Podcasts by Results

Replaceable Parts from 2023-12-10T18:11

Summarized by the generous bot.

Think about your life, work and relationships in the terms "replaceable" and "irreplaceable parts". emphasizing the importance of recognizing which aspects...

Doing the wrong experiment? from 2023-12-03T20:48

or doing experiments wrong? And some ABJ testing

Viable Viable Viable from 2023-11-26T21:22

Generously, a bot has summarised like this, so you can skip this episode if it's not what you want to listen to.

The concept of "viable" in the context of product development and r...

Multiplayer ideas for humans and compute from 2023-11-19T18:46

The generous Autobot said this about today's episode

it emphasises the importance of a collaborative, multiplayer mindset in adapting to the speed of technological advancements. It highli...

opting in for options in the era of exponential Internet Of Things, Compute and Data-sharing from 2023-11-12T19:55

Personal sounding board&other peoples software in today's arena from 2023-11-05T17:48

Personal sounding board in today's arena
Choose your HARD problem, and YOUR people who care about that problem don't just say it.

In today's fast-evolving landscape, choosing "your ...

What are you going to do with that? AI? from 2023-10-29T20:47

Your Personal Best and leveling up from 2023-10-22T17:45

IT Maintenance and a third from 2023-10-15T19:19

There is likely a third more effort, cost, and risk than you perceive and accept. Are you holding space for this? If not, is it worth pursuing?

re-keying our shared reality - collaboration with Autobot AIs, Digital Twins AND People from 2023-10-08T17:50

Peer Pressure and a mentors tension from 2023-09-24T18:11

Peer pressure during our school years often leads to groupthink, causing us to lose our identity in the quest to fit in.

Growing up, for me, it rarely led to anyone's elevation. Instead, ...

Movable parts and your work - some assembly, re-assembly and position required from 2023-09-18T15:33

EVERYTHING you do in your work is, from other people's perspectives, a movable part.
Are you designing with that in mind? Are you rearranging what others hold fixed?

It's a...

Results&Relationships: RSS Finally Updated with new name from 2022-04-17T08:34:59

Create Results to Connect and elevate others For longlasting relationships

Embrace uncertainty for great results & healthy relationships.

Here we ask ourselves hard questions and e...

Embrace and set constraints - everything is a bag and has a category and pattern. Dont let your defaults rule fool you from making decisions early from 2022-04-09T19:06:08

Someone once said. Life is an empty bag and it's your job to fill it purposely and wisely.

For a long time I believed that meant to fill it richly, with great friends and work that really...

Portable Results&Giving others Portable Power from 2022-04-03T17:10:42

Are you reserving some of your capacity for enabling others without you trading time to help them get to where they need?

kindness, moments&contracts are not enough from 2022-03-27T09:01:48

What are you teaching whom right now?

Every moment is an open possibility for kindness to others and yourself,
for coaching
for committing yourself for those you care about Listen

Seeing The Pieces from 2022-03-20T17:49:12

Do you see what matters to those you serve or are you investing in your own illusions and biases?

What pieces have to exist in order for your strategy to work longterm?

What pieces ...

Blindness, staying open, testing thesis&real learning&improvement from 2022-03-12T14:54:43

list of questions and food for thought from 2022-03-06T21:56:04

just a long list of questions to make our heart and mind rest while looking within and beyond

Cybersecurity: Urgently help those around you - in cyber distance is an illusion from 2022-02-27T07:57:43

Please help remind those you care about to protect their accounts & devices with Multifactor authentication everywhere.

Seek out ways to stay safe, helping those who you believe dont have...

Seeing, asking and facing what isn't being said by lifting the Question from 2022-02-18T17:38:47

Seeing, asking and facing what isn't being said by lifting the Question

How often to you actually pause and make space for yourself to know your position before answering? How often do...

Loyal to Whom? Your Effort or the cause? from 2022-02-13T19:48:37

No one care how much effort you invested - they care about how it can help them from where they are to where they are going

release freely and often. if your idea is all you've got you've...

Dont store - Create, Release, Reflect from 2022-02-06T13:17:05

Dont store - Create, Release, Reflect

So its set. This show will be renamed Results & Relationships.

Why? Im hoping to help you let go of what you make.
Create it with your i...

You need to create tension from 2022-01-30T20:11

Dare to be specific and clear enough to create tension. Be respectful to those you serve, and those around you and yourself. Dare to show the tension early saves so many so much - its an huge al...

Ready is a choice, it not worth waiting for. from 2022-01-23T09:08:53

(I just realized I published this episode to my other podcast, Psychology & Cyber thus just uploading it here as a copy. Sorry for the delay and mistake on my side)

Ready is a ch...

Remarkable Position and easy to say name change from 2022-01-23T09:04:48

Remarkable Position and easy to say name change

It's been 8 years already with Relationship Power at work. Every week. Some of the early years it was more often.
Before that ...

Owning your choice of context, your patterns and positions from 2022-01-09T12:15:57

Owning your choice of context, your patterns and positions from which to serve.

Are you owning your choice of context?
Do you position yourself with people and situations that are l...

Understanding Context from 2022-01-01T20:20:36

Ego, drivers seat&influence outcomes from 2021-12-25T21:29:06

What do you rhyme with? from 2021-12-18T08:56:53

What do you rhyme with?

What does your work ryme with?
What does your relationship ryme with?
Whats your future ryme with?

We live in a time where most want to "Predict...

Do you see its many sides and shapes? from 2021-12-12T14:43:59

Do you see its many sides and shapes?

There is always many sides and shapes to everything that matter.
Some sharper than others. Few see the world exactly like you do.
How man...

Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous from 2021-12-05T20:40:08

Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous

Are you making peo...

Relentless tests: Lessons and gifts are optional from 2021-11-28T15:54:26

Relentless tests. Lessons and gifts are optional.

Relentless tests. Every second of your life, business & relationships.

Question is though. Are you taking the lessons that matter ...

Dare to Ask with Özlem Özkan&learning together with communities from 2021-11-21T11:32:32

About this eposide:
I'm glad to introduce you to Özlem, our first guest in perhaps 6 years or something of weekly shipping.

Since the 1990ths I have always created ...

The Bucket stops here - perhaps you shouldn't carry or pass it onwards it? from 2021-11-14T05:43:17

Creating Community&ready is too late from 2021-11-04T21:28:59

Discipline&Belonging from 2021-10-31T16:21:35

Creativity, Fear&Play from 2021-10-23T10:59:13

Intentional actions, afterthoughts and making a choice from 2021-10-17T13:46:17

Learn on the job and earning trust with yourself and others to get to do that recurringly from 2021-10-09T06:16:45

Making space for Gratitude from 2021-10-03T09:23:25

The power of dis-engaging early by moving on - and letting others move on from 2021-09-26T10:37:58

The Choice to be Curious, Open and Kind from 2021-09-19T07:17:18

Passion&Flow from 2021-09-12T17:05:53

Urgency&Illusions from 2021-09-04T17:33:05

Asking for to be mentored? what what have you done and learned so far, small or big doesnt matter from 2021-08-28T12:56:36

Age of Dis-information&IT Dept Tax Collectors of cybersec breaches, GDPR fines, ransomware from 2021-08-21T13:58:52

Alternative Costs on your Career Capital from 2021-08-15T05:43:50

Take the stakes down, State of Play, min-ship removing yourself from the equation from 2021-08-01T13:00

Trust: Your reputation, body of work and behaviour precedes you. Dont kill it hiding behind transparency from 2021-07-31T10:00

Embracing where you are and heading: Leadership is that your intent is felt all the way to everyone including embracing your own inner game from 2021-07-25T01:00

Timeshifts - yours and others from 2021-07-16T08:22:21

Circle upon Circle towards levelup and better clients and feeling at home from 2021-07-11T20:28:03

Ambition, Effort-level and striving to connect them from 2021-07-04T07:40:20

Rest, Vacation-mode and listening from 2021-06-26T07:40:08

Time, Relationships, Energy&Outcome from 2021-06-20T13:10:37

Find yourself - Find your others from 2021-06-13T17:39:29

convenience&levelup from 2021-06-05T21:14:14

Following signs of convenience in the Hive Computer from 2021-05-30T09:35:57

Resilience, Fragile and what work to level up (why generous work levels you up better) from 2021-05-23T12:30:51

Discipline wanes during the day from 2021-05-16T06:25:53

What do you see beyond what others measure - Walking away from compromise from 2021-05-09T18:16:34

Asking Questions Stay Open For what we dont know from 2021-05-03T19:42:34

its not yours - long digital deep dive from 2021-04-24T18:40:19

What you DO becomes better and easier KPIs and axis for better from 2021-04-18T12:22:39

What am I stalling because I'm afraid - You have more power in your now than you CAN know from 2021-04-11T08:17:48

its not yours - so whats really worth it (retry sorry I messed up the intro) from 2021-04-04T21:17:12

Metric, Uncertainty&Real Results from 2021-03-28T14:42:31

Virtual Backgrounds, Digital relationship building&Distributed office from 2021-03-21T15:35:39

Distributed Work, A Gallery View Thumbnail&What Work Matters from 2021-03-13T17:27:37

Stop Doing - You are not lazy just not loving it from 2021-03-07T08:27:41

Why Generosity Focus from 2021-02-28T17:36:04

Forward Memory&Bias from 2021-02-21T06:37:16

Your Hobby and why that mindset matters to your levelup in work and relationships from 2021-02-12T15:12:45

Phonecalls, Mediums and messages from 2021-02-07T08:11:44

Emotions - KPI for your wetware from 2021-01-30T12:43:43

Two sides of More from 2021-01-24T12:28:24

Angry Memories from 2021-01-17T08:19:48

THE work you want to do again from 2021-01-10T09:06:04

THE work you want to do again

Great work is often rewarded with great work.

