Podcasts by Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging

Ep 318 - Sarah + George: Round 2 from 2023-12-13T00:05

Sarah and George are back after more than two years! The first time they came on was on episod...

Ep 317 - The Confident Swinger (Jo) from 2023-12-06T00:05

Jo and her husband have been together for 18 years and have been exploring swinging for 17 of those years. They initially opened their relationship as a way fo...

Ep 316 - Beth + Mark from 2023-11-29T00:05

This interview with Beth and Mark is such a delight! They met in college on a blind date and have now been married for over 30 years! They decided to open thei...

Ask Us Anything - Episode 2 from 2023-11-24T00:05

Meshai and Fin team up together to answer amazing listener questions every fourth Friday of each month!   If YOU have a question, we'd love to hear it! Please, Listen

Ep 314 - Tasha + David from 2023-11-15T00:05

Tasha and David have been married for about five years and have been together for about a decade. They've had variations of an open relationship (primarily swinging) from the beginning and have don...

Ep 313 - Mariana from 2023-11-08T00:05

Mariana is a wonderful 31 year old polyamorous woman in Portugal who is in a mono-poly dynamic with her partner of five years and an additional partner of about a year. Consensual non-monogamy is a...

Ep 312 - Jessica + David from 2023-11-01T00:05

Jessica and David have been in many different iterations of relationship together for over twenty years... They were friends, they dated, they were friends again, they dated again, they got married...

Ask Us Anything - Episode 1 from 2023-10-27T00:05

Meshai and Fin team up together to answer amazing listener questions every fourth Friday of each month!   If YOU have a question, we'd love to hear it! Please, Listen

Ep 310 - Anna + Andy + J from 2023-10-18T00:05

This conversation is beyond powerful. We say that often and we always mean it. This is no exception to the rule.   About a year ago Anna and Andy opened up their relationship after being togeth...

Ep 309 - Orit from 2023-10-11T00:05

This is such a deep, vulnerable, and beautiful conversation. Orit and her husband discussed opening their relationship fairly early on. However, personal history and trauma made the conversations s...

Ep 308 - Bru + Mark from 2023-10-04T00:05

"You have to do the work..." gets thrown around all the time these days in love and relationships. Never before have we heard a more powerful discussion of what "the work" is than this one with Bru...

Ep 307 - Rachel from 2023-09-27T00:05

Rachel Lark is a bisexual, kinky, polyamorous, cis female musician, performer, and writer. And that's all before she's had her morning coffee! Raised by two sex-positive philosophers, Rachel tends ...

Ask Us Anything - Announcement from 2023-09-22T00:05

Quick episode announcing the our new Ask Us Anything episodes!   Fin is teaming up with Meshai from Expansive Connection coaching to answer...

Ep 306 - Chaneé from 2023-09-20T00:05

  This is one of those interviews you'll listen to over and over... Chaneé is absolutely full of incredible experience and wisdom. She is a 36 year old, black, pansexual, polyamorous mom, wife,...

Ep 305 - Lauren + Lars from 2023-09-13T00:05

Lauren and Lars have been together for about 20 years and decided to open their marriage about five years ago. They initially opened slowly at a pace they both felt safe with. They used their weekl...

Ep 304 - Natalie from 2023-09-06T00:05

Natalie and her husband have been exploring non-monogamy for over 25 years. They initially opened their marriage as they were redesigning it after it was rocked by an infidelity. For about the firs...

Ep 303 - Casey from 2023-08-30T00:05

We absolutely love this conversation! So much of this episode is about the never ending journey of trying to figure out how to embrace who you truly are and how to love others for who they are.  ...

Ep 302 - Bree from 2023-08-23T00:05

Bree is a queer, polyamorous, Chicana in her mid-thirties who is also a mother of two toddlers and has been married about a decade. Oh! And, she also has a boyfriend of almost two years. She's had ...

Ep 301 - Jeannie from 2023-08-16T00:05

 Jeannie's story is an absolutely beautiful one. She had what she felt was an "average" or "normal" sex life until she was in her mid-twenties and then she felt her libido shut down. It became real...

Ep 300 - Chloe + Drew: Round 3 from 2023-08-09T00:05

We are incredibly grateful and delighted to have Chloe and Drew back on the show for a third time. This conversation is so powerful and we know you'll get so much out of it, even without listening ...

Ep 299 - Nikki + Michael from 2023-08-02T00:05

Nikki and Michael have known each other since they were teenagers, have been together 27 years, and married for 20. They've also both been in the performing arts community for over 30 years. Their ...

Ep 298 - Polycurious (Fernanda) from 2023-07-26T00:05

  Fernanda grew up in Mexico and moved to the US in 2016. She knew about the concept of non-monogamy before that, but her first real-life exposure came when she met someone at the ...

Ep 297 - Katie + Beau from 2023-07-19T00:05

Katie and Beau have an incredibly beautiful story and they are some of the most kind and loving people we've come across. This interview is truly a delight!   These two grew up nea...

Ep 296 - Nick from 2023-07-12T00:05

  Nick has been exploring consensual non-monogamy for about a decade and is the hinge in a cohabitating triad with Jace (Episode 254...

Ep 295 - Liana from 2023-07-05T00:05

This interview with Liana is so much fun! Get ready to laugh... Liana describes herself as a "severely gay", queer, and polyamorous relationship nerd. Although, she admits the "relationship nerd" p...

Ep 294 - Joli + Ken from 2023-06-28T00:05

Joli and Ken have known one another since Joli was born. Then, somewhere around 14 years ago something clicked on the dance floor. (Not a euphemism) Since that night, these two have been on a power...

Ep 293 - Frank from 2023-06-21T00:05

Frank and his fiancé have been together for about eight years and have explored a wide variety of flavors of non-monogamy. They opened up their partnership a few years back when one of his fiancé's...

Ep 292 - Leah + Brady from 2023-06-14T00:05

Leah and Brady have been together for about five years and came to the partnership with different backgrounds in non-monogamy, Leah was pretty much brand new to the idea and Brady had been explorin...

Ep 291 - Sara from 2023-06-07T00:05

Sara has known she was non-monogamous her whole life but only found the words to describe it about seven years ago. She was initially introduced to non-monogamy when a partner of hers proposed the ...

Ep 290 - Ann + Charles from 2023-05-31T00:05

Ann and Charles are in their early thirties and found each other a few years ago. They both came to the partnership with backgrounds in non-monogamy.   Ann has been polyamorous her whole life ...

Ep 289 - Multiamory (Dedeker, Emily, + Jase) from 2023-05-24T00:05

We are thrilled to have all three co-hosts of the Multiamory podcast on this week. Or as they sometimes refer to themselves... "An emotionally bonded triad...

Ep 288 - Terry from 2023-05-17T00:05

Terry has been exploring polyamory for about 50 years and we are so excited to help share her story with the world! And no, that's not a typo... Fifty years! During that time, polyamory took on man...

Ep 287 - Mariko from 2023-05-10T00:05

Mariko has an incredibly powerful and beautiful story. She was born and raised in Japan and came to the US for her Master's degree at age 25. She spent most of her life (so far) as a married bus...

Ep 286 - Libby + Tom from 2023-05-03T00:05

Libby and Tom have been together for over six years and for the last while have been making it work long distance. Their "coming together" story is absolutely amazing, and they both had very differ...

Ep 285 - Elizabeth from 2023-04-26T00:05

Non-monogamy has been a big part of how Elizabeth has related to others her whole life, but she's only recently put words to it. For her, life is made up of experiences and adventures that we learn...

Ep 284 - Kyrr + Libby + Drew from 2023-04-19T00:05

  Today we are super excited to have a beautiful and lively conversation with Kyrr, Libby, and Drew! We're thrilled to have a behind-the-scenes look into how three humans who live together co-c...

Ep 283 - Alyssa from 2023-04-12T00:10

  Alyssa is an autistic trans woman who was first exposed to non-monogamy about a decade ago, and as she describes it, it was as if a chorus of angels were singing from heaven. For once, life f...

Ep 282 - Phoenix from 2023-04-05T00:05

Phoenix is obsessed with sex, relationships, intimacy, and how to make all of those things better. Those are their words, not ours. 😁 Phoenix has been exploring non-monogamy since their first year...

Ep 281 - Roderick from 2023-03-29T00:05

  Roderick is so full of energy and enthusiasm for life, and so is our conversation together! Roderick and his partner Jane have been together for about five years and decided about three years...

Ep 280 - Janiqueel from 2023-03-22T00:05

"It only takes one person to make change, and I'll try." Janiqueel's approach to love and life is so incredibly powerful and beautiful. Janiqueel started exploring non-monogamy about a decade ago a...

