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545- Rent the (Not so) Perfect Christian Boyfriend from 2022-11-29T20:33:33

This week we take an emergency look at a business seeking to rent out the perfect Christian boyfriend. And, in a rare instance, come up with an improvement!

As a spouse in such a situatio...

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544- Hymnal Hustle from 2022-11-23T00:46:28

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Let's all give thanks for an all emergency episode!

We come up with a new, groundbreaking tech...

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543-Indiana Bob Jones and the Hobby Lobby Haunting from 2022-11-08T20:35

I recently read a description of elements of a cult. It included things like “a leader who is not to be questioned” and “everything is part of the plan” and “the people in this group are all you...

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542- The Iron Pulpit from 2022-11-01T22:39:58

1.1) I feel like it’s really  shallow but I’m finding I’m not physically attracted to my spouse anymore. (16:18-34:21) 1.2) I used to be really passionate about faith and expressive in worship....

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541- Thy Will Be Pun from 2022-10-25T20:36:55

Christian puns may have gone too far! And some Halloween PSAs. (00:00-19:00)

Hebrews 4:1 says to be careful not to “be found to have fallen short”. But Romans pretty famously says all hav...

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540- Generosity Is A Foundational Decision from 2022-10-19T01:48:40

We look at a church's...stadium tour...tickets for which cost up to over $1000. That's definitely an emergency! (00:00-19:45)

How do you know when a situation (not a relationship, but lik...

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539- I Surrender Some from 2022-10-12T00:24:51

We try to help out the Christian media industry with some realistic worship songs and micro-targeted devotionals. (00:00-28:30)

I have some people in my life that I feel like I have forgi...

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538- God’5 Not Dead from 2022-10-04T18:41:35

We take look at ways to improve the 5th(!!!) installment of the premier evangelical cinematic franchise. (00:10-19:15)

Is there a healthy way to be proud of myself. I feel like the Christ...

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537- Billy Graham’s Bible Blasters from 2022-09-28T00:19:57

We revel in some early 90s Bible based video game nostalgia. (00:10-19:15)

I was recently reading about how it is not a healthy thing to take on other people’s emotions in a situation. Bu...

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536- The Dove.org Review of Deadpool from 2022-09-20T21:55:16

An early 2000s Christian cinema emergency leads us to the amazing movie rating system of Dove.org. (00:10-22:15)

I recently heard about the Billy Graham rule. I can see why it might make ...

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535- Meanwhile, In The Norwegian Soda Wars from 2022-09-13T16:23:24

This week, an emergency that starts off about a Christian conference and somehow ends up at the Norwegian version of Surge soda. Also:

What do you guys make of the Matt Chandler thing? It...

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534- The Last Temptation of Ricky from 2022-08-30T16:26:19

What does “the sins of the fathers” mean? The Bible mentions God punishing people to four generations (for example Numbers 14:18). But that doesn’t seem fair. (15:50-25:11)

What does Luke...

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533-Singo and Scamilton from 2022-08-23T23:45:23

We look at a Texas church's unauthorized, revised version of Hamilton, and invent a new game to keep a crowd engaged during a sermon. (0:00-16:25)

Some older Christians like to talk about...

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532- Hitting Spriritual PRs (with Chris Bolinger) from 2022-08-17T00:27:19

I hear people talk about “godly masculinity” or “biblical masculinity”. All the people talking about that online describe something that is toxic and awful. Is there a non-awful definition of “g...

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531- Crunchwrap Supremacy of the Word from 2022-08-10T00:43:53

I want to experience God for myself, but I don't seem to be getting anywhere. (23:47-40:13)

I'm working on being more patient. Is there a healthy way to be impatient in the meantime? (40:...

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530- Evangelical Norse Paganism from 2022-08-02T18:48:22

I feel like when I was a kid, I was given this big package labeled “Christian beliefs”. Some of them didn’t really have anything to do with Christianity, but they were in the package. I have dro...

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529- It’s Going Great from 2022-07-26T21:53:41

It's an all emergency episode!

We talk horrible VBS themes, bad prophets, Bible reading as a magical spell, thrift store demons, after the rapture pet care, and more!

Closing Song:...

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528- Muscular Jesus from 2022-07-20T01:05:49

My partner started going to therapy. They really like it so far. Some of things they say their therapist told them and exercises they gave them seem…weird to me. Is this a conversation I can hav...

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527- Christianity’s Not Genetic from 2022-07-12T18:06:27

I’ve been discussing faith matters with a friend, who's really getting deeper in the faith right now, and that's awesome.Some of their sources seem a bit wonky, What's a good way to navigate thi...

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Summer Special - Does It Get Easier? from 2022-07-05T19:28:48

The guys are all traveling this week, so here is an episode of the radio show we do specifically for folks behind bars. It's a fun half hour of music and encouragement. We hope you enjoy it!

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526- Stop The Easter Musical, I Want To Get Off! from 2022-06-28T16:36:43

I have a question about Matthew 10:39. What does it mean to “lose your life”? Like, what am I supposed to be giving up? (24:46-39:07)

 

I feel like decisions at my church are all m...

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525- Premier Platinum Prayer Partner Program from 2022-06-21T23:22:35

My partner and I are moving and will be looking for a new church. I have only ever gone to one denomination in my life. I want to use this as an opportunity to explore what’s out there. What’s t...

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524- The Subtext Has Become Text from 2022-06-14T15:36:19

I know nobody perfectly lives out what they say, but what is the line between imperfect person and hypocrite? (17:11-31:55)

When someone (ie. Family) has hurt me, I put a lot of thought i...

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523- PrayerWish from 2022-06-08T02:03:49

I’ve heard you guys say “no is a powerful word”. But I was taught to try to be helpful to people and be open to opportunities. How does “no” fit into that? (22:03-39:19)

With the SBC abus...

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522- K-LOVE Films and Werner Herzog Present from 2022-05-31T18:19:34

What can I do in my thinking so that I don’t get resentful of people in my life? (22:06-28:53)

I recently joined a board at my church. I don't really feel like I know how it works or if I...

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521- I’ve Never Regretted Choosing Hope from 2022-05-25T01:07:46

Alternate Titles: "Southern Baptist Apocalypse" and " 300 Cubits, Make It Work!"

How do I follow Jesus’ command in Matthew 18:21 without allowing myself to be subject to other people’s ab...

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520- Operation Panda Express from 2022-05-17T18:52:25

I kind of find God's promises frustrating because I don't always understand them and I know some don't apply to me. How should I think about them? (17:25-30:01)

How can I make my faith le...

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519- 5 Dos and 145 Don’ts from 2022-05-10T22:19:18

We take a look at a church's 150 rules! Which leads to discussions of (among other things):

Cheerwine Holy War

religious demons

Kenny G summoning Satan

The sin of hid...

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518- The Creativity Inherent in Generosity from 2022-05-03T17:53:47

I took on some new responsibilities at work and picked them up quickly. But that made me nervous that I might get overconfident and mess up. What's the right balance? (21:12-33:15)

Gettin...

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517- Easter Sermon Sponsors from 2022-04-27T00:13:06

I recently lost someone dear to me, and I feel like I'm not grieving. What's going on? (24:37-37:08)

When looking for a therapist what are the pros and cons of a Christian counselor? (37:...

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516- Emergency Basket from 2022-04-20T00:33:09

It's a post-Easter emergency roundup!

This week: A horrifying gigantic plush Jesus, Biblical podcasters, we uncover a very Gospel Coalition hazing ritual, and we discuss the God figure hi...

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515- ChurchaMania from 2022-04-13T00:30:56

How do I reflect on mistakes I have made in my past without getting stuck in guilt? (16:24-29:36)

How do I know when God is telling me to be patient versus times when I am just scared to ...

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514-Put Your Prayers on Layaway from 2022-04-05T17:36:38

I feel like everyone expects my significant other and I to get engaged soon, but I am having doubts. What do I do? (16:02- 28:33)

In Luke 7, Jesus raises a widow's son. But what about all...

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513- 100 Million Dollars of Terrible Idea from 2022-03-30T00:38:01

Should I validate someone's feelings if they are throwing themselves a pity party? (18:56-31:42)

My partner and I are having a baby. How do we tell our relatives "this is not about you"? ...

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512- Being Present at Applebees from 2022-03-22T22:40:47

What's the difference between sharing something that helped you with someone else and toxic positivity? (18:52-30:25)

I made a lot of progress in an area of my life. Is it weird or wrong ...

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511- Illicit Grace from 2022-03-15T15:30:46

Someone accused my church of not being "biblically-based". What does that even mean? (15:50-31:38)

How do I navigate "eating the meat and spitting out the bones" with Christian stuff? (31...

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510- The Award for Best Christian Barbershop Album from 2022-03-08T09:43:50

How do I tell the difference between processing bad news well and being in denial? (16:36-28:28)

What does Philippians 2:14 "do all things without arguing or complaining" actually mean fo...

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509- Legalistic Wordle from 2022-03-02T00:15

How do I empathize instead of judge when it seems like someone is causing their own problem? (15:50-30:14)

I feel like my mind dwells on things that make me angry or unhappy. How can I st...

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508- Oops All Emergencies from 2022-02-23T00:15

This week we look at a backlog of crazy stories including 90s Christian rockers sharing their opinions no one asked for, a literal witchhunt in a Nashville church, and more!

Closing Song:...

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507- Failure Pasta from 2022-02-16T01:40:52

What's the difference between guilt and remorse? (14:43-29:50)

How do I have boundaries with someone who has leverage over me? (29:56-47:37)

Jesus said to love God with all your he...

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506- That 90s Youth Group from 2022-02-09T00:15

I treated someone badly in the past. They forgave me. I know God forgives me, so why do I still feel awful? (19:32-35:05)

What do you guys make of the recent spate of book banning in US s...

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505- Baptist Wine from 2022-02-02T00:16

I feel like I am either way too busy or wasting time. How can I get in balance? (17:11-37:34)

I am terrified to talk to God. Help? (37:39-52:58)

How can I stop thinking about negat...

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504- No Offense to Bob Jones University from 2022-01-26T00:15

I feel like I know what I need from God, but not how to get it. What does that conversation look like? (18:27-30:32)

How should I think about and deal with personal, individual ethical co...

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503- Amish Fiction from 2022-01-19T00:13

What can I do to cultivate hope? (26:26-35:27)

I struggle with my mental health. Should I consider having kids? (26:26-35:27)

Jesus said "in this world you will have trouble" but a...

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502- Liarproof from 2022-01-12T00:15

How do I make changes that actually last long term in my life? (15:09-28:06)

Where is the difference between God speaking through circumstances and me just looking for things to reinforce...

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501- New Years Devolutions from 2022-01-05T00:16

What is one thing I can do to have a stronger walk with the Lord in 2022? (16:32-28:27)

How do I have a healthy relationship with having goals? (28:31-42:48)

Where do I draw the li...

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Episode 500! from 2021-12-29T00:15

There is no such thing as total honesty, so what's the line between leaving stuff out and being dishonest? (14:42-33:00)

I forgave someone, but I still don't like being around them. Does ...

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499- CalvinCoin from 2021-12-22T00:15

What does the Holy Spirit actually do for us? (14:16-28:33)

Why does it seem like I encounter more problems when I am doing well? (28:36-44:16)

I feel like I know the Christmas sto...

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498- Tango With Jerks from 2021-12-15T00:15

Things are going well. But that makes me worried I will mess things up. How do I deal with success in a healthy way? (17:02-30:19)

I like fun Christmasy stuff and I feel like there is jud...

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497- Osteen‘s Eleven from 2021-12-08T00:15

How do I deal with people who criticize me, and then want my help? (17:09-33:36)

Jeremiah 17:10 says the Lord will "reward each person according to their conduct". Since we are saved by f...

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496- The Tower of Irony from 2021-12-01T00:15

My non-Christian friends are very accepting of my faith and talk about how I'm not one of "those Christians." That makes me really frustrated with "those Christians." What do I do? (17:22-30:25)...

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495- CSI:Narthex from 2021-11-24T00:15

An ex treated me badly, and I keep thinking about getting back at them. I know God doesn't me to think that way, so what do I do? (16:05-28:01)

I have a friend who is being dishonest with...

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494- Into The Metaverse with Jed Goldblum from 2021-11-17T00:15

What's a good strategy for dealing with family boundaries this holiday season? (16:04-31:41)

People say God wants me to let go of guilt and shame, but how do I actually do that? (31:44-48...

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493- Legalistic Clue from 2021-11-10T00:15

I believe in Jesus. But people keep saying it's important to have a relationship with Him. How do I actually do that? (15:21-27:02)

Is it wrong that sometimes I read things that are in th...

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492- The Sorcerer‘s Bones from 2021-11-03T00:16

I had a conflict at work recently that I don't think I handled well. (15:04-31:55)

How can I not let fear affect my decision making? (31:59-47:39)

What can I do to become a better ...

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491- The Shark Pool Prophecy from 2021-10-27T00:15

How do I view change less negatively? (17:58-30:51)

My life looks very different then I thought it would. Even though it's great, that still sometimes makes me feel like I'm missing somet...

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490- Trunk Or Treat from 2021-10-20T00:15

How do you know when it's time to let a relationship go? (18:05-33:44)

What can I do to stay sane in situations where things are just going to take time? (33:48-49:35)

I've made bi...

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489- Volcano Based Podcast Lair from 2021-10-13T00:15

I have a hard time taking advice. How do I get past that? (16:02-27:11)

How can God help me rebuild relationships where I have hurt people in my past? (27:15-39:01)

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488: SayThat Presents The 700 Club from 2021-10-06T00:15

I am afraid of failing again. What can I do about that? (16:58-27:46)

I was told I need to have more confidence. But how do I actually get more confidence? (27:50-40:51)

How do you...

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487- Sneezing Jesus from 2021-09-29T00:15

What can I do to create more hope in my life? (16:06-31:39)

How do I know if what I am feeling about my job is just post-pandemic adjustment or God telling me to make a change? (31:43-45:...

