Podcasts by Sounds Fake But Okay
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
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Ep 156: Ace Week Celebration feat. YOU! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! To celebrate Ace Week, we hosted a livesteam and read some of your submissions. Submissions included poems, questions, and ace realization stories. This episode is the amazing ...
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Ep 155: Revealing Victoria's Secret from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today, we answer the age-old, time-weary question - what is Victoria's Secret?Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/revealing-victorias-secret Catch ou...
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Ep 154: How To Be Ace feat. Rebecca Burgess from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk to Rebecca Burgess about their new graphic novel "How To Be Ace." We discuss comics, mental health, and struggling with your sexuality.How To Be Ace comes ou...
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Ep 153: Having Confidence in Your Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk broadly about being confident in your sexuality and navigating the questioning phase. We also discuss how to answer the annoying question "How do you know you...
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Ep 152: Being Non-Binary feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we fulfill a wonderful patron's request! We chat with our friend Ina about what it's like being non-binary.non-binary photo project: https://instagram.com/nonbinarypo...
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Ep 151: Anti-Gender Reveal Parties from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! We've known for a long time that gender reveal parties are stupid, but this year they reached an all-time level of ridiculousness and destruction. So today, we give you some id...
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Ep 150: Sex-Repulsed vs. Sex-Averse from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the difference between being sex-repulsed and sex-averse and explore the importance of the words we use.Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/t...
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Ep 149: ACE feat. Angela Chen from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we are joined by Angela Chen to discuss her new book ACE: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex. Order ACE now: https://www.penguinr...
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Ep 148: 46 Unsexy Things to Do in Bed from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! For some reason, everyone thinks of the bed as a super sexy place. But what if you don't want to be sexy in bed? What if you want to do something else? Well, here are 46 unsexy...
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Ep 147: Asexual Representation feat. Repl(Ace) the Media from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the importance of having asexual representation in the media. We are joined by special guest Zaine from the amazing Repl(Ace) the Media campaign! Follow ...
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Ep 146: How Babies Are Made (Wrong Answers Only) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Have you ever wondered where babies come from? Usually when you ask people say "sex," but we aren't too sure about that. In this week's episode, we tell you where babies actual...
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Ep 145: Sounds Fake But A OK! feat. Courtney Lang from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Our second guest of Auguest is Courtney Lang from our sister podcast A OK! Listen in to hear a couple of podcasters talking about podcasting and identifying as aroace.Episode T...
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Ep 144: The ~*~Two~*~ Genders from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Sarah is writing the description and she's bad at it. We talked about how there are definitely only two genders and how gender is not at all a construct and how every...
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Ep 143: Loveless feat. Alice Oseman! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we are honored and excited to chat with Alice Oseman about her new book Loveless! Loveless follows the coming out story of a teen aroace girl and is absolutely amazin...
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Ep 142: Reasons NOT to Have Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! A couple of episodes ago, we talked about all of the reasons people choose to have sex. This week, we give you some excuses to use if you want to say no to sex. Donate to the ...
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Ep 141: The Ace Ring from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk all about the ace ring: its history, what it is, why people wear it, and if we have ever worn one! Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitt...
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Ep 140: Reasons to Have Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Last week, when we mentioned that there are a lot of reasons to have sex besides being sexually attracted to someone. Today, we list off just a few of those reasons! Donate ...
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Ep 139: Sexual Acts Do Not Equal Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Did you know that the sexual acts you partake in don't define your sexual orientation at all? Well if you didn't then this episode is for you! And if you did know this already ...
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Ep 138: Things to Put in Movies Other Than Romance from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Since we had the honor of being on Bacon and Eggs: A Movie Lover's Podcast this week, we wanted to keep with the movie theme! For some reason, Hollywood feels the need to stick...
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Ep 137: Asexuality Does NOT Equal Heterosexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! In the past week, we've seen quite a bit of aphobia which of course included people saying asexuality isn't actually a sexuality. It seems that some people just assume we're st...
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Ep 136: Weird Sexual Innuendos from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the weird phrases that people use to say sex without really using the word. To be honest, most of them are much worse than just saying sex.Black lives S...
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Ep 135: BLACK LIVES MATTER from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week's episode is going to be a little different. It's hard right now to talk about anything that isn't the racial injustice that's so prevalent in America. We don't feel like we can just sit ...
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Ep 134: Navigating Virtual Pride from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss pride month and what it might look like in the time of Coronavirus. Sarah also gives two (2) manifestos! You don't wanna miss it. Donate to the podcast:...