Ep 279 - Ready for Polyamory (Laura) from 2023-03-15T00:05

This wonderful conversation with Laura has a little bit of everything! She's been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years and has done so in a wide variety of polyamorous dynamics. Together we tal...

Ep 278 - Jill + Stephen from 2023-03-08T00:05

Life is an adventure... And that's exactly how Jill and Stephen live it. These two have been best friends since they met, married over 18 years, and adventuring together the whole time from explori...

Ep 277 - Queer Theology (Brian) from 2023-03-01T00:05

This conversation with Brian is so amazing and covers so many facets of relating to other humans, regardless of your relationship dynamic. Brian is a cis, queer, polyamorous, sex and relationship e...

Ep 276 - Sara from 2023-02-22T00:05

Sara is an amazing, community-building badass! She's been exploring non-monogamy since 2006 when she and her husband decided to open their marriage after reading Stranger in a Strange Land. Fast fo...

Ep 275 - Susan from 2023-02-15T00:05

We rarely recommend gathering your kids for one of our interviews, but here we are. We'll wait for you to wrangle the whole family. Got everyone? Good.   Susan has been exploring non-monogamy f...

Ep 274 - Kate from 2023-02-08T00:05

Kate was accidentally monogamous for a bit, but as long she can remember, non-monogamy has been who she is. She's a mother of two, a community leader and builder, a therapist, and an all around kic...

Ep 273 - Libby + Cal from 2023-02-01T00:05

  Libby and Cal have been playing music together for the last five years and about three years ago they stopped fighting their urges and embarked on a romantic partnership as well. On Libby's s...

Ep 272 - Casey from 2023-01-25T00:05

Casey and her husband have an absolutely incredible story. They met during a blind date threesome, ended up getting married a few years later, and are now exploring a hotwife dynamic together. Howe...

Ep 271 - Cat + EJ | Round 2 from 2023-01-18T00:05

  Cat and EJ are back after 252 episodes and almost a full five years! They first came on the show back on episode 19... Way way back! No need to go back and listen if you haven't yet, ...

Ep 270 - Rose from 2023-01-11T00:05

Rose identifies as monogamish and her favorite relationship dynamic is a committed longterm partnership "with room to explore." She also identifies as a lesbian, but she's insatiably curious about ...

Ep 269 - Lara + John from 2023-01-04T00:05

Lara and John got married over 30 years ago, 9 months after their first date at the library... About 22 years ago they opened their relationship and started blazing their own trail without a script...

Ep 268 - Stephanie from 2022-12-28T00:05

As long as Stephanie can remember she's been attracted to, and curious about, lots of different people. Of course, most of us are conditioned for this to not be something to embrace and so she didn...

Ep 267 - Maria + Steve from 2022-12-21T00:05

Maria is back! And! Steve is here with her for the first time and the conversation we have is beyond powerful. If you listened to Maria's first interview on Listen

Ep 264 - Mel + Rah + Tom | Round 2 from 2022-11-30T00:05

  In case you haven't listened to Episode 145... Here's the super short version, but you'll want to go back and get al...

Ep 263 - Elizabeth from 2022-11-23T00:05

This conversation is incredibly powerful in so many ways! Elizabeth is in her early thirties and has been exploring ethical non-monogamy for over a decade. Things got off to a bit of an unethical s...

FF 2.10 - Making Love Organic w/ Good Clean Love Founder Wendy Strgar from 2022-11-18T00:05

Wendy Strgar is an author and an award-winning social entrepreneur and the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, a pioneer in the organic personal care product industry. Wendy started Good Clean Love...

Ep 262 - Rainey + Paco from 2022-11-16T00:05

This conversation with Rainey and Paco is incredible. We laugh, we cry, we laugh some more... Don't skip this one.   These two have been together for about six years, nesting together for two,...

Ep 261 - Taylor from 2022-11-09T00:10

Taylor has been exploring polyamory, swinging, and all kinds of non-monogamy for over a decade at this point. She was married for 25 years, monogamously for about 12, and then Hedonism Resort made ...

Ep 260 - Poly+Amor=Us (Elisa + Mike) from 2022-11-02T00:05

Elisa and Mike have been together about seven years and polyamorous for about four of them. Two years into their relationship, Elisa had an affair and that became the catalyst that led them to digg...

Ep 259 - Arielle from 2022-10-26T00:05

If you are looking for a beautiful journey of what it can look like when you live intentionally and seek out your authentic self... Look no further. We often use this space to give a high-level ove...

Ep 258 - Taylor + Andrew from 2022-10-19T00:05

Taylor and Andrew... Wow, we love this conversation. They have been together for 13 years, married for 9, and have only been exploring ethical non-monogamy for a few months. Non-monogamy came up ri...

Ep 257 - Gabrielle | Round 2 from 2022-10-12T00:05

Gabrielle is back! It's been just over 100 episodes since we talked to her last on episode 151... You definitely don't have to l...

Ep 256 - CC + Steve | Round 2 from 2022-10-05T00:05

CC and Steve are back! We first talked to them way back on episode 84! They're in their early fifties and have been together for ...

Ep 255 - Eka from 2022-09-28T00:05

Eka is from Portugal and is an AMAZING storyteller! This interview is really much better described as Eka sharing her life story with us and it is beautiful. She's in her mid-thirties and has been ...

FF 2.9 - Behind The Scenes with Podcast Growth Hacks from 2022-09-23T00:05

This episode is a behind-the-scenes conversation with our friend and host of the Podcast Growth Hacks podcast, Pat Cheung, about how we built our podca...

Ep 254 - Jace from 2022-09-21T00:14:26

Jace has been out as a trans man for about a decade and exploring polyamory since right after he graduated high school roughly seven years ago. He's currently in a long-term nesting relationship wi...

Ep 253 - Yana from 2022-09-14T00:05

Yana has been exploring non-monogamous relationship structures for over a decade and describes herself as solo poly in which her primary relationship is with her three year old son. She's also been...

Ep 252 - Michelle + Ron from 2022-09-07T00:05

Michelle and Ron are a couple of Americans living in Australia with their three young kids. They’ve been together for about ten years, married for almost nine, and exploring non-m...

Ep 251 - Suzannah from 2022-08-31T01:05

Like many of us, Suzannah is on a journey of self-discovery. A few years back she was in a long-term relationship and cheated on her partner multiple times. In fact, infidelity was a recurring them...

Ep 250 - Mel + AJ from 2022-08-24T00:05

This is Mel and AJ's second time exploring non-monogamy together. Their first time was in 2018 during a particularly challenging time in their marriage. They came very close to ending their marriag...

Huge, Awesome, Incredible, Friday News! from 2022-08-19T00:05

Happy Friday! Don't worry, it's just us!   We're excited to announce our Premium Subscription! We're always trying to find ways to grow and del...

Ep 249 - Pan from 2022-08-17T00:05

Pan is in his late thirties and has been exploring non-monogamy since his marriage ended a few years ago. He describes himself as a kinky, sapiosexual, and solo polyamorist who is excited to explor...

Ep 248 - Bre from 2022-08-10T00:05

This conversation with Bre is amazing! It's full of energy, love, and great vibes! Bre is in her mid-thirties and has done a bit of it all... She's explored swinging, poly, kink, and even did a bur...

Ep 247 - Kristin + Adam from 2022-08-03T00:05

Kristin and Adam have been together about 20 years and have always loved exploring together. They discovered swinging early in their relationship but didn't really have a label for what they were d...

Ep 246 - The Dildorks (Bex Caputo) from 2022-07-27T00:05

Bex is back and this time we're digging into his personal story! We had Bex on a few months back to talk all about sexting and now we get a behind-the-scenes look at Bex's journey. As best he can r...

FF 2.8 - The Power of Community with We Gotta Thing from 2022-07-22T00:05

The feeling of being alone when embarking on any new journey is so scary. Perhaps you can't talk to anyone around you about it, and the people you do talk to make you feel shamed or a bit crazy. Fi...

Ep 245 - Kaitlin + Julian from 2022-07-20T00:05

This conversation with Kaitlin and Julian is one of our all-time favorites. Not sure if we're allowed to say that, but here we are. They met and fell in love on the school bus and now have been tog...

Ep 244 - Marla Renee Stewart | Round 2 from 2022-07-13T00:05

Marla is back! And we're talking a bit about everything... Pregnancy, pandemics, parenting, polyamory, potato famines... I made that last one up. Or did I? Only one way to find out. We also talk ab...

Ep 243 - Melissa + Tim from 2022-07-06T00:05

Melissa and Tim are kind of a first for us on the show and we're super excited about it! They are in their mid-forties and have been together for about five years. What's unique about that? Well, T...