What do you want to become better at and for whom?

Whats a position you would feel its a luxury t...

Are they Glad did and to they still benefit from your help long afterwards from 2021-01-04T13:05:52

its not yours - so what is really? from 2020-12-27T20:00:50

Distributed Christmas from 2020-12-22T20:15:02

Simplicity First or Chaos Follows from 2020-12-21T12:05:30

Understanding Your Emotions, Curious on others not seeking control from 2020-12-15T13:50:56

Proving it vs Enrollment and Engagement from 2020-11-29T10:37:49

Your Vulnerable Mind from 2020-11-22T14:37:45

Lonely Distributed Christmas is coming for some: Do you show up for them? from 2020-11-15T12:44:25

Time is Destroyer of everything, Decay&Optimism from 2020-11-07T19:39:36

Infinite Game Windows - are you embracing reality before they close? from 2020-11-01T07:57:28

Seek to understand before seeking to be understood and ways to learn from 2020-10-26T10:22:41

Options, Preference And Opening up Comfort Zone from 2020-10-17T18:43:54

Generously Relate&work to not judge, divide or oversimplify from 2020-10-09T21:01:29

Relate to each other, asking ourselves how we RELATE not how we differ, judge or oversimplify into polarized either or.
everything is a projection. everything is a reflection of us.
...

Loving your people, causes and results from 2020-10-04T10:10:22

Hurt Twice and staying positive from 2020-09-26T21:13:35

Everything seek balance - owning yours from 2020-09-19T19:54:21

enthusiasm fun and curiosity from 2020-09-19T19:52:48

Optimism,showing appreciation,Volunteering and projecting beyond what you see from 2020-09-19T19:51:16

Create Remarkable Space for Others from 2020-09-13T20:20:57

The Levelup Cycle of becoming the company you keep from 2020-09-06T06:24:46

How to me more you in your work from 2020-08-29T20:25:07

Not Ready - Prepared for Opportunity, Risk and Emotional Work from 2020-08-09T06:44:35

Illusions we keap before leaping - you dont control how others will feel or react from 2020-08-01T13:57:28

Knowledge, Know-Ledge, Know-L-Edge&Duality from 2020-07-25T19:43:21

Creating Friendships intentionally from 2020-07-18T19:48:57

Relationships in Distributed Work&Cyberspace = For most it Decays Faster from 2020-07-11T05:53:04

Number TWO will set you free for opportunity - AND its generously creating space for others from 2020-07-03T20:31

Uncertainty early - Others Prio items isnt your and thats OK from 2020-06-28T08:24:43

Signals and the Position and Posture you take from 2020-06-21T06:45:02

System Empathy from 2020-06-14T06:29:32

Leaderhip isnt a checklist nor a websearch fix from 2020-06-06T14:55:47

Distributed Culture, Diversity and using Game Mechanics in current Game windows from 2020-05-30T08:26:05

Humble is not thinking less of yourself from 2020-05-24T14:31:34

Humble is not thinking less of yourself,
it's thinking of yourself less.

Be the hardest working in the room, not the loudest

Different yet Normal from 2020-05-17T08:07:07

Serious Play from 2020-05-10T15:31:19

Knowledge is power yet only imagination and Action creates impact from 2020-05-03T07:43:06

Doing IT from 2020-04-26T18:56:42

OK to fumble while learning just intentionally keep practice and evaluate for those you care about

Living in Replay Simulation Mode from 2020-04-18T13:57:11

Living in Replay Simulation Mode,
What is Normal,
Intentionally Act Now

Clarity and Confidence = Status Quo, uncertainty ahead is for making better things from 2020-04-13T13:54:11

Kindness to Self and Others Urgently needed from 2020-04-05T12:43:29

Intentionally positioning yourself for generosity is what builds culture from 2020-03-29T12:34:47

Intentional Action - focus on the ACTION PART from 2020-03-08T20:17:54

Here's the video version of this audio for those interested

https://www.youtube.com/w...

Intentional Actions, Are you using the right medium for lasting change? from 2020-03-01T18:04:15

Now is the time to talk to your spouse or boss about vacation and other plans from 2020-02-23T19:40:51

imagining positive intent from 2020-02-16T11:51:09

Your Counterpoint value from 2020-02-09T13:12:41

Belonging Longing from 2020-02-02T12:25:07

Do you actively, regularly help others feel like they belong?

Games are won by those who focus on the playing field from 2020-01-26T20:05:18

Do you inner game words free you to act or block you from 2020-01-19T15:57:53

curiosity, generosity&your inner game from 2020-01-12T20:57:03

Learning Faster and Better from 2020-01-06T10:48:05

Create Space of Remarkable from 2019-12-29T14:21:33

Owning Results&Costs from 2019-12-22T18:37:29

Orchestrating your success - environment and people around you from 2019-12-15T12:47:33

Your Time Source, Relationships and Cost of Delay from 2019-12-08T14:21:59

Energy - sources beyond visible patterns from 2019-12-01T10:00

Why Machine, Deep learning&AI speeds up the hatchet of change so much - and why I think it matter to every relationship you have from 2019-11-24T08:40:13

Why Machine, Deep learning & AI speeds up the hatchet of change so much - and why I think it matter to every relationship you have

How to hear Earlier and more status, dreams, ideas from people that matter to you from 2019-11-17T19:50:58

Thoughts and Feelings take time - are you giving it? from 2019-11-10T06:27:44

Move out of my way here I come from 2019-11-03T16:59:22

QKR KPI Metrics Hard Questions and doing the hard part from 2019-10-27T12:23:36

Good People Might Do Bad Things from 2019-10-20T04:30:20

Are you aware of the results of your intentions and actions?

We dont know the intent behind an outcome, but imagine a positive intent from others helps build relationships.

L...

Why is this work important? (Podcasting about Relationship Power at work) from 2019-10-13T17:50:51

What work are you doing that feels so important you just HAVE to do it (for others benefit)? Why is that so?

Tolerating&Tolerance from 2019-10-06T17:00:44

BetterBias, UpperLimit Belief&Risks – Please just start already from 2019-09-29T14:19:38

BetterBias, UpperLimit Belief & Risks – Please just start already

Books mentioned in this episode

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Ping-pong play&Uncomfortable Conversations required to level up from 2019-09-23T08:26:31

Your Story and Talking To Strangers from 2019-09-15T19:21:24

Your Story and Talking To Strangers

I’m currently in Seth Godin’s beta program of Storytelling and reflect out loud on the combination of that and the book I’m currently listening to (tha...

On Trust from 2019-09-08T20:08:28

On Trust

Reach and information is not enough

is never about what you say

its about what people do

do they trust what you see and bring to their tabl...

Bandwidth of Generosity, Enthusiasm&Curiosity from 2019-09-01T17:03:55

Waking up Grateful from 2019-08-25T13:23:32

KPIs&Teaching the Test from 2019-08-18T16:00

Give Early - Connect Directly from 2019-08-12T19:39:47

Please dont wait

Please listen to the resistance, and the feelings that get in the way for teaching others what you know - then find a way to do it anyway.

Also remind yourself of ...

Removing Shame from Experiments from 2019-08-04T11:40:49

Experimenting with things that might work but are not guaranteed to work takes a lot of emotional work. Separating the work from our self-identity. Allowing our “self-esteem” the hit of failure,...

Digital Twins Update from 2019-08-04T11:12:41

I've spoken about Digital Twins multiple times over the years but it’s worth a reminder on how it will affect your relationships and effectiveness

Being Generous Towards yourself from 2019-07-28T16:00

ARE you generous towards yourself?
so you'll know how to give better to those you care about?

if we're not starting with also being generous to ourselves,
its easy to fo...

Your Oasis from 2019-07-21T16:00

Do you know your Oasis?

Do you know where you regenerate?

Where you get energy, insight and encouragement from?

Its more often a WHO than a place.

Are you investing e...

WHO do you want to teach WHAT from 2019-07-14T16:00

The Mindset of learning, of letting go, of moving forward. I've learned as much as I can from. Thank you I will now move forward. Gratitude and let go. from 2019-07-07T16:00

Living Life the Right Way and vacation reflections from 2019-06-30T16:00

Structure, Relationships&Results from 2019-06-23T16:00

NextBetter Why Doing Better cant be all safe and the importance of doing things that might not work from 2019-06-16T16:00

The New Safe Embrace unsafe from 2019-06-09T16:00

Status from 2019-06-03T00:00

Status affect way more than it perhaps should.

Accepting reality is the first step in changing it

Don't wait for mentoring or coaching - learn yourself from 2019-05-27T00:00

Dont wait for mentoring.

Dont wait to be picked.

Dont wait to recieve that special anything.

Instead work hard to position yourself AND thus making it more likely to have so...

Urgency of doing things today that matter - Learn – don’t compare, don't wait from 2019-05-23T08:38:02

Do things that matter today, so you’ll learn.

Don’t waste time comparing – remind yourself it’s the learning and doing that’s important and comparing often gets in the way more than we ev...

Culture IS Strategy from 2019-05-20T00:00

Culture is just behaviour. Effect is just a result of behaviour.

Are you focused on your own behaviour and that of those around you? without this it doesnt matter what your powerpoint sli...

