231 | Everyone is Kinky: Cat and Joshua’s Sex Stories - a podcast by Wyoh Lee

Just another casual conversation about facilitating deep personal growth that dissolves shame so we can enjoy both the non-traditional desires that arise in our sex lives…along with the rest of our human experience. What is your belief system and how are you living up to that? Cat and Joshua have developed questions like this to help people be their best selves, drawing off their backgrounds in professional Domination to inform their work as counselors as they help people process past fears, flipping “uh-oh” moments into “ah-hah’s” and mending hurts instead of applying band-aids. They join Wyoh to share thoughts on how to teach kids to approach sex responsibly and safely, why communication is sexy, how we develop our abilities to connect and trust and identify our desires and boundaries, and the importance of not only feeling seen and heard, but learning to see and hear others. 

Joshua reflects on discovering his aunt’s nylons as a kid, growing up Latino in NYC (East Harlem) and realizing throughout his military, law enforcement and private protection careers that he was consistently the go-to guy for sex stuff, and following his desire to help people has led him to doula work and non-traditional sexual behavior counseling where one-on-one work is undeniably impactful. He only asks clients to do introspection work he is willing to do himself, and talks about what it was like to work with a Catholic Priest, his own connection to God via BDSM, and why it’s important to him to say hi to everyone in a play or kink party or club space.Cat shares wisdom from her past as a professional Dominatrix and club owner, the years of sexual freedom before she realized “reputations” were a thing, becoming sober at 29, falling in love with a woman for the first time, finding parties and places for kink and then creating spaces where people feel comfortable after a gross early experience of eager cocks encroaching on her space. Historically the hammer and enforcer, she outlines the consent overview she used to start each event with, her years of honed ability to notice stress and distress in a person, and ask questions that get people to open up and drop in like, “how long have you been thinking about this?” 

They also talk about finding the overlap of agreement in a human interaction, using punching as a teaching tool, how COVID led to an influx of people ready for a new phase of personal exploration, and how the intensive of their Power Exchange Academy is beautifully designed to facilitate deep transformational work, and how the courage to set boundaries and let go can be life changing. They share the difference between the foci of their personal and professional lives, future dreams of a hospice center, the importance of staying grounded in the present moment, and so many good, specific thoughts on what the human experience is all about—and how we can enjoy it, regret-free.📈STATS | Partnered poly couple who has been together five years. She is a 59-year-old educator and minister in training with over twenty years of counseling experience who facilitates self-acceptance, problem-solving and healing; he is a counselor, consultant and end-of-life Doula with over a decade of experience as a Professional Dominant and has developed Non-Traditional Sexual Behavior counseling, geared towards self-actualization and dismantling shame.🔗CAT&JOSHUA LINKS |  kinkcollective.net // ssdce.org // masterjoshua.com // @kink_collective on Instagram🔓PATREON | Secret updates&exclusive stories from Wyoh’s whorearchy and bucket list explorations + the Sex Stories community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 🔥ONLYFANS | See *every* detail of Wyoh’s bucket list explorations: onlyfans.com/wyohlee or unlock one-by-one: onlyfans.com/wyohfree 🎙️BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Record up to five minutes at sexstoriespodcast.com

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