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Ep 133: Wikipedia Rabbit Hole pt. 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we're back playing the Wikipedia game! How many clicks will it take for us to get to the asexuality page and how many clicks will it take to get to OUR page? Donat...
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Ep 132: An Interview with Daniel from Slice of Ace from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we interview Daniel from the YouTube channel Slice of Ace! We discuss dating as a homoromantic asexual, Animal Crossing, and our new best friendship. Subscribe to Sli...
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Ep 131: Our Relationship With Our Bodies from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
*DISCLAIMER: If you are sex repulsed or are uncomfortable with discussions of genitals this may not be the episode for you.Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss how being on the aromantic and a...
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Ep 130: Reclaiming Romantic Songs from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about classic romantic/sexual songs like My Heart Will Go On and Careless Whisper. Can these songs be reclaimed as aromantic and asexual anthems? Honestly, w...
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Ep 129: Being AroAce is a TALENT from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we discuss how aromantic and/or asexual would fare on different reality TV shows. From The Bachelor to The Amazing Race to America's Got Talent, is being aroace an a...
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Ep 128: An AroAce Review of Sexy and Romantic Things from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we discuss things that the world has deemed as traditionally sexy and romantic. From chocolate syrup to underwear, we give a definitive* aroace review of what's hot ...
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Ep 127: Aceness in the Time of Coronavirus from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about being ace and/or aro in the time of Coronavirus and specifically loneliness. Shout out to @AceGentle for the inspiration for this episode. Donate t...
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Ep 126: We Wrote an Aro Ace Movie from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we take one hour to write the plot of the next hit aro ace movie - Noodles: Aromcom. Listen in to hear this dramatic, mysterious, not so rom-com story play out. D...
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Ep 125: Your Questions Answered by Our Allo Expert from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we bring in our resident allo expert (Kayla's boyfriend) to answer your questions about what it's like to be alloromantic/allosexual. Donate to the podcast: patreo...
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Ep 124: What To Do While Stuck at Home from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, we bring you a joyous, fun-loving list of things to do if you're currently stuck at home. This list does NOT include having sex but does include playing that haunted...
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Ep 123: What If We Had Different Sexualities? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we try to think about what it would be like if we had different sexualities and romantic orientations. Sarah tries to imagine a life where she's allo and Kayla tries ...
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Ep 122: Aros and Aces Need Safe Queer Spaces from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah delivers a manifesto about the need for queer spaces that are safe for aros and aces. We're searching for an ideal world where aspec and arospec folks are open...
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Ep 121: What to Do When Someone Comes out to You from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we give you some very serious and wonderful options of things to do when someone comes out to you as aro, ace, or any other queer identity! From throwing appropriatel...
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Ep 120: Dating in High School??? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Happy Aromantic Awareness Week! In true aromantic fashion, Sarah discusses the concept of dating in high school and how it makes no sense. Who has time to date when you have to...
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Ep 119: Unromantic Activities to Do for Valentine's Day from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Valentine's Day is right around the corner but for many of us aromantic or asexual people, this holiday is pretty worthless. To help you protest this holiday, we're sharing our...
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Ep 118: The Demisexual Experience from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk all about demisexuality. What is it? What does it feel like to be demisexual? Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Instagram: @soundsfa...
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Ep 117: An Interview with Yasmin Benoit from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we finally interview our favorite asexual activist Yasmin Benoit! We talk Ace of Clubs, modeling, getting canceled, and black lipstick.Donate to the podcast: patreon....
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Ep 116: DON'T OUT PEOPLE from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! In light of Nikki Tutorials being forced to come out recently, we decided to talk about being outing and outing other people.
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Ep 115: Little Women, Aromanticism, and Asexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about Gretta Gerwig's new adaptation of Little Women.
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Ep 114: A Decade in Review from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! It's our last episode of 2020! And the last episode of the decade! We go over what happened to us this decade as well as exciting things that happened in the queer and aspec co...
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Ep 113: Our Favorite Things - Yasmin Benoit, Forgiveness, Games, etc. from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week is an all "juice" episode where we talk about our favorite things from video games to friends to forgiveness!
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Ep 112: Pet Peeves of Asexual People from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Are the allos okay? Sometimes there are things that allosexual or alloromantic people do that just don't make sense. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitt...
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Ep 111: Sex Shouldn't Be a Social Taboo from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about how sex is a social taboo.
