Podcasts by My Letter isnt Scarlet, its Fucking Gold.
My Letter isn’t Scarlet, it’s Fucking Gold is designed to be a platform for women to tell their stories. It’s all about vulnerability and sharing how women have overcome adversity, shame, conditioning, and fear to start claiming their sexual power and live a more turned-on and fully-expressed life. Sexuality is so taboo and shamed in so many cultures, and it’s a part of life where so many women struggle to follow their desire and confidently go after what they want. The idea behind having women share their stories is for at least one person listening to resonate and say, “me too”, know that they aren’t alone, and that they, too, can get through the challenge.
Further podcasts by Kayla Yoder
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85. Unconventional sex&relationships with Yani Kramer from 2022-04-20T04:14:28
Yani Kramer is a Tantric Coach & Bodyworker. And the founder of Pleasure Portal for women.
Since leaving her old life in Amsterdam, she has been on a journey around the world. Activated e...
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81. Where are you letting your boundaries slide? from 2022-03-23T00:50:10
In this episode, I talk about how I've noticed areas of my life that my boundaries have been loosey fucking goosey. And how this relates to committing to myself and my own happiness.
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79. Navigating an intercultural relationship from 2022-03-09T08:26:12
In this episode, I share about my surf trip and visiting my pertner's family for the first time. We come from very different backgrounds and cultures, which makes our relationships fun, but at t...
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78. Coming home to the feminine (an interview with yours truly) from 2022-02-16T10:00
I was on the Desire on Fire Podcast and I'm resharing the episode here :). I share about my personal sexual journey and how my sexuality has evolved over time. Enjoy!
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77. Communication&sober sex/dating from 2022-02-10T03:45:42
Sex and dating can feel so serious sometimes. It can feel like there's so much pressure/expectation. How can you feel more confident and playful in these situations while also communicating your...
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76. Getting outside of the "box" from 2022-02-03T10:18:22
I have talked about this concept quite a bit, but it felt really relevant to share about this week. I just got a tattoo with this symbolic meaning and wanted to share my experience and how getting ...
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75. Opening juiciness, lessons&thoughts on my personal sobriety from 2022-01-27T01:31:49
In this episode, I casually talk about what I'm going through right now. The experiences I'm having, the thoughts and fears coming up, the excitement, and everything in-between. Shoot me a messa...
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74. I opened my relationship! from 2022-01-19T09:20:17
In this episode, I talk about opening my relationship and the emotions that have accompanied this process. Several months ago, I shared that I was going to open and how I felt about that. Now, I...
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73. Life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, but what do you do with it? from 2022-01-06T03:31:58
In this episode, I share about my journey with mental health and some ways that have helped me to stay positive and keep moving forward amidst the challenges life gives me.
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72. Closing out 2021 and setting intentions for 2022 from 2021-12-30T02:33:24
In this episode, I share how I like to spend the last few days of the year. How I reflect on the previous year and how I prepare for the new year. Listen to get some tips or ideas for how you ca...
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71. Not all (healthy) relationships look the same with Kori Zornes from 2021-12-22T12:21:32
In this episode, Kori and I sit on my bed and chat allll about relationships. We're both in committed and deeply fulfilling partnerships with men, but our relationships look SO different from on...
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70. Sex in Sobriety Series 03: Communicating & relating with Katie Strong from 2021-12-15T08:32:58
In this episode, we talk about what it's like to have challenging and confronting conversations sober. Whether you're in recovery, sober curious, or just want to know how to connect with people ...
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69. Two turned on women catching up with Marga Berlinski from 2021-12-08T09:23:06
A real look into what's possible in sisterhood. Marga and I always have the juices conversations when we're NOT recording. Just catching up as friends. This time, we decided to record ourselves,...
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68. Fear: One of our biggest teachers from 2021-11-24T23:23:46
Most of us avoid fear, shy away from the discomfort. But what would happen if you chose differently?
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67. Freedom through writing (erotica) with Lizzie Vance from 2021-11-17T11:56:19
Lizzie Vance is a book midwife, writing coach, and magick maker, has been in the writing and publishing industry for 14+ years. Lizzie is passionate about helping her clients reclaim their sover...