Ep 242 - Serena Rose from 2022-06-29T00:05

Serena and her husband are newly married and starting to explore a bit of what opening their relationship to non-monogamy could look like for them. Serena has a history of being in monogamous relat...

Ep 241 - Alli + Gaylen from 2022-06-22T00:05

Alli + Gaylen have been "happily unmarried for 21 years" and were friends for a handful of years before they got together. They've also been living on a 37 foot sailboat for the last two years as t...

FF 2.7 - Sexting With Bex Caputo from 2022-06-17T00:05

How do you sext? What does sexting actually look like? How do I get it started? What do I say? How do I say it? When do I say it? How do I keep it going? Well, you've guessed it... Today we're talk...

Ep 240 - Tom from 2022-06-15T00:05

Tom has been exploring polyamory for about the last 15 years, but has recognized it is who he's been his whole life. He was always forming deep friendships and relationships with the people around ...

Ep 239 - Maria from 2022-06-08T00:05

Today's conversation with Maria gets into the weeds on breaking codependencies, rebuilding a relationship after an infidelity, sexual health, loving yours, and so much more. Maria and her husband r...

Ep 238 - Kate Loree from 2022-06-01T00:05

Kate's journey into non-monogamy kicked off almost 20 years ago when she came home from work and her partner at the time proposed the idea of swinging to her. Since then, she has spent two decades ...

Ep 237 - Sunny from 2022-05-24T21:05

Sunny has always questioned just about everything in their life. They realized they were bisexual by age 15 and by age 17 had started exploring their relationship to gender. Now, at the age of 25, ...

Ep 236 - Open Late (Jessica) from 2022-05-17T21:05

Jessica is a curator of brave spaces for people to own their power and awaken to their most expansive selves. Through her work as a coach and retreat facilitator, she realized it was people’s relat...

Ep 235 - Jude from 2022-05-11T00:05

Jude is a queer, neurodivergent, non-binary, badass. They learned about non-monogamy roughly eight years ago and started exploring is for themselves a bit over a year ago. After much self-discovery...

Ep 234 - William from 2022-05-04T00:05

William's first conversations and exposure to non-monogamy happened around 2003 while he was living in Louisiana. A few years later he and his partner moved to the San Francisco Bay Area and by 201...

Ep 233 - Meshai from 2022-04-27T00:05

Meshai and her husband have been married for 17 years but only in the last few years have they explored non-monogamy. For them, they oscillate between more of a casual swinging approach and somethi...

FF 2.6 - The Power Of Play from 2022-04-22T00:05

We are so excited about this conversation with Gary that is all about the power of play in life and in relationships! Gary Ware is the Founder of Breakth...

Ep 232 - Pam + Jim from 2022-04-20T00:05

Pam and Jim are nudists who live in Florida and have been exploring non-monogamy together since they met about three years ago.   Jim is 83 and started exploring his sexuality a few years ago ...

Ep 231 - Anna from 2022-04-13T00:05

This conversation with Anna is amazing in so many ways! They have been exploring non-monogamy and polyamory for over 12 years after coming from a background of serial monogamy and codependency. The...

Ep 230 - CJ from 2022-04-06T00:05

CJ and her husband have been together for over 18 years, she has kids, a great job... She had it all. But, as she described it, she had it all and had a bit of a "mid-life crisis" around age 30! Fo...

Ep 229 - Evita from 2022-03-30T00:05

This conversation with Evita is amazing from start to finish. She has been exploring non-monogamy for about 10 years. She is incredibly honest with us about the challenges and the huge benefits tha...

Ep 228 - The Curious Girl Diaries (Layla) from 2022-03-23T01:04:43

Layla was so focused on her business and other aspects of life that sex and relationships fell off the radar completely. She woke up one day after three and a half years of not having sex, with a p...

Ep 227 - Jon from 2022-03-16T00:05

Jon met his current wife toward the end of his previous marriage after he and his ex-wife began exploring non-monogamy together. He and his current wife have been working together to slowly open th...

FF 2.5 - Compersion! With Marie Thouin from 2022-03-11T00:05

Today we're talking all about compersion with Marie! What is compersion? Where did this word even come from? Can we foster compersion? Is it possible to have a healthy relationship without compersi...

Ep 226 - The Monogamish Marriage (Kate + Liam) from 2022-03-09T00:05

We're excited to bring Kate and Liam from the Monogamish Marriage back on the show for an update! The last time we talked to them on the podcast was...

Ep 225 - Hilly from 2022-03-02T00:05

Hilly is in her mid thirties and as far as she can remember, her only "traditional" monogamous relationship was in high school and lasted about two months. She has explored a wide range of differen...

Ep 224 - Hannah + Greg from 2022-02-23T00:05

Hannah and Greg have been together for 13 years and actually took a unique approach to opening their relationship pretty early on. They would spend summers apart and during that time they gave one ...

Ep 223 - Brooke from 2022-02-16T00:05

Brooke and her husband began exploring swinging 21 years into their now 30+ year marriage. Swinging led to polyamory, and multiple attempts at quad dynamics before determining that the quad dynamic...

FF 2.4 - All Things Condoms with Milla from ONE Condoms from 2022-02-11T00:05

Milla is the Director of Marketing and Senior Size Specialist at ONE Condoms and myONE Custom Fit Condoms and s...

Ep 222 - Chris from 2022-02-09T00:05

Chris identifies as a bisexual, polyamorous woman and has two partners. She feels as if she has been polyamorous since she was in her twenties but didn't have a framework for it. After navigating a...

Ep 221 - She, My Wife, and I (Kate + Travis) from 2022-02-02T00:05

This conversation with Kate and Travis has so much depth, laughter, and love. It's amazing... There isn't much that's conventional about these two and we absolutely love how proud they are and how ...

Ep 220 - Rachel from 2022-01-26T00:05

Rachel started exploring non-monogamy in 2015 when she was in her late twenties and her boyfriend brought it up. Initially, they went down the hotwife path but through those experiences she realize...

FF 2.3 - The Enneagram Experience with Kelsia - Part 3 from 2022-01-21T00:05

The Enneagram is a personality and motivation assessment. It is one of the most powerful and insightful tools for understanding ourselves and others at a deeper level. At its core, the Enneagram he...

Ep 219 - Franziska from 2022-01-19T00:05

Franziska doesn't love labels but she's in her early twenties and identifies as a queer, bisexual, gender queer, kinky switch... She's shares with us how she was really first exposed to non-monogam...

FF 2.2 - The Enneagram Experience with Kelsia - Part 2 from 2022-01-14T00:05

The Enneagram is a personality and motivation assessment. It is one of the most powerful and insightful tools for understanding ourselves and others at a deeper level. At its core, the Enneagram he...

Ep 218 - Whitney from 2022-01-12T00:05

Whitney is a bisexual woman in her early thirties who grew up in the Mormon church and has been married for 14 years to her high school sweetheart. She has been "officially" exploring polyamory for...

FF 2.1 - The Enneagram Experience with Kelsia - Part 1 from 2022-01-07T00:05

The Enneagram is a personality and motivation assessment. It is one of the most powerful and insightful tools for understanding ourselves and others at a deeper level. At its core, the Enneagram he...

Ep 217 - Sarah from 2022-01-05T00:05

Sarah is in her early thirties and has been exploring ethical non-monogamy for about five years. As she puts it, she just always had a feeling that monogamy didn’t feel right for her but it took he...

Ep 216 - Tangled Up Together (Brittany + Chad) from 2021-12-29T00:05

Brittany and Chad have been together about three and half years but were best friends for almost seven before that. They got together after getting out of unhealthy relationships and decided to sta...

Ep 215 - Michaela + Paul from 2021-12-22T00:05

Michaela and Paul have been together about three years and actually met while Michaela was exploring non-monogamy with her ex-husband. After they officially got together they closed their relations...

Ep 214 - Misha from 2021-12-15T00:05

Misha has been exploring non-monogamy in varying forms since she was in her twenties when she kind of fell into a spontaneous triad. Since then, the journey has allowed her to explore sex parties, ...

Ep 213 - Michaela + Bryson from 2021-12-08T00:05

Michaela is 27 and has been exploring non-monogamy for a little over three years. She is an acrobat and does acro-yoga and acro-burlesque. Two things we didn't even know existed until we talked to ...

Ep 212 - Luna Ray from 2021-12-06T00:05

Luna is a 31 year old queer, polyamorous, kinky, badass who is on a journey to answer the question: How can software help people build meaningful relationships? She's been exploring non-monogamy fo...

Ep 211 - Judie + Eldon from 2021-12-01T00:05

"Your life doesn't stop at age 60!" Judie is emphatic about this as she moves through her sixties and Eldon, his seventies. This interview is beautiful and covers a lot things we don't often get th...

