Podcasts by Pure Desire Podcast

099 – Pastoral Failure from 2019-05-28T14:25:37

Why does pastoral moral failure happen as often as is does? Is there anything we can do about it? Will it always be this way? If it does happen, how are we to respond? Today's episode is a heavy...

Episode 099 – Pastoral Failure from 2019-05-28T14:25:37

Why does pastoral moral failure happen as often as is does? Is there anything we can do about it? Will it always be this way? If it does happen, how are we to respond? Today's episode is a heavy on...

098 – 5 Reasons To Get Counseling from 2019-05-21T14:25:32

"Counseling" can seem like a taboo topic in the church world. But does it need to be? What if counseling is the one thing to help break those negative habits in our lives? Today's episode we dis...

Episode 098 – 5 Reasons To Get Counseling from 2019-05-21T14:25:32

"Counseling" can seem like a taboo topic in the church world. But does it need to be? What if counseling is the one thing to help break those negative habits in our lives? Today's episode we dis...

097 - Promoting Pure Desire Groups At Your Church from 2019-05-14T15:00:39

The idea of promoting groups for sexual purity and betrayal in the church is not an easy or necessarily fun one. Today we talk about what the best ways are to promote Pure Desire groups in a way...

Episode 097 - Promoting Pure Desire Groups At Your Church from 2019-05-14T15:00:39

The idea of promoting groups for sexual purity and betrayal in the church is not an easy or necessarily fun one. Today we talk about what the best ways are to promote Pure Desire groups in a way...

Episode 096 - Smartphone Purity Hacks from 2019-05-07T15:02:45

Is it even possible to own a smartphone and be sexually healthy? The answer is a huge YES! In this episode, we talk through 5 purity hacks to owning and operating a smartphone.

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095 - Unraveled: Managing Love, Sex,&Relationships from 2019-04-30T14:19:19

What does it look like to have healthy relationships? Is true pure love possible? How should sexuality play out in my life? We spend time talking through our newest women's resource: Unraveled, ...

Episode 095 - Unraveled: Managing Love, Sex,&Relationships from 2019-04-30T14:19:19

What does it look like to have healthy relationships? Is true pure love possible? How should sexuality play out in my life? We spend time talking through our newest women's resource: Unraveled, ...

094 - FAQ #8 from 2019-04-23T14:31:12

Are wet dreams sinful? How do you manage sobriety on sick days? Why don't we offer same-sex attraction groups? Do we always need group? These are only a few of the questions we address in our ne...

Episode 094 - FAQ #8 from 2019-04-23T14:31:12

Are wet dreams sinful? How do you manage sobriety on sick days? Why don't we offer same-sex attraction groups? Do we always need group? These are only a few of the questions we address in our ne...

093 - Making A Better Commitment To Change from 2019-04-16T13:53:40

The Commitment to Change (C2C) is a weekly tool that Pure Desire groups use on the road to recovery. But how do we unlock the vast potential of this tool? What makes a C2C effective? How can it ...

Episode 093 - Making A Better Commitment To Change from 2019-04-16T13:53:40

The Commitment to Change (C2C) is a weekly tool that Pure Desire groups use on the road to recovery. But how do we unlock the vast potential of this tool? What makes a C2C effective? How can it ...

Episode 092 - Escape Plan from 2019-04-09T15:37:22

Creating a plan for when temptation or triggers show up is always better when done in times of clear thinking and done with brutal honesty. What should this plan look like? What makes an effecti...

Episode 091 - I Got Caught, Now What? from 2019-04-02T14:59:18

What do we do if we are caught in our porn/sex addiction? What's the first thing we should do? How can being caught be a good thing for our recovery? These questions and more are answered in thi...

090 – I Caught My Spouse, Now What? from 2019-03-26T16:52:30

What do we do if we catch our spouse in a porn/sex addiction? What's the first thing we should do? What are some major pitfalls in how to respond? These are just some of the questions we address...

Episode 090 – I Caught My Spouse, Now What? from 2019-03-26T16:52:30

What do we do if we catch our spouse in a porn/sex addiction? What's the first thing we should do? What are some major pitfalls in how to respond? These are just some of the questions we address...

089 - The Female Addict from 2019-03-19T15:53:01

Do women struggle with porn or sexual addiction? How do churches help women who do? What does recovery look like for women? How can we diminish the shame women addicts feel? We answer these ques...

Episode 089 - The Female Addict from 2019-03-19T15:53:01

Do women struggle with porn or sexual addiction? How do churches help women who do? What does recovery look like for women? How can we diminish the shame women addicts feel? We answer these ques...

088 - Leading Seven Pillars from 2019-03-12T14:54:20

What does it take to lead men through healing from sexual addiction? What do I need in order to lead these men? What kinds of support and resources do I need to effectively lead men into sexual ...

Episode 088 - Leading Seven Pillars from 2019-03-12T14:54:20

What does it take to lead men through healing from sexual addiction? What do I need in order to lead these men? What kinds of support and resources do I need to effectively lead men into sexual ...