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66. From eating pussy to worshipping penis with Kelley Bode from 2021-11-10T10:32:42
This one is so fun! One of my good friends, Kelley Bode, and I share about our dating experience – specifically, how we both went from eating pussy to worshipping penis – and all the lessons we ...
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65. Desire... holding it & letting it fuel you with Marga Berlinski from 2021-10-27T04:30
I’m an intimacy and relationship trainer and coach. I help women and men feel more confident, connected, and self-expressed when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and sex. Sex and intimacy ca...
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64. Struggle to orgasm? Learn how with Jenna Switzer from 2021-10-20T05:00
Jenna Switzer is committed to empowering students to live a life fully turned on to pleasure. Originally from Canada, she is a passionate yogi, teacher teacher, and pelvic floor empowerment coac...
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63. Sex in Sobriety Series 02: Sober Sex with Katie Strong from 2021-10-13T05:00
We talk about what it's like to have sex sober and how awkward it can be at first! Listen to get some insights on how we both have navigated it and how it can be sooooo much better.
In 19...
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62. The power of your menstrual cycle from 2021-10-07T22:15:55
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61. Finding the masculine/feminine balance within you from 2021-09-30T01:03:41
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60. Taking risks: a necessity for change from 2021-09-22T05:00
Taking risks can be terrifying, AND it's a necessary part of change and getting what you want. I share a bit about how this may play out in your life and how I've had to take risks as well.
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59. Sex in Sobriety Series 01: Dating & flirting with Katie Strong from 2021-09-15T05:00
In 1999, Katie chose sobriety over suicide. That was the moment, she discovered her life’s calling. She’s been passionately committed to her recovery and helping others achieve long-term recover...
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58. Control, attachment & being human while on a spiritual journey - a chat with Kristin Quattlebaum from 2021-09-08T05:00
Kristin is a former 15 year corporate hustler turned Intuitive Life Coach. She spent years hustling for happiness through seeking fulfillment outside of herself. It wasn't until Kristin turned...
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57. What is self-love anyway? from 2021-08-25T05:00
In this episode, I talk about self-love, what it means, and ways you can start implementing more of it into your life for more energy, love & connection – both with yourself & others.
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56. A conversation with me, myself & I about opening my relationship from 2021-08-18T08:24:44
Here are some resources if you're considering opening your relationship or want to know more:
55. The Orgasm Gap with Dr. Brandye from 2021-08-11T04:30
Have you ever wondered how to get your sexy back and feel good in the process? Between work, the kids and their activities, and taking care of your aging parents, you fall into bed exhausted eve...
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54. Squirting: all you want to know with Anna Eden from 2021-08-04T04:30
Anna Eden is a Dating & Intimacy Coach who helps high-achieving individuals to unlock their true desires so they can feel more fulfilled in their life and in bed.
She’s an advocate for se...
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53. Self-Pleasure VS Masturbation from 2021-07-28T23:52:27
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52. Feeling used in sex & taking the power back with Amanda Biccum from 2021-07-21T06:00
Amanda Biccum is an evolutionary coach who pushes against the norm of what is possible in sex, love and relationships. She has spent the last 7 years traveling the world, gaining insight from an...
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51. How to build and embody confidence with Taylor Lorenz from 2021-07-14T07:00
Taylor is the creator of a blog dedicated to sharing the power and magic behind learning, growth, and connection.
She believes that connecting to one’s mind, body and soul is essential fo...
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50. Interview with Yours Truly on Body Confidence & Sex from 2021-07-07T08:00
Check out my IG @talksexwithkayla and reach out - let me know how this episode resonates with you :)
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49. How to have your dream relationship with Molly Godfrey from 2021-06-30T06:48:23
Molly Godfrey is a viral content creator and the ‘go-to’ relationship coach for high-achieving women in their 30s. She has been recognized as a trusted love advisor, helping her clients get unst...
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48. Tantra, sex & spirituality with Arja Hendrikx from 2021-06-23T13:59:41
Arja Hendrikx is a holistic health coach and tantra teacher specialised in sexuality. You can learn everything you always wanted to know about tantric sexuality from a holistic and integrative p...