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486- The Matt Gala from 2021-09-22T00:15

I have this paralyzing fear that all the progress I have made in my life could disappear tomorrow. How do I handle that? (18:20- 32:17)

I am conflicted about the latest Texas abortion bil...

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485- Poped Like A Hurricane from 2021-09-15T00:15

What is false-humility? (20:43-35:18)

I've people say all sin is sin against God, but it seems to me that Christians often use that as an excuse to get out of apologizing to people they h...

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484- Mission Trip To Mars from 2021-09-08T00:15

A friend passed away recently. How do I grieve this so I can actually "let go"? (13:57-25:01)

Any tips on letting go of bitterness from an old family wound? (25:06-38:25)

What does...

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483- The Faith and The Furious from 2021-09-01T00:15

I feel like I am being manipulated in my relationship, what should I do? (14:49-28:45)

In John 5, Jesus tells a man He healed, “Stop sinning, or something worse may happen to you.” What d...

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482- Jesus Was A Refugee from 2021-08-25T00:15

How do I get patience when I need it the most? (17:18-32:09)

What does the Bible say about refugees? (32:14-48:33)

I have gone to therapy and learned a lot. But I don't know how I ...

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481- Who's Gonna Break Your Men's Conference? from 2021-08-18T00:15

A family member is very rude about my past. How do I forgive her and myself? (18:47-32:14)

I've heard God has a plan for my life. How do I know what that is? (32:18-42:55)

I recent...

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480- We Don't Need No Jeducation from 2021-08-11T00:15

I am discouraged and angry about COVID numbers going back up. How do I deal with those feelings? (20:58-35:17)

With the latest scandal coming out about Hillsong's founder- what do I do wi...

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479- This Homily Brought To You By Mountain Dew! from 2021-08-04T00:15

I try to take my walk seriously, but I find myself losing focus when I am praying or reading the Bible. I have ADHD, but I don't want to use that as an excuse. What can I do? (13:31-28:48)

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478- Church, brought to you by Facebook from 2021-07-28T00:15

How do I recover friendships after the pandemic lockdowns, including with some friends who are mad at me for not seeing them more during the last year? (17:03-31:52)

People got really mad...

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477- Whose Sermon Is It Anyway? from 2021-07-21T00:15

I feel like sometimes I pray compulsively. How do I pray without obsessing? (20:42-33:25)

Is it wrong that Philippians 4:13 and the way people use it kind of annoys me? (33:30-46:14)

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476- Weird Al's Purity Polka from 2021-07-14T00:15

The person I am interested in said they like me, but they can't be with me. It's a complicated situation. How do I not lose my mind? (18:33-34:41)

Psalm 37:1 makes it sound like we are no...

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475- Inviting A Gator To Church from 2021-07-07T00:15

I have wounds from a parent. How do I work through the pain and the past? (17:15-29:31)

I feel like a spent a lot of time being lost. I hear about this "new me". When does it actually arr...

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Designed To Heal from 2021-06-29T18:23

We talk to our good friend Dr Bem Culiat and her co-author Dr Jennie McLaurin about physical and spiritual healing and their new book Designed To Heal: What The Body Shows Us about Healing Wound...

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474- You Don't Know About Psalty? from 2021-06-23T00:15

I am confused, if God's power is what saved me, what is there for me to do? Why do I have to do anything? (14:18-28:26)

How do I get out of the cycle of beating up on myself for mistakes ...

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473- Perfect Loves Drives Out Fear (with Sarah Eekhoff Zylstra) from 2021-06-16T00:15

I used to talk to God like He was my friend or therapist, then I got freaked out that I was being inappropriate. How should I approach Him? (12:02-26:15)

Matt talks to Sarah Eekhoff Zylst...

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472- By This Everyone Will Know from 2021-06-09T00:15

My mom has been repeating horrible, offensive things she hears on her preferred news channel and I am struggling to deal with it. What should I do? (12:38- 30:41)

Someone told me I have a...

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471- Blast Your Spiritual Quads (with Ben Kirby of PreachersNSneakers) from 2021-06-02T00:15

What does spiritual growth actually mean? How do I know if I am growing? (10:04-24:43)

Matt talks to Ben Kirby of instagram sensation PreachersNSneakers about his new book looking at Chri...

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470- The Church Of The Expendables from 2021-05-26T00:15

I struggle with grief and loss. What is the healthy way to grieve? (14:08-29:43)

There are a lot of rules in my life. How do I deal with my impatience for a time when I can really get to ...

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469- Osteens Wild from 2021-05-19T00:15

I have a relative who needs help but clearly doesn't want it from me. How can I help? (13:11-29:30)

I left the faith I grew up in and have encountered some ideas and experiences that frea...

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Bonus- Full Interview with Vicar Derek Kubilus from 2021-05-13T17:40:41

Our full chat with Vicar Derek Kubilus of the Cross Over Q Podcast.

Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts

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468-Dominion Surprise Counseling (With Vicar Derek Kubilus of Cross Over Q) from 2021-05-12T00:15

I have been alone most of my life and have started getting to know people. But when they don't have time for me, I feel like acting out or spouting negativity. What should I do? (18:12-32:16) Listen

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467- That All Of Them May Be One from 2021-05-05T00:15

*Note* We have a few audio hiccups in the intro. Everything is back to normal about 2 minutes in.

I recently heard someone say the church should reject Critical Race Theory because it is ...

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466- Florida Man Has Boat Full Of Animal Couples from 2021-04-28T12:43:12

I am having impure thoughts overtime. I do good, but I feel like I am condemning myself. (12:43-30:12)

You guys talk about not owing anyone an argument. Is there a caveat in there for cal...

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465- Luxury Bible Experience from 2021-04-21T00:15

I had a tough conversation with someone. It went pretty well, but I don't think it ends with us being like best friends. It feels weird. Is that okay? (15:58-30:34)

I am struggling with l...

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464- PTLCK from 2021-04-14T00:15

I had a bad experience with ministry leadership. How do I approach a new opportunity? (13:17-31:39)

I want a divorce. I know I shouldn't want that, but I do. What do I do? (31:46-54:13) Listen

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463- The Glenslinger from 2021-04-07T00:15

I know Jesus doesn't condemn me for my past, but it is really easy to judge myself for it. How do I stop that? (16:19-31:56)

Every morning I wake up and am immediately mad at the world. W...

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462- Tomb Toys and Satan Shoes from 2021-03-31T00:15

Should I date someone who doesn't want to go to church because of bad past experiences? (17:10-32:12)

A lot of people are linking the Atlanta area shooter to purity culture. I grew up in ...

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461- Not Only Much, But Well from 2021-03-24T00:15

What does it mean to "walk by the spirit"? (15:42-29:53)

I got a new job and am having a lot of anxiety about proving myself to new people. Any advice? (29:56-48:29)

I really don't...

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460- Cancelled Kitchen from 2021-03-17T00:15

How do I know who I can trust? (14:41-31:46)

What are Christians supposed to make of "cancel culture"? (31:50-53:02)

I feel like the last year has messed with my idea of joy, how d...

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459- Love Opens Our Eyes from 2021-03-10T00:15

1 Corinthians 13:11 says to put off childish things, but Jesus said to come to him like a child. What am I missing? (16:44-31:07)

Why do I have trouble concentrating when I pray? (31:12-4...

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458- Best Case Worst Case Scenario from 2021-03-03T00:15

What is the purpose of marriage, practically? (16:30-31:19)

A relative created a situation that got me in trouble with my landlord, now the whole thing is a big mess. How do I deal with a...

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457- Unless The Lord Builds The House from 2021-02-24T00:15

God gave me a great job. How do I make sure I am not overworking? (14:42-27:47)

My boyfriend isn't gentle with me, and that bothers me. Is it a big problem? (27:52-43:46)

What does...

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456- Not Easily Broken from 2021-02-17T00:15

How do I balance being a good partner with making sure I'm doing self-care? (18:09-27:06)

I feel like every time my life gets better, I mess it up. How does got want me to handle this? (2...

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455- Slapstick Persecution from 2021-02-10T00:15

How do I love people I really, really disagree with? (17:52-32:17)

How can you make or maintain friendships with people you don't see regularly? (32:22-46:10)

The Bible says I am "...

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454- Helpful For Building Up from 2021-02-03T00:15

I don't know how to feel about my parents. They were always there for me, but there was also a lot of violence and screaming. My friends tell me that is abuse, but my parents say it's just our c...

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453- Help My Unbelief from 2021-01-27T00:15

How do I involve God in setting my goals? (13:40-29:54)

I have tried to keep my politics and faith separate, but that seems to be getting harder. What interaction should politics and fait...

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452-Let Your Light Shine from 2021-01-20T00:15

I am struggling with the physical aspect of my marriage. What do I do? (13:44-33:30)

I have been learning about church history and how much conflict and division there has been. What does...

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451- The Fruit Of The Spirit Is Love from 2021-01-13T00:15

What is "spiritual growth" and how do you measure it? (15:50-32:49)

Why is that when you start doing well, some people start acting weird toward you? (32:53-48:05)

I've never read ...

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450- Don't Despise Small Beginnings from 2021-01-06T00:15

I am scared of being alone. What can I do I address that fear? (18:32-33:26)

How do I set goals for a new year when everything is so uncertain? (33:31-49:31)

What does Hebrews 12 m...

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449- Remain In My Love from 2020-12-30T00:15

I was recently told I need to have more joy. That made me think, what is joy- is it different than just being happy? (17:48-33:03)

We talk to author Jack Eason about his book The Loneline...

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448- With An Everlasting Love from 2020-12-23T00:15

Can you help me understand how to better trust God? (16:23-35:09)

I am having a tough time getting in the Christmas spirit in 2020. Any tips? (35:14-48:58)

I know it's the season o...

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447- His Immense Patience from 2020-12-16T00:15

What can I do to deal with unexpected changes in my life better? (15:15-31:27)

A friend of mine gets mad when I and other friends can't give him money or help. Am I being manipulated and ...

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446- Find A Good Fight And Get In It from 2020-12-09T00:15

What is going on in Numbers 5 and what does it mean? (18:56-37:58)

Between the pandemic and winter, my boyfriend and I are running out of date ideas. How can we spend time together withou...

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445- Be On Your Guard from 2020-12-01T00:15

If I decide I need to cut off a toxic family member, how do I go about doing that? (16:11-35:07)

How does God want me to deal with the fear in my life? (35:12-50:02)

Sometimes I ge...

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444- Friend Of Sinners from 2020-11-25T00:15

My friends accused me of something untrue, and are distancing themselves from me. How do I stop blaming myself for this? (15:46-26:16)

A relative of mine recently came out as trans. I wan...

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443- The Inspiration Cube from 2020-11-18T00:15

How do I be thankful when things are so tough? (14:41-32:12)

There are some family friends I really don't want to have to see over the holidays, how do I talk to my parents about that? (3...

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442- And He Will Sustain You from 2020-11-11T00:15

How can someone with an avoidant attachment style trust God more? (14:50-33:11)

What is discipleship and how do you do it? (33:15-55:51)

Does forgiveness have to come with reconcil...

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441- What Do You Want Me To Do For You? from 2020-11-03T14:45:27

How should Christians approach decisions? How do we bring our questions to God? (14:46-33:22)

A Legalism Follow-up- If grace is free, then what is the point of the Law? (33:27-57:50)

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440- New Every Morning from 2020-10-28T00:15

The Bible says I am a new creation, but sometimes I don't feel that way. How do I know something really changed? (17:26-34:01)

How do I explain sin without sounding judgmental and guiltin...

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439- Yet I Am Always With You from 2020-10-21T00:15

How do I deal with discouragement? (17:34-31:51)

I started following the Lord recently, but I am afraid I don't have enough faith for this. (31:55-45:06)

What does it mean to actua...

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438- Great In Compassion from 2020-10-14T00:15

How do I stop feeling like I am disappointing God? (17:31-33:00)

What do I do when the things I want are still a long way off? (33:04-50:54)

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437- With An Everlasting Love from 2020-10-07T00:15

Have you ever felt stuck? I feel like I need a personal revival. (14:42-34:23)

Sometimes after Jesus healed someone, He told them not to tell anyone. Why is that? (34:27-51:51)

Wha...

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436- But Take Heart from 2020-09-30T00:15

I feel that I rushed into my marriage and don't feel chemistry with my spouse, but I don't want to traumatize our kids. What do I do? (15:10-38:48)

1 Kings 15, the Bible indicates that le...

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435- Except What Is Common To Mankind from 2020-09-23T00:15

When I backslide, people say to get up and keep going. How do I actually do that? (14:23-34:33)

How is a Christian supposed to handle temptation? I feel like I have failed before I start....

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434- To The Full from 2020-09-16T00:15

How can I explain why legalism is bad to a new believer? (18:02-36:06)

Why do Christians spend so much time commenting on pop culture? (36:12-54:35)

A Buddhist friend of mine said ...

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433- Let Us Stop Passing Judgment from 2020-09-09T06:48

How do I learn to accept my past? (14:40-29:48)

What makes something obscene or not? (29:52-54:15)

I am over lockdown. How can I stay sane/encouraged at this point? (54:22-1:11:32)...

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432- Grace For Yourself from 2020-09-02T00:15

My parents are getting divorced. How do I process and navigate this? (14:18-31:24)

How do I keep myself from being overwhelmed by emotion? (31:38-51:24)

I am upset about a lot of a...

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431- They Rise Again from 2020-08-26T00:15

Sometimes I get so afraid of failing at something that I don't even want to try. How do I get past that? (18:52-31:40)

I got invited to what I thought was an anti-human trafficking rally,...

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430- Every Perfect Gift from 2020-08-19T00:15

Can cultural or media things be "demonic"? (15:43-33:52)

How do you pray for somebody well? (34:04-45:42)

How can I grieve in a way that will help me gain peace? (45:48-1:05:43) Listen

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429- Wisdom Begins At Humility from 2020-08-12T00:15

Why do we put other people before God? How does God feel about that? (13:22-29:11)

Should someone who is related or close to someone with issues seek therapy for themselves? (29:15-47:05)...

