163 | Slaps, Spanks, Paddles&Floggers: Annika’s Sex Stories - a podcast by Wyoh Lee

➡️ DETAILS | Annika had no idea they’d be such a good slut—but oh, they are! Grew up under a religious shame umbrella, but has transformed into a “I don’t give a fuck as long as you’re not hurting people” type. They’ve been celibate for the last year and are exploring gender expression, identity, and what they actually want when it comes to connection and sexual partnership. Stories that have led up to this thoughtful moment include advice of “marry someone rich,” luckily followed by at least some kick-ass high school Sex Ed, traveling across the country to meet an internet chat room friend, figuring out orgasms at 21, the sudden discovery of oh, I *do* like hair pulling and choking and spanking, the goodness of toys, how kink helps focus the ADHD experience, saying yes to things like couples (loves making TWO people cum!) and meeting strangers in hotel rooms (not the fav), aligning with the idea of demisexual, the joy of being a brat, what it’s like to be a 6’1” vagina-owner who is submissive, and the very, very hot way confidence melted their submissive loins on one date. They also talk about why poly works for them, and the prices of not only learning to advocate for themself, but looking for the alignment between inner feeling and outer perception. And also Monster romance novels like Ice Planet Barbarians, being excited about extrovert make-outs post-pandemic,  an office fantasy, and an INCREDIBLE anal story that includes a thunderstorm.

➡️ STATS | Our guest today is 33, white, uses any pronouns, they’re non-binary, pansexual, single, and are into sensory deprivation, D/s dynamics, mostly subby, voyeurism & exhibitionism. An animal biologist currently in Oregon and who grew up in Hawaii and California — and: they grew up under the poverty line and JUST passed it as an adult!!!

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