4. Moving in & Planning a Future Together w/ Chronic Illness | Jake Mayers - a podcast by Noa Porten

When COVID-19 hit, Jake Mayers, a musician and chronic illness coach, and his gf Jess' relationship accelerated fast when they moved in together to keep each other safe while staying together. In the 2nd part of this 2 part episode, Jake shares the joys and challenges of bringing someone onto your team with chronic illness. From finances, to treatment, to planning the future Jake emphasizes that they approach every situation as a team, what helps one of them helps both of them.

This teamwork was especially crucial for Jake and Jess when navigating intimacy with chronic illness. Noa and Jake grapple with the uncertainties surrounding protecting their health and their fears about sharing germs with a partner. Jake explains that like everything else, him and Jess handled the situation with open communication and teamwork.

Despite the difficulties of Lyme Disease Jake describes how him and Jess’s dedication to each other and building a life together has made them able to stay in the present and enjoy the ride, having fun and enjoying silly moments along the way.

*Disclaimer: The content in this episode is not intended to be medical advice in any way. The information shared are our own perspectives and experiences and should not be relied on as facts. If you’re having questions about these topics we suggest you reach out to your medical team.Links:

*Note: This episode was recorded in the spring of 2020 during lockdown

Transcript coming soon!

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Key Quote:“Its an unconditional love, which in its definition means that. Regardless of the conditions of our health or really anything in our lives, we love each other for who we are”-Jake

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