Resilience - in business and relationships from 2019-05-12T13:44:06

What does Resilience mean to you?

What does it enable?

Hard work is NOT results, are you chasing illusions. from 2019-05-08T10:54:09

Are you doing the work that matters?

Or are you just doing hard work because you "hope" if its hard, it should be rewarded?

Restorability&backup for better relationships from 2019-04-29T20:04:36

Just some food for thought on the URGENT need for you to think about restorability so backups don’t get in the way of your relationships.

* Divorce and family photos?

* Employee an...

Who controls the data for your emotional choices? from 2019-04-22T09:16:42

Who controls the data for your emotional choices?
Know thyself is more urgent than ever!

We’re all emotional creatures – a great important part of our evolution. Listen

This is Marketing worth the listen or read from so many angles from 2019-04-14T09:18:35

This is Marketing worth the listen or read from so many angles

This episode is a tribute to Seth Godin, and a recommendation of his book This Is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Lea...

Everything is Trust: Emotional Numbers, Daring To Focus, Pivot or Quit from 2019-04-07T19:42:49

Brand, Reputation and DOING the work that matters. from 2019-03-30T19:28:55

Brand, Reputation and DOING the work that matters.

I know I here talk about how important DOING things is – to get real life feedback, to connect, to learn.
Getting our ideas out of...

Go around it from 2019-03-23T11:16:14

Go around it.
Dont wait for perfect - Its OK to go around the long way as long as you keep taking steps forward

Be kind to yourself. Dont wait for the perfect candidate, pe...

Laser Focus from 2019-03-16T14:38:30

Laser Focus

What are you focusing on right now?

So many of us imagine success as “having it all.”

While that may be true, the way to get there requires focus; gi...

Strangled by your own convenience from 2019-03-10T17:49:44

Strangled by your own convenience

I know you love your comfort zone

So do I. I go there to rest myself and I have to force myself out, into scary uncharted territory every time

Your Vulnerability connects better from 2019-03-03T01:00

How to be a person of Value from 2019-02-24T11:50:12

How to be a person of Value

Einstein said:

Try not to be a person of success,

Instead try to be a person of value.

So you have to ask yourself. What is VALUE...

Status: Your Status, Others and the emotional work that matter from 2019-02-17T11:12:05

I think we need to talk about YOUR status and it’s urgent we embrace the world we’re living in when it comes to status. Status

Status roles are at the core of who we are. They ch...

Masks and working with David Marquet on making the invisible visible from 2019-02-09T14:27:08

Ric's currently reading the books "Masks of Masculinity" by Lewis Howes which led to some great conversations when he was working together with David Marquet this week on making the invisible vi...

Self-identity and how that can blind us, in my case on arrogance from 2019-02-04T03:00:56

I’m grateful I got the chance to work with David Marque this week. I learned lot from him this week but have learned from him in so many ways like his Youtube Leadership Nudges, and also learned fr...

Setting things right – whats better than right? from 2019-01-28T03:00:18

Set things Right – whats better than right? it’s easy to forget that what’s right most often is a matter of worldview. Ensure to separate facts, observations and measurements from labels Both are n...

Act as if from 2019-01-21T03:00:17

Act as if – Do, measure, evaluate, experiment Failure, might not work as part of your identity, where it’s easier to learn from failure. not fake it to you make it – where it’s really hard to emoti...

Expectations are the fuel and engine of perceptions from 2019-01-14T03:00:20

How well are you tending to yours? How aware are you that they’re at the helm of everything you do, and everyone you meet. What do you expect to see on the other side of your effort? How often are ...

Decision traceback – delayed feedback and results, learn to embrace yes or no when it matters from 2019-01-07T03:00:41

Its easy to forget when a decision is actually made. When we’re stuck fighting the system of not embracing a YES fully, or not setting a clear and strong boundary, aka said NO to something when it ...

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? from 2018-12-24T03:00:29

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? I hear this from clients and people often, in different forms like: Please tell me THIS is the idea to go all in for Is this THE idea to go for? Ple...

Teach Dare to do things that might not work from 2018-12-17T03:00:02

Teach Dare to do things that might not work Don’t wait for school or anyone else to teach those that matter to you the most important things like daring to do things that might not work, daring to ...

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers from 2018-12-10T03:00:31

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers Learn to listen to yourself, including when to, and when not to, others

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships from 2018-12-03T03:00:13

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships The chain of algoritms is woven around all you meet, all day long. Your reputation preceede you in all your first contacts There is no escap...

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional at this from 2018-11-26T03:00:49

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional during this holiday, be kind to yourself AND those around you. Start talking now, before tickets get [too] costly and while...

What you are unaware of controls you from 2018-11-19T03:00:53

What you are unaware of controls you Always work to become more aware. You can’t work with stuff that you’re not aware of. You can’t know the great potential that lies within you or others if you’r...

Patience – Race dont chase from 2018-11-12T03:00:04

Patience is something you can become better at. Its not a born thing that you either have or don’t have. Patience matter now most urgently because all the easy jobs will be gone soon. Easy is repla...

Your Communication matter – 3 simple steps for better effect from 2018-11-05T03:00:44

Meta talk about YOUR communication. Yes, I’m talking about your message earlier today. Are you seeing the effect you want when you say something?  

Embrace failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like from 2018-10-29T03:00:05

Embrace failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like   If you find yourself failing often where you want to be in life and business. Allow yourself to take smaller steps and be ki...

6 Steps to a Ready Resume – its time to update from 2018-10-22T03:00:45

Life is full of changes. Opportunities often catch us by surprise. Only those who are ready to grab the chance wins the game. An updated resume is a great tool to showcase your potential and convin...

Befriend Boredom from 2018-10-15T03:00:14

Busy, busy, busy! We live in a world where everyone is dedicated, driven, and competitive at work. Traffic takes forever. We spend our night eating fast food in front of Netflix when we’re not out ...

Let it Go from 2018-10-08T03:00:29

Let It Go Brace yourself! Life is a voyage. You will sail to wondrous places. Strangers can become friends and friends can become strangers. Expect the unknown and the unexpected. Be prepared to wi...

The Big Leap and importance of State of Play from 2018-10-01T01:01:34

4 Realizations From “The Big Leap” By Gay Hendricks “The Big Leap” is a book that encourages people to reach their pinnacle by going beyond excellence. Break your upper limit. Realize there is no c...

indistractable from 2018-09-24T03:00:32

“You can’t do big things if you are distracted by small things.” -Unknown Distraction is just as powerful and as dangerous today as it was thousands of years ago. It takes a new form and is now pre...

Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent from 2018-09-17T03:00:09

Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent So what are you waiting for? WHO is worthy of your best hard work? Even when no-one is watching but yourself?

Emotional Work: Don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in the slow grind from 2018-09-10T03:00:15

Emotional Work, Hard Work, Long Slow Grind Work – don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in the slow grind Few things in life are the insta-win you see in media. Most of those media sh...

5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become the company you keep from 2018-09-03T15:00:49

5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become the company you keep Think of the five people closest to you–the ones you spend most of your time with, your confidants, peers, family, and org mates. Wha...

Ratchets: The Beginning of Change from 2018-08-27T03:00:50

Ratchets: The Beginning of Change Seasons are magical. Yesterday, the leaves of the trees were cold and white. Right now, it gets greener each day. But soon, it will turn yellow, then red, and fina...

Motor Examples from 2018-08-20T03:00:12

Motor Examples What’s your motor? Do you know, guard and focus on your peak hours? Do you know what fuels YOUR motors and those around you? Do you know what feeds all the systems, organizations and...

Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors from 2018-08-13T03:00:49

Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors Most people worry way too much about the big mistake of getting on the wrong train. I think the biggest mistake I’ve done, and I see others doing is NOT getting of ...

You are your work in the Mesh economy from 2018-08-06T03:00:01

You are your work in the Mesh economy Some thoughts about how important it is to ask yourself “What is it for” – and embrace that there multiple answers to that questions. First what is it for from...

dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame from 2018-07-30T03:58:10

dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame Some of my thoughts on the great quote by Brene Brows ”dont shrink dont puff”  and the behaviour it creates. For me its a very effective quote to real...

Time, investments and relationships from 2018-07-23T03:00:05

Guard your time investments. Plan your time investments. Evaluate your time investments and the results, energy and relationships you get out of it. Pay attention to your time & relationships – bec...

Race don’t chase, Try not to compare. Generosity is one answer from 2018-07-16T03:00:39

Race don’t chase, Try not to compare Don’t compare because you just can’t know how it is walking in their shoes. What they have invested, in effort, time or other resources that you don’t see. Its ...

Positive Future versus here and now? from 2018-07-09T03:00:46

Positive Future versus here and now? How often your feedback have more to do about the past than the positive future behaviour you want to help create? How often to you sacrifice what you want the ...

Selfishness doesn’t last – What does Success look like to you? from 2018-07-02T03:00:25

Selfishness doesn’t last – What does Success look like to you? Selfishness doesn’t last. IF you want to win the infinite game generosity is the key, the path and the endgame. If you’re asking yours...

Confusing Ambivalent People from 2018-06-25T19:25:08

Confusing Ambivalent People … your Energy  ..your results …your circles. You really become the company you keep It’s easy to say stay clear of obviously toxic people. It’s easy to say work with gre...

Getting Pro Clients from 2018-06-18T03:00:44

Getting Pro Clients Choosing and working hard for the right Clients, Customers, Managers, Bosses – who ever you choose so serve is one of the most important choices in your life. This episode is so...

