Podcasts by Paging Dr. NerdLove

Paging Dr. NerdLove

Doctor NerdLove is here to help you get your dating life in order with the best dating advice and positive masculine self-improvement on the Internet.

Doctor NerdLove is not really a doctor

Further podcasts by Harris O'Malley

Podcast on the topic Selbstverwirklichung

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#68 - What Do Women Want? 5 Attraction Myths Debunked from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

There are many myths that many men have about what women find attractive - or unattractive - in men... myths that are frequently wrong. In fact, the belief in these myths is often a source of anxi...

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#67 - What Is Toxic Masculinity? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In the wake of the recent shootings in Parkside High School, actor and comedian Michael Ian Black commented that “Deeper than the gun problem is this: boys are broken." This is in no small part be...

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#66 - Overcoming Social Anxiety from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Anxiety attacks can happen at any time when you’re trying to be social, regardless of gender, regardless of whether you’re attracted to someone or not. Social anxiety makes you feel like you're inc...

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#65 - How To Survive Valentine's Day (When You're Single) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week, we’re talking about one of the worst days of the year to be alone: Valentine’s Day. When you're single, Valentine's Day is a sheer, stark reminder that you're alone... and it feels lik...

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#64 - How To Find The Perfect Gift For Her from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

One of the biggest anxieties that can come up in a relationship - especially when in its early days is paradoxically the most simple:  What do you do when it's time get a gift for your girlfriend ...

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#156 — This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It) from 2020-12-09T05:30

Let's be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women o...

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#155 — The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly. from 2020-11-19T05:00

The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they b...

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#154 — Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence from 2020-11-05T04:03:20

Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. Even if you’re in a relatively good place, we’re all getti...

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#153 — The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships from 2020-10-21T04:30

Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?

Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted,...

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#152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD from 2020-10-07T04:30

Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do without a second thought. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take th...

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#151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating from 2020-09-24T05:30

The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist; having all the right "stats" isn't goi...

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#150 — Stop Being Afraid Of Rejection from 2020-09-09T05:00

Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our liv...

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#149 — How Do You Know if She's Right For You? from 2020-08-27T04:00

What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it t...

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#148 — What Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding Redemption from 2020-08-13T04:00

It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future. By exa...

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#147 — How to Talk To Anyone (At Any Time) from 2020-07-23T05:00

One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to. Listen

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#146 — How To Transform Your Life (With Arden Leigh) from 2020-07-08T05:00

What does it take to turn your life around? How can you learn to recognize negative patterns in your life that are sabotaging your progress? And what does it take to break those patterns and mak...

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#145 — The Problem with "Nice Guys" from 2020-06-18T04:00

Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST?

The trouble is that
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#144 — Use This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs from 2020-06-04T04:30

Over the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old vi...

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Bonus Episode: Ask Dr. NerdLove Anything! from 2020-05-28T00:09:39

This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. P...

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#143 — The Art of Sexting Like A Gentleman from 2020-05-21T04:30

Sexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are lookin...

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#142 — 5 Things You Need To Get Your Life Together from 2020-05-07T04:00

How happy are you with your life right now? If you're like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You m...

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#141 — How To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT Way from 2020-04-29T05:00

Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship.

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#140 — Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? from 2020-04-23T05:00

With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more.

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#139 — How To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 Quarantine from 2020-04-15T05:00

Self-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the w...

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#138 — Love, Sex and Dating During Quarantine from 2020-04-08T05:00

The COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love durin...

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#137 — How To Have A Great Social Life During COVID-19 from 2020-04-01T04:30

Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing...

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#136 — DR NERDLOVE LIVE: Managing Your Emotional Health During COVID-19 from 2020-03-27T16:36:33

How do you manage anxiety in the middle of a pandemic? How is living under quarantine affecting you? In my first LIVE teleseminar, I talk about how to manage stress and maintain your emotional h...

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work from 2020-03-18T06:30

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!

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#135 — The 5 Things You Need To Get Over A Breakup from 2020-03-11T06:30

The reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental a...

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What Letterkenny Can Teach Us About Positive Masculinity from 2020-03-04T06:30

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!

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#133 — You Are Your Own Worst Enemy from 2020-02-26T06:00

The reason why so many people struggle with dating isn't because of their looks, their height, their genes or their hairline. It's because they are caught in a cycle of bad habits and practices ...

