Podcasts by Single With Strategy: The Podcast
Inspiring and encouraging millennial women, while challenging them to create more successful societies through family God's way.
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Further podcasts by Rochelle Ham
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How To Maintain Relationships While Dating from 2021-06-16T22:21:16
We are talking about moving in harmony while dating and married. A lot of women are on the quest to find someone but what really needs to be discussed is the maintenance of your dating candidates a...
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How To Date Strategically And Avoid A Poor Dating Investment from 2021-04-29T02:20:46
How To Date Strategically And Avoid A Poor Dating Investment by Rochelle Soyoola
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Acknowledgement Over Internalization from 2021-04-20T17:54:30
So today’s podcast is about Acknowledgement Over Self-Internalization. You guys know that I am heavy on the gram and I find that a lot of the comments I get both positive and negative have a root o...
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5 Ways To Unpack Relationship Baggage from 2021-02-03T15:08:59
So relationship baggage. We all have some version of it, from our childhood upbringing, to our friendships and to today’s topic specifically, our previous relationships. Relationship baggage is som...
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Privilege, Causing Others To Stumble And...Covetousness? from 2020-11-10T14:34:09
Our take on privilege, causing others to stumble and unfortunately, covetousness.
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The 4 Types Of Security A Man Should Provide from 2020-10-27T21:15:30
As women, we want many things when in comes to relationships. But I think that if we stripped away all of the materialistic things and focused on what truly matters, most of the things we truly nee...
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5 Things To Do When Your Relationship Ends from 2020-10-15T22:35:02
Today’s podcast is listener requested.
She asks: “Hey Rochelle, I just got out of a relationship that was supposed to end in marriage. What do I do now?"
3 Ways Purity Culture Has Hurt Christian Women from 2020-09-23T23:46:11
Ro talks about purity culture and the blind spots in these teachings. How the way we deliver these teachings have indirect effects that can prevent us from walking with the Lord, in a more well rou...
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When To Address Conflict In Your Relationship & How from 2020-09-09T15:16:50
Ro answers a listeners request on when to address conflict in relationships and how.
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Year Two Anniversary Podcast from 2020-08-11T13:23:09
Sam and Ro are TWO years old! Married that is. In this podcast, Sam and Ro talk about their marriage and reflect on the hills and valleys of doing life together.
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Why A 50/50 Marriage Won't Work from 2020-07-29T18:44:11
Today's podcast talks about the common misuse of a 50/50 marriage, why it won't work, and what type of marriage will.
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Transformation Takes TIME from 2020-07-09T15:45:03
Transformation Takes TIME by Rochelle Soyoola
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Police Brutality & Riots: Family Empowerment During National Crisis from 2020-06-04T01:31:48
In light of the latest national news of police brutality and riots, Sam and Ro talk about how to prepare spiritually, physically (protection), financially, politically and to the community we are c...
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Married Millennials & Their Single Friends from 2020-05-20T02:44:48
This podcast is listener requested, and Sam and Ro are talking about being married and how that new dynamic impacts your friendships with your single friends.
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The Four Vital C's Of Marriage from 2020-05-05T23:46:05
Sam and Ro discuss The Four Vital C's of Marriage: Consideration, Confession, Commitment and Change.
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Do Opposites Really Attract? Let's Talk Compatibility from 2020-04-28T11:54:08
Sam and Ro talk about their differences in marriage, and how compatibility can be a myth.
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3 Important Marriage Mindsets For The Married Millennial from 2020-04-21T11:07:31
Sam and Ro talk about the three marriage mindsets important to the newly married millennial.
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Why Some Newlyweds Are Disappointed Once Married from 2020-04-14T11:04:05
Ro & Sam talk COVID-19 and share a new perspective on why some newlyweds experience disappointment once married.
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Analysis Paralysis: Pushing Through The Desire For Perfection from 2020-03-03T09:37:07
A new season of MFM Podcasts begins now. Kicking things off with our new podcast called “Analysis Paralysis: Pushing Through The Desire For Perfection”. Sam and Ro talk about something they know al...