Create Health OR promote disease? from 2018-06-04T02:00:35

Create Health OR promote disease? What if you could easily see how every tiny decision do make every minute in your life as either a small step to “Create Health for yourself, your family, your fri...

Your Vehicles, your results, your relationships from 2018-05-28T02:00:38

Are you sure you’re in a ride heading where you want to be? Is it time to get a better one? is it time to pick up others and help them get to where they want to be too? Are you in a ride that’s lea...

Illusions about having time from 2018-05-21T03:00:15

Illusions about having time Illusions about time, smoke and mirrors we do to ourselves In this episode I share some thoughts about time You might also want to take a look on this talk on youtube ht...

You matter You belong. Be Remarkable from 2018-05-14T03:00:58

You matter. You Belong. Be[come] Remarkable It’s up to you to think thru WHO you want to belong with. Not making that choice will make you belong somewhere, regardless. Others depend on you making ...

Inciting Action is often better than all the data and insights in the world from 2018-05-07T03:00:38

Inciting Action is often better than all the data and insights in the world For perhaps 20 years I was fooled by the lure of big data, business intelligence and ”forknowing” stuff. What I learned, ...

Options and being comfortable now versus a better state later from 2018-04-30T03:00:13

Options and being comfortable now versus a better state later Options. We all want Options. Often one of the best ways of ensuring we keep having the best options making a choice of not allowing to...

infinite more from 2018-04-23T03:00:27

continuing the talk on Infinite and finite games. game Windows and the dont wait game.   If its a stupid game stop playing it. ignore sunk cost. doesnt matter how long you’ve been playing it. The O...

Level up your infinite game with your finite games from 2018-04-16T03:00:34

Level up your infinite game with your finite games Some of my ramblings on what is an infinite game and why should you care. What I think is not relevant and doent matter. What matters is what you ...

Discomfort precede from 2018-04-09T03:00:22

Discomfort precede change I struggle alot  with sounding “Energetic” in my voice on my podcast. This episode contains some thoughts around the discomfort that always precedes change. Because change...

Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games from 2018-04-02T03:00:40

Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games Who would miss what that you put on their table, in your unique way, your style, your methods? Who would miss you if you we...

Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer from 2018-03-26T03:00:11

Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer “Accept the fact that you need to treat everyone like a volunteer”. Is a quote by Peter Drucker ..if you want to help THEM, thus you, discover and unleash THE...

3 games, 3 seats of power from 2018-03-19T03:00:25

3 games that matter 3 seats of power   3 Games that matter inner game: the why you play, the words you use in your head. outer game: current game/result you bring others infinite game:   3 seats of...

Are you ready? from 2018-03-12T03:00:18

Are you ready? .. for opportunity when it comes knocking on YOUR door? I surely wasn’t, for most of the times when it’s been past my door. LINK For example when I was interviewed by John on his EOf...

Learn more – know less from 2018-03-05T03:00:15

Learn more – know less   It isn’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble, its what you know for sure, that just aint so Quote Mark Twain   Its important to focus on the learning part of our...

Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see from 2018-02-26T03:00:05

Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see, still respecting their perspective. Dare to speak out loud to a friend why you might be wrong. Dare...

Behave like your manager, client or customer pay you double for your result from 2018-02-19T03:00:37

What if you behaved like your manager, client or customer payed you double for your results? Your ability to ask yourself the important questions determines more than you think. Treat your clients,...

Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow from 2018-02-12T03:00:41

Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow. Making the best of today to enjoy both now and tomorrow Uncomfortable now rather than resentful later – by Brene brown Don’t shrink, don’t Puff. Brave and vulnera...

Eye of the Beholder from 2018-02-05T03:00:02

Eye of the Beholder Your life is how you perceive it, not how you see it Everything is a projection. Both from you onto others, and others onto you. Like Einstein said “Few are those who see with t...

Owning your Strength from 2018-01-29T03:00:34

Owning your Strength i talk some about one worldview of “owning your strength” What is yours? and how do you embrace that worldview?   This episode is very different. This is because I took a cours...

Introduction to ComputerGames or new recruit at office from 2018-01-22T03:00:27

Lending some introduction and creating passion examples from the Computer Game world. For example perhaps you want to introduce your spouse to computer game play? It’s a lot of the same synergies y...

The Magic of Delegating Better from 2018-01-15T03:00:40

The Magic of Delegating Better Save time and build peoples potential at the same time? Build relationships and get better results at the same time? Does this sound too good to be true? Try it and y...

State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter from 2018-01-08T03:00:47

State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter Play is often used for doing better work, getting better revenue with innovative new ideas. Play is also often used to build teams, develop tru...

One Focus from 2018-01-01T03:00:51

One Focus Work on one project at a time. its the kind AND focused way towards accomplishing greatness What are you working on that’s got you most fired up? Questions like that I ask all the time. A...

Invest in your sleep – investing in better results, connections&empathy from 2017-12-25T03:00:44

Sleep affects the results of most things. Yet it’s so easy to keep pushing investing in it forward. If you’re lucky to have a few days of vacation right now. Don’t trade your chance for some extra ...

Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells from 2017-12-18T03:00:09

Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells Blissful time with your most important people? Check your stats and think again.. Christmas is coming up. Remind yourself to be ...

Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration from 2017-12-11T03:00:23

Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration Beware there be dragons here. Exceptions to the rule. Something we often long to become. Personally. While I deep to my core help people consistently...

Asking Right from 2017-12-04T03:00:58

Asking Right – a few thoughts on how to ask questions: For advice or anything else. We are living in wonderful times. It’s easier than ever to connect with people around the globe getting help and ...

Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and everything from 2017-11-26T03:00:07

Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and everything Are you in control of your attention investments? I think not, I sure know I am struggling with the modern nois...

Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be from 2017-11-20T03:00

Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be Are you trying to follow a map when really need your compass more because the map is outda...

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate from 2017-11-13T03:00:43

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate Think “What is it for?” “WHO is this for?” Before you speak, before you plan, before you execute. For example, when talking in order to get things ...

What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist. from 2017-11-06T03:00:14

What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist.   When I was a young leader of my first team I was desperately longing ...

The gap between ambition and effort-level from 2017-10-30T03:00:10

The gap between ambition and effort-level. If there is a gap they become disconnected and thus not feeding each other energy. This can sound something along these lines, but I’m sure you have heard...

Choosing Your Manager, Clients, Students, Customers – basically who you want to serve and why from 2017-10-23T03:00:14

Choosing Your Manager, Clients, Students, Customers – basically who you want to serve and why I tap again on the theme, you are the company you choose. And I want to highlight “your manager.” Who a...

Your time mostly comes from your actions from 2017-10-16T03:00:10

Your time mostly comes from your actions You are your own source more than anyone else. Don’t blame others for where you are. Step up to the responsibility of being you, or at least closer to it ri...

Bimodal organisation Development&Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset from 2017-10-09T03:00:08

Bimodal organisation Development & Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset  How BiModal are your organisation percentage wise? How much do you “experiment” to learn a better new...

Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect, dont deflect from 2017-10-02T03:00:11

Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect, dont deflect Some thoughts on inner and outer deflections and what this does to your ability to connect. Acknowledge the beam of positive energy sent to you. Dar...

International Podcast Day from 2017-09-30T14:29:28

This is just an extra episode celebrating International Podcast Day You’re listening to the 185th episode of Relationship Power at work. I started podcasting 4 years ago. Please check out the live ...

Digital Transformation, Operational BI and the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening processes from 2017-09-25T03:00:31

Digital Transformation, Operational BI and the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening processes   Now is the time to really thank the heroes at infrastructure for their hard work, be...

A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA from 2017-09-17T15:50:09

A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA Some thoughts its lasting effects now two years after attending Mars 2016 I completed Seth Godin’s alltMBA, it was the 4th time Seth held it. I’ve learned, applied ...

Train your imagination – What you are unaware of controls your options from 2017-09-11T03:00:38

Train your imagination – What you are unaware of controls your options I’d claim your most important thing is your imagination, combined with your focused attention and execution How often do you e...

The Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on every graph from 2017-09-04T03:00:54

The Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on every graph The Purpose of Analytics is Change. It’s not enough to become aware. It’s not enough to sit on the IT side...

Analytics&algorithms – enhancing beyond your own direct experience from 2017-08-28T03:00:54

Analytics & algorithms – enhancing beyond your own direct experience Can you Trust your own direct experience as an answer for the future? You can’t trust algorithms blindly, yet you’re unaware of ...

Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I will be here lighting your path toward this position from 2017-08-21T03:00:33

Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I will be here lighting your path toward this position Sometimes metaphors gets a picture in our head that is so energizing we just have to act on it. In thi...

Embrace your draft: responsibly&publicly from 2017-08-14T18:28:34

Embrace your draft: responsibly & publicly Dont hide behind a draft, make it real. Dont hide behind perfect, share your draft. Ship something today that will help someone else. This episode is actu...

Effects of having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it from 2017-08-07T03:00

Effects of having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it What’s a contingency plan for you? For me it’s all about maintaining the ability to execute effectively. Its easy to get lost in agreement...

Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t punish instead be clear and positive about the future from 2017-07-31T03:00:45

Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t punish instead be clear and positive about the future Encouragement is mightier than compliance long-term. Try to catch yourself whenever you get carried awa...

Exponential results – ways to get that 1% behavior that yields 99% of your result from 2017-07-24T03:00:45

Exponential results ways to get that 1% behavior that yields 99% of your result Seneca said “Luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity” – Are YOU ready for opportunity with 99 times your ...