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Ep 110: Dealing With Family During the Holidays from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! As the holiday season approaches, we know some of you might have to deal with questions from your annoying Uncle Carl or Grandma Karen about whether you've found a significant ...
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Ep 109: How to Find a Mate from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! On today's episode, the Cosmopolitan Snapchat story teaches us how to flirt with a guy at the gym.
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Ep 108: Self-Partnered from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about Emma Watson's Vogue interview where she talks about being "self-partnered."
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Ep 107: Crushes vs. Squishes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about having crushes on teachers and try to figure out what the real difference between a squish and a crush is.
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Ep 106: How Witches Represent the Asexual Experience from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss Sarah's theory that all witches (and skeletons) are asexual.
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Ep 105: Asexuals Play the KFC Dating Simulator from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we play KFC's new dating simulator game but in an ~asexual~ way.
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Ep 104: National Coming Out Day feat. Sarah's Sister from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today we celebrate National Coming Out Day by talking with Sarah's gay sister. Sarah and her sister compare their coming out experiences and talk about the differences between ...
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Ep 103: Dating While Asexual from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about dating as an asexual person. We discuss our own experiences with dating as well as advice for people dating asexual people.Donate to the podcast: patreo...
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Ep 102: Word Association from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we have another stunning episode for you
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Ep 101: The Bachelor From an Aro Ace Perspective Pt. 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about Sarah's experience watching Bachelor in Paradise as an aromantic person.
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Ep 100: 100th Episode Extravaganza! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah celebrate the 100th episode of Sounds Fake But Okay!
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Ep 99: Relationship Anarchy from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about the merits of Relationship Anarchy.
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Ep 98: How to Not be Aphobic from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we give you many VERY helpful tips for how to not be aphobic.
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Ep 97: Asexual Culture and Community from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk all about ace culture and community.
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Ep 96: Everything is Fake from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about everything that seems fake in the world.
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Ep 95: Reviewing "Sexy" Things from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah review media that's supposed to be ~sexy~.
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Ep 94: Matchmaking for Asexuals from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about whether they think matchmaking websites could work for asexual people who are looking to find ~the one~.
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Ep 93: Characters Who Are Definitely Asexual pt. 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about more characters that they believe are definitely asexual and some who are definitely NOT asexual.
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Ep 92: Mental Health and Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about mental health and how it relates to sexuality.
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Ep 91: 36 Questions to Make You Fall in Love from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about the 36 questions.
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Ep 90: Why Are Millennials Having So Little Sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the article Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex? by The Atlantic.
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Ep 89: Reactions to Pride and Taylor Swift's Video from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the commercialization of pride and Taylor Swift's new music video "You Need To Calm Down."
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Ep 88: Reading Sarah's Childhood Novel from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah reads the novel she wrote when she was 8 years old, and Kayla reacts.
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Ep 87: What Is Asexuality? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week’s episode is very special. It’s a full rundown of what asexuality is.
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Ep 86: It's the Year of, like... Realizing Things from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah do a 6-month check in on their New Year's Resolutions!
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Ep 85: Queer Education in Schools feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah are joined by special guest Amanda (Sarah's sister's girlfriend) to talk about what it's like being a queer teacher!
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Ep 84: Wikipedia Rabbit Hole from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah go down the rabbit hole and play the Wikipedia game!
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Ep 83: Personal Growth and the Future from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about their growth over the past four years and what the future will hold now that they graduated college!
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Ep 82: Feminism and Research from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Did you know Kayla is in a ~feminism~ class???
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Ep 81: Sexuality Quizzes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about quizzes that are supposed to tell you what your sexuality is.
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Ep 80: Queer Women In Positions of Power from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what it's like being a queer woman in a position of power.
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Ep 79: Queerness and Gaming feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk to the infamous Perry Fiero (aka Piano Fiano) about queerness and gaming.
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Ep 78: What Do You Assume? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we read your assumptions about us and see if they're true!
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Ep 77: April Fools' Day from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla and Sarah talk about the upcoming holiday - April Fool's Day.
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Ep 76: Aces in Space from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah sit down and talk about aces in space.
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Ep 75: Unhealthy Queer Relationships feat. Sarah's Sister from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week Kayla and Sarah are joined once again by Sarah's sister Emily! Emily talks about unhealthy and abusive relationships, specifically in queer relationships.
