Podcasts by Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): If He Pulls Away, This Will Make Him Chase You from 2022-10-17T18:36

What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common...

(Rewind): If You Want To Heal Your Heartbreak, Listen To This... from 2022-10-14T13:54

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch for you today.

It could be the pain of havin...

186: How To Overcome Anxiety About Your Biological Clock When Dating from 2022-10-12T08:30

Do you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock?

It’s common for our desires for the future to bring up all kinds of anxieties in dat...

(Matt Monday): Why He's Not Giving You the Respect You Deserve from 2022-10-10T18:50

Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . .

If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore ...

(Rewind): How To Know And Communicate Your Standards In The Early Dating Stage from 2022-10-07T09:21

If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to help make sense of things.

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185: Why Aren’t You More Attracted To Him? + What Makes Bad Boys Sexy from 2022-10-05T09:38

There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy.

It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this e...

(Matt Monday): If He's Sending Mixed Signals, Text Him THIS from 2022-10-03T15:00

Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room?

When you’re together, life couldn’t...

(Rewind): Unrequited Love is Bulls**t! from 2022-09-30T16:00

Yeah, I said it.

Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can'...

184: Are You A Recovering "People Pleaser"? from 2022-09-28T08:30

“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…”

And you answered!

Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how ...

(Matt Monday): The Dangerous “High Value” Guy You Should Avoid from 2022-09-26T16:22:05

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?

Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s the...

(Rewind): Full of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This... from 2022-09-23T16:27:19

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?

Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have...

183: Is He Losing Interest Or Is He Just Comfortable? from 2022-09-21T08:30:08

How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to...

(Matt Monday): How to Be Confident When You DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE from 2022-09-19T14:16:02

If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonu...

(Rewind): Was Breaking Up With Him The Right Decision? from 2022-09-16T12:18:27

You decided it’s time to break up.

And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.

You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistak...

182: How To Leave A Narcissist from 2022-09-14T10:18:50

What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?

It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for.

But what about ...

(Matt Monday): Is the Person You’re Dating a Narcissist? from 2022-09-12T13:31:40

I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time ...

(Rewind): Don’t Settle For Less. Settle On What You Want from 2022-09-09T12:20:19

There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad...

181: How To Deal With The Pain Of Not Getting Closure from 2022-09-07T14:51:17

When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why?

What does it mean to get “closure” in dating?

As humans we put a lot of emphasis on...

(Matt Monday): 8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Him on a Date from 2022-09-05T14:40:55

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?

The #1 way to separate...

(Rewind): Not Where You Want To Be By Now? Watch This... from 2022-09-02T16:56:47

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.

But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the...

180: The Dangers Of Dating Someone High Status from 2022-08-31T14:31:24

It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues that need to be resolved. But how much shou...

(Matt Monday): Man Humbles Room Full of Women . . . And It Was Me?? from 2022-08-29T13:48:07

Who pays on a first date?

Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral.

Millions of people watched and reposted it (wikiHow even used i...

(Rewind): How To Express Your Needs In Early Dating from 2022-08-26T10:49:11

In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it.

This is a very human experience felt by men an...

179: Men Reveal TRUTH About Why They Stay Single from 2022-08-24T11:25:21

We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about whether...

(Matt Monday): 3 Brutally Honest Reasons Men Don't Commit from 2022-08-22T16:12:25

Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment?

You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork...

(Rewind): Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention from 2022-08-19T14:02:04

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...

What's up w...

178: What It REALLY Takes To Start Over In Love from 2022-08-17T06:09:50

One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.

But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's ove...

(Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE from 2022-08-15T17:27:59

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .

A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the...

(Rewind) Transform Your Present Pain Into Personal Power from 2022-08-12T15:09:28

It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to def...

177: Think You Have A "Dating Type"? Here's Why That Might Be A Problem from 2022-08-10T14:37:49

Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?

It's easy for us to look at the past...

(Matt Monday): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY from 2022-08-08T14:36:37

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . Tha...

(Rewind): How To Get A Guy To Like You: Learn these 2 simple words... from 2022-08-05T17:23:15

You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say:

“Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one g...

176: How To Stop Fear Of Abandonment Ruining Your Relationship from 2022-08-03T17:56:45

Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment.

