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Courage, Integrity, and After-Care Respect (Podcast) from 2012-11-30T15:25:49
Episode 48: Courage, Integrity, and After-Care Respect (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. Many people just don’t know how to respond when someone ...
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Responsible Community Response (Podcast) from 2012-11-23T15:28:49
Episode 47: Responsible Community Response (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. Many people just don’t know how to respond when someone comes out an...
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The Power of Responsibility (Podcast) from 2012-11-16T14:36:50
Episode 46: The Power of Responsibility (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. To take responsibility for one’s own actions, to be able to say “...
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A Fate Worse Than Death… (Podcast) from 2012-11-09T15:48:59
Episode 45: A Fate Worse Than Death… (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. It is often described as a “fate worse than death,” and, it is...
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Exposing Predditors (Podcast) from 2012-11-02T14:42:59
Episode 44: Exposing Predditors (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. Exposing perverts like Violentacrez (aka Michael Brutsch) and other Reddit users to p...
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Positively Sex-Positive (Podcast) from 2012-10-26T13:29:46
Episode 43: Positively Sex-Positive (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault & rape. Sex-Positive is a trendy term meaning, again, different things to different peo...
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Poly vs. Amory (Podcast) from 2012-10-19T14:23:21
Episode 42: Poly vs. Amory (Podcast). **Trigger Warnings** This podcast discusses sexual assault and rape. Welcome back, once again, to the Polyamory Podcast. It has been several months since I rec...
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Building a Romantic Relationship (Podcast) from 2012-07-13T13:58:22
Episode 41: Building a Romantic Relationship (Podcast). The best advice I can give you is the same advice I’ve been given again and again, and have promptly ignored because I was swept up in ...
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The Joy of Sex (Podcast) from 2012-07-06T14:16:29
Episode 40: The Joy of Sex (Podcast). Welcome back to the Poly Podcast! This week! The Joy of Sex, and what a joy it can be. Remember, it’s a gift you give yourself and your lover. It’s...
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Polyamory Podcast Hiatus from 2012-05-11T14:21:51
UPDATE 3/22/13 — this post has become more about an index for the Austin Poly Rapist saga and a resource for those trapped with sociopaths, commitmentphobes, and other abusers/predators. Here...
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Gaslighting (Podcast) from 2012-05-05T14:01:19
Episode 39: Gaslighting (Podcast). One of the most insidious forms of emotional abuse… Named after the film Gaslight, it subtly and slowly makes the target question his/her reality, deferring...
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Jealousy vs. Compersion (Podcast) from 2012-04-27T14:22:12
Episode 38: Jealousy vs. Compersion (Podcast). Compersion is a word coined for the polyamorous lifestyle meaning to find happiness when your partner is happy or experiencing joy rather than feeling...
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Insidious Lies (Podcast) from 2012-04-20T18:31:23
Episode 37: Insidious Lies (Podcast). The most insidious lies are the ones we want to hear…or sometimes the ones we tell ourselves. Learn some of the lies predators tell to get your trust, an...
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Lucky, Lucky Poly People (Podcast) from 2012-03-16T14:02:46
Episode 36: Lucky, Lucky Poly People (Podcast). Luck has nothing to do with it. So many people look at those in open or non-monogamous relationships and think we are so lucky to have fallen into su...
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Yes Means Yes (Podcast) from 2012-03-09T15:11:32
Episode 35: Yes Means Yes (Podcast). Enthusiastic Consent. Wait for it. There is nothing sexier than your partner meeting you enthusiastically as you proceed through the sexual dance. If they’...
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Emotional&Sexual Predators (Podcast) from 2012-03-02T15:47:19
Episode 34: Emotional & Sexual Predators (Podcast). Please, please, please check out this list of warning signs to see if you’ve encountered an emotional or sexual predator. They usually ...
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Emotional Vampires (Podcast) from 2012-02-17T15:14:56
Episode 33: Emotional Vampires (Podcast). Emotional Vampires are sometimes hard to spot, but we discuss some warning signs that you might have encountered an emotional vampire. If you’re in ...
