#111: Arousing a Woman: What, Why and How! – Pamela Madsen - a podcast by Shana James: Coach, Speaker, Author

Many men don’t realize the importance of arousal for a woman’s body and psyche. Or they may know about arousal but not understand what to do or how to make it happen. Today’s guest, Pamela Madsen gives you the keys to kingdom, or should I say queendom?! She clarifies what it takes and how to have more pleasure for both you and your partner!







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Show notes







I’ve had conversations with hundreds of men about their sex lives, including topics like what feels scary to talk about, what they want more of, how it feels to ask for what they want…







Women’s arousal is an important part of your sexual satisfaction and may be an even more powerful part of the equation than you realize. 







I have a hypothesis that many men who aren’t satisfied in their sex lives are not arousing women in a way women need. 







Sometimes this comes from not recognizing the differences in how women’s bodies work. Other times there is a belief that arousing a woman feels like work. Sometimes there’s simply a lack of know-how, which can be embarrassing to admit.   







On today’s Man Alive Podcast Pamela Madsen joined me to talk about how you can create more arousal for women and more pleasure for you and your partner. Pamela is a certified Somatic Sex Educator with a Master’s degree in Education. She has coached hundreds of women on their personal journeys back into their bodies and expression of their femininity.







In this conversation we discussed:







* The importance of inviting a woman into longer states of arousal, so you both have more pleasure* How to know whether a woman is enjoying your touch or wants something different* The activation process and why asking for what you want only once may not work* The key to couples getting over petty fights and feeling more connected* A fun way to wake up a bored relationship and reignite the spark







Also keep an eye out for next week’s podcast on Men’s Pleasure. These two episodes are powerful together. If you are in a relationship I highly suggest listening to them together!







Links:







Pamela Madsen







For Men:  3 Ways Men Lose Influence at Work and With Women







For Women: Modern dating doesn’t have to be a nightmare for women







Bio:







Pamela, a certified Somatic Sex Educator with a Master’s degree in Education has coached hundreds of women on their own personal journey back into their bodies, and their own expression of their Divine Feminine. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and renowned blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, The Fertility Advocate, and Care2.







She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on 60 Minutes, Oprah, CNN, AARP Primetime Radio, The Dr. Laura Berman Show, The Jane Pratt Show, and Playboy Radio. As well as countless other media outlets. To learn more about Pamela Madsen please visit her personal website.



























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