Episode 087 - SWORD Drill from 2019-03-05T16:51:50

We talk to our founder, Dr. Ted Roberts, about the practical bible studying tool used in our group resources–the SWORD Drill. We look at Nehemiah 8:10 and walk through how to read, experience, u...

086 - Stories Of Healing: Rick Bulman from 2019-02-26T15:40:14

We talk to Rick Bulman about how he and his wife, Tiffany, walked through the darkest of times in their marriage and how God took that mess and made it their message. We talk with Rick about wha...

Episode 086 - Stories Of Healing: Rick Bulman from 2019-02-26T15:40:14

We talk to Rick Bulman about how he and his wife, Tiffany, walked through the darkest of times in their marriage and how God took that mess and made it their message. We talk with Rick about wha...

085 - Unwanted (Pt. 2) from 2019-02-19T15:14:09

We talk to Jay Stringer, author, and mental health counselor, about his research and book, Unwanted. We talk to Jay about what he found in his research of almost 4,000 people, how to listen to y...

Episode 085 - Unwanted (Pt. 2) from 2019-02-19T15:14:09

We talk to Jay Stringer, author, and mental health counselor, about his research and book, Unwanted. We talk to Jay about what he found in his research of almost 4,000 people, how to listen to y...

084 - Unwanted (Pt. 1) from 2019-02-12T17:30:05

We talk to Jay Stringer, Mental Health Counselor and author of the new book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. We talk to Jay about his story and how he got into counsel...

Episode 084 - Unwanted (Pt. 1) from 2019-02-12T17:30:05

We talk to Jay Stringer, Mental Health Counselor and author of the new book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. We talk to Jay about his story and how he got into counsel...

Episode 083 - Genesis Process from 2019-02-05T18:02:14

We talk to the author of Genesis Process and creator of the FASTER Scale tool, Michael Dye. We talk to him about the history of the Genesis Process, how it works, how the FASTER Scale was create...

082 - FAQ #7 from 2019-01-29T18:10:07

We talk about how much to care about other people's recovery, examples of practical healthy habits in life, if we can or should watch shows like Game of Thrones, what married couples can do afte...

Episode 082 - FAQ #7 from 2019-01-29T18:10:07

We talk about how much to care about other people's recovery, examples of practical healthy habits in life, if we can or should watch shows like Game of Thrones, what married couples can do afte...

081 - Forgiveness&Sexual Brokenness from 2019-01-22T17:25:06

We talk to Scott Bradley, Senior Pastor of As Is Church, about forgiveness. We define what forgiveness is, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, how forgiveness changes a family...

Episode 081 - Forgiveness&Sexual Brokenness from 2019-01-22T17:25:06

We talk to Scott Bradley, Senior Pastor of As Is Church, about forgiveness. We define what forgiveness is, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, how forgiveness changes a family...

080 - Accountability Software: Covenant Eyes from 2019-01-15T17:00:15

We talk to Ron DeeHas, president and co-founder of Covenant Eyes, about accountability software and the role it plays in recovery from sexual addiction. Ron shares the history of Covenant Eyes, ...

Episode 080 - Accountability Software: Covenant Eyes from 2019-01-15T17:00:15

We talk to Ron DeeHas, president and co-founder of Covenant Eyes, about accountability software and the role it plays in recovery from sexual addiction. Ron shares the history of Covenant Eyes, ...

Episode 079 - Leading Betrayal&Beyond from 2019-01-08T16:04:07

We talk about leading Betrayal & Beyond groups. We talk about what the goal of the group is, who can lead the groups, and what materials are needed for leading. We also discuss how husbands can ...

Episode 078 - Help! My Kid is Looking At Porn from 2019-01-01T17:41:48

We talk through what to do if you find out your kid is looking at porn. We talk about how to prepare yourself for this potential situation, how to dive into the conversation, some do's and don'ts, ...

077 - A Healthy Holiday from 2018-12-25T16:01:07

We talk through 3 tips on having a healthy holiday. We discuss handling stress during the holidays, communicating your feelings and its effects, and how to identify isolation.

Episode 077 - A Healthy Holiday from 2018-12-25T16:01:07

We talk through 3 tips on having a healthy holiday. We discuss handling stress during the holidays, communicating your feelings and its effects, and how to identify isolation.

076 - Dismissing Group Members from 2018-12-18T17:09:26

We talk about the difficult situation of dismissing group members. We talk about when to dismiss group members, what the process looks like, what follow up looks like, what to do when you're the...

Episode 076 - Dismissing Group Members from 2018-12-18T17:09:26

We talk about the difficult situation of dismissing group members. We talk about when to dismiss group members, what the process looks like, what follow up looks like, what to do when you're the...

Episode 075 - Thought Life from 2018-12-11T15:35:19

We talk through five practices for sexual integrity in our thought life. We discuss preparing for the battle each day, practicing breath prayers, the involvement of group members, and more.