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Jesus Is Not Your Boyfriend: It's Okay To Desire Marriage & What To Do When You Do from 2020-01-07T12:40:13
For their first podcast of 2020, Sam and Ro talk about the "Jesus Is Your Boyfriend" culture and how to confidently want singleness to be a short term season.
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Beyond Titus 2 & Proverbs 31 Part 2: Gossiping & The Idleness It Brings from 2019-11-12T05:13:40
Rochelle continues the Beyond Titus 2 & Proverbs 31 podcast series with a topic about gossip and how as wives it leads to idleness. In this podcast, Rochelle shares about how she has gossiped in th...
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Leaving And Cleaving: Siding With Your Spouse & How Millennial Marriages Misinterpret This from 2019-10-29T11:35:06
Sam and Ro talk about how millennials can leave and cleave to God’s truth over their spouses’ emotions.
Topics Addressed:
Pressures of Unison In Marriage
Leaving & Cleavi...
Biblical Womanhood Beyond Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 from 2019-10-15T11:29:26
Rochelle begins a mini series of podcasts that talk about Biblical Womanhood outside of Titus 2 and Proverbs 31. She shares stories in the Bible that help us also see the great women in the Bible a...
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Who's To Blame? Podcast Collaboration w/ Because Marriage Matters from 2019-09-17T10:58:35
NEW PODCAST & IT’S A PODCAST COLLABORATION!
This week we teamed up with Rachel and Austin from Because Marriage Matters to bring you this week’s podcast titled, “Who's To Blame?”
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Get Married They Said (One Year Anniversary Podcast) from 2019-08-20T11:24
1. Friends
-meeting new married couples
-friendships with older couples
-”You can’t be close to me if you don’t accept my whole family, which includes my wife.” -Sam
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Can We Truly Be Friends If We Disagree On Social Issues? from 2019-05-21T11:23:59
Sam and Ro talk about the possibility of cordiality with friends that you disagree with. Topics Include:
1. Yes
2. No
3. Be Careful of Getting The Job of God Wrong
-1...
Quick Thoughts: Raw & UnEdited Kitchen Convos 1 from 2019-04-28T14:18:50
Sam and Ro record their convo yesterday in the kitchen. This is a nonstructural, raw, unedited, more passionate look into what they talk about when no one is listening. A variety of topics are disc...
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Why Are Pastors Afraid Of Their Flock? from 2019-04-23T11:08:41
Sam and Ro discuss flock fear from a member perspective. Topics Include:
Create The Itch, Don’t Scratch It
Scripture vs Your Feelings: “I Feel it in my spirit”
Giving
Uprooting Your Upbringing from 2019-04-17T11:16:49
Sam and Ro discuss uprooting your upbringing. Topics Include:
Who Says Parents Can't Be Critiqued?
Parents Are Key
-honor your parents
-parents lay the foundation
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Contentment Vs. Ambition from 2019-04-02T11:11:33
Sam and Ro discuss contentment vs ambition. Topics Include:
Contentment vs. Happiness
Contentment Is More About Your Heart Than Your Circumstance
Contentment Is Not Void ...
Let's Talk Infidelity from 2019-03-26T12:05:36
Sam and Ro discuss infidelity. Topics Include:
Fornication vs. Adultery
Playing House
Work Spouses
Adult Entertainment
Secret Texting
Intimacy With Your Spouse
Fruitful Over Busy from 2019-02-26T12:31:05
Sam and Ro discuss being fruitful over busy in Christian social influencer culture.
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The Dangers Of Idolizing The Five Love Languages from 2019-01-22T12:37:29
Sam and Ro discuss The Dangers of Idolizing The Five Love Languages. Topics include:
What are the five love languages?
How We Felt About Them Initially/Change of Heart That We Wan...