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428- Fear, Risks, and Wisdom from 2020-08-05T00:15

How do I change the way I think? (17:21-35:27)

What do you think about churches reopening services and citing "faith and obedience"? (35:32-57:12)

My school is opening for in perso...

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427- Those Who Humble Themselves from 2020-07-29T00:15

How do I learn to not take things people say (online and IRL) personally? (18:02-33:07)

What can I do to listen to the Lord about making bid decisions? (33:12-49:51)

In John 5:39-4...

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426- Who Correctly Handles The Word Of Truth from 2020-07-22T00:15

How do I stay out of political arguments when my family is caught up in such horrible lies? (15:08-33:14)

 

The Bible has been used to justify so many awful things, how can I see i...

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425- Put This To Work from 2020-07-15T00:15

How do I know if my prayers are the kind God wants to hear? (18:59-35:14)

I see a lot of Christian stuff online about motivation and "hustling." Is that a Christian virtue? (35:19-53:35)<...

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424- Minor Prophets and Major Musicals from 2020-07-08T00:15

I never really hear about certain books of the Bible. Are they worth digging into? (15:50-32:44)

My family are making bad decisions, what can I do or say to them? (32:49-49:14)

I a...

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423- But A Sword from 2020-07-01T00:15

What is a culture war and should I care? (20:59-43:45)

Some Christians seem to always say the "real answer" to problems like poverty and racism is the gospel. Is that true? (43:49-1:02:07...

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422- "He Saw A Man" from 2020-06-24T00:15

How important is it for a person to learn correct terms like "person of color"? (19:33-42:51)

I feel like I am not doing enough. How do I deal with this restlessness? (42:55-1:00:34)

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421- A Hope And A Future from 2020-06-17T00:15

How do I deal with the uncertainty all around me? (14:07-26:45)

I am really feeling lonely. Is it okay to try dating non-Christians? (26:51-44:32)

Jeremiah 29:10-11 feels like a li...

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Episode 420- The Righteous Care About Justice from 2020-06-10T00:15

How can I cope with all the anger I feel about the police treatment of black people? (16:55-35:01)

What is my role as an individual in addressing injustice? (35:10-50:02)

What is a...

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Episode 419 from 2020-06-03T00:15

What can I do to cope with feeling powerless? (19:51-36:49)

How do I make things right with someone I have let down? (36:53-54:23)

Does 1 Thessalonians 4:13 mean there is a wrong w...

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Episode 418- Conspiracy Theories from 2020-05-27T00:15

This week, we are talking about conspiracy theories.

How are Christians supposed to approach and think about them? (18:30-37:00)

What are we supposed to think and feel about friend...

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SayThat BridgeCast Special from 2020-05-20T00:15

This week we have some highlights from our first couple of month of Bridge livecasts!

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Episode 417 from 2020-05-13T00:15

What is success from a Christian perspective? (11:27-29:26)

How is charity to yourself like showing charity to others? (29:30-49:56)

How can I stay humble and connected to God when...

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Episode 416 from 2020-05-06T00:15

How do I deal with change? (14:08-28:48)

I lost my job. How do I approach giving to my church now? (28:52-46:36)

You recently mentioned the Bible referencing people with a "weak co...

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Episode 415 from 2020-04-29T00:15

What does it mean that Jesus "became sin for us"? (17:06-30:40)

We chat with musician Mike Rathke about his new EP "The Dawning Fire". (30:58-41:34)

As a Christian, how do I balanc...

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Episode 414 from 2020-04-22T00:15

What can I do to help people in prison? (15:37-30:35)

Sheltering in place has lead to a lot of temptation around loneliness and lust, what can I do to fight it? (30:40-49:05)

My mo...

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Episode 413 from 2020-04-15T00:15

It feels like a lot of people are using quarantine to read and develop hobbies, etc. Is it wrong that I kind of just want to rest? (16:28-29:50)

I am feeling very unsure about my job situ...

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Episode 412 from 2020-04-08T00:15

I feel like being stuck in the house means I can't use my gifts for the Lord. What can I do? (14:23-29:18)

A friend of mine died. How do I deal with not only my sadness but this feeling I...

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Episode 411 from 2020-04-01T00:15

How do I do moderation? (14:37-25:42)

The future is so uncertain. How can I stay encouraged about it? (25:46-38:36)

Sometimes fear comes on me all of a sudden, what should I do? (3...

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Episode 410 from 2020-03-25T00:15

I have a lot of free time, how do I stop my negative thoughts from running away. (15:48-30:11)

I'm panicking about my job situation and I'm worried I haven't done enough to be generous wi...

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Episode 409 from 2020-03-18T00:15

What can I do to deal with loneliness? (15:44-32:04)

How can I live by Psalm 27 "the Lord is my light and salvation, whom shall I fear?"? (32:08-46:13)

I feel like I can't trust my...

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Episode 408 from 2020-03-11T00:15

I recently got engaged. People's marriage advice has been kind of weird. Can you guys give me something other than "it's hard work and can be difficult"? (14:01-30:28)

Have you ever dealt...

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Episode 407 from 2020-03-04T00:15

I just finished reading 1 John 5:16-17 and I am confused. Can you break down what "fatal sins" are? (14:44-31:41)

My pastors drive luxury cars and that makes me feel weird about them aski...

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Episode 406 from 2020-02-26T00:15

Do I need to worry about demons? (11:27-33:12)

I got passed over for a promotion again. How do I deal with feeling unappreciated at work? (33:16-54:51)

I want to start a new minist...

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Episode 405 from 2020-02-19T00:15

I feel like I am in an environment where it is hard to be Christian. What do I do? (14:42-30:11)

How good can my life really get, given the big mistakes I have made? (30:15-49:12)

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Episode 404 from 2020-02-12T00:15

I feel like I won't have a clue how to be a good parent. What can I do? (19:56-36:40)

There is tension with someone at church. How do I know if it's time to say something? (36:44-52:38) Listen

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Episode 403 from 2020-02-05T00:15

What do you do when progress is happening, but it feels so slow? (17:26-34:35)

How can I learn the right way to pray? (34:39-55:41)

I work for a very big company. I am pretty sure ...

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Episode 402 from 2020-01-29T00:13

What should I do when people are spreading rumors about me at church? (15:03-34:46)

I pray, I worship, and I serve, so why do I still struggle to let some things go? (34:50-54:48)

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Episode 401 from 2020-01-22T00:15

There is a Christian guy at my school who is very judgemental. How should I deal with it? (14:16-30:45)

The Bible says who should always be content, but what about things like injustice o...

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Episode 400 from 2020-01-15T00:15

With stuff like natural disasters and war in the news, how do I combat end of the world anxiety? (14:50-32:40)

I know in my brain that God loves me. How do I feel that more? (32:44-51:59)...

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Episode 399 (with Isaac and Megan Wardell of The Porter's Gate) from 2020-01-08T00:15

How do you set spiritual goals? (14:13-27:26)

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Episode 398 from 2020-01-01T00:15

How do you deal with success in a healthy way? (16:36-28:58)

What does it mean to be agnostic? Is it bad? (29:02-46:30)

How can you actually be an honest person when the whole worl...

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Episode 397 from 2019-12-25T00:15

How do I stay motivated when I have just come through a dark period? (13:22-30:39)

What does "spiritual warfare" actually mean and how do you do it? (30:44-54:48)

What was your min...

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Episode 396 from 2019-12-18T00:15

What am I supposed to think and feel when someone close to me is making bad decisions? (15:49-35:43)

I feel like I'm frustrated all the time and choking on negativity. Can I get away from...

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Episode 393 from 2019-11-20T02:14:09

How can I stop being self-destructive? (19:41-34:05)

I want to do God's will and not my own, but how do I know the difference? (34:09-47:56)

How do I stay focused and keep the fait...

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Episode 392 from 2019-11-13T00:15

This week, we are looking at one question, and talking about the power of listening and admitting you don't know what something is like.

I have an acquaintance who is in prison and asked ...

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Episode 391 from 2019-11-06T00:15

What do you do when everything seems to keep getting worse? (15:52-31:43)

I didn't grow up in church. How do I stop being intimidated by the Bible? (31:48-51:23)

How can I deal wit...

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Episode 390 from 2019-10-30T01:15

I am in the middle of a career transition. How do I take care of myself emotionally? (15:27-36:40)

I'm interested in a guy, but they are super busy. How do we spend time together? (36:45-...

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Episode 389 from 2019-10-16T01:15

Where is the balance between "it's okay to not be okay" and wanting to make changes? (14:53-32:06)

Why can I stand up to temptations some days but not others? (32:10-52:24)

How do ...

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Episode 388 from 2019-10-09T01:15

Someone in my church is going through a very hard time. How can I support them? (14:23-31:41)

I have anxieties that God will make bad things happen to increase my faith. What can I do? (3...

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Episode 387 from 2019-10-02T01:15

How can I be a good encourager? (14:18-33:05)

What does the Bible mean when it says to live a quiet life? (33:09-50:19)

I feel like I am angry and frustrated all the time. What sho...

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Episode 386 from 2019-09-25T01:15

Is there a correct Christian take on climate change? (14:32-33:21)

I need forgiveness for my past, and I need to make healthier choices. Where do I start? (33:25-48:37)

My family a...

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Episode 385 from 2019-09-18T02:03:25

This week, we are looking in-depth at one question. A listener wrote in wondering what to do with the feelings they are having about all the awful stories coming out of Christian culture and Chr...

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Episode 384 from 2019-09-11T01:15

My friend struggles with addiction. What are some Bible verses I can share to encourage them? (14:06-27:11)

I have a rough past. I can't seem to accept it or ignore it. What should I do? ...

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Episode 383 from 2019-09-04T01:15

How should I use the Bible? (15:43-34:36)

What does "sacrificial love" actually mean? (34:44-50:57)

My church talks about missionaries a lot, which makes me feel like I am a second...

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Episode 382 from 2019-08-28T01:15

Follow up to the purity culture question from last week, I have been looking at porn. I keep repented, but I feel like it's not working. (15:48-33:46)

I am trying to live this new life bu...

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Episode 381 from 2019-08-21T01:15

I bought into the I Kissed Dating Goodbye stuff when I was younger, now I feel dumb for falling for it. What do I do? (17:24-34:02)

How do I stop lying? (34:07-49:24)

I started goi...

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Episode 380 from 2019-08-14T01:15

Sometimes I get angry and feel like I can't let it go. What should I do? (13:52-31:23)

I feel like everything is trying to take me off track. If God wanted me to live a good life, why did...

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Episode 379 from 2019-08-07T01:15

I listen to people debate things in church, and both sides use the Bible. How do I know what to think? (15:36-31:37)

How do I figure out what God thinks about big decisions in my life? (3...

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Episode 378 from 2019-07-31T01:15

Why do we always put other people before God? (16:56-36:31)

I have friends I really want to share in this new life with me. What do I do? (36:34-53:08)

Jesus says his burden is lig...

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Episode 377 from 2019-07-24T02:19:05

Is it ungodly to not want to interact with certain family members? (17:19-37:34)

How do I go to God for heal when my trauma was based in religious stuff? (37:39-59:04)

What should ...

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Episode 376 from 2019-07-17T01:15

I am horrified by the camps at the border. But what I can do beyond "thoughts and prayers"? (17:15-38:47)

Psalm 37:4 says to "Delight yourself in the Lord". How does one do that? (38:52-5...

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Episode 375 from 2019-07-10T01:15

How do I move past problems and debts from my past? (19:19-31:56)

I am beginning my first leadership position but I feel insecure as a leader. What should I do? (32:00-46:31)

How d...

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Episode 374 from 2019-07-03T01:15

Have you ever had a period where you felt like you weren't making an impact? How did you deal with it? (18:12-34:25)

My friend wants my help, but I don't know what to tell them. What do I...

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Episode 373 from 2019-06-26T01:15

How do I stop feeling like I don't deserve God's love? (16:07-34:17)

I feel like everything I do to try to make my life better ends up making it worse. Where's the hope? (34:21-54:48)

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Episode 372 from 2019-06-19T01:15

I'm afraid another social media app would be a time drain. Should I just destroy my phone? (14:32-34:52)

How do I finally move on from things? (34:56-52:38)

What are good strategie...

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Episode 371 from 2019-06-12T02:15:27

I'm stuck in a job I hate. What do I do? (15:25-34:26)

How do I help my child who is struggling? (34:31-52:42)

Jed and Lee talk about their goals and strategies for leading worship...

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Special- The Bridge Radio from 2019-06-05T01:15

This week we bring you an exclusive peek at our new radio project focusing on ministering to people in prison.

Songs featured:

Love Lifted Me

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Episode 370 from 2019-05-29T01:15

How do I know who I can trust? (13:13-28:00)

I set a boundary with my parents and they reacted very badly. What do I do now? (28:04-50:20)

I feel like I need to change so many thin...

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Episode 369 from 2019-05-22T01:15

Can you guys expand on the idea of finding a throughline in someone's problems? (16:18-32:32)

What do you do when everyone is yelling about politics and you feel like a mouse between the ...

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Episode 368 from 2019-05-15T04:48:36

How do you deal with going to church making you feel bad about yourself? (16:15-33:07)

What should Christians think and do when it comes to politically loaded symbols? (33:11-56:24)

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Episode 367 from 2019-05-08T02:00

How can I help and encourage someone who is struggling with depression? (16:16-32:10)

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Episode 366 from 2019-05-01T01:30

How do I build healthier relationships? (18:39-35:48)

Why did Jesus say "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."? (36:00-53:06)

Have there been any funny/i...

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Episode 365 from 2019-04-24T01:30

How do you guys approach ministering to people of different cultural and ethnic backgrounds? (15:17-38:37)

I'm pretty sure my friend is caught up in a pyramid scheme. What should I do? (3...

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Episode 364 from 2019-04-17T01:30

I recently graduated from college, I have no idea what path I want to take. What do I do? (16:55-32:53)

How can I learn to be more patient? (32:56-48:34)

I know God forgives me, bu...

