Podcasts by Ride with Nbs Malay
Welcome to the Ride with Nbs Malay podcast, where great spoken word happens, peaceful messages and great vibes! I come on here to speak whatever is on my mind. Sometimes I cry, sometimes I laugh and sometimes I just let you listen to the random conversations that go on around me. I share my real life experiences, interview people about theirs or I’ll share something recent that I’ve learned about what’s going on with our local businesses. Come ride with me for a few if you want to experience some realness and things you can relate to! Thank you for your time. Peace. 💕
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Are You a Narcissist? Cause I Have Something 2 SAY from 2022-10-05T23:36:38
Are you tired of asking yourself what is right with you? Tired of being right all the time? Are you entertained by abusing others with your cruel words, selfish expectations and evil antics? Have y...
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Understand The Different Types of Narcissism & Accept Why It Was NEVER “Love” In The 1st Place from 2021-05-09T10:04:25
We talk about “red flags”, but how do you know what to look for if you don’t see the part you played to welcome the repetitiveness? You have to be ready to accept your responsibility in something i...
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Walking Away Is the ONLY Solution To Getting Away From Narcissistic Abuse from 2021-05-09T10:04:07
Why do we always need an apology? Why do we feel like a person who can’t take responsibility for hurting you, can say “sorry” for hurting you? Will you be satisfied with an apology that is not felt...
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Do Narcissists Build Narcissistic Traits In Their Victims? from 2021-05-09T10:03:56
Hey!!! Do you ever look at yourself and see how a person changed you? Whether it’s for better or for worse? Do you ask yourself if you’re anything like them after dealing with them for so long? Is ...
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Finally!!! A Breakthrough After Letting Go of Trauma From 20 Years Ago! from 2021-04-11T06:42:41
Not too personal! Ouch! But I wanna express something that I feel is very important to society today... TALK to your kids... you 𝘢𝘳𝘦 their parents, yes, BUT you were ALSO their first “friend” 🥰...
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I Got Some Secrets To Tell... 👀❤️😭 from 2021-04-11T03:17:34
Dag... I don’t even know where to express this... but if you need some motivation, tuuuune iiiiin 🗣🗣🗣🗣 Narelle IG: https://instagram.com/narelleakc?igshid=tnvztg4hwps9 SNE Donations: https:/...
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Is It Possible To End Any Relationship on Good Terms? from 2021-03-27T23:56:14
I mean... expect what you accept, right? Wrong. Well... in my opinion. Should we love with no limits? Is it healthy for us to say, “I love you. If you need me, I’m here, but 𝘚𝘈𝘠𝘖𝘕𝘈𝘙𝘈”? Can ...
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If Your Partner Invited You Out With Their Friend, Are You Paying For The Whole Bill? from 2021-03-14T07:32:56
Chatting it up with my friend about some controversial stuff on the Facebook feed! Man it’s interesting to know what other people think... but here are our opinions!!! Great convo and good laughs! ...
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Chat w/Friends:Does Your Sex Noises Motivate or Aggravate Your Neighbors? from 2021-03-01T19:26:01
𝘍𝘜𝘓𝘓 𝘋𝘐𝘚𝘊𝘓𝘈𝘐𝘔𝘌𝘙: 𝘐𝘧 𝘣𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦, 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘤𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. ⚠️ Me and friends...
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A 𝘭𝘪𝘭 late—I just wanna talk about the movie “Soul” & what it meant to me 🥰 from 2021-02-23T13:32:58
If you guys didn’t see the movie... 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵! I loved every second of it... but do not play this episode if you don’t want the spoiler alert!!!!
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Late Night Thought Talk— 3AM Brain from 2021-02-11T08:15:01
It’s not what you think it is... It’s just another conversation about being human.
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The question is: When is a “rebound” healthy? from 2021-02-08T13:46:15
I feel like most of the world has tried to 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 someone just to get over someone else. But what if the someone finds 𝘺𝘰𝘶? Are they still considered a “rebound”? Come sit in my brain for a se...
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A New Vision from 2021-02-01T17:12
Crazy how a blackbird has all the space in the sky and their most common cause of death are cars... and cats. Did you hear them singing at the end of January? Or maybe you heard a crow 🥴 😂... tun...
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The Ending To The Narcissist Season from 2020-09-19T03:50:16
Yeah... it’s time to end that... it’s just too much to deal with. I want to talk about the things that matter. Let’s reset...
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Are You Okay With Never Getting Married? from 2020-04-07T21:35:29
Okay... so, first I had a baby, then I had love —but no marriage? Do I care? Do you care? Does the thought of never walking down an aisle, exchanging affordable rings and nervously kissing your par...
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At What Age Are You Supposed To Stop Playing With Hearts? 🤔🥴🧐 from 2020-03-22T13:04:35
*hits blunt* Imagine a person performing love through actions (cause actions speak louder, right?) and then BOOM 💥 they tell you they don’t love you. How would you feel? Well, of course you’d have...