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Ep 74: The Bachelor From an Aro Ace Perspective from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week, the girls talk about their thoughts after watching their first ever episode of The Bachelor
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Ep 73: The Burden of Explaining Asexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla and Sarah talk about the burden of having to explain and define asexuality and aromanticism.
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Ep 72: Passing as Straight from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah talks about what it's like passing for someone who is straight. The girls talk all about passing guilt and what to do with the privilege you gain from passing ...
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Ep 71: Hot Takes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah rant all about their hot takes - all the way from takes about warm tomatoes and Ellen, to Tony Stark and the whiteness of asexuality. It's getting spi...
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Ep 70: Valentine's Day from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about Valentine's day from an aromantic and asexual perspective.
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Ep 69: MicroACEgressions from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what they call microACEgressions - small instances of aphobia that are so ingrained in society that we may not even notice them.
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Ep 68: What to Do Instead of Being Aphobic from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Being aphobic is very stupid - so this week Kayla and Sarah give you a long list of alternative things to do!
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Ep 67: Advice for Asexuals from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! What do you do with your feelings when you get a crush? How do you deal with feeling like you're faking your sexuality? How do you know for sure if you're aromantic? How do you...
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Ep 66: Parenting Queer Kids feat. Sarah's MOM from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! You read that right! This week our special guest is Sarah's mom!! We talk to Julie about her experience as a mother of two queer kids - what was her reaction when her kids came...
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Ep 65: New Year's Resolutions from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Even though Sarah hates making New Year's Resolutions we're doing it anyway! Today we talk about how we've grown in the past year and what our resolutions are for our sexualiti...
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Ep 64: Family and Sexuality During the Holidays from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! It's the most wonderful time of the year but in some cases, it's also the most stressful. This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about the difficulties of having a "non-normative" ...
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Ep 63: Finding Your Place in a Community from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about identities and communities. In America, everyone is obsessed with "what they are" or what country their family came from. Why is that a...
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Ep 62: Bisexuality feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk with their good friend Erin about life as a bisexual woman. What are the most common misconceptions? What's the most difficult part? The most rew...
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Ep 61: How to Dress Queer from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about all things clothes and fashion. What does it really mean to dress "sexy"? What happens when someone doesn't want to be perceived as sexy? D...
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Ep 60: Answering Questions Posed by Songs pt 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah take another stab at answering the questions posed by songs. Life on mars? Mary did you know? How you feeling? (With a slight transgression to learn t...
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Ep 59: Thankful for Asexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! It's almost thanksgiving so this week Kayla and Sarah are talking about what we're thankful for! We start out with cheese and felt tip pens and eventually get ~serious~ and tal...
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Ep 58: Social Media and Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about the pros and cons of social media when it comes to coming out, living queerly, and the potential difficulties of living a 'double life' on the ...
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Ep 57: Queer Issues in Politics from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! With the American midterm elections coming up on Tuesday, Kayla and Sarah about queer issues in politics like legalization of gay marriage and what steps could be made to help ...
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Ep 56: Sexy Halloween Costumes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Happy Halloweekend! This week Kayla and Sarah discuss the sexualization of women's halloween costumes and the line between wanting to empower women and worrying about the objec...
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Ep 55: Smash or Pass, But Ace pt. 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week the girls play one of their very favorite games - Befriend or End! It's like Smash or Pass but instead of smashing it's being friends with someone! This week's Befrie...
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Ep 54: Non-Inclusive Groups from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! There's a difference between not excluding people, and including people, and this week we talk about groups that do just this. The gals discuss examples of sororities and frate...
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Ep 53: Breakups from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Sarah has never had a breakup, not even a friend one, so she realized she has no concept of what they're like. This week the gals discuss what breakups are like and how weirdly...
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Ep 52: Astrology from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah read about astrology and their zodiac signs! Sarah (as we all know) is aro ace, but her zodia sign (Libra) says she should be obsessed with romance. S...
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Ep 51: Being Heteroromantic Asexual feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk to their friend Becca about what it's like to be heteroromantic and asexual! Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Instagra...
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Ep 50: Answering Questions Posed by Songs from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Just in time for Sounds Fake But Okay's 50th episode - we finally have microphones! Woohoo! Join us and our clear voices this week as we answer songs posed by songs like "what ...
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Ep 49: Being Queer at School Dances from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what it's like to be queer in high school, specifically at high school dances. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/...
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Ep 48: Romantic Comedies, But Platonic from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week the girls take a look at some of the most iconic romantic comedy movies, describe their plots really shittily, and then see if their plots hold up when we turn everyt...
