Podcasts by Sexy Marriage Radio

Attraction #568 from 2022-04-20T09:04:44

I'm joined today Kimberly Beam Holmes, of It Starts With Attraction, and we dive into the world of attraction. Or as she had framed it ... PIES.

Learn more about Kimberly on her sites
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Exploring Kink and BDSM #567 from 2022-04-13T09:04:24

I'm joined today by Tornus and Smartypants, of Full Circle Kink, as they take us on an exploration in the world of kink and BDSM.

Communication is king when venturing into today's topic .....

Respect #566 from 2022-04-06T09:04:52

A wife suffered from insomnia for a while in her marriage, and it wrecked their sex life. How do they get it back now that the insomnia is no longer the issue? Plus, when she feels desire to ini...

Even Vacation Sex Has Decreased #565 from 2022-03-30T09:04:07

A husband is frustrated because while he usually could rely on vacation sex being adventurous and frequent with his wife, something's changed with her and them lately.

A voicemail asking s...

Sex Scripts and Stories #564 from 2022-03-23T09:04:46

A husband wants to learn how to change up sexual encounters with his wife so the experience will last longer - but changing it up ruins it for his wife.

A follow up to the One Flesh episod...

Higher Desire Wife #563 from 2022-03-16T09:04:14

Today I'm joined by J Parker, of Hot Holy and Humorous, and we discuss the plight of the higher desire wife.

It's more common than we think, it's impacting younger people's marriage more t...

Being Sexually Mindful #562 from 2022-03-09T10:04:39

Dr Chelom Leavitt joins me as we discuss her research and work on being more sexually mindful. 

You can find more about Dr Chelom here - https://www.chelomleavitt.com/

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Orgasm Denial #561 from 2022-03-02T10:04:05

A follow up to a couple of segments from Episode #559. Was I too harsh in my wording?

A couple is exploring the idea of orgasm denial - where there will be no orgasms for him unless he acc...

Domestic and Spiritual Abuse #560 from 2022-02-23T10:04:06

Today we dive into a topic that is sadly far too reaching in our world -  domestic and spiritual abuse. Colleen Ramser joins me in our discussion about how these types of traumas impact both men...

Tried It, Don’t Like It #559 from 2022-02-16T10:04:50

A follow to a message from an Instagram Q&A I was a part of over Valentine's Weekend.

A wife tried out something new in sex, didn't like it, yet her husband keeps pushing for it.

A h...

Roommates Not Lovers #558 from 2022-02-09T10:04:17

Today, everyone gets the full show …

Dr Robert Glover joins me again as we dive into the roommate syndrome often found in marriage.

What are the factors at play that cause this to ha...

One Flesh #557 from 2022-02-02T10:04:04

A followup to Episode #555 - what about the Scriptural concept of marriage is described as being one flesh?

A wife emails as lower desire, yet her husband has given up initiating and expec...

Finding Your Power #556 from 2022-01-26T10:04:15

Dr Juli Slattery joins me as we talk through her decision to re-write her very first book, Finding the Hero In Your Husband. 

What's new, and what has changed in society and the Christian ...

It’s My Body #555 from 2022-01-19T10:04:54

A voicemail from a couple looking for more resources to help them explore the spiritual and tantric side of sex.

A wife calls in wanting to know how to address the desire differences betwe...

The Worst Advice About Porn Ever Given #554 from 2022-01-12T10:04:10

Today we hear the story of Clinton and Charity Munoz of Restored 2 More, and how pornography almost destroyed their marriage, and Clinton's life.

Along the way, they were given the most de...

Birthday Favors #553 from 2022-01-05T10:04:40

On the Regular version of today’s show …

A voicemail from a listener pushing back on how we answered a wife in a prior episode. He believes she should have been told to put on her"big girl...

Best Of SMR: Masturbation and Expectations #552 from 2021-12-29T10:04:27

An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife.

A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin.

On the Xtended version...

Break Out Of A Sexual Rut #551 from 2021-12-22T10:04:13

Pam goes through a Sex Ed Quiz again. Follow along to see how you do.

A wife wants to know how to best co-parent with her step-kids mom, who is now in a same-sex relationship.

A husb...

Married Sex #550 from 2021-12-15T10:04:38

A conversation with Gary Thomas about his newest book, Married Sex.

You can learn about Gary and his work here - https://garythomas.com

On the Xtended version …

Gary and I have...

Great Sex Rescue #549 from 2021-12-08T10:04:16

Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we talk about her newest book, The Great Sex Rescue.

Learn more about Sheila on her site https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/

On the Xtended version ......

Arousal vs Attraction #548 from 2021-12-01T10:04:26

An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation.

A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding...

Best Of SMR: Too Tired For Sex #547 from 2021-11-24T10:04:53

A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you want in sex.

How do you spice up sex when trying to conceive? Dr. Laurie Mintz...

If I Do This Will You Do That #546 from 2021-11-17T10:04:58

After our segment on BDSM in Episode #541 we received a couple of emails about how we totally missed the mark are came across as judgmental. Today we address this more.

A husband wants to ...

Dealing With Breast Cancer #545 from 2021-11-10T10:04:39

I'm joined by Dr Laurie Watson and we talk about how breast cancer impacts a couple's  married life, sex life and desire - plus the journey for both spouses facing this battle.

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Resentment #544 from 2021-11-03T09:04:41

Today I'm joined by a colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great - except in one area. What's happening here?

Plus, how do you ...

Not Feeling Chosen #543 from 2021-10-27T09:04:25

Two emails from wives who do not feel chosen in their marriages. One wife has trouble trusting because of this and past betrayals from her husband. The other wife is married to a man who says he...

You Are Not Broken #542 from 2021-10-20T09:04:16

I'm joined by Kelly Casperson, MD as we discuss the limiting beliefs many people have when it comes to their bodies and their abilities in sex and life.

To learn more about Dr Kelly visit ...

Secrets Of Great Sex #541 from 2021-10-13T09:04:13

This week we are celebrating SMR's 10 year anniversary!!!
On the Regular version of today's show ...

Some thank you's are in order as we have been on the air for 10 years now. Thank y...

Sex As An Idol #540 from 2021-10-06T09:04:53

Can sex be an idol. How would you know?

A dating couple want to know more about what options are there for birth control as they prepare for the marriage. The pill had too many side effect...

Can’t Turn My Mind Off #539 from 2021-09-29T09:04:02

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea as we discuss the distracted mind, or put another way - how to address the times when you can't turn off you mind.

Learn more about Dr Jamea on her site - http...

All Things Are Permissible #538 from 2021-09-22T09:04:38

A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better?

A husband emails about a wife who has lost all d...

When The Low Desire Initiates #537 from 2021-09-15T09:04:28

Adding music to your sex life in marriage. Join the conversation at my.smrnation.com.

A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on bo...

Not Attracted To My Spouse #536 from 2021-09-08T09:04:23

There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections!

Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year...

Fantasies of a Third #535 from 2021-09-01T11:04:05

A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well.

A wife parents dif...

Are Women More Sexual Than Men? #534 from 2021-08-25T11:04:06

A follow up from an email on last week's show.

A newlywed asks for tips to help prepare or avoid the issues that he hears other couples inevitably face in marriage.

A woman is experi...

Too Quick Too Slow #533 from 2021-08-18T11:04:15

A husband takes too long to orgasm during oral sex, and too quick during PV sex. 

A wife wants help understanding how to help her husband address the length of time it takes him to climax....

Consent #532 from 2021-08-11T11:04:25

Announcing that registration for the 2022 SMR Getaway is open now ... come join us in downtown Indianapolis! Learn more and register here. 

A follow up email from a listener about dealing ...

Best Of SMR: Missionary Position and Love Languages #531 from 2021-08-04T11:04:14

A look back at one of our favorite episodes according to the Nation.

Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from a prior email from a husband who's wife only likes missionary...

Delay Tactics #530 from 2021-07-28T11:04:05

An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it's the husbands fault.

A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex wit...

Crossdressing #529 from 2021-07-21T11:04:27

An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex.

A wife emails asking for how to handle resent...

Wife Won’t Let Husband Masturbate #528 from 2021-07-14T11:04:25

An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly.

Two ema...

Rapid Fire with Longer Answers #527 from 2021-07-07T11:04:09

We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers.

On the Xtended version ...

Part 2 of the Q and A that happen...

Found My Husband’s Dildo #526 from 2021-06-30T11:04:06

An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage.

A wife emails because she found a...

Best Of SMR: Oral Sex and Gagging #525 from 2021-06-23T11:04:54

An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her.

And a voicemail from a new ...

Best Of SMR: Low Desire Wife #524 from 2021-06-16T11:04:41

A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife.

On the Xtended version ....

Touch and Massage #523 from 2021-06-09T11:04:59

A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day

Hostage Taking #522 from 2021-06-02T11:04:11

An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day.

A message fr...

Rapid Fire: Newlywed, Oral, Talking and More #521 from 2021-05-26T11:04:34

Today we try go rapid fire again and still don't get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio

Just a hint of the topics we cover...

No Sex Allowed #520 from 2021-05-19T11:04:52

A voicemail from a husband about their therapist's advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months.

A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm.<...

Dominant or Submissive #519 from 2021-05-12T11:04:50

An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive.

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A husband ...

Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518 from 2021-05-05T11:04:33

How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here.

Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2.

A lower ...

Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517 from 2021-04-28T11:04:24

Everyone get the full show today.

I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex.

To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://...

Rapid Fire Q&A #516 from 2021-04-21T11:04:50

Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio

Just a ...

Optimal Sexual Experiences #515 from 2021-04-14T11:04:22

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage. 

To learn more about Emily visit her site - https://emilyjamea.c...

Lust #514 from 2021-04-07T11:04:03

An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today.

A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has nowfoun...

Edging #513 from 2021-03-31T11:04:19

Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well?

An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his...

Snoring #512 from 2021-03-24T11:04:09

A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves.

An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower des...

Moments of Meeting #511 from 2021-03-17T11:04:41

How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident? 

A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to...

We Aren’t Good Kissers #510 from 2021-03-10T12:04:37

A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.

An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire an...

My Own Taste #509 from 2021-03-03T12:04:33

An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife. 

A husband wants to go down on his wife after they've had intercourse, yet ...

Three Types Of Sex #508 from 2021-02-24T12:04:06

I'm joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage.

To learn more about Irene visit her site - https://www.iren...

Next Wisest Step #507 from 2021-02-17T12:04:19

Please check out the SMRNation Community at my.smrnation.com

Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, wha...

Fantasies About A Wife’s Past #506 from 2021-02-10T12:04:54

A listener joins me on the air to work through why he fantasizes  so much about his wife's past sexual encounters.

On the Xtended version ...

We continue the conversation about fanta...

Allergic to Sex #505 from 2021-02-03T12:04:38

An email from a couple who wonder if allergens can be passed through semen and what are steps to take to prevent this from affecting his wife.

Another discussion of the higher desire and l...

Rather Leave than Cheat #504 from 2021-01-27T12:04:38

A husband feels so stuck in a marriage with really lousy sex that's he's thinking of leaving because he's afraid he'll cheat.

Another husband emails asking for our thoughts on times when t...

Lazy Lover #503 from 2021-01-20T12:04:48

A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage.

An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up.

An email from a wife whos...

Purity Movements #502 from 2021-01-13T12:04:05

Registration for the 2021 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is now open. Click here to learn more. 

An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin ...

Self Exploration #501 from 2021-01-06T12:04:33

As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year?

An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and se...

Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500 from 2020-12-30T12:04:47

Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party!

On the Xtended version ...

What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of...

Simple Dailies #499 from 2020-12-23T12:04:55

A wife emails us to point out that we have missed the boat when it comes to husbands letting themselves go physically and how that impacts sex.

An email from a newlywed with a couple of qu...

Doing It Wrong? #498 from 2020-12-16T12:04:54

Dr Stephen Snyder joins me again to talk about all things sex. Namely, what if we're doing it all wrong?

To learn more about Dr Snyder check out his site https://www.sexualityresource.com/...

Being Dangerous #497 from 2020-12-09T12:04:17

Tripp Lanier, the host of The New Man Podcast, joins me today to talk about how playing it safe in life will dampen, if not destroy passion and energy in life and marriage.

Hear more from ...

Complaint or Request #496 from 2020-12-02T12:04:06

Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request?

An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get ...

Loneliness #495 from 2020-11-25T12:04:13

Dr J.W. Freiberg,"Terry", joins me to discuss the epidemic of loneliness. It is a far too common issue and has negative results on our health and life.

Learn more about Terry at his site h...

Don’t Be Ilcliterate #494 from 2020-11-18T12:04:02

Dr Laurie Mintz joins me again to discuss the route to female orgasms as well as their importance.

Learn more about Laurie here https://www.drlauriemintz.com/

Enjoy the show!

S...

The Dad Edge #493 from 2020-11-11T12:04:10

Larry Hagner from Dad Edge Podcast joins me to discuss to role and importance men play in fatherhood, marriage and the world.

Hear more from Larry here https://gooddadproject.com/podcast/<...

When Was The Last Time…#492 from 2020-11-04T12:04:40

We go through a marriage quiz to see how well we are handling the romantic side of our marriage.

An email from a wife who is growing in self-confidence, yet it's really disrupting her husb...

I Only Orgasm In My Sleep #491 from 2020-10-28T11:04:08

Do you spend money like a Millennial?

An email from a wife who experiences orgasms only in her sleep, and is also married to a narcissist.

On the Xtended version ...

More quest...