Ep 210 - Daev from 2021-11-24T00:05

Daev is in his early forties and has been exploring non-monogamy in various ways since about 2014. He was on the show about a year ago with his partner Shannon on Listen

Ep 197 - Emily from 2021-09-01T00:05

Emily is a screenwriter and script supervisor who does cosplay and designs geek clothing. She's also non-monogamous and kinky, which she discovered after her divorce. She's been exploring the kink ...

Ep 196 - Jaret from 2021-08-25T00:05

Jaret is partnered with Jamie who was a former guest on episode 184. This deep conversation with Jaret covers his experiences in healing from a traumatic brain injury, supporting his dad and partne...

Ep 195 - Rethinking Orgies: Creating Inclusive, Diverse&Safer Spaces to Explore Sexuality from 2021-08-23T00:05

In this fantastic roundtable conversation we bring Leanne, G, and Zach back on the show to talk more about their experiences creating safe and inclusive spaces to explore sexuality.  ...

Ep 194 - Mandy from 2021-08-18T00:05

Mandy is such a delight to talk to and is so full of positive energy! She is a bisexual badass who has been exploring solo polyamory and relationship anarchy for about four years. We have an amazin...

Ep 193 - Sonia + Gabriel from 2021-08-11T00:05

Sonia and Gabriel have been together for over 19 years and have been practicing polyamory for about 10 years. They have a refreshingly honest conversation with us about where they are, how they've ...

Ep 192 - Jacob from 2021-08-04T00:05

Jacob is an amazing trans-masculine, non-binary human who is just about to turn 22. He (his preferred pronouns) has been exploring polyamory and non-monogamy for a few years and takes us inside the...

Ep 191 - Izzy from 2021-07-28T00:05

This interview with Izzy is absolutely amazing! They have been exploring polyamory for a little over three years but that is just the tip of the iceberg. This conversation is really about love, adv...

Ep 190 - Sarah + Keith from 2021-07-21T00:05

Sarah and Keith are in their early thirties and have essentially been together since they were 15, if we don't count that short break during college. They started exploring non-monogamy about six m...

Ep 189 - Brea from 2021-07-14T00:05

Brea is 30 years old, queer, nonbinary, exploring non-monogamy for the last ten years, outdoorsy, a forager, professional cook, gardener, and overall badass! We have an honest and extremely powerfu...

Ep 188 - Amy from 2021-07-07T00:05

Be unapologetically yourself! This is how Amy shows up in life and it is amazing and inspiring. She’s a former sex worker, an attorney, she owns multiple pole dance studios, and she is crushing it ...

Ep 187 - Norm from 2021-06-30T00:05

Norm is incredibly positive and vibrant with a zest for living life. He has been in a “don’t ask, don’t tell” dynamic with his wife since they got married. Before that, he explored no...

Ep 186 - The Curious Fox (Jacqueline Misla) from 2021-06-23T00:05

Jacqueline is so many things... She's a mother, Latine, polyamorous, queer, pansexual, educator, organizational strategist, the co-host of the Curious F...

Ep 185 - Kelly from 2021-06-16T00:05

Kelly has been exploring polyamory for over 30 years and as she says it “since before the word polyamory even existed.” Our conversation with her is beautiful and weaves together how she moves thro...

Ep 184 - Jamie from 2021-06-09T00:05

Jamie’s story is beyond powerful. They are incredibly vulnerable with us about the adversity they have overcome and continue to work through around transitioning, being autistic, surv...

Ep 183 - Dear Poly (Phillip) from 2021-06-02T00:05

Phillip grew up in an extremely conservative household which influenced much of how he approached love, sexuality, relationships, and life. Since coming out in high school he has been pushing back ...

Ep 182 - Jessie + Roy from 2021-05-26T00:34:55

Jessie is in her late twenties and has been exploring non-monogamy for about the past two years. Roy's been trying to turn 50 but Covid keeps getting in the way. He's been exploring polyamory for a...

Ep 181 - Ryan from 2021-05-19T03:05

Ryan's approach to life is to enjoy absolutely every second as much as possible and to have incredible experiences with all of the wonderful people around him. He lives in a house with five, or may...

Ep 180 - G from 2021-05-12T03:05

G joins us for what is quite possibly the most powerful discussion we've had on the show about self-discovery and knowing one's self. At only 25 years old, G has lived all over the world while buil...

Ep 179 - Loving Without Boundaries (Kitty Chambliss) from 2021-05-05T03:05

Kitty is on a simple mission: To love and to educate. She describes herself as a cheating serial monogamist for the first 10-15 years of her dating life, and then she discovered consensual non-mono...

Ep 178 - The V Spot (Katt) from 2021-04-28T03:05

Katt brings such incredible energy and positivity to this powerful discussion on personal growth and self-discovery. As she describes it, she grew up as a prude who was pretty much afraid of all th...

Ep 177 - Claire from 2021-04-20T21:32:08

Claire is in her mid thirties and always felt like a misfit in her relationships. That is, until she started exploring ethical non-monogamy about seven years ago... In this fantastic conversation, ...

Ep 176 - 2HotWives (Ams + Kat) from 2021-04-14T00:05

Ams and Kat are the hosts of the 2HotWives podcast and are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and...

Ep 175 - Axel from 2021-04-07T00:05

Axel and his wife opened their relationship a few years ago after she came to him and let him know that she had fallen in love with another guy. This was a wakeup call that they had put their marri...

Ep 174 - 4OURPLAY (Bella + Jase) from 2021-03-31T00:05

This is a beautiful conversation about self-discovery, personal growth, and creating the relationship that works best for you regardless of what others think. Bella and Jase are high school sweethe...

Ep 173 - Leanne from 2021-03-24T00:05

Leanne is 22 years old and has been exploring non-monogamy in various capacities for the last five years. Her perspectives on love, life, and self worth are truly beautiful and we're so excited to ...

Ep 172 - Sylvie + Jeff from 2021-03-17T00:05

Sylvie and Jeff have been together over 17 years and exploring variations of non-monogamy for about four of them. They really jumped in with both feet after going to a sex club together while doing...

Ep 171 - Pearl from 2021-03-10T00:05

Pearl is in her early thirties and has been exploring polyamory for a little over two years. She describes her introduction to non-monogamy as being poly under duress. Her ex-fiancé brought up the ...

Ep 170 - Linda from 2021-03-03T01:05

Linda joins us for a powerful and vulnerable conversation that dives deep into the unethical side of non-monogamy. She shares with us how she transitioned from wanting the fairytale life of a monog...

Ep 169 - Alice + Sam from 2021-02-24T00:05

This conversation with Alice and Sam is absolutely beautiful. For them, life is about having incredible experiences with amazing people from all over the world. They have spent the last four years ...

Ep 168 - Life on the Swingset (Cooper) from 2021-02-17T00:05

Cooper is a polyamorous queer author and podcaster who has been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. He started the Life on the Swingset podcas...

Power of Witness 1.6 - Reflections from 2021-02-12T00:05

Welcome back to the Power of Witness Series!   This is the final episode of the series in which all of the participants reflect back on the experience and talk about their takeaways and what la...

Ep 167 - Anna+ Groot from 2021-02-10T00:05

Anna and Groot met at a munch about four years ago while she was married and Groot was starting to explore non-monogamy. Since then, they have become primary partners and are currently in a mono - ...

Power of Witness 1.5 - Laura + Casey from 2021-02-05T00:05

Welcome back to the Power of Witness Series!   This week we have Laura and Casey on the hot seat. They shared their story on our show on Listen

Ep 165 - Something Positive for Positive People (Courtney) from 2021-01-27T00:05

Courtney is the founder and executive director of the non-profit Something Positive for Positive People. This organization serves as an intervention resource at...

Power of Witness 1.3 - Jill + Jack from 2021-01-22T00:05

Welcome back to the Power of Witness Series!   This week we have Jill and Jack on the hot seat. They shared their story on our show on Listen

Power of Witness 1.1 - Introduction from 2021-01-15T00:05

Welcome to the Power of Witness Series!   This is a collaboration project with Catherine from Expansive Connection. She is a licensed couns...

Ep 163 - Romantic Chorus (Jeff) from 2021-01-13T00:05

  We absolutely love Jeff's approach to life. You'll hear throughout the conversation how he is always up for new adventures and looking at the world in a new way. His positivity and willingne...

Ep 162 -The Open Nesters (Tessa + Amir) from 2021-01-06T00:05

Tessa and Amir have been together for over 30 years and opened their relationship just about a decade ago. The discussion with them is all about enjoying the journey in life. Their first exposure t...