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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"? from 2020-02-19T07:00

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#133 - What Makes a Man Sexy To Women? from 2020-02-12T11:00

Do you know what women find sexy in a man? Not attractive, not aesthetically pleasing but what makes a woman want to peel a man’s clothing off with her teeth.<...

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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Can You Learn To Love Being Single? from 2020-02-05T10:00

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!<...

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#132 — The Secret to Being Successful With Women from 2020-01-29T05:00

Here's something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is "naturally" good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get date...

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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship? from 2020-01-22T05:00

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!<...

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#131 - How To Flirt With Women on Social Media from 2020-01-15T08:00

We live more and more of our lives online, and that means that more of our relationships start there too. But most guys don't know how to flirt effectively on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat. If...

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Take The Perfect Tinder Photo from 2020-01-08T05:30

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!

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#130 — How To Find The PERFECT Girlfriend from 2020-01-01T06:00

How do you find someone who's the RIGHT girlfriend for you... and how do you make sure that YOU are the guy that SHE'S looking for? We're going to talk about what you can do to turn 2020 into th...

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#129 - 3 Tips For Flirting Like A Master from 2019-12-18T05:30

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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women? from 2019-12-11T06:00

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#128 — How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection from 2019-12-04T05:30

What would you do if you weren't afraid of being rejected? How would your life change if you could approach people you were attracted to without the fear of rejection?

Eliminating your fe...

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin? from 2019-11-27T05:00

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours!

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#127 - Why Women Won't Text You Back (And What You Should Do) from 2019-11-20T05:30

Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic? 

When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But...

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number? from 2019-11-13T14:00

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours!

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#126 - Why Online Dating SUCKS (And 5 Ways To Fix It) from 2019-11-06T06:00

Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run r...

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#125 - Are You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship? from 2019-10-23T04:30

Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to ...

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#124 - Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys from 2019-10-10T04:00

Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them?

The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a w...

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#123 - 5 Things Men Do That Women HATE from 2019-09-25T04:00

Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things.

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#122 - Conquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social Confidence from 2019-09-12T04:00

Confidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.
 Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-p...

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#121 - The 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To Women from 2019-08-28T05:30

What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom. 

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#120 - What REALLY Makes Men Attractive? from 2019-08-14T04:00

Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women?

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#119 - What Does A Real Man Look Like? from 2019-08-01T04:30

Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.


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#118 - Dating Tips for Short Men from 2019-07-18T04:00

When Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl.

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#117 - How To Be Instantly Magnetic To Women from 2019-07-04T04:00

Charisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand ...

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BONUS EPISODE: Learning the (Love) Lessons of End of Evangelion from 2019-06-28T04:00

Now that Neon Genesis Evangelion is available on Netflix, what can we learn about love, life and loneliness from Shinji Ikari?

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#116 - This is Why Your Life Isn't Getting Better... and How To Fix It. from 2019-06-20T04:00

Incels are spending tens of thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to become Chads and they're still miserable. Here's why your life isn't getting better... and how to fix it.

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#115 - The Secret to Successful Flirting from 2019-06-06T22:36:30

Flirting with amazing women is far less complicated or difficult than people think it is. Here's the secret.

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#114 - The Mistake That's Costing You Dates from 2019-05-23T04:30

This common belief is ruining your relationships and making it impossible to find the dating success you want.

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BONUS EPISODE: Why Are Millennials Having Less Sex? from 2019-05-16T04:30

Millennials in general and Millennial men are having less sex than ever. Why? And what does this have to do with #metoo and the recent #sexstrike?

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#113 - The Dr. NerdLoveLine Special from 2019-05-09T04:00

You've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating...

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#112 - Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs from 2019-04-25T04:00

Almost every man who struggles with dating, is holding on to these self-limiting beliefs: beliefs and assumptions about yourself and the world that hold you back from...

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#111 - This Is Why Women Won't Date You (And How To Fix It) from 2019-04-11T04:00

Young men are having less sex than ever. But what's more important is how you respond to that information. Here's what's ruining your chances with women.

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#110 - The Truth About Women and Casual Sex from 2019-03-29T20:16:37

Why aren't more women interested in casual sex? What can guys do to find women who're interested in a no-strings hook-up? It's time to talk about the TRUTH about women, casual sex and how to fin...