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47. Desire & fear are not mutually exclusive from 2021-06-16T04:30
In this episode, I share about my current experiences and how our biggest desires are also the scariest to pursue.
Likely your deepest desires feel like the scariest things in the world....
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46. Pleasure & Play with Charlie Henderson from 2021-06-09T14:25:56
As an intimacy + empowerment coach, Charlie supports individuals who are feeling stuck in their sex life to have more fulfilling and passionate sex.
Charlie has always been passionate abo...
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45. Navigating labels, discovering your queerness & dating with Ariella Serur from 2021-06-02T04:30
Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur, is on a mission to disrupt traditional dating advice and transform the dating pool into one we enthusiastically want to jump into.
In her practice, she ...
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44. My journey in exploring with women for the first time from 2021-05-28T04:25:45
Enjoy this episode with yours truly.
I would love to hear from you! Feel free to reach out on Instagram @talksexwithkayla or schedule a call on my website kaylayoder.com.
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43. Self-abandonment in relationships with Zara Marin Franks from 2021-05-19T05:00
Zara is an intuitive relationship coach, energy medicine practitioner, and published author. She specializes in helping women find their love-alignment by addressing mind, body, and voice. Her m...
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42. Dating: a personal growth journey with Alexandra Ballensweig from 2021-04-28T08:53:47
41. The art of shibari with Anastasia from 2021-04-21T23:18:10
Anastasia is a nomadic shibari artist, who uses rope as a media. She teaches sensual & decorative shibari, does group rope meditations and creates interactive rope installations. Her rope sessio...
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40. Exploring bisexuality with Genevieve LeJeune (founder of Skirt Club) from 2021-04-14T06:00
Genevieve is the founder of Skirt Club a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 15,000 members globally, women are more interested i...
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39. Periods: Real talk with Miriam Prosnitz from 2021-04-07T06:00
Miriam Prosnitz is the author of the new book Period? Life with Menstruation pre-selling this April. Miriam wrote Period? to address the cultural taboos around menstruation. After interviewing d...
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38. Exploring bisexuality and dating women with Kelley Hoag from 2021-03-31T08:00
Kelley Hoag is an Alignment Coach with a Master’s of Science in Applied Behavioral Analysis. She is also certified and trained in Integrative Nutrition, Somatic E...
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37. Living authentically and being fully fucking expressed through dance with Yarixa Ferrao from 2021-03-24T16:36:01
Yarixa Ferrao, A.K.A, Coach Yari (Ya-di) is the founder and creator of Unleash- A Guided Transformational Dance Journey! She is an open channel, an artist, a powerful speaker, and a dancer of li...
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36. Self-discovery through over sharing and sexploration with Laurel Van Woerkom from 2021-03-17T08:00
Life & Wellness Coach. Life Liberator. Digital Nomad.
Laurel Van Woerkom is a life and wellness coach who specializes in helping clients overcome burnout to build a life of balance and pu...
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35. Self-love & toxic relationships with Tori Autumn from 2021-03-11T00:27:58
Tori Autumn is a certified relationship and self-love coach. She helps women break the cycle of toxic relationships by increasing self-love, finding their purpose, and coming up with their perso...
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34. All things sex toys & pleasure with Julieta Chiara from 2021-03-03T14:23:29
Sex Nomad. Sex Blogger. Digital Media CEO.
Growing up in a sex-positive family, I knew early on the importance and role sexuality had in my identity. What started off as a small sex blog ...
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33. Sexuality as it relates to mental health with LAUX from 2021-02-24T10:00
LAUX (she/her) is an educator, an activist, and an Aquarius. Her boundless curiosity leads to a love of wonder, adventure, and sometimes trouble. She has decided to take the path of truth-tellin...
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32. Cycle tracking & connecting to your womb with Charlotte Emma Johnston from 2021-02-17T11:00
Charlotte Emma Johnston is an intuitive coach and healer, specializing in womb wisdom. Awakening women to their inner healer, unique magic and medicine through feminine embodiment ??
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31. Self-pleasure&squirting with Cindra Banks from 2021-02-10T14:31:36
Cindra thrives on helping people fall in love with themselves and showing them how to put their self care first. She's a relationships and intimacy coach alongside her husband Luke and the co-ho...
