Think About Your Safety As Well - a podcast by Maurice Harker

In this insightful podcast episode, Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, present a comprehensive checklist essential for embarking on a successful journey into a new phase of a relationship, referred to as "season one." He emphasizes the importance of these preparatory steps to ensure a healthy and fulfilling transition.

Maurice begins by discussing the significance of reviewing, revising, and recommitted to one's marital mission statement and personal identity statement. He underscores the need for establishing a system to consistently follow through on these critical aspects. The episode encourages listeners to allocate dedicated time for this purpose, treating it as a serious commitment.

Moving on, Maurice explores the concept of adequate healing. He discusses the potential presence of emotional or psychological wounds and the importance of addressing these issues before progressing into the new phase. The metaphor of a secure rope while rock climbing illustrates the idea of having a safety net in place. This concept underlines the importance of being psychologically fortified and prepared to face challenges.

The episode then delves into the concept of giving instead of receiving. Maurice emphasizes the significance of offering positive contributions to the relationship and challenge listeners to specify the actions they intend to give. He addresses common misconceptions around giving and clarify the importance of genuine and meaningful gestures.

Maurice shifts his focus to recognizing alarms that signal danger within communication dynamics. He encourages listeners to identify personal triggers that indicate negative emotional states, facilitating a dignified retreat plan. The discussion expands to encompass emotional states like anger, resentment, and patience, emphasizing their detrimental effects on communication.

The episode continues by examining the readiness to provide emotional support, charity, mercy, and more. Each point is thoroughly explored, with practical insights and thought-provoking questions. Maurice also address the temptation to skip over certain aspects due to their perceived length. He reminds listeners of the necessity of each step and its role in building a healthy foundation.

Concluding the episode, Maurice highlights the significance of ensuring both partners are ready for the journey. He stresses the importance of not assuming readiness but rather engaging in open communication and taking the time needed to adequately prepare. Maurice acknowledges that the process might take years and encourage listeners to be patient, highlighting the long-term nature of personal growth and relationship development.

Throughout the podcast, Maurice provides practical guidance and thought-provoking insights into the essential components of preparing for a new phase in a relationship. He emphasizes self-awareness, communication, and emotional intelligence as key factors for successful navigation through this transformative journey.

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