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Episode 363 from 2019-04-10T01:30

What are some basics I can stick to when I get theology fatigue? (16:19-38:04)

I'm trying to live God's way, but it seems like there are always people and things I have to obey. Am I alon...

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Episode 362 from 2019-04-03T01:45

What do I do when I feel like I'm doing fine one minute, then struggling the next? (17:52-33:38)

How do I deal with indecisiveness? (33:43-52:42)

I try to help people, but how do I...

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Episode 361 from 2019-03-27T08:00

I feel bad about not reading my Bible or praying regularly. What do I do? (14:52-31:32)

Is there a difference between the Biblical commands to love your spouse and love your neighbor? (31...

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Episode 360 from 2019-03-20T08:00

What are godly virtues? (18:17-31:05)

What effect do virtues have on your walk and life? (31:07-42:57)

How do you grow in virtues? (43:01-58:45)

Closing Song: Be Thou My Vis...

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Episode 359 from 2019-03-13T08:00

How do you take up your cross? (14:18-30:47)

During arguments, I say the kind of hurtful things my parents said to each other. How do I stop it? (30:54-51:05)

What does it mean for...

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Episode 358 from 2019-03-06T07:00

I'm a youth leader. How do I know when confronting a young person is necessary versus when it might make them feel judged and ashamed? (14:19-40:08)

People have betrayed my trust in the p...

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Episode 357 from 2019-02-27T07:00

How do I become an overcomer? (17:00-38:15)

What are some practical things I can do to work on having healthy self-esteem? (38:21-57:03)

Where am I supposed to even start toward mo...

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Episode 356 from 2019-02-20T07:00

What does seeking God's leading on a daily basis really look like? (15:55-31:38)

How do I maintain focus on my calling? (31:42-50:19)

My boyfriend and I talked about porn, but how ...

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Episode 355 from 2019-02-13T07:00

How are dating Christians supposed to navigate things like sending each other pictures and traveling together? (15:08-32:31)

I feel like I have lost all hope and peace. Where do I go from...

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Episode 354 from 2019-02-06T07:00

Where do I start in having a healthy attitude about my looks and body? (14:05-29:22)

Someone stole from me, am I being unchristian about how I am responding? (29:25-44:41)

A friend...

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Best of Listening To The Lord from 2019-01-30T07:00

How do hear from God? from Episode 206 (17:44-30:42)

What do people actually mean when they say God was "leading" or "calling" them to something? from Episode 213 (3...

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Episode 353 from 2019-01-23T07:00

A follow-up question about God's love. (18:58-33:42)

My church had a service that seemed to be all about how amazing the speaker was. Am I right to be weirded out by that? (33:47-49:15) Listen

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Episode3 352 from 2019-01-16T07:00

I feel like I've lost my faith. What do I do? (19:07-35:21)

I am not always excited to read the Bible. Is there something wrong? (35:24-52:43)

How do I stop breaking promises I mak...

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Episode 351 (with Andy Gullahorn) from 2019-01-09T07:00

In a Bridge Podcast episode, Glen talked about answering the question "why does God love me?". I am coming up empty on that. Can you help me out? (14:17-35:02)

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Episode 350 from 2019-01-02T07:00

I had a bad experience with my old church. How do I keep from that hurting all my future church experiences? (13:40-29:14)

I know I have all I need in God, so why do I feel like I'm missi...

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Episode 349 from 2018-12-26T07:00

What is church partnership/membership about? (15:57-35:56)

I am new to Christianity, and I sometimes doubt if I can pull it off. What do I do? (36:00-51:56)

My pastor talked about ...

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Episode 348 from 2018-12-19T07:00

I am really mad at someone for something they did to a friend of mine. There's nothing I can really do, so how do I work through the feelings of anger? (14:34-27:24)

How do I deal with fa...

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Episode 347 from 2018-12-12T07:00

You guys talk about Christianity as something you do as opposed to something you learn. Can you break that down? (18:03-37:15)

What's the deal with rebuking? (37:20-56:51)

Is impat...

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The 2018 SayThat Holiday Spectacular! from 2018-12-05T07:00

We see if we can extend the gripesgiving spirit to the Christmas season. Then:

A piece from our friend Ryan Wendt about his experience in starting to do prison ministry. (17:52-23:53)

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Episode 346 from 2018-11-28T07:00

What makes a church culture toxic? (17:20-39:26)

How can I get better at being thankful? (39:30-53:49)

What does Jesus mean when he talks about asking, seeking, and knocking in Mat...

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Episode 345 from 2018-11-21T07:00

How do I know I am the kind of person who can make big changes in my life? (14:58-30:52)

Some people in my family see Christianity very differently than I do. How do I survive Thanksgivin...

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Episode 344 from 2018-11-14T07:00

When I see people around me struggling, it makes me feel shaky about my progress. What do I do? (14:58-28:08)

Matt chats with awesome Toronto superfan Sarah about her work ministering to ...

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Episode 343 from 2018-11-07T07:00

I heard a sermon about how anger is like murder and we have to deal with it before going to the altar. Can you break that down for me? (14:51-30:50)

We talk to four amazing Toronto superf...

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Episode 342 (with Jason Roy of Building 429) from 2018-10-31T08:00

How do I live a balanced life? (15:31-29:23)

We chat with Jason Roy of Building 429 about vulnerability, growth, and their new record Live the Journey (29:42-39:38)

What does Roman...

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Episode 341 from 2018-10-24T08:00

How can you put your foot down but still show people love? (13:31-26:51)

What makes a church a church? (26:55-42:42)

How can reach out to someone who is kind of exhausting to hang ...

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Episode 340 from 2018-10-17T08:00

What does following the Lord look like in the day to day? (12:47-28:24)

Thanks to Jesus, I have made real changes in my life. How do I convince those around me He can do it for them too? ...

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Episode 339 from 2018-10-10T08:00

Someone in my small group has a bad ministry idea, but I don't want to shut down their enthusiasm. What do I do? (14:48-29:03)

I was a professional in the arts for years and miserable. No...

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Episode 338 from 2018-10-03T08:00

How do I get better at trying new things? (16:05-34:06)

We talk to Chris Ramsey, author of "Discovering Jesus in the Least". (34:41-47:11)

I sometimes still have a hard time having...

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Episode 337 from 2018-09-26T08:00

I know I shouldn't judge, but it is a really natural impulse. What do I do about that? (15:21-29:21)

How can I deal with legalistic people, especially online? (29:25-48:17)

What sc...

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Episode 336 from 2018-09-19T08:00

What does "You aren't your sin" mean practically for believers? (16:25-34:43)

How do you get over perfectionism? (34:47-52:49)

Can you recommend some ways to get into the happen of...

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Episode 335 from 2018-09-12T08:00

What does Ephesians 5:21 mean by "submit to one another"? (15:09-32:10)

How do I break out of a rut in my prayer life? (32:12-51:18)

I feel like no one notices when I do the right ...

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Episode 334 from 2018-09-05T07:00

What makes something gossip? (17:41-34:41)

How do I love someone when I can't respect them? (35:08-52:07)

Someone did me wrong. Should I be fighting for justice or turning the othe...

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Episode 333 from 2018-08-29T08:00

I'm married, and I still struggle with porn. How do I actually kick the habit? (16:52-41:55)

I had a conversation about boundaries with my parents. Where do we go from here? (41:58-58:33)...

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Episode 332 (with Nissi from My Strength and My Shield) from 2018-08-22T07:00

I know we aren't supposed to envy, but what does that really mean? (14:48-29:26)

We talk to Miss Nissi of the awesome My Strength and My Shield podcast! (30:53-46:19)

I hear there ...

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Episode 331 from 2018-08-15T08:00

How do I have hope when things around me seem so bad? (15:14-31:18)

I know I need people in my life, so I how to go about getting that Christian community? (31:22-47:08)

How do I d...

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Episode 330 from 2018-08-08T08:00

How can I get better at memorizing scripture? (15:52-30:05)

I am a little weirded out by public prayer in small groups. Is it okay to feel that way? (30:09-44:55)

What is the abomi...

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Episode 329 from 2018-08-01T01:36:30

What is Jesus saying in Matthew 8:21-22 and what does it mean for me? (14:29-33:12)

How do I avoid being vain in a world obsessed with vanity? (33:17-50:02)

I am being active in my...

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Episode 328 from 2018-07-25T08:00

How do I keep healthy boundaries at church? (14:01-31:48)

I heard someone say we don't have to follow the Ten Commandments anymore because of Jesus. Is that true? (31:53-44:32)

I t...

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Episode 327 from 2018-07-18T08:00

Is it ever right to stop witnessing to someone? (16:05-33:26)

What is the right Christian approach to work/life balance? (33:30-51:49)

How do I know whether to ask someone what our...

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Episode 326 from 2018-07-11T08:00

What do you do when you feel like you don't have a purpose? (18:06-38:04)

Are some Bible translations more accurate than others? What is the difference? (38:09-55:35)

How do we dra...

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Episode 325 from 2018-07-04T08:00

How do I find good fellowship and community when I move to a new place? (15:51-34:26)

What is the right response when people say inflammatory things about Christianity on social media? (3...

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Episode 324 from 2018-06-27T08:00

I've heard you guys talk about showing respect. What do you mean by that? (16:05-36:57)

There's sin in my life that I feel bad about, and I'm afraid talking about it would just make me fe...

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Episode 323 from 2018-06-20T08:00

How do I deal with a bout of small group drama? (15:06-33:25)

Is there a right way to grieve? (33:30-50:24)

What does Romans 13 mean for us today? (50:28-1:15:44)

Closing So...

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Episode 322 from 2018-06-13T08:00

Recently, I heard a pastor talking about spiritual gifts, does every believer have those? (17:03-28:44)

What is worship? (28:48-46:09)

How are we supposed to deal with drama and ne...

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Episode 321 from 2018-06-06T08:00

What's your take on prosperity preachers and their private planes? (14:11-37:54)

Is heaven going to be fun? (38:03-51:58)

I trained all my life for one career, but I feel like I am...

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Episode 320 from 2018-05-30T08:00

They say God speaks in a "still, small voice." How do I hear it more? (16:18-37:43)

How do I stop the awful stuff I see Christians saying and doing on the news from affecting how I feel a...

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Episode 319 from 2018-05-23T08:00

What does Philippians 2:13 mean? (18:43-33:19)

How should Christians go about being friends with people who don't share their beliefs? (33:25-46:09)

I am thinking of starting trans...

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Return To The Bible Nerdatorium from 2018-05-16T08:00

We revisit some of our favorite visits to Unka Glen's Bible Nerdatorium.

Matthew 7:21-23 from Episode 155 (17:13-34:48)

1 Timothy 5:3-4 from Episode 167 (33:57-52:07)

Romans...

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Episode 318 from 2018-05-09T08:00

How do you stay positive in a negative environment? (17:36-29:46)

What is the book of Jonah all about? (29:50-42:11)

People say God won't have anything to do with sin. What does th...

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Episode 317 from 2018-05-02T01:30

How do you maintain friendships once you have all moved away from each other? (17:49-32:26)

I have been struggling to focus during my time with God. How do I get back on track? (32:29-46:...

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Episode 316 from 2018-04-25T08:00

I sometimes doubt God hears prayers. So how do I keep praying? (16:00-35:20)

When I lost my job, folks at church kept telling me things will definitely get better. Is that true? (35:25-52...

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Episode 315 from 2018-04-18T08:00

My pastor gave a sermon about money that really did not sit well with me, what do I do? (15:31-34:00)

What does 1 Corinthians 3:15 actually mean for me? (34:03-53:36)

How do I know...

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Episode 314 from 2018-04-11T08:00

My grown boyfriend still lives at home, is that a problem? (17:03-34:06)

How do you forgive someone who refuses to admit they did anything wrong? (34:13-57:00)

I told someone they ...

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Episode 313 (with Daniel Biro of Hawk Nelson) from 2018-04-04T08:00

Luke 10:27 says to love your neighbor as yourself. How do I do that when I don't like myself? (14:09-27:41)

Daniel Biro joins us to talk his long career, filming a video in Iceland, and <...

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Episode 312 from 2018-03-28T08:00

How can people make sure their ministry is based in the Spirit and not themselves? (18:04-32:44)

If you're not in full-time vocational ministry, how can you still have a big impact servin...

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Episode 311 from 2018-03-21T08:00

Any advice for first-time parents? (13:33-25:03)

What can we as Christians do to fight feeling cynical? (25:08-45:10)

How do I know when I am over a relationship enough to move on?...

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Episode 310 from 2018-03-14T08:00

How do we know if we truly have the Holy Spirit? (16:20-30:53)

A friend of mine lives with her boyfriend, and they recently started coming to church. Someone said I should bring their sin...

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Episode 309 from 2018-03-07T07:00

My pastor said I was too into science. Do they have a point? (16:05-30:11)

What are some things you wish you knew when you started in ministry? (30:16-48:17)

I have recently come i...

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Best of The Bible Nerdatorium from 2018-02-28T07:00

This week, we look back at some biblical questions from previous episodes. We get into not only these specific passages but how we approach understanding and applying the Bible.

James 1:5...

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Episode 308 from 2018-02-21T07:00

I confessed a big struggle to a friend. What do I do now? (18:18-34:44)

How do I know when my pastor's sermon crosses a line into manipulation? (34:48-54:19)

What's the balance bet...

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Episode 307 from 2018-02-14T07:00

What does spiritual warfare actually look like in our lives? (15:48-31:10)

I told my pastor I didn't feel like the church was feeding me, and he said it was because I needed to be more co...

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Episode 306 from 2018-02-07T08:00

How do I battle my anxiety? (17:33-32:17)

What is a healthy way to air your grievances? (32:36-48:27)

A family member is driving us all nuts with drama. What can I do about it? (48...

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Episode 305 from 2018-01-31T07:00

What does God think of people being in the military and in combat? (17:07-29:46)

How can someone who is caught up in themselves develop more empathy? (29:52-46:02)

I keep hearing t...

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Episode 304 from 2018-01-24T07:00

How do you know if you're saved? (18:45-35:31)

How can I start sharing my faith with people at work? (35:35-50:16)

A Christian organization I am involved with is going through a sc...