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#109 - This Is The Worst Dating Advice In The World (And You Need To Follow It) from 2019-03-14T04:00

"Just be yourself" is some of the worst advice that you can give someone who wants to get better at dating. It's also the most important. So here's how to quit being yourself and learn how to be...

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#108 - The Virgin's Guide To Great Sex from 2019-02-28T05:30

Many virgin men-- especially older virgins -- believe that no woman’s going to want to sleep with a guy who has no experience… but they can't they get that experience without having sex.

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#107 - Who REALLY Holds The Power In Dating? from 2019-02-14T05:00

The power dynamics of dating directly affect your dating success. But who REALLY holds the power when it comes to dating? Why do so many people get the power dynamic of dating wrong and what's t...

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#106 - Did #MeToo RUIN Flirting? from 2019-01-31T06:00

Did the #MeToo movement change flirting forever? Can men no longer approach women? What makes the difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age?

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#105 - Is Masculinity A Mental Illness? from 2019-01-17T06:00

Don’t forget: I’m taking your questions for the NerdLoveLine special! Call (512) 522-6513 and leave a voicemail with your question!

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#104 - How To Keep Going (Even When It Feels Pointless) from 2019-01-03T06:30

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#103 - Offset, Cardi B. and The Wrong Way To Win Back Your Ex from 2018-12-20T06:00

There are the right ways of getting back with your ex. And then there are the wrong ways.

And then there’s what Offset did to Cardi B., which is one of the most astoundingly stupid ways o...

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#102 - Is Masturbation Bad For You? Understanding The NoFap Movement from 2018-12-06T06:00

To fap or not to fap... that is the question. Are there health benefits to giving up masturbation? Is porn addiction a real thing?
And just what is the NoFap movement, anyway?

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#101 - This is Why You Can't Get Over Her from 2018-11-29T05:30

Friends, do you suffer from uncontrollable longing for someone who barely knows you’re alive? Are you unable to get over that break up, even after months or years? Do you have the sinking feelin...

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#100 - Is She Flirting Or Just Being Friendly? from 2018-11-22T06:00

How do you tell the difference between when someone's flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place?

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#99 - Let's Talk About Toxic Femininity from 2018-11-15T06:00

One of the subjects I come back to fairly often is the idea of toxic masculinity.

It’s something that I personally feel is important to talk about becaus...

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#98 - How To Build A Lifestyle That Attracts Amazing Women from 2018-11-08T06:00

When we talk about being more attractive to women, we tend to focus on the surface. We talk about how to dress, what to say, how to act. But that’s the polish, the si...

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#97 - How To Develop a Mindset For Relationship Success from 2018-11-01T05:00

Success, whether in life or in relationships, doesn't come from having the perfect plan or never making a mistake. It comes
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#96 - This Is Why You Fail from 2018-10-25T05:00

How often has the frustration of being single gotten to you?

How many times have you asked yourself: why aren’t you going to get any better? Why do other people find lov...

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#95 - What Men Get Wrong About Women from 2018-10-18T05:00

If you’re looking for advice on dating women, then you're going to find many, many self-proclaimed experts in the female mind.

The problem is that most o...

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#94 - How To Be A Better Man from 2018-10-11T04:00

Over the last month, the nation has had one of many conversations about sexual assault and the affect it has on survivors. And as more women speak up, sharing their stories, sha...

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#93 - Flirting Mistakes That Women Hate from 2018-09-12T06:00:08

There's a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting.  Advice that not only does it not work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occ...

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#92 - How To Upgrade Your Style, Instantly from 2018-09-06T04:30

Learning how to dress well is one of the quickest and easiest ways to be more attractive. When you start dressing up sharp, you look amazing... and ...

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#91 - How To Plan The Perfect First Date from 2018-08-30T04:30

How many times have you had a first date that you thought was amazing... but never lead to a second date?

First dates can be tricky and frustrating. A lot of guys are good at gettin...

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#90 - How To Be More Attractive... Instantly! from 2018-08-23T04:30

When we talk about being attractive, we tend to think of it in terms of being physically good looking. But there’s a difference betwe...

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#89 - How To Improve Your Social Skills... Quickly from 2018-08-16T04:30

One of the mistakes a lot of people make is that they assume that social success is a binary. Either you’re good with girls or you aren’t and there’s nothing you can ...