God Vs. Your Vision Board from 2019-01-08T12:24
Sam and Ro do their first podcast of the year titled “God Vs. Your Vision Board” to kick off 2019. Topics include:
Let Your Yes Be Your Yes & Your No Be Your No
It’s Cut Off Seaso...
Thank U, Next: Are Millennials Truly Satisfied With Casual Dating? from 2018-12-06T13:26:01
Sam and Ro expand on secular song "Thank U, Next" by Ariana Grande
Topics Include:
If You Knew Who You Spouse Would Be From The Beginning of Time, Would You Change Your Past Relat...
The Church Search: Being Selective, Anxiety & Getting Past Church Hurt from 2018-11-28T12:43:53
Sam and Ro discuss the process of choosing a new church. Topics include:
Setting The Foundation of Your Marriage With God
The Church Search: What Should You Know About The Church ...
Leaving And Cleaving Part Two: Friends & Social Groups from 2018-11-07T11:26:16
Sam and Ro continue their leaving and cleaving podcast by discussing how new marriage priorities impact friendships and social groups.
Topics Include:
Is It Necessary For Your Fr...
Leaving & Cleaving: The Feelings No One Talks About from 2018-10-31T11:25:53
Sam and Ro discuss what leaving and cleaving looks like, as well as the feelings that come with starting your own family.
Topics Include:
Symbolism of Marriage for Husband & Wife<...
Who Pays For What, Paying Off Our Home At 26 & Our Debt Free Journey from 2018-10-23T23:31:10
Sam and Ro discuss money, as it is the foundation of many things and can be a sensitive point in marriage if not controlled. They also answer the question they have recently been asked the most: ho...
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Physical Expectations In Marriage? Why Don't Pastors Talk About Gluttony? from 2018-10-11T11:49:39
Check out our new podcast titled: "Physical Expectations In Marriage? Why Don’t Pastor’s Talk About Gluttony?”
Some key points:
God Gives Us Food As A Gift/Pleasure
Why The Ch...
Gender Roles & Grace Within Them from 2018-09-25T18:18:09
Rochelle & Samuel Discuss Gender Roles & Grace
Topics Include:
1. Equal Worth vs. Equal Roles
2. Why Do Women View Family As An Attack on Their Strength
3. Melting Masculi...
Faith, Family, Friends from 2018-09-11T13:03:15
Sam & Ro talk about the structure of God, Family & Friends in your household. Topics include how to create a devotional schedule and pray in front of your spouse, how to establish boundaries in fam...
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Meet The Soyoolas! How To Pronounce Our Last Name & Wedding Recap from 2018-09-04T12:15:49
Sam & Rochelle are back after a short break of wedding planning and getting married.
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Is A Relationship Supposed To Make Me Happy? from 2018-02-14T13:36:37
Happy Valentines Day! If you celebrate it, we hope that you have a great day according to your means, and we hope that you enjoy this podcast.
Topics Include:
1. Contently Pursui...
Engaged! How We Met, Why Sam Asked My Mom To Court Me, Imposter Syndrome & More from 2017-11-21T10:56:10
Sam and Ro announce a new chapter in their lives and what it means for them.
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Marvin Sapp & RKelly, Lecrae & Ty Dolla, Tasha Cobbs & Nicki Minaj? Let's Talk "Gospel" Music from 2017-09-19T11:49:01
Sam and Ro talk about the cross-genre trend in music, specifically the Christian community.
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Traveling While Celibate, Revisited A Year Later from 2017-08-22T12:09:46
About a year ago, I started the MFM Podcast with the debut podcast titled "Traveling While Celibate". Sam and I had just come from Puerto Rico for his 30th birthday and after over 2 years of abstin...
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The Idolization Of Marriage & Social Media Women Ministers from 2017-06-28T19:06:47
Today we’re talking about the idolization of marriage and social media women ministers. I want to talk about this because not only is this something that I have been guilty of in the past, but it i...