Filming Sex #490 from 2020-10-21T11:04:47

An email from a listener asking for our thoughts on if it's okay for her and her husband to film one of their sexual encounters.

An email from a husband wanting to know how to find the mid...

Intimacy With Ease #489 from 2020-10-14T11:04:06

On the Regular version of today's show ...

Jessa Zimmerman joins me today to let the SMRNation know about our free webinar - How To Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT Feeling Pressure...

Mental Illness and Marriage #488 from 2020-10-07T11:04:21

A conversation with Erin Ramachandran, who along with her husband have founded Mental Health Strong. A resource aimed to help married couples when one spouse suffers from a mental illness.

Are We All Liars? #487 from 2020-09-30T11:04:58

A husband who has struggled with his weight all his life emails to tell us about how his wife has told him she is not attracted to him physically and he's afraid his marriage may wind up sexless...

Indecisiveness #486 from 2020-09-23T11:04:56

A caller asking how she can help her husband's performance anxiety issue.

An email from a husband asking about the difference between telling your spouse vs asking.

A wife is wonderi...

Discernment Counseling #485 from 2020-09-16T11:04:03

Dr Marni Feuerman joins me as we discuss the times when couples may need discernment counseling. What is it and how does it work?

Learn more about Dr Marni at her site https://thetalkingso...

I Still Feel Guilt and Shame #484 from 2020-09-09T11:04:58

An email from a listener concerned about some of the guests we have on our show and the fact that their values may go against the values of SMR.

A follow up on the topic of swallowing with...

Sexual Dysfunction #483 from 2020-09-02T11:04:15

Dr Amy Killen joins me to discuss several of the myths that people face when it comes to aging and sex and sexual dysfunctions.

Learn more about Dr Amy on her site - https://dramykillen.co...

Swallowing #482 from 2020-08-26T11:04:11

A voicemail from a wife who doesn't want to swallow, even when her husband is using the line"If you love me you'd be willing to do this."

An email from a husband who found our new App Inti...

The Change Triangle #481 from 2020-08-19T11:04:21

Today Hilary Jacobs Hendel joins me to talk about her book It's Not Always Depression, and the Change Triangle.

You can learn more about Hilary on her site https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.c...

Intimately Us #480 from 2020-08-12T11:04:04

We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us

You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read m...

Everything Isn’t Terrible #479 from 2020-08-05T11:04:36

Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020.

Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/<...

Power Plays #478 from 2020-07-29T11:04:41

A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago. 

A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around h...

Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477 from 2020-07-22T11:04:06

An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with"I have needs."

A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned ove...

31 Days To Great Sex #476 from 2020-07-15T11:04:17

Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me to discuss her new book 31 Ways To Great Sex, available now.
Check out more of Sheila's work here - https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/

On the Xtended vers...

Intention or Action #475 from 2020-07-08T11:04:10

A conversation based on two emails from listeners who are each struggling to understand and navigate a big gap in desire between themselves and their spouse. 

On the Xtended version ... Listen

Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474 from 2020-07-01T11:04:23

Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex.

On the Xtended version ...

Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more...

Mutual Masturbation #473 from 2020-06-24T11:04:20

On the Regular version of today's show ...
An email from a wife who hasdiscovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband. 

What's the di...

Your Marriage Story #472 from 2020-06-17T11:04:15

An email from a husband who loses his erection when the direct stimulation stops. 

A wife wanting to know if there are dangers to porn use in their marriage. 

On the Xtended version ...

Simultaneous Orgasms #471 from 2020-06-10T11:04:46

On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong.

A husband seeks our thoughts on ho...

Securely Attach Your Genitals #470 from 2020-06-03T11:04:06

A voicemail from a wife wanting to increase the erogenous zones on her body.

An email from a wife whose husband only touches her when he wants sex, usually in the middle of the night, leav...

Stress Proof Your Brain #469 from 2020-05-27T11:04:04

Dr Melanie Greenberg joins me to talk about her research surround the brain and stress.

Read more from Melanie on her site - https://drmelaniegreenberg.com/

On the Xtended version .....

Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me #468 from 2020-05-20T11:04:04

An email from a husband asking for ideas on how he show more appreciation to his wife for her supporting him in some stressful times. 

A wife wants to know if there are different ways to c...

Girls and Boys and Sex #467 from 2020-05-13T11:04:14

Peggy Orenstein joins me to talk about her research surround the messages girls and boys are experiencing and have experienced with the subject of sex.

Read more from Peggy on her site - h...

Perfectionism #466 from 2020-05-06T11:04:08

Dr Margaret Rutherford joins me to tackle perfectionism and how it can actually be something that is covering up depression. 

Learn more from Dr Rutherford on her site - https://drmargaret...

Simple But Difficult #465 from 2020-04-29T11:04:34

An email from a husband asking about sex during pregnancy and how they can stay connected and intimate.

A husband is wondering how he can handle rejections so his wife doesn't feel guilty....

Cherish #464 from 2020-04-22T11:04:13

Gary Thomas joins me again to discuss the idea of cherishing your spouse. Listen to hear how this idea transformed his marriage and sex life.

You can learn more about Gary and his books he...

Sex For Emotional Attachment #463 from 2020-04-15T11:04:29

Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me to answer an email from a wife who thinks she may be using sex as a form of emotional attachment and it possibly isn't helpful for her, or her husband.

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Healthy Hedonism #462 from 2020-04-08T11:04:21

A conversation with Dr Nan Wise about her work in the field of sex and sexuality - specifically about the importance of pleasure in life.

You can find more about Dr. Nan on her site http:/...

Quarantine Sex #461 from 2020-04-01T11:04:28

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the stress and issues couples will face in their sex lives during times of quarantine and uncertainty.

You can find more ab...

Marriage in the Time of Quarantine #460 from 2020-03-25T11:04:49

With almost a fifth of the world's population in quarantine or distancing for the next couple of weeks, how do you navigate married life better?

On the Xtended version ...

An email f...

Stress and Sexual Desire #459 from 2020-03-18T11:04:38

Dr Lori Brotto joins me to discuss how stress impacts life and sex. Specifically sexual desire.

Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website - www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social ...

Spouse Won’t Try Anything New #458 from 2020-03-11T11:04:44

Dr Laura Dabney joins me to answer a couple of questions from the SMR Nation.

A husband asks for help in getting his wife to be willing to try new things in sex.

And a wife emails wa...

Too Easy For Your Spouse? #457 from 2020-03-04T12:04:05

A conversation about slowing down in life and marriage.

A question from a husband asking for help with a position they both enjoy but want it to last longer for him/or quicker for her.

Responsive Desire #456 from 2020-02-26T12:04:51

A conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, about all things sex. What's normal? What about responsive desire? Context is king?

Check out Emily's work on her site http...

Question Potpourri #455 from 2020-02-19T12:04:02

A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life. 

Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic.

...

The Female Orgasm #454 from 2020-02-12T12:04:45

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/<...

Daily Self Touching #453 from 2020-02-05T12:04:31

A husband calls in asking for our thoughts about his wife's habit of touching herself most every morning and night.

A newly-wed wife calls wanting help with her infrequent sex life and str...

Labels, Disabilities and Meanings #452 from 2020-01-29T12:04:56

A husband asks for our thought regarding a better term to use when referring to a specific part of his wife's body.

An email from a spouse asking for help in approaching their sex life whe...

Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451 from 2020-01-22T12:04:08

A couple of emails about fantasies ... from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean?

On the Xtended version ...

An email from a wife whose ...

Anal Sex #450 from 2020-01-15T12:04:50

A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it?

Plus an email from a wife wh...

ADHD and Marriage #449 from 2020-01-08T12:04:16

I'm joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here - https://www.adhdmarriage.com/

On the Xtended...

Role Playing #448 from 2020-01-01T12:04:39

Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours?

An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingerie and role playing.<...

Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447 from 2019-12-25T12:04:19

A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex.

On the Xtended version ...

The importance of boundaries in life and marr...

Foreplay For Foreplay #446 from 2019-12-18T12:04:50

Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life.

A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay. Listen

When To Walk Away #445 from 2019-12-11T06:04:13

As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free.

Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding F...

Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444 from 2019-12-04T06:04:51

An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.

Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagin...

Reading List #443 from 2019-11-27T12:04

A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam.

An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.

The postListen

Not Always In The Mood #442 from 2019-11-20T12:04:28

A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships.

Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhu...

Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441 from 2019-11-13T12:04:44

An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling.

Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and ...

Selfish and Needy #440 from 2019-11-06T12:04:08

A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad.

Check out her work ...

We’ve Had This Fight Before #439 from 2019-10-30T11:04:26

On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work ...

Sensate Focus #438 from 2019-10-23T11:04:55

On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Se...

The Lower Desire Wife #437 from 2019-10-16T11:04:49

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more abou...

Metaphors and Sex Therapy #436 from 2019-10-09T11:04:52

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn mo...

Abuse In Marriage #435 from 2019-10-02T11:04:53

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Le...

Trust and Hurt #434 from 2019-09-25T11:04:10

On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in...

Arousal and Desire #433 from 2019-09-18T11:04:04

On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and th...

Sex and the Enneagram #432 from 2019-09-11T11:04:34

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at ann@anngad...

The Challenges of Intimacy #431 from 2019-09-04T11:04:24

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and wo...

The F Word #430 from 2019-08-28T11:04:39

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from listeners asking for our take on the use of the “f” word in married life and sex. A voicemail from a higher desire husband who takes too mu...

Darker Fantasies #429 from 2019-08-21T11:04:33

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails looking for help for he and his wife regarding the fantasies she often turns to for sexual arousal. A caller asking for followup on one ...

Spilled Milk and Differences #428 from 2019-08-14T11:04

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails to share his journey to getting his wife on board to talking more about sex and wonders why he’s not at the same level of desire as befo...

Being There For You #427 from 2019-08-07T11:04:23

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who has repeated attempted to educate her husband about how she wants sex to unfold, yet is still getting little to no foreplay and ...

Reframing and the Orgasm Gap #426 from 2019-07-31T11:04:24

The postReframing and the Orgasm Gap #426appeared first onSexy Marri...

Testing Solidness #425 from 2019-07-24T11:04:06

On today’s regular version of the show … How well do you do at showing the people that matter in your life that they matter? I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover again as we discuss tests that happen...

Trusting After Porn #424 from 2019-07-17T11:04:38

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husba...

Wife Wants Variety #423 from 2019-07-10T11:04:43

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every t...

One Sided Sex In Marriage #422 from 2019-07-03T11:04:17

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sid...

Lasting Longer and Squirting #421 from 2019-06-26T11:04:10

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A husband calls in with 2 questions, how can he last longer during...

Something Worth Wanting #420 from 2019-06-19T11:04:07

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband looking for more information on how to present something worth wanting. A wife wanting to know how to keep triggers from happening in the bedro...

Boundaries #419 from 2019-06-12T11:04:20

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband is looking for how to add more variety to his sex life when his wife has fear of pain during sex. A wife describes a gridlock with her husband ...

Masturbation and Massage #418 from 2019-06-05T11:04:55

On today’s regular version of the show … Two different questions about masturbation. What if it could be reframed as a path forward and what about the woman’s side of this act? Plus a conversati...

Accelerators and Brakes #417 from 2019-05-29T11:04:38

On today’s regular version of the show … We don’t french kiss anymore. How can I get it started again in my marriage? Plus we’re joined by Seth and Melanie Studley from the Anatomy Of Marriage f...

Premature Ejaculation #416 from 2019-05-22T11:04:49

On today’s regular version of the show … How do I help my spouse believe they are attractive when it’s not what they believe about themself? Plus I’m joined by Dr. Ian Kerner, the author of She ...

Is Sex Addiction Real? #415 from 2019-05-15T11:04:24

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails about the pressures that are felt in married life. From changes to sex to foreplay. On the Xtended version … Sex addiction is a term u...

What Is Normal #414 from 2019-05-08T11:04:40

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails from the SMR Nation ranging from how does a wife better handle her husband’s struggle with looking at pornography to how do you addres...

State of the Union #413 from 2019-05-01T11:04:50

On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do when your husband goes straight for the genitalia in foreplay? A caller asking for more information about the State of the Union conversat...

Masturbation and Expectations #412 from 2019-04-24T11:04:51

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it ...

Talking #411 from 2019-04-17T11:04:31

On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the Sexy Marriage Nation asking for help in the conversations that take place in their marriage. An additional voi...

It Takes One To Tango #410 from 2019-04-10T11:04:51

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred...

Tastes and Not Going to Happen #409 from 2019-04-03T11:04:51

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two follow up emails from episode #...

Spectrum Relationships and Giving vs Giving In #408 from 2019-03-27T11:04:44

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Eva Mend...

Oral Sex and Gagging #407 from 2019-03-20T11:04:32

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who gets nause...

Confidence #406 from 2019-03-13T11:04:05

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 5 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband who ...

Hold Onto Yourself #405 from 2019-03-06T12:04:52

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Why didn’t we use the term ...

Cruelty In Marriage #404 from 2019-02-27T12:04:39

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Less than 10 spots available. Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband loo...

Missionary Position and Love Languages #403 from 2019-02-20T12:04:42

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from...

Healing From Betrayal #402 from 2019-02-13T12:04:58

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email looking for our thoughts about his wife’s unwill...

Sex As A Weapon #401 from 2019-02-06T12:04:07

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … What this past weekend’s Super Bowl...

Celebrating 400 Episodes #400 from 2019-01-30T12:04:40

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Celebrating 400 Episodes of Sexy Ma...

Saying Yes #399 from 2019-01-23T12:04:55

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show ...

Desire Differences and Communication #398 from 2019-01-16T12:04:49

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show ...