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Episode 303 from 2018-01-17T07:00

How can you recognize when someone is playing with emotions? (18:59-33:23)

What does it practically mean to honor your parents? (33:27-52:20)

I had a bad 2017, and I'm having a har...

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Episode 302 from 2018-01-10T07:00

Hebrews 6:4-6 has me freaked out. Can you explain it? (12:34-30:57)

I am gay. Where do I stand with God? (31:02-55:10)

How do I stay sober? (55:14-1:17:54)

Closing Song: God...

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Episode 301 from 2018-01-03T07:00

What does it actually mean to receive a blessing? (15:46-33:51)

How do I approach the Book of Revelation? (34:08-52:03)

I got a lot of bad messages from Christian celebrities when ...

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Episode 300 from 2017-12-27T07:00

How do you get over feeling "forever alone?" (18:19-36:02)

What actually is a godly work ethic? (36:-8-53:55)

How do you go about creating an "inner circle" of people in your life?...

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Episode 299 from 2017-12-20T07:00

Can you explain what 2 Corinthians 10:5 means by "taking every thought captive"? (15:13-30:07)

There is a lot of tension in my family. What do I do about it? (30:12-48:02)

How do I...

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Episode 298 from 2017-12-13T07:00

Can you explain Matthew 5:19-20? (19:19-38:06)

How do you show grace and love to people whose personalities clash with yours? (38:11-55:55)

My significant other break up with me wh...

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Episode 297 from 2017-12-06T07:03

I was sure I heard God leading me in a certain direction, then it didn't come together. What happened? (16:20-33:28)

Do I need to be passionate about my job? (34:06-51:12)

How big ...

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Episode 296 from 2017-11-29T07:00

How do I recognize when people around me are toxic? (16:43-34:36)

Where do I draw the line on media that isn't sinful, but has elements that make me uncomfortable? (35:02-54:22)

Is...

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Episode 295 (The Bridge Worship Special) from 2017-11-22T07:30

To celebrate the release of The Bridge Worship album, Glen, Jed, and Matt sit down to talk about stories behind the songs and worship at our Bridge service.

Songs Featured: So Here I Am, ...

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Episode 294 from 2017-11-15T07:00

I know I am supposed to give my will over to God. How do I actually do that? (17:30-37:12)

How do you know when it is time to move on to another church? (37:54-59:41)

What's the de...

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Episode 293 from 2017-11-08T07:00

How do I comfort people when there have been a lot of suicides in my community? (16:13-33:20)

How can I equip the people I minister to to minister to their friends? (33:26-52:22)

I...

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Episode 292 (with Cody Carnes) from 2017-11-01T08:00

What does being "easy to bless" mean? (15:05-27:26)

We talk to Cody Carnes about his...

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Episode 291 from 2017-10-25T08:00

I see people who have hurt me seemingly doing great. How do I think about that? (14:09-28:44)

How should Christians approach big issues where there is no "Christian viewpoint"? (28:53-54:...

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Episode 290 (with Derek Minor) from 2017-10-18T08:00

Why do I find it difficult to rejoice with others when something good happens for them?(12:14-31:29)

We talk with hip hop artist Derek Minor about his new ...

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Episode 289 from 2017-10-11T07:30

How do I stop being down on myself? (14:21-28:31)

I want to trust in God, but I feel like I can't. What do I do? (28:34-46:02)

What does it mean to be "biblically literate"? (46:07...

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Episode 288 from 2017-10-04T08:00

How do you kick a compulsive behavior? (15:28-37:09)

I know my trauma wasn't my fault, but I am having a hard time moving on. What do I do next? (37:57-1:02:36)

What does it mean t...

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Episode 287 from 2017-09-27T08:00

I started dating a great Christian guy. I am worried that this new exciting feeling is a distraction. (11:36-24:47)

What do you do when you feel like you have no direction? (24:50-43:59)<...

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Episode 286 from 2017-09-20T06:18

Is it important for Christians to make time for fun stuff? (17:44-31:03)

How do I know if a relationship after a breakup is a rebound? (31:08-48:53)

What are some of the enemy's fa...

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Episode 285 from 2017-09-13T06:00

How does the Bible actually work in a Christian's walk? (10:57-26:45)

Song: Bigger Than My Fears

How do I deal with other Christians on social media driving me nuts? (29:50-43:47)<...

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Episode 284 from 2017-09-06T06:00

What does a person being an "evangelical" actually mean? (13:59-31:26)

How do I reach out to minister to people from a different culture than me? (31:29-46:06)

I'm afraid God won't...

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Episode 283 from 2017-08-30T05:05

If a thought is just as sinful as an action, why not just do the thing? (17:04-35:02)

How do I address bullying that's going on in my youth group? (35:07-49:01)

Is it wrong to be a...

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Episode 282 from 2017-08-23T05:01

How do I know when something bad happening is the enemy messing with me? (17:28-36:32)

I am in a rut of feeling guilty and can't focus on today. How do I break out? (36:37-53:17)

M...

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Episode 281 from 2017-08-16T06:22:20

I have a full life, but I feel like I should be doing more. How do I deal with this competitive feeling? (17:50-34:02)

Is it a bad thing for a Christian to be a "bleeding heart"? (34:04-5...

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Episode 280 from 2017-08-09T01:15

How much of their life should a Christian devote to career success? (15:02-31:38)

My boyfriend wants to live together before we get married. I think it's a bad idea. What do I say? (31:43...

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Episode 279 from 2017-08-02T02:15:19

Do you think a person who is truly saved can wander so far that they alter God's plan for their life? (14:56-25:44)

How do my wife and I approach a conversation about how we will handle h...

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Episode 278 from 2017-07-26T02:25:49

I am discouraged about leading my small group. How do I turn it around? (19:50-34:35)

Former Anberlin front man Stephen Christian joins us to talk about his new worship record,

How do I respect imperfect authorities? (45:05-59:52)

The person I was dating broke up with me because they "didn't feel ...

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Episode 273 from 2017-06-21T02:15:34

I really want to go after life with Jesus. How do I stop getting distracted? (16:24-35:44)

Why do I find the idea of God's discipline uncomfortable to think and talk about? (35:49-49:54)<...

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Episode 272 from 2017-06-14T02:38:44

As an adult, how do you improve your relationship with a parent? (15:51-35:18)

How do I know if a person I'm involved with is really walking with the Lord? (35:22-51:00)

How do I r...

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Episode 271 from 2017-06-07T02:31:19

How do I find comfort from God when terrible things are happening in the world? (18:20-32:30)

What role does learning theology play in living out Christianity? (37:40-54:54)

What l...

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Episode 270 from 2017-05-31T02:55:20

I lost a dear friend. How do I talk to God when I am angry at Him about this? (14:49-30:33)

How do you guys approach answering people's questions the way you do? (31:17-45:22)

What...

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Episode 269 from 2017-05-24T02:10:55

I think my partner is cheating on me. What do I do? (14:16-30:54)

How do I deal with tension with my boss? (30:59-46:38)

It feels like I'm angry all the time. What do I do with thi...

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Episode 268 from 2017-05-17T03:25:38

What is temptation, really? (17:21-35:31)

What are smart strategies for resisting and avoiding temptation?  (35:31-53:14)

How do you get back on track when you have given in to tem...

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Episode 267 from 2017-05-10T02:11:59

I visited my family for Easter and was uncomfortable with the way their church did things. How do I deal with this? (17:16-33:56)

What is the balance between being content and being motiv...

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Episode 266 from 2017-05-03T02:16:47

How do you not spiral into discouragement when others around are doing better than you? (19:00-36:11)

Why did Jesus say "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" (36:14-51:52)

Ho...

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Episode 265 (with Anne Lamott) from 2017-04-26T01:15

How do you get out of a cycle of feeling spiritually dry? (17:30-30:55)

We talk to author Anne Lamott about mercy, recovery, and her new book  Listen

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Episode 250 from 2017-01-11T00:30

If God can be pleased with us, does that mean He can be dissapointed in us? (17:25-31:49)

How do you balance being in the family of God with someone, with working with them? (31:55-53:22)...

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Episode 249- Making Changes from 2017-01-04T02:19:47

As it is the new year, the guys take a look at how to make changes. They walk through 5 suggestions from the American Psychological Associ...

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Episode 248 from 2016-12-28T03:29:55

I really hit it off with a guy, but he suffers from mental illness. How do I go about approaching the potential relationship? (16:11-34:33)

It's hard for me to say "no" to people, but I a...

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Episode 247 from 2016-12-21T00:30

What do you say to someone who has complaints about the way your church celebrates Christmas? (18:21-39:19)

Jesus says He gives peace, but also that He came not to bring peace, but a swor...

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Episode 246 from 2016-12-14T02:25:49

Are Christians called to excel and succeed? (16:40-37:20)

Is it a sin to masturbate while fantasizing about my partner? (37:28-58:43)

What is the relationship between the gospel an...

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Episode 245 from 2016-12-07T05:13:34

What are some tips for sharing the gospel with people outside the faith? (15:09-33:57)

How does a more introverted person do evangelism? (34:05-55:42)

I set a boundary with relativ...

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Episode 244 from 2016-11-30T02:31:22

What's the point of fasting in regards to prayer? (17:43-32:22)

My pastor talks about political things that make me really uncomfortable. What do I do? (37:06-51:44)

How do I get o...

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Episode 243 (with Chris Quilala) from 2016-11-23T00:30

The Bible says God and I are like a parent and a child. What does that really mean? (16:25-28:21)

Musician and worship leader Chris Quilala joins us to talk about his work with Jesus Cult...

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Episode 242 from 2016-11-16T00:30

How do I deal with grief in a healthy way? (15:38-31:11)

If salvation is a free gift, what does the Bible mean when it says God forgives our sins the way we forgive other people? (31:16-5...

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Episode 241 from 2016-11-09T01:00

What is the difference between "locker room talk" and just being rude? (16:18-34:38) How can Jesus empathize with our weakness if He is perfect? (34:42-51:04) My youth pastor calls people out and i...

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Episode 240 from 2016-11-02T03:38:40

How do you move on from your first love? (16:19-26:33) What does the Bible mean when it talks about being "the bride of Christ"? (26:30-41:51) I just found out someone close to me was sexually assa...

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Episode 239 from 2016-10-26T02:24:24

Why is there such a taboo about sex that there isn't around other physiological functions? (17:40-32:36) Can it be a problem for people to be open about their sin in a way that is almost boastful? ...

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Episode 238 from 2016-10-19T02:56:09

I feel like I messed up a witnessing opportunity with a family member. What do I do from here? (15:56-28:13) My community group is going through some material I find problematic. How do I bring tha...

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Episode 237 from 2016-10-12T02:00:12

What are some tips for sharing my testimony with people from a very different background (ie, prisoners)? (16:50-31:38) Is it selfish to pray to be a better person? (31:44-46:09) How do my partner ...

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Episode 236 from 2016-10-05T01:30

How do I react to friends who are reading Christian books that I know are bad theology? (15:04-33:28) I have a family member who goes on about how immigrants and refugees are dangerous. Are they ri...

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Episode 235 from 2016-09-28T02:00

I can either go to a church with really good preaching, but no one who is my age; or lots of people my age, but teaching I don't like as much. What should I do? (18:06-34:50) What is the right way ...

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Episode 234 from 2016-09-21T03:19:36

How do you know when you're ready to get married? (16:42-29:15) Why do I feel so bad when I compare my life to my friends? (29:19-42:58) How do you love someone who doesn't treat you with love? (43...

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Episode 233 (with Zach Bolen) from 2016-09-14T02:09:09

I drew a boundary with a family member and they reacted badly, did I still do the right thing? (17:51-35:17) Interview with Zach Bolen, of Citizens and Saints, about their new record "A Mirror Diml...

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Episode 232 from 2016-09-07T02:03:10

I know that God is bigger than my problems, but how do I stop myself from still getting swept up in cares of this world? (13:07-28:17) My pastor preached about "claiming victory." What does that ac...

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Episode 231 from 2016-08-31T02:54:57

Can you help me understand 1 Corinthians 5? (14:32-35:07) I've been through some hard stuff, and I'm still kind of bitter at God about it. What do I do with that? (35:11-54:14) How do I deal with f...

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Episode 230 (with Chad Mattson of Unspoken) from 2016-08-24T04:57:02

Does being an introvert make me a bad Christian? (17:05-32:18) We talk with Chad Mattson, lead singer of Unspoken, about his story, making music that matters, and the new record: Follow Through. (3...

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Episode 229 from 2016-08-17T02:56:58

How do I help someone who seems stuck and unmotivated? (16:29-31:25) How do I encourage someone in doing something that is difficult, but right? (31:45-48:27) My church taught some very messed up t...

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Episode 228 from 2016-08-10T02:00

What are the characteristics and qualities of a mature man or woman of God? (20:19-38:37) I'm starting to pursue my dream career, but I'm really scared. How do I push through the fear? (38:45-53:35...

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Episode 227 from 2016-08-03T02:16:48

Can men and women be platonic friends when they are in relationships? (13:39-28:30) How important is it for someone to be ready to provide financially before considering marriage? (28:35-45:26) How...

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Episode 226 from 2016-07-26T19:04:45

I lashed out at my family. How do I forgive myself and make sure it doesn't happen again? (17:22-31:16) How important is attraction to a relationship? (31:24-54:56) Is verbal abuse a justifiable re...

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Episode 225 from 2016-07-20T02:39:24

What does Genesis 3:16 ("he will rule over you") mean us today? (15:44-29:04) Any advice for meeting my significant other's parents? (29:10-44:21) How do I know if I am being led by God? (44:25-1:0...

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Episode 224 (with Katelyn Beaty) from 2016-07-13T03:21:28

I have started setting boundaries with my family, and they have reacted badly. How do I keep on the right track? (15:21-32:33) Katelyn Beaty, managing editor of Christianity Today and cofounder of ...

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Episode 223 from 2016-07-06T03:47:35

What is a church actually supposed to do? (18:00-32:46) The author of a popular christian dating book basically admitted he was wrong, and some of my friends who read it are freaking out. What do I...