075 - Thought Life from 2018-12-11T15:35:19

We talk through five practices for sexual integrity in our thought life. We discuss preparing for the battle each day, practicing breath prayers, the involvement of group members, and more.

Episode 074 - 4 Ways To Renew Your Mind from 2018-12-04T17:30:04

We talk about 4 ways to practically renew your mind. We talk about how often these practices should be done, where in Scripture these are supported, and encouragements as we implement them in our l...

Episode 073 - Help! I Don't Have My Church's Support from 2018-11-27T17:00:24

We talk about the situation where your church isn't supportive of Pure Desire groups. We talk through why some churches struggle seeing the need for these groups, how to best respond if this happen...

073 - Help! I Don't Have My Church's Support from 2018-11-27T17:00:24

We talk about the situation where your church isn't supportive of Pure Desire groups. We talk through why some churches struggle seeing the need for these groups, how to best respond if this hap...

Episode 072 - FAQ #6 from 2018-11-20T16:40:27

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like how shame diminishes, what to do when a spouse isn't involved in your recovery action plan, ho...

072 - FAQ #6 from 2018-11-20T16:40:27

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like how shame diminishes, what to do when a spouse isn't involved in your recovery action plan, ho...

Episode 071 – Preaching&Purity from 2018-11-13T17:00:08

We talk through why preaching about sexual integrity and brokenness can be so challenging for the church. We discuss guidelines to preaching on sexual purity, what messages we inadvertently speak w...

071 – Preaching&Purity from 2018-11-13T17:00:08

We talk through why preaching about sexual integrity and brokenness can be so challenging for the church. We discuss guidelines to preaching on sexual purity, what messages we inadvertently spea...

Episode 070 – Stories Of Healing–Mike Maxwell from 2018-11-06T16:04:01

We hear Mike Maxwell's story of healing from his porn addiction. He talks through what was at the core of his addiction and the destruction that it left in his life. He also talks about when thi...

Episode 069 – Legal Issues In Group from 2018-10-30T16:00:03

We talk about Legal Issues that arise in Pure Desire groups. We discuss how often legal issues come up, what types of issues come up, and how groups/group leaders can prepare themselves for pote...

069 – Legal Issues In Group from 2018-10-30T16:00:03

We talk about Legal Issues that arise in Pure Desire groups. We discuss how often legal issues come up, what types of issues come up, and how groups/group leaders can prepare themselves for pote...

Episode 068 – Father Wound from 2018-10-23T15:00:03

We talk about the Father Wound. We discuss what it is, how it compares to a Mother Wound, and how to recognize if you have a wound. We also talk through where in Scripture we see the Father Woun...

068 – Father Wound from 2018-10-23T15:00:03

We talk about the Father Wound. We discuss what it is, how it compares to a Mother Wound, and how to recognize if you have a wound. We also talk through where in Scripture we see the Father Woun...

Episode 067 - Sexual Health For Singles from 2018-10-16T14:18:07

We talk about sexual health for single men and women. We discuss what healthy sexuality is, the true definition of intimacy, and what it looks like to pursue sexual health as a single person. We al...

067 - Sexual Health For Singles w/ Ben Bennett from 2018-10-16T14:18:07

We talk about sexual health for single men and women. We discuss what healthy sexuality is, the true definition of intimacy, and what it looks like to pursue sexual health as a single person. We...

Episode 066 – Developing Group Leaders from 2018-10-09T16:30:09

We talk about the importance of developing Pure Desire group leaders. We discuss the requirements for being a group leader, what to look for in a potential leader, and things to avoid when looking ...

Episode 065 - Leading Conquer Groups from 2018-10-02T16:30:59

We talk through 6 tips (and a bonus) on leading Conquer Series groups. We discuss leading by example, shaming in group, relationship with God, confidentiality, and more.

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064 - Social Media Minefield from 2018-09-25T16:30:09

We talk about maneuvering through the minefield of social media. We discuss how social media can be detrimental to our sexual integrity. We also talk through things to avoid, the positives of so...

Episode 064 - Social Media Minefield from 2018-09-25T16:30:09

We talk about maneuvering through the minefield of social media. We discuss how social media can be detrimental to our sexual integrity. We also talk through things to avoid, the positives of so...

063 - Stories Of Healing: Patty Moreno from 2018-09-18T16:44:11

We hear Patty Moreno's story of healing from her husband's unfaithfulness. She talks through how God used the refuse in her life and marriage to create a renewed relationship with her husband an...

Episode 063 - Stories Of Healing: Patty Moreno from 2018-09-18T16:44:11

We hear Patty Moreno's story of healing from her husband's unfaithfulness. She talks through how God used the refuse in her life and marriage to create a renewed relationship with her husband an...

062 – Bringing Hope&Freedom from 2018-09-11T16:30:06

We hear from Pure Desire's Advancement Specialist and pastor, Rodney Wright. This episode is Rodney's message titled: Bringing Hope & Freedom.