Repeated Betrayals and Power #397 from 2019-01-09T12:04:17

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show ...

Too Tired For Sex #396 from 2019-01-02T12:04:19

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the show ...

More Wine? #395 from 2018-12-26T12:04:13

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Help us out by taking this short survey … Audience survey. On today’s regular version of the s...

Faking It #394 from 2018-12-19T12:04:54

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … A wife who’s husband is asking for pictures of her to...

Clitoral Orgasms #393 from 2018-12-12T12:04:47

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … We address some feedback we’ve received from the SM N...

Awaken Female Desire #392 from 2018-12-05T12:04:14

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a higher desire wife who’s in a catch-2...

Being Sexy and Connecting #391 from 2018-11-28T12:04

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Do you have to believe you’re sexy before you can be ...

Power and Sexlessness #390 from 2018-11-21T12:04:04

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of callers who feel powerless in their marri...

Getaway and Masturbation #389 from 2018-11-14T12:04:47

On today’s regular version of the show … Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Plus an email from a listener asking about masturbati...

When Sex Seems Like Work #388 from 2018-11-07T12:04:10

On today’s regular version of the show … A lengthy conversation with Jessa Zimmerman about how sex can be a lot of work, as well as some discussion of the Higher and Lower Desire paradigm when i...

Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband #387 from 2018-10-31T11:04:18

On today’s regular version of the show … How to break the negative interaction cycles that can happen in marriage. Plus a conversation with a married couple that’s part of the Sexy Marriage Nati...

Masculine and Feminine Energy #386 from 2018-10-24T11:04:50

On today’s regular version of the show … More conversation about what do you do when trust is broken in marriage based on a callers response to a previous episode. Sexy Halloween – what role can...

Sexual Attraction and Fantasy with Dr. Julie Slattery #385 from 2018-10-17T11:04:29

On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do if you find you’re not sexually attracted to your spouse? We have emails from both genders. A Second Opinion segment. Dr. Julie Slattery j...

Seven Year Itch #384 from 2018-10-10T11:04:04

SEXY MARRIAGE RADIO TURNS SEVEN THIS WEEK!!!! On today’s regular version of the show … A man calls in who was able to shut down desire and arousal as a kid because of the guilt associated with t...

Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383 from 2018-10-04T11:04:56

Marriage is mostly on the job training. And there’s a purpose for the relationship that not enough people are talking about. Marriage is designed to help you grow up. Period. Today I’m a guest o...

Repeated Betrayals and The Wife Is The Higher Desire #382 from 2018-10-01T11:04:10

A caller asks us for help in understanding why he would seek attention elsewhere when his marriage is really good. And a wife calls trying to understand what she can do to get her husband intere...

Sex After 50 With Laurie Betito #381 from 2018-09-27T11:04:55

Aging impacts us all. It’s inescapable. But that doesn’t mean sex is over or even fades. Dr. Laurie Betito joins me today to discuss ways to keep sex going after you’ve turned 50. Enjoy the show...

Unilateral Marriages #380 from 2018-09-24T11:04:18

What do you do when you find yourself stuck against a stone wall in marriage? And that wall is your spouse and their unwillingness or disinterest in participating in sex? Also, a woman calls in ...

Puppy Dogs and Pussy Cats With Sheri Winston #379 from 2018-09-20T11:04:08

There are differences between men and women. These differences can sometimes cause some issues in marriage. What if the differences can be captured with the images of a puppy dog and a pussy cat...

Emptiness vs Fullness #378 from 2018-09-17T11:04:08

A member of the SM Nation adds to the conversation regarding the optimum penis size. Is there a Sexy Marriage Diet? Translation, foods that will aid your sex life. Pinching. It may not be what y...

Marriage Roundtable: Breaking Free of Ruts #377 from 2018-09-13T11:04:41

Life has ruts and routine. So do relationships, families and marriages. So how do you break out of these ruts? And when should you? That’s what we discuss today – and we’re joined by our friends...

Someone Has To Lead #376 from 2018-09-10T11:04:01

Hear several callers each wanting assistance with how to approach rejection, engagement from their spouse during sex, and how to handle being the Higher or the Lower Desire in the marriage. Plus...

The Ultimate Intimacy App #375 from 2018-09-06T11:04:52

We continue on the topic of intimacy today. Although we also add in some technology. The Ultimate Intimacy App is a fantastic resource for marriage and sex. It’s a great blend of provocative and...

Tastes, Body Is Not My Own, More Foreplay #374 from 2018-09-03T11:04:47

Today we cover several different topics as well as a follow-up from last week’s show. What can help change the taste of my semen? A husband and wife disagreeing about the scripture “Your body is...

Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373 from 2018-08-30T11:04:56

Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You ...

Semen, Breasts and Fantasy #372 from 2018-08-27T11:04:37

Today is another potpourri show as well as a couple of follow-ups from last week’s show. A wife emails us for help in how to better handle her reaction to her husband’s semen. Another emailer as...

Broken Trust #371 from 2018-08-23T11:04:37

Unfortunately everyone is likely going to face the topic of today’s show. Betrayal, deception and the pain it creates in relationships are far too common. That’s why Dr. Tim Cole joins me for to...

Honesty, Ickiness and Waited Now Terrified #370 from 2018-08-20T11:04:13

Today is a potpourri show where we cover three different emails. How do you tell a spouse the truth when they ask you “Was it good for you?” Some thoughts for helping with the ickiness of sex. A...

Better Sex Through Mindfulness With Lori Brotto #369 from 2018-08-16T11:04:07

There are many shows and books and articles aimed at helping you achieve better sex. Sexy Marriage Radio exists to try and help as well. And throughout the 6 1/2 years worth of shows we’ve yet t...

Negotiation In Marriage #368 from 2018-08-13T11:04:05

Negotiation can be a part of business. Even part of relationships. But what if it’s actually part of the growth process in life and marriage? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 2...

Sex, God and Church With Tina Schermer Sellers #367 from 2018-08-09T11:04:48

Why is there so much shame surrounding sex and sexuality? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers joins me today as we discuss her research and work around this subject. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Seller...

Toys, Erotica and Fantasies #366 from 2018-08-06T11:04:54

We have discussed the use of toys and fantasy in the past, but this time we venture into the topics a little differently, and also addressthe world of erotica. Enjoy the show! Looking for more o...

Love Worth Making With Stephen Snyder #365 from 2018-08-02T11:04:15

Dr. Stephen Snyder joins me today as we discuss what can make sex in a long lasting marriage fantastic. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Snyder’s book here – Love Worth Making Watch the show on Y...

Living In Community With Others–#364 from 2018-07-30T11:04:26

We all live among other people – but how deep are we really in a community of others? There’s tremendous benefit to living life on a deeper level with others. That’s where we go today. Enjoy the...

Good Girls And Sex With Sheila Wray Gregoire #363 from 2018-07-26T11:04:46

There are many women who grew up thinking sex was something bad, and they’ve carried this belief into adulthood and marriage. Today Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we discuss how sex is a benef...

When One Spouse Is Too Busy #362 from 2018-07-23T11:04:49

We all live busy lives. Perhaps too busy. But what happens when one spouse is just too busy for what they say they want in marriage? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor:...

Spirituality and Sexuality With Chuck MacKnee #361 from 2018-07-19T11:04:14

Is there a link between spirituality and sexuality? Can that link be greater than we think? Dr Chuck MacKnee joins me on today’s episode as we discuss these questions and discover the answer is ...

When Roles Reverse #360 from 2018-07-16T11:04:56

There are roles each spouses play in marriage and family life. What happens when the traditional roles you play get reversed? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This e...

Grief and Sex With Elise Thompson #359 from 2018-07-12T11:04:47

Grief is a reality of life. And when one or both spouses are directly impacted by loss it can affect the marriage in several ways. My colleague Elise Thompson, LMFT joins me to discuss this toda...

Teaching Intimacy To Your Kids #358 from 2018-07-09T11:04:02

We are big proponents of teaching our children about sex. But an emailer asks us how do you teach them about intimacy? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Ra...

Seeking Your Pleasure In Sex With J Parker #357 from 2018-07-05T11:04:16

On today’s episode I’m joined by J. Parker or Hot, Holy, Humorous – a blogger, podcaster and author who leads the conversation about how wives should seek their own pleasure in sex. You can find...

Wedding Vows, Sex Vows and Erotic Vows #356 from 2018-07-02T11:04:58

Everyone is likely familiar with the idea of wedding vows. The commitments we make to our spouse regarding our life we’re beginning together. But what about vows for our sex life? Or our erotic ...

How To Awaken Desire #355 from 2018-06-28T11:04:48

On today’s episode I’m joined by Laurie Watson, a LMFT, Sex therapist and author who leads the conversation about how to create desire in marriage, specifically for women. You can find more of L...

When The Dynamics Of Sex Are Unfair #354 from 2018-06-25T11:04:15

There are many things about life that may seem fair, or unfair. What about the dynamics of sex that may not seem fair? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Ra...

Simplicity, Habits and Marriage #353 from 2018-06-21T11:04:43

On today’s episode I’m joined by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. He and I discuss how his journey of simplicity and habits has impacted his life, marriage and family. Find Leo’s work at Zen Habits. E...

Conditions and Imbalance in Marriage #352 from 2018-06-18T11:04:57

Today we cover a couple of emails from the Sexy Marriage Nation. Are there conditions in marriage? And love? How do you address major unbalances in marriage? Enjoy the show. Editor’s Note: Due t...

More Love, Less Conflict #351 from 2018-06-14T11:04:54

On today’s episode I’m joined by Johnathan Robinson, a psychotherapist and a professional speaker who leads our conversation about how to create more love with less conflict in our relationships...

Libido and Oxytocin #350 from 2018-06-11T11:04:56

There are many times we receive an email about how a spouse has no, or low libido. This will impact the relationship and their life, but is their baseline level of libido that important? Or is t...

Becoming Cliterate #349 from 2018-06-07T11:04:26

Today the Sexy Marriage Nation hears from Dr. Laurie Mintz, a professor at the University of Florida and a Licensed Psychologist. Her new book is the topic of our conversation – Becoming Clitera...

Our Journey Of 25 Years #348 from 2018-06-04T11:04:20

We celebrated 25 years of marriage last week! Join us as Pam and I discuss some of how our 25 years of marriage together have impacted us, and how Sexy Marriage Radio has impacted us as well. En...

Menopause and Marriage #347 from 2018-05-31T11:04:42

Today’s show is a continuation of the menopause discussion. This week Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley joins me to explore the subject from her view as an OB-GYN. Find more about Dr Carol here. Enjoy t...

Masturbation In Married Life #346 from 2018-05-28T11:04:53

Today my wife Pam and I follow from last week’s episode on sex toys in marriage. This time we discuss more about the use of toys but land more in the area of masturbation and married life. Enjoy...

Menopause and Hormones #345 from 2018-05-24T11:04:48

One topic has shown up a lot recently in the Inbox of feedback@sexymarriagereadio.com is how to address menopause and hormones. Well today I have Nancy Houston, LPC and Certified Sex Therapist j...

When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344 from 2018-05-21T11:04:46

Sex toys are great! Or they’re a threat! Join us as Pam and I discuss the history of vibrators and answer a couple of emails about confidence and sex toys. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show her...

Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343 from 2018-05-17T11:04:14

Our first ever Marriage Roundtable! Today Pam and I are joined by Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and Seth and Melanie Studley of The Anatomy of Marriage. In this episode ...

Talking About Sex With The One You Have It With #342 from 2018-05-14T11:04:56

Talking about sex is an important aspect of marital, and sexual satisfaction in life. But it is also a difficult conversation for some to being, get through, or feel like they get anywhere with....

Communication of Desire #341 from 2018-05-10T11:04:23

Communication is a big deal in life, and marriage. Everything we do (and don’t do) communicates. So how does this all play out when it comes to our desires in marriage? When it comes to sex in m...

Welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio 3.0 #340 from 2018-05-07T11:04:07

WELCOME to SMR 3.0!!!!! And yes, it’s Monday and there’s a new episode. Why? You may ask. Listen to the show to hear all about the new things happening in SMR 3.0. Or, watch the show here on You...

SMR#339: Sexually Confident Husband from 2018-05-02T11:04:55

Today we tackle a couple of emails following up the Pain During Intercourse Episode and then cover a voicemail on the idea of regaining your sexual confidence as a husband when his wife says she...

SMR#338: Sexual Compatibility from 2018-04-25T11:04:56

What exactly does it mean to be compatible? Specifically sexually compatible? That’s what we explore today. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. http...

SMR#337: Authenticity and Saying No from 2018-04-18T11:04:27

Today we have a couple of calls – one with a great idea to spice up your TV watching and other asking how do you be authentic in your life while struggling to say yes or no to sex with their hig...

SMR#336: Pain During Intercourse from 2018-04-11T11:04:40

There are times when sex is not pleasurable at all. In fact there are women who experience pain during sex. Today I’m joined by a colleague, Debby Wade, LMFT, LPC who works with women and couple...

SMR#335: A Sexual Moratorium from 2018-04-04T11:04:22

Perhaps you’ve heard of this idea, or not. What would happen in your marriage if you took an extended, purposeful break from sex in your marriage? It may surprise you. Plus a couple of voicemail...

SMR#334: Defensiveness In Sex from 2018-03-28T11:04:48

Today my first co-host of Sexy Marriage Radio joins me on the air. Gina Parris and I discuss the differences between higher and lower desire in sex through the lens of offense and defense. Enjoy...

SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create from 2018-03-21T11:04:29

There are many differences between spouses in marriage. Higher vs Lower Desire. Initiating vs Responding. Connecting to be interested in sex vs sex to feel connected. Today my wife Pam and I dis...

SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers from 2018-03-14T11:04:13

Today my wife Pam and I cover a couple of related topics … What does a husband do when his wife doesn’t initiate sex? And an email from a listener asking for more information about bringing trig...

SMR#331: Looking Back And Forward from 2018-03-07T12:04:30

Join us for Shannon’s farewell episode as we look back on our journey together on the show – and a brief look forward towards what is yet to come. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episod...

SMR#330: Priming the Pump from 2018-02-28T12:04:51

There are many times when one spouse wants the other to change something, stop something or start something. Losing weight, better diet, more initiation, etc. So how does the Higher Desire spous...

SMR#329: Mindsets Toward Sex from 2018-02-21T12:04:36

Have you ever looked at the mindset you have towards your sex life? That’s what we explore in this episode. Plus, there’s an important announcement towards the end of the show. __________ Sponso...

SMR#328: I Want You To Want Me from 2018-02-14T12:04:52

It’s a common human desire to feel wanted. But what most often keeps us from feeling this way in marriage? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage...

SMR#327: Past Used Against You from 2018-02-07T12:04:09

What happens when your past (or a fantasy you’ve shared) is used against you by your spouse? Shannon is back to help me explore. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by ...

SMR#326: Positive Emotional Tension from 2018-01-31T12:04:08

Dr. Robert Glover joins me again as we discuss the idea of creating positive emotional tension in married life. Check out more of his work at https://www.drglover.com\ Enjoy the show. __________...

SMR#325: Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway and Initiation from 2018-01-24T12:04:47

Announcing the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2018! June 21-24 at the Marriott Solana in Westlake, TX (just north of DFW Airport). This is our fourth annual getaway and it looks to be one of the be...

SMR#324: Birthday Sex, Shower Sex, Oral Sex from 2018-01-17T12:04:02

Emails from listeners … I’m fascinated by the differences between higher and lower desires – particularly about Birthday Sex. A discussion about the logistics of shower sex. And how does a wife ...

SMR#323: Lingerie For Your Bed from 2018-01-10T12:04:29

This month we have a new sponsor for SMR – Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet® designed to help you let go and experience more in your intimate moments in marriage. Today I’m joined by the creators of ...

SMR#322: Kids and Money in Married Life from 2018-01-03T12:04:23

Voicemails from two listeners … What are some tips to help recapture married life and sex before kids? How can we approach money in our married life better in 2018? Enjoy the show. __________ Sp...

SMR#321: Helpful Tips For Married Life from 2017-12-27T12:04:43

Email from a listener … What are some things you’d recommend for young married couples (or every couple) since you’re wife is on air with you now and you’ve been married for almost 25 years? We ...

SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex from 2017-12-20T12:04:46

Voicemail and email from listeners today … What is the difference between longing vs lusting? (@ 2:30 mark) Tips for sex over the Holidays, especially when traveling with family. (@ 27:33 mark) ...

SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection from 2017-12-13T12:04:28

Voicemails from listeners today … What can you do to establish a deeper connection after discovery of pornography use? And a caller who is interested in how to keep a deeper connection with his ...

SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire from 2017-12-06T12:04:16

Voicemails from a couple of listeners today … How do you get back to normal sex after pregnancy? How do you deal with being the higher desire when your spouse responds to your levels with “But w...

SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy from 2017-11-29T12:04:44

Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … What makes married sex so great? How to feel cherished and loved. Breaking the intergenerational Nice Guy trait. My wife Pam joins me on this ...

SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments from 2017-11-22T12:04:30

Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … Animals in bed. No kissing in the marriage, even during sex. My spouse will not accept my compliments. My wife Pam joins me on this episode ag...

SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage from 2017-11-15T12:04:35

We’ve covered the topic of pornography on several past shows, but not quite in this way. What do you do after you discover your spouse’s porn usage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode to unpac...

SMR#314: Marriage Undone Then Redone from 2017-11-08T12:04:59

Today I’m joined by Tray and Melody Lovvorn of Undone Redone, a podcast and ministry willing to wade into the messiness of life and marriage. Listen to their story of how their marriage ended in...

SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance from 2017-11-01T11:04:05

Maintenance is a known requirement when it comes to our cars, homes, and other things we own. But what about our relationships? Especially our marriage? What are the ways we can practice mainten...

SMR#312: The Nice Guy from 2017-10-25T11:04:04

I’ve talked about the idea of the Nice Guy before on Sexy Marriage Radio, today I’m joined by a friend and mentor of mine Dr. Robert Glover. He’s the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. In this epis...

SMR#311: Vanilla Fantasies from 2017-10-18T11:04:36

There are people and couples who may not have fantasies, or if they do they are very vanilla. So what do you do if this is you, or you’re married to them? That’s what we discuss today. Enjoy the...

SMR#310: The Silence Is Killing Me, Part 2 from 2017-10-11T11:04:27

In case you missed the beginning of our discussion on this idea, check it out here. Today we continue with some practical ways you can confront the silence that many couples face in married life...

SMR#309: The Silence Is Killing Me from 2017-10-04T11:04:04

An email from a listener helps set the stage for this episode. One answer to the conflict we have in marriage surrounding sex could be one thing, but it could also another thing that all of us w...

SMR#308: Listener Emails–The D Word, Spouse Is My Anything, Oral Sex from 2017-09-27T11:04:35

Listener driven radio happens this week. We cover emails about The D Word, can my spouse be my anything, and oral sex. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriag...

SMR#307: I Do Not Know What I Want from 2017-09-20T11:04:03

There are times in life, sometimes many times, when we may not know what I want. What do I do when this happens in my sex life? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a...

SMR#306: Sex and Infertility from 2017-09-13T11:04:33

There are many couples who struggle with infertility issues. But what makes this struggle even greater is the way this struggle impacts the marriage’s sex life. That’s what we discuss this week....

SMR#305: Can Marriage Be Solved? from 2017-09-06T11:04:43

There are many times when we fall victim to the belief that marriage is an issue that can be solved. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feed...

SMR#304: My Spouse Is My Everything from 2017-08-30T11:04:54

Far too often we have placed unrealistic expectations and requirements on marriage and our spouse. What has been the fall out from this pressure? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show...

SMR#303: Redefining A Stud from 2017-08-23T11:04:54

There are many definitions of a stud (not talking about building materials). So how do you define what makes a stud? Or makes someone sexy? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. ____...

SMR#302: Handling Regrets in Marriage from 2017-08-16T11:04:07

Regret is something humans face in many facets of life and relationship. But how do we handle regret better in marriage? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a questi...

SMR#301: Abstinence and Married Life Follow Up from 2017-08-09T11:04:23

Several episodes ago we talked about the abstinence movement and its impact on married life. This show resulted in lots of emails from our listeners. Because of the way the conversation was hear...

SMR#300: Episode 300! from 2017-08-02T11:04:41

EPISODE 300!!!! What a great milestone. Listen as we celebrate this accomplishment – live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedba...

SMR#299: Overreacting To Triggers from 2017-07-26T11:04:15

Overreactions run rampant in marriage. And it can cause quite a bit of trouble in like. So how do you get better hold of overreactions to triggers in life and marriage? That’s what we discuss th...

SMR#298: Self-Soothing from 2017-07-19T11:04:31

One of the main ideas that will help grow us up is our ability to learn how to self-soothe. What exactly does this look like? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Se...

SMR#297: Men Can Also Be Crock-Pots from 2017-07-12T11:04:02

It has been said that women are like crock-pots and men are like microwaves. But what if men are like crock-pots as well? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy M...

SMR#296: Abstinence and Married Sex from 2017-07-05T11:04:03

Many listeners may have been raised with an abstinence message when it came to sex before marriage. While this message is important – it can also have some unintended consequences. That’s what w...

SMR#295: Antidepressants and Sex from 2017-06-28T11:04:58

One theme in our Inbox keeps being repeated, how medications for depression, anxiety and the like impact sex life in marriage. It can be a real issue. But there are some things you can do that w...

SMR#294: Power of the Third Follow Up from 2017-06-21T11:04:41

In episode 292 we interviewed a listener and his struggle with the power of the third in his marriage. Based on feedback from several listeners, this concept deserves to be explored more. Here y...

SMR#293: He Comes First from 2017-06-14T11:04:53

We have scripts that we follow in married sex. One of the most common would be she comes first. What if he comes first? Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarria...

SMR#292: The Power of The Third from 2017-06-07T11:04:55

One thought we have talked about is this idea of “the power of the third.” The idea that we are trying to live fully alive lives, which will possibly be noticed by others. In this episode a list...

SMR#291: Potpourri Feedback from Listeners from 2017-05-31T11:04:54

Sexy Marriage Radio listeners are the best in the world. Especially when they call us to task and keep us in check. Like today’s show where we answer some criticism from several listeners. Enjoy...

SMR#290: Security and Desire from 2017-05-24T11:04:19

We have discussed how women are security seeking creatures and when a husband’s job outlook fluctuates it could impact security. Today we are joined by a caller who wants help increasing her des...

SMR#289: Solidness from 2017-05-17T11:04:12

One of our challenges is for us as married people to be more solid. So what does solidness mean? That’s what we discuss. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – Jun...

SMR#288: Sexual Laziness from 2017-05-10T11:04:55

Laziness can be something many people face in life. But what about in marriage? In sex? That’s what we cover in today’s episode. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaw...

SMR#287: Sexless Marriages–Power And Control from 2017-05-03T11:04:29

Last week we covered Sexless Marriages, and we struck a nerve with several of our listeners. Lots of times what is really happening in a sexless marriage comes down to power and control. That’s ...

SMR#286: Sexless Marriages from 2017-04-26T11:04:09

We have episodes on this topic in the archives, but it’s so worth covering again. The sexless marriage. It’s quite a bind – for both spouses. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marr...

SMR#285: Soft and Hard and Scheduling from 2017-04-19T11:04:09

Soft and hard – the words can bring very different thoughts to mind. Especially within the context of sex. Same with the word scheduling. Want to know what meaning we attach to these words? List...

SMR#284: The Dance of Desire Differences from 2017-04-12T11:04:19

This week we are joined by a listener looking for help in understanding the differences in desire levels and the dance that causes in his marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sex...

SMR#283: Americans Are Having Less Sex from 2017-04-05T11:04:37

Research from late last year states that Americans are having less sex that they were a couple of decades ago. Why do you supposed that is? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Enjoy the show...

SMR#282: Pursuing vs. Asking from 2017-03-29T11:04:36

To ask for sex or pursue it. It can be quite the quandary. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Reg...

SMR#281: Cuckolding from 2017-03-22T11:04:03

Perhaps you’ve never heard about cuckolding. Well, after today’s show that will no longer be the case. Enjoy. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bir...

SMR#280: Sexual Confidence Or Vulnerability from 2017-03-15T11:04:25

Another listener joins us for this episode. Join us as Molly asks how she can increase her sexual confidence. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25,...

SMR#279: What Is It Like To Have Sex With You? from 2017-03-08T12:04:37

We have asked this question before … Would you want to be married to you? Today we ask – What is it like to have sex with you? Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Geta...

SMR#278: Low Desire But Likes The Chase from 2017-03-01T12:04:17

This week a listener joins us on the air to explore her issue of feeling like she is the low desire spouse, yet wants to be the chaser in the marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the...

SMR#277: Trust Equals Lust from 2017-02-22T12:04:44

Trust equals lust. But trust isn’t just about infidelity or affairs. It is so much more. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register _____...

SMR#276: Dirty Talk, RV Sex, Dealing With Rejection from 2017-02-15T12:04:14

It’s been a while since we’ve done a potpourri show. In this week’s episode we cover three different emails from listeners: Dirty talk RV sex Dealing with rejection Enjoy the show. Interested in...

SMR#275: Spouse Shuts Down Because of Past Abuse from 2017-02-08T12:04:18

The things that happen to us when we’re young can impact us for a long time. In today’s episode we discuss an email from a listener that faces shutting down sexually when things get too close to...

SMR#274: 2017 SMR Getaway from 2017-02-01T12:04:09

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching? Have you thought about what you can do to enhance your relationship? What about coming to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, June 22-25, 2017? Register to Geta...

SMR#273: Behind Your Spouse’s Back from 2017-01-25T12:04:30

Some things happen behind your spouse’s back. But what about when those things actually involve them, or betray them? That’s what we talk about in this episode. Interested in going to the Sexy M...

SMR#272: Being Vulnerable With You from 2017-01-18T12:04:08

Each week you guys faithfully tune into our show. You email, you ask questions, you give feedback and you support us. This week we offer up a new level of vulnerability with you and share what’s...

SMR#271: Tests in Marriage from 2017-01-11T12:04:53

Perhaps you don’t think of some aspects of the marriage as tests, but there are things that happen that may in fact be just that. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question?...

SMR#270: The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy from 2017-01-04T12:04:33

Welcome to 2017! Interested in a new resource that will help take your marriage to the next level? Consider joining the Sexy Marriage Radio Academy That’s what we cover in this episode. Join the...

SMR#269: How The High Desire Wife Gets In Her Own Way from 2016-12-28T12:04:33

There are many couples that face the dilemma of the the wife being the high desire partner. While the dynamic between the high desire and low desire has some similarities when she is the high de...

SMR#268: How the High Desire Gets In Their Own Way from 2016-12-21T12:04:13

We have talked at length about the high desire and the low desire. Many times the low desire partner gets all the focus, but there are some things the high desire does that gets in their own way...

