Podcasts by Not As I Will…

Debunk: You can be anything you want to be from 2023-11-23T00:19:45

Addressing the statement: "You can do anything you put your mind to." or "You can be anything you want to be."

References: Romans 12:3-6a (NKJV)

Older men shoul...

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end leads only to death from 2023-10-12T15:36:50

Financial crisis and causes.

references (Revised Standard Version, 1953)

Scales and Title: Proverbs 16:11, 25

Warning to the dishonest rich: James 5:1-6

Do not fret f...

I want my child to have it better than me and Scripture memory segment from 2023-09-14T02:03:36

Biblical References:

Matthew 19:21-24 (KJV)

Psalm 90:10 (NKJV)

Scripture memory verse: 1 Thessalonians 4:5 (NKJV)

other references:

Bible hub for t...

The Way You Live Your Life Matters from 2023-07-28T16:20:55

A Monologue over having a level of disgust for society, The Social Church, Law vs. Grace teaching, and how you live matters.

Biblical references: Matthew 8:22 NKJV (...Let the dead bury t...

Scripture memory Segment: 1 Thessalonians 4:4 from 2023-07-24T16:17:01

Brief Reflection of verse 4

Going through how to effectively memorize 1 Thessalonians 4:4 (NKJV)

Scripture memory: 1 Thessalonians 4:3 from 2023-06-30T17:23:18

Quick commentary over sexual immorality. Reference (1 Timothy 4). Then scripture memory segment (1 Thessalonians 4:3 NKJV).

The Cities The Churches and The Heart from 2023-05-21T15:27:22

Cities and churches and the comparison to the heart of someone. Commentary of Revelation 2 and 3. As someone who speaks into the lives of other's, you can't do it alone. There has to be multiple pe...

Scripture memory segment: 1 Thessalonians 4:2 (NKJV) from 2023-04-13T00:16:42

Memorizing the chapter of 1 Thessalonians 4. This is our verse 2 segment courtesy of the New King James Bible

The Truth about Homosexuality from 2023-03-24T02:50:49

What is the truth about homosexuality? What does God think about homosexuality? does Jesus change that? Homosexuality is not the unforgivable sin. References: Leviticus 18:21-23 (NKJV), 1 Corinthia...

Keys to understanding christianity from 2023-02-23T01:54:32

1. Money: Be aware when you are being asked for Money. Matthew 10:9 (NKJV) is pretty clear about what God wants his disciples to do and how he wants them to do it. Reference a story in Acts 16 w...

Scripture Memory Episode: 1 Thessalonians 4:1 NKJV from 2023-02-17T00:28:29

The process of embedding the word in your heart.

The past has brought you here and cultural views of Christ from 2022-12-29T17:07:45

Talking about how Gods expectation of us is to thank Him, and we will not be anxious. Phillipians 4:6-7 (NKJV). Cultural comparison to the Jews of Jesus time and our current culture.

Vexations of The Modern Church from 2022-11-24T01:21:58

Personal Vexings: 1. Social dilemma (Older White Males, Young Black men) 2. Expectations of unbelievers 3. Class Systems 4. Sexual Distortion: A symptom of "The Love of Money" (1 Timothy 6:10) Ezek...

Divorce Part 2 from 2022-10-09T19:28:38

Divorce and God's Requirement of us Micah 6:8 NKJV.

Priority List

Causes of divorce and hope even if divorce does happen.

Personal testimony on intimacy.

Divorce and In Marriage non negotiables part 1 from 2022-09-06T02:00:31

Part I Addressing divorce and non negotiables. Putting yourself in bad situations ahead of time mentally so you can praise God when it doesn't happen. But if it does, you may have already been t...

Abstain From Idol Pollution and Sexual immorality from 2022-08-06T19:26:19

Acts 15:19-20 Behind every idol is a demon: 1 Corinthians 10:14-22 Putting regulations on: Collosians 3:20-23 

Not As I Will… (Trailer) from 2022-07-04T23:02:12

God's Will Introduction Part II: Apologetics from 2022-07-04T22:20:26

Addressing the questions of Meaning (What is true Love?), Purpose (Why am I here?), Destiny (why do good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people?)

Different words...

God's Will introduction Part I: Testimonial and the modern church from 2022-06-24T01:03:47

References (All NKJV): 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, 1 peter 2:15, Galatians 2:20, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:28-30

Testimonial and the Christian Spectrum: 

in order...

If I Had a Son Finale: The Lust Of The Eyes from 2022-02-21T17:11:53

Finishing up the series of If I had a son and transitioning into a remastered pornography series from an earlier podcast series that I created over a year ago.

Reference: 1 John 2:14-17 N...

If I Had A Son: Part 3 (Controversy and The Abortion Dilemma) from 2021-12-31T16:23:34

What are controversial things we see in the church today? Why is abortion so hated, when sleeping with our significant other is accepted? Using biblical references to help understand abortion an...

If I Had A Son: Part 2 from 2021-11-24T22:31:24

Keys to Peace and your mind and your families mind. Do you want the war in your mind to end? Come see a few things that we have experienced growing up that shaped us. Whether good or bad and how...