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Hey!!!! I just want to throw some good energy & share good news from 2020-03-13T15:28:07
Hey... guess what the Mayor’s office asked me to do 😊? You have to listen to find out ❤️!!! Listen... I’m starting to think I have to pick a lane... do I want to be a singer, author, motivational ...
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Do You Keep People In Your Life Who Are Not Good For You Or Do You Let Them Go? from 2020-03-05T11:41:03
What does the “golden rule” mean to you? Do you look back on your situations and ask, “hmmm... if I was that person, how would I feel?” Is it important to you to cherish the people who have done no...
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Why am I single? Because I deserve the absolute best & I know how to love myself correctly! from 2020-02-16T14:39:44
Why do we have to always give you a reason why we’re single? Why is singleness always seen as a bad thing? Have you ever heard the question: why are you in a relationship? I mean—I haven’t. I did h...
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Have You Ever Experienced Loving Someone Who Didn’t Love You Back? Can I sing to you for a minute? from 2020-01-10T20:13:28
The other day I asked my social media, “What hurts more; love or hate?” I received lots of answers, but now I’d like to give my perspective. I welcomed my friend, Narelle, to also give her views to...
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Wake N Bake With Friends About Our Crazyyyy Night for The New Year from 2020-01-01T17:13:33
Wow! Can’t believe this happened 😂 buuut on the bright side we had a good time. Let’s talk about freely posting on social media... can we say our goals without anyone having a problem with it ? 🤔
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Tieya Speaks About Learning Who Her Real Parents Were & What It’s Like Having Lymphedema from 2019-12-30T18:39:01
My friend from high school, Tieya, came to share her story about her life so others would have a better understanding of her. She wants everyone to know that a smile has a story behind it and her s...
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This Past Weekend I Received “Triumphant Woman of The Year 2019” Award From Women of Elevation from 2019-12-09T15:40:50
This experience was just—WOW! I can’t even begin to explain what this felt like... but I will try. Lol. This was completely unbelievable! I know everybody said I deserved this but—SO MANY PEOPLE DE...
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I Started Speak N Eat Almost 2 Years Ago & Finally Decided to Take A Break from 2019-11-18T17:21:21
The show still went on! My friends held it down! I heard nothing but great things! I want to talk about the importance in taking a break from the things you love to prevent yourself from numbing yo...
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Ride With Nbs Malay from 2019-11-11T15:03:52
I went to a retreat called, “The Pink Party” hosted by @gurltheretreat ! I know my purpose is to speak my pain to you to help us all heal together. I learned at the retreat that I must execute that...
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In The Process of Healing Myself... I Decided to Take The Rest of The Year Off from 2019-10-31T12:44:58
As you know, life is not easy. Most of the time your friends can’t help you and other times you may feel like people don’t care enough. Well, that’s how I’ve felt. But I do care about myself enough...
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Forgiving Your Abuser/Questions & Answers From Listeners/Social Media Is Made To Speak Your Mind from 2019-10-22T15:09:03
Should we wait for an apology to forgive? No... but I had to learn that. You asked why did I tell my story when it happened 4 years ago? Usually people heal when they talk about what hurt them and ...
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No Silence For Domestic Violence. Your Story Matters. Here’s Mine. I Used To Be Scared to Tell It! from 2019-10-12T16:53
He might be your friend. I don’t care. He might be your brother. I don’t care. He might be your grandson. I don’t care. He might be your cousin. I DON’T CARE! Be aware of the people you love and le...
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Part II Shortest Relationship of My Life Along with Questions From Listeners! But what happened tho? from 2019-10-08T02:47:52
Talk about a “fuck boi”... eh—that’s not very nice, Malay. That’s actually shady af. Nah. Real shyt... there was pros and cons to it. I guess you’ll have to listen to find out. This is the first ti...
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What was your shortest relationship? I bet I got you beat!!! One week! Let’s talk about it!!! from 2019-10-03T23:49:24
Yerrrro—talk about bad blood. Like, how do things be so great one second and the next it’s like—uuuuh...? I spoke about ambivalent relationships and holding on to people that need you. But I change...
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A friend asked, why do some women like females more than they like men? 4AM Sober Creatives Chats! from 2019-07-24T08:16:10
It’s always good for people to see things from a different perspective. Judge people all you want, as you should, but give them a chance to explain who they are. It’s not that we have to explain, b...
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I Had An Epiphany! I Need To Live For Me. Depression Is Real. People Need To Know That You Care!!! from 2019-07-22T13:28:13
Can I be real with you? Can I tell you a secret? I honestly don’t care what anybody thinks about me after this. I am human... I’m a real person. Real people go through real things like depression a...