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Please Release Me (Podcast) from 2012-02-10T14:58:02
Episode 32: Please Release Me (Podcast). Sexual release through masturbation, starting with treatment for “Hysteria” in the Victorian Era. From misogyny to sexual freedom among women...
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Everybody Lies (Podcast) from 2012-02-04T01:52:49
Episode 31: Everybody Lies (Podcast). Everybody lies…or do they? Unfortunately, too many people lie or deceive out of fear or laziness. Sometimes just because they have no integrity. If you&#...
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Human Touch (Podcast) from 2012-01-20T15:30:07
Episode 30: Human Touch (Podcast). The touch of another human being can be a powerful source of healing, not only for what’s going on inside your own heart and mind, but for your relationship...
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Sharing Your Lifestyle (Podcast) from 2012-01-13T15:27:59
Episode 29: Sharing Your Lifestyle (Podcast). If your sexual preference or lifestyle is “controversial” by society’s terms, you might find yourself questioning whether or not to s...
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Those Three Little Words (Podcast) from 2012-01-06T15:16:20
Episode 28: Those Three Little Words (Podcast). Love. Such a simple word, but too many people avoid it like other four-letter-words. Although a simple word, it certainly does not convey a simple co...
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Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (Podcast) from 2011-11-25T15:09:56
Episode 27: Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (Podcast). One thing that has long baffled me is the answer to the question: “Why do good people cheat?” Maslow’s Hierarchy answered ...
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Long Distance Love (Podcast) from 2011-11-18T14:58:58
Episode 26: Long Distance Love. Don’t listen to nay-sayers who tell you that long distance relationships don’t work. They do if you want them to. Like any relationship, it’s a lot...
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Choices After Indiscretion (Podcast) from 2011-11-11T14:41:38
Episode 25: Choices After Indiscretion. You cheated. Now what? Your choices before an indiscretion are infinitely better than afterward, but you do still have choices if you’ve cheated on you...
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Fear of Abandonment Can Lead to Infidelity (Podcast) from 2011-11-04T13:59:26
Episode 24: Fear of Abandonment Can Lead to Infidelity. We all fear abandonment, some of us fear it more deeply than others, but the thought of being alone can be very scary. And that fear can caus...
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Protecting Your Heart (Podcast) from 2011-10-28T13:52:03
Episode 23: Protecting Your Heart. Falling in love is intoxicating. There is no doubt. Our brains are full of those euphoric love chemicals and we feel full of life. And by all means, do fall in lo...
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Ending a Relationship with Love&Respect (Podcast) from 2011-10-21T13:51:57
Episode 22: Ending a Relationship with Love & Respect Break ups are hard. They’re painful. They can be absolutely devastating and crippling, but they don’t have to be. There will be...
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When Your SO Says No to Polyamory (Podcast) from 2011-10-14T13:41:21
Episode 21: When Your SO Says No to Polyamory. Opening your marriage or LT relationship takes a lot of time, care, and effort. It’s not going to happen overnight. It’s probably not even...
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Opening Up to Intimacy (Podcast) from 2011-10-07T13:54:28
Episode 20: Opening Up to Intimacy. Intimacy is terrifying for many people, but it is essential for healthy, happy relationships. Building intimacy takes courage, not only the courage to open yours...
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Chains of Victimization (Podcast) from 2011-09-30T13:46:46
Episode 19: Chains of Victimization. If you have been a victim of abuse or suffered through an abusive relationship, it is important to acknowledge the abuse, whether it neglect, verbal, emotional,...
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Breaking the Betrayal Bond (Podcast) from 2011-09-23T13:49:47
Episode 18: Breaking the Betrayal Bond. Sometimes called Stockholm Syndrome, a betrayal bond is an inexplicable bond one makes with his/her abuser. Until that bond is recognized and broken, the vic...
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For Better or For Worse (Podcast) from 2011-09-16T13:58:53
Episode 17: For Better or For Worse. As in the traditional marriage vows, we promise to stay together for better or for worse. And yes, in rough times like through financial difficulty or illness, ...
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You Don’t Turn Me On (Podcast) from 2011-09-09T13:53:47
Episode 16: You Don’t Turn Me On. In every relationship, as time progresses and the real world settles in, sexual and passion often fall to the side. Instead of looking elsewhere for that eup...