If I Had a son: The Framework for Spiritual health from 2021-10-09T20:47:26

"I would tell him: your whole life may not be seen by anyone but God, and that is all that matters. Because in the end we will all be exposed for who and what we are. And it will be clear, if we...

Scripture memory Episode: 1 Corinthians 6:20 from 2021-10-09T19:06:28

Finishing up 1 Corinthians chapter 6. After, essentially a year.

Preparation for Marriage with scripture memory of 1 Corinthians 6:19 from 2021-08-26T00:46:53

As my marriage progresses. I noticed three key points prior to being married that have helped make the transition easy. Referencing Isaiah 58:3-6 NKJV, 2 Timothy 4:19-22 NKJV. 

3 post marriage reflections with our scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:18 from 2021-06-21T21:52:36

After being married for 2 months as a single man who had been praying and eagerly waiting for a spouse. Using Matthew 10:26 as reference, these are three key reflections I have found: 1. Who you...

Sexual restraint and Being equally yoked with 1 Corinthians 6:17 memory segment from 2021-04-22T03:09:59

What does it mean to be equally yoked? Using the verse in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV). We talk about a real world example of being equally yoked and what it means to maintain purity prior to marria...

Boundaries in relationships with our Scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:16 NKJV from 2021-03-18T21:08:10

Talking about boundaries in relationships prior to marriage. (reference Hebrews 13:4 NKJV) Be specific. Do you know yourself enough to set up realistic boundaries? Do you know the truth of God's...

Aspirations Of The Dead from 2021-02-27T03:41:35

Referring to Galatians 5:17-21 NKJV before the fruits fo the spirit and Matthew 8:21-22 NKJV. We are highlighting the fruits of the flesh and Jesus calling us to follow Him and let the dead bury...

Covid-19 (correlations to others in history) (previous podcast) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In depth thoughts on biblical point of view of our current society and the virus that has changed how we live for the time being.

Can you explain your salvation? With a healing testimony and Scripture memory 1 Corinthians 6:16 NKJV from 2021-01-30T23:03:04

Helping to align those who are spirit led believers in Jesus Christ with understanding your salvation. Something I recently have been aligned with using Galatians 2:20 NKJV and 1 John 4:17b NKJV...

Scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:15 NKJV from 2021-01-19T23:06:04

Going through the process of memorizing scripture. With an emphasis on verse 15.

Online dating and Internet Safety with Andrea O Hara MA from 2020-12-31T19:05:10

What are the platforms for online dating? How do we navigate them in general as a society? What causes people to date online? Biblical references to generational issues regarding sexual behavior...

Scripture memory: 1 Corinthians 6:14 NKJV from 2020-12-29T22:36:21

Going through the process of memorizing scripture with emphasis in verse 14 of 1 Corinthians 6. Instructions to combat those who believe sex outside of marriage is ok. If someone does believe so...

Scripture memory: 1 corinthians 6:13 NKJV from 2020-12-20T14:35:24

Going through the tedious process of memorizing scripture. But "yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."-Hebrews 12:11b. Mentioning the correlation in V...

A woman's perspective part 5: Discussion With Brooke from 2020-12-20T14:03:19

A single woman's perspective and her experience with Married couples and the pornography issues that arise in marriages. 

Opposite sex Friendships Part 2 with Baby bear from 2020-12-13T01:46:27

Part 2 to the last segment regarding opposite sex friendships. Talking primarily about older positive relationships with the opposite sex that yield much fruit. Brief strategy for what your look...

Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:12 from 2020-12-06T16:47:12

Going through the process of learning how to memorize whole chapters of scripture. Emphasizing Verse 12. Brief devotional after.

A woman's perspective part 3: Opposite sex Friendships Part 1 with Baby bear from 2020-12-06T03:58:33

Talking about different points of view of opposite friendships. Two polar opposites in approach and situations when it comes to opposite sex friendships. Living with non romantic opposite sex fr...

Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:11 NKJV and Gods will from 2020-11-23T17:49:12

Covering the process to memorize a chapter of scripture in 1 Corinthians 6, focusing on verse 11. Then having a brief reflection and underlying thoughts on Gods will for our life. References: 1 Joh...

Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:10 from 2020-11-08T16:23:49

Walking through the process to memorize a full chapter of scripture. “Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I MIGHT not sin against you.” Psalm 119:11. Emphasizing might: I pray we do all in ou...

A woman’s perspective part 2: Consensual relations with Andrea O Hara, MA from 2020-11-08T03:14:13

Defining consensual relationships and what we can do to identify how to have consent even in the confines of marriage. However for those who may be outside of marriage, this is definitely something...

A woman’s perspective part 1 with Andrea Ohara psychotherapist, MA from 2020-11-02T02:56:26

Discuss the clinical practice and tools for those who have porn and/sex addiction with a professional on the field of psychology. On psychology Today and can be contacted via email: Oharatherapyser...

Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:9b from 2020-11-02T02:51:15

Emphasizing a different word as we focus in 1 Corinthians 6:9b.

3 warnings and strategies for freedom from 2020-10-25T15:15:09

3 warnings: justification of sin, “this is who I am” statements, and formulas set out by trusted council. Strategies: writing down frustrations and sexual frustrations in detail, getting mad at God...

To rid ourselves of all vices so that we can be used at capacity. from 2020-10-17T16:29:29

My prayer is that we remove all vices and control the controllable’s in our lives. “This is the will of God for your life, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality.” 1 Thessalon...

Discussion with brother Cyrus: champion of fasting from 2020-10-10T22:46:23

Insight into fasting practice in an extreme way that can also be dangerous health wise. Be aware of health risks but if God calls you to fast, trust he will sustain you.

Discussion with Billy Horton: Personal recollections and fasting advice. from 2020-10-04T03:54:16

Discussing personal past with sex and pornography. Also the regular practice of fasting that leads to spiritual discipline. “The 7 day fast” by: Billy Horton. Scripture memory from 1 Corinthians 6:...

Fasting part 1: biblical references to fasting, spiritual and health benefits. from 2020-09-27T20:38:47

Going over foundations of fasting as means to control your flesh after all strategies have been exhausted to this point. Noted: also to help other people in your life with their afflictions that Go...

Repentance process with pastor Kurt Cotter of living streams church from 2020-09-17T23:49:13

Scenarios of times where repentance with the Lord and others is necessary. The process to true repentance no matter the issue. The difference between forgive me and I’m sorry. Scripture memory 1 Co...

The violent removal of our sight to see the true beauty a woman has to offer. from 2020-09-06T15:41:51

Reading and commentary of judges 16, the story of Samson’s sight violently removed. (Not stated: Know that God did restore his strength for one last battle to defeat his foe, and ultimately God can...

Discussion with pastor Kurt Cotter: pre and inter marriage struggles with pornography from 2020-08-28T02:21:39

In depth look from the point of view of a marriage counselor on the affects of pornography on men and women within marriage. Memory verse 1 Corinthians 6:3

Discussion with Ryan Jenkins: pre marriage and marriage reflections from 2020-08-18T04:20

Discussion on the visual understanding of what happens when you are sexually immoral before marriage. How it robs you from experiencing sexual intimacy with your wife. Also reflections pre and post...

War for your soul Part 2: let us begin a work we never see completed. from 2020-08-18T04:18

Learning to memorize scripture: tedious task. But the discipline acquired is what we need to conquer our flesh. 1 Corinthians 6 for 20 sessions. Justification of sin as entertaining deception. Eccl...

Discussion with pastor Kevin Miller from 2020-08-18T04:15

Accountability, affects on society, personal and biblical perspectives. As well as relational expectations of marriage.

Discussion with med student Bobby lloyd, neurological/biological affects of pornography. from 2020-08-18T04:13

Discussion to show the affects of porn within a relationship. The affect social media has on society as well as those within the church. Looking at the idea of getting married later and later being...

Pornography part 5: the war for your soul. from 2020-08-18T04:09

Describing the reality of pornography and what it does. Battle tactics for this are a means of survival not options. For men, Working constantly leads to fulfillment and the ability to ultimately p...

What is our responsibility as a Christian to address pornography? from 2020-08-18T04:06

Biblical instructions on pornography and sexual immorality. Brief expository teaching of: 1 Corinthians 5,6,7&8. Idols today and biblical times. Gods opinion and the difference between someone tryi...

Pornography Part 3: Pornography’s affect on modern society from 2020-08-18T04:03

How has pornography subconsciously affected our society? Cindy Gallup Ted talk: “Not talking about sex openly has created porn to be our sex education.” Conquer series, article on Ted Bundy: admitt...

Pornography part 2: personal history and affect it has had on my life. from 2020-08-18T04:00

Personal background of pornography. How it can affect us and what are the results of consuming pornography.

What is pornography and where does it come from? from 2020-08-18T03:55

Sources include: John Phillip Jenkins (Brottanica), Donald Hilton, Clark watts, philosophical transactions of a royal society. Brief timeline of pornography and brief overview of the affect it has ...

Introduction part 0.5 from 2020-07-16T12:27

To preface our journey together and my point of view. I would like to bring in other points of view that challenge mine. “Free thinkers are those who are willing to use their minds without prejudic...

Personal pain and judgement(previous podcast) from 2020-05-13T00:20:23

Why does our personal pain lead to judgment? Why do we place our personal convictions upon others?

None is more frail than yourself (previous podcast) from 2020-04-08T19:28:29

Poetic introduction into brief Christian theological views to the beginning of the church today.

Foundations (previous podcast) from 2020-04-07T04:08:49

Introduction to podcast, reason for starting and background of the author. Standards set for understanding.

Easy sex is not clean and clean sex is not easy (Trailer) from 2020-04-06T04:08:49

Easy sex is not clean and clean sex is not easy (Trailer) from 2020-04-06T04:08:49