When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argu...

(Matt Monday): 13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You from 2022-08-01T14:17:12

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points ...

(Rewind): Does He Like Me? 7 Surprising Signs He Does from 2022-07-29T15:21

You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!”

It’s annoying, right?

Especially if t...

175: How To Get Over Someone You Can't Get Over from 2022-07-27T13:04:30

If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because ...

(Matt Monday): Keep Ending Up in Toxic Relationships?? WATCH THIS from 2022-07-25T21:52:28

Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting:

. . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable?

. . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships...

(Rewind): How to Make Sure It's More Than Just a Casual Hookup from 2022-07-22T16:28:46

When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to prog...

174: 3 Big Mistakes That Stop You Getting To Commitment from 2022-07-20T15:29:35

Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market ent...

(Matt Monday): What Makes a Man Suddenly Commit? from 2022-07-18T12:06:15

Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce...

(Rewind): 7 Confidence Secrets That Make You More Attractive from 2022-07-15T07:52:56

Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If ...

173: Are These The 7 Essential Questions To Ask Your Partner?? from 2022-07-13T17:22:15

We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The...

(Matt Monday): Freaking Out About Still Being Single?? from 2022-07-11T13:25:01

I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:

“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. ...

(Rewind): Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Listen To This... from 2022-07-08T10:27:07

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that...

172: Dealing With Attachment Styles + Will They Ever Change? from 2022-07-06T10:58:24

It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the...

(Matt Monday): 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating from 2022-07-04T11:30:07

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?

Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to ...

(Rewind): Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated? from 2022-07-01T08:56:32

If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do.

May my voice of reason forever hau...

171: “He’s Great On Dates But NEVER Texts” from 2022-06-29T12:39:47

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared...

(Matt Monday): Will Your Relationship Fail? 3 Questions To Find Out from 2022-06-27T15:11:46

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.

I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leav...

(Rewind): How To Take Back Your Power When We Won't Commit from 2022-06-24T12:10:24

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck...

170: What The Hell Is "The Ick" (And Why Does It End Relationships)? from 2022-06-22T12:10:41

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. 

Or you've been together for 6 months, and you...

(Matt Monday): Scared of Him Losing Interest After Sleeping Together? WATCH THIS from 2022-06-20T15:16:28

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SO...

(Rewind): Are You Being Gaslighted? 3 Ways To Know from 2022-06-17T16:16:03

If you've ever expressed your needs to
someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you.

It's a horrible...

(Matt Monday): Where Can You Meet HIGH-VALUE Men? from 2022-06-13T15:37:02

“Where can I meet quality men?”

I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.

Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, ma...

(Rewind): 5 First Date Tips That Make Him Want You More from 2022-06-10T13:28:46

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?

Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug?

169: How Your “North Star” Can Help You Find the Right Person from 2022-06-08T20:35

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about ...

(Matt Monday): The Grand Gesture That's Actually a RED FLAG in Early Dating from 2022-06-06T19:23:10

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight.

But there are ways to appr...

(Rewind): The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like... from 2022-06-03T09:37:01

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you...

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168: The BIGGEST Male Insecurities in Dating Revealed… from 2022-06-01T09:47:35

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities an...

(Matt Monday): Men Reveal Their Deepest Dating Insecurities from 2022-05-30T08:37:14

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because...

(Rewind): If You’ve Ever Been Ghosted or Lied To, Watch This from 2022-05-27T09:07:06

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence...

167: Why You Choose the Wrong Partner from 2022-05-25T12:06:28

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?

Join Matt and Stephen to talk about ...

(Matt Monday): 3 Secrets to Being Unforgettable on a Date from 2022-05-23T10:09:55

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as y...

(Rewind): Why You’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want You from 2022-05-20T08:38:24

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?

Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we...

166: Are Men Less Attracted to “Intimidating Women”? from 2022-05-18T12:56:05

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”

But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income...

(Rewind): How to Combat Imposter Syndrome in Real Life from 2022-05-13T08:58:34

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?

This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can...

165: How “Sexual Expectations” Affect Your Relationship’s Potential... from 2022-05-11T08:20:47

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.

There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from ...