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Episode 222 (with Leah Libresco) from 2016-06-29T03:00:30

-How do I balance helping people in tough circumstances and maintaining my own emotional health? (15:18-36:15) -FiveThirtyEight writer and author of "Arriving At Amen" Leah Libresco joins us to tal...

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Episode 221 from 2016-06-22T02:08:34

What does the Bible mean when it refers to the "heart"? (15:42-30:59) How do I trust God when I feel lost in my life? (31:03-49:24) It's been almost 2 years since a break up, and I still think abou...

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Episode 220 (with Jason Gray) from 2016-06-15T03:49:19

How do I discover what I have a passion for? (15:07-28:52) Singer/Songwriter Jason Gray joins Matt to talk about honesty, wounds, great writers, and his new record "Where The Light Gets In" (29:50-...

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Episode 219 from 2016-06-08T02:23:49

How do I set boundaries with a relative who is going through a hard time, but is also driving me crazy? (16:02-34:53) Does being pessimistic sometimes make me a bad witness? (34:58-48:49) A meditat...

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Episode 218 from 2016-06-01T02:00

How do I deal with my friends starting to buy into the prosperity gospel? (16:24-34:40) What are people talking about when they say "vision" as in "vision teams" and "cast a vision"? (34:46-55:30) ...

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Episode 217 (with Jake Luhrs of August Burns Red) from 2016-05-25T02:55:22

How do we start a long distance relationship? (14:36-31:00) Jake Luhrs, lead singer of August Burns Red, joins Matt to talk music, reaching out to the homeless and the healing power of an online c...

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Episode 216 from 2016-05-18T02:33:23

What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? (13:57-37:08) So, I took your advice and asked someone out. What's the next step if I want to hang out more? (37:13-45:31) What do Galatians 5:...

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Episode 215 from 2016-05-11T05:03:38

How do you follow God when you aren't feeling it? (17:53-35:04) How do you keep Jesus's command to not worry when you are under professional pressure? (35:08-50:31) What is forgiveness? (50:40-1:11...

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Episode 214 from 2016-05-04T01:30

What should someone look at if they are considering a career in ministry? (18:06-38:52) How do you react when a friend is posting worrisome things on social media? (38:57-55:43) If I ask this guy o...

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Episode 213 from 2016-04-27T01:47:20

Does moving on from a relationship mean forgetting about it? (14:14-27:54)  What do people actually mean when they say God was "leading" or "calling" them to something? (27:59-48:41) How do the fel...

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Episode 212 (with Jordan Feliz) from 2016-04-20T03:01:05

What are good strategies for handling an emotionally charged conversation? (12:55-25:40) Interview with Christian Singer and Songwriter Jordan Feliz (26:44-35:37) How do I keep my relationship with...

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Episode 211 from 2016-04-13T03:10:53

What can I do to get more out of my small group? (15:10-25:37) How do I stop thinking about myself and focus on the people I am ministering to? (25:58-40:42) What is the deal with "religious freedo...

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Episode 210 (with John J Thompson) from 2016-04-06T05:53:24

Prison ministry tips and lessons. (17:46-34:43) Interview with John J Thompson, author of Jesus, Bread, and Chocolate (35:19-47:58) What are some things you understood better after examining their ...

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Episode 209 from 2016-03-30T05:34:59

How do I keep going after hurtful romantic setbacks? (16:22-25:48) What kind of advice should I seek from a spiritual mentor? (25:52-42:25) How should Christians approach voting? (42:30-1:03:10) C...

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Episode 208 from 2016-03-23T03:04:31

I have an opportunity to have a leadership role in a ministry, but I am intimidated. How do I pull this off? (17:55-35:16) How do I call someone on being a hypocrite without being bitter and resent...

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Episode 207 from 2016-03-16T03:17:16

Should Christians take sides in politics? (13:22-26:53) What does Hebrews 6:11 mean about love and hope? (27:01-39:40) We get scientific on love and dating and attempt to solve the elusive Girl-nou...

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Episode 206 from 2016-03-09T01:00

What effect does the media you take in have on your spiritual life? (13:05-33:44) How do hear from God? (33:47-50:35) Is the Bible sex-positive? (50:38-1:01:45) Closing Song: Your Thoughts Are N...

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Episode 205 from 2016-03-02T03:15:08

I am having trouble reading the signals on whether or not this guy likes me, what do I do? (15:45-31:54) How do I know when I have helped someone enough? How do I help people but keep up healthy bo...

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Episode 204 from 2016-02-24T02:03:27

I set a boundary with someone, now what? (18:13-35:42)Is ignorance really bliss? (35:47-55:36)All the girls I'm attracted to are non-Christians, what do I do? (55:50-69:47) Closing Song: I'm a Sold...

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Episode 203- Music, Ministry, and Doing Your Own Thing from 2016-02-17T01:00

This week we have 3 stories of people discovering what it means to grow into the specific, unique calling God had for them and their gifts. Glen talks about going from guitar player in the youth gr...

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Episode 202 from 2016-02-10T05:28:10

How do I know if I'm a good Christian? (16:13-34:04)What should I do when I see people I care about acting in destructive ways? (34:08-51:30)How can I know when is a good time to talk to share my f...

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Episode 201 (with Christianity Today's Sarah Zylstra) from 2016-02-03T02:42:05

If Jesus forgives me for everything I've ever done, what does the Bible mean when it says everyone will have to "give an account"? (17:30-33:33) We talk to Christianity Today Contributing Editor Sa...

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Episode 200- Featuring the 2015 Thatties! from 2016-01-27T01:00

Wait, are televangelists still a thing? How?! (19:57-40:55)What's with some married people telling single people they are still single because Jesus isn't enough for them? (40:59-55:25)Is it okay t...

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Episode 199 from 2016-01-20T02:31:16

How do I share Jesus with people who don't think they need a savior? (13:06=30:36)What do I say to someone to cut off on an unhealthy friendship? (30:40-50:41)I had to leave my old church, how do I...

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Unka Glen talks Church from 2016-01-13T04:14:56

Matt and Glen go in depth answering questions about church- what to look, big vs small, and how to deal with people in the church disappointing you. Closing Song: Always Always Always (Jed Brewer)

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2015- The Year In Emergencies from 2016-01-06T05:51:50

We look back at some of our favorite emergencies of 2015- from horrible t-shirts to Christian movies to crazy Bridge stories. Closing song: I Am New (Jed Brewer)

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Episode 198 from 2015-12-30T03:17:46

What does it really mean to dress modestly, and is it really that big a deal? (16:16-34:12)How do I keep my past trauma from ruining my future married sex life? (34:21-50:28)I'm trying to start my ...

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Episode 197 from 2015-12-23T02:33:05

How do I get over the perfectionism that is torturing me? (15:42-34:16)Can I trust the public image projected by Christian celebrities? (34:21-54:34)How do I balance generously supporting missions ...

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Episode 196 from 2015-12-16T02:41:31

Can I have a healthy friendship with my ex? (14:43-37:00)Are Christians commanded to have children? (37:03-53:32)Is owning pieces of art from different cultures and religions idolatry? (53:47-1:12:...

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Episode 195 (With CALL FM's Rob Robbins) from 2015-12-09T02:06:01

What's the deal with communion (17:22-30:20)Interview with CALL FM's Rob Robbins: we talk the amazing story of faith and patience in the years long process of starting a youth oriented Christian ra...

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Episode 194 from 2015-12-02T01:59:28

Should I try to lead the non-Christian I'm dating to the Lord, or just end the relationship? (17:07-36:21)Do you have to be baptized to be saved? (36:25-52:54)How do you break up with your small gr...

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Episode 193 from 2015-11-25T02:26:14

What do the guys think of the great Starbucks cup controversy. (17:02-31:19)How do you maintain your sanity in a toxic work environment? (31:25-51:19)What does good servant leadership from a minist...

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Stories Special: Questions from 2015-11-18T03:27:56

Glen, Jed, and Matt share some more stories from their day jobs working with inmates and gang members in Chicago. This time the focus is on questions: some of the funniest things they have been ask...

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Episode 192 from 2015-11-11T02:31:43

Are there certain types of humor Christians shouldn't engage in? (17:18-38:02)How do I recover from a really bad depressive episode? (38:06-51:18)I still have feelings for my ex, how do I move on? ...

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Episode 191 from 2015-11-04T02:27:17

How do I get more comfortable with handling confrontation and speaking up for myself? (18:09-36:22) What should I do if I am uncomfortable with some aspects of the worship style at my church? (36:2...

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Episode 190 from 2015-10-28T02:44:19

My parents' marriage is miserable. How do I avoid those same traps? (16:44-34:14)I found a new church, but they want me to sign a membership covenant. What is the deal with those? (34:19-53:36)I wa...

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Episode 189 from 2015-10-21T02:19:43

What does Paul mean by "flesh" and "spirit" in Romans 8? (16:25-31:26)Is online dating not trusting God with my romantic life? (31:30-50:29)I celebrate when my clients explore spiritual things, eve...

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Episode 188 from 2015-10-14T05:06:02

What is the right, biblical way to do fundraising for missions? (16:55-36:39)How do I balance using the gifts God gave me with making a living financially? (36:42-57:47)How should I go about proces...

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Episode 187 from 2015-10-07T04:22:02

Follow up question about sharing the gospel: what do you say to people who think Christians hate gay people? (17:10-28:51)How do you keep going at work when you are struggling with depression? (28:...

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Episode 186 from 2015-09-30T02:15:28

How do you share the gospel with people in a way that is relevant to their lives? (16:54-29:28)How should I deal with someone who I think might be manipulating me? (29:35-46:10)What do you do in th...

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Episode 185 (with Jim Sonefeld of Hootie and the Blowfish) from 2015-09-23T02:13:30

Is there anything wrong with church shopping? (13:11-33:04) Jim Sonefeld, drummer of Hootie and the Blowfish and a solo Christian singer-songwriter joins Matt to talk fame, addiction, coming to fai...

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Episode 184 from 2015-09-16T02:14:07

The fear of hurting my partner by slipping up and using pornography has kept me from dating. How do I move past this? (17:51-28:02)How do I communicate to people that Christianity is actually about...

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Episode 183 from 2015-09-09T02:08:51

How can you get to know several members of the opposite sex without it feeling like you're the Bachelorette? (14:24-29:05)If marijuana is legal, is using it a sin? (29:18-49:01)What is the Christia...

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Episode 182 from 2015-09-02T02:08:22

My church is very scholarly, but I don't feel like it feeds my relationship with God, what do I do? (12:37-31:19) What are the guys tips for balancing time between marriage and ministry? (31:47-46:...

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Episode 181 from 2015-08-26T02:25:17

From a theological standpoint, why did Jesus have to be perfect? (14:40-27:48) How do I stop letting checking out members of the opposite sex distract me from worshipping? (27:52-47:09) The Bible s...

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Episode 180 from 2015-08-19T03:01:01

It feels like everyone my age is off doing amazing things and I am stuck, what do I do? (14:17-33:43)How important is the other's person family when considering dating or marrying someone? (33:47-5...

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Episode 179- Boundaries and Recovery from 2015-08-12T02:06:22

How do I balance helping people who need it with drawing healthy boundaries? (19:03-37:18)What is my role in a loved ones recovery from addiction? (37:28-1:00:00)

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178- Prayer Life from 2015-08-05T02:00

Glen, Jed, and Matt chat about what makes for an effective prayer life and listening to the Lord. Then we bring you sermons that Lee and Matt preached on that same topic at The Bridge earlier in th...

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Episode 177 from 2015-07-29T03:45:54

I feel like my selfishness is hurting my life, what do I do? (15:55-29:49)Why does it feel like God isn't hearing my prayers for a relationship? (29:53-43:48)How do I overcome my insecurity without...

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Episode 176 from 2015-07-22T02:25:09

What do you do if your significant other struggles with porn? (17:17-37:49)Why did Paul say "follow me as I follow Christ"? (37:52-50:31)How do you know which Christian books are legit and which ar...

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Episode 175 (with Ginny Owens and Andrew Greer) from 2015-07-15T02:52:26

What does it mean to be anointed? (19:24-30:58) Interview with Andrew Greer and Ginny Owens: singer/songwriters and coauthors of the new book Transcending Mysteries (31:42-44:27) What part of the B...

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Episode 174 from 2015-07-08T02:19:45

I feel like my friends and I are closing off to one another, what do I do? (18:48-29:12) What does Supreme Court gay marriage ruling mean for Christians? (29:37-54:00) How do I tell my pastor I am ...

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Episode 173 from 2015-07-01T03:04:18

How do if someone is right for you, and how long should you wait for marriage once you do know? (17:15-28:52)What are healthy expectations to have for your children? (28:55-51:06)How do I stop from...

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Episode 172- Calling and Listening from 2015-06-24T02:15:53

This week we have 3 questions about listening to God and discerning His will for our life. What is a calling and how do we find God's calling in our life? (15:28-28:18)How do I listen for God telli...

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Episode 171 (with Dr Noah Toly) from 2015-06-17T03:44:04

How do we apply what Jesus taught in the Lord's Prayer to our individual prayer life. (14:50-27:08)Interview with Wheaton College Professor and Author of Cities of Tomorrow and the City to Come: A ...

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Episode 170 from 2015-06-10T02:43:48

My family members keep causing drama, help! (16:57-34:43)How do modern Christians go about having a Sabbath? (34:46-46:53)How should Christians approach situations where they are choosing between t...

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Episode 169 from 2015-06-03T02:10:05

What are some tips for fighting insecurity? (18:41-31:40) How do you do ministry and love people even when you're not feeling the love yourself? (31:45-49:41) Are motivational quotes biblically sou...

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Stories Special 2: Conflict and Confrontation from 2015-05-27T03:12:57

Glen, Jed, and Matt sit down and share some more stories from their day job working behind bars and on the streets in Chicago. This time we focus on stories of handling conflict and confrontation a...