Seeing things from others, zoomed-out perspective. from 2017-07-17T03:00:24

Seeing things from others, zoomed-out perspective. Clients perspectives, your customers perspective and your own perspective.   Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hea...

Doves&Hawks, Relationship Power and the Fast, Connected Economy from 2017-07-10T03:00:52

Doves & Hawks, Relationship Power and the Fast, Connected Economy or the Curves of Evolution in the Fast Instant Access Connected Economy   Doves and hawks are both adorable species. And we can lea...

Know your people – and some thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements from 2017-07-03T03:00:18

Know your people – and some thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements ..or Key Metrics Performance Indicators when the order to “Round Down Cost” inevitably comes This is a managers’s guide on lev...

Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep from 2017-06-26T03:00:29

Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep The power of the group you surround yourself with are strong. Imagine positive intent. Do you surround yourself with people who imagi...

How to Create a Deeper Relationship with Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft from 2017-06-22T19:03:17

How to Create a Deeper Relationship with Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft “We have the power within ourselves to literally change the world.” – Cliff In this episode, we will learn about...

Freedom can best be created before you need it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity. from 2017-06-19T03:00:26

Freedom can best be created before you need it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity. The Digital Era In these fast paced, digital era, most of the things that we do has an equi...

Intention and Attention from 2017-06-12T03:00:33

Intention and Attention Train in guarding your attention. It’s the lifeblood of all of us. If we’re mindful of our attention we choose if we should feel inspired or judged by another person’s comme...

Go Beyond your muscle failure. Build your business and character like a personal trainer. from 2017-06-05T03:00:32

Go Beyond your muscle failure.  Build your business and character like a personal trainer. Go Beyond yourself often towards muscle failure. That’s the only time growth happen. Power speed reading, ...

My weird honours your weird from 2017-05-29T03:00:19

My weird honors your weird The bell curve has changed thanks to the internet, the connection economy and “near instant access” to most things. It’s easier than ever before to make an impact, to hel...

Take your positions – Who do you want to help and why? from 2017-05-22T03:03:18

Take your positions – Who do you want to help and why? There is a reason why the instructions tell you to put on the air mask on yourself FIRST: Before helping your kid, friend or co-worker. Withou...

Tension, Empathy&Sympathy – Responsibility from different perspectives from 2017-05-15T03:00:15

Tension, Empathy & Sympathy – Responsibility from different perspectives Empathy. Seeing the perspective of others. Walking in someone else’s shoes. Dare to face the unknown of the minds of those a...

Exciting times – What’s exciting for you might not be exciting for someone else from 2017-05-08T03:00:41

Exciting times – What’s exciting for you might not be exciting for someone else We’re living in exciting times. I’m sure every generation before me has said the same words, felt the same.  What I’m...

Why are you doing this? Why High Standards help you – Why Commitment increase attention from 2017-05-01T03:00:25

Why are you doing this? Why High Standards help you – Why Commitment increase attention   Quite often I get the question “why do you do this?” Some talk about “why the commitment on consistency” ot...

Throughput thoughts from 2017-04-24T03:00:21

Throughput thoughts Some thoughts on intention and results, and the passage required to archive it. This is high and low, tech and people. I guess some people would call it random ramblings. Some t...

Full Contact play with your Anti-thesis from 2017-04-17T03:00:27

Full Contact play with your Anti-thesis Get the habit of embracing an anti-thesis to your belief every now and then to deepen your learning on your topic, or that it’s time to leave while “on top” ...

thoughts on becomming a commodity and choosing your position from 2017-04-10T03:00:56

Right now forces are gathering to make you a commodity. It already happened all around you. Uber, Spotify, Travel-agents etc. The middleman is cut out and a proxy service is censoring out everythin...

Race don’t chase – some thoughts on awards from 2017-04-03T03:00:56

When presenting a week back I got the question by a person in the audience on any advice in becoming awarded by eWork just like I did. (ework awarded me Consultant of year 2013) My reply was a reco...

Mind your attitude – let go of labels from 2017-03-27T03:00:39

Mind your attitude – let go of labels I believe you, me and most of us need to constantly remind yourself before the mindset becomes the new normal for us, the new natural. When you start to take a...

The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things should and could be from 2017-03-20T03:00:38

The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things should and could be When you’re starting new, for example at a new site, new employer or anything you’re in a golden situation to see the patterns in the...

Simple – not easy from 2017-03-13T03:00:59

Simple – not easy   Simple and Easy is not the same ting yet I find that over the years most people confuse the too, sometimes myself included. We want easy yet we already know the recipe for what ...

Gratefulness&Respect – your choice of words matter from 2017-03-06T03:00:11

Gratefulness & Respect – your choice of words matter Gratefulness serves you in so many ways beyond here and now. Let is invigor you with energy and joy that benefits others too. Let it give you a ...

Your Life is not a prologue, don’t wait, the time is now from 2017-02-20T03:00:09

  You don’t need a big chunk of time to start. Are you sure you’re not waiting and wasting valuable time investments. In essence, are you stuck in the prelude to your own life? Its easy that Works ...

Digital Connections, and the power of the system and our emotions of feeling connected. from 2017-02-13T03:00:15

Digital Connections, and the power of the system and our emotions of feeling connected. Right now we’re attention flooded. Many use systems to keep up with friends. We no longer use DIRECT-CONNECTI...

There is a message for you everywhere from 2017-02-07T03:00:02

There is a message for you everywhere. If you’re looking for it you’ll always find a lesson, anywhere, at all times, from everyone   If you’re actively looking for it, I also believe people around ...

You become the company you keep from 2017-02-06T03:00:08

You become the company you keep Another way of saying it is “you are the average of the X people you spend the most time with.” I believe WHO you invest the most of your time with is the most impor...

time is your most precious investment – become aware from 2017-01-30T03:00:35

Time is your most precious investment – become aware   Where you invest your time, and furthermore WHO you invest your time with is the most important decision in your life. It affects everything. ...

Listen for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second Kickstarter from 2017-01-23T03:00:39

Listen for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second Kickstarter How often do you actively listen for what is NOT being said? Focus on what the data is saying, not the highest ...

Age of Instant Access and Connection Analytics from 2017-01-16T03:00:46

We’re in an Age of Instant Access and Connection Analytics – food for thoughts Instant Access to so many things today, and yet more is coming every day. How does that affect relationship building a...

Meta-Memory, Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity, Psychosynthesis&Imagery Exercises from 2017-01-09T03:00:17

 Meta-Memory, Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity,  Psychosynthesis & Imagery Exercises   Some say our Memory is “us”, that we are the core of what we remember. Your achievements, friends who has ...

Age of Access, Virtual Reality and Digital_Twins from 2017-01-02T03:00:47

It’s wonderful living in the world of Instant Access like we’re doing right now. And Virtual Reality can really help build a connection to the individuals around us , but we also have to remember t...

Nobody owes you is a mindset that often helps us build better relationships from 2016-12-26T03:00:42

Nobody owes you is a mindset that often helps us build better relationships. Owning how we respond and act to feelings that emerge within us will change your life trajectory more than anything. Com...

Connection is a feeling – Christmas and other Rare activities from 2016-12-19T03:00:28

Connection is a feeling – Christmas and other Rare activities   Most often its thru feeling we connect to people. And what we connect to in a story is most often individually. I’ve had people come ...

Talking about performance, behaviours and effect from 2016-12-12T03:00:22

Talking about performance to make behaviours more effective with authenticity and without acting   Performance, when we’re taking on an act we are really distancing ourselves from people. It’s the ...

Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. from 2016-12-05T03:00:54

Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. Embracing reality for a new, more effective way   I deeply believe in focusing on the one thing until success (quote from m...

Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness from 2016-11-28T03:03:58

VR – Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness I believe the most common way to major success is helping others. Letting go of that self-centredn...

Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building from 2016-11-21T03:00:43

Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building Corporations invests enormous amounts of “could have been results” into meetings, and most of those are over the phone, web conferences...

Help-Others and Self-Help from 2016-11-14T03:00:10

Help-Others and Self-Help I often think about how come the amount of teachings around “Helping Others” is not anything near the amount of exposure of people, method and processes to “Self-Help”. Wh...

Your way is understandable from 2016-11-07T03:00:18

Your way is understandable   Sometimes it feels hard to accept the method of path taken by someone else. Accept their way, their reasoning. Doesn’t mean you have to accept the results OR hurts or t...

Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? from 2016-10-31T03:00:30

Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? The most brilliant minds of our era invests their time and attention in creating better and better clickba...

Information wants to be free from 2016-10-24T06:33:25

Information wants to be free That is one of the “Alternatives” to the info, status or just Social talk you are having right now.   Another way of seeing it is, consider this the “alternative cost” ...

Relationship Power and other Powers from 2016-10-17T03:00:11

Relationship Power and other Powers Relationship Power. Role Power. Authority Power. Situational powers. Accidental powers. Temporary powers. Don’t let unawareness put other in powerful situations ...

Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection from 2016-10-10T03:00:04

Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection Everything has a game window, everyone you talk or don’t talk to. Everything you do or don’t do. Time to Market. Start ba...

Turning Visible – creating trust from 2016-10-03T03:00:35

Turning Visible – creating trust A small talk on how sometimes trying to hide something makes a crater for all to see, making it harder to see who we really are beyond it. sometimes helping too muc...

Seek to invest most of your time with Grateful Action takers from 2016-09-26T03:00

Seek to invest most of your time with Grateful Action takers   You’re really the average of the five people you spend the most time. Who you spend your time with is one of the most important decisi...