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Sanctification Takes Time from 2017-06-06T12:13:29
Sam and Rochelle discuss the topic "Sanctification Takes Time". Bullet points include:
1. Being Overwhelmed By Christian Perfection
-the misconception that becoming saved makes al...
5 Reasons Why Celibacy Is Not Your Ticket To Heaven from 2017-04-18T19:21:04
Today we’re talking about sex. More specifically abstinence and celibacy. I’m pretty excited about this topic, because as a person practicing celibacy until marriage, I feel like this vantage point...
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Beauty, The Beast & The Bible? from 2017-03-23T03:15:47
Today Sam and I discuss the movie Beauty & The Beast, and topics like:
1. How Belle's perfection compares to the highlight reel of social media
2. The Troubles of Flattery
3. Would...
You Don't Always Have To Be The Teacher from 2017-02-21T18:59:44
This week, to continue the eighth installment of the nine part series, we will be talking about pride, biblical womanhood mentorship and how the desire we have to always be the teacher can be probl...
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Blessed Are The Peacemakers from 2017-01-25T13:52:54
Ever feel like you are always the one mending things or being the example for others? Like some of your friendships or relationships wouldn’t be friendships or relationships if you stopped driving ...
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What 2016 Taught Us About Courting Each Other, Feat. My Courtmate from 2017-01-17T14:58:42
Today Sam and I talk about what 2016 has taught us about courting each other.
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False Femininity: Class Does Not Equal Christian from 2017-01-10T20:11:14
Biblically, what does it truly mean to be feminine?
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Having Career Resentment? from 2016-11-23T19:00:43
While the holidays are great times where families get together, it is also the time where families get together, meaning, the time where everyone wants to meddle into your business. Are you dating,...
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New Year, New Standards: The Friendship Low-Down from 2016-11-18T02:59:24
You may be evaluating or re-evaluating your circle of friends, or maybe you’re like I was, just trying to figure out how to tackle the idea of friendship.
This week, I want to talk about w...
Mental Health: Being Open About My Anxiety from 2016-11-03T16:01:05
I hope that you guys have had a great week. This week, I want to talk about needing therapy. This year my mental issues hit me more than ever, and while as I said earlier, the year of 24 was awesom...
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Christian Conflict, I Lied When I Said I Forgave You from 2016-10-20T15:52:12
Christian Conflict, I Lied When I Said I Forgave You by Rochelle Soyoola
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I'm Done Apologizing For Being Christian Around You from 2016-10-13T01:48:10
Okay so If you’ve read any content from MFM lately then you’ll see that my 25th birthday is approaching and it is driving me crazy to say the least. And you know, while I am excited, I’m getting re...
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Being More Of A Servant from 2016-09-29T15:38:54
Besides being a philanthropist, how can we serve God daily in practical ways?
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What I Will Tell My Future Family About Race/Racism from 2016-09-21T19:26:05
Now in light of the recent Tulsa shooting and all of the other shootings that have taken place, I often wonder, what am I going to tell my future family about race? With all of the chaos going on, ...
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Girl. Why The Recipes? from 2016-08-29T18:52:15
This weeks podcast is basically continuing the flow we were on, in regards to the site and why things are the way they are. We’ve talked about family and now I wanted to address the recipes.
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When Is The Right Time For Marriage? from 2016-08-22T19:02:37
Originally I was actually planning on doing another podcast topic today, but a couple days ago, I got a message from someone asking me to give my thoughts on a topic and based on the question, I th...
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Why Marriage:Family Is Important from 2016-08-12T17:10:51
Today I want to talk about why family is important, specifically marriage. What’s the point of it all anyway? When we hear the word “marriage”, specifically when it comes from a woman, we automatic...
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Traveling While Celibate from 2016-07-27T20:49:08
I want to address the elephant in the room when it comes to traveling, fornication. Right?
This is something you’re either great at, failing miserably at, or maybe it’s preventing you from...