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30. Anxiety & self-doubt as it relates to sexuality with Taryn Raine from 2021-02-03T11:58:14
Taryn Raine is an world traveler, yoga instructor, and healthy living guru. She has made it her mission to empower others to take control of their own wellness journey. In her spare time, she en...
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24. afterglow - if sexual wellness & porn had a baby - with Lilly Sparks from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Lilly Sparks is the founder of afterglow, a revolutionary porn company making porn that’s good for you. afterglow merges porn and sexual wellness by making steamy films focused on women’s pleasure,...
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29. Creating the life you want & deserve with Sabrina Runbeck from 2021-01-27T09:00
Sabrina Runbeck, MPH, MHS, PA-C is a cardiothoracic surgery PA with more than 10 years of experience in public health and neuroscience.
After overcoming burnout and feeling stuck in a car...
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28. An interview on self-love & compassion with Yours Truly (interviewed by Cindra Banks) from 2021-01-20T09:50:43
Cindra interviewed me for her podcast, "The Relationships Show", a few months back. And now I am sharing it with all of you! Enjoy :).
And here's my bio for anyone who wants to know a lit...
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27. How to use dating apps without losing your shit - with Jessica Barndt from 2021-01-13T09:11:10
Jess, aka Greater Dater, is a dating coach and professional wingwoman/hypeman out of Los Angeles. Her mission? Bring the realness & human connection back to online dating. With close to a decade...
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26. A year of sexploration with Rachel S. from 2020-12-23T16:20:52
Rachel is a 38-year-old pansexual, self-proclaimed world wanderer and product designer currently living in Mexico City. She loves food (I mean seriously loves food), always has a drink in her ha...
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25. Releasing old prescriptions & becoming an unabashed badass with Monica Jayne from 2020-12-16T05:30
Dare To Be Unabashedly You™ is Monica Jayne’s sl...
23. Becoming fully expressed as a woman & empowering younger generations with Grace Harris from 2020-12-02T03:51:01
Grace Harris is the Founder of Become The Woman of Your Dreams Academy. Raised in a mix of Chinese-Filipino-Australian cultures, Grace has survived a series of significant and synchronistic life...
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22. Sober dating & love addiction with Katie Grimes from 2020-11-26T02:05:17
Katie Grimes is an International Sober Dating Coach - the go to girl if you want more confidence and an outstanding love life.
For a humorous and authentic look at recovering from being a...
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21. Reclaiming your body & sexuality through Pole (& other movement) with Greyce Skinner from 2020-11-18T04:30:35
I'm Greyce, an actor, aerialist, movement teacher, and creative consultant with over 20 years of focused performing arts experience. My primary passion is storytelling. As soon as I could walk a...
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19. Erotic Blueprints and embracing a more pleasurable life with DD Haeg from 2020-11-04T17:08:41
DD Haeg is a badass entrepreneur, single mama and a pleasure embodiment educator. She coaches and mentors women who feel overwhelmed and tired of trying to do it all, to help them bring more jui...
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18. Finding your identity & working through trauma response with Yael R Rosenstock Gonzalez from 2020-10-29T04:01:18
Yael R Rosenstock Gonzalez is a sex educator, sex coach, researcher, author, speaker, curriculum developer, and workshop facilitator. As a queer, polyam...
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17. Healing & reclaiming your body with Heather Nichole from 2020-10-21T05:08:44
Heather Nichole is a Holistic Trauma Healer. She works closely with individuals who are ready to reclaim their mind, body, soul, and sexuality. She is a survivor on many accounts and continues t...
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16. Online dating and transforming from a "girl" to a "woman" with Qianlei Li from 2020-10-14T03:58:18
Mrs. Q. Warnock (the former Qianlei Li) is a bestselling author and online dating coach. She started her online dating journey in 2014 and found the love of her life at the end of 2016. She has ...
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15. Shame – and how it manifests in sex & intimacy with Babita Spinelli from 2020-10-07T04:30
Babita Spinelli is the CEO of Babita Spinelli Group and Opening the Doors Psychotherapy, where she provides an empowering space for clients to explore what holds them back while challenging them...