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Episode 168 (with Danen Kane) from 2015-05-20T03:31:14

I was good friends with my ex before we dated, should we try being close again since we have broken up? (13:03-28:08)Musician Danen Kane talks with us about his new record Flesh and Soul and being ...

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Episode 167 from 2015-05-13T05:34:42

How do I heal from getting hurt by legalistic church people? (15:55-33:53)What does 1 Timothy 5:3-4 mean for my life practically? (33:57-52:07)How do I keep up the fight against lust? (52:15-72:44)...

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Episode 166 from 2015-05-06T02:24:48

Why did Jesus have to die? (17:12-28:18)My ex-boyfriend insisted his future wife would stay home and not work, was that a deal breaker? (28:22-43:21)What do you guys say when you speak at megachurc...

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Episode 165 from 2015-04-29T05:38:42

What is the right way to react when someone compliments me? (14:45-27:40)How can I serve and encourage my fiancé during our engagement? (27:45-46:07)How do I find the balance between saving for my ...

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Episode 164 (with Andrew Peterson) from 2015-04-22T03:37:26

Musician and author Andrew Peterson joins us to talk the power of stories, making art, and emulating your heroes. (27:14-43:38) And of course the guys answer your questions:How do I balance trustin...

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Episode 163 from 2015-04-15T02:41:29

I was hurt badly by church leaders, how do I go about healing and trusting again? (21:02-40:33)How do I cope with sexual thoughts just popping up all the time? (40:36-53:10)How do I know if I am ca...

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Episode 162 from 2015-04-08T04:50:03

The guys tell stories about the awesome ministry their wives do. (18:21-35:45)Which Bible is the inerrant word of God, and how do we know that we can trust translations? (35:50-53:43)Is there any b...

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Episode 161 from 2015-04-01T02:37:47

All the dating advice I seem to get in my college ministry is "just wait," but you guys talk about being active in my dating life. So how interested do I need to be to ask someone out? (16:25-34:33...

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Marriage Special! from 2015-03-25T02:34:46

Super-Fan Kenneth just got married (like the day the recorded this), and wrote in asking for advice on how to have an awesome marriage. So Glen, Lee, and Jed put together their over 4...

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Episode 160 from 2015-03-18T04:18:34

How do I let go of fears about what might happen in the future? (18:30-32:55)What does the emotional feeling I get during worship mean?(32:58-49:40)How do I help a significant other who doesn't see...

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Episode 159 from 2015-03-11T03:30:10

Is dating biblical or just cultural? (19:19-39:55)Why does the Bible say things in one place and seemingly say something different in another? (40:01-57:35What are strategies for dealing with addic...

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Episode 158 from 2015-03-04T04:03:38

How do I have a balanced life while still being driven to succeed in my career? (17:17-37:07)My ex and I broke up for the right reasons, so why does it still hurt so much? (37:11-54:14)It is import...

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Episode 157 from 2015-02-25T03:20:43

How can I be generous when I am broke? (17:21-33:17)What is the minimum amount of doctrine someone needs to believe to be a Christian? (33:22-46:00)How do I handle the anxiety of making big life de...

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Episode 156 from 2015-02-18T02:26:43

Glen is a Valentine's Day Warrior on Fire (-17:44)What does moving on from depression and anxiety actually look like? (18:08-33:56)What does "hanging out with Jesus" mean? (34:00-45:20)I realize th...

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Stories From The Mission Field from 2015-02-11T03:02:38

Glen, Jed, and Matt share hilarious, incredible, and uplifting stories from their day job working with ex-cons, recovering addicts, and gang-members in inner-city Chicago.

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Episode 155 from 2015-02-04T02:44:09

What does Matthew 7:21-23 actually mean for us? (17:12-34:48)How do you help someone who is having suicidal thoughts? (34:53-50:16)The right (and wrong) way to discuss sensitive subjects. (50:19-74...

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Episode 154 from 2015-01-28T03:06:04

Is this job still my calling, even though it is way harder than I expected? (20:46-44:58)What are legitimate dealbreakers in a long term relationship? (45:03-57:02)My parents threatened to cut me o...

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Episode 153 from 2015-01-21T02:49:26

How do I get back on track after hitting a rough patch of depression and anxiety? (15:31-32:35)Do bad things happen to us because of our sins? (32:40-48:43)How do I know when it's time to start dat...

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Episode 152 from 2015-01-14T02:16:13

Ecclesiastes 9 and 11 explained! What exactly is the word of God? Is God punishing me for living with my boyfriend?

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Episode 151 from 2015-01-07T02:07:14

The 2nd annual Say That awards! (0:00-22:00)How do you deal with being double-minded? (22:40-33:15)Dating etiquette and dating fear (33:20-43:20)Helping people without being taken advantage of (43:...

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Episode 150 from 2014-12-31T08:16:58

How does an introvert go about sharing the gospel? (18:02-33:58)What guidelines and questions actually go into setting physical boundaries in a relationship? (34:00-47:55)If Jesus paid all of my de...

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Episode 149 from 2014-12-23T18:58:58

How do you balance praying for your own needs with praying for others? How do you maintain your sanity when you're the only single one at holiday gatherings? How do you overcome stage fright when l...

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Episode 148 (with Randall Goodgame) from 2014-12-17T02:13:23

What does it mean that wisdom laughs at the foolish? The guys give preaching and ministry tips. What is the smart way to manage financial giving? And we have an interview with musician Randall Good...

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Episode 147 from 2014-12-10T02:18:21

How do I keep my fear of rejection from preventing my from finding good community? What does Ephesians 5 mean for dating couples? How do I approach a conversation with my parents about them being l...

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Episode 146 (with Sandra McCracken) from 2014-12-03T02:17:38

What does it actually mean to find your identity in Christ? How do you go about getting your heart ready for the day? What makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy? And, an interview with wonderfu...

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Episode 145 from 2014-11-26T02:50:16

If God meets all our needs, what are romantic relationship for? Is God frustrated with me when I procrastinate and don't do the things I should be doing? What's the deal with election versus free w...

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Episode 144 from 2014-11-19T02:22:40

How do I get help with my pornography problem? I want to follow the Lord, but I was raised very differently than the people at church, how do I navigate that? How do I deal with the societal pressu...

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Episode 143 from 2014-11-12T02:30:50

How do you help people without burning out? What is the difference between humility and self-doubt? How do I help someone I love with body image issues?

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Best of Say That Vol 1: Depression from 2014-11-05T02:32:06

This week, we go to the archives for some wisdom on dealing with depression and mental health. Featuring answers from episodes 56, 62, and 68. With a brand new pirate intro from Glen and Jed!

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Episode 142 from 2014-10-29T03:06:06

How do I move on when my ex is acting really uncool towards me? What is the balance between the Bible saying to reach out to people and the warnings against "bad company?" How should Christians for...

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Episode 141 from 2014-10-22T02:43:40

If God is love, why is there a Hell? How do I deal with friends who act toxic toward me? How do I know which campus ministries are right for me?

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Episode 140 from 2014-10-15T02:23:25

How do I know if God gave me a desire, or if it is just completely selfish? I am intimidated by my potential partner's sexual history, how do I move past that? How can I live a balanced life instea...

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Episode 139 from 2014-10-08T02:06:41

How do I deal with people around me getting freaked out by the end times? How should Christians process events like those in Ferguson, MO? I'm scared to move forward in my relationship because of b...

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Episode 138 (with guest Rajdeep Paulus) from 2014-10-01T02:19:15

I feel like I am growing more slowly than people around me, is that normal? An interview with award winning YA author Rajdeep Paulus. The guys give some book ...

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Episode 137 from 2014-09-24T02:24:20

Repenting is easier said than done right? Do things that some Christians consider "occult" actually have anything to do with Satan? I absolutely do not want a marriage like the one my parents have,...

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Episode 136 from 2014-09-17T02:07:30

Where do you actually meet Christian people to date? What do you do when you have a hard time believing what the Bible says about you? How do I balance getting good mentoring with making my faith m...

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Episode 135 from 2014-09-10T02:02:28

What do you do when you are having a hard time believing God loves you? How do you let your walls down with God? Do Christians have to hold certain political beliefs?

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Episode 134 from 2014-09-03T02:22:08

How do I tell my parents that I don't like their church? How do we know God is real and not mythology or fairy tale? If two people go too far physically in a relationship, is it mandatory that they...

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Episode 133 from 2014-08-27T02:09:22

I'm starting towards a romantic relationship, but I've never been in one before. How do you recognize the Holy Spirit's voice? Is "I don't like to argue with people's beliefs" a valid Christian poi...

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Episode 132 from 2014-08-20T02:20:58

I am a recent college graduate with no idea what do with my life, help! How do I move from the plan other people have for me to God's plan for me? How do you make a relationship Jesus centered?

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131- What Do I Need For A Healthy Christian Life? from 2014-08-13T02:20:34

Recorded live in Chicago in front of an audience visiting from Christ Community Church in Oak Ridge, TN. The guys discuss this important topic which they will be preaching on at The Bridge service ...

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Episode 130 from 2014-08-06T03:14:46

How do you actually be still? Dealing with depressed thoughts. What does it mean to do everything to the glory of God?

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Episode 129 from 2014-07-30T02:33:08

How do I talk to my boyfriend about porn? What is the best way to help homeless people? Are there any Christian relationship books you would actually recommend?

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Episode 128 from 2014-07-23T02:07:55

What is intentional dating? How do I get into the habit of doing a daily devotional time? What do you do when you feel like your prayers are falling on deaf ears?

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Episode 127 from 2014-07-16T02:09:32

Practical tips for fighting loneliness. What are the minimum beliefs you have to have to be a Christian? Should I put off get into a relationship because of my fears regarding it?

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Episode 126 from 2014-07-09T02:54:57

Glen, Jed and Matt discuss balancing the importance of teaching good doctrine and theology with doing good works and helping the poor.

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Episode 125 from 2014-07-02T02:18:43

How do you get over jealousy? Why couldn't God have written the Bible is more straight forward way? How do you give advice to a friend when they are going through something you have never been thro...

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Episode 124 from 2014-06-25T02:25:53

How do you deal with having doubts? How did the guys know they wanted to marry their wives? How do you honor your parents when they are toxic?

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Episode 123 from 2014-06-18T02:22:36

How do handle having feelings for two people at the same time? How do I listen to my friends talk about their issues without feeling the need to give my opinion? What does Proverbs 10:24 actually m...

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Episode 122 from 2014-06-11T02:01:49

We answer questions about crush confusion, greed, and body image.

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Episode 121 from 2014-06-04T02:01:09

What do you do when you are getting terrible advice from Christians? Should Christians get cosmetic surgery? How do you navigate close inter-gender friendships?

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Episode 120 from 2014-05-28T02:30:15

How do I obey God in the face of huge temptation about my sex life? Encouragement for those who are struggling, or love someone who is struggling, with gender identity. How do you love people who d...

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Episode 119 from 2014-05-21T01:23:06

How do you teach youth about the more complex books in the Old Testament? How do I stop doubting God? What does Leviticus 21:13 mean for Christians today in regards to virginity?

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Episode 118 from 2014-05-14T02:12:36

What are opportunities to serve Jesus in my daily life? How do I talk to girls without coming off as desperate? What does loving God actually look like?

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Episode 117 from 2014-05-07T02:03:05

Long-distance dating, being there for a loved one that was abused, and getting past pride.

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Episode 116 from 2014-04-30T02:24:26

Is it okay to not want to date someone even though you have a lot in common with them? How do you deal with jealousy? What exactly are the Old Covenant and the New Covenant?

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Episode 115 from 2014-04-23T02:09:20

Should you be friends with someone before dating them? How do you react to sin with grace? How do I cope with the wasteful ways many churches spend money?

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Episode 114 from 2014-04-16T02:12:28

What does "fake it 'til you make it" actually mean? What should you focus on when starting ministry? How do you lovingly disagree with people?

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Say That 113 from 2014-04-09T02:15:53

What does Jesus want me to do with my money? How do I cope with the sexual frustration of being a single Christian? I disagree with what my youth pastor is preaching, how do I tell them that?

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Episode 112- Ministry Special from 2014-04-02T02:07:55

Glen, Jed and Matt answer 3 questions about doing ministry to the least of these. They share some lessons learned from their day jobs working in Chicago that can apply to any type of ministry.

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Episode 111 from 2014-03-26T02:00:11

Can you get better at praying? I hate my church, but my parents won't let me go to a different one, what do I do? How can see indicators of God's love in our everyday life?

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Episode 110 from 2014-03-19T02:14:30

How do we know we love God? How do single people deal with their sex drives before marriage? What do I do when it feels like grace is for everybody but me?

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Episode 109 from 2014-03-12T01:11:44

How do you know if the person you are dating is the right one? How do you keep your walk going strong when you head to a new place like college? How can you get over fears about intimacy and relati...

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Episode 108 from 2014-03-05T02:28:33

Strategies for battling insecurity. How do you start putting God first now, so you can do so when you are in a relationship? How do you handle it when someone close to you is going through somethin...

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Episode 107 from 2014-02-26T02:21:26

What is the difference between being wise and being scared? Tips for youth ministry. How do I deal with loneliness is a non-destructive way?

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Episode 106 from 2014-02-19T02:08:55

The creation debate. How do you deal with rejection? How do I know if it is time to leave my church?

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Music Special from 2014-02-12T02:31:34

Jed and Lee share the stories behind some of the worship songs they have written over the years. Includes over 35 minutes of free music!

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Episode 105 from 2014-02-05T02:14:03

How do you navigate your parents disapproving of your relationship? How can I stop being jealous when good things happen to my friends? Book recommendations for young Christians. And a special outr...

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Episode 104 from 2014-01-29T13:35:31

What is church discipline all about? Is the recent news of a pastor plagiarizing really a big deal? How do you live with someone who seems to make intentionally bad decisions? Also: a big announcem...

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Episode 103 from 2014-01-22T01:54:32

What do the guys actually do in their day jobs? Do you believe the things described in the Bible actually happened? How do I get the guy I like to stop seeing me as a "little sister"?