Episode 062 – Bringing Hope&Freedom from 2018-09-11T16:30:06

We hear from Pure Desire's Advancement Specialist and pastor, Rodney Wright. This episode is Rodney's message titled: Bringing Hope & Freedom.

Episode 061 – FAQ #5 from 2018-09-04T16:30:06

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like relapse and consequences, generationally passing addiction down, the role of Group Leaders in ...

060 – Arousal Template from 2018-08-28T16:07:03

We talk through the Arousal Template tool. We discuss what the tool is, the 5 steps to using it, and how it helps us create a game plan for sustained sobriety. We also talk through the length of...

Episode 060 – Arousal Template from 2018-08-28T16:07:03

We talk through the Arousal Template tool. We discuss what the tool is, the 5 steps to using it, and how it helps us create a game plan for sustained sobriety. We also talk through the length of...

059 – Triggers from 2018-08-21T16:30:08

We talk about triggers for sexual addiction. We discuss the different types of triggers and how we can identify them, if these triggers stay constant in life, the role of group accountability, a...

Episode 059 – Triggers from 2018-08-21T16:30:08

We talk about triggers for sexual addiction. We discuss the different types of triggers and how we can identify them, if these triggers stay constant in life, the role of group accountability, a...

058 – Misconceptions Of Marriage from 2018-08-14T16:30:14

We discuss 7 common misconceptions on marriage. We discuss misconceptions like: sex will always be good, your spouse will complete you, you can change your spouse, my spouse's health is my respo...

Episode 058 – Misconceptions Of Marriage from 2018-08-14T16:30:14

We discuss 7 common misconceptions on marriage. We discuss misconceptions like: sex will always be good, your spouse will complete you, you can change your spouse, my spouse's health is my responsi...

Episode 057 – Sex During Recovery from 2018-08-07T16:30:05

We discuss the role of sex during recovery from sexual addiction. We talk through if it's ok to withhold sex during recovery, how to increase emotional intimacy, how periods of abstinence can he...

056 – Behind The Mask from 2018-07-31T16:30:04

We talk about our resources and groups available for young women, Behind the Mask. We discuss who the group is for and what the main message is behind the resource. We also talk through why havi...

Episode 056 – Behind The Mask from 2018-07-31T16:30:04

We talk about our resources and groups available for young women, Behind the Mask. We discuss who the group is for and what the main message is behind the resource. We also talk through why havi...

055 – Stories Of Healing: Paul Zunker from 2018-07-24T16:30:34

We hear Paul Zunker's story of healing from sexual addiction. He talks through the depths of his addiction, the legal issues that it created, and what failed attempts he had made to break free f...

Episode 055 – Stories Of Healing: Paul Zunker from 2018-07-24T16:30:34

We hear Paul Zunker's story of healing from sexual addiction. He talks through the depths of his addiction, the legal issues that it created, and what failed attempts he had made to break free f...

054 – Nightly Routines from 2018-07-17T16:30:04

We talk through 6 healthy nightly routines and how they help in our overall health. We discuss device use, protecting your sleep, planning ahead, meditation, gratitude, and eating habits in rega...

Episode 054 – Nightly Routines from 2018-07-17T16:30:04

We talk through 6 healthy nightly routines and how they help in our overall health. We discuss device use, protecting your sleep, planning ahead, meditation, gratitude, and eating habits in regards...

053 – Creating Healthy Guardrails from 2018-07-10T16:30:05

We talk about creating healthy guardrails for maintaining sobriety from sexual addiction. We discuss why guardrails are important, what makes a healthy/unhealthy guardrail, and who should be inv...

Episode 053 – Creating Healthy Guardrails from 2018-07-10T16:30:05

We talk about creating healthy guardrails for maintaining sobriety from sexual addiction. We discuss why guardrails are important, what makes a healthy/unhealthy guardrail, and who should be inv...

Episode 052 – 8 Tips For Launching Groups from 2018-07-03T17:15:05

We talk through 8 tips for launching Pure Desire groups. We discuss the importance of sharing our story, establishing expectations and standards for groups, and the culture you create in groups....

051 - When Crisis Occurs from 2018-06-26T16:30:04

We discuss the situation where men and women find themselves in a crisis due to sexual addiction. We talk about first steps when a crisis occurs, what things to avoid, and how to help others in ...

Episode 051 - When Crisis Occurs from 2018-06-26T16:30:04

We discuss the situation where men and women find themselves in a crisis due to sexual addiction. We talk about first steps when a crisis occurs, what things to avoid, and how to help others in ...

050 - FAQ #4 from 2018-06-19T16:30:04

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like withholding sex during recovery, what is sexual health, what the healing journey from sexual a...

Episode 050 - FAQ #4 from 2018-06-19T16:30:04

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like withholding sex during recovery, what is sexual health, what the healing journey from sexual a...

049 – 5 Tips on Using the FASTER Scale from 2018-06-12T16:30:04

We give 5 tips on how to use the FASTER Scale tool. We discuss when to check the FASTER Scale, how to work it, when to talk through it, who to do it with, and it's role in life without Pure Desi...