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14. Sex is awkward. Embracing the weirdness & stepping into your power as a woman with Tara Porter from 2020-09-30T15:52:30
In this episode, I interview Tara Porter, one of my best friends, world traveler, healthcare nerd, all around BADASS. We have an in-person conversation addressing lots of juicy topics...
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13. Embracing sexual curiosity, nudity & setting boundaries with Eve Howlett from 2020-09-23T04:23:51
Eve Howlett has always followed her curiosity for all things sexual with an open mind. Her ambition for doing what she loves and loving what she does has lead her on many adventures in her life ...
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12. An interview with Yours Truly from 2020-09-16T04:08:39
In this episode, a friend of mine interviewed me for his podcast, Danley and Friends, which you can check out on all the typical platforms. We talk about my story, what led me to where I am toda...
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11. Intuitive healing, consent & boundaries with Sydney Rae Chin from 2020-09-09T15:12:34
Sydney Rae Chin is a queer Chinese American intuitive sex guide and writer based on the East Coast. She holds a degree from Emerson College in Media Arts Production with a minor in African Ameri...
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10. Building trust and intimacy with yourself with Jackie Coban from 2020-09-02T04:58:09
Jackie is a triple-certified coach (Enneagram, Life, and NLP) in the greater NYC area, working with individuals and companies to create sustainability and reach goals through self-awareness and ...
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09. Masculine/feminine dynamics & following your intuition with Kristin Quattlebaum from 2020-08-26T04:08:13
Kristin is a former 15 year corporate hustler turned Intuitive Life Coach. She spent years hustling for happiness through seeking fulfillment outside of herself. It wasn't until Kristin turned...
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08. Breaking free from boxes and embracing open relationships with Cindra Banks from 2020-08-19T16:31:53
Cindra thrives on helping people fall in love with themselves and showing them how to put their self care first. She's a relationships and intimacy coach alongside her hu...
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07. Reclaiming your sexual power after an abusive relationship with Candace Ramirez from 2020-08-12T15:08:48
06. Sacred Masturbation with Carla Carreira from 2020-08-05T18:25:21
Carla Carreira is currently completing an M.S. in Sexology and a PhD in Psychology, honing her leadership skills as an assistant for the Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute practitioner’s cour...
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05. Dating women for the first time & exploring female pleasure with Margo Graff from 2020-07-29T04:39:48
Margo Graff is an amazing woman with an incredible story. She is a major advocate in the fight against Human Trafficking and her dream is to have a major action h...
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04. Pros&cons of bullet vibrators and releasing the need to be goal oriented with Kaila Lawrence from 2020-07-22T04:00
Kaila Lawrence is a an eclectic sexual junkie always down to explore new tricks of the trade. Her extensive experience with sex toys, sexuality, kinks, and working in the sex industry means she'...
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03. From the pursuit of perfect to "take me or leave me" with Chelsea Herman from 2020-07-15T01:24:01
Chelsea Herman has been telling stories since she was a little girl—mystery novels, “films” and plays (which she forced her younger cousins to act in), and a very embarrassing series of romance ...
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02. Finding your sexual preferences, gender identity, & overall self-exploration with Kelley Bode from 2020-07-08T02:06:25
Kelley Bode is an International Life & Intimacy Coach living in Bali. She helps women create deep self-love, connected relationships and lives led by desire. She’s studied under the t...
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01. You're not broken; start claiming your sexual power with Vicky Aldana from 2020-07-08T01:20:51
Vicky Aldana is an LA-based desire & intimacy coach. She has been practicing orgasmic meditation for 2+ years and supports women in coming home to themselves. Her greatest piece of ad...
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00. My Letter isn't Scarlet, it's Fucking Gold. from 2020-07-08T00:56:18
Check out my first episode to learn the purpose of this podcast, why it's worth talking about, and what to expect from the show moving forward.
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00. My Letter isn't Scarlet, it's Fucking Gold. from 2020-07-08T00:56:18
Check out my first episode to learn the purpose of this podcast, why it's worth talking about, and what to expect from the show moving forward.
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