Embraceing your Potential from 2016-09-19T03:00:19

Embraceing your Potential consists of a lot of things, below is just a few of them. I personally dont think it matters where you start though, as long as you start thinking about it, start acting t...

Own your results – own your communication from 2016-09-12T03:00:43

Own your results – own your communication Manager-tools.com often talk about “communication is what the listener does”. So what does this mean for you? For me it means that if I dont get the behavi...

Refueling others from 2016-09-05T03:03:09

Refueling others Where does your fuel and generator of energy align with those around you? What does those around you get fuel from and how can you help them get more of it without it costing other...

What fuels you? What fuels those around you? from 2016-08-29T03:00:04

What fuels you? What fuels those around you? Most often we do things, without really thinking, about what gives us fuel. Where in this activity does my energy really come from? If it comes at all? ...

Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs – Build your relationships for the long run from 2016-08-22T03:00:34

Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs – Build your relationships for the long run if you seek to maximize what you get out of someone thats rarely relationship-building. thats transactions and might wo...

Listen to people but trust the numbers from 2016-08-15T03:00:09

Listen to people but trust the numbers – Ensure you measure the right thing for others, not just whats easy to measure or makes you look good. Continous measurement makes you look trustworthy. Its ...

Recruiting – when to say no, NO and when to say yes from 2016-08-08T07:53:22

Recruiting – when to say no, NO and when to say yes.   A quick cast about three thoughts on recruiting. I personally find this worth thinking about for recruiters AND anyone that wants more out of ...

it’s not about you – focus on the behaviour you can change not the stuff you cant from 2016-08-01T03:03:54

it’s not about you Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that everything isn’t about me. Sometimes people around you behave in ways that makes things difficult for you. Making it hard for you to “i...

Credentials Decay, Results last longer. Change is the only constant from 2016-07-25T03:00:44

Credentials Decay, Results last longer. Change is the only constant In todays modern world credentials isn’t what it used to be so its more important than ever to show your results. To quickly help...

Give first individually, Listen first – Relationship power comes later from 2016-07-18T03:00:59

Give first individually, Listen first  – Relationship power comes later Schedule five minutes every day to just get to know the people around you. Listen hard to what they value and make a note of ...

Listening beyond what isn’t being said from 2016-07-11T03:00:47

Listening beyond what isn’t being said The most important thing in communication is listening for what isn’t being said according to Peter Drucker. Listen for the silence We all carry invisible bag...

Commitment , Control&Contribution and the speed of Trust from 2016-07-04T03:00:48

Commitment , Control &  Contribution and the speed of Trust Most of us was trained in compliance as a kid for countless of hours. Hours that could have been invested into training us to instead in ...

Envy and gratitude from 2016-06-27T03:00:47

Envy and gratitude Envy is a human emotion that is easy to fall prey to. It can be harnessed to make you do  more, make you archive move but my experience it’s one of the more common paths to the d...

What work matters when you strip everything else away? from 2016-06-20T03:00:26

What work really matters when you strip everything else away? What will live beyond you? This cast is about your inner question of what what is important to you beyond all that urgency, all that no...

Grit and Generosity from 2016-06-13T03:00:48

Grit and Generosity I really believe Generosity is a great compass towards your success. Ask yourself where in your life, where you invest hard work in creating things, You still don’t you mind oth...

Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new from 2016-06-06T15:09:06

Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new What and where is your safe haven? Who would you invite there and why? How can you get more of that and share that with others?

matters beyond your comfort zone from 2016-05-30T03:00:29

Most things that matter to use on a deeper level lies beyond our own comfort zone. Accept your discomfort, and the feelings from it. Its OK. We all experience that. Then take a step to dare to look...

if your job and results where a fantasy story – Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for whom? from 2016-05-23T03:03:37

If your job and results where a fantasy story. Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for whom?   Sometimes playing with our mind is a great way to open up thoughts that might li...

Mirrors and actions beyond Reflection from 2016-05-16T03:00:51

Mirrors and actions beyond Reflection Your actions and attitude to others speak way more about you than your mirror’s reflection.   Its worth reflecting over that reflection. Sometimes I think most...

Betrayal from 2016-05-09T03:00:56

Sometimes you encounter the dark side of helping people. Sometimes you invest your generosity into people who does the opposite back. How do you deal with it?

Breathing – Cure of Stress and giver of Focus, Clarity and shape from 2016-05-02T03:00:25

Breathing – Cure of Stress and giver of Focus, Clarity and shape Breathing is a great cure for stress. Take four deep breaths and your worldview might change. Of course it won’t change the world. B...

Projecting yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably want from 2016-04-25T03:00:22

Projecting yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably want Take a minute to think about your own patters. What do you usually notice about the world? What does that tell you about ...

Opportunity Stress from 2016-04-18T04:00:02

Opportunity Stress We live in a world of abundance. You can do so much. One person can change (parts of) the world. This is a perspective of Alternative Cost, and just some thoughts on stress and f...

Criticism is futile in driving change from 2016-04-11T04:00:38

Criticism is futile in driving change I’m re listening to “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie – I do that every 5th year or so. A great way to remind myself – and to pick up ...

Life can be unexpected short – Show gratitude while you can from 2016-04-04T04:00:17

Life can be unexpected short – Show gratitude while you can. Life is change. People you take for granted might not be near you tomorrow. Due to health, change of job, friends moving out of town or ...

I am defined by my fears and strengths – by not limited to neither from 2016-03-28T05:16:58

I am defined by my fears and strengths – by not limited to neither I think both our strengths AND your fears easily puts us in corners that we are not aware off. Embrace our fears – don’t try to pu...

interview with John Lee Dumas EntrepreneurOnFire from 2016-03-21T04:00:06

I (Ric) interviews John Lee Dumas from EntrepreneurOnFire on how to connect to raving fans, Leadership and getting results. We talked about “if you want to BE, DO!” and its ok not to be great when ...

Learn to Learn new things – climbing example from 2016-03-15T22:00:40

Learn to Learn new things – climbing example When learning new things – its easy to forget how much more power someone who is skilled can have than a beginner. its so easy to cling to what you thin...

Embrace tension, potential strength, Life and the longbow idea of requirements of change from 2016-03-07T04:00:41

Embrace tension, potential strength, Life and the longbow idea of requirements of change   Just some ramblings about comparing life to a longbow, tension to stress. all stress being inner stress. A...

Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect. DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication strengths and how they are perceived by others. And how you can adapt your style to those you talk to for a way better effect from 2016-02-29T04:00:44

Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect. DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication strengths and how they are perceived by others. And how you can adap...

100 episodes – giving away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books – Be Generous&Walk Your Talk from 2016-02-22T04:00:24

Celebrating 100 episodes I’m giving away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books and talking about Be Generous & Walk Your Talk. ..and some “be kind to yourself” when starting to drive ...

Stuck is just most often just a mindset from 2016-02-15T04:00:23

Stuck is just most often just a mindset “From where I am now I can’t see my way forward” – this talk is about why I love climbing and how much benefit I have had from my mindsets trained when climb...

Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards from 2016-02-08T09:26:58

Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards Some thoughts of the potential in all the people you meet and all the things they may create – and what your actions can behaviour can create...

The Power of Enthusiasm for others Enthusiasm is amazing. from 2016-02-01T04:00:42

The Power of Enthusiasm for others Enthusiasm is amazing.   It’s a great way to connect to other people. It’s a great source of insight and awareness. It’s a great fun way to be curious and take ac...

Selfishly Generous from 2016-01-25T05:00:18

Selfishly Generous A lot of studies show that generosity really pays of in health. long life. opportunities. The list is long. What would make a difference for you? in summary: here is some encoura...

Tap into the larger conversation from 2016-01-18T05:41:19

Tap into the larger conversation.   The one in yourself, the one in your organisation and the ones going on by your customers. Tap into that, align with it and you will find both a great connection...

Listening Brands: How Data is Rewriting the Rules of Branding from 2016-01-11T05:39:40

Listening Brands, Mini-Audience – always adapt your message to the individual to get the effect you want. The Power of Data might be shining most clearing when it comes to Marketing but its heading...

When to Create Commitment first – Compliance second from 2016-01-04T08:05:07

When to Create Commitment first – Compliance second Podcast Episode #93 Don’t limit yourself to get compliance from people. It might feel like you are connecting around compliance . It might feel s...

Reflect over your time investments this year – What could you do differently? from 2015-12-28T09:19:48

Reflect over your time investments this year – What could you do differently?   Time is the one resouce you never get back. It cannot be managed, only tasks and results can be prioritized in how yo...

Be the change you want – instead of assuming how you think things “should” be from 2015-12-21T05:36:44

Be the change you want – Take action instead of just assuming how you think things “should” be   Be the change you want to see in the world – quote Ghandi (not Dalai Lama that I said in the cast, s...

Un-awareness controls your options from 2015-12-14T05:48:02

Un-awareness controls your options   Help yourself and others to awareness, insights and transform those to actions and awareness for those actions feedback. What you are unaware off controls your ...

Trust from 2015-12-07T06:19:49

Trust – is in my humble opinion, everything in Relationship Power. Without it you have nothing. With it you both have a great, great help in most storms. So strong a thing – yet so brittle, so easi...

Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships and results from 2015-11-30T06:03:03

Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships and results All of us are building multiple puzzles. Take a break to reflect on YOUR most important puzzle.   NOT ALL pieces are interchangeable. I’m for...