Episode 049 – 5 Tips on Using the FASTER Scale from 2018-06-12T16:30:04

We give 5 tips on how to use the FASTER Scale tool. We discuss when to check the FASTER Scale, how to work it, when to talk through it, who to do it with, and it's role in life without Pure Desi...

Episode 048 – Theology Of Addiction from 2018-06-05T16:30:02

We talk about the theology of addiction. We discuss the biblically-based and clinically-informed approach that Pure Desire's takes on healing from sexual addiction. We identify where addiction is i...

047 - Stories Of Healing: Ernie&Jackie Chambers from 2018-05-29T16:30:02

We hear Ernie and Jackie's story of healing and redemption of their marriage. They talk through their marital tension caused by Ernie's sexual addiction and how they began their healing journey....

Episode 047 - Stories Of Healing: Ernie&Jackie Chambers from 2018-05-29T16:30:02

We hear Ernie and Jackie's story of healing and redemption of their marriage. They talk through their marital tension caused by Ernie's sexual addiction and how they began their healing journey. Th...

046 - Summer Sobriety from 2018-05-22T16:30:02

We discuss maintaining sobriety during the oftentimes difficult summer months. We talk about things to avoid, helpful guardrails, and how to maintain accountability during the summer. We also di...

Episode 046 - Summer Sobriety from 2018-05-22T16:30:02

We discuss maintaining sobriety during the oftentimes difficult summer months. We talk about things to avoid, helpful guardrails, and how to maintain accountability during the summer. We also di...

045 - Regional Group Leaders (RGL) from 2018-05-15T16:30:02

We talk to two of our Regional Group Leaders (RGL's) about the RGL volunteer position. We discuss what an RGL is, why they exist, and how they help churches with Pure Desire groups. We also talk...

Episode 045 - Regional Group Leaders (RGL) from 2018-05-15T16:30:02

We talk to two of our Regional Group Leaders (RGL's) about the RGL volunteer position. We discuss what an RGL is, why they exist, and how they help churches with Pure Desire groups. We also talk...

Episode 044 – Pastors&Porn from 2018-05-08T16:00:06

We talk about the reality of porn/sex addiction in pastoral ministry. We discuss best ways to admit there is a problem, how much pastors should share, and how a church should respond to an admis...

Episode 043 - Group Guidelines from 2018-05-01T16:30:06

We talk through Pure Desire's Group Guidelines. We talk about the importance and reasoning behind each guideline. We also discuss some misconceptions about the group guidelines and some common w...

042 - Betrayal&Beyond from 2018-04-24T16:30:43

We talk through our Betrayal & Beyond (B&B) groups and group resources. We discuss why groups are needed for betrayed spouses and reasons why churches tend to not offer these groups. We talk abo...

Episode 042 - Betrayal&Beyond from 2018-04-24T16:30:43

We talk through our Betrayal & Beyond (B&B) groups and group resources. We discuss why groups are needed for betrayed spouses and reasons why churches tend to not offer these groups. We talk abo...

041 - Mistakes Churches Make from 2018-04-17T16:00:04

We talk about common mistakes churches can make when addressing the topic of sexual addiction. We discuss the common approach that churches take when diving into this topic and the issues that i...

Episode 041 - Mistakes Churches Make from 2018-04-17T16:00:04

We talk about common mistakes churches can make when addressing the topic of sexual addiction. We discuss the common approach that churches take when diving into this topic and the issues that it o...

040 - Family Dynamics from 2018-04-10T16:00

We talk about family dynamics and how they play out in our daily lives. We discuss how to identify, address, and change the unhealthy dynamics in our families. We also talk through how discuss u...

Episode 040 - Family Dynamics from 2018-04-10T16:00

We talk about family dynamics and how they play out in our daily lives. We discuss how to identify, address, and change the unhealthy dynamics in our families. We also talk through how discuss unhe...

Episode 039 - Love Addiction Pt. 2 from 2018-04-03T16:30:35

We talk about Love Addiction. We discuss how to identify if you are a love addict. We talk through why being a love addict is detrimental in life and how to address love addiction. We also give ...

038 - Love Addiction Pt. 1 from 2018-03-27T15:16:37

We talk about Love Addiction. We talk through how it differs from sex addiction and also discuss causes and factors that cater to a love addiction. We also talk about if it is just a women's iss...

Episode 038 - Love Addiction Pt. 1 from 2018-03-27T15:16:37

We talk about Love Addiction. We talk through how it differs from sex addiction and also discuss causes and factors that cater to a love addiction. We also talk about if it is just a women's iss...

037 - FAQ #3 from 2018-03-20T16:07:34

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). The questions on today's episode cover topics like why masturbation is harmful, how to get buy-in for starting the Conquer Series, who can ...

Episode 037 - FAQ #3 from 2018-03-20T16:07:34

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). The questions on today's episode cover topics like why masturbation is harmful, how to get buy-in for starting the Conquer Series, who can ...

