Podcasts by On The WetCoast Podcast
Welcome to On The Wet Coast, a blog & podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety. We talk polyamory and swinging, monogamish and open relationships; from dirty, dirty sex to heartbreak.
We share our personal experiences and philosophy, observations and theories, what works for us...and where we messed it right up.
Further podcasts by Kat Stark
Podcast on the topic Sexualität
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OTWC 045: Detoxifying Relationships with Mike Joseph from 2021-08-01T23:48:08
On this episode of On The Wet Coast Kat Stark & Flick Morrison talk to Mike Joseph, a radio personality, sex educator, and host of the podcast "Listen
OTWC 044: Sex and Relationships in Media with Kevin Patterson - On The Wet Coast from 2021-07-11T23:02:54
On this episode of On The Wet Coast Kat & Flick talk to author and sex educator Kevin Patterson about representation of sexuality and relationships in media.
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OTWC 043: Reconnecting with Dr. Liz Powell - On The Wet Coast from 2021-06-06T23:23:28
On this episode of On The Wet Coast Kat & Flick talk to Psychologist Dr. Liz Powell about the challenges of re-entering the dating and sex game after more than a year of pan...
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OTWC 042: The Myth of "The Flow" from 2020-07-30T14:57:09
The most common question I get when talking about expressing needs during sex is, "Doesn't it wreck the mood?" As infuriating as I find it, I know it's n...
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OTWC 041: Tristan Taormino and Telling Your Story as Resistance from 2020-05-29T13:30
Our sex-negative culture pushes us to repress and feel shame about our sexuality or lifestyle. Stepping out of the shadows and telling your story becomes an important act of rebellion.
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OTWC 040: Novelty, Being in the Moment, and Gangbangs - On The Wet Coast from 2020-02-29T17:41:57
One of the most exciting things about non-monogamy can be the novelty of new adventures and new people in our lives. At the same time, one of the many sources of ...
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OTWC 039: Texting, Sexting, and Messaging - On The Wet Coast from 2019-12-30T02:23:05
There's a certain art to crafting the right kind of message to convey what we're feeling via characters on a screen. Since so much of modern communication is done on said screens it can be a lot...
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OTWC 038: Accountability and Consent - On The Wet Coast from 2019-11-02T13:00
Accountability and Consent can feel like the least fun topics to discuss when it comes to sexy lifestyles but when we really focus on building these factors in a ...
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OTWC 037: Disappointing Dates - On The Wet Coast from 2019-09-30T01:11:41
It's always a bummer when dates don't go as planned or don't happen at all. There can be all kinds of reasons why things don't turn out as you'd hoped from unreal...
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OTWC 036: Strapping It On - On The Wet Coast from 2019-08-19T12:30
It's no secret that On The Wet Coast, we love our sex toys. Using those toys for strap-on sex is one of our favourite ways to engage with partners, or watch our p...
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OTWC 035: Sexual Confidence - On The Wet Coast from 2019-07-29T11:00
We're always told that confidence is sexy, but how do we find the confidence to be our true sexual selves? How do we embrace our bodies and our kinks so we can en...
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OTWC 034: Chosen Family - On The Wet Coast from 2019-06-23T05:46:43
Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like coming home. Feels lik...
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OTWC 033: Get Your Flirt On - On The Wet Coast from 2019-05-12T22:13:39
Figuring out how to express our interest in someone can be one of the most challenging things in dating, especially if we find them really attractive, fun, or int...
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OTWC 032 - Sex Work Matters - On The Wet Coast from 2019-04-15T11:30
Since the passage of FOSTA/SESTA in the US, sexual content on the internet has been progressively quashed, starting with shutting down places sex workers could ad...
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OTWC 031 - Libido - On The Wet Coast from 2019-03-17T16:17:20
Our desire for sexual experiences--both solo and with a partner or partners--fluctuates for countless reasons. Stress, fatigue, hormones, depression, body image, ...
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OTWC 030 - Building Community - On The Wet Coast from 2019-02-11T13:00
If you're lucky, the place where you're living has a thriving sex -positive community and it takes little effort to find a...
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OTWC 029 - Consent - On The Wet Coast from 2019-01-13T17:23:40
Consent is a topic that has been an essential part of the non-monogamy experience, though not everyone is great at asking for or respecting it, and some feel like...
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OTWC 028 - Have You Met Flick? - On The Wet Coast from 2018-12-14T19:01:42
We're doing something a little different on this episode. Many of you know a whole lot about Kat Stark thanks to their blog posts and book Yelling In ...
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OTWC 027: Jealousy Revisited - On The Wet Coast from 2018-11-19T13:30
Jealousy is a complex emotion that usually arises when we feel threatened or like we're not getting our needs met. It is almost always the reason people cite when...
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OTWC 026: Sex, Geeks, and Sexy Geekery - On The Wet Coast from 2018-10-05T12:00
Geekery & non-monogamy crossover in so many ways. So many of the people we've met, connected with, and sexed up have been fellow geeks that enjoy much of the same...
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OTWC 025: Kinky Communication - On The Wet Coast from 2018-09-07T11:00
Sex, particularly kinky sex, is still a taboo subject in our sex negative culture. We're not supposed to talk about it so we don't learn good communication skills...