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Breakup>Suffering Abuse (Podcast) from 2011-09-02T14:10:24
Episode 15: Breakup > Suffering Abuse. Although breakups can be extremely painful and difficult, sometimes takes months or years to get over, it is always better than staying in an abusive or u...
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Sex as a Gift (Podcast) from 2011-08-26T14:14:20
Episode 14: Sex as a Gift. Too many people in our society devalue sex, and it’s unfortunate because, ultimately, sex is a beautiful gift. Get a woman’s perspective as to why. Sex as a G...
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The Strength of Inara (Podcast) from 2011-08-19T14:03:01
Episode 13: The Strength of Inara. An exploration of the Firefly character Inara Serra and her inherent strength in the face of impossible love. The Strength of Inara (Podcast) Original Blog Post
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Rebuilding Your Sense of Self (Podcast) from 2011-08-12T13:58:34
Episode 12: Rebuilding Your Sense of Self. It is very important, as you work through the stage of grief after a failed (and especially an abusive) relationship to rebuild your self-esteem, even tho...
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Love at First Sight (Podcast) from 2011-08-05T13:55:46
Episode 11: Love at First Sight. Do you believe in Love at First Sight? Love at First Sight (Podcast) Original Blog Post
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Pathological Passion (Podcast) from 2011-07-29T14:05:49
Episode 10: Pathological Passion. The root word for passion is the greek pathos, meaning “to suffer.” Same as the root word for pathological. I talk a bit about how passion might cloud ...
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Ethical Responsibility (Podcast) from 2011-07-22T14:01:26
Episode 9: Ethical Responsibility. If we know about a deception that could destroy a marriage or relationship, do we have an ethical responsibility to tell the wronged party? Would you want to be t...
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Rewarding Misogyny (Podcast) from 2011-07-15T13:58
Episode 8: Rewarding Misogyny. We live in a highly misogynistic culture, and we might be perpetuating misogyny by just keeping quiet when we hear misogynistic comments. Or, worse, we find humor in ...
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The Morality of Love and Sex (Podcast) from 2011-07-08T14:12:06
Episode 7: The Morality of Love and Sex. How does a polyamorous lifestyle fit into the dogmatic morality of some religions? The Morality of Love and Sex (Podcast) Original Blog Post
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Suicidal Tendencies (Podcast) from 2011-07-01T13:59:15
Episode 6: Suicidal Tendencies. Suicidal tendencies and mental illness are grossly misunderstood in our society, and they carry a nasty stigma as well. Any mental illness, whether relatively mild o...
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Healing Yourself (Podcast) from 2011-06-24T13:54:51
Episode 5: Healing Yourself. Before you can take care of anyone else, you must first take care of yourself. This podcast talks a little about mental and emotional disorders like depression and anxi...
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Healing Your Relationship (Podcast) from 2011-06-17T14:00:04
Episode 4: Healing Your Relationship. Before you can even think too seriously about talking to your spouse or SO about something as serious as polyamory or other types of non-monagamy, you must fir...
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Talking to Your SO About Polyamory (Podcast) from 2011-06-10T14:05:09
Episode Three: Talking to Your SO About Polyamory. In this episode I cover how to start a conversation about polyamory with your spouse or SO, and sometimes more importantly, how not to start that ...
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Podcast Promo from 2011-06-09T01:14:19
35 second podcast promo for “Caught in the Cogs: Blood. Sex. Steampunk” for use on other podcasts. Please use it at will! Podcast Promo [audio http://www.thebluemoosepress.com/podcasts/...
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Dispelling 5 Myths of Polyamory (Podcast) from 2011-06-06T14:59:46
Episode Two speaks to some common myths about polyamory. Dispelling 5 Myths of Polyamory Original blog post here.
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Polyamory as an Alternative to Infidelity (Podcast) from 2011-06-01T13:05:23
The following is the first of a podcast series named after this blog: Caught in the Cogs. I’ll be talking about alternative lifestyles like polyamory and other forms of non-monagamy, relation...
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