New Years 2021 Extravaganza Bonus Episode from 2021-01-01T00:05

Happy New Year everyone! We have a fun bonus episode for you all today that is full of listener bloopers, what everyone is thankful for in 2020 even with it being a difficult year, and how we all p...

Ep 161 - Giselle from 2020-12-30T00:05

Giselle is a free spirit who has lived a very full life of adventure and as best we can tell, she is just getting started! She's been exploring polyamory for close to 40 years and currently identif...

Ep 160 - Poly in Place (Krista + Brendan) from 2020-12-23T00:05

Krista and Brendan are a couple of 30 somethings who met at band camp in high school and have pretty much been together ever since. Early on in their relationship they began having conversations ab...

Ep 159 - Kristen (+ Lindsey + Austin) from 2020-12-16T00:05

Kristen and Austin started exploring swinging early on in their relationship after they got pregnant and she lost interest in sex. Her solution was to outsource the task. Since then, they have lean...

Ep 158 - Cheating On Fear (Beatrice + Dante) from 2020-12-09T00:05

Fear doesn't stop death. It only stops life. Amazing insight straight from the Cheating on Fear website, as is the following bio (not because we're laz...

Ep 157 - Jade from 2020-12-02T00:05

Jade self-describes as a cyborg who combines provocative thought with moving furniture. Clearly, you're in for an interview that blends a sharp sense of humor with a powerful story. Beyond cyborg, ...

Ep 156 - Chloe + Drew (Round 2) from 2020-11-25T00:05

Chloe and Drew were such amazing guests that we decided to have them back a second time! It's not critical that you listen to their first episode ( Listen

Ep 148 - Everyone's Autonomous (Marie) from 2020-10-07T00:05

You're about to embark on one of our most powerful episodes to date. Marie gracefully blends her moving personal stories with humor as she takes us through how she deconstructed her religious upbri...

Ep 147 - Sophie + Brandon from 2020-09-30T00:05

This is a fantastic discussion tying together infidelity, a desire to live life to the fullest, and incredible growth and communication... Sophie and Brandon are in their mid thirties...

Ep 146 - Leah from 2020-09-23T00:05

This is a wonderful discussion about self-discovery, boundaries, standing up for yourself, and communicating with compassion. Leah is a self-proclaimed relationship junky but only rec...

Ep 145 - Mel + Rah + Tom from 2020-09-16T00:05

Our first interview with a throuple! Woop woop! Not just any throuple either... These three are incredible humans and have such an amazing attitude towards life and relationships. It'...

Ep 144 - Nicki from 2020-09-09T00:05

At 22, Nicki is our youngest guest so far. She has recently started exploring non-monogamy with her partner and as she puts it, she's standing at the edge of the abyss looking in... And she's super...

Ep 143 - Christy + Rebecca + David + Jason from 2020-09-02T00:05

This episode is such a ball of positive energy and good vibes that it should be titled "How to make Covid your Biatch!" Basically, it's like this: Christy is married to David and in a...

Ep 142 - Rebecca from 2020-08-31T00:05

Rebecca's story is so amazing and inspirational! After a difficult breakup and being monogamous her entire life, she has spent the last 18 months (ish) rethinking everything. In that time, she has ...

Ep 141 - Zach from 2020-08-26T00:05

Zach is an incredibly kind and loving human who is full of joy and ready to share it with the world! He’s only 30 but has had a wildly diverse array of experiences… He’s traveled the ...

Ep 140 - Jane +Jay from 2020-08-19T00:05

Jane and Jay are in their early-ish forties and have been exploring swinging for the last seven years. The call themselves social swingers and for them it’s all about making friends a...

Ep 139 - Sky + Kody from 2020-08-12T00:05

Sky and Kody were destined to never be together... Or perhaps quite the opposite. Against all odds, Tinder somehow made it happen. Lucky for them and lucky for all of us who get to hear their journ...

Ep 138 - Charita Marie from 2020-08-05T00:05

Charita Marie is an incredible woman who is an unbelievable advocate and activist in the black, non-monogamous, and LGBTQ+ communities. To name just a few, she is a co-organizer of Poly Dallas Millennium, to moderate our first panel discussion. As she mentions, this is ...

Ep 132 - Marla Renee Stewart from 2020-07-01T00:05

Marla's story and message are incredible, you do not want to skip this episode. She is a professional sexologist, intimacy/relationship/sex coach, speaker, and author. She is the owner of Listen

Ep 131 - We Gotta Thing (Mrs. + Mr. Jones) from 2020-06-24T00:05

Mrs. and Mr. Jones from the We Gotta Thing podcast join us this week to share their story. "But can't I just go listen to their story on their ...

Ep 130 - Felice + Bill: Round 2 from 2020-06-17T00:05

Felice and Bill are back for round 2! We originally talked to them in Episode 42 and they're back to give us an upd...

Ep 129 - Chloe from 2020-06-15T00:05

Chloe's story is powerful in so many ways. After opening their relationship at the end of 2019, Chloe and her fiancé ultimately ended up parting ways. Starting to explore swinging and...

Ep 128 - Mel + Carson from 2020-06-10T00:05

Mel and Carson have been slowly dipping their toes in and back out of non-monogamy for the last couple of years. It has been a slow build up sprinkled with a few speed bumps and lots of learning...

Ep 127 - Perla + Chad from 2020-06-03T00:05

Today's episode is powerful in many ways. Perla and Chad are very vulnerable with us and share many of the challenges they have overcome in the last few years since they started opening up their...

Ep 126 - Irene from 2020-05-27T00:05

Irene shares a powerful and moving story with us this week. She has been exploring non-monogamy for a few years and initially got into it towards the end of an emotionally challenging...

Ep 125 - Laura + David from 2020-05-20T07:05

Laura and David share an experience with us that has never been discussed on the show... Simply put, they had a baby together. It's definitely much more complicated than that. You'll see. They h...

Ep 124 - Michelle + Steve from 2020-05-13T07:05

Michelle and Steve never really closed their relationship after they got together. Steve had explored non-monogamy in the past but this was Michelle's first time even hearing about it but it mad...

Ep 123 - Chels + Luc from 2020-05-11T07:05

Chels and Luc have been exploring non-monogamy for about seven years together and have seen the dynamic of how it works shift and grow over the years. As they say, it started off more about the ...

Ep 122 - Carrie + Jack from 2020-05-06T07:05

Carrie and Jack started exploring non-monogamy, mainly of the hotwife variety, the day before we published our first podcast episode, exactly two years ago! Happy anniversary to them and to us! ...

Ep 121 - Aubrey + Jason from 2020-04-29T07:05

Aubrey and Jason share a beautiful story of growing their relationship and taking it to the next level after going through difficult experiences. They talk about healing from an infidelity, expl...

Ep 120 - Livin' The Suite Life (Tryst + Loq) from 2020-04-22T07:05

This one is a ball of pure joy and fun! Tryst and Loq join us on their one year anniversary of the Livin' The Suite Life podcast to give us a behind the scenes look and share a laugh or twenty. ...

Ep 119 - Kerry + Andy from 2020-04-15T07:05

This is an amazing and vulnerable story... Kerry and Andy's relationship started from a place of openness and honesty but wound up leading to an infidelity that spurred powerful changes in them ...

Ep 118 - KamalaDevi + Michael from 2020-04-08T07:05

KamalaDevi and Michael have been exploring non-monogamy in various ways for almost 20 years. KamalaDevi is a self-described muse, mystic, and mentor as well as an author, coach, educator, and ac...

FF 1.10 - Bringing up Non-Monogamy to your Partner with Catherine from 2020-04-03T07:05

Welcome to Episode 10 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. For this episode we had...

Ep 117 - Dana + Happy from 2020-04-01T07:05

Dana and Happy... So much to say... Self described pansexual, hedonist, sluts. Kinky. Polyamorous. Relationship anarchists. All around amazing people with fantastic energy and outlooks on life! ...

FF 1.9 - Transitioning Relationships with Libby Sinback from 2020-03-27T07:05

Welcome to Episode 9 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. Our guest today is Libby...

Ep 116 - Denise + Mark from 2020-03-25T07:05

This is one of the most powerful episodes we have had the honor of sharing. After 30 years of marriage and kids, Mark came out to Denise as gay. Two years later, they're still married! The trans...

FF 1.8 - Navigating Sexuality with Angela + Bradford from 2020-03-20T07:05

Welcome to Episode 8 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode we tackl...

Ep 115 - Rapunzel + Colin from 2020-03-18T07:05

Rapunzel is back to talk with us again and this time she brought a partner with her. She's been married twice and swore she wasn't going to do that nonsense again... Guess what? She was wrong! T...

FF 1.7 - Shame Part 2 with Jill + Jack from 2020-03-13T07:05

Welcome to Episode 7 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode we conti...