SMR#267: 10 Hot Spots To Touch from 2016-12-14T12:04:04

There are many areas worth touching when it comes to foreplay and sex. But what about some areas that may get overlooked? That’s what we cover in this episode. To check out the couple’s massage ...

SMR#266: Redefining Normal from 2016-12-07T12:04:47

Normal. What exactly does that mean? This question is particularly troubling sometimes when it comes to marriage and sex That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us...

SMR#265: How To Connect When You Don’t Agree from 2016-11-30T12:04:57

The political season has given way to the Holiday Season – but what do you do when the prior season found you and your spouse (or family) on opposite sides? How do you connect when you simply do...

SMR#264: Naked Marriage, Getaway, and SMR Academy from 2016-11-23T12:04:42

Today we take care of a little house-keeping. There are some great things happening at Sexy Marriage Radio … The Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2017 Bed Buddy Club Members can register now (you wil...

SMR#263: Books That Shaped Our View, Part 2 from 2016-11-16T12:04:15

Last week we covered several books that helped shape our views about marriage, sexuality and our role as counselors. This week is part two of our list. Enjoy. Shannon’s books: Arousal – Michael ...

SMR#262: Books That Shaped Our View from 2016-11-09T12:04:09

There are many things that influence and define our view or life, marriage, and sex. In today’s episode we discuss the impactful books that helped shape us professionally. Enjoy. Shannon’s books...

SMR#261: Knowing vs Caring, Part 2 from 2016-11-02T11:04:28

There is a difference between knowing something and caring about something. In episode #257 we began this conversation, today we expand it. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexyma...

SMR#260: Bids For Relationship from 2016-10-26T11:04:08

We make bids every day. Some are more overt and straight-forward than others. So how do bids play out in your marriage? What’s that? You don’t know what a bid is? Then listen to today’s episode....

SMR#259: When A Spouse Does Not Like To Talk from 2016-10-19T11:04:47

In every marriage relationship there is a talker and a no-talker (or a talk-less talker). This can create a great deal of angst both within you and between you. That’s what we discuss in today’s...

SMR#258: Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 5! from 2016-10-12T11:04:17

On October 10, 2011 Sexy Marriage Radio hit the airwaves! Join us this week as we celebrate 5 years! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriag...

SMR#257: Knowing vs. Caring from 2016-10-05T11:04:35

Many of us believe that if our spouse knew what we struggle with or what we need then they would offer it or change it. But what if they do know and we interpret that as they don’t care? That’s ...

SMR#256: Fetishes from 2016-09-28T11:04:54

What’s a fetish? If you don’t know, be sure to listen. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radi...

SMR#255: Stop Shoulding On Yourself from 2016-09-21T11:04:15

Shoulds are everywhere. Far too often it’s our shoulds that cause the most frustration and pain. How often do the shoulds impact your marriage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________...

SMR#254: Boldly Go Where You Haven’t Gone Before from 2016-09-14T11:04:05

Routine plays a role in life. But it also causes boredom. So how can you “boldly go” where you haven’t gone before? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at...

SMR#253: Amateur Videos from 2016-09-07T11:04:33

We are big advocates for spicing things up in sex. That’s part of why Sexy Marriage Radio exists. But what about spicing it up with videos or cameras? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. ___...

SMR#252: Porn and ED from 2016-08-31T11:04:56

We have several shows on the effects of porn and marriage, but what is the relationship between porn and ED? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedba...

SMR#251: Orgasm Is A Poor Litmus Test For Great Sex from 2016-08-24T11:04:30

Orgasm gets lots of focus when it comes to sex. But what if orgasm is actually a horrible litmus test when it comes to what makes great sex? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Go...

SMR#250: When Sex Is Painful from 2016-08-17T11:04:21

Sex can be a lot of things. Some of them good, some bad. What about when sex is painful? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio...

SMR#249: Sexual Courage from 2016-08-10T11:04

Courage surrounds a lot of things. But what about sexual courage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Ma...

SMR#248: Doing The Best You Can from 2016-08-03T11:04:26

You’ve likely heard about the idea of people doing the best they can with what they have, but what about when people don’t? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Ema...

SMR#247: Keeping a Marital High from 2016-07-27T11:04:19

Most everyone has experienced an emotional high in life, or marriage. The euphoria of a vacation, a getaway, a great weekend. So how do you keep it going? That’s what we discuss in today’s show....

SMR#246: Sex Hacks from 2016-07-20T11:04:44

A hack is something that makes things easier or improves it. So what are some good sex hacks? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriage...

SMR#245: How Is A Relationship With God Sexual? from 2016-07-13T11:04:52

My guess is this isn’t a question you’ve asked yourself? But we did while at the SMR Getaway and it lead to some great discussions among the listeners who attended. That’s what we discuss in tod...

SMR#244: The Importance of Emotional Intimacy from 2016-07-06T11:04:56

Intimacy is something most everyone seeks. But what does intimacy really mean? Is it physical, or emotional? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedba...

SMR#243: The Importance of Physical Intimacy from 2016-06-29T11:04:02

Intimacy is something most everyone seeks. But what’s so important about the physical aspects of intimacy in marriage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us...

SMR#242: Getting Your Spouse In The Mood from 2016-06-22T11:04:03

There can be a lot of turmoil surround the idea of “being in the mood.” Specifically when you may be in the mood and your spouse isn’t. So who’s job is it to help get your spouse in the mood? Th...

SMR#241: Guilt and Shame from 2016-06-15T11:04:34

There are many different meanings associated with sex and sexuality. And not all of them are good. Especially, guilt and shame. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question?...

SMR#240: Staycation Sex from 2016-06-08T11:04:26

Summer is here! Time for sun, fun, and sex. If you don’t plan on a vacation this summer, have you thought about planning a staycation? What about staycation sex? That’s what we discuss in today’...

SMR#239: Three Different Types of Sex from 2016-06-01T11:04:20

Based on listener emails we’ve been asked about several different types of sex. Today we discuss three. Which ones are they? You’ll have to listen. Last chance to register for the 2016 Sexy Marr...

SMR#238: Surviving an Affair from 2016-05-25T11:04:49

This seems like a logical follow-up to last week’s show … surviving an affair. If your relationship has experienced betrayal, then you should listen to hear about a great way to address healing ...

SMR#237: Old Flames from 2016-05-18T11:04:46

There are times when an old flame re-enters your world. Or you intentionally seek them out. But be warned: this can be one of the most destructive things to your marriage. That what we talk abou...

SMR#236: Married To A Workaholic from 2016-05-11T11:04:45

Some seasons of life require one spouse to spend long hours at work, or school, or both plus more things that take them away from the relationship and family. What do you do when you’re married ...

SMR#235: Long Distance Relationship Tips from 2016-05-04T11:04:56

There are times when you can’t be with your spouse, either because of business or military service or schooling, etc. So how do you maintain a steamy connection while you’re apart? That what we ...

SMR#234: It’s Always About Sex With You from 2016-04-27T11:04:14

Perhaps you’ve heard (or said) this before. It can become quite a bind for both parties when you are gridlocked over sex. In today’s show, we address a couple of emails on this very subject. Reg...

SMR#233: Ticklishness from 2016-04-20T11:04:36

A topic we have not covered on Sexy Marriage Radio, ticklishness. It can be something that adds playfulness and laughter, or it can derail foreplay and sex. That’s what we address in today’s epi...

SMR#232: Forgiving Yourself from 2016-04-13T11:04:55

Our episodes on forgiveness really hit home for many of our listeners. But there was one aspect we didn’t cover, forgiving yourself. That’s what we address in today’s episode. Registration is op...

SMR#231: A Potpourri of Emails from 2016-04-06T11:04:24

We have some of the greatest listeners and the greatest emailers, so today we simply spend the entire show answering emails. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You ca...

SMR#230: Forgiveness Part Two from 2016-03-30T11:04:22

We received a lot of email from our previous show about forgiving and forgetting, so much so that in this episode we answer emails from listeners about last week’s topic. Registration is open fo...

SMR#229: Forgiving and Forgetting from 2016-03-23T11:04:07

Forgiving is a vital part of marriage. At least a marriage that lasts and thrives. But what about the relationship between forgiveness and forgetting? That’s what we discuss. Registration is ope...

SMR#228: Rebooting Your Sex Life from 2016-03-16T11:04:24

Whenever you have trouble with your computer, you’ve likely heard the statement, “Did you try rebooting?” What if you did this with your sex life? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open fo...

SMR#227: A Chronically Negative Spouse from 2016-03-09T12:04:58

Every marriage has one person who sees the silver lining in things, or who is a half-full kind of person, or is always optimistic. That means the other spouse is the negative one. Which one are ...

SMR#226: Taking The Lead from 2016-03-02T12:04:58

There will always be one person who leads. Is that you or your spouse? And what’s the importance of being a good lead? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Rad...

SMR#225: One Sided Sex from 2016-02-24T12:04:43

In response to last week’s episode, today we answer several listener responses. What’s one sided sex? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You c...

SMR#224: Sex When Your Spouse Isn’t Into It from 2016-02-17T12:04:43

There are times when sex will happen and one spouse isn’t into it. Does this mean something is wrong? More importantly, what do you do when this happens in your sex life? That’s what we discuss ...

SMR#223: Different Types of Sex from 2016-02-10T12:04:25

When you look at your sex life, you’ll likely see that there are several different types of sex happening. What is your most prominent type? That’s what we discuss in this week’s episode. PLUS: ...

SMR#222: The 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway from 2016-02-03T12:04:44

Today we are excited to announce we have finalized all the details for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! Registration is now open for Bed Buddy Club members, everyone else gets the chance to...

SMR#221: Melt Your Spouse With Your Hands from 2016-01-27T12:04:30

Who doesn’t like the idea of your spouse melting in your hands? There’s a great way to help make this happen, and that’s through massage. Today Shannon and Corey are joined by Denis Merkas of Co...

SMR#220: Relationships Are Co-Created from 2016-01-20T12:04:10

A foundational belief I have is that everything that happens in relationships is co-created. This doesn’t mean causality – but each person plays a role in what happens in married life. Not sure ...

SMR#219: Rituals vs Ruts from 2016-01-13T12:04:48

Rituals play a role in most everything we do as people. It’s what helps create the comfort of life we strive for. But what happens when these rituals become ruts? That’s what Shannon and Corey t...

SMR#218: Sex 101 from 2016-01-06T12:04:50

It may seem odd that 218 shows into Sexy Marriage Radio we are airing Sex 101. But there’s a good reason. To hear it, listen to this week’s show. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this...

SMR#217: A Look Back at 2015 from 2015-12-30T12:04:19

Every year around this time we reflect on the shows that happened. The good, the bad, the ugly. So what stood out to us? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got ...

SMR#216: Last Minute Gift Ideas from 2015-12-23T12:04:21

Christmas is in a couple of days. If this is news to you, then you’ll like our last minute gift ideas. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Right click on the image below to...

SMR#215: Attachment Parenting Can Ruin Sex from 2015-12-16T12:04:46

We live in a child-centric society. And raising a child can disrupt married life, which isn’t a shocking statement. But what if a parenting style can actual be harmful to the marriage, specifica...

SMR#214: Talking to Kids About Masturbation from 2015-12-09T12:04:55

Last week we discussed the importance of disconnecting the subjects of porn and masturbation. We received several emails asking about how to discuss this subject with your kids. That’s what Shan...

SMR#213: Porn and Masturbation from 2015-12-02T12:04:13

We’ve done a couple of shows thus far on pornography (here, here, and here). What about the connection between porn and masturbation? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __...

SMR#212: Being Thankful For Your Marriage from 2015-11-25T12:04:23

Happy Thanksgiving! How are you thankful for your marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Liste...

SMR#211: Is Sadness Affecting Your Sex Life? from 2015-11-18T12:04:38

Sadness and sex may seem like they don’t mix. And for many people they don’t … but why? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@...

SMR#210: Is Anger Affecting Your Sex Life? from 2015-11-11T12:04:03

Anger is one of societies understood emotions. This doesn’t mean it’s right, but most everyone understands that anger is part of life. But does it affect your sex life? That’s what Shannon and C...

SMR#209: The Controlling Sex Partner from 2015-11-04T12:04:23

Last week’s episode what about fear. This week we shift to another fear, being out of control. Have you thought about how fear can impact your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about ...

SMR#208: What Do You Fear? from 2015-10-28T11:04:29

Fear can affect people in all areas of life. Have you thought about how fear can impact your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email ...

SMR#207: Dealing with Porn in Marriage, Part 2 from 2015-10-21T11:04:40

In episode 202 we tackled this touchy subject. Based on some feedback from our listeners, we’re addressing it again. Only this time, we go a little deeper. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk abo...

SMR#206: The Bed-Buddy Club from 2015-10-16T00:03:54

There are many listeners of Sexy Marriage Radio who have asked for help in how to share our message and show with others. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Plus, we unvei...

SMR#205: The Moral High Ground from 2015-10-07T11:04:21

Perhaps you have heard about the idea of the moral high ground. Maybe not. Allow us to explain. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at f...

SMR#204: Budget For Marital Success from 2015-09-30T11:04:28

Money is often a major source of stress formany couples.  It can impact every aspect of family life and marriage. But what about dedicating some of your money specifically for your marriage? All...

SMR#203: Daily Connection Challenges from 2015-09-23T11:04:26

In a previous episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we made a comment about not being totally in favor of the daily sex challenges that are proposed by churches, books, and some other podcasts. Allow u...

SMR#202: Dealing with porn from 2015-09-16T11:04

This is often a touchy subject. It can also be an extremely destructive one. But it’s an issue that impacts lots of marriages – porn. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __...