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Ep 47: Polyamory feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk to their friend Cody about polyamory and polyamorous. They talk about misconceptions, definitions, and what it means to be in a polyamorous relat...
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Ep 46: Smash or Pass, But Ace from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah play Smash or Pass, but ace. Take a listen to hear who we befriend and who we END. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Instagr...
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Ep 45: Dating as an Asexual Person from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah read the story of their listener Rae. Rae is an asexual, non-aro, non-binary person who had a truly horrendous first date experience. Listen to their ...
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Ep 44: Women's Viagra and Sexual Desire from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about a drug called Addyi that is meant to change women's brain chemistry if they suffer from "hypoactive sexual desire disorder." The gals talk ...
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Ep 43: Living Up To LGBTQIA+ Stereotypes feat. Sarah's Sister from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Sarah's sister Emily, a gay woman, wanted to be on the podcast to talk about gay women who present themselves more femininely, or "girls who like girls who look like girl...
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Ep 42: Aromantic from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! A lot of the time we talk about asexuality on the podcast, so we decided to talk about the other part of Sarah's identity - aromanticism. Make sure to listen for our new segmen...
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Ep 41: Are You Faking Your Sexuality? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Two of our lovely listeners wrote in saying they felt like they were faking their sexuality. We have a difficult discussion about what it means to feel that way, and give the b...
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Ep 40: An Asexual Experience at Pride from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Last week Sarah went to San Francisco pride and now she's telling us about her experience of being an asexual person at pride! The gals also get into a conversation about the r...
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Ep 39: Cultural Differences in Dating feat. Asritha from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla, Sarah, and PATRON Asritha talk about her experience with love and dating as a first generation Indian-American immigrant. Come take a listen and learn some cu...
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Ep 38: Everyone Feels Shitty Sometimes (or, Being Jealous of Non-Ace People) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Sarah expresses the frustration she sometimes feels with her own sexuality, and the girls discuss why this feeling is normal and important to talk about. (Sorry about...
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Ep 37: Questioning Your Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about how they each discovered and questioned their sexuality and how they continue to question it even now. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/sound...
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Ep 36: Sexual Games pt. 3 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week we're back at it again playing the app Episodes - but this time, as ace as possible (with our own mega-ace twist at the end). Listen along! Donate to the podcast: pat...
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Ep 35: Male Expectations and Masculinity feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! On today's episode, we talk to our FIRST MALE GUEST! We talk about what it's like growing up in our society as a male who doesn't conform to all aspects of traditional masculin...
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Ep 34: Asexual People are Part of the LGBTQIA+ Community from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah came across a post that excluded ace people from the LGBTQIA+ community. We go over the logic of why people are excluding ace people, and why ace peop...
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Ep 33: Dress Codes from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about the modesty poncho that's been making headlines and our feelings on school dress codes in general. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfak...
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Ep 32: The Gay Agenda from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today the gals read all about people's conspiracy theories of the gay agenda, and then come up with a gay agenda of our own! Come listen along! Donate to the podcast: patreon.c...
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Ep 31: Hooking Up and Kissing from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Uhhhhhh we're finally back!!! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about hooking up at parties, why people kiss, and what making out is like! Take a listen and catch up with us!Donate to...
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Ep 30: Asexual Representation from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about the importance of asexual representation in the media. More importantly, we talk about the musical we've been working on for months that ha...
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Ep 29: Catcalls as Compliments from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about how catcalls can get misconstrued as compliments, and the difficulties of living as a woman when you have to worry about assault. Donate to the...
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Ep 28: Bridging the Generational Gap feat. A Mom from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk to our friends Mom about her thoughts on the LGBTQIA+ community and answer her questions about asexuality! Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsf...
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Ep 27: Sexual Games pt. 2 from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah find out what happens next in the Episode story "The Bad Boy Stole My Bra!" Get ready for another episode of cringy and oversexualized high schoolers!...
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Ep 26: Hate Playing a Sexual Game from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah (and friends Miranda and Sweetpea) hate play the game Episode, a choose your own adventure type game. You may recognize it from all the stunningly sexual ...
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Ep 25: Sextiquette from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about Sextiquette: Sex Etiquette! How do you deal with neighbors having loud sex? Where are you even allowed to have sex? Brought to you by: an unfortunate conver...