Ep 114 - Katt from 2020-03-11T07:05

A few years back, while going through a very difficult and isolated time in her life, Katt's hairdresser suggested that she should check out Fetlife... Since then she has been experiencing huge ...

FF 1.6 - Shame Part 1 with A.J. Bond from 2020-03-06T08:05

Welcome to Episode 6 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode we discu...

Ep 113 - Hazel + James from 2020-03-04T08:05

Hazel and James started their relationship over a decade ago, but with a twist... Hazel was married. She talks about how she has reconciled the guilt from her infidelity and how she and James ha...

FF 1.5 - Consent and Communication with Ginger + Ryan from 2020-02-28T08:05

Welcome to Episode 5 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode we tackl...

Ep 112 - Jamie from 2020-02-26T08:05

Jamie was first introduced to non-monogamy during college when her and a boyfriend started to explore swinging. Since then she has been learning what her needs are and taking care of her relatio...

FF 1.4 - Sexual Health Part 2 with Courtney Brame from 2020-02-21T08:05

Welcome to Episode 4 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. Today we continue our di...

Ep 111 - Chanelle + Grant from 2020-02-19T08:05

Chanelle and Grant have been married for over 10 years and started exploring non-monogamy a few years back when their jobs kept them apart for extended periods of time. It has also helped them n...

FF 1.3 - Sexual Health Part 1 with Dr. Evelin Dacker from 2020-02-14T08:05

Welcome to Episode 3 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode we talk ...

Ep 110 - Maria + Jory from 2020-02-12T08:05

Maria and Jory have been exploring non-monogamy since the start of their relationship about 15 years ago. As you will learn, they have found a blend somewhere in the middle of swinging and polya...

FF 1.2 - Intentional Conversations with Catherine from 2020-02-07T08:05

Welcome to Episode 2 of Focus Fridays, a series of topic specific discussions with other contributors, and a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. Today we’re talking with...

Ep 109 - Sarah + Ed from 2020-02-05T08:05

Sarah and Ed discovered swinging on a work trip to Desire a few years ago... Yes, for real, apparently that's a thing. They started exploring it slowly and have always taken a very laid back and...

FF 1.1 - Introduction to Vocabulary in Non-Monogamy with Jessica + Matt from 2020-01-31T08:05

Our first Focus Friday episode ever! These episodes are topic specific discussions with other contributors, a bit different from our traditional story-focused interviews. In this episode, we tal...

Ep 108 - Daniel from 2020-01-29T08:05

Daniel grew up with non-monogamy being modeled for him from an early age and actually rebelled against it for quite a while. In this episode he talks about what caused him to give it a second ch...

Focus Fridays Season 1 Trailer from 2020-01-24T08:05

Welcome to Season 1 of Focus Fridays!

This is a short trailer for a new project where we have collaborated with many content creators, sex educators, and professionals to have di...

Ep 107 - Chris + Fred from 2020-01-22T08:05

If you are looking to introduce swinging or non-monogamy to your partner via podcast, this is probably one of the best episodes we can think of for doing that. Chris and Fred have an amazing app...

Ep 106 - Rachel from 2020-01-15T09:05

This is a super fun interview with a partner of one of our previous guests. Rachel is married to Norm from episode 80 and she is here to share her perspective on their journey together and her o...

Ep 105 - Laura + Casey from 2020-01-08T08:05

Laura and Casey cover a ton of ground in this extremely relatable episode. They are in their mid-30's and have been together for over 20 years. In that time, one of them definitely didn't nail i...

Ep 104 - Multiamory (Dedeker) from 2020-01-01T08:05

In her early twenties Dedeker continually found herself wanting to cheat on her partners even though she loved them and still wanted to be with them. She never cheated, but after confessing this...

Ep 103 - Claire + Phil from 2019-12-25T08:05

Claire and Phil met in high school but didn't end up getting together until a few years later. They've been together for over 10 years now and sort of stumbled into non-monogamy pretty early on ...

Ep 102 - Brian from 2019-12-18T08:05

Brian and his wife have been exploring non-monogamy in various capacities over the past few years and have ultimately decided to separate. To protect her privacy, they decided the best strategy ...

Ep 101 - Brandy + Will from 2019-12-16T08:05

Brandy and Will have been together less than a year and jumped into the world of swinging very early on! They both came out of long marriages and were committed early on to being wide open and t...

Ep 100 - Lee + Ron from 2019-12-11T08:05

Lee and Ron are the first same gender male couple that we have had the opportunity to have on the show and we're so excited to help get their story out into the world. They have been together ab...

Ep 99 - Multiamory (Jase) from 2019-12-04T08:05

One of the esteemed hosts of the Multiamory podcast joins us this week to share a bit more about his personal story. He has been exploring non-monogamy in various forms for about 14 years and ha...

Ep 98 - Libby Sinback from 2019-11-27T08:05

Libby is a relationship coach and educator as well as a brand new podcaster! Emma said I can't call this the "Mom-isode" so I won't... But I will say that Libby has some incredible stories of ho...

Ep 97 - Jill + Jack from 2019-11-20T08:05

This is an amazing and powerful story of two strong people who have come out of incredibly oppressive religious backgrounds and are working together everyday to overcome shame and find their way...

Ep 96 - The Erotic Awakening (Dawn + Dan) from 2019-11-18T07:05

Dawn and Dan have been together and exploring non-monogamy in a variety of ways for the past 20 years. Eleven years ago they started their podcast called The Erotic Awakening and have published ...

Ep 95 - Eliza + Scott from 2019-11-13T07:05

Eliza and Scott have been best friends for 25 years, they may have also hooked up a few times over the years. A recent car accident awakened something inside of them and now they're married. Not...

Ep 94 - Reagan from 2019-11-06T07:05

Reagan is a 58 year old polyamorous, kinky, liberal, atheist, legal sex worker who has been exploring non-monogamy since her 20's! She is full of wisdom and life experiences that we can all lear...

Ep 93 - Amy + Scott from 2019-10-30T06:05

Amy and Scott started exploring non-monogamy fairly recently after Amy *technically* cheated on Scott... Luckily, it seems like the only problem Scott had was that he wasn't there for it! These ...

Ep 92 - Amanda + MC from 2019-10-23T06:05

Amanda and MC are a queer couple who were friends first and have now been exploring non-monogamy together for about two years. Amanda is a queer woman in her early 30's who has explored non-mono...

Ep 91 - Robert from 2019-10-16T06:05

Robert shares an emotional story with us that spans the 18 year relationship with his partner as they navigated non-monogamy together. Ultimately, the relationship did not work out and he talks ...

Ep 90 - Kathy Labriola from 2019-10-14T06:05

Kathy is an author, nurse, counselor, and hypnotherapist... She has been exploring non-monogamy for over 50 years and talks with us about what it has been like on her journey and how she has see...

Ep 89 - Chloe + Drew from 2019-10-09T06:05

Chloe and Drew share an incredibly powerful and moving story with us this week. Their 10+ year relationship has withstood challenges that are hard to comprehend. Throughout the journey they have...

Ep 88 - Eliza + Mark from 2019-10-02T06:05

This week we get a fantastic look at how different partners can fulfill different needs in your life. Mark and Eliza have been together for a few years and have been exploring polyamory since th...

Ep 87 - Lara + Patrick from 2019-09-30T06:05

Boom! Surprise bonus episode! Lara and Patrick are both in the third act of their lives and are living it up! They are loving exploring the world of swinging together and the amazing friends the...

Ep 86 - Kenneth from 2019-09-25T06:05

Kenneth has one of the more fascinating backgrounds that we have ever heard and it is captivating. He spent over 30 years as part of the Amish community and has since found his way out. He now i...

Ep 85 - Emily + Steve from 2019-09-18T06:05

You are going to laugh your butt off at the same time your heart is going out to these two amazing people. In their own words, Em and Steve proclaim that they are THE example of how not to get i...

Ep 84 - C.C. + Steve from 2019-09-11T06:05

Steve and C.C. are our first interview with a couple who is exploring the world of hotwifing! They got into it a little over a year ago and when you listen to Steve talk about how amazing their ...

Ep 83 - Taj from 2019-09-09T08:05

Taj is in his late twenties and has been working for the last 10+ years to figure out how to label his relationship style. We don't have a great answer and honestly, I think the question we came aw...

Ep 82 - Gina + Matt from 2019-09-04T06:05

Gina and Matt stumbled into the swinging lifestyle a little over a year ago... by accident. It was a super intense beginning and it has changed their relationship for the better since then. They...

Ep 81 - Karen + Jim from 2019-08-28T06:05

Basically, here's what happened... Karen left her husband after 27+ years and went to a swinger's club the same week... She met Jim on the first night and now they are inseparable. There's a lot...