SMR#201: How Big is Your But? from 2015-09-09T11:04:46

Seriously? How big is it? Not sure what we’re talking about? Listen to find out what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriagerad...

SMR#200: Celebrating 200 Episodes!! from 2015-09-02T11:04:58

200 EPISODES!!!!! It’s time to celebrate. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? ...

SMR#199: Same Sex Fantasy from 2015-08-26T11:04:54

There are some listeners who’ve emailed curious about a same-sex fantasy. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2...

SMR#198: No Libido from 2015-08-19T11:04:54

Should humans have a sexual libido? What if you have no (or a very low) libido? Does this mean there’s something wrong? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for ...

SMR#197: Listener Emails from 2015-08-12T11:04:15

We receive quite a few emails every week, which we love! In this episode Shannon and Corey answer several emails from our listeners. What we cover: Sleeping in separate rooms No sex happening in...

SMR#196: Unplugged Sex from 2015-08-05T11:04:49

There is tremendous benefit to getting away and unplugging from life together. You have the chance to unplug and get away – come join us on the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. In this episode Shann...

SMR#195: Talking vs. Arguing About Sex from 2015-07-29T11:04:33

There are many couples who believe they talk about sex, but what if they actually argue about sex more than talk about it? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us f...

SMR#194: Asking For What You Want, Then Getting It from 2015-07-22T11:04:13

Many times in the past we’ve encouraged listeners to “Ask for what you want in your life.” While this remains good advice, what happens when you actually get what you ask for? That’s what Shanno...

SMR#193: When Does Fantasy Cross The Line? from 2015-07-15T11:04:33

There are many episodes of Sexy Marriage Radio where we talk about fantasies. Shannon’s even written a book about it! But what happens when fantasy crosses the line? That’s what Shannon and Core...

SMR#192: Selfishness from 2015-07-08T11:04:26

Selfishness gets a bad rap. Or does it? Sure we want our own way with things, but there is also other people wanting their own way as well. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episo...

SMR#191: Sex Every Day from 2015-07-01T11:04:58

There are some couples who state they have sex every day. Ok. But what is the level of sex they’re having? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marr...

SMR#190: Wedding Night Tips from 2015-06-24T11:04:44

While we have covered this topic before, we haven’t taken it this far. The beginning of a marriage can be filled with all sorts of emotions and excitement. But it can also have lots of anxiety a...

SMR#189: Old Sex v. New Sex from 2015-06-17T11:04:49

Some things in life get better with age. Drinks, books, style, conversation. What about sex? We believe sex can definitely get better with age. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this e...

SMR#188: Celebrating Endurance from 2015-06-10T10:04:15

How married life progresses into the decades together, it’s safe to say some years are better than others. Some may be great, some not even close – you may even be glad you survived. So what do ...

SMR#187: Guilt and Shame and True Love Waits from 2015-06-03T10:04:12

True Love Waits is a movement aimed at helping teenagers and young adults save sex for marriage. An idea we whole-heartedly agree with. But has this movement also brought with it an increase in ...

SMR#186: The Bait and Switch from 2015-05-27T10:04:39

It’s possible you reach a point in married life where you feel like your partner pulled a bait and switch on you. When you think (or say) things like “whatever happened to the turned on partner ...

SMR#185: Work Sex vs. Play Sex, Part Two from 2015-05-20T10:04:36

We spent most of last week’s show on “work sex.” This week, it’s time to play. Sex is more than just reaching climax. Slow down. Be playful. Reserve more time with each other. Following each oth...

SMR#184: Work Sex vs. Play Sex, Part One from 2015-05-13T10:04:05

There are several different types of sex. But they can often be boiled down to two categories … work sex and play sex. In this episode Shannon and Corey talk the two main ways you can view sex, ...

SMR#183: Marriage is About Growing Up from 2015-05-06T10:06:09

What if our marriage and our sex life was actually part of a process designed to help us grow up? In this episode Shannon and Corey talk more about the idea that marriage is part of a larger pro...

SMR#182: Tearing Down Walls from 2015-04-29T10:06:53

There can be many barriers and walls in our lives and relationships. Especially when it comes to our sex life. Hear Shannon and Corey talk about how one person really confronted their barriers a...

SMR#181: Sexual Addiction, Part Two from 2015-04-22T10:07:16

We continue our conversation with Richard Blankenship about dealing with sexual addiction in marriage. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question?...

SMR#180: Sexual Addiction, Part One from 2015-04-22T01:05:49

There are many people who struggle with issues around sex. Some go so far as being controlled by it. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? E...

SMR#179: Announcing the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway from 2015-04-08T10:28:41

Several of you have been anxiously awaiting for more information about the upcoming SMR Getaway. The wait is over. You can read more and register here: ===>Click here for more. Come join us! ___...

SMR#178: Dealing with ED from 2015-04-01T11:04:37

Many men can (and do) struggle with ED, or premature or delayed ejaculation issues. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedba...

SMR#177: Intergenerational Patterns from 2015-03-25T11:04:58

There are patterns in families. There are patterns in our life and we pass these patterns to the next generation. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got ...

SMR#176: Gridlock In Marriage from 2015-03-18T11:04:36

What do you do when what you want is blocked by what your spouse wants. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarri...

SMR#175: Questions from our listeners from 2015-03-11T11:04:18

We have the greatest listeners who give us all kinds of feedback and questions. Today we answer several emails that are worth discussing. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode...

SMR#174: Sex Gets Better as You Get Older from 2015-03-04T12:04:11

Sex through the ages. Have you feared that sex may dwindle when you’re older? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sex...

SMR#173: Exploring BDSM from 2015-02-25T12:04:40

The world of BDSM. What do you know about it? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Ma...

SMR#172: Tips to spice up sex from 2015-02-18T12:04:49

Need some ideas to help add a little spice to your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Liste...

SMR#171: Thoughts on 50 Shades of Grey from 2015-02-11T12:04:52

Planning to see 50 Shades of Grey? Here what we think. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to S...

SMR#170: Investing in your marriage from 2015-02-04T12:04:08

Many times people wait too long to address issues in life and marriage. Please don’t. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sex...

SMR#169: Physical Issues Women Can Face in Sex from 2015-01-28T12:04:09

There are many things women can struggle with in sex. Some of these are physical issues … like vaginismus, lubrication, anorgasmia. Dr. Carol Tanksley (an OBGYN) joins us on the show to discuss ...

SMR#168: Collaborative Alliance from 2015-01-21T12:04:05

To have sex there has to be some level of an alliance. The same thing happens throughout marriage. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at...

SMR#167: Challenging Stereotypes from 2015-01-14T12:07:30

We live in a world that involves stereotypes. But are they true? That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. L...

SMR#166: Remembering 2014 on Sexy Marriage Radio from 2015-01-07T12:04:44

There’s benefit to looking back and reflecting on the past year. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. L...

SMR#165: Where’s Your Focus In 2015 from 2014-12-31T12:04:42

New Years Day is tomorrow. Welcome to 2015. Where’s your focus going to be in this coming year? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at...

SMR#164: Create an environment for sex from 2014-12-17T12:04:30

What does the physical space where sex happens most look like for you? What gets in the way? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at fe...

SMR#163: Moving beyond awkwardness and growing from 2014-12-10T12:04:54

Change makes things uncomfortable. Change can also feel awkward. So how do you move beyond this feeling? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Em...

SMR#162: How to find help from 2014-12-03T12:04:16

There are times when help is necessary in married life (and life for that matter). So how do you find the best help possible? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! ________...

SMR#161: Who Initiates from 2014-11-26T12:04:47

Fact is, someone has to initiate sex for it to occur. So who does this in your marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedba...

SMR#160: How sex reveals your self from 2014-11-19T12:04:06

There are many things uncovered in sex. But the biggest thing is actually your self. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@s...

SMR#159: Sex as a deity, part 2 from 2014-11-12T12:04:32

Let’s go deeper on this idea of sex as a deity. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy ...

SMR#158: Can sex be a deity? from 2014-11-05T12:04:10

Sex is a big part of life, society, and our world … but can it play too big a role and become a deity? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Emai...

SMR#157: Sex after a betrayal from 2014-10-29T11:04:26

There are many marriages that have experienced a betrayal of some kind. Affair, both physical or emotional, porn, and the like. When do you reintroduce sex after discovery of a betrayal? That’s ...

SMR#156: Barriers to Connection from 2014-10-22T11:04:16

There are many things that get in the way of our connecting. And there are many ways to overcome these barriers. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a ques...

SMR#155: Sex Is Who You Are from 2014-10-15T11:05

Sex isn’t just what you do … it’s who you are. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy M...

SMR#154: Sexpectations from 2014-10-08T11:05:43

What are your expectations when it comes to sex? Put another way, what are your sexpectations? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at ...

SMR#153: Self-sabotaging your sex life from 2014-10-01T11:04:43

How do you get in the way of your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marr...

SMR#152: Mercy sex from 2014-09-24T11:04:06

Today we revisit the idea of “mercy sex” What if it’s all part of a process in married life? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at fe...

SMR#151: I Can’t Go For That from 2014-09-17T11:04:41

There are many things that happen in marriage and sex that are completely up to the people involved. In this show, we discuss what happens when one of you says to the other … I can’t go for that...

SMR#150: Sex for Baby Boomers from 2014-09-10T11:04:17

Every one of us will be old at some point. So how do you address the challenges that come with aging and your sex life? Shannon and Corey are joined by Dr. Doug Rosenau to cover this topic. Enjo...

SMR#149: Dressing For Sexual Success from 2014-09-03T11:04:37

How do you dress for success? What about dressing for sexual success? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradi...

SMR#148: Reflections on our journey from 2014-08-27T11:04:14

Today we look back on Sexy Marriage Radio thus far – what stands out most to you? Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio belo...

SMR#147: Money and Sex from 2014-08-20T11:04:57

One of the major stressors in marriage is sex … another is money. These often play off each other. That’s what we discuss in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@...

SMR#146: Spice Up Things By Opening Your Eyes from 2014-08-13T11:04:53

We have done several shows about how to add some spice to your sex life. This time we go deep and encourage you to open up your eyes and connect. Love to know what you think. Enjoy! __________ G...

SMR#145: Dealing With Your Past from 2014-08-06T11:04:36

Our past can haunt us for years, or a lifetime. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode as they are joined by Sexy Marriage Radio listeners who share their journey. Enjoy! __________...

SMR#144: What You Want Or Your Spouse Wants from 2014-07-30T11:04:53

Have you ever realized that often what you think your spouse wants is what you want? You touch them or do things for them during sex the way you want to be touched or done. But what if that’s no...

SMR#143: Guilt surrounding sex from 2014-07-23T11:04:34

Too often there is a tremendous amount of guilt surrounding sexand our sexuality. Where does this guilt come from and what can you do about it? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episod...

SMR#142: Comfort sex from 2014-07-16T11:04:58

Tough times happen in life and marriage. So do times of grief and sadness. Can sex actually become a source of comfort during times like this? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode...

SMR#141: Talking to your sexually active teenager from 2014-07-09T11:04:51

What do you say to your teenager who may be already sexually active? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio...

SMR#140: Seven Minute Marriage Solution from 2014-07-02T11:05:09

Ever wondered if seven minutes could dramatically improve your marriage? It can. Steve Arterburn joins Shannon and Corey in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@s...

SMR#139: Your Sexual Vocabulary from 2014-06-25T11:04:46

How do you talk about sex? What about during sex? In other words … what’s your sexual vocabulary? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! Our Intimate Choices __________ Got ...

SMR#138: Dealing with PE and ED issues from 2014-06-18T11:04:49

There are many problems that can happen in marriage and sex. Specifically, premature ejaculation(PE) and/or erectile disfunction (ED). That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy!...

SMR#137: Gender Differences from 2014-06-11T11:04:34

Today we continue with Dr. William Struthers and move the conversation to the idea of gender differences and our brain. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got...

SMR#136: Brain Sex from 2014-06-04T11:04:31

In today’s show we are joined by Dr. William Struthers to discuss the idea of brain sex. What if sex isn’t as much what is happening between your legs than it is about what’s happening between y...

SMR#135: The High Desire Wife from 2014-05-28T11:04:33

We talk a lot about high desire and low desire when it comes to sex. But this is a different issue when the high desire spouse is the wife. This isn’t talked about a lot. That’s what Shannon and...

SMR#134: Foreplay from 2014-05-21T11:04:14

Foreplay. A big part of sexual intimacy, and sometimes overlooked. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! As an added bonus: It’s Business Time __________ Got a question? Em...

SMR#133: How Kinky is Too Kinky? from 2014-05-14T11:07:42

Last week we talked about sex toys. Which makes some people uncomfortable. One reaction may be this is too kinky. So … that leads to this question: How kinky is too kinky? That’s what Shannon an...

SMR#132: Sex Toys from 2014-05-07T11:04:49

There’s already a lot of tension around the topic of sex in marriage. Let’s ramp it up and talk about sex toys. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a quest...

SMR#131: Rejection Anxiety, Revisited from 2014-04-30T11:04:40

In Episode #77, Gina and Corey talked about how you can handle rejection better. But what’s Shannon’s take on this topic? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ G...

SRM#130: Wedding Night Tips for Virgins from 2014-04-23T11:04:11

There are many people who experience wedding night “jitters.” So what are some ideas and tips that will make this night one to remember forever? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episo...

SMR#129: The Payoffs for Sex from 2014-04-16T11:04:06

There are many benefits for sex. And sometimes it’s easy to loose site of the payoff this aspect of your marriage can have for your life. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enj...