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#88 - Why Nice Guys Lose (And Bad Boys Win) from 2018-08-09T04:30

Doctor's Note: There's a recurring audio issue with this week's episode that I wasn't able to fully eliminate. I've edited around it as best as I...

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#87 - How To Overcome Neediness from 2018-08-02T04:30

When it comes to dating, there is one common issue that men have that will kill any chance you have to build attraction or a relationship: ne...

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#86 - How To Approach Women In Groups from 2018-07-26T04:30

A lot of men don’t know how to approach women in groups — whether they’re with other women or a mixed group of men, women and more. As a result, they tend to focus on...

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#85 - Understanding The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment from 2018-07-19T04:30

Recently Henry Cavill gave his thoughts about flirting in a post #MeToo era during an interview with GQ Australia, where he claimed to be afraid that flirting with someone might...

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#84 - Can Silicon Valley Save Sex Ed? A Conversation With Brianna Rader from 2018-07-12T05:30

The state of sexual education in America is appalling. If schools aren't required by law to only teach abstinence-only education, then at most we get a glorified plumbing lesson instead of what ...

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#83 - What Terry Crews Can Teach Us About Standing Up For Male Victims from 2018-07-05T05:00

(Content Warning: Sexual Assault)

On June 26th, Expendables and Brooklyn 99 star Terry Crews testified befo...

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#82 - How To Get Women To Approach You from 2018-06-28T05:30

Lots of guys get anxious about approaching women that they're attracted to. But what if there were a way to change that. Ever wished you were one of those men who had women coming up to them...

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#81 - The Texting Mistakes That Cost Men Dates from 2018-06-21T05:30

How often has this happened to you: you've got a woman's number, but you never seem to be able to actually get a date. You may be doing great at first, but Listen

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#80 - How To Make New Friends (When You're Out Of College) from 2018-06-14T05:00

Men on the whole, and white, heterosexual men in particular, tend to have fewer friends than women and the friendships they do have tend to be shallower and ...

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#79 - Men and the Epidemic of Loneliness from 2018-06-07T04:00

Men, especially heterosexual men, tend to have very few deep, emotional connections, and of the ones they do have, very few of them are with other men. Listen

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#78 - 5 Tips To Unlock Powerful Self-Confidence from 2018-05-31T20:11:02

Everyone and their dog will tell you that confidence is sexy, it’s probably the oldest trope in dating advice besides “just be yourself”. And, in fairness… they’re ri...

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#77 - This Is What Makes You Creepy from 2018-05-24T05:30

What is it that makes one person creepy and another person attractive? Why do some men set off women's Spidey-sense while other men can do the exact same things and b...

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#76 - The Virginity Paradox from 2018-05-17T05:00

Recently, we’ve been talking about toxic masculinity and all of the ways that it damages men on the individual level and society on the whole. Listen

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#75 - How Do You Fix The Problem With Incels? from 2018-05-10T06:00

Over the last couple of weeks, it seems as though the world has been talking about incels - people who refer to themselves as being involuntarily celibate. But while ...

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#74 - How Do You Escape The Friend Zone? from 2018-04-26T04:30

The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend...

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#73 - How To Be A High-Status Man from 2018-04-19T05:30

One of the long-running questions that men have tried to solve has been why women choose to date and sleep with some men over others — and, more importantly, how ...

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#72 - What Does Positive Masculinity Look Like? from 2018-04-12T05:00

Toxic masculinity doesn’t mean that that being a man is toxic, bad or even undesirable. At the same time non-...

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#71 - What's Wrong With Men Today? from 2018-04-05T05:00

What do Men’s Rights Advocates, popular self-help gurus, the alt-right and the movie Fight Club all have in common? They're all trying to answer the question of "What...

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#70 - Bridging The Love Gap: A Conversation with Jenna Birch from 2018-03-22T04:30

Normally when I talk about dating issues, I'm talking about issues that primarily affect men, from a man's perspective. However, it can also be incredibly useful to look at the dating issues tha...

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#69 - Building Consent Culture With Kitty Stryker from 2018-03-15T04:30

This week we're doing something different. With the continuing progress of #metoo, #timesup and the questions about consent, there's no better time to talk about building towards a culture of en...

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