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Relationships, Social Media & False Intentions... from 2019-07-17T21:51:08
Where do we go from here? When do we put an end to our own pain? When is it okay to lean on somebody else? Is it possible to love and not lose? Don’t pity the single folks... we can be in a relatio...
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Can you justify cheating? What does monogamy mean to you? from 2019-07-10T03:11:40
Do you think a person can love more than one person? I’m not saying you can justify it, I’m just looking at views. If you were to agree with someone’s side to it, how would you feel? What would you...
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Just my thoughts... Nothing wrong with speaking what I feel right? I feeeeel iiiiit! from 2019-06-29T16:26:30
Going through a lot, I guess. Venting about it and reading articles helps me. It sucks to be in a mood and feel like you can’t switch it. Who helps you through it? A lover? A friend? A therapist? E...
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I shared my Labor Story with my son on his 9th birthday... his reaction was priceless! 😅 from 2019-06-24T13:29:42
Do we ever talk about the journey through co-parenting? 🤔 Let me just share a little personal story with you. It took forever to feel this comfortable and it took forever to understand that I am n...
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Talk & Chill with Sober Friends from 2019-05-30T16:43:46
We came from talking about kids needing father figures in their life to some unspeakable thangs lol. No... you really have to listen in. It’s always fun talking with Eb and Nugget! 🤗
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Letting Go Doesn’t Mean You Lost... Sometimes you just gotta fall back from 2019-05-09T13:18:32
Eh—Don’t you just hate talking about this? Losing people in your life. Like... for what? Why does it have to be that way? But people come and go... all the time... it’s life. We’re human! Our job i...
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Manifesting Happiness & Positive Energy from 2019-05-08T14:06:47
Sometimes we don’t know how to ask for help. Sometimes we want to keep our business to ourselves. Most times we’re sure people won’t understand. Other times we don’t give people a chance to listen....
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Today is going to be a successful open mic night! from 2019-03-18T13:59:08
We are going to have so much fun tonight! We are going to enjoy so much talent tonight! And we are going to create so much peace tonight! Make sure you come out and don’t miss the vibes!
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It’s 5 O’Clock Somewhere! (Drink N Chill With Friends) from 2019-01-31T21:34:22
Fun with Friends
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Who Are You To Judge Someone You’ve Never Even Met? from 2019-01-30T17:37:41
So many people feel they know it all. They feel like they can just glance at a person and they know their entire life. You don’t know anything about a person because of photos, social media and the...
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Part 2 Drink N Chill from 2018-11-25T08:55:58
Play games and end up talking bout threesomes lol so unexpected! Hahaha
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DRINK AND CHILL AT 3AM from 2018-11-25T07:46:02
Just friends and me up at almost 3 am still drinking and chilling !!! Fun and the best conversation!
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Dear Sistah... We Need Each Other from 2018-10-18T15:16:03
Sometimes we feel discouraged—but that’s okay. That’s what we have each other for! I will lift you because I know you would do it for me. There is no time for discouragement!
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Reflecting On Regrets from 2018-09-22T17:22:22
Everything happens for a reason, right? Wrong! Well, I’m my opinion... but let’s talk about it... let’s talking about losing love that wasn’t meant to be lost. Let’s talk about avoiding regrets and...
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Don’t You Wanna Fly, Black Girl? from 2018-09-20T17:48:36
I often wonder why people hate their skin color. I created this piece(peace) to remind us of what our skin tone means—how people would love to be a different tone while you are hating it. People ar...
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Let’s Talk About It... from 2018-09-19T16:18:04
Great open mic turn out... it’s always good to release negative emotions to develop positive ones. Make room for love! Make room for peace and strength! We can build and be free. Talk to others to ...
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Be encouraged—Even on your worst days from 2018-09-06T12:57:22
We’ve all worked super hard on something and didn’t get what we expected at least once in our lives. But if we stopped there, then what? Sure, we have each other. But what good is that if we aren’t...
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Don’t Completely Let Go of Ambivalent Relationships from 2018-08-06T12:28:17
I don’t believe that you should completely let go of negative people in your life. Because maybe those negative people need you. Maybe negative people are put into your life because you need to tea...
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We need reciprocity! from 2018-07-26T14:56:02
Self-love is awesome, yasss! But what happens if we add 1 to our 1? I believe we should meet half-way!
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Heaven Only Knows (Peace) from 2018-07-25T13:04:17
Should we teach our children how to cope with death before they experience it? Should we ignore who ignores us? Should we love the ones who don’t show love? Is it healthy to isolate ourselves when ...
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It’s Up To Me from 2018-07-24T23:42:32
Spoken word piece... (peace) [Lovers or Friends Part III. I chose not to start off with Part I for reason that I will tell you later. Hope you like!
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Introduction to greatness from 2018-07-24T22:44:29
Here I am just talking about what I will be doing on this podcast. From spoken word, to words of encouragement, to singing... come join me!
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