SMR#128: Attachment styles from 2014-04-09T11:04:57

When you can understand more of your core approach to life and love, you can better seek and receive all life has to offer. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________...

SMR#127: Answering our critics from 2014-04-02T11:04:57

There have been a lot of shows on Sexy Marriage Radio, and a lot of feedback. Most of the response has been great, some has been critical – which is also great. That’s what Shannon and Corey cov...

SMR#126: Second marriages from 2014-03-26T11:04:19

Reality is that many people experience more than one marriage. Regardless of the reasons, prior relationships do influence current ones. So how can you better deal with baggage from previous mar...

SMR#125: Sex through the seasons of life from 2014-03-19T11:04:49

Things change as life unfolds. And each season of life brings with it new challenges … and pleasures. This same concept holds true for our sex life as well. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover i...

SMR#124: Oral Sex from 2014-03-12T11:04:25

What role does foreplay play in your sex life? How about oral sex? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.c...

SMR#123: Masturbation from 2014-03-05T12:04:29

Did we just do a show about the M Word? Yes we did! So how does this play out in your life and marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Em...

SMR#122: The Sexless Marriage from 2014-02-26T12:04:03

There are many marriages where sex is an issue. And those that experience a marriage where sex is limited or non-existent are often really struggling. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this...

SMR#121: Q&A from listener emails from 2014-02-19T12:04:31

We love receiving emails from our listeners – Sexy Marriage Radio listeners rock! In this show we cover several emails. From how do you get sex going again after childbirth to is it okay to want...

SMR#120: Tips For Valentines Day from 2014-02-12T12:04:44

While Valentines Day is a big deal, so is every day in married life. But Valentines can be a great time to demonstrate your love for your spouse. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this epis...

SMR#119: The Physical Side of Sex from 2014-02-05T12:04:16

There’s a side of sex that includes the physical aspects of us. Things like preparation, grooming, cleanliness, and the like. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! ________...

SMR#118: Your Emotions and Sex from 2014-01-29T12:04:35

Life can sometimes be an emotional roller coaster. So can sex. But our emotions can also really help us and our sex life. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ G...

SMR#117: Your Brain and Sex from 2014-01-22T12:04:27

Some times we overlook the most potent sexual organ we have … the brain. It’s vital to have your mind on board with your sex life. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! ___...

SMR#116: Spirituality and Sex from 2014-01-15T12:04:46

Often, we recognize things as spiritual in life. We can also recognize things as sexual. But what about both together? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! The helpful gui...

SMR#115: Expectations and Sex from 2014-01-08T12:04:14

Expectations run rampant in life … and marriage … and definitely sex. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradi...

SMR#114: Talking to your kids about sex from 2014-01-01T13:04:05

You’ve heard of the “big talk.” But talking to your kids about sex is actually many different conversations. And it starts … right now. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy...

SMR#113: Kids Getting In The Way Of Sex from 2013-12-23T13:04:35

Kids are a blessing, but they can also get in the way of your sex life. But have you ever thought that your sex life can be a gift you give to your kids? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in t...

SMR#112: Change Up A Sexual Rut from 2013-12-18T12:04:52

Routine and schedule can rule the day, week, month and year. So what are some ideas to change up the rut our sex life (and life) can fall in to? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episo...

SMR#111: Sexual Confidence from 2013-12-11T12:04:27

Every one of us struggles at some point with our image, shape, wrinkles, cellulite, etc. Put another way, every one has moments when we lack confidence. How do you gain more sexual confidence? T...

SMR#110: The space between you from 2013-12-04T12:04:13

Can you share too much with your spouse? What’s the difference between secrets and fantasies? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at f...

SMR#109: The G Spot from 2013-11-27T12:04:35

Considered by some, the Holy Grail of female orgasms. While some others say it doesn’t exist. But in this episode, Shannon and Corey lead you down the path to finding it. Enjoy! __________ Got a...

SMR#108: Intended For Pleasure from 2013-11-20T12:07:18

Ever get the feeling that sex is just burdensome or just for procreation? It’s intended for so much more! That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? E...

SMR#107: Sexy Marriage Radio 2.0 from 2013-11-13T12:04:13

Today I’m thrilled to welcome Shannon Ethridge as my new co-host for Sexy Marriage Radio! In this episode you’ll hear Shannon’s story and more about what drives her and her interest in helping p...

SMR#106: My Spouse’s Sexual Fantasies from 2013-11-06T12:07:44

What happens when the person you married shares a fantasy that makes you nervous or flat out repulsed? That’s what I discuss today with Shannon Ethridge as we continue our conversation about sex...

SMR#105: Sexual Fantasy from 2013-10-30T11:04:53

There’s a certain taboo-ness often associated with fantasies. Particularly sexual fantasies. That’s what I discuss today with Shannon Ethridge and her new book, The Fantasy Fallacy. __________ G...

SMR#104: Minimalism as a way to better sex from 2013-10-23T11:04:23

Minimalism. It can mean several different things. But it can also be a path to better sex and married life. That’s what I discuss with Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist. __________ Got a ques...

SMR# 103: Intentional Intimacy from 2013-10-16T11:07:13

Intimacy means lots of different things to different people. But, we all can agree it plays a role in our married life. That’s what I discuss with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary M...

SMR#102: Long Distance Relationships and Dealing With Baggage from 2013-10-02T11:04:53

There are seasons in some relationships that require times a part – job transfers, school, travel. So how can you more successfully navigate these seasons? And what’s the best way to address sex...

SMR#101: Recovering from affairs from 2013-09-25T11:04:01

Sadly, affairs are all too common in the marriage world. So what’s the best way forward? What can the betrayed spouse do? What can the betraying spouse do? That’s what I discuss with Aaron Ander...

Episode 100: Our takeaways from 2013-09-18T11:04:06

EPISODE 100! – And Gina’s final show. In this episode we discuss our takeaways from 100 shows together. Enjoy. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Se...

Episode 99: Sexual communication style from 2013-09-11T11:09:26

When it comes to your sex life – how you talk about it, initiate it, etc. – what’s your default set on? That’s what we cover in this episode. Plus, a big announcement at the end of the show. So ...

Episode 98: The best of Sexy Marriage Radio from 2013-09-04T11:04:10

Due to a scheduling mix-up – this episode we take our very best show to date (according to number of downloads) and look back at some Tips for Initiating Sex. Hope you enjoy. __________ Got a qu...

Episode 97: Growing through mercy sex from 2013-08-28T11:04:55

Mercy sex is usually not enjoyable, for both spouses. But what if it is actually part of the process of growing to better sex? That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Em...

Episode 96: When the wife wants no sex from 2013-08-21T11:04

There’s a high desire and a low desire for sex in every marriage. But what about when the wife takes the stance of “no sex”? That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Emai...

Episode 95: Honeymoon Sex from 2013-08-14T11:07:05

What are some thoughts that will help us as we begin our married life? Specifically, sex. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio....

Episode 94: The feminine’s initiation for sex from 2013-08-07T11:04:07

Women do initiate sex, it’s just that many times her attempts go unnoticed by her husband. So head’s up husbands, be on the lookout for her attempts. There might be more there than you first tho...

Episode 93: Every night is date night from 2013-07-31T11:04:55

A popular marriage tip is to be sure you set aside time for date nights. Often this is thought of as once a month, or once a week. But why not every night? That’s what we cover in this episode. ...

Episode 92: Your Brain and Porn from 2013-07-24T12:04:44

Pornography can mess up lives and relationships. And this is beyond just a moral or ethical issue. Gary Wilson runs the website YourBrainOnPorn.com and is here to discuss the facts about pornogr...

Episode 91: What’s your fear? from 2013-07-17T12:04:10

What are you afraid of? It’s a common question, but not often deeply explored. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What’s underneath fear How to overcome fear __________ Got a que...

Episode 90: The Nice Guy/Nice Girl from 2013-07-10T11:04:06

Too many men are Nice Guys. And it’s damaging sex and marriage. But women are not immune as well as there are many Nice Girls out there as well. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics...

Episode 89: Sexless marriages, past trauma, and more from 2013-07-03T11:04:14

There are many sexless marriages today. Plus there are lots of people with major trauma in their past, specifically sexual trauma. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Sexless marr...

Episode 88: Self limiting beliefs from 2013-06-26T11:04:14

Many times, the only thing in our way to creating what we really want in life, marriage, and sex is ourselves. More specifically, our beliefs. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: ...

Episode 87: My spouse doesn’t like to kiss from 2013-06-19T12:04:53

Kissing is a big part of physical intimacy, for many people. But not everyone. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Gridlock Speaking up even if it hurts __________ Got a question?...

Episode 86: Your role from 2013-06-12T12:04:13

A system is something that is co-created. And our role in the creation of things can be something we don’t easily notice. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What happens in relat...

Episode 85: Love Languages from 2013-06-05T11:04:47

A popular book in the marriage world is Dr. Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages. While it’s helped a lot of people, we have a slightly different take. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show t...

Episode 84: Body image and shame from 2013-05-29T12:53:13

Our self-image really does affect our life. Especially our sex life. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Shame How the spouse can help Re-write your story __________ Got a questio...

Episode 83: Too fast or too slow from 2013-05-22T12:04:28

For some, sex is over too fast. For others it’s too slow. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: It’s a relational issue Let go of attachment Your identity __________ Got a question?...

Episode 82: Grooming and others issues with oral sex from 2013-05-15T11:04:35

Oral sex. One of our more popular topics on Sexy Marriage Radio. But not everyone is interested in it, and there are some hurdles that get in the way of personal preferences when it comes to enj...

Episode 81: Leaking sexual energy from 2013-05-08T11:04:04

We’ve made the comment before that our belief is 100% of your sexual energy needs to be directed toward your marriage. What if you’re married to someone with a different belief? That’s what we c...

Episode 80: Having sex because you’re supposed to from 2013-05-01T12:04:34

There are many things in life that we do … and sometimes we do them simply because we’re supposed to. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self-soothing Reframing what we do Being ...

Episode 79: How do you initiate? from 2013-04-24T12:04:26

There’s a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The d...

Episode 78: Do this, Not this from 2013-04-17T11:04:18

Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there’s a fine line between the two. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Environment Moves __________ Email us at feedback@sexy...

Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety from 2013-04-10T11:04:35

Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Rejection anxiety Instigate Isolate Escalate ___...

Episode 76: Intimacy and Sex from 2013-04-03T11:04:45

Are intimacy and sex the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Following the connection Separateness vs. Togetherness Foreplay and sex...

Episode 75: High and low isn’t gender specific from 2013-03-27T11:05:26

There are lots of marriages where the man is the high desire partner for sex. BUT, this isn’t always the case. Being the high desire is not gender specific. That’s what we cover in this episode....

Episode 74: Going from good to great from 2013-03-20T11:04:17

Many of our shows are aimed at those experiencing issues or struggles in marriage. Not today. Today we’re talking about what it takes to move a good marriage in to a great one. That’s what we co...

Episode 73: Orbiters in Crisis from 2013-03-13T11:04:43

Whenever there’s a crisis in marriage, it’s common that one spouse becomes an orbiter of the other. While this is an understandable reaction, it’s not beneficial. That’s what we cover in this ep...

Episode 72: Worse before better from 2013-03-06T12:04:08

Relationships evolve slowly over time. They ebb and they flow. But what about when you want things to get better? Do they get worse before they get better? That’s what we cover in this episode. ...

Episode 71: My Spouse’s Happiness Committee from 2013-02-27T12:04:19

What do I do when my spouse won’t accept my compliments or statements about how good I think they look? Then their rejections squash my desire. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics:...

Episode 70: When pressure leads to aversion from 2013-02-20T12:04:51

Help, my wife has an aversion to sex so there’s little to no sex happening. And during the times in between, she thinks everything I do is about sex so she feels pressured all the time. That’s w...

Episode 69: All Things Being Equal from 2013-02-13T13:04:16

Several years ago research showed the importance of equality in marriage. That housework and roles to make a relationship work should be equal. Now research shows that our sexuality doesn’t foll...

Episode 68: Help when my spouse isn’t interested from 2013-02-06T12:04:56

There are times in married life where one spouse wants to address an issue or problem in the marriage and the other isn’t interested. This can be frustrating for both spouses. In this episode Gi...

Episode 67: The Stages of Sex from 2013-01-30T13:06:04

Expectations can ruin sex. In this episode Gina and I cover the differences between genders and our expectations for sex. Show topics: Differences between men and women Types of sexual encounter...

Episode 66: Give Me Some Space from 2013-01-23T12:08:54

There are many times in married life when you are too close to your spouse for too long. The saying is, “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” And it’s true. The space between you and your spous...

Episode 65: Sex and Chronic Illness from 2013-01-16T13:04:49

Life is struggle. Stress, tragedy, and illness are bound to occur. And when it does, it impacts almost all areas of life. So what are some way to address illness and its impact on sex? That’s wh...

Episode 64: Dealing with expectations from 2013-01-09T12:04:25

Expectations run rampant in marriage. Whether that be in roles, schedules, responsibilities or sex. Expectations really can ruin things. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being...

Episode 63: My spouse may think I’m perverted from 2012-12-26T12:04:21

I want to spice up our routine sex life. It’s good, and it’s gets the job done, but I want to add something else. How do I speak up about this when there’s the fear my spouse may think I’m a per...

Episode 62: Getting in the zone for lovers from 2012-12-19T12:04:17

Anxiety is all around us. It also gets in the way of many things both in and out of the bedroom. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Focus on the journey Brea...

