#138: Inspire Lust, Trust, and Devotion From a Strong Woman – GS Youngblood - a podcast by Shana James: Coach, Speaker, Author

Strong women are passionate and exciting, but they come with a specific challenge. Men often wonder how to get a strong woman to be more affectionate, soft and sensual! Today’s guest will show you what to do when a strong woman pushes you away, so she’ll want to open up and be close with you!







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Have you ever dated a strong woman, or are you in relationship with one now?







Men often tell me they are drawn to strong women because they are inspiring and full of energy.







But men have also been confused about how to relate and communicate with a woman who is clear about her desires, stands up for herself, is focused on her goals…a powerful woman!!







A powerful woman does NOT have to make you feel less powerful! 







Strong women are focused on getting things done, taking care of others, contributing to the world. But they also want to relax and let go. 







While this type of woman may not show her soft, affectionate parts on the surface, she has them. 







She has the one who gets sh*t done and the one who wants to surrender.







When you understand what helps women relax, they can shift their attention to being connected with you! 







The sad thing is we’ve lost a lot of the wisdom about what helps women relax and feel safe. This has left many men feeling frustrated and even helpless, with women who don’t seem available. 







Today’s Man Alive podcast conversation with GS Youngblood can change all of that. 







GS has been a student and creator in the field of men’s work for 10 years. He brings together principles from a variety of fields including psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation and BDSM.







In our conversation we talked about:







* The challenges men face with strong women* Why men with strong women often hold back in the bedroom and how they can learn to lead* How a man can express anger, shame and hurt without being mean or childish* The signs of a man who is not stepping up in his relationship* How a man can set boundaries in a way that actually makes his woman relax







GS shares, at the beginning of the podcast, that he was a client of mine a decade ago! I highly recommend checking out the wisdom he gained through both his trainings and romantic relationships with strong women!







When you’re done with this one check out another podcast on creating more spark and attraction: How to Get Sexual Consent Without Ruining Attraction, with Michael Ellsberg.







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