036 - Difficult Group Members from 2018-03-13T16:10:43

We talk about the reality and nature of having difficult group members. We discuss ways to avoid being a difficult group member and mistakes frequently made when dealing with difficult group mem...

Episode 036 - Difficult Group Members from 2018-03-13T16:10:43

We talk about the reality and nature of having difficult group members. We discuss ways to avoid being a difficult group member and mistakes frequently made when dealing with difficult group mem...

Episode 035 - Eight Pillars to Freedom from 2018-03-06T19:31:30

We talk about our group Eight Pillars to Freedom. We discuss who the group is for and what the group time looks like. We discuss the differences between sex addiction and love addiction. We also...

034 - Healthy Habits from 2018-02-27T16:06:37

We talk about the importance of healthy habits on the road to freedom from sexual addiction. We talk through what makes a habit healthy, how to implement lasting habits, and when a habit becomes...

Episode 034 - Healthy Habits from 2018-02-27T16:06:37

We talk about the importance of healthy habits on the road to freedom from sexual addiction. We talk through what makes a habit healthy, how to implement lasting habits, and when a habit becomes an...

033 - Singleness&Addiction Pt. 2 from 2018-02-20T17:36:19

We talk to Ben Bennett and Jake Kissack about being single and battling sexual addiction. We discuss ways to educate and help young people address this issue, while also unpacking ways that marr...

Episode 033 - Singleness&Addiction Pt. 2 from 2018-02-20T17:36:19

We talk to Ben Bennett and Jake Kissack about being single and battling sexual addiction. We discuss ways to educate and help young people address this issue, while also unpacking ways that marr...

032 - Singleness&Addiction Pt. 1 from 2018-02-13T17:57

We talk to Ben Bennett and Jake Kissack about being single and battling sexual addiction. We talk through what it looks like to find sexual freedom as a single person and when it's ok to be in a...

Episode 032 - Singleness&Addiction Pt. 1 from 2018-02-13T17:57

We talk to Ben Bennett and Jake Kissack about being single and battling sexual addiction. We talk through what it looks like to find sexual freedom as a single person and when it's ok to be in a...

Episode 031 - PD-University from 2018-02-06T17:48:33

We talk about our event called Pure Desire University (PD-U). We discuss what the PD-U is and who can attend these conferences. We also talk about what churches will benefit from hosting or atte...

030 - Living Free from 2018-01-30T17:55:25

We talk to Ben Bennett about his resource for college-aged men, Living Free. We talk about how the resource came about and what is at the core of its message. We also discuss why reaching the yo...

Episode 030 - Living Free from 2018-01-30T17:55:25

We talk to Ben Bennett about his resource for college-aged men, Living Free. We talk about how the resource came about and what is at the core of its message. We also discuss why reaching the yo...

029 - Conquer Series from 2018-01-23T17:41:34

We talk to the CEO of KingdomWorks Studios, Jeremy Wiles, about their 10-week cinematic study on sexual addiction called the Conquer Series. We talk about the backstory/history of the Conquer Se...

Episode 029 - Conquer Series from 2018-01-23T17:41:34

We talk to the CEO of KingdomWorks Studios, Jeremy Wiles, about their 10-week cinematic study on sexual addiction called the Conquer Series. We talk about the backstory/history of the Conquer Se...

028 - FAQ # 2 from 2018-01-16T17:37:11

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). The questions on today's episode cover topics like handling relapse in group leadership, who can/should watch the Conquer Series, timeline ...

Episode 028 - FAQ # 2 from 2018-01-16T17:37:11

We talk through more Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). The questions on today's episode cover topics like handling relapse in group leadership, who can/should watch the Conquer Series, timeline ...

Episode 027 - Seven Pillars of Freedom (Pt. 2) from 2018-01-09T17:41:40

We talk about our Seven Pillars of Freedom groups and group material for addicted men. We discuss what the Seven Pillars are, how often groups meet, and what men need to get Seven Pillars groups...

Episode 026 - Seven Pillars of Freedom (Pt. 1) from 2018-01-02T17:49:43

We talk about our Seven Pillars of Freedom groups and group material for addicted men. We discuss the history of Seven Pillars and how it compares to your run-of-the-mill bible study. We also ta...

025 - Suspecting Spouse from 2017-12-26T17:49:15

We talked to Debby Flanagan, a clinician on staff, about when a spouse suspects that their husband/wife is struggling with porn/sex addiction. We discuss what first steps should be taken and wha...

Episode 025 - Suspecting Spouse from 2017-12-26T17:49:15

We talked to Debby Flanagan, a clinician on staff, about when a spouse suspects that their husband/wife is struggling with porn/sex addiction. We discuss what first steps should be taken and wha...

024 - Church Hurdles from 2017-12-19T17:42:42

We talk to Rodney Wright, pastor at Lake City Church in Idaho, about the struggles and hurdles pastors face when addressing sexual addiction in their church. We discuss what level of pastoral in...

