you like this episode, ...
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What Toxic Habits You Should Avoid In Relationships from 2017-06-13T18:24
In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, Elle and Sarah May talk about things to avoid if you want to improve the health of your relationship. If you like this podcast, be sure to subscribe, share ...
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When + How To Let Go Of A Relationship That Isn't Right from 2017-04-27T03:14:35
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about how to let go, even, and especially, when it hurts.
If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave a review on iT...
Breakups: How To Get Through Your First Major Heartbreak from 2017-04-27T03:10:43
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about first heartbreak and why they say "the first cut is the deepest." They also give tips for how to deal, if you're experiencing your first majo...
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Happy New Year! Elle & Sarah May Share Their New Year's Rituals from 2017-01-04T00:14:16
Happy New Year from Elle and Sarah May!! In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, they share their New Year's rituals and how to start the year in a way that nourishes you.
If you like LIL...
Holiday Loneliness: How To Make It Through The Holidays! from 2016-12-23T23:23:52
This episode of LILAP is for anyone who is feeling a little lonely during the holidays this year. Elle and Sarah May talk about what to do if you're solo this year, and how to thrive during the hol...
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Red Flags: What To Look For + What To Avoid When You're Dating from 2016-10-14T17:33:21
Do you pay attention to red flags in relationships? Elle and Sarah May share their top red flags and what to do when they happen with someone you're seeing.
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Do You Stay In Relationships Because You're Scared Of Being Alone? from 2016-09-23T18:02:59
Does the thought of breaking up with your S.O. send you in a panic even if you're not sure they're the right person? Are you stuck in a mediocre relationship because you would rather not be alone? ...
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Why We Ghost People + What To Do If You've Been Ghosted from 2016-09-09T16:42:38
This week Sarah May and Elle talk about how to deal with GHOSTING, "the act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date." (Thanks, urbandi...
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What To Do When Your Partner Won't Change from 2016-08-26T18:34:01
This week Sarah May and Elle discuss what to do when your partner won't change, and a few tips to make difficult conversations easier.
If you like this episode be sure to subscribe and sh...
Soul Mates: Should You Hold Out To Meet Your Soul Mate? from 2016-08-12T18:32:19
Do you believe in soul mates? Should you wait until you find the perfect one? What if you aren't sure? These are the questions Sarah May and Elle answer in this episode on soul mates.
If ...
Fight Fair: What You Should Know About Fighting With Your S.O. from 2016-07-28T17:42:48
Fighting is inevitable in relationships, but healthy fighting is something that can take practice. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle share their top tips for resolving conflict and making it thro...
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What To Do When Someone Tells You They Don't Love You Anymore from 2016-07-22T22:21:46
It happens: people fall out of love. So what happens next? How can you put yourself back together if someone tells you they don't love you, but you still love them? And if this happens in committed...
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On-Again, Off-Again: What to Do When Someone Says They Want A Break from 2016-07-15T16:05:02
Why are on-again off-again relationships so common? And what should you do if your partner wants to take a break? Elle and Sarah May discuss in this week's episode of LILAP. If you like this episod...
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How To Keep It Fresh: Can A Relationship Be Too Intimate? from 2016-06-21T23:36:08
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about how to keep things interesting in a relationship, and whether or not there is such a thing as being "too intimate."
If you like thi...
Being Single: Why It Doesn't Suck + What To Do When It Hurts from 2016-06-10T23:20:51
We know it can be an eye-rolling moment when someone says being single is awesome, but the truth is: sometimes is really is awesome. Sometimes it's not awesome. In this episode of LILAP, Elle and S...
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The Ex Episode: How to Get Your Ex Back from 2016-06-03T19:55
This week's episode is dedicated to anyone who has ever Googled "how to get my ex back." In The Ex Episode we talk about getting back together with exes, whether exes can be friends and what to do ...
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How to Talk About Boundaries In A Relationship + What To Do When You Don't Agree from 2016-05-20T21:15:38
In this week's episode, we are talking about why boundaries are important in relationships and what to do when your ideas of what's OK/what's not OK in a relationship don't align. We also share the...
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Marriage Part Deux: Why Do People Get Married + What If One Person Doesn't Want To? from 2016-05-13T15:57:43
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle talk about marriage: why is one of them married and the other isn't? Why do people get married? And is it a deal breaker if someone doesn't want to get married?<...
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What To Do When You Feel Jealous In Relationships + Breakups from 2016-05-03T00:00
Being jealous in a relationship or after a breakup is its own form of torture, so how do you stop if you're totally obsessed? In this episode Ellen Huerta (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (helpmebem...
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Commitment Issues: What to Do If Someone Won't Commit from 2016-04-29T16:00:03
What should you do if someone won't commit? In this episode of Love is like a plant, Ellen Huerta (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (helpmebeme.com) talk about commitment - why people are afraid of i...
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Cheating: Why It Happens + What To Do About It from 2016-04-20T17:20:14
Cheating is one of the most painful things, yet it happens all the time. In this episode, Ellen Huerta (of letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (of Help Me Be Me)talk about why people cheat and what to d...
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Marriage Part 1: Are Polyamory and Serial Monogamy Replacing Marriage? from 2016-04-15T16:36:34
What is the state of relationships in 2016? Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about the changing nature of marriage and relationships,...
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3 Tips For Dating + Finding Love In The Age Of Tinder from 2016-04-06T00:00
How have dating apps affected love and romance? Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about how they found love through dating apps, plus ...
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Together but Alone: How to Love Someone and Not Lose Yourself from 2016-04-01T00:00
In this episode of Love is like a plant, Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about how to find balance between love and life. How can we...
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Introducing: Love is Like a Plant from 2016-02-12T00:00
Inspired by the famous John Lennon & Yoko Ono interview on love, hosts Ellen Huerta and Sarah May B. answer the question “If love is like a plant, how do we keep it alive?” Whether you’re heartbrok...
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