(Matt Monday): The “No Contact Rule” Explained from 2022-05-09T08:55:16

When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.

Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a lo...

(Rewind): Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt from 2022-05-06T09:56:56

Has this ever happened to you?

You’re on a first date... and...

He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…

But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask fo...

164: "He STILL Won't Commit to Me! Should I Cut Him Off?!" from 2022-05-04T08:26:27

What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?

In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was stru...

(Matt Monday): “Bad Texter” or Just Not That Into You? from 2022-05-02T08:50:29

Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.

But what about when the texting on their end is . . ....

(Rewind): Toxic Codependency or Healthy Closeness? How to Tell the Difference from 2022-04-29T08:48:22

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?

Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much at...

163: "I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG People!" from 2022-04-27T07:26:25

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over...

(Matt Monday): "He Ghosted Me But Still Watches My Social Media... WTF?" from 2022-04-25T08:47:58

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.

Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and...

(Rewind): Don't Get Into A Relationship With Someone Who Has This Trait from 2022-04-22T08:45:59

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relati...

162: Why "Single-Shaming" Is Dumb (And How To Resist It) from 2022-04-20T09:00:06

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.

And this leads to all kinds of judgmen...

(Matt Monday): Why Did He Stop Chasing You? from 2022-04-18T09:56:39

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.

These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a s...

(Rewind): Unsure If The Person You're Dating Is Right For You? Listen To THIS from 2022-04-15T14:06:44

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.

Whether you want to sto...

161: "How to Get Over "The One" Who Got Away" from 2022-04-13T07:42:18

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"

What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"

Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them be...

(Matt Monday): How to Tell If a Guy Is Love Bombing You (3 Ways to Find Out) from 2022-04-11T16:42:37

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(Rewind): Being Single Does NOT Mean You're A Failure from 2022-04-08T18:52:59

Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"

Tired of society d...

160: Answering *YOUR* Biggest Questions About "Microdosing" In Dating from 2022-04-06T13:23:48

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?

Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?

(Matt Monday): Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Listen To This... from 2022-04-04T16:29:19

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?

Whether it’s due to:

• A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier

(Rewind): "No Matter What I Do I Can't Get Over Them. PLEASE HELP!" from 2022-04-01T09:00

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start...

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159: Everything You Know About Happiness Is Wrong from 2022-03-30T17:30:37

Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier.

We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this.

We tell ourselves that once we ...

(Rewind): Listen To This BEFORE Sleeping With Them... from 2022-03-25T23:34:36

In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn:

• The Listen

158: Men Find THESE Things Irresistible in Women from 2022-03-23T23:53:22

Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating.

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157: How To Keep Desire With Someone You're Dating from 2022-03-17T15:26:56

Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on ...

156: Should You Settle In Love? from 2022-03-12T05:49:01

In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation.

The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relati...

155: THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's thoughts on being engaged) from 2022-03-04T18:27:05

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

• When to be picky vs. w...
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THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's thoughts on being engaged) from 2022-03-03T03:28:56

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental?

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

• When to be pick...
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154: 7 Ways to Quit Dating Apps and Have Guys Approach You FOR REAL! from 2022-02-24T15:59:49

Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy?

Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE?

Here are 7 elegant an...

153: 11 Signs He's Serious About You from 2022-02-17T02:05

So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! 

And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you?

Matt explains that 11 be...

152: What Gets Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating from 2022-02-11T04:52:34

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone...

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151: Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested from 2022-02-03T15:57:56

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone.

Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like a...

150: Don't Fight For His Attention, Do These 5 Things Instead... from 2022-01-26T13:49:11

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*

Instead of focusing on short-term attention, ...

149: 4 Questions To Ask Yourself BEFORE You Decide He’s “The One” from 2022-01-18T08:00

Does "The One" exist?

Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts.

There may not be on...

148: The Truth About Modern Men And Casual Sex from 2022-01-13T11:36:40

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations.

This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal?

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk:<...

147: What Guys Really Think About Your Insecurity from 2022-01-05T23:27:04

Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. 

We discuss what really kills attraction, who ...

146: 3 Easy Ways To Become MORE Attractive from 2021-12-29T23:45:19

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1?

In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personalit...