Episode 024 - Church Hurdles from 2017-12-19T17:42:42

We talk to Rodney Wright, pastor at Lake City Church in Idaho, about the struggles and hurdles pastors face when addressing sexual addiction in their church. We discuss what level of pastoral in...

023 - One-Sided Healing (Addicted Spouse) from 2017-12-12T17:39:35

We talk to Tyler Chinchen, our Clinical Director, about a situation where an addicted husband/wife sees the need for healing but their spouse is not supportive. We discuss some initial steps for...

Episode 023 - One-Sided Healing (Addicted Spouse) from 2017-12-12T17:39:35

We talk to Tyler Chinchen, our Clinical Director, about a situation where an addicted husband/wife sees the need for healing but their spouse is not supportive. We discuss some initial steps for th...

Episode 022 - Holidays&Sobriety from 2017-12-05T17:46:56

We talk to Dr. Ted Roberts about what he calls the "Limbic Holiday," aka the Holiday Season. We discuss the issues and struggles that so many have with family and addiction over the holidays. We al...

021 - Disclosing to Your Kids from 2017-11-28T17:50:11

We talk to Jackie Chambers, one of our Regional Group Leaders, about disclosing addiction to your kids. We talk about what disclosure is and what it should look like when talking with your kids ...

Episode 021 - Disclosing to Your Kids from 2017-11-28T17:50:11

We talk to Jackie Chambers, one of our Regional Group Leaders, about disclosing addiction to your kids. We talk about what disclosure is and what it should look like when talking with your kids abo...

020 - FAQ #1 from 2017-11-21T17:48:49

We talk through Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's) that we hear at our PD-University events. The questions on today's episode cover topics like the neurochemistry of addiction, same-sex attracti...

Episode 020 - FAQ #1 from 2017-11-21T17:48:49

We talk through Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's) that we hear at our PD-University events. The questions on today's episode cover topics like the neurochemistry of addiction, same-sex attracti...

019 - Starting Women's Groups from 2017-11-14T17:48:04

We talk to Jackie Chambers, one of our Regional Group Leaders, about starting women's Pure Desire groups at your church. We talk through what makes women's groups unique and what types of women'...

Episode 019 - Starting Women's Groups from 2017-11-14T17:48:04

We talk to Jackie Chambers, one of our Regional Group Leaders, about starting women's Pure Desire groups at your church. We talk through what makes women's groups unique and what types of women's g...

Episode 018 - One-sided Healing (Betrayed Spouse) from 2017-11-07T17:55:29

We talk about what it looks like when a betrayed spouse sees the need for healing but their addicted spouse isn't willing to work for freedom. We give encouragement and steps for the betrayed spous...

017 - Recovery Action Plan (Safety Plan) from 2017-10-31T16:30:51

We talk with Ashley Jameson (International Women's Groups Coordinator) about the Recovery Action Plan (RAP) tool, previously called Safety Plan. We talk through what a RAP is and the benefits of...

Episode 017 - Recovery Action Plan (Safety Plan) from 2017-10-31T16:30:51

We talk with Ashley Jameson (International Women's Groups Coordinator) about the Recovery Action Plan (RAP) tool, previously called Safety Plan. We talk through what a RAP is and the benefits of ...

016 - Tech Action Plan from 2017-10-24T16:59:24

We sit down with Robert Vander Meer to talk about Creating a Tech Action Plan for your devices. We talk through what an effective action plan looks like and topics it should address. We also tal...

Episode 016 - Tech Action Plan from 2017-10-24T16:59:24

We sit down with Bob Vander Meer to talk about Creating a Tech Action Plan for your devices. We talk through what an effective action plan looks like and topics it should address. We also talk thro...

015 - Personal Promises from 2017-10-17T16:51:14

We talk about a tool known as "Personal (Prophetic) Promises." Personal Promises are used to combine a real-life experience and the truth of scripture into a powerful tool used on the road to re...

Episode 015 - Personal Promises from 2017-10-17T16:51:14

We talk about a tool known as "Personal (Prophetic) Promises." Personal Promises are used to combine a real-life experience and the truth of scripture into a powerful tool used on the road to recov...

014 - Growing A Healthy Groups Ministry from 2017-10-10T13:02:41

We spend time talking about how to grow a healthy Pure Desire groups ministry. We talk through what healthy and growing groups look like and how to creating a developing ministry. We also spend ...

Episode 014 - Growing A Healthy Groups Ministry from 2017-10-10T13:02:41

We spend time talking about how to grow a healthy Pure Desire groups ministry. We talk through what healthy and growing groups look like and how to creating a developing ministry. We also spend tim...

Episode 013 - Redeemed from 2017-10-03T16:46:59

We have a special episode this week from our Executive Director, Nick Stumbo. Today's episode is Nick's message from our 2017 Men's Conference - titled "Redeemed."

012 - Weekly Phone Calls from 2017-09-26T16:32:55

We talk to Bryan Roberts about weekly group phone calls. Making your weekly phone calls is a big piece to effective groups and healing. But too often, our phone calls are the first thing to go d...