Episode 61: I’m raring to go, she’s not from 2012-12-12T14:04:58

There are times when one of you is turned on and raring to go … and at the exact same time your spouse is so far from that place. What can you do during these times? That’s what this episode is ...

Episode 60: Physical Attraction Issues from 2012-12-05T14:04:28

Help! I don’t find my spouse physically attractive. Can I bring up the idea of plastic surgery for them? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: What you control Upping your own attr...

Episode 59: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex from 2012-11-28T14:08:51

Sex is a topic filled with anxiety, especially when you’re talking about it with your kids. But, it’s vital that parents talk about it with them. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topi...

Episode 58: Am I crazy? from 2012-11-14T14:06:54

What happens when you do all the “right” things for your marriage (and spouse) yet the results you’re looking for don’t follow? It’s enough to make you crazy. That’s what this episode is all abo...

Episode 57: Thoughts For The Erotically Challenged from 2012-11-07T14:04:37

Eroticism is something some people fear. At the very least, it carries with it some levels of discomfort … that’s what makes it erotic. So how can you up the eroticism in your life? That’s what ...

Episode 56: When sex is work from 2012-11-01T17:27:33

We’ve done shows where we discuss high desire and low desire differences. But what about when one spouse simply can’t get in to sex and that puts the other spouse in the state of having to do “w...

Episode 55: Past pain impacting present pleasure from 2012-10-24T13:04:13

Pain from out past can easily impact our present. Especially in sex. Sexual pain, shame, guilt and frustration can dramatically decrease our present encounters with the one we love. But there’s ...

Episode 54: Performance anxiety from 2012-10-10T13:04:25

Ever had times when worry and anxiety derailed your sex life? What about when worry destroys any hope of reaching climax or even the ability to perform? That’s what this episode is all about. Sh...

Episode 53: Help for those hurting from 2012-09-26T13:12:30

I’m struggling in my marriage, should I give up? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Be honest Speak up Fight for it! __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedba...

Episode 52: Givers and takers from 2012-09-19T14:04:50

There are both givers and takers in life. And sex. Sometimes, it’s the same person. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being a giver or taker Honesty Authenticity __________ Got...

Episode 51: Can men and women be friends from 2012-09-12T14:53

The basic question is this: Can men and women be friends? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Importance of boundaries Differences between men and women __________ Got a question...

Episode 50: Thoughts for the young and old from 2012-09-05T14:04:23

Is there any advice you guys have for those who are engaged or dating? What about the other end of the spectrum and thoughts for those of us experiencing sexual issue due to aging? That’s what t...

Episode 49: Q&A Potpourri from 2012-08-29T14:04:57

Our inbox filled up over the past couple of weeks. In this episode it’s all about answering your questions. Show topics: How can I get my spouse to listen to the show? How to up the frequency Ar...

Episode 48: Stress and sex from 2012-08-15T14:04:09

Stress. It’s everywhere. What impact does stress have on sex? Marriage? And how can we stay connected in the midst of chronic stress? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a que...

Episode 47: Passionate, but sexually frustrated from 2012-08-08T14:10:40

There are many passionate people. There are also many sexually frustrated people. What happens when this is the same person? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Le...

Episode 46: High desire wife, low desire husband from 2012-08-01T13:04:08

There will always be a high desire and a low desire when it comes to sex (actually with every topic). Typically, the high desire spouse is the husband while the low desire spouse is the wife. Bu...

Episode 45: Self Image and Sex from 2012-07-25T14:04:29

Life involves change. And no where does change impact us more than in our body image/self image. So how do you handle it when you’ve added a few pounds or gravity has taken over and your image t...

Episode 44: When Your Spouse Won’t Go Down from 2012-07-18T14:04:54

Oral sex. It can be a great part of foreplay, or even the main event. But what about when one spouse wants it and the other doesn’t? Or when you’re repulsed by the idea or act? That’s what we di...

Episode 43: Does routine mean boring? from 2012-07-11T14:04:53

Editor’s Note: There’s an issue with the master audio of this show – the last couple of minutes are missing. Sorry for this issue. Our last show discussed the idea of changing things up in order...

Episode 42: Help, my spouse says I’m boring from 2012-07-04T14:04:02

We all fall into routines. And many people struggle with the do what worked last time philosophy. But what do you do when all of this combines into being boring in bed? That’s what we discuss in...

Episode 41: How Integrity Can Improve Sex from 2012-06-27T14:04:21

There is one thing that drives all our lives. One thing that draws lines in the sand and boundaries for what we’ll tolerate. Integrity. Put another way, living according to “what you hold dear.”...

Episode 40: Moving From Roommates to Lovers Again from 2012-06-20T13:04:51

There are inevitable ebbs and flows in marriage. It is also possible that the relationship can evolve to where you’re more like roommates than lovers. So how do you move from roommates to lovers...

Episode 39: Dealing with guilt about sex from 2012-06-13T14:08:14

In this episode we answer a listener email. How do you address lingering guilt feelings regarding sex. Plus, masturbation – right or wrong? Enjoy. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calli...

Episode 38: Is Unconditional Love in Marriage a Myth? from 2012-06-06T14:04:08

Many people long for unconditional love and believe it’s part of what makes a marriage great. But is it possible? Is it even realistic? Or is it really a myth? That’s what we discuss in this epi...

Episode 37: What I wish I knew about sex and marriage beforehand from 2012-05-30T14:04:32

Some things in life you can’t really know about until you experience them. Marriage and sex both fit in this category. So, after having now experienced marriage and sex, what have you learned? W...

Episode 36: Sex Tips for the Shy Wife and the Nice Guy from 2012-05-23T13:04:47

There are many people who don’t consider themselves outgoing or adventurous when it comes to sex and eroticism. These aren’t those with very little to no desire for sex. These are more the husba...

Episode 35: Sex and kids from 2012-05-16T14:04:47

Everyone knows that a result of sex can be children, at least I hope everyone knows this. If not, we need to talk. What do you do when the subject of kids is a source of disagreement in marriage...

Episode 34: Expectations and selfishness from 2012-05-09T13:04:15

Every one of us have some sort of expectations. But do these expectations really help us? Or our relationships? And, every one of us is selfish in some regard. But is this really all that bad? T...

Episode 33: How to increase your sexual confidence from 2012-05-02T15:06:59

Confidence is one of the best predictors of great sex. Even great lives. But not all of us are born feeling confident about ourselves, our abilities, or even our sexuality. So how can you increa...

Episode 32: Help! Sex is over too fast from 2012-04-25T12:54:46

We’ve covered many topics on sex thus far – desire differences, fantasies, female orgasms, arousal, being sexy, and on and on. Sex is something many people work for to have as part of their life...

Episode 31: Expecting sex simply because you’re married from 2012-04-18T14:04:08

The main difference between a marriage relationship and all our other relationships is sex. But the other side of this topic, just because you’re married, is sex expected? This is what we tackle...

Episode 30: Q&A, Sex toys, Dirty Talk, Fantasies from 2012-04-11T14:04:44

Since the beginning of Sexy Marriage Radio there has been a regular stream of emails. Many of the questions are fuel for our shows, and some of them we answer privately. One topic that keeps com...

Episode 29: Leading and Following in Sex and Marriage from 2012-04-04T14:04:09

It seems in every area of life and marriage there’s a leader and a follower. In this episode Gina and I discuss the importance of playing each role, and the importance of being a follower if you...

Episode 28: The un-arouseable spouse from 2012-03-28T13:44:50

There is always a high desire and low desire spouse in every relationship, and in every topic within the relationship. So what about times when the low desire is actually more aptly described as...

Episode 27: Add spice to the routine of sex from 2012-03-21T13:04:26

Humans are routine oriented creatures. We discover what works, then we often repeat the process. The problem with this, what happens when we do this with sex? Sure it may mean sex achieves orgas...

Episode 26: Gender Roles from 2012-03-14T13:29:17

Everyone has different roles they play in life. How much of the role is based on your gender? And is the idea of gender roles out-dated? Hear more about this in this episode. Show topics: Gender...

Episode 25: De-compartmentalizing Sex from 2012-03-06T22:21:19

Sex is a part of life. But it may also be seen as just a part of your life. What if it was seamlessly integrated into your entire life? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: How t...

Episode 24: Great Sex But Bad Connection from 2012-02-28T21:17:34

Is it possible to have great sex in your marriage but bad connection outside the bedroom? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: What makes great sex How can you connect better in ...

Episode 23: Marriage Help Gone Bad from 2012-02-22T14:04:41

We offer a lot of ideas, tips and suggestions that will help create a better sex life … and marriage. Much of what we discuss is simple to understand and try. But some times things can be misund...

Episode 22: Mistakes men make in sex from 2012-02-14T14:55:29

So women aren’t the only ones who make mistakes in sex. Men do as well. And this show we cover most of them. Show topics: Importance of confidence Slow down Sex starts well before sex starts Wha...

Episode 21: Mistakes women make in sex from 2012-02-07T19:04:37

Let’s face it, we all make mistakes. Even mistakes in sex. So rather than talking generalities, let’s just pick on the women. That’s what we do in today’s show. Well, at least one of us does. Sh...

Episode 20: Sexy Marriage Moves from 2012-01-31T16:34:17

Looking for some sexy moves that will increase the sexiness in your marriage? Look no further than today’s show. Show topics: Fantasies 10-second kiss Have a plan Sexy texts Got any others to ad...

Episode 19: What’s Your Sexual Legacy? from 2012-01-25T14:37:53

Let me ask you this: What does your marriage teach your children? What did your parents marriage teach you? How does your sex life impact your family? That’s today’s show. Show topics: Where’s y...

Episode 18: How to Handle Feeling Powerless from 2012-01-18T14:34:58

The simple truth is that every marriage has a high desire partner and a low desire partner. One spouse will want sex more than the other. This dynamic creates the situation where the low desire ...

Episode 17: Keep your pants on from 2012-01-13T17:17:34

Welcome to a Bonus Episode of Sexy Marriage Radio. Today’s show includes an interview with Kelly Chicas, author of Keep Your Pants On: Preventing Infidelity in Your Marriage. As you can guess fr...

Episode 16: Sexual Mood Swings from 2012-01-11T14:36:43

Everyone has mood swings. One day you wake up with tons of energy, other days not so much. The same thing applies to sex. Sometimes you’re all jazzed and ready to go, others not even close. So h...

Episode 15: Masturbation and marriage from 2012-01-04T14:44:11

Sex in marriage is a great thing, we think it’s the place where the best sex happens. But what do you do when one partner isn’t interested and you are looking for release? Is it okay to masturba...

Episode 14: How to SCORE! from 2011-12-28T15:42:07

Ready for 2012? After listening to this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, you’ll be ready to SCORE! Have a great New Year! __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615...

Episode 13: Mercy Sex and Marriage from 2011-12-21T15:34:15

Sex in marriage is a great thing, we think it’s the place where the best sex happens. But what about times when sex falls into the category of mercy sex? Show topics: What to do when you’re the ...

Episode 12: Female Orgasm: Unlocking the Mystery from 2011-12-14T14:42:30

While we have been advocates of great sex and great marriages, we have often talked beyond technique and skills. Not today. In today’s show we explore&“unlock” the mystery of the female orgasm. ...

Episode 11: In one ear, out the other from 2011-12-07T14:36:38

What do you do when both members of the marriage listen to our show, but one spouse simply doesn’t implement anything we discuss? Put another way, Sexy Marriage Radio goes in one ear and then ou...

Episode 10: Don’t just have sex, be sexual from 2011-11-30T01:51:34

Everyone has sex, or at least has had sex. But what if you moved beyond just having sex and were more sexual? That’s our show today. Show topics: Create a sacred space for your sexuality Embrace...

Episode 9: How to not be bored in bed from 2011-11-22T07:45:12

What is it that makes some sexual encounters “through the roof” and others just okay? That’s our show today. Show topics: How to set a better mood Ways to be fully present and focus more How to ...

Episode 8: Turn up your sexual energy from 2011-11-16T14:25:52

According to the listeners of SMR, sexual desire and attraction are important topics to explore – especially when there are problems in this area of a marriage. It seems there are many couples t...

Episode 7: Listener Q&A from 2011-11-09T06:04:38

Sexy Marriage Radio is a month old and we are absolutely loving this show! Hope you are as well! But what we love more than recording the show is hearing from listeners. In this show we cover se...

Episode 6: How to be more attracted to your spouse from 2011-11-02T05:04:41

Throughout the course of a marriage, attraction may ebb and flow. Part of this is natural as we each evolve and change. But what do you do when it goes beyond just an ebb or flow? That’s what th...

Episode 5: Loosening up and being aroused from 2011-10-26T12:42:43

Show topics: Listener questions from the feedback line How to be more engaged and aroused during sex Is it mental, physical, or both? _________ Got something on your mind that you want to hear o...

Episode 4: Tips for initiating sex from 2011-10-19T12:59:47

A continuation of our last show, should you ask for or initiate sex. Last time we covered the what and the why, this time we cover the how. Show topics: Some how-to’s when it comes to initiate s...

Episode 3: To ask or initiate from 2011-10-12T14:04:14

Show topics: If you’re interested in sex, should you ask or initiate? Different meanings placed on sex High and low desire differences ________ Got something on your mind that you want to hear o...

Episode 2: Differences in desire from 2011-09-23T16:21:40

Show topics: What to do with differences in desire in marriage Tips to use to improve your sex life Anxiety’s role in life and love In today’s show, Gina and Corey answer a question from a calle...

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Welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio. Show topics: Why there’s a need for Sexy Marriage Radio. Who are we What we hope to accomplish Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …

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