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Episode 102 from 2014-01-15T02:36:15

What does it mean to love yourself? Is it unrealistic to expect God to reveal your future spouse to you in some grand way? What does Jesus mean in Matthew 5:17-20 when He said He came to fulfill th...

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Episode 101 from 2014-01-08T02:23:11

Are we allowed to doubt God in tough times? What if I am bad at sex when I get married? How do I share my faith with non-believing friends.

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Episode 100 from 2013-12-31T20:06:13

What does it really mean to repent? How should your calling effect your decisions of who to date? Are we actually called to love people unconditionally? And the Say That 100 Awards!

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Episode 99 from 2013-12-24T23:03:09

How does a guy read signals from a girl about whether or not she is interested? What are the guys thoughts on seminary? What do you do when you've gone past feeling guilty to feeling numb?

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Episode 98 from 2013-12-18T02:11:31

How do you learn to trust God to provide? How should you deal with a partner who struggles with pornography? What does "giving it to God" actually mean?

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Say That Christmas Special from 2013-12-11T02:07:57

This week, we have a special Christmas worship service episode. Enjoy original Christmas songs by Jed and Lee, and new version of "I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day", and an audio devotional by Gl...

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Episode 97 from 2013-12-04T01:59:56

How do I start winning my battle against pornography? What does praying for other people actually do? How can a youth leader use social media constructively?

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Episode 96 from 2013-11-27T02:41:57

How do you deal with a crazy street preacher on your college campus? How do you care for and encourage people who have been through a tragedy? Why "Jesus should be enough" is a terrible reason for ...

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Episode 95 from 2013-11-20T02:23:48

Is "eat the chicken, spit out the bones" a good attitude when it comes to preaching? Is there a proper way for a woman to act when she is interested in a guy? How should you react when someone brin...

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Episode 94 from 2013-11-13T02:24:26

How do figure out what God wants when I'm stuck between two options? What do I do about my  parents using Christianity to manipulate me? How do the guys wrestle with the idea that everything happen...

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Episode 93 from 2013-11-06T02:17:01

Why do the guys always seem so happy? How early is too early to talk about sexual stuff with a significant other? Could God be calling me to something that I think would make me miserable?

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Episode 92 from 2013-10-30T02:09:01

How do you help people grow without guilting them? What do you do when you feel spiritually dry? How do you tell an ex you need space after a break up?

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Episode 91 from 2013-10-23T02:13:17

Where do you start in praying about a potential relationship? How do you let go of old friendships without being a judgmental jerk? How can you tell if a making a big life change was the choice God...

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Episode 90 from 2013-10-16T01:30:32

How do I live my walk day by day instead of being a "trip Christian?" How do I deal with wanting to make a career change? What is the deal with Christians assuming they will marry the first person ...

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Episode 89 from 2013-10-09T09:37:49

How do you approach using the Bible? Does oral sex count as premarital sex? How do you show grace to people without being a doormat?

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Episode 88 from 2013-10-02T02:26:33

How should you act when interacting with other religions and cultures? How do you relate to and love gay people? Is there such a thing as a helpful Christian dating book?

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Episode 87 from 2013-09-25T12:47:53

Can God really use someone like me? How do you overcome Christian-book inspired fear of dating? What exactly is wrong with sex outside of marriage?

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Episode 86 from 2013-09-18T02:18:15

What does it actually mean that Jesus is your "personal savior?" Is feeling disconnected a good enough reason to leave your church? How do approach relationships and sexuality in a godly way withou...

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Episode 85 from 2013-09-11T01:28:28

What is the difference between serving and people pleasing? Is there an optimal amount of time to date before getting engaged? How do you lovingly handle that one friend who is driving everyone nuts?

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Episode 84 from 2013-09-04T02:16:16

Should you keep your feelings to yourself to avoid church drama? Do you owe people theological debates? What does the Bible actually say about homosexuality, and what does that mean for us?

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Episode 83 from 2013-08-28T01:52:51

How can you use your blog to minister to people? Is it possible to be struggling too much to be worthy to serve? How do you break the habit of comparing yourself to others?

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Episode 82 from 2013-08-21T02:11:18

Is breaking up over a doctrinal disagreement overreacting? What do you say to someone who tells you to "rebuke sickness?" How do you get better at trusting God?

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Episode 81 from 2013-08-14T00:30:27

What do the guys say about Christians who swear and tell inappropriate jokes? How do you deal with the feeling that everyone else is passing you by in life? How does someone own the fact that God m...

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Episode 80 from 2013-08-07T02:48:36

How do you focus on God when it seems like nothing is going right? Where should an engaged couple go to find out how to really prepare for marriage? How can I be a new creation yet still feel like ...

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Episode 79 from 2013-07-31T02:30:15

How can you be discerning about Christian books? How do you go about hearing God's voice? How much does physical attraction matter in a relationship?

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Episode 78 (Live in Chicago) from 2013-07-24T01:50:29

 The guys answer audience submitted questions on: body image, teaching in ministry, being a people pleaser, dealing with spiritual dry spells, and more. This week's episode was recorded live in fro...

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Episode 77 from 2013-07-15T15:45:22

How do you date when you don't know anything about the opposite sex? What does the Bible actually say about cursing? How do you deal with non-Christian friends always making you defend your beliefs?

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Episode 76 from 2013-07-10T00:30:06

How do you go about rebuking someone? How can you tell if you are being too picky when it comes to dating? How do you deal with the uncertainty that surrounds college years?

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Episode 75 from 2013-07-03T02:08:37

We take another look at being a "Proverbs 31 woman." How do you deal with people judging on you for your taste? What does it really mean to repent?

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Episode 74 from 2013-06-26T00:12

Dealing with the strains of new parenthood. Is it wrong to be impatient about dating? How to deal with loneliness.

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Episode 73 from 2013-06-19T00:22:39

What should one's motivation for spending money be? What is the deal with "Proverbs 31 woman" and  "Job 29 man"? What does Jesus mean when He talk about turning the other cheek?

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Episode 72 from 2013-06-12T02:01:43

How should you handle anger? What do you do when you find Christian art boring? How do you survive being the only Christian in your family?

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Episode 71 from 2013-06-05T01:49:37

How do you respond to people who judge you for being single? Are Christians called to be "radical"? What does it mean to blaspheme the Holy Spirit?

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Episode 70 from 2013-05-29T00:40:23

How do you pray when you are going through a hard time? How does a girl let a guy know she is interested in him? How do you offer help to a friend who is going through a tough break up?

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Episode 69 from 2013-05-22T00:10:31

Do I have to have my whole life figured out before I start dating? I love God, but I love sinning too, what do I do? What actually happens when people pray together?

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Episode 68 from 2013-05-15T00:43:37

How to combat jealousy. Is there such a thing as overemphasizing God's love? How to fight back when depression is kicking your butt.

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Episode 67 from 2013-05-08T03:57:59

How do you get over a long term relationship? Does God punish us for our sins? What does it mean to be emotionally strong?

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Episode 66 from 2013-05-01T14:55:11

This week, we talk about how to listen to God about big decisions, talk about a possibly confusing part of 1 John 3, and talk about being a sexually frustrated young Christian.

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Say That 65 (Live at Wheaton College!) from 2013-04-24T11:43:04

Does guilt have any place in making changes in your life? What criteria should you look for in a partner? Does God really love us, even with our flaws? This week Say That was recorded live before ...

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Episode 64 from 2013-04-17T03:14:52

How do you love someone who is on your last nerve? What is the right way to wrestle with grief? How do you support a partner who struggles with pornography.

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Episode 63 from 2013-04-09T23:44:21

How can you be assertive and loving at the same time? How do you keep emotions like depression from running your life? How should Christians react to all the anger in the gay marriage debate?

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Episode 62 from 2013-04-03T15:26:37

Is it okay to casually date someone you know you don't want to be in a relationship with? How do you start working towards your calling when you feel stuck in a job and place at the moment? What do...

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Episode 61 from 2013-03-27T00:14:45

Asking God to make you a better person, opening up to someone after a bad experience, and dealing with racist jerks. Also, our biggest EMERGENCY ever: announcing the very first Say That Live show,...

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Episode 60 from 2013-03-20T02:57:22

How to have tough relationship conversations, what to do when you are angry at God, and what it means that God's call can never be withdrawn.

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Episode 59 from 2013-03-12T23:23:54

Is it bad not to have deep questions about Christianity? How do I get out of a cycle of sin and guilt? How do you reestablish broken relationships? Also: announcing our Cyborg/Osteen sketch contes...

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Episode 58 from 2013-03-06T05:00:08

Long distance relationships What does it mean to be in the world but not of the world? Is it biblical that God made you for greatness or that a generation is meant for greatness?

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Episode 57 from 2013-02-27T02:48:32

The "Friend-zone", smart ways to serve in risky places, and what "guarding your heart" actually means. Also: Why does Matt hate love? And Glen contemplates a career change.

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Episode 56 from 2013-02-20T02:46:21

How to reconnect with people after you have had a tough period, the benefits of dating, and looking up to someone without idolizing them.

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Episode 55 from 2013-02-13T02:46:03

What does it mean to glorify God? How do you stop worrying about money? How do you talk about marriage in a dating relationship?

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Episode 54 from 2013-02-07T19:55:08

How should a guy ask a girl out? Is serving outside the church better than serving within the church? What exactly is sexual immorality?

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Bonus Bridge Box Preview from 2013-02-04T19:22:13

Glen, Jed, and Matt sit down to preview some of the content in the February 2013 Bridge Box. The topic is "What do I do when I feel lonely?" Included are: an R&B version of Jed's song "Help Me To W...

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Episode 53 from 2013-01-30T00:18:29

What can you learn from a relationship that doesn't work out? How do you set boundaries with your parents? What's the deal with tithing?

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Episode 52 from 2013-01-23T00:19:36

The guys are joined once again by super blogger Joon Park. How do you make the gospel relevant to your non-believing friends? What to do when you get frustrated with being patient in your singlenes...

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Episode 51 from 2013-01-15T14:05:40

This week we are joined by friend, pastor and super blogger Joon Park. Where does parenting fit into the idea of not giving unsolicited advice? How do you know when it is time to end a dating rela...

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Episode 50 from 2013-01-09T02:52:50

Should ministry goals factor into dating? What does 1 Corinthians 11:3 mean for single women, or women who's fathers weren't around? What do you do when you told someone you liked them, they didn't...

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Episode 49 from 2013-01-01T23:54:48

How do you fill the void of not being able to find a mentor? How do I deal with feelings of anger and hostility towards people who have (and are still) hurt me. And a soul-ties rant for the ages.

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Episode 48 from 2012-12-25T15:46:44

How important is financial stability in a potential partner? How do you know when it is time to look for a new church? How do you talk to God about your feelings when you don't know exactly how you...

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Episode 47 from 2012-12-18T13:49:20

How to help a friend grow in their faith, doing ministry while being honest about your struggles and frustrations with God, and can Christians go clubbing?

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Episode 46 from 2012-12-12T02:12:59

Initiate Romance. Glen, Jed, and Matt sit down to follow up about initiating relationships and where Christian culture gets dating very wrong.

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Episode 45 from 2012-12-05T00:26:21

What does "delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart" mean? How do you figure out your purpose in life? What can you do to get over struggles with sexual sin when more rules isn't...

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Episode 44 from 2012-11-28T23:27:23

How to help someone without guilting them? What does the Bible actually say about divorce and remarriage? What does a godly dating relationship look like? Plus, a new holiday tradition: gripesgiving!

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Episode 43 from 2012-11-21T02:48:09

How to handle group drama, dealing with your insecurities head on, and not letting past experiences ruin your future relationships.

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Episode 42 from 2012-11-15T04:09:10

We talk faith healing, admitting you're not okay, and if a guy and girl can be best friends without feelings developing.

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Bonus Episode: Bridge Box Preview from 2012-11-09T02:25:05

Matt and Jed sit down to talk about our new Bridge Box service. This episode includes a Jed Brewer original worship song, a Glen sermon recorded live at The Bridge in Chicago, and a bonus music tra...

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Episode 41 from 2012-11-07T03:05:25

We talk body image issues, dating someone with a past, and pornography. Also, a time traveling cyborg megachurch pastor in this week's emergency.

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Episode 40 from 2012-10-31T03:09:02

How do you balance wanting to be a success with being a servant? What does it look like to get a green light from God? Can someone's calling change?

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Episode 39 from 2012-10-24T03:19:42

What do you say to people who want proof of God? Tips on going from friendship to dating relationship. How serving the Lord radically is simpler than you think.

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Episode 38 from 2012-10-21T12:26:54

We discuss witnessing to people who have been burned by the church, sharing your faith in college, and long distance relationships. We also get to the bottom of “soul ties”.

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Episode 37 from 2012-10-10T04:39:43

How do you not worry about money? What does it look like to listen to the Lord? And some advice for someone struggling with a break up.

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Episode 36 from 2012-10-03T04:03:15

How do I cultivate more Christian friends? What is the difference between dating in high school and in college? What role does talking about Hell play in sharing your faith?

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Episode 35 from 2012-09-26T19:27:27

We talk about dealbreakers in relationships, cutting, and being a Christian who has issues with organized religion.

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Episode 34 from 2012-09-19T16:05:27

We talk about facing your doubts head on, what real joy in the Lord looks like, and how to have tough conversations in relationships. Also, a special bonus song: Jed's version of "The Old Rugged Cr...

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Episode 33 from 2012-09-12T02:44:33

What's the difference between judgement and discernment? What is spiritual warfare? How can you have intimacy while maintaining godly boundaries? And a surprise phone call.

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Episode 32 from 2012-09-05T03:04:18

We talk about living in a work obsessed culture, dealing with body image issues and overexcersising, and what to do with the commandment to love your parents when your parents bailed on you.

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Episode 31 from 2012-08-29T03:37

How do you react to people who call themselves Christians, but don't act that way? How do you share a big secret with someone? How do you know when you are ready for marriage?

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Episode 30 from 2012-08-22T03:59:27

We talk about getting the most out of your devotional time, dealing with depression and your faith, and how to deal with friends guilting you.

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