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OTWC 024: More/Better Sex - On The Wet Coast from 2018-08-11T19:07:36
Click-baity title aside, many people would like to figure out how to get more sex and better sex in their lives. It's not a priority for everyone, and isn't requi...
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OTWC 023: Dating During Upheaval - On The Wet Coast from 2018-07-07T00:02:55
Ideally, when we’re meeting, dating, and sexing on people we want to be our best selves. We want to be feeling stable and settled and able to be present and focus...
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OTWC 022: Flirting, Sexting, and Dirty Talk - On The Wet Coast from 2018-06-10T20:24:29
Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, the two of us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid. How do we get over our ow...
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OTWC 021: SCIENCE! - On The Wet Coast from 2018-04-18T01:25:55
Endless amounts of research has been done on the topic of love and relationships - generally focused on the heteronormative pair bonding that is the norm in our w...
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OTWC 020: Attraction - On The Wet Coast from 2018-03-09T05:00
Attraction is a mysterious thing.
There are physical and personality characteristics in people we're almost always a...
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OTWC 019: Building Your Ideal Relationship - On The Wet Coast from 2018-02-10T18:06:49
Many of us in non-monogamy land started out in monogamous relationships. Not necessarily because those were right for us, but because they were the default. We di...
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OTWC 018: Fantasies - On The Wet Coast from 2018-01-13T18:31:57
Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we’d like to have done to us and/or what we’d like to do to others. We also fantasize...
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OTWC 017: Butt Stuff - On The Wet Coast from 2017-12-08T06:00
Butt stuff!
It’s not just anal sex anymore, but a whole spectrum of ass play. What’s the appeal and the fascination...
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OTWC 016: Sex Toys - On The Wet Coast from 2017-11-03T04:00
We on the Wet Coast are huge fans of sex toys. We have a large collection and use them regularly both in solo play and with our partners. We've tried a lot of dif...
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OTWC 015: Getting Things Started - On The Wet Coast from 2017-10-06T19:40:54
Getting things started is not always easy. Sending that first message on a dating site. Putting yourself out there with your romantic or sexy interest. Asking for...
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OTWC 014: Pulling Back - On The Wet Coast from 2017-09-08T18:16:40
Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times when we're out there dating a ton and boning all the sexy people, when we have the time and energy to enjo...
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OTWC 013: Fitting In - On The Wet Coast from 2017-08-04T05:22:02
People whose identities don't conform to the norms within a community often feel isolated from that community. Figuring out how to fit in when you don't hew to the line of a group is an incredible ...
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OTWC 012: Impermanence, Breakups, and Relationship Transitions - On The Wet Coast from 2017-07-01T19:18:49
Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids watching Disney movies...
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OTWC 011: Sexy Vacations w Cooper S Beckett - On The Wet Coast from 2017-05-26T04:00
Sexy Vacations can be one of the incredibly fun perks of a non-monogamous lifestyle. Going to different cities and countries is always amazing, but going to diffe...
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OTWC 010: Female Relationships Part Two - On The Wet Coast from 2017-04-21T05:10:35
In this episode of the On The Wet Coast podcast, we examine our experiences of public bisexuality through exhibitionism and how it relat...
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OTWC 009: Female Relationships Part One - On The Wet Coast from 2017-04-07T03:54:32
The relationships between women in non-monogamy are rarely discussed other than that bisexual babes are hot together. Women have been taught to compete & struggle...
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OTWC 008: Group Sex Part Two - On The Wet Coast from 2017-03-10T12:00
One of the exceedingly fun features of non-monogamy can be group sex. Sexy, sweaty bodies writhing in a naked pile can be an outstanding experience, but it's not ...
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OTWC 007: Group Sex Part One - On The Wet Coast from 2017-02-20T00:56:05
One of the exceedingly fun features of non-monogamy can be group sex. Sexy, sweaty bodies writhing in a naked pile can be an outstanding experience, but it'...
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OTWC 006: Disclosure - On The Wet Coast from 2017-01-27T20:44:47
All relationships require communication, but good communication is even more essential in ethically non-monogamous relationships where multiple people's nee...
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OTWC 005: Autonomy - On The Wet Coast from 2016-10-26T00:59:19
Autonomy is a challenging subject for many of us. We're encouraged to be independent while at the same time we're told that putting the needs of the people we lov...
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OTWC 004: Triads - On The Wet Coast from 2016-09-16T19:14:02
On this episode we be discuss Triad relationships with special guest Iris @irisopens on Twitter
OTWC 003: Mental Illness - On The Wet Coast from 2016-08-19T04:09:40
On this episode we'll be discussing mental illness in non-monogamy with special guest Cooper S Beckett from Life On The Swingset podcast and Listen
OTWC 002: Stress - On The Wet Coast from 2016-06-15T04:02:35
On this episode we’re discussing Stress in ethical non-monogamy.
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OTWC 001: Jealousy - On The Wet Coast from 2016-06-15T03:21
Welcome to On The Wet Coast a podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety.
On this episode - originally released on the Gentle Perverts Social Club Podcast Episode 1...
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