Ep 80 - Norm from 2019-08-21T06:05

Norm has an incredible story and is a fantastic storyteller... And he has some stories! He and his wife of 30 years started exploring polyamory a few years ago and have learned a lot along the w...

Ep 79 - Stephanie + Jason from 2019-08-14T06:05

Stephanie and Jason are brand spankin' new to swinging and are super excited about starting to explore lots of things. Not to mention, Jason just came out to his wife as bi-sexual! They share so...

Ep 78 - Michelle + Orlando from 2019-08-07T06:05

Michelle and Orlando join us for one of the best conversations we've had for anyone who is looking to get into swinging. They've been tinkering with the idea for years but went for it all out la...

Ep 77 - O.M. Wills from 2019-08-05T06:05

Author O.M. Wills comes by today to share with us the difficulties he and his wife have had trying to break into the swinging community over the last few years. His wife is super pregnant so she...

Ep 76 - Kelly + Frank from 2019-07-31T06:05

Kelly joins us to tell the story of her and her husband Frank who is on tour and couldn't join us. They have been weaving in and out of non-monogamy since they started their dating lives around ...

Ep 75 - Koe Creation from 2019-07-24T06:10

Koe is an amazing bada$$ sex educator, speaker, artist, activist, and.... Author of the new book "This Heart Holds Many"! They talk with us about what it was like growing up in a polyamorous fam...

Ep 74 - Suzie + Jay from 2019-07-17T06:05

Suzie and Jay have been married for over a decade and started exploring non-monogamy less than a year ago. Since then they have mostly been exploring the swinging side of things but we're tastin...

Ep 73 - Whitney Miller from 2019-07-10T06:05

Whitney Miller is the former Miss USA 2012 but she's all about destroying stereotypes. One of her goals has always been to redefine what it means to be a pageant girl. This has taken the form of...

Ep 72 - Christy + David from 2019-07-03T06:00

Christy and David took their relationship from monogamous to swinging to total non-hierarchical polyamory in a relatively short amount of time. They share with us the difficulties that come with...

Ep 71 - Jess + Shawn + Cait + Ken from 2019-06-28T06:05

This one is really just a Friday fun day episode. We were able to get all four of the guests you heard this week together in one place for a wild ride of an interview. Really, it's just basicall...

Ep 70 - Cait + Ken from 2019-06-26T06:05

Cait and Ken, the other half of the quad that we talked with on Monday joins us today to share their side of the story. Yet another case of swingers turned poly. Maybe the two aren't so differen...

Ep 69 - Jess + Shawn: Round 2 from 2019-06-24T06:05

Shawn and Jess come back on 35 episodes later to share what's changed in their lives... Spoiler alert! It's kind of a big transition they have made. We talk about what happens when swinging turn...

Ep 68 - Swinging Cajuns (Sara + Pete) from 2019-06-19T06:05

Our biggest plot twist yet and another unconventional start to non-monogamy! We absolutely can't recommend this episode enough. Sara and Pete are the authors of a blog called the Listen

Ep 61 - Taylor + Ryan Revisited from 2019-05-01T06:05

It's been a year since we started the podcast and we had the honor to sit down with our close friends and very first guests ever on the show to get an update on their journey. Spoiler alert... A...

Ep 60 - Steak + Tequila from 2019-04-24T06:05

The esteemed hosts of the podcast Getting Into the Swing of Things with Steak and Tequila stop by for a super fun chat! They share some tips and tricks on meeting people as well as how they bala...

Ep 59 - Josephine + Wyatt from 2019-04-17T06:05

Religion had these two tightly locked in... Then they moved to France and slowly started opening up their view on sex. Fast-forward a few years and they are exploring swinging and non-monogamy! ...

Ep 58 - PolyFinda App (Nami + Bruce) from 2019-04-15T06:05

As Nami puts it, most of the things Bruce does in life are to help other people. Together, the two of them have created a new app called PolyFinda which is a dating and community resource for pe...

Ep 57 - Catherine + Ray from 2019-04-10T06:05

Catherine and Ray stumbled into swinging on accident after a spur of the moment day trip to Temptation Resort in Cancun on their tenth anniversary. After a few years of discussing and research t...

Ep 56 - Life on the Swingset (Tonia + Dylan) from 2019-04-03T06:05

Tonia and Dylan of Life on the Swingset fame stop by to share their origin story! We talk everything from jealousy and scheduling to sexy board game nights. These two have been navigating non-mo...

Ep 55 - Rapunzel from 2019-03-27T06:05

Rapunzel has explored swinging and polyamory both while married and as a single woman. She has a great outlook on how all of her different relationship styles with many different people impact h...

Ep 54 - Heather + Mike from 2019-03-20T06:05

These two have the pedal to the metal! They have been best friends for many many years and finally took it to the next level. Now, they are exploring non-monogamy together and in the course of a...

Ep 53 - #Open App (Amanda + David) from 2019-03-18T06:05

The creators of the new dating app #Open stop by to share their story and to talk about the revolution they are trying to create in the world of dating and inclusivity. This is an amazing resour...

Ep 52 - Life on the Swingset (Ginger + The Prof) from 2019-03-13T06:05

If you know Life on the Swingset, you know Ginger... If you know Ginger, you know The Prof. If you don't. You need to come in here and listen to two of the most amazing and well spoken humans on...

Ep 51 - Ann + Brian from 2019-03-06T06:05

If you look up compersion in the dictionary, there is likely a photo of these two amazing people! They found one another after both going through divorces a few years back and have set out on a ...

Ep 50 - Taytum + Rachel from 2019-02-27T06:05

Rachel and Taytum are two college students in their early twenties who are exploring their sexualities and different relationship styles together. Fairly early in their relationship Taytum confe...

Ep 49 - Torrid Souls (Tori + Soul) from 2019-02-20T07:05

Tori and Soul are the Torrid Souls... A badass bisexual female-female couple who have been exploring the world of swinging for a few years. They share some amazing stories and insight with us, a...

Ep 48 - Christopher Smith from 2019-02-13T06:05

Christopher Smith has an amazing story he shares with us today. He was in the military, he was a pastor, he has multiple degrees in religious studies, he has a kid, and he is a speaker in the po...

Ep 47 - Kat + Tom from 2019-02-06T07:05

This is one of the wilder interviews we have done! Kat and Tom are full of energy and life and they have a fantastic outlook on life and non-monogamy. They share a lot of amazing bits and pieces...

Ep 46 - Vel + Jason from 2019-01-30T07:05

This week's interview is really heartwarming. Vel and Jason are a couple who have been together for a few years and have essentially been open since the start. The love and compassion they have ...

Ep 45 - Kevin Patterson (Poly Rolemodels) from 2019-01-23T07:05

Author, blogger, and speaker of all things polyamory, Kevin Patterson sits down for a wide-ranging interview with us this week. We talk gender roles, male stereotypes, navigating polyamory as a ...

Ep 44 - Front Porch Swingers (Brenna + Brian) from 2019-01-16T07:05

This week we have the honor of interviewing the hosts of the new-ish podcast, Front Porch Swingers! Brenna and Brian share some sexy stories with us along with their origin story and some of the...

Ep 43 - Aleah from 2019-01-09T07:05

Aleah is a young woman in her early 30's who has been pushing the confines of traditional relationship models for a few years. She has been exploring polyamory along with swinging with some of h...

Ep 42 - Felice + Bill from 2019-01-02T07:05

This interview blew our minds! These two have so much love for one another and their journey has taken some amazing twists over their 30+ year marriage. They got their start from a little nudge ...

Ep 41 - Sex Out Loud (Tristan Taormino) from 2018-12-26T07:05

We had the honor of sitting down at Desire in November 2018 with the one and only Tristan Taormino for a an interview in which she tells us things she has never spoken about publicly before. Her...

Ep 40 - Mila from 2018-12-19T07:05

An incredible interview with an amazing young woman from Argentina who is now living in Barcelona, Spain. She shares a moving story of growing up and exploring her sexuality and different relati...

Ep 39 - Fight Boring Marriages (Danielle + Clayton) from 2018-12-12T06:05

Okay, so these two bloggers are amazing! They travel the world, they dabble in swinging, they had sex for 400 consecutive days, and... They have done all of this while battling against a very st...

Ep 38 - Crystal with blackandpoly.org from 2018-12-05T06:00

Crystal has an incredible story that she shares along with some fantastic discussions around navigating the world of polyamory specifically as it pertains to being a person of color. She is the ...

Ep 37 - Elizabeth + Phillip from 2018-11-28T06:00

We have decided to call this episode "The Parenting Episode" because it is honestly one of the most amazing interviews we have heard about handling being a parent while swinging. It also has one...