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Ep 24: Pluto is Asexual from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah start the episode with a hope, a dream, and not much of a plan. We talk about which ______ is more asexual! Which planet? Which article of clothing? Star ...
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Ep 23: Billboard Top 10 from an Ace Perspective from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah look at the lyrics to the Billboard Top 10 songs and rate them by how uncomfy they make us from an ace and demi perspective. Listen for dramatic readings ...
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Ep 22: Reacting to Sexualized Media from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today the gals read through and react to the Cosmopolitan and Brother snap stories. We learn all about making a dildo mold, anal, and what makes someone single. Don't feel like...
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Ep 21: Shipping Real People from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about what can happen when you ship real people. Is it wrong? Do we all do it? What does it do to those real people? Take a listen to hear that and a few seconds ...
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Ep 20: Porn from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today, Kayla and Sarah talk all about porn - the assumptions about it, its place in society, where it goes wrong, and the new feminist wave that's emerging within it. Join us! ...
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Ep 19: Accepting Your Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! We're finally back from our holiday break! Today, Kayla and Sarah talk about accepting their sexuality and the controversial question of 'if you could change your sexuality, wo...
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Ep 18: Asexual People and Kids from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about asexual/LGBTQA+ people and kids. We talk about common misconceptions and what we think is important about child raising. Donate to the podcast:...
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Ep 17: Characters who are Definitely Asexual from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about characters who are definitely probably asexual like Katniss, The Doctor, and Jesus (?). Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twi...
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Ep 16: Sex Positive Asexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
*NOTE: This episode does not reflect our current (2020) views and understanding of sex favorable asexuality. We have learned and grown a lot since 2017. For updated and more accurate information, y...
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Ep 15: Where Do You Put Your Dick? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah try to understand dick locations. Where do they go when you're riding a bike? What happens when you run? Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod ...
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Ep 14: Virginity from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about how virginity is just not real. In fact, it's fake. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Instagram: @soundsfakepod Ne...
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Ep 13: Periods from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about all things periods and uteri - why they suck, and why they're important to talk about. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twit...
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Ep 12: Mental Health and Relationships feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla, Sarah, and special guest Janie talk about their own mental health and how it affects their romantic and sexual relationships. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/so...
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Ep 11: Sex in Weird Places from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about how pregnant sex works and all the weird places that people decide to have sex. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Ins...
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Ep 10: Little Ace in a Big, Big World from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about what it's like living as an aro-ace person in a world that is non aro-ace friendly. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter...
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Ep 9: Different Types of Attraction from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today, Kayla and Sarah talk about the different kinds of attraction: sexual, romantic, sensual, aesthetic. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/Instagram...
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Ep 8: Online Dating from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today, Kayla and Sarah talk about online dating and discover some of the weirdest dating sites that are out there. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Twitter/I...
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Ep 7: Labeling Your Sexuality from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about the need to label your sexuality, and the struggles that come with identifying under the asexual umbrella. Donate to the podcast: patreon.com/s...
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Ep 6: Awkward Flirting feat. A Friend from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla, Sarah, and special guest Miranda talk about unintentional flirting, awkward flirting, and try to flirt with each other. Spoiler alert: it doesn't go well.Donate to...
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Ep 5: Queer Platonic Relationships and Marriages from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about queer platonic relationships, platonic marriages, and share their thoughts about marriage in general. Stay tuned to find out whether Kayla and ...
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Ep 4: How Long Does Sex Last? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah tackle the big questions: How long is sex supposed to last? What counts as sex? What impacts the length of sex? And, most importantly, what activities wou...
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Ep 3: Shipping from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Sarah answers questions about shipping as an asexual person, and Kayla and Sarah talk about their OTPs, favorite and least favorite tropes, and romance plots in fiction i...
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Ep 2: Romantic vs. Platonic Relationships from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about the unequal amount of value placed on romantic vs. platonic relationships and how they are treated differently in society. Donate to the podcas...
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Ep 1: Dick Pics from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
A first mini-episode introduction to Sounds Fake But Okay. On this episode: people like dick pics? The girls do their best to understand what people find appealing about these weird pics. Donate to...
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Ep 1: Dick Pics from 2017-07-31T20:42:32
A first mini-episode introduction to Sounds Fake But Okay. On this episode: people like dick pics? The girls do their best to understand what people find appealing about these weird pics.
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Welcome to Sounds Fake But Okay from 2017-07-10T11:00
Hey what's up hello! Welcome to Sounds Fake But Okay
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