Generosity and its powers – helps yourself and others grow towards your potential from 2015-11-23T07:13:41

You might have noticed that I have Generosity as part of my intro and that its something I mention quite often. That’s of course because I find it some important. Today I want to encourage you to b...

Recognizable You + lessons learned from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore from 2015-11-12T08:52:08

Recognizable You + lessons learned from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore   You want people to be able to recognize your work as your work, and your clients to as well, recognize when something can’t be...

The Power of Pessimistic Thinking from 2015-11-09T10:20:49

The Power of Positive and Negative Pessimistic Thinking. I believe we live in a “connection economy” like Seth Godin started saying many years ago and nothing kills a connection with someone like p...

Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations from 2015-11-02T09:16:29

Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations Are you waiting for your dreams to come true and transform your life? Dreams rarely come true, but your goals can forever change your life.. You...

log your work – be transparent on status – to yourself and others from 2015-10-26T07:09:44

Work always include reporting status – even if your boss doesn’t specify it you will build a better relationship with most managers by repeatedly report status and progress. Both Good and Bad. Exce...

Gratitude – share yours with others, let others share theirs in yours from 2015-10-19T02:51:51

Gratitude – share yours with others, let others share theirs in yours Allow yourself to feel your Gratidude for whatever it is. Why do you feel it? whats the smallest and biggest grain of it? Allow...

Leadership is about getting results and why to get them for yourself and others from 2015-10-12T09:20:08

Leadership is about getting results  and why to get them for yourself and others – not becoming something else just because books or courses tell you to Anyone can become a great leader. There is n...

The Power part in relationships and dating from 2015-10-05T11:07:16

Here are some novice thoughts (two simple points) on the power part in relationships and dating. I do not think I am the one to advice others on this, so I’m not really confortable with sharing thi...

Make it easy for the others to take action, not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it done. from 2015-09-28T05:33:44

Make it easy for OTHERS to take action, not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it done.  Its not the same thing as making progress. In this episode I talk about mini-small things...

Everything gives relationship status feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk from 2015-09-21T04:25:08

Everything gives relationship status feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk   Here’s some more personal examples of why bother with Relationship development at work. And how we as owner of our...

Story Power – Choose your words with care, you are the author of your life story from 2015-09-14T05:22:02

Story Power – Choose your words with care, you are the author of your life story Story Power – what ARE you telling yourself? I think it was stories that taught me that we’re all a part of everythi...

Your Expectations are your responsibility – Own them! from 2015-09-07T05:25

Your Expectations are your responsibility – Own them!   No one other on this planet can fix your feelings, only you It’s your job to speak clearly, including tone of voice, body language, choices a...

inner game – Energy and Connections worth exploring from 2015-08-31T04:44:57

Inner Games – Energy and Connection exploration of worth I every now and then get the question “How do I start” with “Connecting” to people? – Perhaps you’ve had a lot of work-colleagues but no rea...

Courage to Stretch – Courage to rest from 2015-08-28T18:59:46

Courage to Stretch – Courage to rest I have decided, with help from friends and mentors to only continue sharing a podcast every Monday. Right now I have been doing twice a week, Monday and Thursda...

The Power of Questions and the feelings and energy they create from 2015-08-24T09:49:20

    The Power of Questions and the feelings and energy they create   My Greatest strengths as a consultant is to be ignorant and ask a few questions. – Peter Drucker     I often get hired for my ab...

You can do Anything but not Everything from 2015-08-20T05:47:15

You can do Anything but not Everything – Don’t spread yourself thin if you are an “over-helper/over-archiver” those that matter will love you and your results more when you say no to more things in...

what KIND of person would you like to BECOME? TEDx talk by Camillla TheFreeProject from 2015-08-17T05:03:30

what KIND of person would you like to BECOME we are all in on a journey of change we all have everything we need within us, we just let some of our inner need grow too strong sometimes, taking over...

Time Entwined – who is around you the most and how are they actively helping? from 2015-08-13T04:28:25

Time Entwined In summary for saving time: I’m sure you’ve heard people talk about “you’re the average about the 5 or 10 people” you spend your time with. it goes both ways. Help others grow and mak...

Imagination – the power of what MAY be from 2015-08-10T04:37:07

Imagination – the power of what MAY be. I think this is one of the most energy giving activities that exists. What we all may be. What YOU MAY BECOME. What new “state of effect/process/whatever” yo...

Tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z course from 2015-08-06T04:28:42

This is a tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z course that you can find at PodcastAnswerMan.com. I also talk some very quick about why I created the testimonial – ...

Everything in your life has a game window – what game are you playing right now? from 2015-08-03T05:52:19

Everything in your life has a game window * Know what game you are playing * Know when it’s time to switch game rules .. or perhaps someone around you already HAS switched the ruleset without sayin...

Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of shops all around the globe from 2015-07-30T05:18:43

Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of shops all around the globe   I am sharing some of my “Personal Why Examples” of benefits of...

We all need to bond to something from 2015-07-27T04:36:06

We all need to bond, from our first ever second to all of them throughout life. Especially when doing new, insecure things. I personally believe introverts also needs this. We just bond to differen...

Teambuilding story – Why Bother with Relationship Power? from 2015-07-23T03:48:21

Teambuilding story – Why Bother with Relationship Power? I guess we all have to find out our own reasons for leading the way we lead, but here’s some thoughts about why I behave like I do. I love t...

How to leave the table when there is not enough love coming from it from 2015-07-20T06:31:29

How to leave the table when there is not enough love coming from it? I believe in sharing the knowledge, power, compassion, courage, generosity and most stuff around that but there can be no power ...

Dont Fix it if it aint broken from 2015-07-16T05:27:35

Dont Fix it if it aint broken – listen for what others REALLY want fixing – otherwise its just about you, and that is rarely the best way to build Relation Power with anyone. Its important to let g...

Guessing takes energy from 2015-07-13T05:33:32

Guessing takes energy from Relationship Power. Don’t make others guess what you do for work, and who you do it for and primarily what THEY get out of it. Also aim stand out by a unique answer  not ...

The Power of Rest. Sleep more – Archive more from 2015-07-09T12:09:14

The Power of rest continuned. My podcast recommendation for today: Michael Hyatt Michael Hyatt is talking about the power of rest. Its so important to get sleep and exercise.. Michael is doing a wa...

How Full is your bucket? Powerfull words and energy from 2015-07-06T05:20:46

How full is your bucket? Be mindful of the words you use internally to yourself as well as to others, Words are more powerful than we think of. Try to give energy to those around you and yourself e...

Gamification at work from 2015-07-02T17:53:27

Gamification at work if you simplified your work into just a few rules… What would those be?  Just the top ten most important things and ways to archive them? I understand that life and work is com...

Fan the flame – awaken the spark from 2015-06-29T15:23:59

Quite often I find myself thinking “oh there’s a ember glowing under there, should i help ignite it? Help light the passion?” Its my own curiosity mixed with my deep-rooted urge to help others grow...

Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are excellent examples from 2015-06-25T06:14:45

Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are excellent examples for becomming aware of your own patterns and figure out how to transform those insight into “in real life” Learning is a choice. You ca...

That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued from 2015-06-22T05:33:15

That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued Some listeners requested I add a few more thoughts to a previous  cast since they said the original really helped them connect and get more accompli...

Help others without expecting anything back from 2015-06-18T08:43:09

Help others just because you can and want to. I belive in a world of helping others for no other reason than the strong should help those they can. And we all have som strong area and no one has on...

the balance between kindness to one self and stretching one self from 2015-06-15T10:08:27

Last Thursday I released something sub-par. It was my podcast on team-building that WE feeling. And the thing is, i don’t even know if most of you noticed that the outro was cut off a few seconds a...

Teambuilding – building a WE feeling from 2015-06-11T09:29:54

Building a team isnt just about the big actions to form it, its also the very small repetetive gestures that affect the “we/us feeling” the most. Dont underestimate them, make sure you include smal...

Easy for you might not be easy for others from 2015-06-08T04:29:49

Easy for you might not be easy for others. Just because its easy for you, dont take for granted that its easy for others. Look for the Positive intent! It might not be due to disrespect its “not fi...

HEAL ME plz plz from 2015-06-04T10:57:05

We can learn more about ourselves using anything. I’m a computer gamer and love healing people but you know what? most often its the ones that ask the most for HEALS that doesn’t learn to avoid the...

People AND Results from 2015-06-01T04:52:49

You need Results in order to grow power. Otherwise, eventually, the powerful people will not invest their time and other resourses with you. Help others get there results done. Help them complete t...

Embrace Reality – small progress is progress too – help others see theirs from 2015-05-28T06:03:40

Most of the successful people I know say it’s mostly due to small repetitive progress. Don’t wait for that huge one thing that will make ALL the difference. Start doing anything, however small, TOD...

Unmet needs and your expectations, only you can own your own expectations from 2015-05-25T04:57:59

Unmet needs and your expectations Unmet needs and your expectations. You have to own your own expectations, because no one else but you can give you want you one. No one else has walked in your sho...

When to talk and when to not.. Choose active listening to build power with awareness from 2015-05-21T09:50:50

When to talk and when to not… Choose active listening to build power with awareness Listening is, according to my humble opinion, by far the most effective Relationship Building action you can take...

The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others from 2015-05-18T07:10:08

The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others   Be positive. As much as possible. Manager Tools, of whom I am a big fan say “start with 3 months positive feedback” BEFORE going into what ...

Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you from 2015-05-14T09:17:35

    Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you – to yourself and to others Honor your fear. Listen to it. Trust it. But do what you can not to let it define your reality. Fears unvoic...