Ep 36 - The A-Slut Podcast with Simon from 2018-11-21T06:00

The host and creator of The A-Slut Podcast joins us all the way from New Zealand for an amazing discussion about consent, BDSM, and polyamory. Give it a listen, but only if you like awesome thin...

Ep 35 - Angus from 2018-11-14T06:00

Our first (and hopefully not last) interview with a BBC bull who has been exploring the swinging lifestyle for many years as both a single person and while in a couple. It's a fascinating interv...

Ep 34 - Jess + Shawn from 2018-11-07T06:00

This week we have an interview... Duh! It's an amazing interview with a couple who has been exploring swinging for a little over a year and have some fantastic stories as well as one of the funn...

Ep 33 - Cindy + John from 2018-10-31T05:00

Two of our Twitter Followers reached out and wanted to share their story with everyone. Of course, we wanted them to as well so that's what we did. They have been swinging together since high sc...

Ep 32 - On The Wet Coast (Kat + Flick) from 2018-10-24T05:00

Kat and Flick from the podcast On The Wet Coast join us this week for a diverse interview covering polyamory, swinging, and mental health within the non-monogamy space. Tune in to hear how they ...

Ep 31 - Abby + Justin from 2018-10-17T05:00

We wrangled some of our sexy friends who are full of knowledge and experience to come on and share some hilarious and helpful stories from throughout their time exploring swinging. They don't re...

Ep 30 - Sarah + Zach from 2018-10-10T05:00

This week a young couple starts exploring non-monogamy a little more seriously after she calls him up on the phone and has some pretty blunt things to share about her sexual desires. Give it a l...

Ep 29 - Swinging Downunder Interviews Us from 2018-10-08T05:00

We mix it up for a bonus episode this week! C and D from the podcast Swinging Downunder take over our show and interview us regarding some exciting things we are working on this year!

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Ep 28 - Sapphic Swingers (Tiff + Rach) from 2018-10-03T05:00

Things get a little out of control this week when the hostesses of the Sapphic Swingers podcast drop by for an outrageous yet extremely valuable interview on what it's like being a lesbian coupl...

Ep 27 - Christopher from 2018-09-26T05:00

This week we uncover one of the most unconventional and fascinating relationship dynamics we've had on the show. Christopher has been exploring polyamory with his wife for a few years and is eve...

Ep 26 - Vaughn from 2018-09-19T05:00

Our guest this week describes himself as "polyamorous with a dash of swing." Find out why and what that means to him. We also get some great tips on navigating the lifestyle as a person of color...

Ep 25 - Swinging Out West (J + S) from 2018-09-12T05:00

In this week's interview we talk with the hosts of the podcast 'Swinging Out West' about how they got into swinging, how they have dealt with jealousy, and how swinging has impacted their abilit...

Ep 24 - Amy from 2018-09-05T05:00

This week we have an incredible interview with a young woman who is exploring solo polyamory and has been for a few years now. She shares a lot of amazing stories and insight with us in an episo...

Ep 23 - Steph + Dave from 2018-08-29T05:00

Another in person interview! We are ecstatic to sit down with some close friends of ours and discuss their journey into non-monogamy. They have kept open minds since the beginning of their relat...

Ep 22 - Two Married (Bowie + Tristan) from 2018-08-22T05:00

We continue with our sex worker theme this week with an incredible interview with Bowie and Tristan of the podcast Two Married Sluts. They are both professional companions and involved in the sw...

Ep 21 - Alice Little from 2018-08-20T05:00

Bonus episode! This week we sit down with Alice Little, the number one booking legal sex worker in the United States, who works at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada. She is a sex worker's right...

Ep 20 - The Monogamish Marriage (Kate and Mike) from 2018-08-15T05:00

This week we sit down with the authors of the hit blog "The Monogamish Marriage" to discuss what being non-monogamous means to them, how they discovered it, and some of the amazing things they h...

Ep 19 - Catherine + EJ from 2018-08-08T05:00

We're excited to have an awesome couple on today's show who has been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. For many years they were bouncing around different swinging scenes across the USA a...

Ep 18 - Bed Hoppers (Mrs. + Mr. H) from 2018-08-01T05:00

Get ready to laugh... The lovely hosts of the Bed Hoppers podcast stop in for an entertaining discussion of their journey into swinging. We aren't really sure what they said because we can't und...

Ep 17 - CJ from 2018-07-25T05:00

Our first interview with someone practicing solo polyamory... Not sure what that is? We know a great way to find out. Have a listen to his journey to hear the ups and downs of navigating the wor...

Ep 16 - Spiritual Swingers (Eve + Adam) from 2018-07-18T05:00

Our new podcast friends, Adam and Eve, from the Spiritual Swingers podcast come on the show and share some behind the scenes juice along with their journey. We hear how they stumbled into polyam...

Ep 15 - Sarah + Bucky from 2018-07-11T05:00

This week we talk with an incredible young couple who balances kids, running ultra-marathons, and going to comic book conventions with swinging and polyamory. Swinging didn't work for her, but i...

Ep 14 - De + Ray (Club Euphoria) from 2018-07-04T04:30

The owners and creators of Club Euphoria in Toledo share their amazing journey with us! We talk about jealousy, bisexuality in swinging, and even how they broke up partly because of swinging and...

Ep 13 - Peacock Couple (Andi + Anthony) from 2018-06-27T05:05

A behind the scenes look at a couple who met through swinging, then closed their relationship which led them to get into making their own porn. Now, they combine swinging and porn and create vid...

Ep 12 - Mr. + Mrs. B from 2018-06-20T05:15

An amazing bisexual couple shares with us their journey of discovering each other's sexuality, getting into swinging, and learning their rules and boundaries over the last 18 months. We talk abo...

Ep 11 - Priory Society (Isis + Eros) from 2018-06-13T05:30

A behind the scenes look with the hosts of the Priory Society Podcast! They share some great tips and tricks as well as some leaked content from upcoming episodes of their show. Have a listen to...

Ep 10 - Sadie + Todd from 2018-06-06T05:10

Not our first interview without pants but it is our first in-person interview! We sit down with some very close friends of ours to hear about their journey into, out of, and back into swinging a...

Ep 9 - Kasidie (Nicoleta + Scott) from 2018-05-30T05:00

Today we get an incredible behind the scenes look at the swinging journey of the founders of Kasidie! Nicoleta and Scott share with us how they got into swinging, why they decided to launch Kasi...

Ep 8 - Samantha + Aaron from 2018-05-23T05:30

Today we have a fantastic interview with an amazing couple who identifies as both polyamorous AND swingers! We have tons of great conversation around the labels regarding each of these, as well ...

Ep 7 - Swinging Downunder (C + D) from 2018-05-16T06:10

The esteemed hosts of the podcast Swinging Downunder join us all the way from Singapore to explore the near utopia of swinging and share a behind the scenes look into how and why they got into i...

Ep 6 - Elizabeth + Jake from 2018-05-16T06:00

Two relative newbies were sent our way by the very first guests ever on the podcast, Taylor and Ryan from episode two. We talk about how they got into swinging, the lessons they've learned, and ...

Ep 5 - By the Bi (Angela + Bradford) from 2018-05-09T05:49

The amazing hosts of the By the Bi Podcast beam in from Australia via Skype to share with us their experiences navigating the world of non-monogamy as both a bi female and a bi male. We also tak...

Ep 4 - Phoenix + Beast from 2018-05-09T04:43

We sit down to talk with two of our good friends that we met at Desire in 2016. They share with us an amazing look into the marriage of an out and proud self-identified lesbian who marries a hot...

Ep 3 - Monogamy Disrupted (Naughtia + Maleek) from 2018-05-02T07:10

Today we sit down with the amazing and 100% sober hosts of the fantastic podcast Monogamy Disrupted to hear how they have gone from zero to poly in six months while also narrowly avoid a divorce...

Ep 2 - Taylor + Ryan from 2018-05-02T07:05

Two good friends we met a few years back at Desire share their story of how they got into swinging. They take us on a journey of 10 years of rejection followed by "holy shit I need more of this"...

Ep 1 - The Vision + Our Journey from 2018-05-02T07:00

The very first episode of Normalizing Non-Monogamy! We updated this episode in November 2019. Don't worry, we still chat about our vision for the podcast, some notes about everything to come, an...

Pre-Launch Compilation from 2018-04-25T10:00

Some highlights and exciting bits from the first few episodes we have recorded. We launch on May 2, don't forget to subscribe!

Epic Trailer from 2018-04-14T17:02

The world's most epic podcast trailer!

Preview from 2018-04-14T16:33

A quick preview of what's to come... Launching May 2, 2018