Episode 012 - Weekly Phone Calls from 2017-09-26T16:32:55

We talk to Bryan Roberts about weekly group phone calls. Making your weekly phone calls is a big piece to effective groups and healing. But too often, our phone calls are the first thing to go duri...

011 - Safe from 2017-09-19T16:34:48

We have our co-host, Nick Stumbo, as our guest today to talk about his new book - Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Nick talks us through what the message is of his new bo...

Episode 011 - Safe from 2017-09-19T16:34:48

We have our co-host, Nick Stumbo, as our guest today to talk about his new book - Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame. Nick talks us through what the message is of his new bo...

010 - Pure Desire Counseling from 2017-09-12T16:45:18

We talk to Tyler and Shari Chinchen, two of our clinicians on staff, about counseling at Pure Desire. The word "counseling" tends to have a negative connotation attached to it. Tyler and Shari t...

Episode 010 - Pure Desire Counseling from 2017-09-12T16:45:18

We talk to Tyler and Shari Chinchen, two of our clinicians on staff, about counseling at Pure Desire. The word "counseling" tends to have a negative connotation attached to it. Tyler and Shari talk...

Episode 009 - Digital Natives from 2017-09-05T16:43

We talk to Bryan Roberts and Heather Kolb, authors of Digital Natives: Raising An Online Generation. Bryan and Heather talk us through the message, purpose, and reasons for this new book. We talk t...

008 - 3 Circles (Relapse Prevention Tool) from 2017-08-29T16:51:58

We talk to Harry Flanagan about one of our relapse prevention tools, the 3 Circles Tool. Harry, as one of our Pure Desire Clinicians, has loads of experience with this tool and how to best use i...

Episode 008 - 3 Circles (Relapse Prevention Tool) from 2017-08-29T16:51:58

We talk to Harry Flanagan about one of our relapse prevention tools, the 3 Circles Tool. Harry, as one of our Pure Desire Clinicians, has loads of experience with this tool and how to best use it i...

007 - History of Pure Desire from 2017-08-22T16:50:48

We are privileged to talk to the founders of Pure Desire, Dr. Ted and Diane Roberts. They share about the history of Pure Desire and what sparked it's creation. Ted and Diane also talk through t...

Episode 007 - History of Pure Desire from 2017-08-22T16:50:48

We are privileged to talk to the founders of Pure Desire, Dr. Ted and Diane Roberts. They share about the history of Pure Desire and what sparked it's creation. Ted and Diane also talk through the ...

006 - Is It Really An Addiction? from 2017-08-15T17:05:35

We talk to Heather Kolb who is an author, speaker, adjunct professor, and is our Neuroscience Professional at Pure Desire. We talk to Heather about the nature of sexual addiction and how to iden...

Episode 006 - Is It Really An Addiction? from 2017-08-15T17:05:35

We talk to Heather Kolb who is an author, speaker, adjunct professor, and is our Neuroscience Professional at Pure Desire. We talk to Heather about the nature of sexual addiction and how to identif...

Episode 005 - Double Bind&Commitment to Change from 2017-08-08T17:00:27

We talk to Robert Vander Meer about the ins-and-outs of the Double Bind and Commitment to Change tools. Robert is a pastor and is also one of our Pastoral Sex Addiction Professionals. We talk throu...

Episode 004 - Effective Group Dynamics from 2017-08-01T16:49:33

We talk to our International Women's Groups Coordinator, Ashley Jameson. Ashley talks us through what healthy and effective Pure Desire groups look like. She gives us good practices and some things...

Episode 003 - How to Start Pure Desire at Your Church from 2017-07-25T16:50:49

We talk to our International Men's Groups Coordinator, Rich Moore, about how to implement Pure Desire groups into your church. Rich shares his expertise and experience (over 20 years) with starting...

003 - How to Start Pure Desire at Your Church from 2017-07-25T16:50:49

We talk to our International Men's Groups Coordinator, Rich Moore, about how to implement Pure Desire groups into your church. Rich shares his expertise and experience (over 20 years) with start...

Episode 002 - The FASTER Scale from 2017-07-18T16:12:11

We introduce and discuss the FASTER Scale tool with our Executive Director Nick Stumbo. What is the FASTER Scale? How do we use it? Why is it an effective tool for sexual and emotional health?

002 - The FASTER Scale from 2017-07-18T16:12:11

We introduce and discuss the FASTER Scale tool with our Executive Director Nick Stumbo. What is the FASTER Scale? How do we use it? Why is it an effective tool for sexual and emotional health?

Episode 001 - Introducing Pure Desire from 2017-07-11T17:06

We talk to Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, Nick Stumbo. Nick shares about who Pure Desire is, where we come from, and where we are headed.

001 - Introducing Pure Desire from 2017-07-11T17:06

We talk to Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, Nick Stumbo. Nick shares about who Pure Desire is, where we come from, and where we are headed.