Everything decays – What actions do you take for what effect? from 2015-05-11T05:15:54

Todays episode is more philosophical in nature than most of my previous ones. I hope you enjoy it and that it helps you shift perspective, encouraging you to take action today – For a better future...

What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it from 2015-05-04T05:00:56

What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it    

Dare to be a beginner again from 2015-04-27T04:51:10

Dare to be a beginner again. You will find you inspire others AND become clearer to others on what you excel at by being clear of what you know very well and what you are a beginner at. That you al...

Seek the Energy – WHO wants an effect? Let them drive it! from 2015-04-23T12:02:22

        Use the energy where it is heading. Let the one who wants the effect drive it, instead of you risk forgetting trying to be helpful between tasks.

Your Time and its effect on Your Relationship Power at work from 2015-04-20T05:05:07

Your Time and giving it away – its effect on Your Relationship Power at work   Take a minute for yourself. Think back on the past week. Who do you regularly spend your time with, spend your time ON...

Lowering the resistance to communication from others from 2015-04-13T05:34:51

Take the Lead. Take the initiative. Greet or share a helping hand to those you pass in the corridor. This will lower the barrier when you OR they need something next time. Perhaps try to make 2015 ...

Accepting ourselves – so we can accept others easier from 2015-04-06T05:23:19

Accepting ourselves – so we can accept others easier. This I believe is one of the first step of embracing the relationship with another person. It starts and ends with ourselves. It’s not always e...

Encourage others to be their kind of hero from 2015-03-30T05:08:49

Encourage others to be their kind of hero I love fantasy heroes. I love a great story. I think most of us do. Myself I love reading and seeing films like Lord of the Rings. A lonesome figure bearin...

Adjust your steps but keep taking them from 2015-03-23T07:02:21

Adjust your steps but keep taking them Should I take smaller or bigger actions? If you accomplish most of what you set out to do, take bigger steps If you find yourself not happy to all you’ve acco...

Yes and No – its Power and its Dangers from 2015-03-16T06:13:19

Yes/No The power of saying yes to yourself is awesome. The power of saying Yes continuously to your Boss – and deliver on it is amazing So what’s the danger then? Be aware of when you use it. “With...

Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost by Michael Hyatt from 2015-03-09T06:02:06

Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost by Michael Hyatt We often project our own issues. Be careful that you are talking about future benefits for the person you are talking to. Not your own projections...

Why and what is important for you..beyond yourself? from 2015-03-02T05:43:54

Why and what is important for you more than your own results? Please give yourself a minute to ponder on WHY you want to archive what you want to get done today. Whats in it for you? Deep down.. No...

Explore your own playfulness from 2015-02-23T05:54:40

Explore your own playfulness. That will give you energy that your relationship will share. What is having fun for you? Where do you have fun and what happens to those you meet there? Can you get mo...

Embrace the data all around – its ALL about the people from 2015-02-16T05:27:13

Embrace the data all around you. WHILE you are at the meeting be at the meeting. Meet the people and their senses, attitudes, body language etc. Don’t just get the meeting “done” – You’re there for...

Systems beyond systems beyond systems from 2015-02-09T06:28:39

There is always systems beyond systems beyond systems. Thus there is harmony AND turmoil inside the person your are talking to right now. Some of it comes from systems you will never see, but affec...

Inner game of self isolation from 2015-02-02T06:10:49

Be happy and impressed by other skills and archivements, but their success in no way diminishes yours. If you enjoy their happiness for their sake, they might like you more. If you put them above y...

That other way often works just fine from 2015-01-26T07:59:50

Open your mind to that other way of getting things done Often we believe our way is the best way, missing the point that by doing so we lose a lot of power and potential within our colleagues. Not ...

The Power in names – yours and others from 2015-01-19T18:09:09

The Power in names – yours and others How often do you think about the power of names? Yours and others. Do you make it easy for others to use your name for the best of you and them? Do take note o...

Embrace Your reality – Lessons learned after 25 episodes from 2015-01-12T05:52:22

Wow 25th episode is here! Part of embracing reality is to do your own internal recap and feedback for yourself and I thought I’d share mine, in case those thoughts help anyone else. Please note tha...

See The Individual – dont generalize from 2015-01-05T05:50:42

It’s human to make assumptions. “I have met people for your firm before, your school before, your country before, your continent before.”.. It’s an easy thing to do, and I’ve done it myself too man...

Successful communication is ALL on you from 2014-12-29T09:30:04

Successful communication is ALL on you   Successful communication is all on you – Which means if you don’t get the results and actions you want when talking to someone you have to take the responsi...

The Power of believing Others can improve from 2014-12-22T07:26:01

The Power of believing Others can improve Please take time to listen to the great TED talk “The Power of believing that you can improve” by Carol Dweck where she talks about the great result you ca...

Your Calendars Relationship Power and other Effects from 2014-12-15T06:07:16

Your Calendars Relationship Power and other effects on you and those around you. Are you aware of the real power of a shared calendar? Experiment with yours until you get the effect you want. Do no...

First Impressions and its longlasting power from 2014-12-08T05:52

First impressions and the lasting power of it First impressions last longer than most of oss think about. You probably heard it before, but do you actually make use of its power in your daily life?...

Better a small step today than waiting for perfect from 2014-12-01T06:05:54

Help someone today just because you can. It doesn’t have to be anything big.  Often I find that people wait for the perfect moment to help that will make a big impact. Or wait and see if the help t...

Listener Feedback – Alternative Cost from 2014-11-24T07:19:07

Thank you so much for your listener feedback! I am sorry that I said that we have to be perfect when sending things out to the web without explaining myself properly. What I meant to say, but didnt...

Why do you want power to help others? + Plan for December business from 2014-11-24T06:26:32

Ask yourself Why you need Relationship Power? We are all different. Different things matter differently to us.  This doesnt have to matter to you just because it does to me. What would matter to yo...

Be an Opportunity Maker from 2014-11-17T06:25:34

Connect others!  Help them with whats important to them. You never know where this will lead them ..thus and you… The reward can be enormous for everyone. This is the “opportunity cost” I compared ...

Polarizing People towards you – Awareness and its power from 2014-11-10T04:34:25

Are you aware of your polarisation effect in different situations and environments? Do you know what you want when for which effect?   Action to take: – Decide where you want to be in each environm...

Alternative Cost from 2014-11-03T06:14:10

Relationship Power at work – What’s your alternative cost for the things you are thinking about or not thinking about right now? to ANY action or in-action you take there is always an Cost and alte...

The Power of all the Circles around you – people! from 2014-10-27T06:07:20

The Power of all the Circles around you In this episode I want to help you focus on the people you most commonly don’t go to lunch with at your work. With the purpose to explore why that is and how...

The Power of Rest and some inspiration why you should experiment to get yours often from 2014-10-20T06:09:51

The Power of Rest and some inspiration why you should experiment to get yours often How do you know you’re rested? How do you know you’re at your full capacity? Action to take this week: Try listen...

The Art of Listening from 2014-10-13T05:23:11

The Art of Listening. “When you talk you are only repeating what you already know. When you listen you may learn something” – Dalai Lama We all get very preoccupied with ourselves every now and the...

Make others bloom from 2014-10-13T05:04:44

This episodes focus on some of the reasons on why and how you could help make others bloom. It could be as simple as taking five minutes extra just to figure out whats important to them without any...

The Power of Silent feedback from 2014-10-06T07:14:37

This podcast will help you explore the silent feedback that is always around you and how you can harness this to your advantage. We will also talk about the fact that you are never ever in neutral ...

Relationship Power at work – Appearance don’t tell the full story from 2014-10-06T05:38:40

Relationship Power at work – Appearance don’t tell the full story We all start by judging the book by its cover, but with self-awareness we can catch ourselves doing it and thus connect way deeper ...

Know thyself – we are abit of everything + treat your directs as volunteers from 2014-10-04T09:48:04

RelationshipPower at work – Know thyself. We are abit of everything Know thyself.  Your relationship with yourself is the most important one you have. Some experiences make part of me go into menta...

Your Reputation and the trust you bring before you from 2014-10-03T15:13:37

Relationship Power at work – Your Reputation and the trust you bring before you even meet someone for the first time. Are you aware what people find about you online? What you yourself type into al...

RelationshipPower is all about Integrity. Your Integrity! from 2014-10-03T06:32:54

RelationshipPower is all about Integrity. Your Integrity is important! We explore some of what that means to me and you as a manager. We explore being uncomfortable, and that we can all learn new t...

The Power of your bodylanguage from 2014-10-01T06:03:28

Everything you do, say and don’t do sends signals on multiple levels and multiple channels at once. Are you aware that your body either hinders or benefits that your message to get through and crea...

The Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting + Necessary Endings from 2014-09-29T05:31:17

Relationship Power at work – The Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting and other Necessary Endings This episode is dedicated to help you explore where you stand most commonly on disconnect an...

Relationship Power at work – The power of vulnerability + Handshake from 2014-09-26T17:55:35

Make others feel worth of Love and Belonging. Be kind to yourself, that the only way you can sustain kindness to others. Help yourself feel “you are enough” and pass that feeling to others whenever...

RelationshipPower at Work Episode001 What is Relationship Power and how does it help you? from 2014-09-22T18:38:36

My definition of Relationship Power is that thing that you earn, not the same thing as Role Power or Authority Power that you get by your position. Relationship Power is that unique connection you ...

Relationship Power Podcast Episode 001 Starting up from 2014-09-14T19:49:27