145: Why People Disappear When You Show Interest from 2021-12-22T23:33:13

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?"

Has this ever happened to you?

Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off a...

144: How To Tell If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist... from 2021-12-16T11:29:58

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look fo...

143: Why Our Romantic Partners Annoy Us So Much... from 2021-12-08T22:15:46

A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?"

Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss:

- Top most annoying habits in relationships

142: The Aftermath of a Love Bomb from 2021-12-01T18:20:01

Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest...

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141: BIGGEST Red Flags and Our Relationship Deal-Breakers from 2021-11-24T16:56:47

It's RED FLAG season!

The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. d...

140: Men Vs. Women: Who Gets Over Breakups Faster? (+ The New Metaverse of Dating!) from 2021-11-17T16:17:24

Matt and Steve talk about:

- Breakups and how long it takes to move on

- Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women 

- The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make i...

139: Getting Over Your Biggest Regrets + What Causes More Divorce? (Online vs. Real Life) from 2021-11-10T17:01:11

Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about:

- Whether you should have regrets

- What kind of mistakes we regret the most

- Getting over your screw ups

- Online vs. Rea...

138: Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities from 2021-11-03T22:46:02

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

- Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game

- How to escape the trap of comparison

- The value vs. the dan...

137: Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship from 2021-10-22T23:32:34

Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship.

We discuss:

• Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo?
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136: Why Modern Men Become Simps (Failed Dating Strategy or Sexual Kink?) from 2021-10-15T00:13:39

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps".

We discuss:

- What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp"

- How we should feel about men who d...

135: Confessions Of A Reluctant Ghoster (Have You Done It?) from 2021-10-06T21:39:55

Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators...

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134: What Trauma Does To Your Relationships + Healing Your Emotional Wounds from 2021-09-29T02:40:07

Matt and Steve sit down to talk:

• Where trauma and bad beliefs come from
• The effect of trauma on romantic relationships
• Getting over pain and changing emotional ass...
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133: What If He Changes For Someone Else? from 2021-09-17T05:36:32

It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" ve...

132: What You Lose With "Backburner Relationships" from 2021-09-10T20:10:15

Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship".

In this episode Matt and Steve talk about:

- What defines a backbur...

131: Don't Make This Common First-Date Mistake from 2021-09-05T13:17:08

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him?

Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with some...

130: What REALLY Gets You A Second Date... from 2021-08-30T03:37:24

Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection...

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129: Matt's Challenge From Hell (And What He Learned...) from 2021-08-20T16:55:32

Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge.

It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you...

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128: How to Respond When You Embarrass Yourself... from 2021-08-15T14:17:18

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127: Sex Life Part Two: Choosing between romantic partners + the danger of wanting to heal your partner's trauma from 2021-08-09T01:44:10

Matt and Steve talk about: 

- Sex Life (again!)

- The fantasy of choosing between two different partners

- The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma

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126: When To Quit A Relationship + What We Can Learn From The Dark Side of Anthony Bourdain from 2021-07-31T12:56:49

Matt and Steve sit down to discuss:

- Why we stay in relationships longer than we should

- When we should quit the wrong relationship

- The inspiring and tragic legacy of An...

125: Sex Life, Penis Size, Becoming A Mature Adult from 2021-07-25T11:41:54

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about ex's...

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124: How to Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Destroyed from 2021-07-20T14:17:46

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123: 2021 Half-Time Talk With Matt and Stephen (relationships after covid, dating apps, body confidence, and MORE) from 2021-07-14T09:31:13

The year is half over already...what??

Join us to sit down and chat about:

• Where love is in 2021
• The state of dating apps
• Body image and confidence
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122: To Anyone Feeling Single and Lonely... from 2021-07-09T02:35:34

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121: What Are YOUR Top 2 Non-Negotiables In A Relationship? (w/ Matt and Stephen) from 2021-07-03T03:39:37

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?"

Find out which ones we agree and disagree with!

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120: 5 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating from 2021-06-30T10:21:23

Dating fatigue is real.

Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.

But since science...

119: If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship... from 2021-06-25T19:26:38

Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.”

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118: What's 1 ESSENTIAL quality you look for in a partner? (w/ Matt and Steve) from 2021-06-21T02:08:51

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses!

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